managin sexual neediness ,Difference verbal attraction and verbal sexual escalation..LMR too

Verbal attraction is good ...it helps with fractionation and build tension and spike her BT

I have opposite issue in past where I was too pushy for sex once the girl was into me..
Id even go further by going verbal sexual escalation..
this isn't good.

why

women are more horny by subtle.

not all women get it ...by most will get it..and it makes the women think and the most it can be sexual without being overt...the better reaction you will get her to giggle or laugh..

you don't believe me..

watch porn where the large group of women watching a naked guy stripper in an office.

they will watch and desire...that turns them on than guy just forcing himself onto her..

usually the guy approximates and the girl goes for it..but shes been building up inside...

so this I can go further cause of my coaching with Franco..

women advice is "don't be too eager cause women take thouse men for granted."

remember women are emotionally drawn and driven ..so they want a challenge.

they like to be sexually teased...

practice this like you are preventing yourself from cumming too fast..

it has its similarity.

also good example from a book Im reading is DETACHEMENT

give space for her to work too..don't do all the work..
some dude in preventing30 sec  LMR on yourtube said

"make sure girls knows you like her not for her looks but about herself and prolong the sexual tension...for women its the brain that turns them on... work with the brain prolong "foreplay ".

sosexual escalation is emotionally manageing foreplay.

you can push through is there is No resistance ..then she is ready ..
is she does then back off a little and dance like foreplay...then try again in 10 -15 mins.

don't freeze her out completely..cause there has to be some sort or still way for her to accept you sexually without resistance.

I used to be overt sexual...

but like swingcatt says in his interview with davidd

in the old movies the cool guy never overtly was sexual...it was his nonverbal that was sexual..

that masculine polarity...

I made a video also about being ZEN and detached and have a mantra mediation off youtue on detachement

Tao of Steve once you have reached she is horny ..so you pull her...

always use plausible deniability yet unless she verbalizes it that yu are going to have SEX

ofcourse this is different even with FREAKS

cause she can be FREAK LSE  HD or LD.
or
with a FREAK HSE HD

is completely different she will initiate , only nce you have run more nonverbal sexual and under the radar logistics for sex.

OUT OF SAFETY.

you slow down once its on and focus on logistics and even build up  foreplay then ...nonverbal is easier than constant verbal attraction.

cause all you need is to be funny cool..
and ofcourse from the START

Confident with yourself FIRST.

Intersting finding on david d interview with swinggcatt was rick H comment on :

"women are maliable more than men know.."

once she likes you , you can choice build deep confort or if she is freak in nightgame then you can use bisexual frames or threesome frames if her friend also like her..

I also screen when FReaks have tongue ring and tattoos cause they are usually LSE yet sexually open and the one I met yesterday is in open marriage.

that itself is fucked up ...cause she wants comfort and dates to overrun her ASD..
 but
I can now tell and screen thanks to Adriannna and my practice ..if a girl is bi sexual.

Thank you for reading.

REview CD 4 MAsculine polarity

Theres GOLD in this program.

this CD4 is definitely. open new doors.
great mindset

goes beyond typical PUA

talks about compatibility and how self delusion messes up guys who want a girl from looks.

it meses up their game and its definitely JEDI

talks about mindfull

Excersizes..

THIS IS GREAT STUFF !!!
Thank you swinggcatt

New Challenges FEB 2015

This months biggest challenge is to focus on MYSELF first in all aspects and GAME pickup seduction 3rd..

My calibration is ON all the time...and like a WILD HORSE...I have to keep my self esteem UP .

Meaning :

waking up doing affirmations.

looking at mirror after shower and looking at myself how lucky I am.

doing what I need to do for money and planning long term 6 months ahead.

doing my studying.

doing my excersize like it or NOT.

and then text girls..after 8pm

sleep at 9pm and wake up 6am to start my day.

these first days I will be clean in sobriety.

NO WOMAN IS IMPORTANT.

I believe Ive reached a level of game this past month that I haven't reached before EVER.

I can approach daygame
I can open nonverbal night game or daygame
My intuition about AI is spot on.
I can open by message
I have intuition about a woman FAST.
I have no doubt about if shes HSE/LSE.
I screen for sexual escalation before DATE.

I learned not to second guess myself.
still learning how ninja womens interst are.

Im still managing some negative little voice ... Im managing with review of my goals and affirmations and logical that I am my soul and not my brain,,I control myself and my actions not my feelings.. I will review Wayne Dyers beuyoung the neagative. and brian tracy high peak performance.

GAME is connected to your HSE .

when you do this naturally you will feel empowered and your brain will help you achieve goals.

that's my mindfuck of this past month.

girls crying to see me.
they drive to see me.
I text without effort tand they show up here.
some piss me off and show up without telling me.
and even though I like the girl, if it isn't convient to me.. Im not afraid to DROP her.

my challenge is to advance in my studoes and myself and light game limited time and evaluate my Calibration.

I even helped an 22 kid by text game and he got laid.
 So that level is like Jeffy RSD level.
teasing and push pull and all this is improv and pretty much unconscious competence.

HARSHER the NEG the more LSE the girl is.. how it affects your HSE

My level of game is now at a point that I can tell alot about a girls Self Esteem
Basically when I talk to a girl
She tells me how she wants to be seduced.
then you build momentum...and calibration becomes automatic..

YOU DONT OVERTHINK
cause AT THIS POINT

SEDUCTION IS EASY
repeat it 10 times to yourself  right now.

always always think about 3 levels of game...
and mindset of
"Im not a fucking PRISON BITCH.. Im the MAN !"
don't second guess yourself....eliminate and implement the habit of ignoring negative talk or reframe it harshly...

Your mind has to be clear like water...and your game has to be open like white room that a pimp creates....

Then Mindfuck here is SHE WILL TELL YOU HOW SHE WANTS TO BE SEDUCED.
that's why attraction isn't a choice!


***(EFA really tells you a lot abou ther and the way she wants to be seduced aside of the "conditions she places" which some are bullshit and some are and can be detrimental to your health and your Life..  )


well I came to realization that

The more insult based attraction method used..then more chances the girl is REALLY LSE.

I now realize that the girls will be into you ...or  not..off the bat.

SCREEN!

its better and easier way to seduce.

so here it is

so if you are working on yourself and feel great and feel sexy...you become HSE

HSE awareness is that you don't have to put others down to gain something..

you are who you ARE ....PERIOD.

women and even gay men gravitate towards that energy.. its AMAZING..

you are conversating..
you slow down in terms of eagerness to fuck..
credit entropy pua ..you go with her but not too much..make her want it more..once a connection is reached. once at that point and the girl likes you ..she will do a lot of the work.

Cause you ARENT a little fucking PRISON BITCH.!!

I also use NLP incredible connection pattern. mixed in with mirroring and non verbal sexual cues.

I realize the more pimp you are about yourself ..you tend not to second guess yourself and that negative talk disappears.

then when you BEND to girls with LSE ..asking you to NEG them or they get caught in text buddy or they overdo the flirt game with you...then  YOU can keep gaming..

but its much like pied pieper to THEIR LSE...

you can have SEX at the end...but IT will AFFECT your HSE.

cause you had to lie and treat her BADLY...for SEX..

Then you end depressed LSE..then your GAME SUFFERS...

then you will have a tendency to treat other girls in a LSE type insult based attraction game..

where you will mess up your HSE cause it will SUFFER and you MAY lose out on an incredible women..


CURE: Check your Choline intake and check take vit D and your DIET
Excersize helps

take a day to meditate ...review your affirmations and beliefs..and focus on positive things you want in your LIFE.

listen to wayne dyer removing negativity beyond negativity...

work on your GOALS proactive action destroy procrastination

discipline is the bridge netween goals and accomplishement..

YOU GET THE POINT.

try to even FAST....it will give you mental clarity..

then continue on FRESH SLATE with WOMEN.

SELECT QUALITY

be honest with yourself ...
Don't be afraid to reject HER...

This is definitely credit to Mark Manson. Thank you brother.

DEBREIF JAN 2015

I debrief on video for myself

I ran high attraction game mixed hot cold with slight cocky funny hints.
then deep and wide rapport ala breakthorught comfort reframed objections with SNL frames. credit captain jack pua.

Lesson learned :if your phone game is SOLID she will handle logistics ..make her want to meet up with you before you ask her.
go with her but make her want it more - credit entropy PUA

once you got attraction you do comfort then you slow it down..at times lay back to make her want it more and her start to chase..she will escalate.

Screen her before you do phone game.and BEFORE DATE.'
harsher you are the more pleasing the seduction will come if shes attracted..phone game will be like reward she passed to next stage ...like rock of Love..
example :Tfreak screen.*


NO DINNER DATE. unless she paying.lol

Reversal roles make women vunerable.

women's behavior will tell you how to game her. you can detect LSE fast.

since you are in aligment in qualities in a woman...you will not compromise your HSE with her asking for you to abuse her ..you have to NEXT quickly.

rejected girls and throw shit tests..before you reject HER ..follow your intuition...1st and learn from it.

Don't listen to PUAs who are attention whores and give awful advice...

REAL players don't perform they control themselves first and its effortless intuition based game.

ALWAYS BE YOURSELF once you are into alignment.

TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE OTHERS.

don't date ugly girls....cause you end up depressed.

its not about the lays..its about what makes you happy and keep your HSE up.

BEING GENUINE with yourself and adding it in your game makes you..already above average player.

mental masturbation = frustration depression.

go to gym workout and don't give up on yourself...

REVIEW ALWAYS swinggcatts beliefs and masculine feminine polarity...

AFFIRMATIONS work...add music you really like that makes you emotional and tell yourself qualities that you want to be...then watch yourself transform..

BE INGENIUS

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but heres the spreadsheet on JAN 2015

ROSTER updated FEB 1st 2015

PS I had to look at my phone to review this cause I forgot some girls.this is now revisted and accurate*

New girls of the month.

I went on


DATES:
dates Chrissy  tfreak  ksalm LoriA  = 4 dates
results all makeouts
one sex full on
one nipple licking then LMR
just makeout and ASD/LD
LoriA 1st date awesome yet 2nd date she was distanced. LSE LD

Phone game:
Chrissy
t freak
Ksalem

text game:
10  girls

messaged : few  opener  FORCED IOIs and screening for compliance*

viewed by 101 girls.


REJECTED/ SCREENOUT MONDAYS :   8 girls

-Chrissy: depressed type LD PRovider seeking immature unrealistic identy issues.
-lava  :materilaista LSE LD
-red cherr  :maeterialista FREAK HSE HD
-brand T - LSE LD depressed type
-LorAA - after 2nd date I realized she was too caught up in playing games VS being herself.
I got turned off.
-sarah depressed type unrealistic masculine dominant LD LSE

past girls :
rejected : MiaB- wanted validation and I was non reactive.had sex with her SNL
               LibV - wanted to seek rapport from previous relationship I moved on. EXGF


SEX with new girls

Freak T

Rotation added HEatheB former FB back in rotation due to being compliant.

current roster.

my GF  I might NEXT... if sensing she is slight passive aggressive. LSE

FB:
HeathrB
T-freak
Jov Oli
Alson

BENCH:
Ksalm

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