Being PROACTIVE ! be logical, dont be a dreamer or spacey unrealistic

I know some guys are missing character traits.

Example:



Being Proactive:

They are waiting for response or external factors.I know guys can go out number of times a day and appraoch and get rejection and can get numbers, then he stays stuck there waiting for the girl to call them or girl to come up asking them out, or guys give up after the first phone call or first text attempt and they give up.

They end up stagnant.

I personally had this problem for a long time.



as a note, Also it reflects how you handle your life.

Example:

like waiting for a specific person to call you to offer you a job .when you can apply to many and not wait for a negative answer and waste your time waiting when you can have a job now.

Or



Person being a dreamer or "spacey" or unrealistic.

This person can think they want to make alot of money or have high expectations but are not realistic they are waiting for it to come rather than take action and go out there.

Its a non stop thing.Im guilty of this BTW.



So everything to them comes in hope that one day it will happen, or trying to be positive or overly thinking positive but not working specifically how or what to do to get it, just thinking of fooling yourself without actually being proactive or taking action.



so theres something of a mindset or set of action to push yourself or begin a new habit into your lifestyle by being proactive, not waiting but making opportunities for yourself.



I think this can manifest by a guy who lives certain way can change and then applying your program can get results.



That being said a topic that is kindah deep, but this character of being proactive to change your reality.



I think this is the missing link for many guys out there who want to get results.



anything you recommend would be greatly appreciated.



Thanks.