Saturday, November 12, 2011

manipulation from behavioural management what I learned now

Im revealing some concepts I learned unconciously which is and are taught in dentistry particularly pediatrics.
PLEASE DO NOT SHARE THIS WITH ANYONE!
I have noticed my friend natural has been getting great success and I modeled him while I was in NY.
I realize now I treat here in miami on days I treat kids with a specialized lady Dentist who is pediatric, she explained
BEHAVIOUR MANAGEMENT
this is not pscycology or BS NLP.
This is practical things which work by manipulating the truth from children to get a needle shot in their mouth.
it is against their will  (as in LMR in women wanting sex but afriad)
but they need dental treatment so Dr. is responsible to provide to the child, so the child's will is overide more by the Dr than even the parent can do.
teeth has cavity = infection =pain  =consequences
so Dr. has to maintain the goal eventhough the obstacle of the childs behaviour without FORCE.
these are a few
:
A    :ART of Distraction =similar to magician's choice and magic's  sleight of hand.
B:     Positive reinforcement= soemthign you talk to me about before selling the positve frame.
C: Short answers  (attention span is always short,dont be an idiot ) Never direct always INDIRECT either 2 things:
                                     1- frame positive and decribe  and NEVER GIVE TRUTH!
                                     2- FRAME control by " I will tell you in abit "....and change subject or "let me look to find out".."we will see in abit" and do it anyway
D:  NEVER RESPOND DIRECTLY,Manipulate the truth always. NEVER say I will take out the tooth, the kid will be non complaint and scream with FEAR.
E: Reward alwyays good behaviour to build complaince
F: Change wording like
needle = mosquito bite  or sleepy juice ,
analgesic paste =sleepy paste,
mouth prop to maintain the mouth open is called  PILLOW
X-ray is called PICTURE.
This gives them a chance not to resist from you escalating or moving forward with your intentions.
INTENTIONS ARE ALWAYS HIDDEN BUT ON OUTSIDE , TRUST MUST BE MAINTAINED.
G: When they ask a question or are concerned about something
your response to her concerns should be to BUILD TRUST not to HURT the TRUST.
if TRUST is LOST, you are done and will be dealing with a non compliant person.
NO RETURNING BACK FROM THAT. you would be creating an obsacle made by yourself.
H. If they are being resistant and interuppting  you use subcommunication to control the frame.to demonstrate that you are the BOSS
her: " but wait what if it is going to hurt ?"
D : you talk in Firm voice not upset " you are going to have to stop asking me for now...I will tell you later let me find out ," then transition to the procedure while you distract the patient into other topic or describing while you inject needle.
NOTE: Need more examples here will ask Dr.
subcommunication should be  I can not respond to you when you want ,do what I want and then I will respond to your question when I feel its right time,
GOOD BEAHVIOUR = COMPLYING
NOT COMPLYING = BAD BEHAVIOUR
E:
Theres a techinique that is prohibited ,not used anymore is called HOME technique , hand  over mouth and whisper into the ear with calm FIRM voice then remove.and be nice to her.
this is dominance and calm leadership. use with discretion.
CONCLUSION
Always  have the mindset to close.
this doesnt mean force it means being smart about it,
if you can use means to get it without force and make them give it to you rather than take,then you have made things easier for yourself..
Always say what reinforces TRUST.
Before you say something think the REASON WHY they are asking or WHY you are saying , for what purpose and how this will help you move forward  and help you in your GOAL and  intentions.
NEVER RESPOND DIRECTLY,always .manipulate the trust, you arent wrong. this keeps you in charge.Dont make it obvious that you are lying,use body language to reinforce and voice tone.always be aware of this.

clooney tried to use behaviour child management on his ex

I think that the EX of clooney, that italian model chick is probably saying a half truth about clooney.

Clooney isnt goodlooking guys, really he isnt.
its the style he portrays in movies, oceans eleven and up in the air characters (both are awsome movies btw)

he doesnt even dress like them in real life.

but I realize that to dominate a chick or control a girl in a relationship is to treat her like a child.

you are always leading and assume to her that whatever regardless what you do and order her to follow...is for her own good.

this is definate frame of control.
women unconciously like this, even if they have daddy issues, this makes this even deadly tactic.

combine this with psycology of addiction and screening girls. and you can have a woman who would do anything and get her to serve towards your purpose without ever using FORCE.

this is something I wasnt going to post but I figure on writing a glimpse for thouse who know what Im taking about know this what I say works.

Im not even talking about NLP, NLP is waaay overated.

this is real life shit right here.

how excesize affects me in my inner game and results w women

Guys, I recently stopped going to the gym due to hectic schedule. I can say that I feel strong but my mood is different,Im inside my head more, I overthink instead of looking for solutions or taking action. I think this plays alot in any Man's Life that exercise is potential to your results with women. you can get laid here or there using "pua routines" here and there but it wont go anywhere and it wont be as consistent, this is common and frustrating thing for guys.
Im glad Jesse puts in alot of value and importance of exercise.

I am not making this up,I feel that these are what lead to deep hole if you aren't exercising , more you will end up in a head game and being lazy.not pushing yourself in any area of life,maybe even victim from being pushed around.

I noticed this change and Im definately going to go to sign up at another gym near me,since Im not getting private trainer any longer cause I feel I can continue myself to save money and push myself a bit more.I dont have a spot nor do I have buddies to train with me at that time since I have hectic irregular schedule.

dont listen to gurus or dating experts who say looks dont matter. Looks do matter guys, they do and more you improve in yourself and invest in yourself in your looks and improving all around, the more self confident you are and you will realize we set our own limitations in Life.

so guys Im not Arnold the governator nor am I being paid to day this but go out and exercise more often as you can.
watch how you will create self discipline and self respect for yourself.
Women will catch this and will want to be with you, for unknown reasons....

really its happened to me before. Do it and dont turn back.

clear your head and exercise

Quote:
Exercise: 7 benefits of regular physical activity
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By Mayo Clinic.com

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No. 1: Exercise controls weight

Exercise can help prevent excess weight gain or help maintain weight loss. When you engage in physical activity, you burn calories. The more intense the activity, the more calories you burn. You don't need to set aside large chunks of time for exercise to reap weight-loss benefits. If you can't do an actual workout, get more active throughout the day in simple ways — by taking the stairs instead of the elevator or revving up your household chores.

No. 2: Exercise combats health conditions and diseases

Worried about heart disease? Hoping to prevent high blood pressure? No matter what your current weight, being active boosts high-density lipoprotein (HDL), or "good," cholesterol and decreases unhealthy triglycerides. This one-two punch keeps your blood flowing smoothly, which decreases your risk of cardiovascular diseases. In fact, regular physical activity can help you prevent or manage a wide range of health problems and concerns, including stroke, metabolic syndrome, type 2 diabetes, depression, certain types of cancer, arthritis and falls.

No. 3: Exercise improves mood

Need an emotional lift? Or need to blow off some steam after a stressful day? A workout at the gym or a brisk 30-minute walk can help. Physical activity stimulates various brain chemicals that may leave you feeling happier and more relaxed. You may also feel better about your appearance and yourself when you exercise regularly, which can boost your confidence and improve your self-esteem.

No. 4: Exercise boosts energy

Winded by grocery shopping or household chores? Regular physical activity can improve your muscle strength and boost your endurance. Exercise and physical activity deliver oxygen and nutrients to your tissues and help your cardiovascular system work more efficiently. And when your heart and lungs work more efficiently, you have more energy to go about your daily chores.

No. 5: Exercise promotes better sleep

Struggling to fall asleep? Or to stay asleep? Regular physical activity can help you fall asleep faster and deepen your sleep. Just don't exercise too close to bedtime, or you may be too energized to fall asleep.

No. 6: Exercise puts the spark back into your sex life

Do you feel too tired or too out of shape to enjoy physical intimacy? Regular physical activity can leave you feeling energized and looking better, which may have a positive effect on your sex life. But there's more to it than that. Regular physical activity can lead to enhanced arousal for women. And men who exercise regularly are less likely to have problems with erectile dysfunction than are men who don't exercise.

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Exercise and physical activity can be a fun way to spend some time. It gives you a chance to unwind, enjoy the outdoors or simply engage in activities that make you happy. Physical activity can also help you connect with family or friends in a fun social setting. So, take a dance class, hit the hiking trails or join a soccer team. Find a physical activity you enjoy, and just do it. If you get bored, try something new.

The bottom line on exercise

Exercise and physical activity are a great way to feel better, gain health benefits and have fun. As a general goal, aim for at least 30 minutes of physical activity every day. If you want to lose weight or meet specific fitness goals, you may need to exercise more. Remember to check with your doctor before starting a new exercise program, especially if you have any health concerns.
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"I've only had two rules.

Do all you can and do it the best you can.
It's the only way you ever get that feeling of accomplishing something."
-Colonel Sanders KFC


Action will destroy your procrastination.- Og Mandino

"From a woman’s POV, if a man does not know how to physically take care of himself, he will NEVER be able to take care of her"-MK 

love this quote

Here are more lines from Sanders' manuscript:
  • "I've only had two rules. Do all you can and do it the best you can. It's the only way you ever get that feeling of accomplishing something."
  • "I've read hundreds of cookbooks. For my money they are the bird."
  • Some of his recipes "are worth more than all the imported recipes, with names an ordinary man or woman can't even pronounce, put together."
  • "The way I see it, if you've bought this book, you've bought yourself a bargain."
  • "I'm making room in these pages for real old-time American country and farm cooking before it's forgotten. I was a farm boy and lean toward farm cooking. To me, my recipes are priceless."