Having a Personality behind PU is your BASE

Hey alot of guys give awesome advice and tell you to go out...which is TRUE.

There isnt a better way to get good without busting your ASS out there...

but you spit the routines ,the patterns , trance word and you will get her in state but what or who are you?

are you the cheesy makeout guy at the club?

WTF?

If you focus on who you are and how descive you are as a person thn this will be a nice addition to the routines and stuff you learn.

It like being congruent with yourself before you spit FIRE....

example you want o convey yourself as HV but your bodylanguage or your voice tone isnt like of a STRONG MAN...it isnt gonna work... they will not pay attention to you.

If you know whats acceptable for you and you go out and you get shit tested you dont have to think what to say next?
you act congruent that hey she is being insecure and silly no big deal and you respond whatever comes up...you force your mind to spit the lines or create your own..on the spot.

This isnt inner game nor Lifestyle but its self respect and how you want to be treated...
If you dont love yourself why you expect to other people like you?

When a set goes bad .....I dont over analyze anymore I just open the next and warm up ..no excuses trying to convince myself that Im high value and she isnt..that too much BS !
Especially for someone who doesnt know you and is judging you breifly based on your looks and what else is in her head.....?

So be focus on the inteaction and talk LOUD and FIRM with congruent if you have to hold on to your balls when you first approaching do it....

Dude its a numbers game and the harder you try to make her like you the more you will fuck up...

FIRST GET GOOD AT GETTING PEOPLE TO LIKE YOU WITH YOUR PERSONALITY AND CHARISMA afte that you can NEG, TEASE, TAKEAWAY,JEALOUSY Whatever.................

Dont invest too much in the interaction , give value but dont be too easy...have a firm personality to back the game up.......

Without this Personality defined

YOU HAVE NOTHING! YOU WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING WRONG TO CORRECT YOURSELF...

YOU WILL BASE YOUR RESULTS BASED ON FALSE ASSUMPTIONS and BE STAGNANT ....

I was for a LONG TIME !!!!!

The routines arent what define who you are.....your identity and where you work isnt who you are.........


Be A unique SELF among the average guy and you will be fine to start off and build from there.

If you dont then hang out with someone cool..or hire a PU instructor and model their behaviour around women and around people ....You hav to pick someon you can relate to dont pick someon who is totally different fom who you are ..ty to relate to him first then pick up on their positive traits
, good one not the negative one : P ...

nobody is perfect dude. But you get the IDEA!


Build your charismatic personality then GO FOR WHAT YOU WANT !



sandros