Many of you guys know this but it is good to go back to basics from time to time. It can always help you reflect and see things in a different light. Below is a routine that I created using Future Projections and Pair bonding to help achieve deep levels of comfort within a short period of time. Check it out!
The trick to having little to no LMR is comfort. Comfort is crucial to getting laid! The more comfort you build, the less LMR you will get. The game is truly played in comfort. Many girls makes the guy wait a little before having sex with them mainly because they are not comfortable with the idea of having sex with the guy. That is why it is so important for you to not only have rapport but sexual rapport and build a solid connection with her. If you build her sexual comfort effectively, there will be no time limit on how soon you can have sex with her.
Future Projecting is a powerful tool that can greatly increase her comfort level with you. When done properly, it anchors strong feelings of comfort that can only otherwise be achieved by spending long periods of time with each other; it brings that feeling into the present moment.
Below is an example routine of how to properly future project and use pair bonding for a one-two punch.
"You really have to go with me to my friend’s beach house in Mexico with me! It will be so much fun! Imagine you and me lying on the beach in the warm sun relaxing sipping on a cold tall glass of pina colada listening to the waves of the ocean and feeling the cool breeze flowing through our hair. Can you feel the warm sand between your toes? I can see it now! I notice you need more sun block on your shoulders and back so I help you put some on like this. (Then demonstrate as if you were going to put sun block on her shoulders and back).
“Then I noticed how tensed you are so I give you a slow relaxing massage and put you to sleep in my arms. Wouldn’t that be amazing?! Then I later we can go horseback riding down the beach and watch the sunset as we head back for a dinner that is waiting for us on the patio. There will be tiki torches and sweet bottles of wine waiting for us. Then we can go and dance on the sand in the moonlight all night. (Grab her and embrace her like you are slow dancing) and get her to feel your touch and imagine herself actually there with you."
To add a Buying Temperature spike you can also say:
"Wait! You’re not a cheap drunk are you? (do a light push by letting her go of the embrace) Because with all of that wine, you will be stepping on my toes and falling all over the place. So…… I will have to carry you back to the bedroom like this. (Then pick her up and carry her for a few seconds.) This will get her out of the trance and pump up her BT.
Then bring her back into the trance for even a deeper added effect (Fractionation).
Then as you are lying there in my arms, I am holding you close and gently move your hair to the side and slowly caress your soft beautiful skin with the back of my fingers. (Move her hair out of her face and lightly caress her face with the back of your hands and fingers. You can go in for a kiss at this time if you wish. Or you can get close to get her to anticipate it and pull away to tease her and build some sexual tension. Logistically, you must be close to her in order to have a smooth transition."
Qualify her to get her to work to earn your right to go with you.
"But I am not sure if that is something you would enjoy. Do you like spending relaxing weekends on the beach with someone special to you?"
Can you see how powerful the routine can be? It is effective on several levels.
1. It gets her to imagine spending time with you in the future
2. And if she was to lie on the beach next to you some place far away, it means she’s already really comfortable with you. Weekend get-a-ways are usually associated with couples spending intimate time together. She will imagine spending time with you as a couple. Also, lying on a beach in a bikini implies that she has a certain level of comfort in exposing her body to you. Also rooming with you in a hotel conveys more pair bonding.
3. Also at the end of the routine, get her to accept your frame by verbal confirmation. It helps solidify her acceptance in her mind.
4. For increased effectiveness, ask her to describe details of the future projeciton to you. If she can see herself there with you, then she can see you in her life down the line. And that can build some serious comfort!
5. Also, doing the push pull will help maintain attraction and eliminate the creepy vibe. It will also help her fractionate.
6. You are also generating attraction and sexual arousal at the same time by leading her imagination and showing dominance by manipulating her body and carrying her. It also helps her feel more comfortable with your physical touch.
7. With this routine, you can bring it up later in the interaction and joke about it. You can say, in a playful way, “If you don’t behave yourself, I’m not going to take you horseback riding with me…Don’t force me to take my sugar momma with me?!”
Next time, I will post my Pairing bonding Instant Arousal Routine.
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EdwardElric Post subject: Re: Accelerated Comfort with Future Projection RoutinePosted: 05 Mar 2008, 05:56
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some good points, i would also say
1. have a good idea of what is your ideal date? what would you be doing? where would you go? etc
2. spend some time dating yourself - don't worry if you have a girl or not, just go out and do those things that you are passionate about, from those experiences you will have authentic stories and will be seeding / or future projecting naturally because you will be living that sort of lifestyle anyways it will be easy to bring someone else into your world
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Quality Post subject: Re: Accelerated Comfort with Future Projection RoutinePosted: 05 Mar 2008, 12:53
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EdwardElric wrote:
2. spend some time dating yourself - don't worry if you have a girl or not, just go out and do those things that you are passionate about, from those experiences you will have authentic stories and will be seeding / or future projecting naturally because you will be living that sort of lifestyle anyways it will be easy to bring someone else into your world
Agreed. Learning all this pickup stuff will give you is a heighten sense of awareness to the social situation and have better control over it. Control is the key to almost anything you do. The more control you have of yourself and the situation, the more power you have.
Most of these processes i.e. future projections, pair bonding and such happens naturally. But to be aware of what you are doing rather than to stumble upon it is a benefit of being part of the community.
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apex Post subject: Re: Accelerated Comfort with Future Projection RoutinePosted: 16 Apr 2008, 16:56
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Thank You, I just printed this one to add to my Collection.
Alkamist Post subject: Re: Accelerated Comfort with Future Projection RoutinePosted: 17 Apr 2008, 13:47
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What exactly does fractionation mean? Cuz I see that term getting thrown around a lot?
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1) FRACTIONATE
This is where you get them REALLY deep into a state, like a SEXUAL state and at just the moment where the TENSION builds, you suddenly change the topic and talk about "The weather" or some other superficial topic. After awhile, you bring up the sexual topic again and start to build the state and elicit it within them even DEEPER this time - and at just the moment where the sexual tension feels SO HOT, you break the state and talk about something superficial like what you did that day, etc.
You can also PHYSICALLY fractionate the seduction. This is where you may touch her leg briefly or sit close to her or touch her in some way - then you just suddenly STOP... and after awhile you touch her again, this time on areas that are more sensitive like her neck/face/inner thigh/inner arm - then you just STOP... and on and on.
The idea of FRACTIONATION is that it creates a VACUUM for a woman to get sucked into. As the fractionation goes on it gets more and more intimate until SHE is the one that is initiating the SEDUCTION and it is less about you seducing her and more about HER seducing you. Imagine that with a powerful FRACTIONATION technique, you've sucked her into a vacuum and the momentum of that "PULL" makes HER take action.
So, is it sort of breaking up a process into smaller stop/start chunks so it becomes more of a tease?
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Hopefully, you all know about Future Adventures Projection by now. This is something I do ALL THE TIME in set, and it works really well with other roleplaying material.
Future Adventures Projections are routines where you describe to the girl your SHARED future adventures. Not that difficult a concept. It can be anything from rock climbing together to going deep sea fishing to seeing eachother at the club next weekend. I usually concentrate on talking about our future PLANS rather than the actual adventures themselves (Future Plans Projections?). The most important thing to remember to make these work is to use a C&F attitude as you talk about these future plans as if she's already agreed to take part.
I'll give you guys a few stock phrases to begin your Future Plans Projections:
"So, when shall we schedule our..."
"Well, I've made arrangements for our..."
"I've already booked the .... for our..."
The future adventures projections that get the best results for me ALWAYS include talk about sex. You might think this is a little forward, and it might not work as well if your style is very indirect (TD? Mystery? I don't want to generalize because I know these guys both have VERY strong closing game and phase shifts, but I don't know if this direct approach will work for guys trying to emulate the "TD style"). But if you use a more natural game like Zan and I, then this will be very congruent... and very irresistable.
The best thing to do is plan your OWN future adventures, but here are some examples to get you started:
Me: "So, I've scheduled our secret romantic island getaway for next Friday."
Her: "What secret getaway?"
Me: "Oh, I'm renting an island in the south pacific."
Her: "You can rent an island?"
Me: "Sure. We'll fly in on my private jet and spend a weekend drinking rum, swimming in the beautiful ocean, and having sex on the beach as the waves lap against our entwined bodies. So this Friday is good for you, right?"
I asked the girl I pulled (but didn't quite close) tonight "So when would be a good time for you?" and she said, "Any time is good for me. I'm single."
I used this on my SHB wing last night and after I said, "So when would you like to schedule our secret romantic island getaway?"
She said, "I don't know. I'll have to ask [my BF]."
"No... SECRET. Remember?"
"Oh yeah, sorry!"
"So next weekend good for you? Awesome. I'm renting an island. One weekend of nothing but rum, sand, sun, water, and sex. Uh... lots of sex. In fact, so much sex that you'll probably forget all about the rum, sand, sun and water."
EVERY time I do this I get the same response: Her buying temp spikes, she goes into sexual state, she goes HEAVY DDB, she opens her mouth, leans in, and puts her hand on my chest. This EXACT reaction. EVERY TIME. It's UNCANNY. This is such a strong buyint temp. spike that it almost entirely responsible for turning around a sarge that I had almost lost due to her losing state DRASTICALLY. (It went from holding hands to not even linking arms to not even walking next to eachother to my future plans projection to DDB and sexual state and hand on my chest. IMMEDIATELY.)
Another thing to remember is to combine this with all your other tactics like Push/Pull: "Oh, hey, looks like we'll have to cancel our plans." and Swinggcat style challenging and qualifying: "Wait, can you swim? Cause we can't go to an island if you're going to drown."
Try it out guys. Add to it. Come up with your own material and post it here so I can use it too.
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future adventures projection and past adventures projection works wonders
I accidentially stumbled on this stuff while joking around about me and my targets having been married and then the wild sex we have when the kids aren't around wtv. but its GOLD!
past projections have seemed to work as well just because it combines the whole playful aspect that makes it fun and sex since it's ok to talk about sex when roleplaying and it perks their imagination
once i was messing around talking to people on aim in a chatroom and I started a conversation
me "hey (so and so) how has it been! long time no see"
her "do I know you?"
me "I think we talked a few weeks ago don't you remember"
her "haha noooope sorry"
me "well then you must have forgotten about the hotel room we rented and all those wild nights on the couch and coffee table too, what a shame "
her "LOL oh how could I forget..."
and this is really fun considering I'm new to the game and getting those kinds of reactions from women, now if only I got some sex out of these interactions...
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Get A Girl To Date You Using Future Projection
By puaspot on November 30, 2010
Future projection is basically the act of “painting a picture” for the girl of a future scenario you two might participate in. It usually makes up the difference between a good close and a SOLID close.
Essentially, I use future projection to ESCALATE the relationship with a girl. In describing a future scenario you are assuming that your relationship together will continue outside of the confines of the club/bar/street. And because you describe it in an attractive, seductive and/or romantic manner the girl will want to be part of that. It’s almost like you’re presenting a fairytale here, or a fantasy, and she gets the opportunity to step into the shoes of the main character.
Also, getting her to contribute towards painting the picture is great because it becomes a co-creation, which she takes responsibility for… so naturally she’ll want to fulfill it together!
I’ll illustrate how to get a girl to date you using future projection with a few examples..
First case is with a Norwegian girl I hooked up with a while back. We’re in a bar, and I’m on my way out when she walks past me. I stop her with a remark about her eyes, we get chatting. I have a good sexual vibe about me. I sit her down and we talk for a while, the content of which was irrelevant since I was being sexually-direct with my body language/behaviour which superceded the conversation. Soon enough, before the kiss or after I can’t remember, I say something to the effect of “Imagine if we had a room to ourselves right now… and a big king size bed with silk white covers. Imagine what we’d do to each other! The hot air of a balmy summer evening caressing the curtains as it flows into the room. The sounds of a jazz bar outside quietly ringing around us. The heavy breathing…” You can see where I’m going with this. Within a minute it went like “I have a hotel room (her)”, “Cool I’m done with this place let’s go there”, “Ok!”.
This single act achieved so much. Basically, it put her in the right headspace. No longer was she in a bar, she was in her hotel room bed with me. In describing this scene, I am getting her subconscious to agree that this is a cool and desirable scene to be in. It also demonstrates that I am a romantic man, and that I am in tune with her emotions – describing the sounds, the feelings, the taste etc. It also demonstrates leading qualities since I am in control of the scene. I am leading her through the story.
The key to getting a girl to go on a date with you is to place emphasis on the scenario rather than the girl as this makes it seem more romantic. Really think about this. When you are expressing your desires for the girl you are making her out to be a sexual object, which is fine, but it might make her too self-conscious. However, when you are expressing your desires for a scenario you are prioritising the adventure… which is much more appealing to a girl’s logic.
In the second case I’d just pulled a right lil Peruvian hottie (extracted but no fuck coz she had a train to catch) and she was headed home to catch a flight to America that morning (for a month, then back in London). In the course of our banter we mentioned going to Paris. After we’d departed ways I called her as she was headed from the bus back home, and I started describing our adventures in Paris (bear in mind I know little about Paris)… “We’ll skip the streets together hand in hand… then we’ll find a nice bratisserie and order croissants and gaze into each others’ eyes from across the little white table… I’ll take you to the top of the steps at the Sacre Coure and from within my arms you’ll watch over the whole of Paris as the sun goes down… then at night we’ll take a bottle of wine down to the lawn under the Eiffle Tower and watch it shimmer against the star-lit sky… we’ll kiss tenderly and then passionately as we give up restraining our desire for one another… I’ll take you in my arms to our room and lay you down onto the bed…”. I could hear her melt over the phone. Every time I paused she let out a little “ohhh” type whimper. The effect this all achieved aside from immediate sexual state was those love attachment feelings, since I just matured our relationship massively in the space of a few minutes describing a scenario which hasn’t even happened yet, and may never happen. When she added me on Facebook the next day I saw she’d written that she’d fell in love last night…
This is very powerful shit guys, and by using it you will have the power to get a girl on a date with you – and generally have much more adventurous dates, than you would have had otherwise. Future projection is not a solution in itself but rather an avenue from which to better EXPRESS yourself which you may not have considered much previously. The effect it has is to rouse deep passionate desires in a girl because it’s tapping into her sexual/romantic fantasies, just like a descriptive erotic novel would do. Or you could use it just to set up a date “Yea we’ll dance in the rain along the cobbled stones of Covent Garden then I’ll take your hand and lead you under shelter by the neon signs of a café shimmering as reflection in the puddles by our feet… then I’ll shove you against a lamp-post and kiss you hard”. The key being you can’t be a boring logical date-chode if you do paint such an adventurous picture for the date, else it’d just be plain underwhelming. Instead play on the idea.. (on the date) “there’s no rain so I’ll have to wet you myself” *takes water bottle and squirts her in the face*.
Next time after you’ve just met a girl and you mention “going for coffee”, “showing her the sights”, etc, launch into a fun/sexual/romantic description of how the date is going to go down and you’ll find she’ll be a lot more interested than your average number close
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Original Stylelife Student of the Year, FATE, wins the GAME
6 Comments »Posted in Pick Up Labs Stamp of Approval on December 3rd, 2009 by drewder
One of the best stories from the Stylelife Elite Forum is the one about Stylelife member, Fate. He started out like most guys and wanted to build a better life. He joined the Stylelife Forums and began a journey that took him on an incredible path. He is now engaged to the girl of his dreams. And with a great game plan, this type of thing could happen to you.
Ok, maybe that’s not everyone’s dream, but to hook up with a dream girl should be. Now, I personally owe a lot to this guy. He has helped me out a lot when I started out. Fate is also the guy that put together the Stylelife Academy Routines Manual that is found on the Elite Forums which is a very valuable set of openers, routines, DHVs, pebbles, number closes/text routines and much more. Loaded with the creme de la creme of GAME and hosts many routines from various pick up artists, including the man himself; Style.
This is one such set up. Put together in a never seen before mission. Fate, the Sneak and Farmer approved.
Welcome back to a breakdown of FATE. When it happens, will you be ready? Pick Up Labs is here to help you when it does. This is the place where you test new openers, routines, stacks, dhv’s and closes. Recently, we have been using a lot from Stylelife Academy students. We have also been testing out the routines in Style’s newest release of Rules of the Game. When it came time, I really wanted to test something from the Original Stylelife Student of the Year; Fate…. But he has so much good material, where do you really start?
I actually contacted Farmer to see which ones he thought were the best. Instead, he sent me this whole routine. We were quite stoked to put it up here and test it out. This has been a favorite, but they have never been tested like this. So, how do you think it went?
The Results of Fate’s Future Projection:
1. Does it work successfully?
This scored pretty high on the successful level. 4/5 for Successful.
2. How difficult is this routine to master?
All testers stated it was pretty easy. 4/5 for being Easy.
3. Did you get called out on using this routine?
None of the testers were called out. 5/5 for No Call Outs.
4. What is the hook point strength of this routine?
All testers stated it has a pretty strong hook point. 4/5 for Strong Hook Point.
5. Rapport building strength?
All testers stated it is pretty strong with Rapport Building. 4/5 for Strong Rapport.
6. Your PUA-AFC level?
All testers were in between PUA and AFC.
7. Number of times tested?
34 times
8. Any additional insight?
“My favorite one was telling her I was going to take her on this magic carpet ride and busted out into song “A Whole New World.” She busted up laughing and asked if I was drunk. Oddly enough, she asked for my number and wanted to see me before I left town.” -drewder
“This is meant to be used later in the interaction. the more outlandish and fantastic you make it the more they are hooked. I used Fate Polly Pocket, Tyler Ds PVC Devil and Angel, The Candy Ninjas and my own all worked well.” -Prodigy
“Used the Polly Pocket, Ninja Candy, then one I made up on the spot” -Farmer
9. Suggested Additions of Modifications to routine (if any):
“I noticed that each projection can fit into the type of target. A little calibration is key to mastering this secudtion model.” -TheC
“OWN IT… Practice IT… Run with IT. That is the only thing I can recommend. Always good to know where to go to afterwords. When I was done with the MAGIC CARPET RIDE, later on, if she got out of hand, I told her I would kick her off the Magic Carpet if she kept it up.” – drewder
“Also, when I do this routine I stay near her. (not in her face), I talk about us (pointing to us) against them (pointing to the others around).
PS: I got laughs when I pointed to Mickey Mouse (imaginary small friend) and she started talking to him.” -angelsin
After a tight review, this gets the Pick Up Labs Stamp Of Approval. Congrats to FATE on all his success. Now it is time for your success. To hit the field for the holidays and open, game, close and have that New Years Kiss lined up. Or, go out and use your Favorite Pick Up Labs Routine and make things happen.
This next week is going to be the GIFT from the GAME and one of your favorite Stylelife Coaches. Stay tuned for the greatness. Till then:
KEEP FRAMING AND GAMING
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