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Monday, November 20, 2017

advanced seduction 101 : she if she has an EGO go for it

so advanced seduction is mainly having an objective


feeding her  EGO make her feel great and special.
like a drug  love bombing.
 and then                                                 1

remove yourself when she isn't around. 0

when you feed her ego .

she feels she is stimulated and in power. there is no defense if you feed her  EGO.

then once hooked you remove some ... and then remove abit...to make her get more of what she had at first.

its like a high '

a drug effect

act the one who is always there for you, a friend, this is to get your guard down.

you begin to open up and befriend them
see them in a different light.

structured scripted acts of kindness.

LOAN with high interest .
3 times the amount.

justification if you don't deliver.
to degrade you belittle you.

they feel justified


impression management. it gains favor in your eyes... positive things when you think about them..

like  NLP anchors positive emotions - feelings to that person.

ONCE you are in...

as soon you feel you have her hooked, you pull back and make her beg for you ... P-N-P
kind caring sweet person disappears .

they use sympathy role ... they put themselves in a distress role .
this is someone trying to create a role .cant you please help me. they want to draw you in with sympathy. (we are perpetrator) damsel in distress ..... pity play....
to see if you are empathic
without fully assessing ...

she needs to help you to be strong .




what is your goal with this woman? knowing how to PUMP AND DUMP use of screening

hey ,

love mgtow 101

I agree with miggy and I am a total follower and fan.


this is all inner game talk

on the outside I will play everything and anything to comfuse the girl in between lover provider edge
PN cycle with drug addiction to the brain style game along with perfect courtier for the girl to discharge herself to me and her transference.

vin di carlo addcition  mp3s  ;female psycology audio ;  and saffron double  LR audio *

as well as psychopath game.

till the close.

once the close to the sex...

I decide to prolong the fucking  and  start intermittent reinforcement. PN cycle of addiction.

but more than likely its a  pump and dump.






Tuesday, November 7, 2017

why game is more effective to model a narcisstic psycopath than regular guy game

cause they have great ways to captivate the person.

the only thing I like is that I genuine love the woman and plan to be with her and treat her nice..
I don't treat her with emotional abuse like the narcissist.

the psychopath deals great with any shit tests cause it doesn't affect him emotionally so that comes off on a non verbal appearance that he is strong emotionally to the woman and that the woman cant break him down.
there fore he is a challenge.
on healthy women that are high self esteem ...they become emotional more involved
on low self esteem women, they don't react to their bullshit attempts and also comply to putting them down as low self esteem women feel like they don't deserve anything good.

psycopaths and narcisttics serve like a source of mirror who offer an outlet of the persons view of the world...so that they have control and the only source of that pleasure or emotional druglike experience.

the reason I know is that as a pua and student of seduction. I have been with a woman who is like this and the powerful emotions are amazing...

its the withdrawl that cause pain..

but as a pua and student of the Venusian arts... this is something that is called frame control or self discipline that the pua most recover from oneitis withdrawl at a faster pace than AFC or someone who has no clue of what transpired.

this stuff is powerful.

you can read stuff but when you experienced this, you can see what captivated you and what was that really hurt you.

parts that hurt me was parts that I don't remember yet now afterwards I do remember like PTSD

if I was emotionally detached like a pimp or master pua . then this wouldn't affect me or even a psychopath.  or a  BDSM true MASTER. who doesn't feel pity or empathy.
he does what he does without any sexual pleasure...this is similar what pimps call  ICE COLD

the thing is they use  EV of advanced intuition, they pursue, they can play romantic charmer.
actual rejection doesn't exist cause they keep going and usually women or men fall for it.

it is when the victim from the emotional abuse disrupts the relationship

for a seducer, our goal is to love and pleasure.
not to hurt.

but theres a lot to learn from them ...its their short term goal that messes their success and sabotages themselves.

for us a pua and master seduction of the arts.... its of a long term  and not hurt the person... if you can do that.
then theres no more to learn other than relationship management and continuous happiness

that is long term gratification .... vs short term gratification

takeaway -withdrawl - N from PNP - the 0 from 101 , narcissist disapear is all the same and EFFECTIVE

To punish you. It's called a silent treatment. It is one of their favorite punishments because it requires no energy and it is so effective. No one likes being ignored. Especially if you don't understand what it is that you did wrong or you think that you did wrong in order to deserve this. In actuality you probably didn't do anything out of the ordinary and they just took something you said or did as a personal criticism because everything is about them. So they decided to punish you. 

Saturday, November 4, 2017

grey rock method is best for female psycopaths , shit tests and manipulation from female crazy

The Gray Rock method of dealing with psychopaths


Editor’s note: At the request of readers, the Lovefraud member “Skylar” has contributed the following article.
When dealing with malignant narcissists, psychopaths, sociopaths, borderlines, drama queens, stalkers and other emotional vampires, it’s commonly advised that no response is the best response to unwanted attention. This is often true and No Contact (the avoidance of all communication) should be used whenever possible.
There are some situations however, when No Contact is not feasible, as in when you share child custody with a psychopath. As another example, if you are being stalked by an ex, a restraining order can infuriate the unwanted suitor, and refusing to respond to him or her is seen as an insult. They might become convinced that they can MAKE you respond and in that way satiate their need for power over you.
Furthermore, many of us have tried to end a relationship with a psychopath several times, only to take them back, each time. They turned on the pity ploy and the charm, and because we didn’t understand that this is what a psychopath does, we fell for their promises to change. They know all of our emotional hooks. For them, it’s easy and fun to lure us back by appealing to our emotions. But a psychopath can’t change. In fact, when you leave a psychopath, he becomes determined to punish you even more severely for thinking you could be autonomous.
Even if we don’t take them back, the most dangerous time for a person is when they first break up with a psychopath. The psychopath feels rage at being discarded. Losing control or power over a person is not just a narcissistic injury for them; they feel profoundly empty when their partner leaves them even if they had intended to kill their partner. The reason is because they have lost control. Psychopaths need to feel in control at all times.
For all these situations, we have Gray Rock.

What it is:Ӭ
So, how do we escape this parasitical leech without triggering his vindictive rage? Gray Rock is primarily a way of encouraging a psychopath, a stalker or other emotionally unbalanced person, to lose interest in you. It differs from No Contact in that you don’t overtly try to avoid contact with these emotional vampires. Instead, you allow contact but only give boring, monotonous responses so that the parasite must go elsewhere for his supply of drama. When contact with you is consistently unsatisfying for the psychopath, his mind is re-trained to expect boredom rather than drama. Psychopaths are addicted to drama and they can’t stand to be bored. With time, he will find a new person to provide drama and he will find himself drawn to you less and less often. Eventually, they just slither away to greener pastures. Gray Rock is a way of training the psychopath to view you as an unsatisfying pursuit you bore him and he can’t stand boredom.

What it’s for:
Making a psychopath go away of his own volition is one application of Gray Rock. One might say that Gray Rock is a way of breaking up with a psychopath by using the old, “It’s not you, it’s me.” excuse, except that you act it out instead of saying it and the psychopath comes to that conclusion on his own.
Another reason to use Gray Rock is to avoid becoming a target in the first place. If you find yourself in the company of one or more narcissistic personalities perhaps you work with them or they are members of your family it’s important to avoid triggering their ENVY.

By using Gray Rock, you fade into the background. It’s possible they won’t even remember having met you. If you have already inadvertently attracted their attention and they have already begun to focus in on you, you can still use Gray Rock. Tell them you are boring. Describe a boring life. Talk about the most mundane household chores you accomplished that day in detail. Some people are naturally lacking in dramatic flair. Find those people and try to hang around them when the psychopath is nearby.
If you must continue a relationship with a psychopath, Gray Rock can serve you as well. Parents sharing joint custody with a psychopathic ex-spouse can use Gray Rock when the ex-spouse tries to trigger their emotions. I acknowledge that any threat to the well-being of our children is overwhelmingly anxiety provoking. Here is where Gray Rock can be applied selectively to draw attention away from what really matters to you. In general, show no emotion to the offending behaviors or words. The psychopath will try different tactics to see which ones get a reaction. With Selective Gray Rock, you choose to respond to the tactic which matters least to you. This will focus the psychopath’s attention on that issue. Remember, the psychopath has no values, so he doesn’t understand what is valuable to us unless we show him. Selective Gray Rock shows him a decoy. When protecting our children, we can take a lesson from nature: Bird parents who have fledglings are known to feign a broken wing when a predator is in the vicinity. They fake a vulnerability to detract the cat’s attention from their real vulnerability, their babies. In this example, Selective Gray Rock fades all emotions into the background except the ones you want the predator to see.

Why it works:”¨        A psychopath is easily bored. He or she needs constant stimulation to ward off boredom. It isn’t the type of boredom that normal people experience; it’s more like the French word, ennui, which refers to an oppressive boredom or listlessness. Drama is a psychopath’s remedy for boredom. For drama, they need an audience and some players. Once the drama begins, they feel complete and alive again. They are empowered when pulling the strings that elicit our emotions. Any kind of emotions will do, as long as it is a response to their actions.
A psychopath is an addict. He is addicted to power. His power is acquired by gaining access to our emotions. He is keenly aware of this and needs to constantly test to make sure we are still under his control. He needs to know that we are still eager to do his bidding, make him happy and avoid his wrath. He needs to create drama so he can experience the power of manipulating our emotions. As with any addiction, it is exhilarating to the psychopath when he gets his supply of emotional responses. The more times he experiences a reward for his dramatic behavior, the more addicted he becomes. Conversely, when the reward stops coming, he becomes agitated. He experiences oppressive boredom and he will counter it by creating more drama. If we stay the course and show no emotions, the psychopath will eventually decide that his toy is broken. It doesn’t squirt emotions when he squeezes it anymore! Most likely, he will slither away to find a new toy.

The Gray Rock technique does come with a caveat: psychopaths are dangerous people, if you are in a relationship with one that has already decided to kill you, it will be difficult to change his mind. He may already be poisoning you or sabotaging your vehicle. Take all necessary precautions. In this case, Gray Rock can only hope to buy time until you can make your escape.

How it works:Ӭ
Psychopaths are attracted to shiny, pretty things that move fast and to bright lights. These things, signal excitement and relieve the psychopath’s ever-present ennui. Your emotional responses are his food of choice, but they aren’t the only things he wants.
He envies everything pretty, shiny and sparkly that you have and he wants whatever you value. You must hide anything that he will notice and envy. If you happen to be very good looking, you need to change that during this time. Use makeup to add bags under your eyes. If you aren’t married to the psychopath, any money or assets he covets should disappear “in a bad investment decision” (consult with your attorney on this). Your shiny sports car has to go, get a beater. If you have a sparkling reputation, anticipate that he will or has already begun to slander you; therefore, don’t allow yourself to be put into any compromising position or pushed into erratic behavior. The reason he wants to take these things from you, is not necessarily because he wants them for himself, it’s because he wants to see the emotions on your face when you lose them. He wants the power trip associated with being the one who took them from you. By preemptively removing these things from his vision and not reacting with emotion at the losses, you continue to train him with the idea that you are the most boring person on earth, someone he would never want to be.

Origin of Gray Rock:Ӭ
In 2009, I left my psychopathic partner after 25 years, but I didn’t understand what was wrong with him. I sat in a sushi bar, lost in confusion, when a tall, athletic man introduced himself. To my own surprise, I instinctively poured out my story to him. This complete stranger listened to my story and then he explained to me that I was dealing with a malignant narcissist. He advised me, “Be boring.” He told me that his girlfriend would come home each night, begin drinking and become abusive. They were both professionals who traveled in the same professional circles. He knew that she would stalk him if he broke up with her and he didn’t want to risk the slander and drama which could leak out and damage his professional reputation.
His solution was to be so boring that she would simply leave him. He declined to go out on evenings and weekends. He showed no emotional reaction about anything, no interest in anything and responded with no drama. When she asked if he wanted to go out for dinner, his reply was, “I don’t know.” After a few months of no drama, she simply moved out.

Why is it called Gray Rock?
I chose the words Gray Rock because I needed an object for us to channel when we are in an emotionally charged situation. You don’t just practice Gray Rock, you BECOME a Gray Rock. There are gray rocks and pebbles everywhere you go, but you never notice them. None of them attract your attention. You don’t remember any specific rock you saw today because they blend with the scenery. That is the type of boring that you want to channel when you are dealing with a psychopath. Your boring persona will camouflage you and the psychopath won’t even notice you were there. The stranger in the sushi bar showed great insight when he advised me to “be boring.” He struck at the heart of the psychopath’s motivation: to avoid boredom.
In nature, there are many plants and creatures that show us how to survive in a world of predators. Among others, birds feign injury to protect their babies and mice play dead until the cat loses interest. Both of these tactics can be useful and they can be channeled when applicable. Yet, it’s difficult to calculate each and every move that a psychopath will make and to determine the best course of action each time. Instead of trying to out-think him, channel the gray rock. This simple, humble object in nature has all the wisdom it needs to avoid being noticed, it’s boring.

Thursday, November 2, 2017

structuring a plan of action to bring in the fish

you have to have a plan to bring in the fish.

online

daygame  meaning casual

like a pimp you have to be ready to game anywhere

all outlets of incoming girls is all game.

how to get women to chase - THE REAL DEAL

so my success to get them to chase has been a secret

its not a product nor a sales pitch.

it came from Saffron's double lay audio report

he explains how he pulls back to get them to chase in terms of lay report.
I think without this answer, it would've been hard to figure it out.

another reference its mark's entropy comfort connection game.
he explains how he had me just have girls as friends like a male girlfriend ..
and then once I got that down. he had me after that step for me to make a statement of intent .
and pull back...

he explains go with her but just a little..... "yeah we can go there.."
and then once they are seduction location...make it positive and that nothing phases you...
its like managing LMR before LMR comes into play ....you go in and she says no..you pull back and then try again. you spike her  BT and then ask again.

this is exactly how mark taught me to pull and manage.


in his words he told me "yeah just make them chase you...make them want it more"
literally building sexual tension like vin di carlos explains in one of his small pdf secrets of sexual
tension.

"sexual tension is game, the rest is details (credibility comfort and logistics) "

"presence of controlled arousal state ,in the absence of overt sexual intent. "
meaning microloop theory..non verbal sexual and yet verbal is light funny yet standoffish not so into her without verbalizing.

"instead of reaction  horny to a girl like most guys, I decide to when to get aroused by a woman."

vin talks about  "state control"  " is vital in seduction but in life... stay calm and generally happy and more productive..in spiritual terms it is sometimes called "staying grounded" centered or having peace of mind"

he talks about pulling back

"intrigue, intrigue is about lack of overvalidating a girl and getting her attention by being ambigugous and holding back "

sexual tension is about we enter a sexual state and yet we don't verbalize our desire.


he talks about calibrating  sexual tension like  LMR with push pull

"after some basic rapport is established turn on your arousal state,if she clams up or gets uncomfortable then snap out of it and switch back to credibility fast. "



this ebook is great...cause sexual tension is what can get her to chase when you pull back without verbalizing anything sexual.

I used also vin di carlos  7 ways to get her addicted.

and some NLP patterns  natural woman pattern and some sexual frames..from captain jack and sinn.

something that has really helped me was Franco's explanation of PNP or push pull.

I added my emotional intutition by applying my own emotional eating and reverse it on women with escalation and attention...
this is part of the addiction process that goes in the brain ...and you pull back like a withdrawl of pleasure.

the thing with this is that  I made mistake of giving in ...meaning you with a woman can never give of yourself 100% cause it is like she solved you and like example of vin di carlo ,.

having the treasure chest and then having the gold coins, they lose interest.

this unfortunately to be the challenge ....is never ending process of challenge and what I call  P-N

so applying this science is great but also like my friend Adrian states and also the pimp game
is to make DEMANDS.

you always make compliance tests and requests ...this creates anticipation and also has her invest into you .

its her fantasy to fufill for her to want more and this is exciting to women.

so there is the 100% alcohol proof of making a woman chase you.