Thursday, May 22, 2014

Update back in the game..neediness and calibration.. 2solid dates this week.

tonight is Wednesday I have one girl which I started texting last night and tonight when in too deep reported comfort as mark manson with the say. I am a true believer of mark. On attractions active and half passive it's balance in between them  exhibits calibration. On  rejections you get a sense of neediness and even despearation as my female friend Monique says its a void that you feel but it's actually a void that you want and you can only get spiritual  and not necessarily from a woman. Its true... So what I did is I actually fast for a whole day I'm not really sure the background of fasting but its pretty much it's you and survival mode and clears  your mind to focus on what it is important for you. I meant really did it because I felt that I needed to clear my mind and needed a little bit of putting myself back into the diet which I'm doing so it actually worked in my favor because all the sudden things started becoming clear and I said he thinking and survival morning thinking about myself first or having a passion and what really matters to me Stephen Nash talks a lot about this and not a lot of people get it because they think it is very super ficial are abstract but when you really really put this into practice it's a very powerful because it actually build your character your identity in life. What I am so good after a fast is I and when you're needing to stay like franco says you never text to go out don't communicate with anyone woman. A clear mind really sets I really calm tone in your life and say OK  now I'm back and really sets you be really nice calibration. Of course have you done it before this is like not going to the gym and then you're going to the gym again and kind of mentally prepare yourself there for so you can do is take things to get you where you need to be. Make Molly said once the will must be stronger than the skinny think fasting and meditating a really really do step your calibration. I was somewhat depressed on Tuesday and down and today I have to the three girls that I'm talking to you right now one of them is going to meet him tomorrow and the other one is pretty much whenever I feel like it. I have 3 in one site and 2 on other.I'm balancing rapport first humour then push pull or releases..this I learned from sinn Jon Lee..excellent excellent... Breakthrough comfort which future teaches..I basically in past ad swingcatts prizing once my Intuition knows its solid rapport w consistency and commitment. I'm a student of theory of pimp game and so I once establish trust rapport genuinely... I establish my role as an authority figure in her life. For some its natural and for some its a way demonstrate express masculinity. That Never changes...... I cool thing is to fuck a girl and then text all of the prospects...you always have go be hungry for the hunt of new prospects...with calibration from fasting ..and your persuasive verbal skill..you can seduce without being harsh...if you Dont fuck and your mind is cluttered w problem..then you come off weird needy lonely desperate and worse clueless.I read about an author guru on self help which he fasts once a week. Think this balances life ambitions and survival with good emotional self control... Its taken me longer to recover calibration...but 2 days of plain hi openers or immediately opening after she notices you leads to extreme fast solid attraction cause you are congruent in her way of her wanting you yet you opening her desires creating that fantasy for her a reality. Her imagination will take her. And game new ones...I use NLP 10% in my text and in person to reinforce her attraction interest into me...once you for that you can always bait her.

Sunday, May 18, 2014

Back in the game

Lately I've been getting bored with the girls I am currently seeing on Friday at side girl that I randomly met her name is Vanessa and in the middle of those of us having protected sex I feel like eating her out it's a risky move that not a lot of players talk about but s*** she was fine and I went for it next thing you know she starts talking how dangerous it is to have sex with different partners her and she mentioned it seeing as quote unquote be careful out there it's dangerous. And she also told me within the context give me a call whenever you want to hook up again hit. Of course I acted nonchalant leave because that's the way we were supposed to be really sex is not a big deal and when we praise your woman we do providing excitement to her and we will share the excitement but because there was something of non long term and she at the time seemed emotionally distant that it gave me the clear and present that this was going to be a very short term relationship or friends with benefits but it takes her two days later and I did not get a response from her so so I really don't like to pursue that much when the girls are not responding even though she told me what she did whatever it was that gender of our that she emotionally is it going through her in her head because I really did get the kids phonics that sometimes f**** with girls heads and as I mentioned in my previous post that it was really much more the excitement of the process and seduction and women men or female male dynamic of communication and what David DeAngelo cause anticipation and its really fun experience because you are leading the experience in you create you use your creativity to lead want to go close regardless of whatever she says you still feel that you are done with your dominant you're leading with a very sick with from this but the inverse soft velvet glove I think he was rushed Jefferson mention your glove still hand with the self a glove so that's pretty much what motivated me to get back in the game I was not able to login previously on online sites with my existing email address so I had to open another account therefore open on the POS OkCupid and even cooler life . I briefly spoke to Black Dragon two just to get a little bit of receipt back on a spectacular meal is she which can be connected to the online thing but not necessarily. Henri de land me to really get my ass back to work and the game is sad I realize that I was moaning and groaning and complaining about how I'm bored out of my current registration and CC just sing to myself moan and groan and complain when that's not really the type of person I am but in healthy so the way I decided to take action immediately I think is Brian Tracy who mentioned procrastination is destroyed by precise is decisive and proactive in action I think one of the Buddhists or someone and then I've been reading or thats been in my head for a while is that when you meditate on this with a clear conscious you find the answers within yourself sometimes once you're prepared for the knowledge base then you you start applying it yourself in your own way meaning you become your own couch your own motivator because there is really no other way to make it all the way I think many successful people like Donald Trump and many others even 50 Cent Curtis Jackson had to have a self motivation and have in their mind a little voice telling them to move forward or with Donald Trump cause a good and staying out and someone like Tony Robbins says reprogram your mind for that voice to give you a positive action and not the negative. Another thing is I think it was Donald Trump book how to get rich is really more of how to be successful rich person I think the title in some ways it is to have people who'll want to get rich quick I have an idea of formula 1 indeed the formula is being a person who can send be 500 those principles of knowledge and experience be able to take action in their own whether its financial or some sort of self protecting their wealth. Well the more and more I see things like this it's very into related with someone wanting to be successful in seduction. I really think that life principles have to do with motivating yourself to a point where you can really take the size of actions and being aware of it something that I feel that I was and why am I am back in the game like this title says is that I became complacent and lazy but in a sense of where I have a lot of things going on for me and that is OK a lot of responsibilities and that is okay but I am also responsible for my own happiness . I also think having this background seduction is knowing when to strike when the opportunity to apeers in front of you without desperation. Today I went to eat and there where is the two sets of two girls one was older seems that she recently got divorced late 40's and 50's the other to not speak English she was Mexican w cute ass she seems pretty.they played pool with one guy and this guy was from out of town in a hotel room and said he had a friend and Sunday made a time range for tomorrow to play pool in the evening and Ashley to get from but from what I noticed was that the woman was leading the seduction men wasn't really the man the game finish of pool and they both look fabulous left I just said goodbye to me and I did not get the number but I figured that it wasn't going to go anywhere anyways this is where at times when you're so and there's a $0.02 train trying to cause an end times you try to stuff like Mystery Method her indirectly but at that time I wasnt invested enough into putting my energy. I think I learned this from Johnson when he really said that 20 minutes at to know where is he the first couple more minutes of conversation at VCU that the this isn't going anywhere then you check to see if you really don't wanna put the average into something that you have to put a lot of work into its really not have one doing the work and the other one not doing anything it's about both people doing stuff to make the suggestion for the older women date open me and we didn't open up a conversation but my interest was not in the older woman was more on the younger one younger one seems very hot and very horny and I did use interact but there was no chance for me to be able to isolate her sincerely it was just one of those things where you don't really have a specific technique I really have to try to hard to get somebody's attention and really has to do with value value socially and value in the mist of who's trying harder and I was trying last this is very true in the world where you don't value what we don't work hard enough for and we take stuff that's for free for granted that being said hi it's very important thateven though things may not go your way but that you're okay with it and that's the most important thing is that you control yourself you control your emotions you're not there to be Mr Superman miss your super player and going with some pic of mind and then get her off her feet and go take home and f*** if that was the case then and it was consistent then so be it but unfortunately its not the way it works I remember when I went countless nights and mornings out every night in New York City trying to do the same that way just because I took a shame that needs course with them and talk about sexual frames didn't mean to have to go out every night out and push myself to try to take every girl that I met regardless most of the girls and I ended up meeting or actually just being social and sell them wanted to go out on a date others they were into having sex but they had already made up their minds with home then we're going home with so it didn't matter what and when I said or what I did but mostly matters is that I was ok and in the situation myself with myself and my own emotions and only 4 a.m. Regardless it went good or bad and stuff usually goes good thing goes good on the way and I was OK and then make me feel better I didn't you feel good heard anything me so bad hey there when it opens the pendulum swing I'm still okay with myself and I think that's the most important thing knowing that you're going back in the game I have also playing ping you when you're fine with the way the changes to elevate your standards that's the only way you're going to challenge yourself to do not need things and try more things and then this game when you get consistent like this is us we're having our scale which is very true it is she has a momentum and everything to me that at first since I am rusty and I'm starting all over again in some ways I have to be patient with my own skills and I know it will come because I've done it so many times before its like shooting in three pointer Jefferson I'm going to shoot the first couple three pointers to get to make once you're just your body in the rhythm and the way the wrist world of year the restaurant is the ball of your hands and going to the basket and you keep doing it and doing it once you're in that rhythm and its a different story and its a different way of handling things in the sand dictions going good and you hesitate for you make a mistake and that is where I have full when I said yeah okay I made it and now I am going to fix it. 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Saturday, May 17, 2014

Being driven in being a seducer reality check comparison

"""Miami has made a habit of finding narrow escapes and surviving heart-pumping finishes. Yet the excitement comes from the process, not the actual conclusion. That part of the ride is predetermined """. This is how game is played in real world..not in your head but in real world. This is a very good sports example and knowledge quotes in which an NBA team like Miami is considered the best but its on its way to a process of championship for cheering what they want and they called Chris and process of training physical stress mental stress and preparation this is how have things to prepare for the ultimate competition compared to also boxer briefs repairs itself to find and focus limited time with a woman just had to testosterone really high in order to fight and fate the other opponent but this isn't about this and this is basically on how the mindset of a seducer really needs to be in order to have peace of mind and the realistic expectations of what did this to be a seducer there's going to be a lot of ups and downs and you being able to notice whether or not its you that needs to be changed or the person is you are interacting is incompatible with you and this has been a long the memo in the house and action community itself some guys go to the extreme like mark manson say who cares if you give a s*** and he is Mike mentioned guess clearly some examples on how that same night one group of girls thought he was the cheapest guy and another group of girls thought he was the most attractive guy they have ever met so this in self is a process and then and vans level once you are oh well for you are how are you changing your own life naughty go based but just being yourself in a very superior we off how you've had to progress yourself and being a student of self-help and the same time being superior person in our normal average person and an intellectual what are you thinking and healthy wise psychologically and you need to be sure of yourself first what's your share of yourself first then you can proceed to any type of rigorous training and seduction going now getting rejected going on train line trying to speed dating trying to look start rental angry it would this is only one face burning the mix face would be more of the actual process for the team you're going from are going through this is the same process these athletes are going through but its enjoying that process is going to let me down to the outcome which is sex with a woman and once you become consistent in this process and being with you enjoy it but yeah I can accept this could be good or bad or whatever but seriously it does not mean anything to you only huh very light hearted experience laughter here nobody wins or loses or text him a price here is more of you being neutral but yet knowing the inside you have ha Siri of competitiveness within yourself this is a really good key to be able to can't good with seduction consistently with the menu anyone I haven't done this and it took me three weeks I have 24 hours just this and I've been to a point where is gone consistently the real reason why, Britian sometimes doesn't come back its because you're not consistently doing but once you're done yourself being able to multi-task your other livelihood task and then keeping this up at the same time that enables you to master and many levels which would enable you to have a complete lifestyle and the assertiveness need to be able to confront any issue with and the circumstances even if its going out or the situation there any way that you can control the tempo of your emotions your own emotions going to Temple of the night that's going to go and this is win that theory also helps as is cry by 10 minutes real social dynamics or what cognitive dissonance then having this I sent this you can ultimately learn to adapt to this process of which you will meet girls that are into you and that are not into you. But it is the same process that excites us and its to sleeping with a beautiful woman or women. This is why I'm washing a ling you will not be able to be satisfied emotionally is he paying money to a hot girl for sex you will feel more emotionally enjoyment when you are part of the process going with the other woman and she is also enjoying with the processed and you head this way and it's become very seductive and this is very exciting more than the actual condition which is me into the sex because sex is basically you a rose in her to a point where she cannot say no and you give me my son desire of sex and enjoying her for who she is enjoying her as a woman and taking care of the one who she really wants me to take even the girl who I am seeing now or what are the girl that I am with him now she of the Revelator she seen many guys but I always notice that it is more about the process then going to going to have to see her I can call to have sex but for me it's not about that it's more about meeting other women and enjoying that process it makes me more emotionally satisfying that if I am up there it's exciting I'm going to bed another chick but at the same time what's exciting just the seduction process is very addictive an exciting and the conclusion is why you are reading this.

Psychology and emotions she needs to make herself want to fall in love first before you can conquer

I was reading an interesting article on line psychology and I also was watching a commentary by June Barrymore on Turner Classic Movies channel on a movie called the haunting filmed in 1955 I believe. She said something then strike me very interesting. Which is very true in masculine n in ways of seduction and expression of sexual intent" this movie is an example of no special effects and needed in order to scare the audience for the movie watcher this movies scares the audience what this film does compared to the new films of today a new movies off today were they have a lot of optical action Corey and is that the movie makes the audience get scared first in order to scare so they are in space we are already scared Nissan watching the movie now because of the visuals much more of the type of psychological the film is portrayed." well how does this relate to what we want to achieve basically it has to do with emotions itself but is how we don't have to really be gruesome or really be verbally descriptive is in the sexually-explicit way but to be very subtle and in order to elicit the motions that we want I'm like teasing way of very little by little something mark told me in the past was always make her wanted more always make her wanted more like you're not really that much wanting it but you wanna make sure when you do that that she is already on the level where she's already aroused you're feeling emotional investment with she's horny or what is she already put her hard and it doesn't motional decision to do so I'm basically is to elicit certain ways to treat yourself and Mary motions and um so that way now I'm shakin be in the state of mind mostly where she knows that she wants to what she wants to be in order to sleep with you when she reached that point is basically you not take care of her of that I am motion and going straight to closing escalation. The whole concept of the movie scares the audience will not be in Korea gruesome is Mr V phantom the movie has certain scenes to scare a surprise and so it always keeps the audience very intrigued and unexpected ways but its not the actual visual but it's the way it goes around instead of being gory and is more scary we need to me not gory sexual but we need to be more of an enticement of sexuality. Maybe but my best seductions has always been out like a movie a movie then I am creating and I'm the main character and I'm providing her apart and my movie like we're being filmed like all of this is falling into place how it's supposed to be but the PUA part or seduction artist seducer has to be the person that has to lead to where you want indirectly.

Sunday, May 4, 2014

financial planning strategy in everything in life..part of empowerment

Suze Ormans financial solutions for you. TV program on pbs. "If you don't need it then don't buy"...what I really like  that  never cross insurance with investment don't mix it.  Goal of life is how to manage money its not always home owner..it's knowing when and how.  Roth IRA...etc etc tax free savings... I like her story how financial broker got her sign 50,000 and she lost it 3 months then she decided to learn and studied.She found out she was scamed..she sued and got her money back.. It hit home run Is after that happened to her she mastered she says "do what makes you powerful".. She pointed out importance that at end is that one is responsible for knowing how to manage one owns money. Its still not realistic to count other people to manage your !money.. She talks tax free...How bond funds are not good idea municipal bonds are OK. Give to yourself..student loan dangerous debt...pay your own expensive s..which pay first student loan? Emergency 8 months emergency funds..pay student loans little by little.