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Where I came from
Author Message
L.A. Tripp
Subject: Where I came from Mon Mar 22, 2010 12:40 am
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When I got into this game, I came in as a married man who got sex literally every day.
Guys ask me all the time if it truly is a mindset that we need to have when in the field.
My response, "yes it is."
Then I tend to be countered with, "well, you have choices, so of course your mindset is one of abundance."
Guess what, I technically had abundance the first night I entered the field. Yet, I still entered just like every other AFC out there. I didn't know how to approach women, how to build attraction or comfort, how to seduce. I didn't know how to even number close.
"But you were married. You had obviously done all of that already, so why didn't you know?"
You know what? I was married twice before as well, with kids. So, obviously I had done the entire process multiple times. Doesn't matter. I still entered like every other AFC out there. This means, it truly IS a mindset.
I went out with the thinking that I couldn't get any, that I had no options, etc. After a while in the field, like a couple of months, I started realizing something. Although I wasn't attracting any new girls in the field, I had someone at home waiting for me. I was getting laid regardless. It was around this time I finally got my first number and kiss close in the same night. That same girl ended up being my first fuck close after getting into PUA. I still have contact with that girl today, actually. She had even joined me and my wife in the bedroom.
You don't need to know all those details though. Here's the point, it truly is a mindset. You can have options, yet go through your daily life thinking you don't have any options, and you'll display the traits of being needy, clingy, etc, just like every other AFC. Or, you can realize and understand that you DO have options, even if you DON'T have a woman waiting in your bed right at that moment. The fact is, there are tons of women everywhere, available women. And, many of these women are looking for relationships, many are looking for no commitments, etc. You have them, literally, all around you. For your picking, if you wanna think of it that way.
If I can go out and think that I can't get any . . . when someone is at home waiting for me . . . then you can do the same thing, and it's a mistake. Change your mindset, and you'll change your outcome.
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AFC: "Would you mind coming here please, if it's not too much trouble?"
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