Wednesday, November 30, 2016

REJECTION IN LEARNING SEDUCTION:THE PAINFUL TRUTH

I had a talk with my friend and experienced player A-drain ,
we talked about how women in big cities are different from normal rural girls

but what struck out was about ow harsh rejection is and painful.

what I learned from painful and depression from rejection and trying to figure out why..
is that the pain makes you harness it , makes you resist it , makes you get used to that process
then forces you to make adjustments and changes in your game.

as every women is differnt and response can be different , as long as you follow your experience and harness it and learn from it.

learning pickup by this painful experience of rejection and frustration , makes yoube aware and gives you clarity of what works and what doesnt.

there is no shortcut for this guys.

you can model another guy by using routines....and if you repeat it it can work but its hit or miss and would not be aware of what you need to adjust.

so this pain teaches you , that you need to act quickly and think faster. and adjusting what you say how to react and such.

it makes you emotionally strong

and emotionally aware...

meaning what hurts and what doesnt hurt
then the reframe becomes

of pleasure and adjustments...
like tennis back and forth back and forth
consistency.

rejection hurts and its best to go through it....and appreciate the lesson... but from that emotional pain, instead of giving up and quititing...if you hold on and think!
then you get rewarded with lessons on dealing with it.
and you move forward.

you transform into someone better than average person , understanding that.
then you are near to becoming consistent.

so embrace that pain and think on what you can do better and adjust and trust yourself.


Thank you President Donald Trump in bringing masculinity back into America! and sad news about The Game rapper case

I read Donald Trumps book before, the comeback book, I find it its a jewel ....he talks about prenup in it. hopefully he can enforce this for the guys who want to date yet not run risk of losing it all by a woman.

Also I like that Donald has good taste in women and isnt afriad of it, that directness helps the guys who want to also express directness to others meaning in course of seduction is evolving more manly.

Thank you President Trump hopefully the million dollar bill will have your face in it!

bad news is  that I dislike these false acusations against president Trump, and past like with Mike Tyson and 2pac....false accudations brought jail time .

now the Game after TV show , it brings him to pay 7 million on the case of a lady whom states he sexually touched her witout her consent...
meaning she put herself in that position and if she didnt like it she shouldve left..but always there is an agenda and money to be made from this...and so I see this as first civil case that you cant touch a girl in a way or she will sue you in civil court for millions.

difference is admission and being apologetic is a double bind. no way out ....

so the game had to just pretty much ordered to pay..
I would suggest suing his attorney for malpractice and lack of representation of facts cause its a TV show and its all acting just like porn actresses and actresses show nudity or sexual nature content....
and agreement was indeed by VH-1 and such. so thats my take on it  and APPEAL.

my favorite show rock of love....bret micheals slept with women at that house before girls ever won at the end....HE NEVER GOT SUED.

but since this The Game lawsuit, it has opened a can of pandora medusa worms....that guys are going to have to be careful with the women.

President Trump please help out the men who want to date ladies without such harsh repercusions and liability for false testimony and lawsuits , just because she was felt on ....yet she placed herself at that position as adults consensual...yet still that itself is not 7 million dollars.
ofcourse attorneys will take 40-30% off that..so I am sure she is happy with 4.5 leftover and after taxes will be 2.3 million.

aside of good news and bad news , I cant wait till Jan 2017 when president Trump makes history and does something for the men in this nation and the end of political correctness in terms of male to female relationships in romantic manner.

Will post FRs , dental hygenist tells me she has chlamydia

I will post soon FRs
i had a fine ass LSE advanturess FREAK almost had sex until she told me she had chlamydia , and I stopped all together ...

I had to email Franco to consult with him cause I dont want any STDs
another girl i was seeing caught something actually 2 of them and I had to vanish from their lives.
one cause herpes and she lives a sour sour negative life and wants to be a christian.....
then another one I saw an caught some infectious thing and we couldnt see each other.that pissed her off alot and she blew me off.

more will come for sure ,

so far now i have 2 in my MLTR solid...when I say solid I mean of I call them in the middle of the night they will answer, if I need something they will provide...if I want to see them they will accomodate me.
its either the rapport or the good sex that i give them that keeps them hooked.

I had to let go of a lady cause she was being controlling and goign psycho, and it was affecting me overall and my safety if she was goign to do somethign to herself.
which by talkign to my friend moniquee and my friend franco  i had to let go cold and calculated.

but on the bright side is that I am on my way to getting it back , like Mark Entropy said to me,
dude it takes time you are rusty.......so it takes time but once you are at it..it comes back.

at one point now , i remember that its perfecting the small steps and then moveing on to the next step in game..being good at basic fundamentals from the start and work your way towards the close.
meaning opening -----------close
working on each step your sticking points....and perfecting them and adjusting them.

like badboy says , game is that you are going to fail and its up to you to fix it within seconds to make it go towards the close of the seduction to happen..
i say its like Ninja like captina jack says...Ninja in seduction ...all under the table you are sending mixed signals , either bodylanguage showing sexual signs while versbal you are plain and words are slowed down and both that contrast theory arouses  woman credit badboy on his CD.


BEST SEXUAL ESCALATION TECHNIQUE? California Pimp

I must say that the best example of escalating and being non needy is watching California pimp's videos
if  its your birthday, I suggest to subscribe and download and watch as many as you can and you will see a consistency in what he does.
less he does the more he gets from the girl to invest. he calibrates and knows how to adjust.

the rejection videos are kindah harsh to view at a time when you arent sensitive emotionally.
meaning watch one video only cause in some ways its scary how negative it can be like approach anxiety you will get from it the illusion of pain and scary fear .

but overall is good teaching tool to see that the guy does indeed seduce girls and has a physical plus manageing her emotions  at all times. try to replicate his behavior when you are around women and watch how they react .

he is in good shape and dresses well ofcourse.

and he suggests reading an old french book called by dumount  personal magnetism which is RSD 's feel what she feels mirroring and such.

http://selfdefinition.org/new-thought/Theron-Q-Dumont-Art-and-Science-of-Personal-Magnetism-1913.pdf

I also suggest watching Deren brown videos on russian scam and hypnotism stuff. just to show you how he interacts with rapport.
cause you need to have rapport first before seduction.atleast from the girl not only coming from you.
like a lady I am gaming she says "im old fashion and wait for th guy to ask me out but I put 50/50 that both have to care and like each other....no matter car or money cause its his and not mine and that does nothign for me "
which shows you that money itself isnt what they are after , its more of selling the dream and the illusion of who you are is ultimately fantasy guy. VS serious guy who wants to prove to her your achievements or success or explain to her...that shit is boring. and this isnt a job interview.

be like obama in that movie with michelle summertime in chicago film , michelle rejects obama and sees how poor he is,and literally is harsh but obama doesnt react to it. I personally would have said ok date is over , bye michelle.
but it teaches you that they are simply shit tests.
when my game started to process on the positive like captain jack says....
shit tests after awhile dissapeared atleast to me I didnt process them. rejection or imcomatibility didnt matter I plowed until she left or offended me as an asshole. ofcourse without being needy for her emotionally nor sexually....  but positive persistance as jeffy RSD says. and it starts that positive persistance from within as a momentum with you...as i say it and swingcatt says that prizing you dont get rejected. he tells story of one handed man friend who makes out with girls after he got offended by a woman.

you emotionally master yourself first you can emotionally master women , cause you find a way to control your emotions by being self disclimplined. and women are emotional so you will see through her faster.

Anyways , calm cool and collected is what California Pimp is all about.! best teach and best example on sexual escalation.

Vision board combining with Seduction and Sucess

well I listende to Arielel Ford regarding her soul mate secret.
and brad P's inner game seminar. I recommend it highly.

when you combine that along with your vision board and goal setting?
this seems to click faster to make you desperate to go for it and without Fear.

this si something I am doing and unconciously few months later I am getting what I want.
i am also implementing check, of law of attraction like jim carrey did.
that works to get you worked up and do what needs to be done to get there.
best example is puff daddy's advice on "dont stop and lock in" which he says its ok to dream but you got to go out and get it!

my goal is to be good at day game like Todd. this guy is soo intelligent he is amazing teacher and still you have to do it yourself to be able to get thouse results.

Advice from corey skyy himself was , imagine your affirmations describe what you are doing and getting that what you want.and feeling it , you have to do that to get that.

So by reading this are you guys seeing a similarity??!

Vision boards are great cause for planning your dream and vision it keeps you grounded and makes you remember your path aside of when you get busy.
so as brap teaches my vision board is on a white posterboard yet seduction vision board is my screen saver on my personal laptop, plus I model my behaviours and sexy mannerisms from guys like
ricky martin  and alpha videos from rob brinded on posture and walk with examples of john travolta walk and black spiderman swagger.

this goes along with positive persistance  momentum inside you first  before you deal with women. which is get in state yet be proactive in seduction

also implementing LISTENING.

I learned by listening you act like pimps do as therapist and pimp game book says  empty white room and you place things she wants and needs in her life tht she cant find anywhere else..

thats how Gary Braodsky's how to play women and pimp mindset and extreme domination and conquering women are super super important to deal with women!

do your vision board and like the wallstreet wolf says, even if its painful dont lower your standards cause if you do, you are done and never get it.

back in the game : importance of acting on woman's BT

I remembered that I had a phone consult with Entropy Mark Mansen.
it was 2009.
I had emailed 1,100 women and I had just gone on one date and close didnt happen.

he gave me great advice.

spike her BT, and try again.

be cool relax
make her want it more and play like you dont want it as bad as her once she is hooked.
meaning once you hit rapport and go direct then you slow down tempo which gives the girl to catch up on horniness and want you.

afterwards he told me that advice happened cause I was calibrated.

2009 had to be the best year of my life in terms of success with women.

2015-2016 was more about surviving .

2017 will be something unprecedented since I am forced to succeed and pushed myself hard.

I literally see myself like Rocky training in a gym in the dumps just to get back and get hungry.

lately, I reflected and was sad and mybe depressed.
I dont need to lie.

what I learned from derek rsd and one of my successsful friends of game nurse is that LOOKS MATTER!

from the start pregame I did unconcious preselcetion and social status game and such.
I also remember the years in new york city before my success that I spent 5 years without any success eventhough I went out everyday on daygame with a dating coach and approached and went out at night to hit on drunk girls. I wasnt balding yet.  but no sucess ,empty and wasteful.

pre leavin new york found my niche. followed mickey's daygame dates and from sinns layreports book. applied it fully.

passive active audio doc holliday and entropy and double LR from Saffron pua. back in boston

I regret not losing weight.

Entropy's last phone consult dated 2012 was
"dude focus on your weight, and not on game, if you want to approach approach just not as an excse not to appraoch but you make thign happen for yourself, if you are in midst of stuff for your career and need not any distraction then push it aside and jerk off if you need to "

This is what I am going to do for next few days and put things aside to focus on one last projects that is due in few days and hours.

Ive been talking to 3 girls on my phone.three women...and so it hasnt been consistent in someways and others was cool.

but they might need to take back seat cause I have shit to take care of.
after the next few days once I take care of this, it will be another ball game , like taking it to another level of success in my life.

is this sacrifice worth it ?

yes this time its yes .

in the most part, game needs to be game and need s to be seen as proactive pursuit of happy social hobby.

i lately unconciously practiced with one of my MLTRs date your sister game... I think I might have picked it up uncnociously by setting positive frames and reinfrcements  behavioural shaping as they call it. thanks Sinn and Vin Di Carlo for that.

but
adam has 2 women and is adding one more girl to his non religious version of sister wives , luckily there busexual women..I wonder how he screens them and then hooks them for realtionship. accodring to the LR the second girl was one second date the lay.
I usually shoot for first night as I did succesfully in new york. but I will have to replicate that 2009 model from reading the lay reports here. and implement them with precision where I will live.

I am taking a sabath from online game and after my 72 hr obligations I will complete whats needed and then work hardcore on my body and business and then work with a image consultat here that can help me with advice on my looks.

aside of that maybe take pics for tinder
and  work on my health and do day game mostly like Todd from RSD.

I have reviewed several videos on PRP and vitamins for hari regrowth therapy and possibly PRP on my knees naybe with some emdogain as report in japan demonstrated.

HCG diet will start soon once I am done with 72 hrs marathom and no talking with girls just focus on what I need to focus on.

Girls are huge distraction , I do phone game almost everynight and its over gaming in my opinion at this point. I can be rude at times but its effective when you break rapport on that note to have them take a step towards you..
that is why there is GOLD in some old audios  like David Deangleo with Marie Forleo which e talks about 2 steps forward one step back.  or BHRR from mystery or break apport/passive active from entropy proir adam lyons thoery on it. or my own version from the field which was cut down 30% of your horniness and slow down the pace and prolong foreplay.

reality and repeatedly we are told  that women take longer to get horny.

also shit tests are best combated that you make sure you win frame control
and make objectiosn before she does credit ross jeffries.

I will review what I have done right in 2009 and made similar consistent in 2012-2013.

I open mthen 3 messages with attraction like Jeffy RSD old school way with hot- cold from sinn or attraction routines. then text to confirm number light text  then phone call that night , disqualify like mehow 7:30pm -8pm..
then talk on phone 1 hr like doc holiday and go set the date then dont tak till morning afternoon of the date with her. go on date near your place LOGISTICS !
then have connect and qualifcation with MM story and qualification like adam and connect. deep comfort game. while sell the view of appratment  then direct SOI entropy says no more than 2 on a date. ...then transition to ice cream make her pay for desert grocery walking distance near your place . then object sex before goign upstairs to enjoy the view and you have to work tomorrow in girls code.
there escalate and share icecream share stories there throw NLP pattterns which is 10% and physical escalation while you pulling back before her and being cool and non reactive as she will physical shit test you. credit saffron
then use kung fu penus if you need to or your not ready for this  credit sinn and you stop and walk her out .

and as you do that you spike her BT again and act cool and happy and give her great time and make her miss you and make eveident that she is soo happy and enjoying the night with NLP and make the state break for her very sudden like the door pattern effect where you are with her and when you leave , reality sets in on her lonely life.

then next day you follow up with noon text or callback humor pretty much text book attraction routine manual or braddocks text game.
then follwo up for the next date.

follow the tao of steve when you reach rapport and are doing sexal escaltion.
there are rules where logistics and comfort sexual escalation needs to be done at same place.

my guy nurse shed weight and gained 20lbs of muscle ,  showed me a tinder article on girls and tinder on looks . and women love looks guys......

aside of mehow or other guys in the community that says  looks dont matter, SIR they do matter.

my friend is scoring easier due to his muscle gain. its much effortless to him.

meaning any guy who wants to get good at game and be consistent once you get your verbal game?
you have to improve on your looks department. credit Vin di carlo on his female psycholgy.

I followed sinns breakthrough comfort along with Pimp Easy book and  pimp game by mickey royal
along with swingcatt's cd 1 on beliefs .this reinforces you to continue and "trust the process" credit Jeffy RSD.

plus you have to get good pics. either from a girl or model from a celebrity photo shoot? or even a gay guy who you ask and pay you want to look sexy on camera.

So to recap
72 hrs i wll not game at all.
and focus on my last finishing line prior 2017 project. and start on my physical apperance and diet . and finances , then work project and businessses planned.

then daygame watch todd's repeatedly on this. So fat Todd from RSD is the BEST on daygame by far.

peac out and see you in 72 hrs