Monday, November 16, 2009

kick ass random wisdom from Bonsai LS instructor

Imprint this in your head: “I AM A 10.”

Nice guys do finish last. Nice guys with an edge (game) date beautiful women.

In order to date a 10, you have to be a 10.

Women live in the moment. What she said yesterday/last week/a month ago does not mean it still counts today.

If you end up in the friend zone, you done or more of these things: 1) don’t show enough interest in her 2) masquerade your real intentions 3) don’t physically escalate 4) build too much rapport before she is attracted to you.

Read this book: How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie.

Poor man’s qualification: list 5 things non-physical you want in a woman and find out if she meets your list.

When you kiss a girl for the first time, pull out first, look her in the eye and say ‘That is all you get.’ She will go crazy over you

Women live in the moment. What she said yesterday/last week/a month ago does not mean it still counts today.


Escalate or masturbate

The fastest way to get game is by being proactive about it. For every hour you study game, spend two hours in the field practicing.

Avoid having a lot of clocks in your bedroom. You do not want to remind a girl what time it is.

Master sending mixed signals to women and you will have women falling all over you.

An easy way to build comfort is by sharing childhood memories and talking how you two grew up.

Don’t treat your group of friends and acquaintances as a bar/club. Practice your game outside your social circle.

Do not be ashamed to be attracted to women and looking at them. You’re guy. It’s your privilege.

Facebook is a great way to stay in contact with female friends. Setup a meetup with one of your female friends and have her introduce you to her single friends. Girls love playing Cupid.

A good first date starts at your place and ends at your place.

When it comes to clothes, go for quality instead of quantity. It’s better to have less clothes that make you look really good than have a lot of clothes that make you look average.

To keep a ‘friends with benefits’ relationship, do not see her more than once a week and avoid any relationship talk.


The first kiss can make or break you. Women judge you on your first kiss. So practice kissing girls. A LOT.

Don’t go to a movie or dinner for first date. Go where talking is not a burden and you can bounce around.


After you get her phone number, stay a couple more minutes before you leave. That way it won’t feel like a “pick up” to her and you reduce the number of flaky phone numbers

Running out of things to say? Grab a copy of the Routines Manual to fill up conversation gaps.

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