Jeffy Show RSD notes reviewd

I love his game and he helped me be funny and confident ..that draws her in...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7-JeKfQ8j2k

Im going to get his new book nine ball

He is emotional guy like me..went through alot of shit like me...

this means alot to finally get better..jeffy is awesome

DVD 1: steroids for the soul

CODE OF CONDUCT
I am a giver of value.
I am social cool and a good guy.
I am energetic fit and healthy.
I am loyal and honest.
I am ambitious and productive. I constantly take steps to better myself.
I am a winner, persistent and flexible when it comes to my goals.
I am playful and fun and I bring this out in others.
I am an inspiration.
I am confident and assertive.
I am intellectual.
I am generous and forgiving.
I am a student of life and ultimately just a guy.
"Follow those who seek the truth, run from those who say they have found it"
RIGHT HERE RIGHT NOW
It starts with being in the moment.
"Life is what happens when we are busy making other plans." john Lennon
You can only process so much.
Be selective about what you focus on.
Your attention must be a laser to the goal.
Keeping focus external.
Only focus on what is relevant.

PHYSICAL CHALLENGES
Become independent of the body.
Social Pressure=the anterior cingulate cortex, an area for error processing, the same thing
that makes you pull a burnt hand away
Building a tolerance-repeated rejection kills the fear
retrain bad experiences into skill drills for improving pressure coping mechanisms
EMOTIONAL FITNESS
ongoing endeavor
very easy to fall back into negative thinking
ROUTINES
wake up and ask yourself
"what am i happy for in my life right now"
"what am i thankful for in my life right now"
"what am i dedicated to in my life right now"
"who loves me"
"who do i love"
EXERCISES
Chodes diss self help and then complain about inner game
CHOOSE MEANINGS
We chose how we react to things.
One guy chodes about, while the other sacks up and goes.
View everything as a challenge, game, or learning experience.
The ability tho assign empowering meanings separate success from failure.
THE ROLE OF LOOKS AND MONEY
-ZERO FACTOR WHATSOEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"I don't need my car to be the shit, I AM THE SHIT"
RECAP:
Game is "an expression of your internal state, conveyed by the rhythms you use to direct
the energy of the interaction."
Three parts of game: Internal Value, External Nuts and Bolts, Intuitive
Understanding of the social Matrix
Characteristics of state and how to control it.
Having love for the game.
Clearly defining your values
Right here right now.
Overcoming physical and emotional challenges.
Assigning empowering meanings.
Role of looks and money.
No attachment to outcome, but always moving towards it.
“Stop criticizing yourself!, but be intelligent about your growth and go for it.”


DVD 2: WE are going in

THE MOST IMPORTANT PEICE OF YOUR GAME
VOCAL PROJECTION
“If they have to say “What” to you opener, you are probably sunk.”

Vocal projection man was a drunk that was smelly, he was rediculously loud, he could
pull and chicks when asked how, he said that at a young age he had an ear infection and
could not hear so he went to speech therapy and learned to inunciate.
Warm up by having you and your friend yell loud belligerent nonsense to get in that mode.
truism: you talk loud, you get laid
PUNCHING THROUGH THE WALL
Assume success
“Believe that you are going to succeed 100% or you are going to Fail”
What you expect to be true will. Pygmalion Effect: teachers were told certain chilren
were smart and they ended up being that.
Do not HOPE it will work, you must KNOW.
Step up like a bomb going off. BOOM! Become a force of nature. Step with that
hard internt. You will not be denied. Keep talking, jack hammering away at their reality
Plowing: If you do not get the result that you want, do not give up, but don!t be pushy, just
assert your frame, agree to disagree. “Give them a chance to give you a chance.”
The best are psychotic and delusional.
THE TALE OF SUPERSTAR
Skinny indian dude with white shirt and tight ass pants, doing magical dance moves. He is
being openly mocked, but doesn!t care. He gets laid like shit. No doubt, no fear, no failure.
CONGRUENCE TESTS
When you have apparent value, girls will test if it is a front. Shit tests are a godd sign.
The most important thing is to remain unreactive, don!t flinch.
A sub-set of social pressure. After a while you will not flinch at all
BEST MULTI PUPOSE ANSWER TO TESTS: “YOUR MOM!”
QUALIFYING YOURSELF
It is very tempting to brag about your accomplishments, especially if you are extroardinarily
accomplished.--don!t
The value of Brevity: less is more. The less you say the better. Brevity:concise and
exact use of words in writing or speech--90-10 rule thatyou should be talking 90% of
the time, talk about many different topics, keeping concise and short on each. Helps
game alot.
THE CHODE CRYSTAL Definition: when the guys go out and form a little crystal of doom,
one guy is in state and all of the other dudes bunch around him and form a crystal, DO NOT
DO IT it is massively negative social proof, if you see youself chode crystaling, smash the
chode crystal and shatter it to the winds.
ON THE WINGS OF LOVE
Sometimes it is ok to send a wingman in first, to warm the group up and them enter, but
don!t try to jide your intentions by doing this. This girl knows this is a pickup, don!t wimp out.
Look for the hook, but don!t step on his game. Enter during a pause. good opener “
what the fuck is this? are you bitches hitting on my boyfriend? He is always like this”
then end the joke there. or “Hey have you seen sara” “no, hey girls mee my friend--”
NEVER CONTRADICT YOUR WING--you don!t want it to look like you are lying to pick
up chicks
Most importantly: IT!S YOUR PARTY--you are not trying to weasel your way into
their!s you are bringing them into yours.
Have low expectations of your friends---don!t depend on them for your happiness
“We don!t define other people with our judgements, our judgements define us” Wayne
Dyer
DONT GET PLAYED!========Supplication
If a chick askes if you will buy them something, say that you normally have a rule
about that, but you will after they make out with you, if it is any good. Ask them how good
they are on a scale of one to ten, if they say eleven, say “Dumbass, what did you fail
math?” after they say a number say “Alright let!s see.” after the makeout say “That sucked,
this time with feeling. ” After that if it was good buy her what she asked for, if it was bad
don!t.
Simpler is if someone asks for something, even a guy, say “Are you going to make out
with me” they will normally say no after that say “That!s okay” as if you didn!t really care, and
just continue.
NEVER BUDGING, NEVER FLINCHING, ALWAYS FUNNY NEVER JERK
If a girl wants something say “Tell you what, i will give you XYZ if you make an
animal noise for me.” “i want you to make the noise like a pig” after she says it say “No I
want you to make the noise like real” “Imagine you are the animal here with me!” then give it
to her
MAKE HER KNOW THERE IS NO FREE LUCH ALWAYS ASK FOR SOMETHING
FIRST--DON!T BE A JERK BUT DON!T GET MANIPULATED
YOU HAVE NO EXCUSES
FASHION
Four Levels of Fashion:
1. lame-ass------you cannot define it but you know it when you see it
2.cool-----------safe no-one can make fun of it “generic”
3. super cool-------you are standing out to the point where if someone wanted to they could
make fun of you--dustinctive
4. Prepostourous--------------peacocking “fucking rediculous”--have one or two interesting
things---everyone should try this because it gets attention--if in a bad state you will get
blown out and teased--if you are incongruent, they won!t take you seriously
THE WALK-UP
you should be thinking:
-cool, social, fun, give value, go, smile, cool, fu, cool, loud, give value, go...........
-don!t be a linger or hover chode----------arrow to the target
don!t look for the perfect opening go staight in and bust in like the koolaid man “
“heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey”
-no flinching
-imagine them like little children--try to see their inner child
-Master the command “Look!”
You have to be able to command the attention where you want it “Look! right here
Look!”
OPENING FOR DOUCHEBAGS
ps: learn to love that word
Douchbag opener:
“I ama a duchebag, do you like douchbags? Wanna be my new best friend?”
DIRECT
This is where you just go up and introduce yourself, no pretense giving an SOI right
off the bat. There are obvoisly various degrees of this. If you don!t believe this
100% you are done. Forces her to flip a yes/ no switch right off the bat based on
your demenor, and you appearance.
INDIRECT
This is where you go up under a pretense. The classic is the opinion opener.
STAGES OF THE OPINION OPENER
1.The Magic Tap
Literaly a tap with two fingers, the firmer the better. (tap tap)
2.Salutation
Get their attention. “Hey Guys”
3. False Time Constraint
Make it seem like you are out of time. “Real Quick”
4. The Opinion
Favorite opener: the friend zone “If a guy is in the “Friend Zone” with a girl is there
any way he can get out of that?”
5. Response
“Well I think that blaah blahh blah”
6. Follow
“My buddy really likes this girl and I am like “Dude yo are in the friend zone man, fuck
nothing can escape, not even light it is like a black hole, you are Done.””
Overly Elaborate Opener
Make it a weird long complicated thing that the girl won!t get then answer with “Oh
you are still cool” and follow up. EX. “How do you feel about the global warmong of
the thermo-nucularisation in eastern Europe” make it like a joke and not really serious
about the answer.
Going Dummy:
The “I am stupid as fuck, wanna be friends.” Opener OR Give her the card from a
taco shop and say “Hey, you should work there, I cook the XYZ You come inand
you get a special XYZ with a special sauce. HA You are cool, though what!s
happening.”
Insane
Wicked stupid and retarded, lick them, BAM!!,
--JUST HAVE FUN OPENING--
RECAP
-Vocal projection
-Assuming success
-Congruence tests “YOUR MOM”
-Qualifying yourself
-Winging
-Supplication
-Dependancies
-Fashion
-Approaching
KAROKE REVOLUTION
-Get used to making a fool of yourself in public
-Knock yourself out of your comfort zone
Secrets of kareoke and gaming:
1. Vocal Projection
2. Rhythm--the norms of body language, projection, topics,
c loseness in the group--mimic it so you can
then change their rhythm. They will follow your lead.
3.Expression. Because all game comes from within, you must
express your personality in all of the game. DON!T BE A ROBOT!
Put your personality on the line.
4.Congruence--will they believe the words that you are saying?
Without congruence you can be smooth as fuck
and you will hear things like ”I don!t trust/ believe you.”

DISC 3:

Take your Passion and Make it Happen
Routines:
“There is a time and a place for everything?”
Routines are useful during:
Opening
When attention begins to drift, or when friends come
Favorite routines:
Push-pull
it is set up with SOI...IOD
ex. “You are the nicest girl I have met.....or you are a total weirdo”
Future Adventure Projection
“I want to take you on a romantic date, to Burger King. We would have the best
table right up front.” elaborate with you guys ending up on the beach writing your
names in the sand with our feet. Either that or I can screw you in the bathroom right
now. It!s your choice.
Side comment on how to
speak like that without getting
blown out:
Do not pause and dwell on it
keep moving--shifting sands
Misinterpretation
Any time the girl says something that could be interpreted in some bizzare way as
meaning she wants you flip it on her.
Elastic Snapbac
You say things like “You suck” or “I hate you” or a backturn. It!s breaking rapport, to
be used when you are losing her attention.
Takeaways
ONLY used at a high point. Basicaly waking away when they get attached to you for
like 3 minutes.
Mini-Takeaways
When you take away your attention. EX. “The Pretend Text-
Message” act like you have a text when she is laughing. or Just Start
Looking Around Do it like you are looking for someone.
Stories
Become a man of stories “Stories are a showcase of your personality.” They DON!T
even have to be that cool. THEY DON!T HAVE TO BE FUNNY THEY CAN JUST BE
QUIRKY. Just tell her random crap that you have done that day. “Have you seen XYZ it
was soo XYZ” if she andswers yes say “What was you favorite scene” if not say “Let me
explain it” say the most retarded specific shit like “he smokes weed” or “He kills dudes” or
“He angs the chick froms XYZ” and make it sound very varied.
THE FRIENDZONE
You have to make things sexual from the get go.
Adopt a flirtaious tone
Start the physical escalations early on in the interaction.
This must be done from the get go.
The friend zone is a black hole, nothing escapes.
All tactics merely serve to get their attention. All sexual attraction is built by
subcommunication. These 5 channels are:
5 VARIABLES
Voice
is it dominant, the tonality, the pauses that you use, the speed
Body Language
Owning The Interaction
Tone
Being the right man for her
this is basicaly finding out what she wants to hear
from a sexy man, and telling her stories
and highlighting that part of your personality.
SHIFTING GEARS
Transfering into “Rapport Mode”
At some point you actually have to make a connection with the person you are
talking to otherwise it is all just empty non-sense. You do this very soon, from right
off the bat to 10 minutes in. Be aware of being a comedian. Shift after and IOI
IOIs
-Playing with her hair, ect.
-Gazing intently
-Touching you
-Laughing at you jokes even when they are not funny.
~Trust Your Feelings~
On When To Shift
CRYSTALIZATION:
A club is a very disassociated environment. It is like nothing is real. They don!t even
see you as a person. You have to become a real person to them. You have to crystalize
yourself into a real person. How to do this
CRYSTALIZATION METHODS
1.Qualify on the close
Say “Can I get you number, this is crazy, tomorrow you probably aren!t
even going to remember me” Make her say “No, I will remeber you”
2.Commonalities
Find out if you guys have anything in common. THIS IS GOLD. This can turn a
bland conversation into the set of GOD. Like common interests, towns, hobbies,
people. Make it real. Never say “Me Too.”
3.Filling In The Canvas
Filling In The Canvas of your life. Elaborate on your life as much as possible. Talk
about what you wanted to be when you were a kid, and how I got where you are
today. Talk about places you have moved.
4. Photo Routine
Have some pictures stored and bring them up if it happens to arise in conversation.
Don!t show it off.
5. Venue Changing
The more you change venues the better. It forms an illusion that you have known
someone longer than you actually have. Always be dropping hints beforehand.
Dont ask, say “Sko” not “Let!s go.” OVERSELL THE SHIT OUT OF WHERE
YOU ARE GOING. Don!t do too much convincing.
“A person!s name is, to that personn, the sweetest, most important sound in any language.”
Dale Carnegie
~REMEMBER THE NAME~
DEALING WITH THE INTERLOPERS
cockblock
Most of the time this does not happen, Relax!
80% of the time you see a guy with a girl it is not their boyfriend.
How to handle them if they do cockblock?
IGORE! IGNORE! IGNORE!
or
Cut them Off and Talk Over Them
and
Laugh!, and Dismiss them from your reality!
Big trick: Say you are introducing them to your friends, grab a random person, and leave
them together.
Total Eclipse of the Chode:
“Once upon a time he was falling in love,
now he is just a fucking dode. Nothing he can do,
total eclipse of the chooode”
and literaly sread your wings and soar,
as you do this push the other guy away.
There is nothing he can do.
Things to learn from Ozzie:
~JUST CLOSE!~
ABC:
Always
Be
closing
~Bang the chodes~
Actualy run up and grind on them,
or act like you are raping them,
always works
~Chode Parachute~
Climb up on someone and literaly drop in on the chode!
~Chode Throw~
say “You are a fag, get the fuck out of here!”
and throw him away!
Psyco Openers
Walk up to a girl and be like “Go tiger, Go Tiger” Having fun? Having fun?” Hey look at my
ass you want to touch it ! You like, yeah, you wanna touch it” Grab their hand put it on you
ass”It!s good, huh, it!s good.””Let me touch yours, grabs their ass and asy it!s good, is not
fluffy, i like this, you work out, Yes?”
It can be done if you believe it.
or
Pick up a girl and start banging them on your dick!
Recap
-Routines
-Stories as a showcase
-”The Friendzone”
-5 Variables
-Shifting Gears and crstalisation
-Dealing with cockblocks
-Ozzie and the power of state

DVD 4: BRINGING IT HOME

Dealing with groups vs. Loners
A girl alone is there to get laid, point blank period!
DEALING WITH LARGE GROUPS
You must engage everyone in the group. Think of it like juggling.
Spread eye contact between all of them.
Wingman are great for this.
~WIN !EM ALL OVER~
If you just focus on the target, then the others will become cockblocks.
~PLAY THE HOST~
Introduce other people in the venue to one another.
Open one group with an opinion opener,
then go to tell your “friends” that tthey said that ,
and introduce the two.
Boom, it occupies some of the group.
~Sacrificing the virgin~
Blow out one girl in front of another .
PHONE PHOLLIES
~ You Can Never Eliminate Flakes~
YOU CANNOT TAKE
FLAKES PPERSONALY
When to call: THE VERY NEXT DAY
In your mind they want to hear from you. You don!t want the magic
to fade.
Messages
SHORT AND SWEET “Hey What!s up, it me hey so i am kinda going
in and out, so yeah try to get ahold of me. Okay, Cool, Bye” Don!t
say name. I you aren!t called back use the “Weeping Air Supply
Callback Technique”
Weeping Air Supply Callback Technique:
With weepy music it backbroung say in a crying tone: “Hey XYZie
this is is (You)ie. When are you gonna call me back? You said you
would remember me! Call me back. I have no friends! I am a total
chode. You are my only chance for love! AH Ha Ha No seriouly you
areing a fucking brat you should really call me back. And check it I
will even sing for you.” Then crank up the music. Sing along with the
music and hold one note for like 20 seconds. And end with “Bi-atch.”
What to do on the first call:
Do not go for setting up a meetup. Just establish yourself in their life.
FORMAT
1st call: “Hey what!s going on, bllah blaah blaab?” Then tell a little story of
what!s happening to you that day. Get them laughing than be like, “So
what are youdoing today?, yea, great, cool” and then cut it off. and tell her
you have to go do something, but can you call her back. Then call her
back a couple days later.
Two stories to use:
“Toss my salad”
I was at lunch today, and well there was an elderly gentleman at one of
the tables. This guy is freaking out. He is like caling the waitor over.
Apparently there was a problem with his salad. It was not tossed enough.
So he is like “I told you I wanted them to toss my salad. (Which means
rimming) Toss my salad, blaah blah bla.” So me and some other people
start laughing. And the waiter gets a smirk. So the man is like “You think
this is funny? Get me the Managar.” So the managar comes out and the
man is like “THis is absurd, I told them to toss my salad, my salad has ot
been tossed. I Do not see what the big problem is why can!t you just get
someone to come out from back there and toss my salad” I am not sure if
he meant to do this, but the managar is like: “I am sorry, we are going to
rectify this immediatly.” hat was like the highlight of my day.
2nd call: Same thing, quick little story to pump the buying temperature.
Then push with the meetup. Be like “Okay so you are meeting me at XYZ
at XYZ o!clock”. Plow, don!t take no for an answer, just repeat it “Irrelevant,
cancel, this is better, is it a good friend well the they!l understand. So what
are you doing after that, cut the shit, fuck that” BELIEVE it! BE
RELENTLESS
Text Messaging
Make it over the top, utter nonsense, Don!t give a fuck,
END GAME
Your House
It doesn!t ave to be super clean, just don!t make it like a frat house!
Have ti be reletivly adult, but the one thing. You bathroom should be
spotless.
-Ultimate Secret of Pickup-
Toilet Paper!
Condams
Certain will trigger LMR and one of these is condams. Don!t have
them laying around.
LMR Freakout
Don!t flip when she gives LMR, agree and esculate, it just means
more time. Be Cool With It.
Freezouts
When you get LMR, just freeze her out and hop up and away. Don!t
be harsh. Don!t have any anger. Be supersweet and supercool. Just do
something else and try again later. Don!t be a value taker.
DICIPLINE AND INTENT
the most important thing that you need
“Without Dicipline, we can solve nothing. With only some dicipline, we can
only sove some problems. With total dicipline, we can solve all problems.”
M. Scott Peck.
Dicipline=====having a game plan and sticking to the script, this
means following up on your numbers, sticking in the game and seeing the
big picture
The ability to delay gratification is the key to maturity. It makes
the difference between being proactive and just floating along.
Problems are not going to go away of their own accord just
because you went to some seminar and heard some chode with
a psudo-mullet talk.
Always ask yourself
“What Would Tyler Do?”
WWTD
THRESOMES AND TANDEM PICKUPS
-When you are with a girl, Sets Open You are: COOL, FUN, SOCIAL.
You get a get out of Jail free card on trust.
-TARGET IMPLICITY: Both you and your girl must attract them. It must be
Implicitly understood what is going on before exraction.
Tell them what lie to tell their friends
or tell it for them
ONE TEAM, ONE DREAM:
You must provide a united front. You ust love your wing. Dual inner game.
-In set you are two people in set, but when pulling, you are one
mechanical unit.
-When you have a girl with you, she can accurately tell you what that other
girl is thinking.
-Girl AMOGS she can bust on the dudes in ways that you can never even
dream of.
-Hierarcy and ground rules
One of them is always top dog, you have to follow them. DO NOT
VIOLATE THOSE
Cultivate a “Us vs. Him” Mentality
where the girls are actually
conspiring against you
Agood way to do this is have her make them trade
clothes and see if you notice.
Do not notice
Elaborate routines become commonplace--don!t use them.
RECAP
-Dealing with groups
-phone game
-end game
-discipline and intent
-threesomes and tandem hunting
DVD 5:
When all is said and done
THE WISDOM OF CONFUCIOUS
“I read and I forget. I see and I remember. I Do andI understand”
Confucious
THE FIELD IS KING
A method has no soul.
You, as the player, must bring soul to the method.
They are tools, not an exact blueprint.
MOST PICKUP IS TEXTBOOK.
~RULES EXIST SO YOU KNOW WHEN TO BREAK THEM~
THE HARD ROAD TO
CALIBRATION
“Aim for consistancy, not perfection.”
Tip:
Get a flashlight. If someone loses something, it helps, and to get through a
crowd just hold it up over one ear and say “Move” like a bouncer.
“Develop Your Field Intuition”
Spidey-sense must be grown
“When you get more experiance,
you start to pick up on those little things.”
BE PATIENT.
You have your whole life to get good.
“LIVING THE LIFE”
#1 thing:
Not being a basement dwelling D&D cave troll.
Women Are Everywhere!!!!!!
“THE IMPORTANCE OF INTERNAL VALUE”
BE CHALLENGING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
As we grow up we are firest ruled by our emotions, then by
social rules and values, and finaly our code.
Utimately you want to live by your code.
But to truely live by it and be free, we must first confront our
“Shadow self” in the darkest corners of our mind.
We condemn most in others most that which we most fear
ourselves.
Be brutally honest with yourself and stay vigilant.
Listen to your friends.
There are two ways to get an amazing woman:
Become an amazing manipulator, or an amazing man.
~”With Great Power Comes Great Responsabiity”~
Ancillary Skills Add Value:
1. Avoid becoming obsessd with pickup at the exclusion of all else.
2. “Being Passionate About something is highly attractive”
Travel
-Gives you perspective.
-Learn what constitute value in other cultures.
-Helps sharpen your overall field intuition
Cycling
Music
-Singing/Karoke
-Instruments
-Make it cool
Comedy
-Stand up
-Improv
Cooking
-Nutrition-Quality Control
-Very Romantic
Fitness
OVERCOMING ADVERSITY
You have to deal with it!
“Circumstances do not make a man, they reveal him.”
James Allen
Your Identity is Fluid!
“After Enlightenment, the laundry”
ZEN
RECAP
-Bringing soul to the method
-Calbration
-Lifestyle
-Internal Value
-Ancillary Skils
-stepping up and being a man
“Life is what you make of it”
~BE PROACTIVE~
“Make the myths”
Affitmations
I am proud of my desires as a man
I move through the world without apology.
I was made to satisfy women.
I don"t need any particular woman.
Women are abundant.
I do not dwell on the past....The past cannot be relived...Good ot Bad
Rejection is a great thing the more I get rejected the more I will get laid.
There are no mistakes and no failures---just experiance and growth.
Every Rejection is a brick in my palace
I control how I interact with people, the choice is mine.