REJECTION IN LEARNING SEDUCTION:THE PAINFUL TRUTH

I had a talk with my friend and experienced player A-drain ,
we talked about how women in big cities are different from normal rural girls

but what struck out was about ow harsh rejection is and painful.

what I learned from painful and depression from rejection and trying to figure out why..
is that the pain makes you harness it , makes you resist it , makes you get used to that process
then forces you to make adjustments and changes in your game.

as every women is differnt and response can be different , as long as you follow your experience and harness it and learn from it.

learning pickup by this painful experience of rejection and frustration , makes yoube aware and gives you clarity of what works and what doesnt.

there is no shortcut for this guys.

you can model another guy by using routines....and if you repeat it it can work but its hit or miss and would not be aware of what you need to adjust.

so this pain teaches you , that you need to act quickly and think faster. and adjusting what you say how to react and such.

it makes you emotionally strong

and emotionally aware...

meaning what hurts and what doesnt hurt
then the reframe becomes

of pleasure and adjustments...
like tennis back and forth back and forth
consistency.

rejection hurts and its best to go through it....and appreciate the lesson... but from that emotional pain, instead of giving up and quititing...if you hold on and think!
then you get rewarded with lessons on dealing with it.
and you move forward.

you transform into someone better than average person , understanding that.
then you are near to becoming consistent.

so embrace that pain and think on what you can do better and adjust and trust yourself.