Wednesday, January 22, 2014

killing your inner ego dialog..self sabotage we hide from ourselves and others

Ironically, you begin to recognize that the stillness holds all solutions. As you awaken from this hypnotic slumber, your inherently powerful and creative presence is targeted for deactivation by the mind. Since the inner essence of you is complete in and of itself, needing nothing outside itself for a sense of completion, anything added is by the part of the mind that is in a chronic state of needing and wanting: the ego. As was discussed previously, the ego is concerned with selfseeking and upholding its identity. As normal as this may seem in our culture, an enlightened being does not concern himself with his reputation and other people’s opinions (opinions that arise from their egoic minds). By its very nature, the egoic mind structure can never, ever be satisfied for any length of time because it is comprised of a false identity without any foundation. It virtually exists to find myriad ways to enhance itself and to use egoic reflection via others’ compliments and by trying to stand out and become special in order to sustain itself. this is something Golden I found by Lisette Larkins... My friend Laurel told me once when I was worried about something that self sabotage was Your mind EGO wants to kill you...you neeed to fight it, need to fight that self sabotage with action and positivity towards what you know is right for you and what makes you happy.. this EGO wants to keep you stagnant and that EGO isnt who you are.. its trying to kill you." we get overwhelmed with sadness and grief about things and its normal for few days and then we have to regroup and move forward. Anything in Life isnt worth going for isnt EASY ..like my friend who runs a fortune 500 company "if it was easy everybody would be rich". Let this be of motivation to you to avoid ttraps in your head when you need to get something done and want something. at that point with this knowledge that the voice of EGO is become FEARLESS like 50cent in his book.

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Re reading 2014 edition of Franco's Seduction Manual part 1

I must say that I need to get a fresh read since Ive been out of this for few weeks. and this is like a muscle...you have to be consistent and persistent in very very efficient way. re reading the manual NEW version is refrshing cause its for midlevel to advance readers. it has real meaning of hope for what guys go through searching for success in this like pulling out of your pocket fell 100s stacked. thats how you feel when you get this..thing woman game thing seduction. Knowing the guy isnt just a pickup artist but someone who has experience with women in a way that keeps a man sane. THATS IMPORTANT. cause I have more value into myself and my Life ..reading this empowers me ... I read the manual before mainly oneitis chapter whcih now revisted new version...and playboy's lifestyle of MLTRS. really I think Franco puts his many years into this and worth the pay and even shoot him an email. so far Im in first 2 chapters again...I like to re read them to confirm in my mind now that I have this high self esteem. something swinggcatt calls "the prize". siwnggcatt is excellent as well and will talk about his stuff waaay back how when I started my mission.

New approach to online game

I will try a new approach to online game to fit my schdule. alot of guys waste too much time on computer and then in some sense really goes nowhere. Guys like blackdragon know there stuff like second nature cause they do everyday. I really trying to implement multi tasking in correct way since I have personal obligations with school work and examinations; health rest and organization I feel new found level of confidence I will dicuss later at another post is to be exploited to the fullest. I have been screening cock teases and really dropping girls I can go fuck but I need to level it up on notch and on my terms. aside of hotter girls but more level headed than freks who are in some ways a boring fuck... I think like CJ said Captain Jack PUA "its better to sacrifice going home with a regular girl to immprove your art to get what you want". I feel in some sense more I dont give a fuck bitch cause Im happy and successful with myself in Life...mentality VS how do I get this girls? oh she likes me,,oh she gave me her number and overthinking it .... Now its about the FLOW.. and her investing... I am sujper surprised Adam Lyons doesnt talk anymore about the GOLD investment theory he used to teach cause his former coaches ahave really taken real piece from it and basterdized the thoery. The pimp thoery does well with this adding real value to adams early work. I am changing my approach cause Im happy and dont want a relationship LTR but want to enjoy women variety comes with it.. I might be more subtle and direct in some ways but Im screening whos in and whos out... I used this before when girls try to act non slutty and get them to show me naughty side ala California pimp Net video girls... (if you get a chance go and buy your subscription and enjoy it.) My new approach is effieciency and screening and setting frame of relationship very subtle... no more breakthrough comfort for now...its alot of work and not fair to women..cause that works so well its hard to get them off from you. New year new approach. like Partition beyonce

Monday, January 20, 2014

how tv and watching sports makes you a spectator in life

I have been lately under the weather and that is no excuse 2 still think about tomorrow and responsibilities as a man has to do with every day.whether it's paying the bills or go to work it's definitely what you make of your life. Another thing I want to do is about responsibility with yourselfand that is if you work very hard in life meaning your job your career and planning a certain things that are coming for you in life then you deserve a break or rest sometimes we will work our souls and we there and off with a lot of stress and we as me as a person I'm used to working very hard being focused on the principles of a winnermy mind forced me to rest to rest even though I wanted to go out the force myself to go out of body was fighting against it in some ways it was demanding rest so I decided to rest my mind and my body to regroup myself for fresh ideas and moving forward this avoids getting frustrated and planning strategically because without planning is basically living life without anye real success in mind positivity positivity has nothing to do with action or outcome if you dont have a stage ready to work. meaning we have to start taking a lot of action in our lives in being very proactive if you are watching too much TV and watching too much sports that means that you are being more of a spectator and that isn't good that's not a good habit of house if you want to be someone successful with women you have to start creating your life in a way that you are the most important thing and that you dictate happiness and relaxation advice that way you will be fine the way you were treated and the Wii you will attract other women in yourlife. people give up snd settle for paycheck or easy money..tjats mentality of giving up on yourself. stop being spectator and do something. Get your shit straight fic your room or apt your house your car your hair your teeth your smell..start investing time in yourself then hou will be ready to meet women and attract without hesitation.your high level self worth will ignite your spirit. thats how you wanna be.fight to het there cause it will be rewarding.

Friday, January 17, 2014

REPRINT of Whats #1 in your Life before anything , woman women sex anything is this !!!! thanks badboy

Get Your Priorities Straight ...Today I see lots of guys in the Seduction Community make the same mistake over and over, regarding where their priorities are... Namely, letting pickup take over their life. Guys spend all their time reading forums, downloading more and more material, studying every guru's philosophy and eventually it becomes their whole life. Guys start to look at the world as one big sarge and lose the ability to act like a normal person with friends and other priorities in their life. This is why so many guys you meet in the community are fucking weird. There are plenty of great guys in it, but also a lot of weirdos. Make an effort to be a normal person before being a mPUA... You'll be happier. Pickup should be just one of the hobbies you have. Don't spend more than 2-3 days a week on it and don't spend all your free time trolling the internet for more info... Learn what you need to to so that you are getting results but then just go out and have fun, go to the gym, do some reading, play sports, learn something new... Girls love guys with a genuinely good lifestyle which is why guys who obsess over only pickup are actually hurting their chances with girls. What they are doing is putting women and their need for validation above all other things and the gaping void that forms in their life because of this will be subcommunicated eventually and drive girls away. This is a horrible dynamic to create in your life. Sitting in front of a computer, reading forums and spending hours worrying about what opener to use is the worst lifestyle you can have. Your pursuit of women should be a small facet of your overall well developed lifestyle; not vice-versa. Go out and make some friends. Real friends. Not just community guys. It's stupid if all the people you hang out with are community guys. If you do so, you are limiting yourself from all that life has to offer Starting out, of course take a workshop to get you on the level where you can continue to progress by yourself, then take community guys(wings), and train with them during the 2-3 days a week you dedicate to gaming. Other than that, make sure you have a balanced, interesting, fulfilling life and you will get much better results than if you spend 20 hours a week “studying” pickup. Start doing this today. Enjoy, BadBoy

Thursday, January 16, 2014

Changes in shift on quality shifting vs gaming #s

once you are aware of things and get away from nerviousness and reframe as adrenaline rush to good feelings of excitement. then you are ready I have now ignored some girls I see contantly...and even the main one. new ones and some I now get texts from random is to improve quality. 2014 is more about I have the skill and now lets improve quality of girls and what Franco calls it "silent killer instinct" for smoother seductions and quicker screenings. when I mean screenings I mean girls Im not compatible with me or have relationship with me. but to get to that you must have balls and self worth with yourself alone. without never ever verbalize. thats secret. girl can come and you can start great convo.. she isnt your type then you can use as social proof and leave it. Ive done that with my friend wing brian pullman from tacoma. Ive opend by instinct and what triggers more attraction is when that isntinct and her reacting to insticnts match then now what you say needs tonned down and your vibe to fuck needs to be relax yet sensual not sexual. so its like a dance together. slow and then lead to end. like gene simmons says different busioness close than woman close..totally oposite

Golden Globes...characters ,actors and social setting observations PART 1 rambles

seriously is everyone there was nervous of each other.. like when you go out to a club or bar.. when you come in notice everyione there is insecure person thats your advantage thats when you are already self validated can go and not care yet be cool and friendly model like bradbley cooper he follow certain persuasuon technique from NLP like anchors. when he is alone his subcoms is noticable different... when he is with a woman he smiles and already tries to laugh to whatever it is she is saying therefore creating good vibe and he touches,.anchours. to all women he does this and comes off charasmatic. thres more like leonardio di caprio but its more of Im alpha and im the best .. which is OK, but remember we live in social society to mingle.. shuts off people , but when leo is in character and not alone he is more lively..when in real person seems closed off and comes off arrgant or insecure of talking to people. theres fine line. you also see women, women hot arent hot.. women get old they try harder. younger women are more value cause they are young. that brings them looks HB 9 and 10 older hot yet smart and good girl self esteem can be HB 9 and 10. both these need men to not praose her but to treat her like she belongs to a man and handle her. like a lady tiger and a tamer.

Mystery Method works but no verbatim.. hint

NEGS NEgs are done non verbal and subtle to reinforce behaviour. DHV neeed to come out more like conveying comonality without try hard now that she mentioned it..blah blah blah