wrapping up 2014 , recomendations and starting fresh 2015

this 2014 has been one of the BEST years of my Life.
meaning I have really outgrew my potential..
I dumped a cute girl due to boundarie issues VS being subservient while being aware we weren't compatible long term.

I am into Day time aka daygame and online dating.  I don't do nightgame due to being busy.

Working with Franco has been really awesome.

I ofcourse did stuff myself to improve..
to improve and be happy with yourself ...you have to always DO...learn from experiences for yourself in your LIFE.

welcome opinions and observations without being down on yourself.

BEST book Ive read is     No excuses by Brain TRacy

inner game isn't in ANY PUA product.

before doing PUA or getting into seduction learning YOU have to really find yourself FIRST

no bootcamp
no workshop

NO PUA coach can help you...unless you help yourself FIRST.

you have to have a STRONG SOLID self dependence about yourself before you get into this STUFF.

THIS WAY you will universally attract women uncoincious by your behavior and bodylanguage.


Wayne Dyers audio on letting go of negativity  is also GREAT 

this stuff goes BEYOND any PUA dating coach material can come up with .


few exemptions are :

Franco's Inner GAME PDF http://www.francoseduction.com/time-visitor/

and swinggcatts Beliefs section audio from OLD foundations program.
coryskyys mindset audio affirmations.

I make my own affirmations and It has things Ive taken from successful beliefs..


WHen you have that sense of inner reality sense of who you are
you can tell who is Bullshit PUA and who is real deal just by your sixth sense.

And then you can easily start seduction learning path with positive success..

AVOID any weird and negative , low self esteem point of view from any dating coach out there.

look beyond
"being yourself"
in 2015

BEST.

-CarloSandros

ATTACKING ANXIETY AND DEPRESSION PROGRAM : MY START AND REVIEW on Agoraphobia

I decided to repost this from another person's revew of this new program I purchased from Amazon .com

I will add it to my structure next few days

I wanted to enphasize that MY MISSION COMES FIRST.

I realize that avoidance habits is called


Agoraphobia (ag-uh-ruh-FOE-be-uh) is a type of anxiety disorder in which you fear and often avoid places or situations that might cause you to panic and make you feel trapped, helpless or embarrassed.

With agoraphobia, you fear an actual or anticipated situation, such as using public transportation, being in open or enclosed spaces, standing in line or being in a crowd. The anxiety is caused by fear that there's no easy way to escape or seek help if intense anxiety develops. Most people who have agoraphobia develop it after having one or more panic attacks, causing them to fear another attack and avoid the place where it occurred.

People with agoraphobia often have a hard time feeling safe in any public place, especially where crowds gather. You may feel that you need a companion, such as a relative or friend, to go with you to public places. The fears can be so overwhelming that you may feel unable to leave your home.

Agoraphobia treatment can be challenging because it usually means confronting your fears. But with talk therapy (psychotherapy) and medications, you can escape the trap of agoraphobia and live a more enjoyable life.





'''I figure I'd post a link to this program in case anyone wanted to try it out.

I used this program about 3 years ago, and it really helped me a lot with my anxiety. It's not geared specifically towards social anxiety, but the exercises and skills it teaches you will definitely help alleviate some of the symptoms you have. It's basically a self-help CBT program that attacks anxiety and depression from many different angles including positive self-talk, "what-if" thinking, controlling anger, learning to be assertive, diet and exercise, etc.

In the file is the program, the workbook in PDF format, and the relaxation tape. Let me make it clear that if you want results from this program, you MUST read the workbook and use the relaxation tape on a regular basis for the program to be effective. You can't just sit around and listen to the lessons and hope to make any progress.

This isn't some miracle cure that will make your anxiety disappear forever, but I can say without a doubt that if you put some effort into this, you will see results.



Some general guidelines if you choose to start the program:

Read the introduction in the book first.

Only go through ONE lesson per week. Do not try to cram everything into your brain in a few days. You have to spend a week on each lesson to master the skills that are taught in them.

It's not necessary to spend an entire week on Lesson 1 (the workbook even says this) because many here are already familiar with the symptoms and causes of anxiety and depression. Listen to it once and begin your first week on Lesson 2.

Do the assignments in the workbook and use the relaxation tape EVERY DAY. This is very important and is stressed throughout the program.


Here's the link to the program:
http://www.amazon.com/Attacking-Anxiety-Depression-Program-Lucinda/dp/B000SO5IMI




Excellent program if you commit
By 웃 R I Z Z O 웃 VINE VOICE on July 11, 2007
Format: CD-ROM
Lucinda Bassette's Program is quite impressive. Bassett is the CEO of the Midwest Center for Stress and Anxiety. She speaks often of her own health situation which prompted the book and she does have guidance from other experts. If you are ordering the set from the company, it varies with cassettes, DVDs, CDs, or Videos. So, if you purchase an item from a seller on Amazon, know what you are getting. The sessions include;

Lesson 1: Symptoms, Causes and Fears
Lesson 2: Six Steps That will Put a Stop to Anxiety Attacks
Lesson 3: Self-Talk, Key to Healthy Esteem
Lesson 4: Expectations, Expect Less & Get More

Lesson 5: Eat & Diet to Rid Yourself of Anxiety & Depression
Lesson 6: Stop Being Angry & Control Your Mood Swings
Lesson 7: Assertive Behavior, Speak Confidently and Gain Respect
Lesson 8: Put An End to What If Thinking
Lesson 9: Get Off the Guilt & Worry Treadmill
Lesson 10: How To Stop Obsessive, Scary Thoughts

Lesson 11: Anx & Dep, The Truth About Medication and Alcohol
Lesson 12: The Courage to Change
Lesson 13: Time Management 12 Steps Toward a Balanced Life
Lesson 14: How To Keep Stress From Becoming Anxiety
Lesson 15: Getting Beyond a Growth Spurt.
Relaxation CD

Each CD has average 20 minutes of Objectives; about 30 min of Group Session and few minutes on Summary.

The Book is very helpful with plenty of text and study guides, insightful information into what lurks behind depression and anxiety. This program will take some comittment, as one didn't get anxiety and depression overnight, the healing will not be overnight.

There are cards that you can carry with you for extra coaching. Many times she does allow patients to speak and sometime it may not be all for you to listen, but these are examples that may always fit someone.

There is a program by Lucinda Bassett that does cover just the ANXIETY if you feel that is something you need to focus on.

I have listened to this as an aid for a few people, and I am impressed by the text and her entire program. ....Rizzo

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When I first purchased this program I figured it probably would work for most people.

But in the back of my mind I thought I wouldn't be one of the lucky ones. However,
I am so happy to say that
THE ATTACKING ANXIETY AND DEPRESSION PROGRAM DOES WORK!!!

It was like opening up a book and reading all about my personality. I was astonished to find out that other people thought and acted just like I did. Unfortunately these negative actions were helping to create a great deal of anxiety and depressive thoughts. The program contains A LOT of information and it can be overwhelming at first. Once you get working with the program you start to find that you are changing...slowly for the better. It doesn't happen overnight, but it does happen at a pace that you are comfortable with and that is the secret of the program.
This program changed my life. I can't even imagine where I would be if I had never taken the chance to try it.
The other TOP SECRET tool that the program offers is the one on one coaching. It was so wonderful to work with someone who had been through the program and was trained by the Midwest Center to guide me through the 15 week program. My coach also supported me when I was having down days and she also mad me laugh when I didn't think there was anything funny about anxiety. My coaching sessions were just what I needed to keep my going especially on days when I just felt like giving up on myself.
If you ever want to give yourself a gift or for someone you know that is suffering with anxiety this is the gift that will keep on giving for a lifetime.

Throwback Classic article post: The Newbie Guide to PUA Development by Mark Entropy

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MAYOR CHANGE takes one step a day at a time

I have been frustrated with alot going on and where to start.

Jim Rohn the day that turns your Life around reminded me to not stay stagnant.

I was looking into a boxing post on Mike Tyson and his sucess when I ran into a website from Victor Pride and saw his 30 day bootcamp on discipline.

the price was enough for me not to put excuses  to purchase.
It made sense and based on some unbiased reviews for alot of guys it raised different challenges of itself.
I will try it and report here as I am going through personal transformation.

aside of this I tried looking into aside and was considering starting :Lucinda bassets book the solution.

IT really helped me on detachment yet I havent read other parts.
the most interesting thing is to implement this along with 30 days bootcamp discipline product.
I recommend Lucinda's book Im dissapointed it doesnt have audiobook for it.
yet its really simple to read and understand.
my writting is forward and stright in what
I do. and so fluff is just waste to me.

I realize its one step at a day and time.
Making small simple steps and patience.
my next post will be on TIME..is it your friend or enemy.



I was looking further into doing something to help push myself and I ran into

Mark Entropy's just have fun and do it.from his post on inner game

http://postmasculine.com/how-inner-game-can-make-you-worse


Thanks to Chris of 60 years of challenge in his outer game  approach concepts
                         
                        ITS WHAT WE DO WITH FEAR

IF WE ARE WEAK WE PROCRASTINATE

"ONLY WAY TO BEAT PROCRASTINATION IS ONLY BY
            POSITIVE PROACTIVE ACTION " -Brian Tracy

this does have though habit of positive mental attitude of doing without being afriad.

THE OUTER IS THE SKILL
THE INNER iS THE WILL

to be good boxer you have to be good at the skill 
use your will to push you through beyond sucess

 if you can control your emotions, calm and use the triangle of success 

http://www.diaryfrenchpua.com/freeseductionebooks/


Knowledge= knowing the process learning it the correct way to your best. "perfect practice makes perfect"-saffron trusting in yourself you are giving your best.

Experience= outer game, you apply the knowledge LIVE...you learn and try to improve always..perfect your SKILL

Confidence= inner game, self esteem in yourself and in what you are doing.STRONG DETERMINATION is 
your 
WILL

Since I am going through changes and need to get to it.
Its a plan to keep me busy and get things done with authetic self dependecy and SELF DISCIPLINE.

I realize that reading all the books in the workd isnt enough.it takes action.
Owen in his RSD inner game speech started with that exact topic of discovering how unrealistic people can die without discovering themselves.

Todd's QUOTES inspires me alot.

I also said to myself that I need to surpass this challenge and implement what I need to do to pass this EXAM I have and prepare myself.
and THIS COMPONENT with these 2 intergral basic is 30 days challenge to get things done which can take other people years.

I decided to reward myself to game for 30 days if I pass my exam.
Im eager to GAME and I know I can blow my rust and break obstacles if I can truly put myself through 30 days bootcamp challenge and 21 days lucinda program aside of studying prepare for this EXAM like Roberto Duran preparing to fight sugar ray leonard the FIRST TIME.

BALANITIS , DIABETES FOR MEN AND CHANGE OF LIFESTYLE in one week gone

THIS FOR MEN ONLY..........
is your penus have a rash crack and hurts doesnt heal?
what can you do? is it local infected and why isnt it healing even if you pour peroxide or drugstore stuff on it??

Then please read..DISCLAIMER
this isnt medical recomendation I am just sharing my experience.

Balanitis is awful
first a girl gave me felatio and used her teeth
then I scratched it more
it got worse
went to Dr said it was thrush or rash fungal
it didnt go away
Then one day went to ER
they did  urine test.
They said blood sugar was up and infection
they prescribed antibiotics in one week it went away
in conjunction to stop eating carbohydrates and went full chicken breast and lettuce high protein meals and water..
for local what helped me feel fresh and good to help heal was
chlorexidine 2% with ketaconozol .25% it helped keep it fresh and help heal soft tissues after I took a shower and before I went to sleep

I waited one week before having sex cause this thrush is contagious and I gave it to 2 girls. they took oral antifungals flucozanale or something for 3 days or 6 days.. their gyno gave to them.
I told them I had urinary tract infection due to holding it while long plane ride.
I started to change my diet for good.
I started using condom also cause another girl I fuck has her pussy itchy so I might have also gotten it from that too.
so I spray with that solution chlorexidine 2% with ketaconozol .25%
there is build up around my penus when I eat carbs.

Im trying Alpiste..bought from mexican store $1 a pack 3ounce to try aside of my carb free diet. no silica fibers on it I reviewed it and veified it.

I also will try CATS CLAW herb as capsule 500mg 250 pills for $8 bucks on amazon.

Im taking currently Tribulus testeris with Maca and Tongkat Ali.
Its helped my testareone go up due to the low carbs create estrogen and my previous use of HCG..

I will try this first before restart HCG diet ..

Im working on self discipline and try Victor Pride 30 day bootcamp.
I dont fap yet I have sex once a day with either girls Im seeing
 the excersize portion seems abit out of my range but will commit.

I taken interest in Deepak chopras mind body magic mind due to Dr wayne dyer's story on his wife health issues on course program Living Beyond Miracles.
BRaddoks classic writtings helped me to go back to review my "inner game"
I re read Mark entropy's INNER GAME CAN MAKE YOU WORSE article..dam he is good.

I m thinking looking into herbal alternative medicine and maybe learn ayuverda.

to me its a big change yet its lifestyle to get where I want to be healthy

these health issues are product of out of control lifestyle.

Dr Dyer in Living Beyond Miracles really hits home run about our body and mind and soul connection..organs and rocks.I believe there is a God and that herbal remedies can help us cleanse before its too late.

Tyler's owen inner game video non pua related was also good related to being self dependent... He is someone I believe has really made high progress from 2 years ago.

hope this helps.

Theres always pain in change, but NEVER look back the only way we are going is UP

I had a negative interaction today with someone and they told me something that was very sad news,
At that moment I took it like a MAN and detached myself,

thats why detaching emotionally is important while same time actively proactive physically..

its like the body..
it doesnt stop from working,

I love robert duran quote about punches one hit me and I give three back.

This post is about changes.

so regardless of very sad dissapointing news.

I became detached and yet proactive in my goals in Life.

Im deeply inspired by great doctors and great artists with talent and hard work dedication.

I really feel I cant sell myself short and like it or not its made me stronger

my self esteem is fearless
Thank you 50 cent.

I will meditate and reflect that this sad news will bring drastic changes that I have to take action now.

rejection or a little kick in the ass really can make you or break you.

Im here to show myself what I am made of,

fuck bitches and game,

this shite is celebration of me to myself,

quielty effective thanks dr wayne dyer

now I must leave to meditate and reflect for the following hours..
and yes RSD rocks.

Steve McQueen The REAL guy's guy of cool -Calibration KEY on overexplaining or mansplaining or qualifying yourself

“When I believe in something, I fight like hell for it." -Steve Mcqueen
I suggest looking into Biography of Steve McQueen..He is great example of being your own man and believing in yourself regardless of circumstances.

This Bio graphy is definately best to watch,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3-YjYYEaDik

Check on 45min when Chuck Norris talks about Steve.

He gives Chuck advice on overexplaining in less than one minute.

It is excellent and memorable.

look into it.

McQueen had a tough home life. His childhood was far from ideal. He moved a lot as a kid and periodically ran with a pretty rough crowd. He spent some time as a ward of the state. As he got older, McQueen worked as a janitor, a carnie and a lumberjack before ultimately becoming an actor and the star we know and love.

McQueen’s life story, then, is a study in perseverance. He reminds the rest of us how important it is to not get discouraged and to keep your eyes on your goal. It’s as true with women as it is with the rest of life. The key to consistent success in dating is to never let rejection get you down. Whether it’s a bad breakup or the brush-off at a bar, you can’t let it get to you. Keep approaching women and keep working on your game. When in doubt, remember what McQueen says, “When I believe in something, I fight like hell for it.”

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As a kid, Steve McQueen joined the circus. Later in life, he joined the marines. He spent much of his life racing motorcycles, sometimes supporting himself with his winnings. In short, McQueen had a diversity of life experience. It’s part of what made him such an interesting guy.

Another of our top five dating tips from Steve McQueen has to do with developing some life experience of your own. Having many and varied experiences to draw on in conversation or when seeking common ground with a woman will increase your chances of success. What you need to recognize is that a huge amount of your game is based on what you do long before ever introducing yourself. So, the next time a buddy suggests an ill-conceived, spur-of-the-moment trip to Miami, consider all the stories and experiences you’re likely to acquire if you go. It might not be seem like such an impractical idea after all.

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Undeniably, McQueen was a daredevil. As we all know, he had a passion for motorcycle racing, and he was great at it. McQueen’s extensive racing experience also allowed him to perform many of his own stunts in films.

We regular guys also need to be daring if we’re going to have any success with women. Fortune favors the bold, and so do females. You don’t necessarily need to swim with sharks or go skydiving, but you do need to approach women on the street or at the bar in order to have any hope of getting a date with them. Women respond to men who are willing to take a risk. So, approach the hottest girl in the bar. Ask her for her number. Channel your inner McQueen. Be fearless.

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Reputedly, in The Magnificent Seven, Yul Brynner accused McQueen of trying to steal his scenes. Brynner may have been onto something. McQueen was magnetic on camera. It’s part of his magic, and another one of his qualities that we want to imitate in order to improve our chances with women.

Whenever you’re out in public, you should try to steal the scene. But being the center of attention is a tricky thing. You don’t want to come off as an attention whore. Don’t be ostentatious or flashy. Do, however, try to be the best-dressed man in the room. Supplement your style with a great sense of humor and engaging conversation, and before you know it, no one will be able to take their eyes off of you.

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Perhaps, above all else, we love Steve McQueen because he’s so quintessentially male. He was tough, uncompromising and cool. He was a little rough around the edges. There wasn’t an effeminate bone in the man’s body. He was a professional motorcycle driver who played a bounty hunter on TV -- how much more masculine can you get?
McQueen’s charisma should remind us all how attractive traditional masculinity can be. Women respond to guy’s guys. They like their men to be capable, resourceful and confident; even, when necessary, tough. So be like McQueen, and be a man

credit http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/top-5-dating-tips-from-steve-mcqueen_2.html

When yes and no to fuck fatties..and why I don't 10 PUA RULES NOT TO FUCK FATTIES

NOTE: theres chubby and theres FATTY..fatty is almost OBESE.Look at that movie NEbraska with bruce dern and watch the son be soo into Oneitis Mode with a FATTY.

I decided to post this cause I literally dont like overconfident fatties.
I read a Brad P dating coach article about his friend who fucked any and every girl he met. I see this as no no for my personal taste cause I do respect BradP and his teachings very much yet I can't do it cause its close to impossible.

1- Fatties are mostly 80% time overconfident...some are very feminine and quiet and yet LSE these I do hook up if nothing better and is always good to use as practice cause thethrill is in the hunt.
On overconfident ones, the use the aggressive approach with severe extremes of emotions and yet complain negatively that they cant get dates.
FATTY LOGIC 101...lol

2- Fatties due to LSE create a defensive mechanisms not like 9s and 10s or even strippers  yet on the other extreme of hating men. Be aware how she reacts if she is willing to follow your LEAD if not you are in DANGER and run away fast as you can.THey are more flakey and change their mind faster than any girl even if you have already fucked her.

3-Its physically challenging for them to move around to fuck. doggie style is OK and maybe watching black guys fuck fatties  can help you with lifting a leg up or other positions..but some of the ones I fucked have always been furstration like Double Dare physical challenge to severe extreme.I do accept blow jobs and such but if she is only nice and not utterly negative.

4-FAtties who have a JOB feel they are entitled to being "picky" they dont have a real sense of reality in relationships cause their interactions are somewhat sour and scarrred so THey claim to be overconfident and picky and yet they bring ABSOLUTELY NO VALUE as a human being.

5- Fatties get self conscious VERY FAST.

6.-FAtties will give you a difficult more obstacles than with a hotter or cooler girls you are compatible with. They REALLY buy into courtship eventhough she is  a FREAK. Her LMR and ASD goes to extreme NEGATIVES.THIS IS PROVEN TRUTH. I had a girl walk out after sex cause she was embarased. they other one as soon as she felt alot of pleasure she used ANGER towards me to control her horniness evnthough we were in middle of sexual act.

7- Fatties have sever delusion and NO IDEA ABOUT DATING yet offer NEGATIVE experience based ADVICE to friends..SHE is NATURAL COCK BLOCK.. If you encounter one then act SUPER GAY like cuban guy Ozzie from RSD says.

8-Most are inherently dont have much sexual experience so regardless her AGE.

9- I dont find them attractive unless I see she is fuckable physically able to and Im drunk.

10- Cause I dont want to lower my standards or low self esteem with her NEgative energy. In Game its REALLY getting to the point of seducing the girls you really want to be with in every way with  Efficiently and  Consistency.

This DOES NOT happen overnight so seek dating advice along with your personal experience with women.
Thank you for reading

August 2014 !! New beginings..came back from travels, replace girl in MLTR and efficiently approach to Online dating game

After my visit these past 2 weeks to Miami and Boise Idaho  its really a matter of cultural appeal on how you seduce women to then get at there core.
I had sex with only 2 girls during my trip to Miami.
argentinian and other cuban.
Efficiently to Peacocking is more of being comfortable with yourself first and find ways to look good yet slight difference in personality masculinity in abit stronger to have biology trigger alpha male trigger in her body and then color and appeal in your clothes without explaining yourself. ofcourse you have to seem approachable.

I had a girl I had no interest of being with her anymore cause of various factors but I kept her cause I needed her to do some pending stuff for me and thats pretty much it. I really glad that I started using my self dependent thinking in terms of nexting and I happend to stumble on reverse next with me being cool and pretending to be victim or dumpee to avoid any sour or drama as this relationship was going to end due to her wanting more way fast too soon and her agenda came out and I was in no shape of form ever going to provide for that.
The secret is not give a shit , yes its kindah a loss but replacing her with pending girls you are talking to or seeing is great advantage than to emotionally affect yourself into someone who isnt even worth it.

anyways I did what Franco Seduction calls and he hasnt published on it is Soft Next.

I had replaced her even before the next with another girl more willing to give me more and nurture me and appreciate me and at same time even better for me.

This one I nexted was so LSE that she texted me trying to one up me like a bitch and send me a text that she was with her new friend and she is happy and that tey are into same things and shit and I wasnt even caring about that shit.. which I think her LSE tried to start drama and as a PLAYER had no effect on me.

Thanks to Franco Seduction coaching.

ONLINE GAME

I read few simple ebooks and one of them struck enticing subject on specific site I am in and read how clever the stats and all this stuff involved and how this guy met his fiance.

I thought it was great infromtation but few things were missing which I agree its more personal thing to be your honest self.  so I happend to look into other clever ways and from this great recommended ebook I think is short yet super super  clever that I noticed 2 sticking points

1- I tend to mansplain so he says to replace that with desriptions which I use NLP

2- I get impatient sometimes and he states that its pretty more send message and forget it. it really puts things on her court and challenges her to work early 50/50 VS you trying too much seems too desperate. which I agree but as HUNTING mode we guys tend to be uncoincious on our approach.


Things he left out is attraction material which I think is necesary rapport isnt enough. I think Mark Manson's previously taught privately is his active and passive attraction is definately KEY in calibration.
and advice samples of photos.

but overall his stuff seems really GOOD.

I ofcourse tend to really play neutral PIMP way of being the emoty white room to create what she wants and play it to her..so I decided on some sites to not use questionaire.

I realize that with my good awesome online dating experience that  online is worth more experience than reading a book on anything.

I  get from this is :

1- Be neutral and have some slightly higher and different to bring something new experience to the woman that is reading.
2-Be selective once you have engaged into a conversation.
3- use rapport and silly combined both. Mark Manson Emtropy credit*
4- girls under 25 are party chicks very low rapport and more casual and attraction and fun DHVs  on freaks use more dual frames I call it HULK frame.
I had 2 strippers engaged into me and oe of them is driving 3 hours yet she is slightly being cautious cause I gamed her really GOOD shes 22 yrs old blonde cute stripper and is slight bisexual I thimk.lol.

5- Girls above 25 is rapport soulmate game *badboy pua credit
or Mark's comfort connection chemistry GAME which I am thankful for he taught me 2009 to get first real experience into this very very fast after years of struggle and mediocre results.i had my notes but due to robbery I couldnt find them :( its a matter of practice and calibration though.

6- read the profile and throw it back at her -Golden Mirror credit Sinn Future.
ofcourse with under 25 is slight less and more casual hey and more fun .. and over 25 is more rapport questions of qualification off the bat.

Summary:
I was busy in my trips.
*Miami- beautiful women cultural influence is flash game and HULK game works.
*Boise Idaho pua-beautiful white women with cultural difference more reserved and introverted  proceed with caution and only open thouse who AI or IOI cold approach isnt really that acceptable.

Strippers and HULK game
first time using this for fun and it really opened my eyes to POWER of imagination and NLP once you hook one and then they invest into you its more them now chasing you but as profesional seducers is to keep playing HULK of both frames which make it brilliant.Almost pimp like stuff but it is not.

ONLINE GAME
It has its limitiations and learn from best of both and do both infield approaches and online. learn from the best of both worlds and limit your time investmemt on game to keep healthy balance of inner frame and neediness management. Thank you Franco.

Swinggcats beliefs section of his program is BEST reference

His foundations program stuff by far stands test of time.
When I encounter abit of insecurity cause Im human, or too sensitive to others peoples a pproval or vunerable...
this puts me back in saddle of getting up and keep moving forward.

consistency and persistency -50 cent

I had a HB 9 deal with really hot...really hot.. I came through that and other shit whch blocks your creativity negative low down emotions and you need to reframe and habit of reframing to your purpose and move forward.

this consistant action leads to success in many areas of life.

dont be an asshole to other guys, its unecesary.

its their issue if they want to live their life stuck to mediocrety.

BE cool..relax and enjoy Life

Whats your lifestyle like ? what makes you a better person everyday in your life..?

I really have a heart for this

I have succeeded imposible scenarious mostly for being not reactive but silent , thinking, and taking a positive action towards my goal.
I dont use negative with negative only losers do that shit.they have time and energy for that. I recently schooled a "persuasion" "expert" the guy is such a lame dude he tried to use NLP like a nerd text book student.. while I ramd' him without any effort.

SEriously, what makes you a better person,as you wake up in morning.
do you challenge yourself?

I like to meditate and be in silence and solice at times..
when Im like that I feel at peace and clairty I dont need to chant or "hyponotise" myself silly.

but mentally aware that I AM CEO of my company..my LIFE is MY COMPANY
MY MOVIE.

people die after workign many years..they then try to enjoy life old..who the fuck wants you when you are old? If I do myself and take the effort everyday to be proactive in my life...(while not on vacation or a break from mental burnout..thats different BTW)

you perform better and improve quicker , your focus is sharp
your recticular activating system prepares you for your day.

you become unstoppable and efficient.

use that to make yourself a better person.everyday..be creative in what you can do ..

CHeers!

DRD sex without a condom?...why not to do it eventhough you are a player

dating coaches and guys talk about STDs not being a big deal.
well to me it is.

I remember a guy mentioned a creepy comment to a dating coach in 2008 about AIDS..
creeped the fuck out and messed with his head for a few seconds..

Im involved with healthcare as you read the disclaimer

I started using condoms on a regular..
I had one night stands where I didnt..just pulled out.

but alot of girls have shit

one was nice to tell me she had hi five and another herpes..
this before isolation..

thats why rapport and nonjudgemental frame by Sinn and captain Jack..Doc Holiday version of it ..at this point its natural to introduce at right time notion of trust and cool vibe where girl opens to tell you upfront.

I had issues w my ex GF cause she acused my giving her shit and when I got checked at doctor i was clear..I didnt make much of it cause at this point I dont give a shit and my own peace of mind is important.

magaluf girl sucked my dick? I would
Shit Ive fucked many girls without a condom.. lol .I know it isnt funny


Just be aware from now on *this is for myself btw* IF YOU CAN IMAGINE being stuck with a sting as it takes one mistake, one drip with a girl to drastically change your LIFE around.*

inform yourself, be responsible and yet have fun and BE AWARE...Thank you

New beginning for me and being selective

Im at a new stage in my life..
I was away doing my own thing which requiered alot of mental concentration and so Im taking a break.
I made new changes and dropped 3 girls that I was talking to and sleeping with.
I still see one that is like she does what I say and control sex when I want to.
other is FB I just came back from fucking her..I trained myself not to be jealous cause people fuck people like it or not..
the other is one that provides when I see her and my voice and company ,,and I make her yearn for it cause Im a prince.

the other 3 including my EX GF she was pushy and getting angry.I droped her from rotation
other one is too low self esteem and fucked her same day same night. and her low self esteem and dealing with her taught me  alot that it isnt your game but a womans head.. she was too heavy in terms of negativity even though pussy was good. i had to drop her without notice..
yes I drop without notice.

the other one was hooked hard core...to a point of me eliciting her missing me and wanting to be with me and I just didnt have patience to hang with her and play courtship..I got too bored too fast and I nextd her.

other 2 girls unofficial

other one i used to fuck I textd her but she wants a guy to court her too..whatever..and she complains Im a horn dog..

bitch sucked my dick and fucked her many times...she dont appreciate me then fuck her....lol..

then this other one who has sisters fucking and sucking her "friends" wants me to hang out and court her take her to movies and dinner.. not worth my time.. and told her one month from now as my scheduled is booked..lol

I wasnt like this..
really...it wasnt long ago where I roamed the streets of NYC frustrated trying to same night lay or "hook a set"..I didnt get it...and wasnt detached emotionally..

Im glad I went through all that cause shit.I now plan to take this to another level in my life.

ANYWAYS !!!

I feel I need to move on and at this level of my life is I cant be a fuckin wimp who settles for a girl.

Im at a point where Im chosy and wnat high quality women..

one night stands and hooking up is easier once you are real with yourself and bullshit see through women..
you can "behaviour manage" to a point of her seeing and feeling you are confident.

not all women will react same.

fuck it who cares.

if she is hot I will chameleon my game. miror, joke,disinterested engaged..laugh..okay..cool. :)

I at times have experimented wasting time and yes you fuck her but after you cum you are like OK?

I fucked some girls and some try to manipulate you for being aprovider and shit and its up to you to given in or not.

I dont like to lead women on and I dont verbally say it either..

I wish more guys could reach this mindset and be confident and be creative to do with their life...
you have that on yourself , women are like fun..whether she says fuck off or some shit..you can laugh it off.

Magaluf and PUA

Shit I read Sleazys post.

in summary go read it.
http://aaronsleazy.blogspot.com/2014/07/what-you-can-learn-from-fact-that.html

for me, its just girl having fun shes young and experimenting her sexuality..
its example how "programed society" judges her hard...

I didnt expect this from europe or spain , since I have a sense guys are more direct no Pua bs..
sex is common shite without talk talk talk..
its a night club and tell me how many girls have fucked and given BJs on dancefloors? nyc its common but this??

I agree with Sleazy.. shit I should plan to go to Magaluf next year..
you will see me for sure.

and yes wear a condom.. if it was me Id jerk off quickly and when she came Id cum in her mouth..lol

I think Magaluf is cool girl without BS or asking money...is she was asking money and prostituting then thats different and thats a NO No!

Update back in the game..neediness and calibration.. 2solid dates this week.

tonight is Wednesday I have one girl which I started texting last night and tonight when in too deep reported comfort as mark manson with the say. I am a true believer of mark. On attractions active and half passive it's balance in between them  exhibits calibration. On  rejections you get a sense of neediness and even despearation as my female friend Monique says its a void that you feel but it's actually a void that you want and you can only get spiritual  and not necessarily from a woman. Its true... So what I did is I actually fast for a whole day I'm not really sure the background of fasting but its pretty much it's you and survival mode and clears  your mind to focus on what it is important for you. I meant really did it because I felt that I needed to clear my mind and needed a little bit of putting myself back into the diet which I'm doing so it actually worked in my favor because all the sudden things started becoming clear and I said he thinking and survival morning thinking about myself first or having a passion and what really matters to me Stephen Nash talks a lot about this and not a lot of people get it because they think it is very super ficial are abstract but when you really really put this into practice it's a very powerful because it actually build your character your identity in life. What I am so good after a fast is I and when you're needing to stay like franco says you never text to go out don't communicate with anyone woman. A clear mind really sets I really calm tone in your life and say OK  now I'm back and really sets you be really nice calibration. Of course have you done it before this is like not going to the gym and then you're going to the gym again and kind of mentally prepare yourself there for so you can do is take things to get you where you need to be. Make Molly said once the will must be stronger than the skinny think fasting and meditating a really really do step your calibration. I was somewhat depressed on Tuesday and down and today I have to the three girls that I'm talking to you right now one of them is going to meet him tomorrow and the other one is pretty much whenever I feel like it. I have 3 in one site and 2 on other.I'm balancing rapport first humour then push pull or releases..this I learned from sinn Jon Lee..excellent excellent... Breakthrough comfort which future teaches..I basically in past ad swingcatts prizing once my Intuition knows its solid rapport w consistency and commitment. I'm a student of theory of pimp game and so I once establish trust rapport genuinely... I establish my role as an authority figure in her life. For some its natural and for some its a way demonstrate express masculinity. That Never changes...... I cool thing is to fuck a girl and then text all of the prospects...you always have go be hungry for the hunt of new prospects...with calibration from fasting ..and your persuasive verbal skill..you can seduce without being harsh...if you Dont fuck and your mind is cluttered w problem..then you come off weird needy lonely desperate and worse clueless.I read about an author guru on self help which he fasts once a week. Think this balances life ambitions and survival with good emotional self control... Its taken me longer to recover calibration...but 2 days of plain hi openers or immediately opening after she notices you leads to extreme fast solid attraction cause you are congruent in her way of her wanting you yet you opening her desires creating that fantasy for her a reality. Her imagination will take her. And game new ones...I use NLP 10% in my text and in person to reinforce her attraction interest into me...once you for that you can always bait her.

Back in the game

Lately I've been getting bored with the girls I am currently seeing on Friday at side girl that I randomly met her name is Vanessa and in the middle of those of us having protected sex I feel like eating her out it's a risky move that not a lot of players talk about but s*** she was fine and I went for it next thing you know she starts talking how dangerous it is to have sex with different partners her and she mentioned it seeing as quote unquote be careful out there it's dangerous. And she also told me within the context give me a call whenever you want to hook up again hit. Of course I acted nonchalant leave because that's the way we were supposed to be really sex is not a big deal and when we praise your woman we do providing excitement to her and we will share the excitement but because there was something of non long term and she at the time seemed emotionally distant that it gave me the clear and present that this was going to be a very short term relationship or friends with benefits but it takes her two days later and I did not get a response from her so so I really don't like to pursue that much when the girls are not responding even though she told me what she did whatever it was that gender of our that she emotionally is it going through her in her head because I really did get the kids phonics that sometimes f**** with girls heads and as I mentioned in my previous post that it was really much more the excitement of the process and seduction and women men or female male dynamic of communication and what David DeAngelo cause anticipation and its really fun experience because you are leading the experience in you create you use your creativity to lead want to go close regardless of whatever she says you still feel that you are done with your dominant you're leading with a very sick with from this but the inverse soft velvet glove I think he was rushed Jefferson mention your glove still hand with the self a glove so that's pretty much what motivated me to get back in the game I was not able to login previously on online sites with my existing email address so I had to open another account therefore open on the POS OkCupid and even cooler life . I briefly spoke to Black Dragon two just to get a little bit of receipt back on a spectacular meal is she which can be connected to the online thing but not necessarily. Henri de land me to really get my ass back to work and the game is sad I realize that I was moaning and groaning and complaining about how I'm bored out of my current registration and CC just sing to myself moan and groan and complain when that's not really the type of person I am but in healthy so the way I decided to take action immediately I think is Brian Tracy who mentioned procrastination is destroyed by precise is decisive and proactive in action I think one of the Buddhists or someone and then I've been reading or thats been in my head for a while is that when you meditate on this with a clear conscious you find the answers within yourself sometimes once you're prepared for the knowledge base then you you start applying it yourself in your own way meaning you become your own couch your own motivator because there is really no other way to make it all the way I think many successful people like Donald Trump and many others even 50 Cent Curtis Jackson had to have a self motivation and have in their mind a little voice telling them to move forward or with Donald Trump cause a good and staying out and someone like Tony Robbins says reprogram your mind for that voice to give you a positive action and not the negative. Another thing is I think it was Donald Trump book how to get rich is really more of how to be successful rich person I think the title in some ways it is to have people who'll want to get rich quick I have an idea of formula 1 indeed the formula is being a person who can send be 500 those principles of knowledge and experience be able to take action in their own whether its financial or some sort of self protecting their wealth. Well the more and more I see things like this it's very into related with someone wanting to be successful in seduction. I really think that life principles have to do with motivating yourself to a point where you can really take the size of actions and being aware of it something that I feel that I was and why am I am back in the game like this title says is that I became complacent and lazy but in a sense of where I have a lot of things going on for me and that is OK a lot of responsibilities and that is okay but I am also responsible for my own happiness . I also think having this background seduction is knowing when to strike when the opportunity to apeers in front of you without desperation. Today I went to eat and there where is the two sets of two girls one was older seems that she recently got divorced late 40's and 50's the other to not speak English she was Mexican w cute ass she seems pretty.they played pool with one guy and this guy was from out of town in a hotel room and said he had a friend and Sunday made a time range for tomorrow to play pool in the evening and Ashley to get from but from what I noticed was that the woman was leading the seduction men wasn't really the man the game finish of pool and they both look fabulous left I just said goodbye to me and I did not get the number but I figured that it wasn't going to go anywhere anyways this is where at times when you're so and there's a $0.02 train trying to cause an end times you try to stuff like Mystery Method her indirectly but at that time I wasnt invested enough into putting my energy. I think I learned this from Johnson when he really said that 20 minutes at to know where is he the first couple more minutes of conversation at VCU that the this isn't going anywhere then you check to see if you really don't wanna put the average into something that you have to put a lot of work into its really not have one doing the work and the other one not doing anything it's about both people doing stuff to make the suggestion for the older women date open me and we didn't open up a conversation but my interest was not in the older woman was more on the younger one younger one seems very hot and very horny and I did use interact but there was no chance for me to be able to isolate her sincerely it was just one of those things where you don't really have a specific technique I really have to try to hard to get somebody's attention and really has to do with value value socially and value in the mist of who's trying harder and I was trying last this is very true in the world where you don't value what we don't work hard enough for and we take stuff that's for free for granted that being said hi it's very important thateven though things may not go your way but that you're okay with it and that's the most important thing is that you control yourself you control your emotions you're not there to be Mr Superman miss your super player and going with some pic of mind and then get her off her feet and go take home and f*** if that was the case then and it was consistent then so be it but unfortunately its not the way it works I remember when I went countless nights and mornings out every night in New York City trying to do the same that way just because I took a shame that needs course with them and talk about sexual frames didn't mean to have to go out every night out and push myself to try to take every girl that I met regardless most of the girls and I ended up meeting or actually just being social and sell them wanted to go out on a date others they were into having sex but they had already made up their minds with home then we're going home with so it didn't matter what and when I said or what I did but mostly matters is that I was ok and in the situation myself with myself and my own emotions and only 4 a.m. Regardless it went good or bad and stuff usually goes good thing goes good on the way and I was OK and then make me feel better I didn't you feel good heard anything me so bad hey there when it opens the pendulum swing I'm still okay with myself and I think that's the most important thing knowing that you're going back in the game I have also playing ping you when you're fine with the way the changes to elevate your standards that's the only way you're going to challenge yourself to do not need things and try more things and then this game when you get consistent like this is us we're having our scale which is very true it is she has a momentum and everything to me that at first since I am rusty and I'm starting all over again in some ways I have to be patient with my own skills and I know it will come because I've done it so many times before its like shooting in three pointer Jefferson I'm going to shoot the first couple three pointers to get to make once you're just your body in the rhythm and the way the wrist world of year the restaurant is the ball of your hands and going to the basket and you keep doing it and doing it once you're in that rhythm and its a different story and its a different way of handling things in the sand dictions going good and you hesitate for you make a mistake and that is where I have full when I said yeah okay I made it and now I am going to fix it. The end

Being driven in being a seducer reality check comparison

"""Miami has made a habit of finding narrow escapes and surviving heart-pumping finishes. Yet the excitement comes from the process, not the actual conclusion. That part of the ride is predetermined """. This is how game is played in real world..not in your head but in real world. This is a very good sports example and knowledge quotes in which an NBA team like Miami is considered the best but its on its way to a process of championship for cheering what they want and they called Chris and process of training physical stress mental stress and preparation this is how have things to prepare for the ultimate competition compared to also boxer briefs repairs itself to find and focus limited time with a woman just had to testosterone really high in order to fight and fate the other opponent but this isn't about this and this is basically on how the mindset of a seducer really needs to be in order to have peace of mind and the realistic expectations of what did this to be a seducer there's going to be a lot of ups and downs and you being able to notice whether or not its you that needs to be changed or the person is you are interacting is incompatible with you and this has been a long the memo in the house and action community itself some guys go to the extreme like mark manson say who cares if you give a s*** and he is Mike mentioned guess clearly some examples on how that same night one group of girls thought he was the cheapest guy and another group of girls thought he was the most attractive guy they have ever met so this in self is a process and then and vans level once you are oh well for you are how are you changing your own life naughty go based but just being yourself in a very superior we off how you've had to progress yourself and being a student of self-help and the same time being superior person in our normal average person and an intellectual what are you thinking and healthy wise psychologically and you need to be sure of yourself first what's your share of yourself first then you can proceed to any type of rigorous training and seduction going now getting rejected going on train line trying to speed dating trying to look start rental angry it would this is only one face burning the mix face would be more of the actual process for the team you're going from are going through this is the same process these athletes are going through but its enjoying that process is going to let me down to the outcome which is sex with a woman and once you become consistent in this process and being with you enjoy it but yeah I can accept this could be good or bad or whatever but seriously it does not mean anything to you only huh very light hearted experience laughter here nobody wins or loses or text him a price here is more of you being neutral but yet knowing the inside you have ha Siri of competitiveness within yourself this is a really good key to be able to can't good with seduction consistently with the menu anyone I haven't done this and it took me three weeks I have 24 hours just this and I've been to a point where is gone consistently the real reason why, Britian sometimes doesn't come back its because you're not consistently doing but once you're done yourself being able to multi-task your other livelihood task and then keeping this up at the same time that enables you to master and many levels which would enable you to have a complete lifestyle and the assertiveness need to be able to confront any issue with and the circumstances even if its going out or the situation there any way that you can control the tempo of your emotions your own emotions going to Temple of the night that's going to go and this is win that theory also helps as is cry by 10 minutes real social dynamics or what cognitive dissonance then having this I sent this you can ultimately learn to adapt to this process of which you will meet girls that are into you and that are not into you. But it is the same process that excites us and its to sleeping with a beautiful woman or women. This is why I'm washing a ling you will not be able to be satisfied emotionally is he paying money to a hot girl for sex you will feel more emotionally enjoyment when you are part of the process going with the other woman and she is also enjoying with the processed and you head this way and it's become very seductive and this is very exciting more than the actual condition which is me into the sex because sex is basically you a rose in her to a point where she cannot say no and you give me my son desire of sex and enjoying her for who she is enjoying her as a woman and taking care of the one who she really wants me to take even the girl who I am seeing now or what are the girl that I am with him now she of the Revelator she seen many guys but I always notice that it is more about the process then going to going to have to see her I can call to have sex but for me it's not about that it's more about meeting other women and enjoying that process it makes me more emotionally satisfying that if I am up there it's exciting I'm going to bed another chick but at the same time what's exciting just the seduction process is very addictive an exciting and the conclusion is why you are reading this.

Psychology and emotions she needs to make herself want to fall in love first before you can conquer

I was reading an interesting article on line psychology and I also was watching a commentary by June Barrymore on Turner Classic Movies channel on a movie called the haunting filmed in 1955 I believe. She said something then strike me very interesting. Which is very true in masculine n in ways of seduction and expression of sexual intent" this movie is an example of no special effects and needed in order to scare the audience for the movie watcher this movies scares the audience what this film does compared to the new films of today a new movies off today were they have a lot of optical action Corey and is that the movie makes the audience get scared first in order to scare so they are in space we are already scared Nissan watching the movie now because of the visuals much more of the type of psychological the film is portrayed." well how does this relate to what we want to achieve basically it has to do with emotions itself but is how we don't have to really be gruesome or really be verbally descriptive is in the sexually-explicit way but to be very subtle and in order to elicit the motions that we want I'm like teasing way of very little by little something mark told me in the past was always make her wanted more always make her wanted more like you're not really that much wanting it but you wanna make sure when you do that that she is already on the level where she's already aroused you're feeling emotional investment with she's horny or what is she already put her hard and it doesn't motional decision to do so I'm basically is to elicit certain ways to treat yourself and Mary motions and um so that way now I'm shakin be in the state of mind mostly where she knows that she wants to what she wants to be in order to sleep with you when she reached that point is basically you not take care of her of that I am motion and going straight to closing escalation. The whole concept of the movie scares the audience will not be in Korea gruesome is Mr V phantom the movie has certain scenes to scare a surprise and so it always keeps the audience very intrigued and unexpected ways but its not the actual visual but it's the way it goes around instead of being gory and is more scary we need to me not gory sexual but we need to be more of an enticement of sexuality. Maybe but my best seductions has always been out like a movie a movie then I am creating and I'm the main character and I'm providing her apart and my movie like we're being filmed like all of this is falling into place how it's supposed to be but the PUA part or seduction artist seducer has to be the person that has to lead to where you want indirectly.