Monday, December 2, 2013

Example of Indirect Neg in comfort for really goodlooking girls

"Was there ever a time where you were self conscious about you body..like before you were fashionable?" delivery in a neutral tone of voice..then wait for her to response long..you nod.. The girl then she goes back and she tells you about high school and or experiences pre sex where she felt she wasnt that pretty.. this is basically comfort without being JERK or asshole..its a QUALIFICATION frame which makes you on top of the prize..vs just being too NEG or JERK.. remember most girls are social high IQ and therefore want a MAN, but without the man being verbally too confrontive asshole unless the girl disrespects or shit tests the guy.. then you can go KANYE and tell the gitl "this is whats reality and not whats going in yout thoughts" basically leading leading the reality... if you can lead her reality then its a matter of time (your responsibility) for this to work or not VS leaving it to luck or waiting for her to invest..cause that doesnt happen in real life unless you already have her invested into you or basically have e;licited sexuality and attraction to have her then want you after you have backed off a little so she doesnt feel too much too soon ofcourse the name of the game is calibration of when to push and when to back off is increments and when to release or back off while being emotionally so unreactive so she is the one emotionally wanting more and feeling the withdrawl of emotionally and physically wanting you to "pet her".. you always reject first kidding around if for whatever reason you reach LMR or ASD.. always not answer and ignore what isnt helping this move forward. remember if she shows up its for her to experience the experience of something magical to happen thats how we make sure that we get structure result from what works (logisitcs)