the natural friend said:
YOU DID THE RIGHT THING, AND ENDED IT AMICABLY , NO HARD FEELINGS,BOTH OF YOU KNOW WHERE YOU STAND.....DONT REGRET IT, YOU ENJOYD IT AND LEFT IT AT PERFECT TIME.IT WAS HER WHO ENDED IT,IN WHICH YOU HAVE TO BE THANKFUL THAT SHE DID.ITS AN EXPERIENCE...
IF SHE CONTACTS YOU JUST IGNORE AND DONT GIVE HER A REASON TO RESPOND.
the natural ALSO said : dude, talk to her if you need her for your papers and tell her to be friends and then just ignore her.
kdoggydawg: she is a dangerous woman, keep away from her...she is destructive.
dont get involved with her anymore.
DONT TALK TO WOMEN AND EDUCATE THEM THAT YOU ARE WORKING ON YOURSELF AAND OR HINT THEM HOW REALTIONSHIPP AS FRIENDS WORK< THEY DONT WANT TO BE TAUGHT!!!! ITS SILLY AND DISRESPECTFUL.
dont describe it or say what you are going to do, JUST DO IT!!!!
My moms said : it was something quick of 6 weeks fling, you had your times with her you was in the momment,we all talk and promise each other but in reality when you break it you break it and dont look back....its an experience you learned and enjoy
it.
YOU DID THE RIGHT THING, AND ENDED IT AMICABLY , NO HARD FEELINGS,BOTH OF YOU KNOW WHERE YOU STAND.....DONT REGRET IT, YOU ENJOYD IT AND LEFT IT AT PERFECT TIME.IT WAS HER WHO ENDED IT,IN WHICH YOU HAVE TO BE THANKFUL THAT SHE DID.ITS AN EXPERIENCE...
IF SHE CONTACTS YOU JUST IGNORE AND DONT GIVE HER A REASON TO RESPOND.
AFC ADAM says :
honestly...
it's hard to say. if she has things you need and she isn't giving them then it's best to be friendly, but try to keep distance. Though ask her for the things back you need.
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Scot mckay
Sandros:
1) This CAN'T be true: "I realize that its true relationships are run by women but guys need to lead…" Think about it.
2) As soon as you realize a woman you are with is psycho and stay with her anyway (for whatever reason) you are disrespecting yourself. That leadership will be followed by the woman. Period. If ANY man would have to lack self-respect to be with her, perpetuating her vicious cycle of failure, that's HER problem not yours. At least it should be.
3) If you put yourself in a subservient position to a strong-willed woman (e.g. depending on her for necessary legal advice) it's never going to end well for you. Whether she's psycho or not in that particular frame is irrelevant.
4) Drop EVERYTHING and get The Leading Man: http://www.the-leading-man.com/subscribers. Seriously. Without the knowledge that program will impart to you history will repeat itself.
Cheers,
Scot McKay
X & Y Communications
www.deservewhatyouwant.com
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ENTROPY
Hey man,
Just read through your comment. Yeah this woman sounds a bit nuts. I'd keep away from her and get your personal life in order as much as possible. As for what you did wrong, it sounds like you leaped into things way too quickly and let her set the expectations (which were just ruled by her emotions and whims at the time). But we can talk about that on the phone.
Let me know when you get everything straightened out.
Best of luck buddy,
ENTROPY
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Northern nights said
Dude you were just needy for the sex and for her help with your legal stuff.
Thus she lost attraction for you.
Get your own life together. Anyone will want you more if you can walk away
easily and find another woman.
Don't put up with any disrespectful behavior at all.
The power structure was out of balance in the relationship.
Talk to Entropy about all this, and let me know what he says.
NN.
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Dantalion Jones
I've read your email and I have compassion for your situation.
Honesty is the best policy here. I am not the best person to work with you on this.
Perhaps I could help, but I have to be wise with my time and energy and this is not a direction I can go.
I don think you would do well to talk with someone, perhaps Tom Vizzini is better or Houston Vetter could assist.. but not me.
I'm sorry.
Here is the best and briefest advice I can give you.
1) Know what you want in any relationship. Know it to the letter and update it when needed.
2) Know your boundries, i.e. exactly how much crap you will take from any woman. When you reach your
limit walk away. You'll feel better about yourself when you do. There is no amount of sex that is worth a life time of crap. Repeat that last sentence to yourself.
3) Date a LOT of women. You'll find plenty of crazy ones to walk away from. Know your boundries and when one of them oversteps your bourdries be calm and to the point: do it again and you will leave. Stick to that... no matter what and date someone else.
Sorry I can't do more.
Best of luck,
Dantalion
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