Dude Ive talked to julian foxx before by gmail chat and he is smart guy..
what most impressed me other than the contraversial mystery challenge
http://www.metacafe.com/watch/1474337/live_footage_of_mystery_julian_foxx_in_the_field/
was his female psycology product with vin di carlo...
This guy is a must to learn from...definately finnesse style of game...
Im not a fan of style or the game..honestly cause guys see it as a business and alot of guys get into it and talk about it and dont get laid...
the forbidden truth by brad P is a must read
I accept the fact of learning with someone or even paying to learn from an experienced person...why? cause you value it and they value you...its genuine help and since theres investment by both parties its better than just free advice from someone that doesnt know or understand or even slept with women...
SAD, VERY SAD....
I work with the BEST but it was up to me to make the desciscion at each moment to make a move and be assertive...
in this post you will understand why its important from the get go...
learning game is tough road.... but once you know how it works , and what works for you.... you dont need game..game are tools and you become a walking seduction artist not a pickup artist....
my personal style is once I lay 15 girls and have more intuition of rhythm.. Im going to go for more advanced stuff..
maybe BRAD P's material or threesomes and other stuff
but for now Im focused on survival and fitness and keep gaming
game doesnt stop..players change but it never stops
Its maintaining the wicked jumpshot thats getting me laid....
that being said I decided to post julian's rule on approaching....
The Now rule by julian foxx
The 3 second rule... Its been around for years,
and for many guys it's an important part of their game.
In case you're not familiar, the 3 second rule is a widely taught pickup concept that says you must approach a woman within three seconds of seeing her.
If you don't approach within the 3 seconds, then you shouldn't approach at all. You've lost the momentum. When I first learned about it, I thought it was fantastic. In fact, theoretically it's perfect.
But practical application has yielded an ugly discovery... As I've worked with more and more clients over the last four years, I've had quite a few who practiced this technique.
But eventually I noticed a pattern among some of them that was down right destructive. They were actually using the 3 second rule as a crutch! Because the rule states that you shouldn't approach if you hesitate beyond 3 seconds, it was giving guys an out.
You see, the idea behind it is sound; If I hesitate, I don't get to approach. The problem is most of us are scared to death of approaching, and we'll use any excuse we can to get out of it. And following the 3 second rule gives us an escape hatch. Think about it... All you have to do is wait 3 seconds, and then you're home free! You don't have to approach anymore, in fact, technically you're NOT ALLOWED TO.
Sounds a little crazy right? But truth is stranger than fiction, and I made the discovery only after diagnosing the problem in a number of clients. When it comes down to real life, the 3 second rule is flawed. And you shouldn't be waiting 3 seconds anyway... In fact, you shouldn't be waiting at all.
Which is why I'd like to replace the 3 second rule with:
The "Now" Rule.
Pretty self explanatory right? Yep, waiting isn't allowed anymore.
And I don't care if you don't have any idea what to say. There is another critical difference between The Now Rule and The 3 second rule...If you hesitate and don't approach her when you first see her, guess what? Yeah, it's still now.
So you still have to approach her. There is no out. Sorry. What you might discover in doing this is that the sooner you approach, the less agony you're going to feel. And perhaps more importantly, she is likely to be far more receptive. Women like it when men don't hesitate.
So essentially, if you don't follow The Now Rule, and you delay... your punishment is that you STILL have to approach... But this time you've lost momentum, and perhaps she has sensed your lack of commitment.
So now you're working at a disadvantage. But you still have to work. Ya dig? This subtle advance in your thinking will train you to start approaching sooner. Because you'll realize very quickly that it is far more rewarding and significantly less painful to approach now.
Enjoy, Julian
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