I only do daygame.
and most scenarios have to do with either being somewhere and seeing a woman hot doing random errands and I get clueless at times to open them.
I dont go to coffee shops and bookstores just for pickup, I got ton of stuff to do and I think I should have an ability to be somewhere and get a chance to get to know a girl.
A scenario is today I saw was :
Gas station I was pumping gas and the car
the car behind me a hot woman comes out and goes in to pay and then goes to pump her gas into her car , she looks elsewhere doesnt notice me..I try to go open and hesitate...dont open F-K!
Library: Im standing looking for a book standing infront of bookshelf looking at books,I notice a cute girl looking at me ,
I look and notice her looking at me and catch her eye.....I hesitate and look away back into looking into bookshelf and she leaves....F-K!
Outside Supermarket:
I was driving by talking w my brother in my car a notice a woman who is corner who walks out of a local mini mart...I drive by slow and she then stands in the corner to cross , she stares and then I smile she smiles back with a sexual vibe and I drive away....its like we exchanged sexual eye contact....
I noticed from this and other posts before that Im constantly hesitating to open, Its ok to be caught off guard but now its becoming more and more often these scenarios and Im not doing something about it and its frustrating.
[QUOTE=Jesse Charger;4853]For day game, it can help to feel that *inner fury*.
"I will chase this girl down to the ends of the Earth, no matter what it takes" feeling. But still chilled and relaxed about it. So that you have that masculine drive...
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It makes sense Jesse, I tried this out and yes, you are right my state fluctuates a bit. about the masculine drive...I just happened read this other Post article you wrote:
[QUOTE=Jesse Charger;4853]Here’s What NOT to Do
The thing is, most guys do the exact OPPOSITE. They would secretly love to date a tanned blonde more than anything, but whenever they see one, they put their heads down and pretend not to notice her. And they NEVER express their desires.....
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AHA! Yes this is whats wrong
I see a girl have passion for her and social anxiety kicks in... and I then cockblock myself at times and hesitate. put my head down pretend not to notice her and look away..
I like how you put this cause it makes sense...
Excellent ,thank you guys.
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Youre not the only guy who has seen an opportunity and didnt approach. I have done it so many times so dont beat yourself over the the head.
For me pickup begins at each morning when I get out of bed. I shower, shave look at myself in the mirror tell myself how handsome and sexy I am. I head to the station make small talk with old lady at the bus stop. Get onthe bus pay for my ticket do some small talk with the bus conductor.
Get of the bus head to the coffee shop. Chat to the girl behind the counter about her day so far. Head to work on the train.
By this time I am already in a "social vibe". In my experience once you are switched to a social vibe its easier to move to sexual vibe.
Take every opportunity to make conversation with people around you. To get yourself into a social vibe. Constantly talk to different people during the day. Even to women you dont fancy.
Some guys in the community have this ego thing. Oh I only smooth talk to hot women. Guys who do that end up having a tool to talk to hot girls but it never really becomes part of their personality. Once it becomes a tool which is not part of them they find it harder to switch on when they see a girl they really do fancy.
Hope this helps
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Yeah, I agree with, FM..I have stalled/hesitated many times and still do.
But, I also do the things FM does by being friendly with as many people as possible.
Here's my moto:
Be friendly and flirt with ALL women. This includes TOUCHING the women. (Handshake, squeeze her hand, touch her shoulder, etc.)
Yes, I can see it as developing momentum as soon as I wake-up.
TM
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