Tuesday, May 11, 2010

bt spikes and emotions Tim

Im looking for the concept of bt spiking on how emotions go up and down TD did a chart which Joey oso had in his hand.

Tim
"Girls just want to be taken."
"One thing separates a champ and a chump - 100% belief"

100% belief
-Deserving
-Offers value to the world
-You do not give a damn what anyone on the face of this earth thinks of you. No one.

What is the #1 Rule?
"I do not give a damn about what Anyone thinks of me."

1 Thing that separates the Good from the Best
-Creativity

Thinking process - Oh, girl. Hot girl. Go get girl.

Be the party - What does it mean?
-Self Talk - Add to things. Clicker - Clicker of Glory
-It's what you make of it.
-Fashion
-The Venus Fly Trap of Desire
+Just shoot the shit with boys
+Picking out guys
-Box dance.
-Generate party and suck people into it.
-How do you suck people in to your reality? Be the party


Rosetta Stone
3 keys

Key 1 - How We Are
-------/ TR - TRYING for Rapport
-------- NR - Neutral Rapport
-------\ BR - Breaking Rapport
Facial and body expressions change.

-Where are you from?
TR: Hey? Where are you from? (Tonality sloping Up - Lower Social Value)
NR: Where you from? (Tonality is neutral, very flat - Higher Value)
BR: Ey, Where you from? (Tonality is kind of confrontational, shit test - Higher Value)

Consciously try to keep it flat. Balance between NR and BR. New people go into TR.
Boss is usually in BR to keep authority.

Key 2 - What We DO - Can apply anywhere
-Emotional vs Logic
+Girls Emotional, Guys Logical
-Emotional Spike
+Why do jerks, assholes get women? Spike emotions, but to the negative. But they're still spiking emotions. He's the only one who can spike those emotions.
+Spike to the positive, the good side of the force - Don't be a robot. Ask random questions. Left field conversations.

Predictability
-Chump - Hey. HEY! I'm Chump.
-OK Bearable - Introduced through friend or so. No sexual tension.
-Intriguing/Entertaining/Fun - Can be one or all. As soon as fun is over, they leave. Keep it light. AKA - Dancing Monkey Syndrome
-Sex-Worthy - Not entertaining the girls. He is entertaining himself. 100% of the time.
+Only 1 thing to be doing - Be UNPREDICTABLE. Can't fully figure you out.

Key 3 - Plotlines
Plotlines for interactions
AFC stuff is very limited
Develop a Relationship
"You're going to be my girlfriend for the next 5 minutes."
"You're going to be my bodyguard. Let me see those guns."
"You're my personal assistant. I'm a rockstar with a really busy schedule...You can be like Lloyd from Entourage."

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PU Theories
-Cocky Funny
-M3 Timeline
-Vibing
-Negs
-Role Playing
-Future Adventure Projection
-Push/Pull
-Cavemanning
-Kino
-Physical Escalation
-Qualifying
-NLP
-Sexual State
-Eliciting Values

Plotline
Is push/pull taken care of. Negs - you suck as a girlfriend. Emotional connection - You're the best girlfriend. Kino - This is how we hold hands. Sexual State - Girlfriend, I miss you..
Synthesized PU theory into a plotline.

How We Are
Neutral to Breaking
How We Do It
Look for Predictability Tree
Throw Out Cool Scenario

Pickup is merely a celebration of Who You Are

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Another emotional intelligence point is don't use two "I need a female
opinion"s in a row. It comes off weird.
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