I went out with this chick from online thing...
FR: I was nervous and busy but we spoke briefly like 2 times within 1 week or 2 week pattern told her I was flying out soon...
she said she could meet up I said cool..she text me to see what time and gave her directions..
I maintain strong frame of leading like a man...
she met up and I assume rapport we walked and talked
to the bar which was 3 blocks from location..
I talked about my day and she told me about her day..always with a smile and funny
and expressive yet confident... I did drink a litttle to loosen myself up a bit before hand.
we got there I got a tabletold her to sit got her a drink and I got a beer...I did the nodding and listened more..got her invested in conversation..asked questions and cold read about her personality calibrating the answers...
did 2 high fives when I ran qualification pretty much improvised alittle so it wouldnt get boring..then ran cj nlp hypnosis routine and after that just kept looking at her lips and bit my lip... when on with the conversation her just talking... and me just looking at her building sexual tension without saying a word ,then I did badboy's kiss close which you can find online.
after that I did a takeaway "thats all you get" and smiled...she smiled...
we kept talking and ran wid and deep comfort with alot of touching building alot of communalities (Doc Holliday)
I had 2 beers and she had 1 drink cause she was driving and she had a time constraint .. in one hour we made out like 5 times, 2 times in bar and 1 time walking to apt, 1 in the apt and one more in the car...
She shit tested me when I walked her to her car with serial dater and I responded wiht cocky funny which was abit miscalibrated...in comfort shittest are handled different than in attraction.
she kept tonguein gme down in the car and she was turned on but got LMR in the apt.. I think the roomates and whole scanrio that we werent alone scared her plus afte it got deep kissing and touched her and put her hand on my cock she wen tto the door.
I remmebred what Sinn taught me about LMR
just verbally agreed and kept escalating..then we walked out..she freaked out with my roomate girl walking in on us... another trigger for ASD...
It was my first date..didnt really know how to handle it afterwards..
called her to see if she was ok afterwards then kickmyself for it..
she text me at 1 am and I was abit skeptical falling for the text trap...
I waited 2 days text her ran persuasion of feeling comfortable to see each other and
looks like I overgamed her with too much funny stuff through text ..told her my fingers hurt and left her a message ala jeffy style in and out talk later...
I think its dead... IMO.
FATAL ERRORS:
1)Dont over text or call too much..converys neediness.let the other COOL guys do it
Paul janka says "girls will evalute you to disqualify you"
Julian Foxx says
"Less you say the better you are off"
2)REsponding to more than 3 texts
3)holding hands in the date: she told me that the signs of holding hands you hold hands when guy wants serious when the just hold pinky it isnt serious when the edont hold at all is just casual...
4) Logistics: In SNL's Logistics is Key..I had text and calld these fuckers but they triggered ASD, not their fault but mine.
5)I wasnt looking at the time it was one hour and I should have bounced at the 20 minute mark...
6)physical push pull: too much kissing IMO, I became her kissing buddy gave it up.
7)more qualification tosolidify why I thought she was interesting...
8)Called her too soon and asked her to meet again..newbie mistake.
9)Didnt calibrate Cocky Funny in text she got offended and blew myself out...
when the time is right and she says yes you escalate dont danc around it..
10)timebridge for 2nd date in the first date and make her pinky promise
When you are past attraction you just play in comfort no need for cocky funny or more funny routines..be chill and qualify and maybe throw compliments when looking at her
TEXT is OK , you can TEXT ALL YOU WANT AFTER SEX! before I dont like it..you become her validation and sh shows it off to her freinds to critize you and disqualify you...
I havent been practicing SOLID game... but formy actual first online date very fucking solid...
If she is there I assume the CLOSE!
ABC!
I think you can make it work as long as you have an idea of how structure works...
I have overgamed alot in past and blew myself off...
you see GAME as they SELL it ...its a comercialized thing...
As my friend told me Last night on hoow its designed for 9 and 10's
basically our perseption of it but is more
Sinn's and Captain Jeck classification of gaming HB's
As per SNL's Seminar
HB's 8-10
High Sexual Esteem + Low self esteem = you compliment her personalites
you 3 teases and negs in attaction
never compliment her looks
only one particular body part
no deep comfort but qualify
HB's 1-7
Low Sexual Esteem + High self esteem = you trigger she is sexy
no more than one tease
more comfort-connection
compliment looks but takeaway
blame her for being sexy
RARE!
Pornstars,movie celebrities,succesful women executives
High Sexual Esteem + High self esteem = balance with calibration and
show social intelligence within social
circle game.that you bring value.AFC ADAM
share commonalites act like a 10 to gamea 10
Bold manuver , just suggesting it non serious way....
I think biggest problem is learning it ...Im stupid guy thats read ALOT more than gone out..as I gone out lost touch...
Ok Sinn told me it isnt solid game its foolsmate and Im not at his LEVEL..ok
but as in my first Same Day Lay my new roomate for the next 12 days cause he is leaving soon...gets laid more than a PUA without leaving his house...
I saw him do it again last night..it was a mindfuck in 20 minutes of convo he was exchanging nude picks and very LOW KEY..no dates none of that shit...hot girls nice tits... hardly if any qualification...but in actuality like being the pleasure giver...
Its fucked me up pretty bad...
his calibration is tight I told him to share but he cant explain it...
the girl across the building masturbates every day every 5 minutes...at 8-9pm
my boy has binuculars..its awesome.
my other friend explain the analogy of closing...negociate and barter verbally and handle it stop then escalate
Teh only way to get consistent it to get out there and get blown out..Im almost there
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