The 4 Fastest Ways to Turn Her Off - by Doc Holliday

I read this every time I go out its my personal cheat sheet when I dont know what to do..either be an asshole or cool...


Hey man,
A lot is always said about what to do to turn a girl ON, but how do you know when you're turning her off? We compiled this short little list so you know when you're doing something wrong as well as when you do it right.
Ask yourself, are you doing any of these four things?


THE FOUR TOP TURNOFFS

(1) BEING TOO NICE

Being nice is... well... nice, but being TOO NICE will only convince her you are needy, desperate, lonely, unconfident, timid, have low self-esteem, and possibly are just trying to manipulate her by only telling her what she wants to hear. You will neither win the love and respect of women, nor an invitation into their bedroom, by being Mr. Nice Guy.

She must be more emotionally committed than you at all times. This means never do anything needy or self-sacrificing. For example: don't call her too much, don't lavish her with gifts, don't be the first to bring up your feelings or talk about commitment. Just relax and exude the idea that she's trying to win you over, no matter how much you like her.

(2) BEING TOO EASY

Similar to the first one, way too many dudes don't make a girl EARN their attention and affection. If a woman does not have to earn your love and respect, but you just give it away for nothing, she will view it as valueless. Why else would it be free? If you are a desirable guy that is in demand with the ladies, then your adoration and devotion will not come cheap.

Another way of understanding this concept: people do not value anything that is free or very cheap. They waste it or take it for granted. Modern marketing has conditioned people to base quality on price.
So what does that mean for you? Be expensive! Don't come free or easy.

(3) BEING TOO PREDICTABLE

Girls need excitement to stir up their emotions. For most people, both men and women, their love life is their primary (if not only) source of excitement, adventure, and passion. It is not their friends, their work, or their hobbies.

Stop being so conservative and predictable, acting the same way as any other guy, saying the same things, taking them to the same places, and generally just being another guy in her phone book. Surprise her, startle her, confuse her, perhaps even occasionally offend her, but in a fun and playful style.
If you do the same thing every other guy has done, she'll treat you the same way she treated all of the other guys: by not calling you back.

4) BEING TOO INSENSITIVE

This is a warning! Way too many men read about being too nice, easy, and predictable then take it to a destructive extreme. They become an arrogant, cruel ass that treats women like dirt. Sure, women do not like "nice guys", but they like “assholes” even less. If you're going to be a jerk, you need to be a love-able jerk.
Although you may be a troublemaker with funny practical jokes and pursuit of shallow pleasures; ultimately, be a decent human being. This is true of all “bad boys” you will find on television, the big screen, or in a romance novel. They are rough on the surface, but a diamond hidden just beneath. If you convince women that you are crap all the way to your core, they will value you as such.