So I wanted to thank all for reading my Blog and thanks for encouraging me to move forward,That being said...
As you read the heading of this Blog.. Life is a GIFT...really its what you do with it..so DONT WASTE IT
Online game status and location: its not the same gaming in bigger cities and in small town country.
So I decided to be PROACTIVE...this should be part of your RITUAL at 5am or 6am before anything you do meditate or look at mirror or just prepared focus and mental preparation as demonsrtated assures success..
MORE on that later on another post..
So as 3 week no contact rule..the EX GFFB FREAK recontacts me...
anyways Ive been texting retreading other girls...since my FREAK game aka adventureses aka party chick game is tight...I decided to follow emotional momentum and use of basic push pull. to reach out and game other girls whom
1- are ahead of time I know are FREAKS
2-know that sex will be part of tonights main event
3-spontaneous.
Meaning this night i can spend it home sobbing or writting some BS excuse or go out and make something out of it..
which brings into Gun to hte head gaming orignal post by the belated captain Jack...
All this old stuff I learned is now coming back cause I CLEARED MY MIND AND EMOTIONS from the breakup ..remember we are talking about chapter 5 not chapter 4 anymore..
I will share my thoughts and management on FREAKS and investment cause I did hired gun game many times so experience has helped me manage and lead without thought. YES they like to be controled and if you dont do so while you are with them they LOSE attraction..yes most are damanged..
the place where I live is 85-95% FREAKS.
Im looking for Good girls even online but that itself is a BIG challenge cause seeing thorugh its what they say but different what they WANT..
So I will be directing my ENERGY towards my PERSONAL GOALS more than GAME..
VALENTINES DAY NIGHT
so I use alot of future projections and comparisons...in this case I used KAnyewst relationship with superstar video Kdashan. as me and her..putting up with her shit...
this girl I have flaked and tryed to game several times she is hired gun..and materialista.Ho'
we texted back and forth and reframe every attempt to her betaising me and use of we seeing each other...even so when she got logical...
I either dont respond or respond later to MEET up without giving other alternatives..
So she was acting abit flakey and I was almost flakey which had her on her FEET..
She comes out and I was doing other things...already planning logistics myself and what is more convient for ME. how I WANT MY NIGHT ofcourse without verbalize and me giving the vibe of
"I dont give a shit and same time being ALOOF and distracted by my own happiness and spontaneous."
she is pretty she looks like an english famous dating coach ..lol..so this was something I needed to brag about here in the blog.lol
anyways..materialistc girls you have to play and play and give and take more...
so she talk and talk and about how I sent her texts in past months about heart and stuff..and how she always was upset at me but at same time i noticed she was attrcted and curious to be with me...
so at one moment I had to push and improvise to lead and modify..
LEAD and MODIFY LEAD AND MODIFY logistics and closing and seduction...
Never be passsive..read FRANCO's book on what he says of being passsive its HORRIFIC..
anyways I always kept her on her toes unconciously and at any time I could take off...
I assured her an awesome time if she followed me..
she then agreed verbally wanting to spend the night with me on this special valentines day and we took off to my pad..
my pad she tried on clothes she bought that night...I basically saw and read things about her personality which I havent been calibrated in awhile to see or screeen FREAKS..and LSE types..
she was part materialista but more LSE FREAK..she did it for emotion of excitement..
That knowing is all physical no emotional connection game or attachement..cause it damages your state if you have emotional openedness like me..
So
I practiced detachement or law of desengagement from pimps.. remember my ego was hurt and I was recovering..but I was whomever i wanted to be and with every woman thats the case to calibnration.
she was a FREAK, gave me a show trying on...nothing really sexual just comfort...her IOI was her being there and I was in no rush to close..I wanted her emotions to simmer and then with my physical arrousal to SPIKE BT with good sex..
she then showed me her videos on her phone..she is freak..OMG..this is like training with Tigers in a cage.lol
but I had her invest more and more...in conversation and her personal life..without me rapport seeking but my open thought and being neutral yet being there at same time..
she was a relflection of ALOT of girls who are here where i live..luckily she wasnt in no gangs..as another adventuress who was OMG HOT HOT..was involved with gangs and with my mentorship of female friends and guys like Franco who care...I had to NEXT...
so we had sex and it was GOOD sex...I had promised her to drive her back but I was soo tired and next day i had to go to work that I projected that without saying a word...
her social skills are HIGH cause she is hot looking but her freak nature makes her emotional descive person...she then later said she was abit OCD...I do believe that cause she called some friends to pick her up and I left her near to my place..NEVER to my place...
NEVER..better yet I took a route and talk talk to confuse her and she wouldnt know how to get to my Pad.
but overall. I had an awesome crazy time...we went out just chilled out went to a store joked around...we were like almost best friends yet lovers..Its weird I always become like best friend type in all or most relationships... lol..
next morning i woke up late and ran to work only to get ontime before my Boss showed up...Oh BTW i got promoted and my EX was texting and calling leaving voicemails she misses me...
Ok for the validation but I figured I take this chance and period of my Life to being more selective with whom I spend time with..
it was OK to be with FREAKs adventuresses for fun like a candy or brownie when you are on a strict diet or ocational drink or relax in downtime..but like someone says
"DONT LOSE YOURSELF IN THE TREES FOR THE FORREST"
Freaks are good to have fun and FUN time is what I had vs staying home sobbing for an EX or doing Online game...
Its how you make things happen proactively then BOOM it hits you and you are rewarded. :)
Sunday, February 17, 2013
Tuesday, February 12, 2013
LR:Lay report-FR punching bag turned into LR punching bag.lol
I met this person in NOV and at first when we met I was hesitant cause I “couldn’t “ read her IOIS.
I learned that at times intent and sexual vibe and attention is bigger than any IOI
IdiotRape disclosure **** this doesn’t mean be a fuckin dumb ass and put yourself in danger and assume…you always need right lights to blink…
In this case I wasn’t reading into her frame and she tried abit to play hard to get,and I immediately didn’t have time to deal with it so I left it as business and got the fuck out after I bought what I needed.
anyways
Ive texted her randomly and at first time she texted her pic without me asking…I think you can give off a cool vibe…girls will open..effortlessly,,theres no explanation aside of non neediness and attemntion seeking from guys..that never means a lay.
So she texts me at new year….Cool..
Week after I textd her a silly but cool text: I call it rhyme her name and make it stupid….
This is self amusing but it makes her LAUGH at herself and at same time not taking her serious and therefore assuming you are drunk and therefore IT DOESN’T COUNT…yet PASSIVE FRAME IS SET..she laughs and then I say I will invite you to open mic but do me a favor..
And she will say what sthat
I say don’t throw your panties when Im on stage we will both get thrown out
They will LOL or whatever…… then leave it at that….
I went out one night to a singlesnight here where I am and she opened me text…I messed up and I reopen telling her Im having an awesome time at so so place..she responded she got home and I assumed she got pizza and beer and she said Yes, I said awesome.I halfway invieted myself over.. and she invited me over..basically my new positivity vibe to continue the party got me in state and fr punching bag woman text me and I exchangd few texts so effortlessly that she shoot address I drove there gave me little LMR.problem is she is typical freak.
last time me and her met was I bought punching bag months ago and was too scared to escalate that night.tonight I closed her good very intense physical arousal game basically kills LMR....
I was playing aloof cool attractive guy and shed say shed call me…
I left it as is….and Id textd her once a week ,,, eventhough she aint responding cause It shows Im still around if she wants…
This gives woman control and yet makes you easy to contact cause she knows whats up…
Fuck being a challenge at this point…its fucking on cause you fucked her..
And Ive had situtaions where I ve slepted with a woman one time and that’s it..it doesn’t mean anything..its part of Life.period….
Doesn’t matter what PUAs say…about that..
Chapter 5 Start of NEW THINGS
CHAPTER 5
Im reorganizing my Life. Time Off to feed the soul and to feel alone.
No blame just focus….
Being serious and responsible.
HEALTH : IVE LOST 37 lbs since Christmas !!!! with 1000 calorie diet… NEED TO WORK ON PROACTIVE AND STOP PROCRASTINATION. Work on SENSE of ENTITLEMENT like Jeffy says..Affirmations, GYM class after Work…Morning is mediation and REVIEW GOALS and EAT THAT FROG.. Emotinal support Neediness management
WEALTH: Im lacking managing time to EAT THAT FROG AND START STUDYING!!! This is obstacle roadblock Im mentally been avoiding…and distracting myself with sexual addiction.. Im working reading on manangement TIME and ENERGY to stop procrastinating and start now..STUDY EXAM
RELATIONSHIPS: I have a GIFT to start FRESH and manage this more logical standpoint VS emotional excitement of SEX. GOOD GIRLS into the Rotation..all freaks will need to qualify and meet requeirements on following what I want. Pimp book has been good reference to this dealing with this and GB how to play women was great great…I need to revover that one…but Im changing taste on type of emotional and intellectual woman…which will I myself need to improve on the other 2 levels..
Online GAME** ;Tpoastmasters;meetups socialize; limited Daygame* Emotinal support Neediness management
NEW MOTTOS:
“Action will destroy your procrastination.” -- Og Mandino
Only antidote to negativity,worry and low self esteem is positive purposeful constructive action in the direction of your GOALs -Brian Tracy
"I've only had two rules.
Do all you can and do it the best you can.
It's the only way you ever get that feeling of accomplishing something."
-Colonel Sanders KFC
"From a woman’s POV, if a man does not know how to physically take care of himself, he will NEVER be able to take care of her"-MK
“Realize that true happiness lies within you. Waste no time and effort searching for peace and contentment and joy in the world outside. Remember that there is no happiness in having or in getting, but only in giving. Reach out. Share. Smile. Hug. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself.”
― Og Mandino
“How do I change?
If I feel depressed I will sing.
If I feel sad I will laugh.
If I feel ill I will double my labor.
If I feel fear I will plunge ahead.
If I feel inferior I will wear new garments.
If I feel uncertain I will raise my voice.
If I feel poverty I will think of wealth to come.
If I feel incompetent I will think of past success.
If I feel insignificant I will remember my goals.
Today I will be the master of my emotions.”
― Og Mandino
“Welcome every morning with a smile. Look on the new day as another special gift from your Creator, another golden opportunity to complete what you were unable to finish yesterday. Be a self-starter. Let your first hour set the theme of success and positive action that is certain to echo through your entire day. Today will never happen again. Don't waste it with a false start or no start at all. You were not born to fail.”
― Og Mandino
REVIEW NEEDINESS MANAGEMENT FRANCO /also BLACKDRAGON version*
Im reorganizing my Life. Time Off to feed the soul and to feel alone.
No blame just focus….
Being serious and responsible.
HEALTH : IVE LOST 37 lbs since Christmas !!!! with 1000 calorie diet… NEED TO WORK ON PROACTIVE AND STOP PROCRASTINATION. Work on SENSE of ENTITLEMENT like Jeffy says..Affirmations, GYM class after Work…Morning is mediation and REVIEW GOALS and EAT THAT FROG.. Emotinal support Neediness management
WEALTH: Im lacking managing time to EAT THAT FROG AND START STUDYING!!! This is obstacle roadblock Im mentally been avoiding…and distracting myself with sexual addiction.. Im working reading on manangement TIME and ENERGY to stop procrastinating and start now..STUDY EXAM
RELATIONSHIPS: I have a GIFT to start FRESH and manage this more logical standpoint VS emotional excitement of SEX. GOOD GIRLS into the Rotation..all freaks will need to qualify and meet requeirements on following what I want. Pimp book has been good reference to this dealing with this and GB how to play women was great great…I need to revover that one…but Im changing taste on type of emotional and intellectual woman…which will I myself need to improve on the other 2 levels..
Online GAME** ;Tpoastmasters;meetups socialize; limited Daygame* Emotinal support Neediness management
NEW MOTTOS:
“Action will destroy your procrastination.” -- Og Mandino
Only antidote to negativity,worry and low self esteem is positive purposeful constructive action in the direction of your GOALs -Brian Tracy
"I've only had two rules.
Do all you can and do it the best you can.
It's the only way you ever get that feeling of accomplishing something."
-Colonel Sanders KFC
"From a woman’s POV, if a man does not know how to physically take care of himself, he will NEVER be able to take care of her"-MK
“Realize that true happiness lies within you. Waste no time and effort searching for peace and contentment and joy in the world outside. Remember that there is no happiness in having or in getting, but only in giving. Reach out. Share. Smile. Hug. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself.”
― Og Mandino
“How do I change?
If I feel depressed I will sing.
If I feel sad I will laugh.
If I feel ill I will double my labor.
If I feel fear I will plunge ahead.
If I feel inferior I will wear new garments.
If I feel uncertain I will raise my voice.
If I feel poverty I will think of wealth to come.
If I feel incompetent I will think of past success.
If I feel insignificant I will remember my goals.
Today I will be the master of my emotions.”
― Og Mandino
“Welcome every morning with a smile. Look on the new day as another special gift from your Creator, another golden opportunity to complete what you were unable to finish yesterday. Be a self-starter. Let your first hour set the theme of success and positive action that is certain to echo through your entire day. Today will never happen again. Don't waste it with a false start or no start at all. You were not born to fail.”
― Og Mandino
REVIEW NEEDINESS MANAGEMENT FRANCO /also BLACKDRAGON version*
CLOSURE to CHAPTER 4
Chapter 4 Closure
“Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time.”
― Og Mandino
Im writing this cause Im putting closure and sense of entitlement to MOVE FORWARD,
We are humans and as vunerable to things we are we can get HURT or be HURT,
Thanks to my good Friends Monique,Franco,LauraJ,Storm even DEE for their advice and my friends who have put up with my chaotic emotional issues lately concerning this delicate dangerous situation.
Even one of my fuckbuddy in a Long distance relationship has been super cool with me.
It good to think for himself as a MAN, but its always good to hear advice from people who care about you..THIS IS WHERE SOCIAL CIRCLE is part of neediness management.
Only think I did different is that I violated Bradocks LAW of social circle respect with “leaching” but replaced it with Female neediness management EFFECT…which was interesting way of managing but NOWTHINKING makes you too dependent emotionally on others….but Id use it with care cause u can lose friends like this…but some girls will give you straight up! ANWSER that will amaze you better than a guy friend who can try to be sympathetic.IF YOU TRY THIS TACTIC always calibrate with reciprocation of friendliness and THANKFUL POSITIVE ENERGY! And give them time to forget about you and then you can reconnect as a different person if you leached too much***
See Females are much stronger in moving on faster than men in the moment, if they hooked up already and as Janka states in one of his youtube videos….it takes SKILL for a guy to move on.
Someone I don’t remember he is from Canada,,wrote psychological truism of NO CONTACT RULE 3 -4 week period is when female mind goes to loneliness. *** with LSE and someone fucked up in the head makes things worse….hopefully I can contain with SELF DISCIPLINE to contain Chapter 4 in Chapter 4…Thanks Braddock**
As Mark quoted someone in his book “This is a GIFT” ….whats weird about it is that closest people have told me that I needed this to happen cause I was being distracted with what I have been neglecting and avoiding in terms of my long term wellbeing in my career …
WHEN PART OF HEALTH WEALTH AND RELATIONSHIPS IS LACKING…the others are affect by your performance. THIS IS SOMETHING I NOTICED.
Even a female friend told me “you were settling….thats why you feel hurt…your EGO is HuRT its not cause you Lov3d her….its your EGO and your emotional attachment”
This points several issues I have to mature. I have gotten awesomely good at Mark’s Entropy Chemistry Game which basically makes you a CONNECTION GUY…
3 weeks ago I had a text exchange and I was on my way to a womans place for sex… I haven’t heard from her back cause there wasn’t real connection cause she was a FREAK adventuress …but with most women my game is CONNECTION.
This is my NEW GOAL is high quality women emotionally healthy and screening them…. I read and read but as most guys we get causght in the dogmatic PUAdom of DOOM of we have to approach and open sets and all TOO DAMN VALIDATION SEEKING OUT OF THIS STUPID ISSUE of whos WHO?
I LEFT that EGO at the door when I felt like shit listening how awful mistakes I was doing.
Take the attitude of a student, never be too big to ask questions, never know too much to learn something new.
Og Mandino
THEN Started looking into Beliefs and reinforcing Good self esteem being with positive PROACTIVE people.
This game or better yet say SEX is addicting…..watch the movie SHAME and find out what that is.
This is Chapter 4 and I wont go in detail cause its hurtful DRAMA that I found myself involved.
AS Dr.Wayne Dyer says I quietly effective FORGIVE her …. Brian Tracy says to forgive is to free yourself.
CBT therapy helped with the Oneitis..Dr Brodie program letting go past relationships…and his excesize workbook is HANDS DOWN BEST IN walking away from a DESTRUCTIVE relationship into a route of HEALING. Like FRANCO says :
” with some types of women its better to walk away before the F bomb blows up in your FACE..”
Im done with ACTIVE GAME involvement with LSE FREAKS..
Im looking into more EMOTIONAL MATURITY in ways to DEAL .
-so far WAR book by Robet Greene chapter 3 and now will read chapter 4 next ….Dr robet anthony’s book is awesome opening my eyes again how self esteem and beliefs and GOALS and all this STUFF works… its true what Mark told me once “YOU are the one putting mental barriers..get rid of that shit first and you will improve automatically”..I had bought Brian Tracys program and since my laptop got stolen lost all the stuff…I will have to slowly have to regain this into once Im abit more financially stable…
Im looking into LOOKING DEEP INTO WHAT I WANT and TYPE OF WOMAN I WANT NOW IN MY LIFE
SET PRIORITIES STRAIGHT AND MOVE TOWARDS THAT……deida reference thanks braddock and stpehen Nash**
Now its managing my ENERGY and state of MIND into proactive results towards what LIFE I WANT TO LIVE….
“Work as though you would live forever, and live as though you would die today. Go another mile!”
― Og Mandino
“Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time.”
― Og Mandino
Im writing this cause Im putting closure and sense of entitlement to MOVE FORWARD,
We are humans and as vunerable to things we are we can get HURT or be HURT,
Thanks to my good Friends Monique,Franco,LauraJ,Storm even DEE for their advice and my friends who have put up with my chaotic emotional issues lately concerning this delicate dangerous situation.
Even one of my fuckbuddy in a Long distance relationship has been super cool with me.
It good to think for himself as a MAN, but its always good to hear advice from people who care about you..THIS IS WHERE SOCIAL CIRCLE is part of neediness management.
Only think I did different is that I violated Bradocks LAW of social circle respect with “leaching” but replaced it with Female neediness management EFFECT…which was interesting way of managing but NOWTHINKING makes you too dependent emotionally on others….but Id use it with care cause u can lose friends like this…but some girls will give you straight up! ANWSER that will amaze you better than a guy friend who can try to be sympathetic.IF YOU TRY THIS TACTIC always calibrate with reciprocation of friendliness and THANKFUL POSITIVE ENERGY! And give them time to forget about you and then you can reconnect as a different person if you leached too much***
See Females are much stronger in moving on faster than men in the moment, if they hooked up already and as Janka states in one of his youtube videos….it takes SKILL for a guy to move on.
Someone I don’t remember he is from Canada,,wrote psychological truism of NO CONTACT RULE 3 -4 week period is when female mind goes to loneliness. *** with LSE and someone fucked up in the head makes things worse….hopefully I can contain with SELF DISCIPLINE to contain Chapter 4 in Chapter 4…Thanks Braddock**
As Mark quoted someone in his book “This is a GIFT” ….whats weird about it is that closest people have told me that I needed this to happen cause I was being distracted with what I have been neglecting and avoiding in terms of my long term wellbeing in my career …
WHEN PART OF HEALTH WEALTH AND RELATIONSHIPS IS LACKING…the others are affect by your performance. THIS IS SOMETHING I NOTICED.
Even a female friend told me “you were settling….thats why you feel hurt…your EGO is HuRT its not cause you Lov3d her….its your EGO and your emotional attachment”
This points several issues I have to mature. I have gotten awesomely good at Mark’s Entropy Chemistry Game which basically makes you a CONNECTION GUY…
3 weeks ago I had a text exchange and I was on my way to a womans place for sex… I haven’t heard from her back cause there wasn’t real connection cause she was a FREAK adventuress …but with most women my game is CONNECTION.
This is my NEW GOAL is high quality women emotionally healthy and screening them…. I read and read but as most guys we get causght in the dogmatic PUAdom of DOOM of we have to approach and open sets and all TOO DAMN VALIDATION SEEKING OUT OF THIS STUPID ISSUE of whos WHO?
I LEFT that EGO at the door when I felt like shit listening how awful mistakes I was doing.
Take the attitude of a student, never be too big to ask questions, never know too much to learn something new.
Og Mandino
THEN Started looking into Beliefs and reinforcing Good self esteem being with positive PROACTIVE people.
This game or better yet say SEX is addicting…..watch the movie SHAME and find out what that is.
This is Chapter 4 and I wont go in detail cause its hurtful DRAMA that I found myself involved.
AS Dr.Wayne Dyer says I quietly effective FORGIVE her …. Brian Tracy says to forgive is to free yourself.
CBT therapy helped with the Oneitis..Dr Brodie program letting go past relationships…and his excesize workbook is HANDS DOWN BEST IN walking away from a DESTRUCTIVE relationship into a route of HEALING. Like FRANCO says :
” with some types of women its better to walk away before the F bomb blows up in your FACE..”
Im done with ACTIVE GAME involvement with LSE FREAKS..
Im looking into more EMOTIONAL MATURITY in ways to DEAL .
-so far WAR book by Robet Greene chapter 3 and now will read chapter 4 next ….Dr robet anthony’s book is awesome opening my eyes again how self esteem and beliefs and GOALS and all this STUFF works… its true what Mark told me once “YOU are the one putting mental barriers..get rid of that shit first and you will improve automatically”..I had bought Brian Tracys program and since my laptop got stolen lost all the stuff…I will have to slowly have to regain this into once Im abit more financially stable…
Im looking into LOOKING DEEP INTO WHAT I WANT and TYPE OF WOMAN I WANT NOW IN MY LIFE
SET PRIORITIES STRAIGHT AND MOVE TOWARDS THAT……deida reference thanks braddock and stpehen Nash**
Now its managing my ENERGY and state of MIND into proactive results towards what LIFE I WANT TO LIVE….
“Work as though you would live forever, and live as though you would die today. Go another mile!”
― Og Mandino
Saturday, February 9, 2013
AFTER BREAKUP INNER GAME DETACH EMOTIONS
recently found myself in deep emotional turmoil DUE TO A BREAKUP
but as logical as it may sound you have to keep yourself detached emotionally.
Things that occur to you or encounter in your life doesnt define who you are, I mean the negative and painful parts.
As humans we tend to get our anger and emotions get to us then we justify these emotions to either blame or sobb over them justify our suffering.
this isnt so if you grab yourself out of it before you find yourself deep into an emotional depression or wreck.
It may sound rehashed but here's the thing:
you must be in control of what you feel
1- You can feel sad but doesnt mean you are SAD. Rephrase this.
this will help detach emotions from clouding you.
check youtubed vids:hale dwoskin
2- Sounds Cliche -ish but see positive and try to experience it as a lesson to move forward to better things to come and motivate you. This emotion you can dive yoruself in and the mind will make necesary changes without thinking.nmotiate yourself to be teflon strong regardless of adversity in your Life.you will learn not to doubt yourself and believe more in yourself.
"better sooner than latter."
"when life hits hard you have to get more power to getback"
"up if it were easy everybody would be doing it "
"you are responsible for yourself,your LIFE and your own happiness..never a woman"
"I love myself no matter what"..this is talking to yourself reinforcing your beliefs,not affirmations per se'.
affirmations you make with your own voice or from products
which DOES WORK and very effective, I have used it and suggest to check that out.
3- Dont be affected by other peoples actions towards you.
Even if you NEXT a chick or chick rejects you dont let that affect you.You have to maintain focus on your Life and you well being at all times.
Always look at other sucessfull people who have been succesfull regardless of obstacles and circumstances.
(Or can offer their advice and may have gone through what you are going through, LISTEN to THEM)
Great reference that has personally help me on this and has great breakdown in a simple smart masculine way of managing your behavior is :
Robert Greene's 33 strategies of war chapter 3 It is a great read
heres a very brief review from Wiki:
Chapter 3
Amidst the Turmoil of Events, Do Not Lose Your Presence of Mind: The Counterbalance Strategy. You must stay focused, define your goals and have the confidence to achieve those goals. With this in place, strive toward that goal relentlessly.
•Keys to Warfare
◦Do not get frustrated by people less strategic or foolish, use them to your advantage.
◦Seek out the conflict, do not hide from it.
◦Maintain presence of mind, do not let yourself be intimidated by yourself or others.
◦Do not panic, focus on what you are confident in
◦Develop a quick reaction sense, make decisions
◦Rely on yourself,minimize reliance on others.***my note: especially with women,never rely on her for our happiness or validation of yourself.their emotions change so quick that you will go crazy if you rely on them for their approval of YOU!**
Dont always play it safe meaning SETTLING what you WANT IN LIFE!
Worst enemy is your comfort zone.
Dont try to go to the other extreme as well,Be smart about it. FRANCO SAYS DONT PUT YPURSELF IN DANGER!!!
Theres always a balance.
Inspire yourself into your passion, work , gym or hobby.try to push yourself,ike increasing the weight and reps..this wil help you develope muscles and mental muscle from your actions.
This will also develop awarness and will make you a more of a go getter into being proactive towards your goal.
For Seduction I think that dont jump into conclusions too soon, always be aware at the beginning after expereince and some rejection you will know how to handle them without second thought it will be so fast you wont catch yoursel fsecond guessing or flinching.
dont always play into your comfort zone, be smart. you will encounter some situation that you cant avoid , theres always left and right its never just one way.
Its what you do with it , what you do with the ball no matter how shitty the pass is to you, its up to you to what to do with it, use this to your advantage.
EXAMPLE : you set up a date and it starts to rain...
options: you either make up an excuse to yourself because of the rain and cut the date short
OR
you use it as an excuse to talk about good feelings about rainy days...cuddling watching a movie ..eat in at your place and order delivery ....and how you are going to have to kick her out since you cant stay up too late...etc etc..
Its what you do with what you are given,this will help change your thinking.
Always think that you and you only can change the future and outcome of your own life.
Ask yourself if you deserve it, if you really love yourself to want it.
Then go for it.
Theres no greater feeling when you love yourself .
sorry for the mix up , i tried to make this simple and understandable.
Hope this helps any of you guys out there.
ALSO DEEPAK CHOPRA LAW OF DETACHMENT and a meditation on youtube...
TAO of STEVE 3 rules-
BRAD P's INNER GAME stuff
always feel free to comment.
but as logical as it may sound you have to keep yourself detached emotionally.
Things that occur to you or encounter in your life doesnt define who you are, I mean the negative and painful parts.
As humans we tend to get our anger and emotions get to us then we justify these emotions to either blame or sobb over them justify our suffering.
this isnt so if you grab yourself out of it before you find yourself deep into an emotional depression or wreck.
It may sound rehashed but here's the thing:
you must be in control of what you feel
1- You can feel sad but doesnt mean you are SAD. Rephrase this.
this will help detach emotions from clouding you.
check youtubed vids:hale dwoskin
2- Sounds Cliche -ish but see positive and try to experience it as a lesson to move forward to better things to come and motivate you. This emotion you can dive yoruself in and the mind will make necesary changes without thinking.nmotiate yourself to be teflon strong regardless of adversity in your Life.you will learn not to doubt yourself and believe more in yourself.
"better sooner than latter."
"when life hits hard you have to get more power to getback"
"up if it were easy everybody would be doing it "
"you are responsible for yourself,your LIFE and your own happiness..never a woman"
"I love myself no matter what"..this is talking to yourself reinforcing your beliefs,not affirmations per se'.
affirmations you make with your own voice or from products
which DOES WORK and very effective, I have used it and suggest to check that out.
3- Dont be affected by other peoples actions towards you.
Even if you NEXT a chick or chick rejects you dont let that affect you.You have to maintain focus on your Life and you well being at all times.
Always look at other sucessfull people who have been succesfull regardless of obstacles and circumstances.
(Or can offer their advice and may have gone through what you are going through, LISTEN to THEM)
Great reference that has personally help me on this and has great breakdown in a simple smart masculine way of managing your behavior is :
Robert Greene's 33 strategies of war chapter 3 It is a great read
heres a very brief review from Wiki:
Chapter 3
Amidst the Turmoil of Events, Do Not Lose Your Presence of Mind: The Counterbalance Strategy. You must stay focused, define your goals and have the confidence to achieve those goals. With this in place, strive toward that goal relentlessly.
•Keys to Warfare
◦Do not get frustrated by people less strategic or foolish, use them to your advantage.
◦Seek out the conflict, do not hide from it.
◦Maintain presence of mind, do not let yourself be intimidated by yourself or others.
◦Do not panic, focus on what you are confident in
◦Develop a quick reaction sense, make decisions
◦Rely on yourself,minimize reliance on others.***my note: especially with women,never rely on her for our happiness or validation of yourself.their emotions change so quick that you will go crazy if you rely on them for their approval of YOU!**
4- "Take calculated risks. That is quite different from being rash."
-GEN GEORGE PATTON
Dont always play it safe meaning SETTLING what you WANT IN LIFE!
Worst enemy is your comfort zone.
Dont try to go to the other extreme as well,Be smart about it. FRANCO SAYS DONT PUT YPURSELF IN DANGER!!!
Theres always a balance.
Inspire yourself into your passion, work , gym or hobby.try to push yourself,ike increasing the weight and reps..this wil help you develope muscles and mental muscle from your actions.
This will also develop awarness and will make you a more of a go getter into being proactive towards your goal.
For Seduction I think that dont jump into conclusions too soon, always be aware at the beginning after expereince and some rejection you will know how to handle them without second thought it will be so fast you wont catch yoursel fsecond guessing or flinching.
dont always play into your comfort zone, be smart. you will encounter some situation that you cant avoid , theres always left and right its never just one way.
Its what you do with it , what you do with the ball no matter how shitty the pass is to you, its up to you to what to do with it, use this to your advantage.
See yourself having control , be proactive then take action.
this kills self dobt and will educate you.
EXAMPLE : you set up a date and it starts to rain...
options: you either make up an excuse to yourself because of the rain and cut the date short
OR
you use it as an excuse to talk about good feelings about rainy days...cuddling watching a movie ..eat in at your place and order delivery ....and how you are going to have to kick her out since you cant stay up too late...etc etc..
Its what you do with what you are given,this will help change your thinking.
Always think that you and you only can change the future and outcome of your own life.
Ask yourself if you deserve it, if you really love yourself to want it.
Then go for it.
Theres no greater feeling when you love yourself .
sorry for the mix up , i tried to make this simple and understandable.
Hope this helps any of you guys out there.
ALSO DEEPAK CHOPRA LAW OF DETACHMENT and a meditation on youtube...
TAO of STEVE 3 rules-
BRAD P's INNER GAME stuff
always feel free to comment.
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