Saturday, February 28, 2009

FR:Level change in game and sticking points.looking to do a 30 day challenge

FR :Went out with a cool wing... he is a VA insructor....

but alot of this I noticed from him and need to model him.


GIRLS LIKE GUYS WITH " A D D" don' t be logical

Play the badboy by dominance and leading and breaking rapport
and compassionate nice guy by hugging her and smiling at her..compiments on her personality

Hey I had to write this up eventhough I have challenges aside from this skillset

-issues at school
-friendships lost
-Financial and Future matters

Today,
DAYGAME subway
NIGHTCLUB GAME upscale
STRIPPER GAME at 2 places


I did day game in subway ... situational opener obsevation then Comfort+coldread +Qualification

(rinse and repeat and throw in a tease and light kino)
If she is nice and creaive person qualifier I run the Love Poem pattern then elicit value by qualifying afterwards reward...


Direct on NYC Subway is too creepy dont do it.... only if she AI and you want to



My bday is coming up .. and My confidence level went up...but I have somewhere a bit of sticking points:

-Dance Floor GAME is a PLUS in NYC - a mistake in it you get blown out
-Lack of Leading the intraction -they get bored and I have to put more fun or be more funny and playful
-I had 2 girls hardcore qualifiying and interested but didnt get anywhere
-I had to run it and LEAD
-Too dependent at waiting for signs
-Not escalating
-Cant come up with a creative complement instead of "cool and awesome" sounds too vague
-Dont look up and stop talking or act distracted you are shooting yourself either you talk and lead or Qualify
----
MICROCALIBRATION ( must read review fom Sinn's notes)

In convo when to tease when to neg

when to go kino and energy of opener I either tooo high

different ways to reward to her instead of just a "nice"

Different of Giving Value and being easy: Give value is lightly use, calibrate with takeways then end it with a smile.

Practice giving her Male Stripper role play.

then ask : "Im going to this after party afterwards, what are you doing later?"


CALIBRATE in TEXT GAME :If she doesn't repond you TEXT: FLAKE

Dont over pursue her and take 20 minutes to repond dont over respond too quickly and too eager.
that kills attraction and she knows that you are into her...GAME OVER


Notice your bodylanguage ticks when you are under social pressure or see a beautiful woman....

Strippers are FEMALE MASTER GAMERS!

Use Mystery's I had past GF....Go make money and come back.

Practice you being a tease....

Ask her when on a week day where she goes on a day off to get a drink

PURSUE or CHASE : DO NOTHING just have FUN and Qualify
anyone can number close but number close has strength when you do it SOLID
if not dont worry or ovrthink women give ou their number to anyone


What you do for a living? --NOthing

have her ask you and get her o ask you and response more playful and interact

WRITE IT UP ?!!!!!! BITCH!!!!!!

KNOW HOW TO TIP the difference of being cheap and being taken advantage
Tip and invest:

if waitress complains of the tip ask her to give it back...

Strippers dont date customers unless you run jealousy and dont so her too much interst and treat her like a bud and not like cusomer yet you tip the dancers on the stage but not the girls wanting to give you a dance...

OBSERVATION : HE gets her invested by being friendly then funny then serious for a second then smile and tease....

Dont run sexual stuff on convo..hat will get her into worker mode.

social anxiety excersizes , tone th convesation, facial expression correction on mirror, conversation excersizes, BHRR compliment and back it woth Confidence!


GET A FUCKIN COOL LIGHTER !

KNOW HOW TO GET NUMBER CLOSE have a card and know how o ninja number close

Know


-----

THINGS TO TAKE AWAY FROM STRIPPER GAME:

Too much comfort too early
remove the "what makes you unique ,different or special" in qualification
travel questions or where in the world
dont talk about money
STOP going very personal withtout small hoops qualification its
COMFORT
ELIMINATE Response likeevery other boring guy
AVOID connection patterns they avoid feeling and seem aware of NLPor hypnosis


YES: GO EXTREMELY PLAYFUL TEASE LIGHTLY WITH KINO
BE DESCISSIVE
COMPLEMENT on herPERSONALITY and challenge her ala Sinn Hired Gun game
B-H-R-R is very Effective
Buy the manager a Drink
know how to respond to her stack and microcalibration:
I f she is direct you say : " Not right now but YES! maybe Later" : )
BE Happy and playful :
Add a funny calibrator into COSMO routine so her BT is up before eliciting and its more compliant
USE sinn 's Cold reads

Review ELTOPO POST ON Stripper game

Write up a Stack

-------------------


Showed me he was talking and texting w a major PUA well known guy....

we went to a fancy place all in suits and ties except us.... be social guy with the people that work there talk about their night ...

know another bar nearby if you isolate...

When she had an olive I oped my mouth and she didnt comply and I should have said " Greedy Bitch"

Don't over do the goofball and or dork use lightly ............once and dont repeat it comes too insulting...

calibrate her emotions in the interaction.


I WILL WRITE MORE AND ORGANIZE MY THOUGHTS I LEARNED ALOT...

The persuassion book and audiobook on the TOP RIGHT OF THE BLOG is soo money in seduction and easily related to everyday things we observe in our everyday life yet we are unaware of it... AKA elusive obvious ?

PRACTICAL STUFF WITHOUT THEORY THAT WORKS..... Im starting to apply itonmy personality and mindframe in desciscions in set. SALESMAN theory to get people to like you without being dancing monkey.
being appraochable and confident.


I will consider recording my sets and doing a 30 day daygame night game stripper game rotation challenge
is based on Brad's RSD way of how her got good super fast...

NEW YORK is definte playground for this....

No comments:

Post a Comment