Im having this issue.
When its time to close and she seems horny and have sex its usually not at the seduction location.
Than when I am thinking about taking her to a place like to enter the motel, she freaks out and gets major LMR.
I cant take her to my place cause Im temporaily sharing it with someone while school starts again for me to move out on my own.
Also I tried in the car but it isnt comfortable at all.
in the past I never got LMR like this but its predictable a girl would get freaked out when she enters a motel and starts feeling like a slut.
last girls didnt care about motel they were really horny and I just took them.
but Im now finding that a problem when I have made out and touched her sexually and she is turned on and it isnt at the seduction location.
She gets honry or throws sexualinnuendo at me and is horny and cant figure what to do .....and if we driving somewhere and I drive in to motel.
Its kindah funny but frustrating......
I'd like to ask any experienced guys out there who have had to deal with such problem.
once I move out , and get girls to my place would be smoother pickup.
Im encountering this issues cause in the past if I let it pass and leave it for a date, her attraction dissapates and i dont hear from girls...So I decided once its on and they get all sexual then I should go for the Fast seduction.
any insight would help thanks.-
PS: I'm probably not keeping her sexually aroused on the drive to the motel.
#2 (permalink) 12-01-2010, 09:54 AM
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The only perfect solution to this is to get your own place.
One solution: you pull her into your car and just finger her or do oral sex. And then the NEXT time you meet up with her, pull her to a cheap motel. She'll be cool with it by then. It does add extra steps.
Or just don't tell her where you're going, just say "Let's Go". When you get to the motel, tell her that you LIVE in the motel temporarily because you're moving just to get her inside the door. That's just BS to turn off her objections. She'll see once you get inside that you're not living there, but at least you're inside.
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I noiced doc holliday uses the bathrroom and I treid that and it doesnt work at times, most consistent is your place ala janka.
Adam lyons posted a video and he mentioned changin plans and watching a movie pull....
but only time I had work is when girl was already attracted...I remeber HB susan saradon FB, who told me she wanted to go somewhere with me provate, we did it in a hotel. also the black girl in DR , I picked her up due to safety and I dorve around abit and bought her beer we talk for 15 minutes and drove to motel and she fucked me.
so these scenarios are possible...just have to lead and pump her state.
LA Tripp pointed out :
Good. I know society would have you think escalation is creepy, but it's only creepy if you do it in a creepy way. Escalation is normal and life won't progress without it ;)
i think alot of sticking points in my head would clear out once I move the fuck out.
Yes, moving out will help a lot, this is true. However, you still have to take responsibility and personal power over your life. And that starts within your own head. Who leads your life? Who makes your decisions for what directions you will go? Who decides what you wear, what you watch, what you listen to, where you go, what you eat, who your friends are, what you will do with your life? The answer to all of those questions SHOULD be YOU.
Also, I know you said about logistics in closing doesnt matter. Which is true based on arrousing the girl and pulling back.
Nope, based on arrousing, spiking her BT. Pulling back is just to calibrate and raise the BT more.
I just fucking wonder I am going to have to experiment closing women to the motel , i might have to frame it as "an adventure we both want" and spiking her BT by usisng positive framing how spontaneous and adventurous we can both be.
Yes, it ALL depends on the frame which YOU set with the girl.
CJ says :
. Ask her “What’s on the agenda for later?”
This one needs some explaining. A lot of PUAs think this is about Logistics. It isn’t. In fact, Logistics aren’t nearly as important as everyone believes. Shocking? Not really
Do you think that’d change things a bit?
Logistics matter LESS and LESS the more interested and turned on she is… I used to let logistics derail me. Now, I hardly even pay attention.
Can they fuck you up? Sure. They used to fuck me up all the time. Then, I discovered “Drunk-n-Lonely Texting.”
Focus on getting her to really, really see you as a liberator of her sexual frustrations and SHE will handle the logistics for you.
The purpose of the question is to establish in her mind that you have probably sexual intent AND you are seeking a way to create an opportunity.
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TheWolfHowls - pay attention. This is exactly how I feel about the whole logistic deal, as you know. Like I said before, if you keep thinking in this logistic frame of mind, you are most likely creating barriers that didn't exist in the first place.
As for the rest of the post, it's not that I really disagree with what he is saying, but I hate the way it is presented. But you all already knew that
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09-30-2010 09:00 AM #3 flight23
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Its just to much stuff to remember, these logistics only cloud the mind with unnecessary do do!
What most guys dont realize is its really simple! There is no need to over complicate things, with step by step scenario guides..
Wow.. This post was a total head fuck.. I need a glass of water
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