Tuesday, March 31, 2009

miami? started online and same night texts...

Hey I ve learned alot from my previous mistake and actually HBblondie texted me Friday night told her I was in miami.she didnt respond...go figure.

So I m working in comfort....

and arriving at miami had a girl qualifying herself after my snore opener...

I miss Doc and Saff..those guys now that I think about it..helped me to try to understand but it was very advenced with out infield experience that I couldnt understand until now.

Plus after improv I ccame off very funny and after meeing adam and his charisma as addictive drug on chicks ...modeled off him at a party I went with my family that I felt I was the star there.. I had 3 girls who kept checking me out eventhough they came with their dates..and I was under supervision of my family.

started online and emailed somoene direct qualify and I had her text me at 11;48 pm at night minutes later....

so running comfort with light tease and building compliance...

I will post it soon to have as a model depending what the gir is looking for more hoonest and sincere she describes her profile the more direct you are it seems to work...

Direct is high risk high reward anyways they decide whether or not to respond.

I will post on it later.....

Word UP!

Friday, March 27, 2009

Miami and Internet ...LJBFand other stuff

So Im here waiting in airport I mind ass well do something..So Im reading the one night stands book ...

Its dual edge sword which intrigues women when you walk around with it but I use it to sexualize the interaction up front..non verbally.

and all you talk is subtle .lmao.

I talk about it in depth on one of my posts.

Im puting a break on my challenge which Im going to have to restart once I go back to nyc.

I pushed internet game to an extent and got 5 flirts out of 20 searches only thing is that I will have to overbook to not make any flaking personal.

I have no experience only 1 time where I had a meet up and just threw routines and NLP patterns without building comfort and I would akwardly pause at times and lost attaction..she oblviously invesed more and being horny motherfucker... I wanteed to close but my mom was at my apt.

So Im having " doc strangelove " who gets laid off match...w are going to trade infield and online experience...

simlar to Eltopo and Saffron and entropy coached each other once I met them last year......

I want to get slapped by a girl soo bad when I go out to get in state...I ight be a fucking BDSM freak at this point of enjoying pain I might as well hit the gym LOL!

So I might join in for a month and date hese miami girl in this breif period...I need time off from nyc and city life.....I need some chill time to hang out....


back to topic ....I do shifiting sands shit alot sorry ....
when I met adam he told me that when things go bad and LJBF which has been rare inmy cas but due to adjustments in my game with my comfort which I dont have...and Sinn helped me with my attraction game
in the beginning with one night stand game which I love..its hardcore trial by fire...
Saffron and entropy BTspike alot....when you break rapport you have to spike BT.
He said once you get that you break rapport and build off that with preselection....
I think that is like a nuclear torpedo..but got an email from mollypianos



I got an email from mollypianos I almost fuck and she was turned on but I coudlnt close and ten looked too pushy or aggressive.... which turns women off...slow down Sandro...Slow down!

My boy called me my wing and I told him I was flying out..he is cool guy and I ve gotten to get to know him and feel that he has been though alot in pickup and being around strippers...at this point with stripper game as a practice I owe it to him ...he knows so many people and they love him..I jjust have to work hard on my game and focus on my gym and keep focused...

I know I can get good...Im almost there..I just cant keep putting excuses not to do something.

Thursday, March 26, 2009

Hooray for rejection day!

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Shattering of my world with a reality check to get success

Re-reading this interaction .......
made me think ............that I seriously..... need professional help to suceed with women....

I definately need to MAN UP ! and step up .....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=45mMioJ5szc

I feel rejected and like a failure ....so I watched this video.

OK now I got a question answered WHICH IS FKIN' COOL!

Is it healthy to take rejection and roll it off and laugh about it? Or to take it and work on yourself to get better ?- Broken Dreams NYC


Ideally, the answer would be both. We all get rejected, so we all need to deal with it.

I would say in the moment you get rejected, it's never bad to laugh it off.

Getting rejected sucks, and anything you can do to keep your spirits up in the moment is worthwhile.

I think down the road you need to analyze the situation and fix whatever caused the rejection.

What I typically do and tell students is wait until the next day.

For instance, if you go out Friday night, I wait until Saturday to think about all my sets and analyze everything or journal/write field reports.

Sleeping on it detaches your emotions from it and gives you perspective. There are a lot of times that I would be upset about bombing with some girl and then I'd wake up the next day and not care anymore and actually be able to objectively figure out what I did wrong.

Thanks!

Sunday, March 22, 2009

Reality check:OPEN heart surgery of my current status of my GAME

"Good judgment comes from experience, and often experience comes from bad judgment."
Rita Mae Brown

This is a reality on how I run my game currently .

VIEWER DISCRETION IS ADVISED

I'm scared to come off sexual needy guy, but I go direct with my intentions to get her to pull.

In the past I had the girl literally say they want to go home with me and all were aggresive women.

I have a frialty and want to fix it... this to me is like open heart surgery.

this is an example of an interaction I had... of just being in the moment and plowing.

My sticking point is comfort -close infield.

but seeing this others that Im not aware may appear.


Brief Story or overview :

I met this hired gun she is a waitress from minesota...blonde early 30's goes to school here and I met her at hr work..I number close . A week later texted her , exchanged texts kept texting me and I assume bootycall and she didnt respond or show up I act unneedy and didnt respond she was leaving next day to nicaragua one week later tonight she text me that she got back and she was in the airport. for a saturday I exchanged too many texts when I should be focused on other things assuming I could close her...something I did went wrong and I lost her interest.that something in between is my sticking point in all sets of my game..couldnt never figure out but Imgoing to break it down to find whats wrong and what I have to change.


Here is RAW deal of the interaction:

we will call her "HGblondie"

she was my waitress and I hit on her after I got my food....

Qualification:
she spoke spanish and how she learnd ......gave her a compliment and asked her.
what she went to school for... asked question and used related story
and where she from ...used cold read responded well

and got a number close...

"hey you seem pretty cool lets socially network : ) ...what best way keep in touch "

I did this feeling she wasn't that interested.

she said her phone broke and she wrote down her number, I wrote mines as well...

she said she'd call me which I know its bullshit.

I wasnt feeling it so I forgot about it ....

A week went by and for practice text her.
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me: hola blondie ; ) i got back n my friends doing a comedy show lat tonite.u should def join me after work who you think win over in a fight cat or smurfs?

4:12pm
her: haha.whos this? just changed phones n all my numbers didnt transfer. sorry?

me: OMG your terrible its me silly sandro the guy you spiled mojito all over ; P
why ? are you a flake? if you are then tough love is all you get....

4;45pm
HER:Haha.U could have just said ur name but being a flake i dont memorize every 1's numbers :)


me : I just think you think you think your a flake.haha i remebrd u too sweetie:) awww..lol! what plans you got later lets hit the show after your work it be SUPER fun!

her : 5;12pm
cant . Im in the library now. leavn 2morrow 4 break n still got stuff to do
.


5;15pm
me:REally!? you are such a herd ; ) u know whta that means right? that sounds awesome your going home somewhere sunny ? i love isce cream heres this awesome place nearby

5;30pm
me: ok herd is hot nerd ; ) im fineithr way babe i hiought u were sexy n funny. useem to want type of man to lead you ye fell in cpnteollittle excitement and spontenos is beter than boring , right?

her 5;51 pm
Hey,sorry just finished at library Im now heading 2 shower and wake up then forgot that id promised a friend id meet her 4 a drink.we hang out when i get back.

her: 5;52pm
Where did you go again? Im heading to nicaragua.

6;14pm
me: dont eat too much "gallo pinto " your ass will get too big LOL! I like it how it is now ; )

6:52pm
HER:Look at you thrown around the spanish ! you ever been 2 nic?


didnt repond to her texts my batery died...
she texted me a couple of times:

10:56 pm
HER:Are you awake?

11:23 pm
HER:I tried calling you tonight but oh well

11;37pm

HER:Call me


12;39pm

HER:Call me when you get this. I might come and say Hi depend when u call.


1;47am
HER:Call when you have a chance.where are u?

I had assume she wanted to fuck

I responded at 2:33 am saturday morining
me:Yeah wassup sexy where you at?Im partying wassup?

2:35am
me : hey sexy wassup where you at?


2:43 am
Her: 168st answer your phone! where are you?


she called me but I assumed and went to place.act like if i was drunk or booty call under the radar shit.

2:45 am me : I see ya in a bit music is too loud n bat is low...

I didnt call her cause I assume bootcall and took the risk of meeting her and getting it done.


3:00 am
ME: OK flake where are you? Im here on 168 st.

3:10 am
ME:Ok silly rabbit Im here and its cold outside...


At 3;13 am
I go there since its nearby and she doesnt pickup waited for 10 minutes and I left a voice mail message
"hey goofball, you are funny..Im tottally gonna kill you when i see ya HAHAHA : ) ...ok whatever i see ya someother time"

I felt my value droppped and I stoppd all texting or comunication . I waited to see what i could do to geet her to inves in me.logistics!?


NEXT DAY:

I was super pissed I never been in this situation yet I didnt want to come off as a Wuss and this is a chance for me to go further.I was upset she flaked and wanted to punish her by not responding and geetting her more invested and use as leverage..but didnt know where to take it or what to say.


she called twice and left this text


10 ;09 am
HER:Hey how are you i trid call u this moerning sorry about last night. I didnt tell you 2 comeover because I was in bed. anyway at the airport. call u when Im back. have a great week.


I wasnt attached but went out and furtherdo appraoches


ONE WEEK LATER:
5;44pm
her: Hey how ru? just gotback. Im sprry bout the other nite.misscomunication how was your week?

I didnt know what to say and just do comfort
ME:6:18 pm My blondie ! ; )

6:25 pm HER:haha how was your week?

6;32pm : ME:My week. had FUN!

6;35pm

ME:Youre such a goofball ned blondie :)I dont know how ur gona make it up to me? : )
how was nic trip? did you like food?

6;34 pmHer: haha.yeah food g8 nic g8 need a break from tostones! uve been to nic, yes?


6:35pm
ME:You were probably thinking of me there...causemy ears kept tingling:)@ long distance .lol.Hey I let you make it up to me. letsget a drink or something. are you busy tonight?

6:45 pm

Her: Must do school work 2nite.workn 2morrow all day.n didnt do any reading.yes- i can only imagine how much your easrs were tingling :) again have you been to nic?

7;14pm

Her: and yes gallo pinto has added an extra layer 2 my waist : )

7:45 pm
ME:Lol.I knew youd luv gallo pinto.You really shouldnt think dirty lil thoughts about what would it be like wih me ; ) tell me 3 cool things about you?dont b shy?

8:29 pm

HER:WHat?! u r crazy! 3 things..my skin is peeling , idont remmebrmeeting you and im obviously disprganized cuz i ovrpacke and this bag is damnheavy!

8:02pm

Me:Im hitting karaoke w freinds later.whats ur fav 80 song ?

8;30pm

Her:Was on subway .somany 2 choose gloria yeof the tiger yup many!

8:31pm

Her: and U?

8:37pm
ME:I think we are too much for each other ! ;) you should stay away fromme. cause you might end up liking me and i might end up liking you....

8:44pm ( jugglers GF test)
ME:Madonna def maerial boy my version LMAO. I love rock! took shower leaving the gym. what u prefer? warm bath or hot shower?

9:06 pm

HER: ugh.just finished ptn in laundry.dont even mention gym. gained 5 lbs. n lost myrunning shoes;) i get bored in baths if Im alone.shower - i luv watr pressure.u?

9:12 pm;

HER: and in regards o your rerliw comment- i dont know much about u nor do you know me .ther 4 what is ther 2 like?

I didnt know how to handled his test of congruence kept silence ignored...wanted to meete up to talk .

9:45pm

Her: u out at karaoke yet?

9:53pm
ME:I like you too blondie; )
I want to tell you something ( in spanish)......

9;54pm Her: what you want to tell me ? (in spanish)

10;06 pm :

HER : tell me please(in spanish)


10;11pm

ME:I want to ( in spanish)....

10:15pm
ME:I love to have FUN! Why are you.... (spanish)

I fuckin froze thinking what the fuck to do so ... and I wanted to go over and bang her..on saturday night.

I lost easy lays like this and I saw myslef doing the same shit now

10;15 pm HER: haha.uthought that was something bad. Im what?


10:18pm
ME: Its a very ...very BAD thing ; ) (spanish
)

10;17pm HER:Now you need to tell me 3 things about you (spanish)

10:22pm
HER:TELL ME! ( spanish)

10;23pm
ME:Im good person but can be BAD ;) theres so much pleasrue yet theres pain.It could be intense yet delightfully slow and gentle... ( in spanish)

I was seeing myself qualify but she just turned around on me...is his good or bad at this point? didnt take myself too seriously in the txt.

10;27 pm

HER:haha why are you talking in spanish


10:28pm
ME:Why arent you telling me about you?


10;30 pm

ME:OK my turn to sing!

Broke rapport like she is losing me or Im distracted

10:32pm

HER:Good luck! what do u want to know and why you avoid queations?

11:19 pm
ME:Haha . no luck neded babe , I love the doors! woo Hoo! Im hitting another place..what are you talking about WOMAN ?! ; )


11;21pm HER: WHY you always avoid questions?

11: 30pm

Me: I thought we were done talking about that? I like it whne you are aggressive ;) dont make me come down there and spank you ; ) ..what feeling do you have when you know you like a guy? ( NLP elicit value)

SHe didnt respond so I felt like i made a mistake on trying elicit value orbuild deep rapport by txt. I fuckd up like I do in sets, they react the same way and girls lose interest and either leave or attraction dies.

11;50 pm

HER: you grew up in miami right?

I felt I was losing her interest and I didnt know what to do or where to take it I felt losing her and I went honesty vunerable mode or recovey mode..this happens to me wher I try to tell the gil I like her ...I dont know but inset happens same way


11:59 pm
ME:I get where you coming from meg. I may have what your looking for but depends what you want.Im from miami,yes, ive traveled, im passionate and driven.


12:03 sun
ME:You caught me off guard now but u seem sexy,sweet and wans striong guy w sense of humour. I did think about u since my ears where tingling. but you dont want to meet up? thats just weird to me. I went over that nite to pick you up to go out w me.

Still not sure what Im doing ..obviously diggin a grave.killing all mystery by showing Im vunreable and honest.

12;05 am

HER: at 2 am?


12:10 am sun
ME: Yes! No bs. I wanted to surprise you you to come join me. woke up late and got ur txt.but I guess you had left.im unpredictable and take risks but thats who i am

I was obviously lying not to make her fell like a slut and didnt control

12;09 amHER: I met u when i was at work.how do u know what I want ?n i didnt spill almost spill ur mojito did i?


12;17 am sun
ME:I can tell by we briefly spoke that maybe there was more o you than being just pretty face...you rembr.
Yes U did? I wantd to see u but no big deal.

12;20 CALLED HER and didnt leave a message


12:37 am
ME: Hey? can we talk ?

I was losing control and wanted to gain it back by talking

12;47

HER:I just got out of the shower. u left a msg? randomly i just remebree that I met a sandy th wek b4 i met u n got confused i do remmebr the nite we met.

12;48 HER: so i appologixze with losing my phone igot confused dont know why what 2 say and i will call you tomorw whenI feel less dumbas,ok?

I got upset..and wanted to show dominance

12:51 am
ME:Babeshut up ! Shut up right now! Stop it! ....

12:59 am
ME:Iam that guy you thought about all this time...I ilike you too ablondie ;) its normal wanting to have sex so dont hide it babe, its fine its normal
.

try to set the frame : sex is normal frame to go towards it but this seem like same like infield problem


1;07am

HER:YEah, done txting you tonite. you are too much for a sane woman to handle.

last attempt to throw in ....
1:33 am
ME:What ur saying is turning me on babe. I want to com over and put you to bed like a good girl with BAD girl manerisms ; )


GAME OVER

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Saturday, March 21, 2009

accepting frames texts and phone game

i got text by gired gun "minnesota blondie"
is the fist time I tried investment game.

2nd time I used frames with someone over text.

Sexual framing is powerful if you use emotional icons and be funny...

"its like emotions are like a drug"

she gave me the fake bootycall and now she has invested and even disqualifed herself to me then I takeaway silent and reinsciate framing she like me and I like her too...

it can annoy the girl if she isnt attracted....

but its woeking and Ive fucked it up before where the girlwanted a date and I fucked up d2.

awaken helped me once and his game is tight...

to recover but then I got to disapointed at her flakyness and she plowed and I couldnt be decissive and tak action to close ...

anyways like my boy told me "just do it and if you messed up remebr your mistake"

My friend nothern nights also saw some text i excahnged before and he said I was dong well..

Im going out now ..my best frind natural is sick so Im going to local places to appraochand then SNL game.

Ive been winging it by myself solo.

having alot of FUN.

will report back.

strawberry shotcake hasnt reponded but set went well

review number close and obsevation topics

i could have gone insta date and didnt qualify enough

need to elicit more iois from her with bait

write up templates so i dont have to over think shit...

If I get a d2 with her I be my money its a close...

Friday, March 20, 2009

FR: last night and Daygame successful direct approach!

after I wrote Fr: I went out...yeah I saw girls by themselves last night couldnt approach too much in my head...
went to strip club to hang with my friend and we went to cafeteria...I heard him do late night booty call phone game...yes Im learning : )

we hit diner then did sunway station game and talked

gave me advice:

since I had scalation issues or noticedmistakes on missed opportunity
" Dont think what youre gonna do , just do it and dont worry"

"if you made a mistake just remmebr you made a mistake, its the peice you pay to get good"


afterwards we talked and abit and saw a fat girl looking for an atm he was disgusted and I wanted to open for shits and giggles hahah but I went home....

I couldnt sleep cause wak up early it was 5 am

went downtown......

Hey I love daygame

had social anxiey so decided to do excersizes

opened 8 sets street took me a long time...

flirted with HP girl times square

flirted with girl food place

went to main campus

opened 2 girls for directions

and opend 2 more girls got 2 number closes
1- tease opener ended with a hug "seatle daddy girl"
2-direct opener "doc holliday style" on strawberry shortcake

but my phone game needs tunning...

sticking point is timebridging, need create more tension,number close better.

number close from night and day is different....

flirted with the girl at the counter supermarket...

15 appraoches today...

I missed my bus to miami and texted "straberry shortcake"

to meet up cute girl and no response.

wil run phone game will see whats up?

"seatle daddy girl" open with tease she hugged me at the end super attraced my phone fucking died and saw me after talking with "strawberry shotcake"

MY PHONE DIED!

review number close and give nickname

text game

review my last SDL strategy

Thursday, March 19, 2009

FR; a week of 30 day challenge... tired as fuck

some dude said :

Recomended to every begginer together with Magic Bullets and Routine Book + something about learning process like Sinn's Game Acceleration Doctrine and Brad P Forbidden Truth and you will be rockin' in one year.

Ive been going out and didnt have internet and sarged tonight I was super tired and have to meet up with an attorney early so didnt go out.

Im doing the RSD 30 day challenge

FR: straight days

had fun but money is issue,practiced and momentum is so key girls want to meet in the moment no d2's...

go LMR and lost it so I reviewing damage control .

anyways , gain some lose some....

I wrote up 2 times and lost my internet connection so they were deleted....

Im sad to see Doc leave ...

st patty was beautiful packed with orange hair girls ...

nice!


Im not about it, yes its a skill not want anything but i know one has to lead...
plus I get AMOGed alot..

" HEy what are you doing ? "

so the 30 day challenge is tiring and last night didnt go out cause I was with my close friend who is leaving soon.my best friend. natural


so I got to review and go back ....

I put up awaken's site... as I mentioned before he is day game KING!

He is super good but I like the concept of SNL's and momenum at night game as well.

He helped me alot .. I mean alot I couldnt approach shit on street.

Other than retired Doc , I cant see anyone coming close to Awaken...

check him out and his cool audio...

His site is on the right side bar of this blog.....

Im out!

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

FR: day 3challenges missed 6 snl's

Im meeting alot of girls from out of town and missed clear shots for SNL's

I read ELtopo 's shaft subpersonalitys and this is what is good

Monday, March 16, 2009

FR:challenge day 3 and sticking points

I went out for 3 days and



Monday after improv tried topull a girl from subway...was super close that went out after wards and went to college bar near school.

she was only girl there at 3 am solo, and guys started hovering afte I approached.didnt amog properly and I lost her but kept plowing and testing material till I got blown out and told her I wanted to fuck her in the ass and she said she liked that but she doesnt do ons...BS!!!!

that fucked e over WTF she say hat and shes in bar 3 am. not part of my reality....





first night missed SNL due not enough attraction and didnt geet her invested enough.

my kino s good but verbal isnt that good.

stop rapport seeking behavoiurr idiot!



had sex with a FB "snuggle bunny" I call her once every other week shes like 22 halflibanese and sicialian.

ran comfort and cosmo routine... that was rewarding nookie : D





Friday:



was fake booty call from a hired gun I number closed did AFC adam's technique and had her text me like crazy asking me where Im at and she wanted to come she me..I did CJ text game and went to her appt and she didnt pu phone. she text me next day cause she was leaving to 3rdworld country and told me she didnt invite me over....whatever I assumed it... called my wing VA guy he is advanced..super advanced yet his style is different attract women super fast.hanged out w him and missed out on afterparty cause y phone died..some hooker approached me for drugs..Im not into drugs.



Saturday :

went w hotel couldnt open shit got opend by cougar at bar horny as fuck she ended up leaving with bouncer...

2 other missed opportunitys that I couldnt do dance floor game and gotstuck in spectator mode

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Starting off my Challenge

I spoke to my friend Awaken, and he was talking to me about certain issues.
He has been super busy coaching here in nyc.
I was supposed to go to miami but due to certain circumstances I will be forced to stay..that can be a good thing btw.

Today I appraoched and I found myself with somesort of social anxiety . Some girls where all dressed up sexy and I opened but didnt take it anywhere, they later laughed cause they obviously noticed.
I gamed a hired gun..I find them super easy I guess being exposed to strippers..you use their rapport seeking to your advantage (credit: Sinn)

I rembered Brad P no longer nyc...had this Social freedom thing, So I considering starting my challenge for 30 days and recording them...AWaken will help me and my friend who is a VA instructor as well...other guys Ive asked for help have asked a ton of money which I totally understand, this is a business...

I have had all this info in my head and gone out and this has its ups and downs...

JK Ellis aka danalion joness also encouraged me to push myself to be out there to close.
His sorta mindset is dark but has help me dealing wih difficult situations.

Brad P s awesome about social freedom- I freakin care too much when I go out.

So I will go out and appraoch

DAY -street GAME stack

SNL venue STack

Night game stack

hired guns and strippers game as warm up and wont count until I close : )
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AFc ADams exposing to it by appraoching and going out...

Sinn says to do 1,000 sets....
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I like Brad P's stuff is golden in terms of pumping the muscle towards being a bad ass in the game.

I will contact my friends to help with my challenge!

Brad from RSD credits doing a 30 day challenge that got him to geting good....