What his level of game influences:
- sense of entitlement – what hot girls you think you deserve
- buildup of social momentum
- his hornyness (don’t masturbate)
entitlement: it’s like training muscle – if you don’t work on it, it goes back again
in the beginning of the night you don’t want to approach. -> even he, after 8 years of game
-> force yourself to do it
How he warms up: just going up and getting rejected -> loosing the ego
Approaching women is always like jumping in a cold pool – no matter how much you do it, you have to get over to jumping in
It’s like always re-remembering that you are awesome
Parties:
1st: mingling time, talk to everybody, at the beginning
2nd: 12-2:30 hardcore game
3nd: after 2:30 just fucking aggressive – omg, youuuu… are *amazing*.. I *love* you! Hug.. makeout -> he does this 50 times in a row
Action is always the answer
-> never analyze. When you have low state -> action is always the answer.
Instructors have sometimes state crashes during the night – nobody notices cause: the go into action right away
Accept the being shitty as normal
A night is a marathon!
Go out for every night for 12 days approaching and on day 7 you are really a beast
Beast mode: approaching without thought
‘Who are you, I am tim! I am sad, I need a kiss!’
4 main things:
1. Core confidence -> being ok with girls not liking you. scripted game often times makes it look that a lot of girls like you, he doesn’t do that. -> don’t be afraid to polarize.
Expression, not impression.
First step: getting them not to care what other people think
Be like music – you just send out
Never just stand there in the club
But: sing nonsense, dance a bit around, talk gibberish to another
Just pretend with gibberish like you got a great conversation -> brings you state
Don’t try to weasel into the part when going to the set
No – be the party, they are in your proximity
2. Bring value
Know what they are feeling
Talk to them (don’t do like talking to yourself)
If she gets pissed off to what he is saying -> in the half second she feels bad he already says something, like laughing out loud or saying their thoughts ‘omg, this creepy guy…’ -> he feels her feeling bad and distracts her immediately. -> take autism test on internet to see how good you are there.
You get this with field time
3. Are assertive
His ‘kino’-method is: feeling sexually – he has a hardon after speaking 5min to her
Every time she says she is gonna go somewhere – eg have to go to toilet, drink, dance… -> you do it like it was your idea and lead her! Drink time! Piss time! Dance time!
Always try to close, also without a signal. Especially if she is gone anyway. Makeout. Say ‘can you give me a ride?’
Go in fucking close to her! Very much closer than you think -> fucking close
If he doesn’t makeout within 20minutes, he tries to and she probably goes away. -> he thinks if you don’t make out with her in 20min you are probably spinning your wheels
4. Be proactive (be unreactive)
Be the cause, not the effect
Make this your criteria of success: approach, express yourself as a man
One third will not like you.
One third will be amusesd but of some reason not wanna do it. (eg has bf at home) -> you have to be aggressive to make them say no kinda (else you are loosing time)
One third will be very interested sexually.
There is no such thing as rejection, there is only lack of chemistry
Sexual aggression makes you have much more lays.
Either be a player 100% or be relationship 100%
You cannot be half a gangster
No feelings till they are fb’s
Player life: you always have to keep going out, cause fb’s always keep on quitting at some time, that’s the way
Open
Vibe, self amuse
Put yourself in this state: Be woo and intent, party dong, having fun and being sexual
Dynamically escalate
Screen logistics -> move her to more front part of club, out of the club, a bit away from the club, into a cab, out of the cab, into the lobby, to the elevator, into the elevator, out of the elevator, into your room
Use *any* ridiculous excuse you can!
Lead lead lead
Best approach you did this weekend, after 6 months of keep going out this approach will be your new average approach
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