Friday, January 30, 2009

My way of "cheating" AA to warm up

Hey I woke up and did vocal excersizes, I also sang like practicing for karaoke which helps a bit as warm ups...

I wrote up to a couple of online biaches which my online game experimentation...

Once again Entropy kicks ass with his personalized game theory...I believe you should stick with what works for you.

Sinn explains it brilliantly in his Game Doctrine ebook...its also one of the reasons to work more into myself and not focus entirely on too much theory...

Sinn as an excellent instructor he is , gave a couple of excersizes inn his SNL course...

One of which I took and made it to work on different levels instead of one objective...

"I like to turn one fish and multiply it as much as I can" concept

Remember I am more of a "keep it simple" type of guy...

I failed and got confused as a newbie, and I still consider myself a newbie to keep working at it...
cause of all these PUA terminology I found confusing in the beginning.

Its like reading a book on skateboarding and it tells you how to manuver the "ollie"
or whatever.

DUDE! You aren't going to go out there and freakin get it right! C'mon!

I support that coaching or taking a bootcamp is ALWAYS good!.... and make the effort to work with the BEST!

So I give credit to Sinn on this concept I came up with based on the stripper game excersizes to coop with my AA or sexual anxiety when I see an attractive woman ....

Note:
Im not scared of guys btw or mixed sets.I'm normal guy and not a nerd, so this might or might not work for you...


My version of "WARM UP STRIPPER EXCERSIZE "

I might change the name of this concept and call it the

"Dennis Rodman game warm up"

I love basketball and Dennis Rodman is badboy and wanna be rockstar.

He was running stripper auditions during New Year in Miami.

So....

We want to accomplish pushing ourselves to open, and interact with beautiful women..apearing without any agenda in the beginning... GET YOURSELF IN STATE !

For me , this makes it a big difference when you are progressively keeping yourself motivated...that's what keep the guys coming from a bootcamp from losing that edge.


I go to a strip club, run basic hired gun game or act uninterested in a sexual way but....

RUN HIGH END EYE CONTACT.
BREATHE NORMALLY under pressure while you are talking to a beautiful woman.
RELEASE ALL AT ONCE THE STRESS under social pressure.
Practice Your Sexual Attractive Body language -which it to show you are attractive man.
ACT CONFIDENT and qualify her, try something you wouldn't do if you were at a club doing your first set of the night on a HB 10...
THEY will come to You, this will eliminate the burden of you making up
EXCUSES-the 1# ENEMY of SUCCESS
TALK YOUR ASS OFF-you are there to practice not only to enjoy yourself but use the venue to your advantage,the way you dress, carry yourself will differ from the perv customers.run verbal game do takeaways without pissing her off from stripper mode ,if she pushes you to tip her or something dont be a LOSER and do what CHUMPS in there do.Run ignore game and ignore her stupid remark,you gainj more by practicing verbal game and being challenge while going beyond and thats the focus point of the excersize.

Dont go everyday or something like that, this is only when you fell down or rusty will get you back and refreshed, dont over do it ,it may be habit forming.

LAST BUT NOT LEAST, PRACTICE!

It doesn't matter is she is really into you or not ...

Who the fuck cares?!

Its how YOU feel ,Your MINDSET....YOUR STATE.

Its why its called a WARM UP.


WHOA!

I think this is way better than other guys stuff on getting into state but whatever

DO IT and watch what happens after you leave the club...

Go directly to a bar or to a club nearby and open immediately to first girl you see and keep your momentum going..remmeber what you are doing is fooling your beliefs that you are comfortable and warmed up to be with attractive women..women will catch this about you or even smell it on you..LOL!

Notice how you are not nervous cause hey you were with a more attractive woman, what makes you special?

YOU say that in your head and you will naturally and effortlessly start to qualify her....

(this is because you are acting uneedy while beinginterested in her as a woman,you leave the strip club all horny by seeing these hot chicks with their bodies of course its natural for you to be horny lol so the effects are like its a motivator in one side masculine sexual stilmulus plus the selective uneediness blah blah bla

Its a very vague concept but Hey ,When it works, Stick with it .period.

This way you are like the ultimate male in your head,whatever that means to you...for me it is like a RockStar...a Rockstar dentist!

COOL!

try it and leave your comment...


sandro

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Recreating yourself in "Creative" ways

Like many guys in this I started off ,
where Ive been a KJ learning techniques ..but with absolutely nothing to back it up.
So its about learning and putting it infield... where it belongs in practice.

I read BadBoy's post on Getting Priorities Straight
http://www.theattractionforums.com/discussion/40454-get-your-priorities-straight-today.html


We should be doing things for us, empower ourselves,guys like David D said:

"Always be evolving"

"Work on yourself and not on women".

Are my focus to be empowered ? Or only "score"?I think it should be all but also be someone I always wanted to be.

Natural Tim mentions being "Creative" and example of it on how he views his world of coolness.

All of these are examples on how you can work on yourself , your life and making something cool out of it , interesting.

I was looking at my DHV props , one of them is a painting I made when I was in the hospital since I didn't have my ipod there, I put it as my background on my phone.

I illustrated how music sounds to me when I close my eyes-as I'm inclined musically and artistically inspired by it.

I ask the girl what she thinks it meant : asking her opinion and her interpretation on it as a qualifier not as a rapport seeking question of approval. I then transition to a story either how I had my drums set when I was a kid and till this day I love drums and rock n roll. Or number close since the phone is already out. sneaky huh?

Its so cool that DHVing is mostly show a sneak peek about yourself in short time span therefore demonstrating Natural attractive qualities as mentioned by Sinn.

Its you, who you are...its just how to properly do it with out bragging.

I liked how El Topo gave an example of something from my real life and turned it into an arsenal...this guy has talent, its sick dude seriously.He is one of the MOST creative person I've ever met. Remember the quote :

It is your work in life that is the ultimate seduction.- Pablo Picasso

What El Topo teaches ,is making Your Life, a tool for seduction.


How fuckin powerful is that? wow!!!


So since Im a resident student with nothing really to show I decided to write up a list things and work on them...
I wanted to do in my fun time developing my persona, my strength, my character.

I'm actually not the best looking, in lean shape or wealthy...so creating something is very challenging.

I read once in Johnny Wolf's blog about how they have most challenging group of guys to teach at their bootcamps ....hats off to them cause I saw myself as one of those guys not long ago...with almost nothing for the instructors to work with.

So I'm working on myself : )

Ive met several women , but my preference is :

white women, big tits,either blonde or red hair with freckles ...or...

thick asian girls w booty LOL.

We'll really Im just a horny motherfucker ha!

My best friend is 6ft tall green eyes muscular build, we did residency together and cool fkin guy. He is into Latin women ....I guess that's why we get along so well.

( Im not talking about a former PU 101 instructor w golden looks.LOL)

I remember first time we went out, he got a ONS.
This is before I knew anything about anything (seduction community) back in Nov. 07.

Girls were wanting to play darts with us we were the party, then other girls were coming on to us too SOCIAL PROOF and another girl that went to the bathroom was jealous -
JEALOUSY PLOT
( so many girls I lost count).

I kept pulling him to help me talk with one with friends and the jealous lone wolf girl told him
"let's go now or never", she took him home.

I was alone like chode.I then tried to keep talking with a chode mistake of asking
"hey where you from?"
she said "Africa "lol.
she wasn't obviously from there and left.

I've seen several shit like that were girls are pulling guys,guys are hovering around them like when the female dog is in heat and the group of dogs are behind her.

I was soo frustrated I wrote a FR on it, someone then recommend reading an article and
that's when my reality blew when I saw girls being this aggressive and read TD's secret society.

I plan to avoid being the chump chode hoovering and go for it...


You know how Captain Jack mentions "Be your own guru."

From being shy awkward guy , to then being super social after getting my first ever make out in a club in mehow's bootcamp ...

I want to leverage my stereotype to build my game around me.
In other words work with what I have and build it from there.

Sinn's Game Doctrine blew me away cause we have been all guilty of experimenting all types of stuff and stay stagnant.
This is like Micheal Jordan telling you how to become
"AiR Jordan".

Entropy's Personalizing Pickup or "personalized" game which he posted in his blog is great how to apply PU into you who you are,
you should check it out btw ... no wonder he is the one of the BEST PUA's in Boston....
He is tied with Doc Holliday! HaHa!

I've dropped from using some canned online stuff cause I felt I came off incongruent and too friendly on what I wanted to present myself as...sexual and dominant man.

Going back into what Sinn explains in his youtube vids,
I started reading Nancy Friday's My Secret Garden.

I was looking for it on audiobook to listen and didn't find it,(?) but I figured if they were to do it ,
it'd be like Verbal intercourse and by listening it would get them all wet ...imagine that.

I'm also looking into reading Latin Lovers female fantasies to set a strong sexual identity :
http://www.diesel-ebooks.com/cgi-bin/item/parent-9781426813313/Latin-Lovers-Bundle-eBook.html


Its something I will put myself in,being that guy,who I am .... sexworthy man.
This will build into my frame,mindset and non verbals into one strong identity I want to see myself as....

In the works are:
I'm searching for a new apt , schedule my classes dance, martial arts within university.

comedy stuff is off schedule so thats in the works...

Working on my voice with the excersizes and working out at the gym.

I was thinking in the subway about going back to playing drums or involved in music while
listening to Velvet revolver's Slither, one of favs songs ... at the strip club too.
but seriously after seeing a picture my mom found when I was 7 with my Muppets Animal drum set and my sister singing....wait! that's another prop .lol


Sounds like alot of stuff and no time for PU right?

Well I remembered what CJ said once about that...


sandro

Monday, January 26, 2009

New Year in Full gear!

I'm happy for 2009, it will be a hell of a ride for sure... and its up to you to make it worth while. Its YOUR responsibility to make yourself happy...here are my goals and stuff I want to do

NO EXCUSES!!!

1)Perfecting the PU skill- Perfect practice makes perfect, I will push myself to limits to get better.Dedicate more time infield than reading.Some of the best PU instructors out there suggest this mindset of learning by being more time infield then coming back to learn by timing it ,reading up and going back out there .Ive been helped by some of the BEST in the world and some I consider them good mentor and friend. Combination of being FUN, Social and Dominant!
I like reading rejection article by Entropy, everytime I come home after shitty night, I feel I'm making progress.

2) GYM and Martial Arts - I'm overweight cat and Ive been in the GYM and I want to take on MMA as a new hobby.As my physical traits looks better identifying with a rough rugged look with sharp suaveness...its sick! Entropy's Post motivated to building my "passive value" game and most importantly my well being.

3)Comedy and Improv- I was shy kid but always made people laugh, one of my patients that works with a famous comedian told me I should give it a shot, so its definitely in this list to develop my natural ability to be funny in the right moments,not taking anything seriously...
Guys like Eltopo and Practical PU instructor Doc Holliday are always in rhythm,the excersize in the bc made me realize the importance of this is magical.

4)Dance class-Luckily Im in school finishing residency so I will definitely going for that. I tried dance floor without skill but Ive steped on girls which have been disappointed and some turned out to be dance instructors.I credit Saffron which is awesome instructor and in many aspects of developing my ALPHA stereotype for seduction ,including his dance game takes his kino to extreme sexuality. His patented hair pull routine which Ive used in front of my wings have made several ladies turn into bad girls ..some guys have literally stand there with disbelief at what I just did ...

5) Voice and bodylanguage- Ive been practicing vocal exercises and its paying off,I plan to join a choir at church or something ,Ive improved my bodylanguage by 70% in the last month Ive been modeling Benicio del toro and George Clooney.Javier Bardem in Vicky Cristina Barcelona.I see myself becoming that guy that women fantasize,rather than the "doormat friendly" guy
I found an excersize at the gym to carry yourself better with the weights at your side forcing your muscles to adjust to that type of walk and posture.

6)Staying Positve and focused- All my life Ive been distracted, Ive half assed everything other than Dentistry. but I want to incorporate dedication to all I do , cause its for me and I DESERVE BETTER, I DESERVE THE BEST! Inner game or whatever you want to call it isnt complicated,guys like
Tim and his MINDSET ,
El Topo (w/ Jtime and Megatron in his recent phone conference went at it nicely)
CJ's Frame of releasing,
Entropy's concept of perception are what I found useful for me.I dont need 15 dvd's to explain that right?

7)Persuasion and leading - something I noticed that I was lacking from my game.
"How To Be An Expert Persuader... In 20 Days Or Less!" -by Micheal Lee

8)Relationship managements-I had a failed marriage,GF that dumped me right after 8 months I met her 3 days after I took a bc and didnt game after that..became a pathetic loser who stayed in his comfort zone... I never lead the relationship.
Paul Janka points out how after sex, power is reversed and man ALWAYS has to lead, when he doesn't...it falls on him.And loses his control and his mind .AVOID AT ALL COST.
I want a GF but Im into meeting more women to know what I want. Ive been lucky that some that I have met have awesome qualities that guys dreamed of.
My favorite is FUN girl that both of us can't get bored being together.

9)Identity and Lifestyle- I have 6 months left to live in nyc before I finish school.

I want to drive my identity and lifestyle to be awesome...Identity as a fun cool dominant man who is responsible with a dynamic lifestyle to keep himself active and aware socially and his surroundings.
I plan to go out more eat different places,hobbies like flying,sky diving and other crazy shit ! know more about the city... the best reference is Mickey Rourke in 9 1/2 weeks knows his surroundings and can talk about it yet he puts off a dominant and sexual worthy man vibe.I 've seen guys like AWAKEN who is someone who his game seems so effortless.

to sum up : Like Sinn says "Always be cooler than the girl"

10) Always try something new and push yourself : Ive learned the importance of doing new shit everyday...I learn faster that way..the pain lasts short time once you become more consistent.I listen to advice and do it.

some of these seem repetitive but for now I plan to master these within 6 months before heading off to Miami ...

I will post here to keep up with myself that way its more of an experience than just a journal....

sandro