Golden Globes...characters ,actors and social setting observations PART 1 rambles

seriously is everyone there was nervous of each other.. like when you go out to a club or bar.. when you come in notice everyione there is insecure person thats your advantage thats when you are already self validated can go and not care yet be cool and friendly model like bradbley cooper he follow certain persuasuon technique from NLP like anchors. when he is alone his subcoms is noticable different... when he is with a woman he smiles and already tries to laugh to whatever it is she is saying therefore creating good vibe and he touches,.anchours. to all women he does this and comes off charasmatic. thres more like leonardio di caprio but its more of Im alpha and im the best .. which is OK, but remember we live in social society to mingle.. shuts off people , but when leo is in character and not alone he is more lively..when in real person seems closed off and comes off arrgant or insecure of talking to people. theres fine line. you also see women, women hot arent hot.. women get old they try harder. younger women are more value cause they are young. that brings them looks HB 9 and 10 older hot yet smart and good girl self esteem can be HB 9 and 10. both these need men to not praose her but to treat her like she belongs to a man and handle her. like a lady tiger and a tamer.