Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Lost my FAITH in PickUp

seriously guys,

all this "Mystery" "PUA" , blah blah blah..."blast her with such and such routine line"

I lost faith in it. I stuck on it and was super dogmatic, eventhough I was already a jerk asshole but a nice guy w big heart.

The MAIN Thing is being insecure about yourself is what kills you.

Then even if you take bootcamps or courses or watch all videos you want , it wont work.

Realiity is first is NEVER EVER put yourself in a position to be a "PUA"
or think dogmatic way of having sex with a girl,there is no such thing as one size fits all.But when you are hard headed you try and try ...you try to be persistent but in the wrong context.


I think being aware and then being repetitive like in any sport is to fail over and over and develop growth.

I think it has to not only do with PickUp but in all areas you want to improve.
Example:


1. Do go do X in cold (not warmed up, not having read anything just your idea) Ofcourse Always be in habit of doing your BEST.

2. then get feedback, analyze what you did wrong or what you flinched at.

3.Read or look information on it or revise how its properly done. (not necessarily for "PUA" but in other areas) Dont over do it.

4. dont stay stuck in reading too much, remember theres a balance.
To imporve quite fast to to be aware of your mistakes,make it a habit.

5. From there Take ACTION and try again,this time do it with the information you now have.

6. Rinse and repeat.... Until you see improvement.



NOTE of things that work: Elicitng IOIs, future adventure projections or role plays, Spiking BT,Mirroring,Push-Pull or 101s,law of state transfer and more importantly Positive and strong Beliefs, believe in yourself without Shame.