Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Social proof is name of the game...

why does guys like Gene simmons wherever he goes has women around him?
I am a huge fan of gene simmons the businessman and father and unmarried husband.
his point of view of un-married is amazing and I believe in it.

anyways, I have truly have aside of adam and others who talk this social proof thing.
I do it unconcioulsy and when I talk to a woman her objections or any bullshit I can use as if she is talking some absurdity which society can make her look foolish...this makes her see and react to you like you are source of validation itself..

for that you have to have look. confidence, the way you talk fluent deep smooth not nervous and engaging..well put seem like its natural charm effortless.

certain things with social proof you can use with women, wearing something cool, having a picture with someone celebrity, or status. the way you carry yourself respecting yourself and your taste and pickyness.

this is something im in midst of mastery on my own.
Gene is still the King and please check out his book Sex money and kiss...great read and helped me reshape my own image into my new career business..Im more of gene simmons fan and family jewelz fan than kiss fanatic. eventhough Lick it up is great song.

Being powerful person is being powerful upon yourself to be proactive and self disciplined FIRST...and then LEAD women.

I found myself abit frustrated due to certain circumstances in Life where I am now at stage of buisniness and personal growth and career planning.

If you manage your time to game or seduce women and you empower this skill of dedicating to your task primarily, then you can give that non needy distance woman can then be a maturnal nurture person she biologically is...always assure that it isnt insecure but reasure that it satisfies your masculine and you like it.

that way she is open to be a natural woman...
not to mention the natural woman pattern works within comfort/rapport when she is attention in isolation.stabilazes you as a man and woman relationship.

its a suave way to demonstrate using this tecnique, franco calls it  "female talk".

If you are not familiar with Franco seduction , then check it out. Its real deal in terms of seducing women on your TERMS....no heartbreak , no self destructiveness, definately something that has Changed my Life...

check out the manual of seduction.

Ive read and studied and even gone out with few pua's...naturals..etc...
Franco seems to be most consistent and empowering point of view in seduction and having a sexual lifestyle without showing off.

I consider myself his student and up to this day, still best material.

I dont do pua routines but I might do then unconciously or lead...
my other posts and LRs can help you integrate routines into natural pickup start to end.

Sunday, April 6, 2014

HOW to predict how to game efficiently your results when to nightgame Cold approach or online dating.-answer to this SECRET

***this is entertainment purposes only not professional advice any kind so if you get a drd from a random its up to you to wear a condom. where I am there are alot of women with drd. I feel safe and gladfully I dont have that so be careful.***


        After many years of doing this and learning thourhg experiences and being soo better at it I have become very aware and picky and want to upgrade.. as a guy once we get a job we want new things a car or TV or clothes or cologne..etc etc.. once we get our "check" we at times think unconciously

                                      "I need to get a haircut."

 this example is perfect cause more you grow your potential in life success and dating..then you will want to upgrade naturally.

I am experienceing this at the moment and due to soo many exposure to many people and situations and what I want in my life and importantly WHO I VALUE MYSELF AS A GOOD SELF VALIDATED SELF DEPENDANT person, meaning I decide if I am going to pay $25 for a steak at a lousy restaurant or cook at home or enjoy a GOOD meal well worth price....

 you need to experience this first to "GET IT" that being said.

 where I am there are alot of women online ..and out and about.. there are women who wont look at you online but will check you out when you are out and vice versa.

 If you a re looking for a quick one night fast sex exicting and you have time, then my recommendation is to go out ! dont "sarge" or be a weirdo or too logical but know where you are going and what time ... know that late night some places there is chance to take home a random girl..

 Online websites like POFs OKculprits there are alot of fat girls and more you have to invest time to send messages and pursue.. personally I dont have time to invest in fat girls.

 there are other sites for "higher quality women" which I am interested in mainly cause I want to be aligned and congruent who I am and who I identify myself with being high status male by Franco.

so Online may be good practice and you can message thouse free sites around 1am and you might get a response from a girl. due to my busy schedule and financial planning i dont have time to waste in dates and coffee..only If theres is chemistry I will shit test her how she responds. then I will decide.

 thouse days of experimenting without results are far gone where guys have to chase a woman whether its in seattle or portland or miami or new york.

If you are a guy making six figures. you by all means create a lifestyle where you want to do what you want.. but if you are starting and still in school and want to improve your dating skills, then by all means take advantage of online dating from facebook to other apps many young girls locally have on their phone and sign up..most are free and improve your communication skills and learn after every interaction to EXPERIENCE CONSISTENCY AND PERSISTANCE to develop intuition... this is like baseball you bat and bat in cage and when time comes to hit the ball when they throw a pitch you have enough warm-up and experience to knock it off the park for a HOME RUN.

like one site mentioned about online dating , women when lonely they will look online... but its  least effort for them and boost of sexual validation and fake confidence in her..

THE MORE SHE INVESTS INTO MEETING A GUY BEING COLD APPROACH AT BAR LOUNGE , IN PERSON ,NIGHT GAME or whatever you want to call it...THE MORE CHANCE INCREASES FOR YOU TO INVEST LESS ENERGY VS ONLINE.

IF SHE IS ONLINE AND LIVES BUSY LIFE YET IT HAS A GENUINE FEEL..THEN ONLINE CAN RESULT SUPERBLY WELL.

there are sites and you can zooxsk messages or tinderize that is ok but its range is 25yr younger range... meaning party girl attraction fun fun fun...and it is doable...

NOTE: I have done online to meetup same day lead to sex in 1hr 
 it and it confuses the girl cause you are giving her an unexpected experience plays with her head which leads to drinking and end of the night sex..but you can double book if she flakes... credit Paul Janka*

is it consistent? maybe if you screen many girls...but it won't hit everytime..if you dont have time and do what works surely then you can play both ways.

 SUMMARY
: 1- Nightgame COLD APPROACH - go for all girls you like and are interested in you, don't go for number close if she isnt investing and you dont feel chemistry from her then move on quickly. theres always use for pua aura like SNLs captain jack used to teach...when things dont go your way on one girl that night it will help for the next one looking at you at the bar..when you hit a point where is one then take her number. i usually stick and dont leave until I leave with her and usually pretty solid and obvious.

 2-Online: you can join in to send as many messages to girls but dont waste your time too much messaging one girl cause that is typical girl that is there for attention.. dont take this personal on yourself its her mental issue of deserveness or lack of maturity in adult relationship dynamics...she will give you shite now she will give you LMR,

 if you looking for GF material then most free sites arent that good, depends on your location check first...

but most where I am are fat and have tattoos are very bitchy and have 4 kids before they are 28yrs old and probably with drd.  If you are going to hit online then select and market yourself selectively  to who you want to buy you.. :)


 -Carlo

Emotions meaning powerful change within yourself FIRST before you can LEAD...lesson from Jim Rohn

Theres nothing more powerful in personal development than being a powerful person within yourself. I was looking for a quote online for my desk and I found Jim Rohn, actually I went to a bank and it had a quote from him, about discipline and goal to achieve results. this is a article that changed me and helped me grow and become better person, I am posting it out of respect to Jim rohn whom I purchased a book and was inspired by his youtube videos. amazing person..rest in peace Jim Rohn. The Four Emotions That Can Lead to Life Change by Jim Rohn Jim Rohn motivational speaker and author Emotions are the most powerful forces inside us. Under the power of emotions, human beings can perform the most heroic (as well as barbaric) acts. To a great degree, civilization itself can be defined as the intelligent channeling of human emotion. Emotions are fuel and the mind is the pilot, which together propel the ship of civilized progress. Which emotions cause people to act? There are four basic ones; each, or a combination of several, can trigger the most incredible activity. The day that you allow these emotions to fuel your desire is the day you'll turn your life around. 1) DISGUST - One does not usually equate the word "disgust" with positive action. And yet properly channeled, disgust can change a person's life. The person who feels disgusted has reached a point of no return. He or she is ready to throw down the gauntlet at life and say, "I've had it!" That's what I said after many humiliating experiences at age 25, I said. "I don't want to live like this anymore. I've had it with being broke. I've had it with being embarrassed, and I've had it with lying." Yes, productive feelings of disgust come when a person says, "Enough is enough." The "guy" has finally had it with mediocrity. He's had it with those awful sick feelings of fear, pain and humiliation. He then decides he is not going to live like this anymore." Look out! This could be the day that turns a life around. Call it what you will, the "I've had it" day, the "never again" day, the "enough's enough" day. Whatever you call it, it's powerful! There is nothing so life-changing as gut-wrenching disgust! 2) DECISION - Most of us need to be pushed to the wall to make decisions. And once we reach this point, we have to deal with the conflicting emotions that come with making them. We have reached a fork in the road. Now this fork can be a two-prong, three-prong, or even a four-prong fork. No wonder that decision-making can create knots in stomachs, keep us awake in the middle of the night, or make us break out in a cold sweat. Making life-changing decisions can be likened to internal civil war. Conflicting armies of emotions, each with its own arsenal of reasons, battle each other for supremacy of our minds. And our resulting decisions, whether bold or timid, well thought out or impulsive, can either set the course of action or blind it. I don't have much advice to give you about decision-making except this: Whatever you do, don't camp at the fork in the road. Decide. It's far better to make a wrong decision than to not make one at all. Each of us must confront our emotional turmoil and sort out our feelings. 3) DESIRE - How does one gain desire? I don't think I can answer this directly because there are many ways. But I do know two things about desire: a. It comes from the inside not the outside. b. It can be triggered by outside forces. Almost anything can trigger desire. It's a matter of timing as much as preparation. It might be a song that tugs at the heart. It might be a memorable sermon. It might be a movie, a conversation with a friend, a confrontation with the enemy, or a bitter experience. Even a book or an article such as this one can trigger the inner mechanism that will make some people say, "I want it now!" Therefore, while searching for your "hot button" of pure, raw desire, welcome into your life each positive experience. Don't erect a wall to protect you from experiencing life. The same wall that keeps out your disappointment also keeps out the sunlight of enriching experiences. So let life touch you. The next touch could be the one that turns your life around. 4) RESOLVE - Resolve says, "I will." These two words are among the most potent in the English language. I WILL. Benjamin Disraeli, the great British statesman, once said, "Nothing can resist a human will that will stake even its existence on the extent of its purpose." In other words, when someone resolves to "do or die," nothing can stop him. The mountain climber says, "I will climb the mountain. They've told me it's too high, it's too far, it's too steep, it's too rocky, it's too difficult. But it's my mountain. I will climb it. You'll soon see me waving from the top or you'll never see me, because unless I reach the peak, I'm not coming back." Who can argue with such resolve? When confronted with such iron-will determination, I can see Time, Fate and Circumstance calling a hasty conference and deciding, "We might as well let him have his dream. He's said he's going to get there or die trying." The best definition for "resolve" I've ever heard came from a schoolgirl in Foster City, California. As is my custom, I was lecturing about success to a group of bright kids at a junior high school. I asked, "Who can tell me what "resolve" means?" Several hands went up, and I did get some pretty good definitions. But the last was the best. A shy girl from the back of the room got up and said with quiet intensity, "I think resolve means promising yourself you will never give up." That's it! That's the best definition I've ever heard: PROMISE YOURSELF YOU'LL NEVER GIVE UP. Think about it! How long should a baby try to learn how to walk? How long would you give the average baby before you say, "That's it, you've had your chance"? You say that's crazy? Of course it is. Any mother would say, "My baby is going to keep trying until he learns how to walk!" No wonder everyone walks. There is a vital lesson in this. Ask yourself, "How long am I going to work to make my dreams come true?" I suggest you answer, "As long as it takes." That's what these four emotions are all about. To Your Success, Jim Rohn