***this is entertainment purposes only not professional advice any kind so if you get a drd from a random its up to you to wear a condom.
where I am there are alot of women with drd. I feel safe and gladfully I dont have that so be careful.***
After many years of doing this and learning thourhg experiences and being soo better at it I have become very aware and picky and want to upgrade..
as a guy once we get a job we want new things a car or TV or clothes or cologne..etc etc..
once we get our "check" we at times think unconciously
"I need to get a haircut."
this example is perfect cause more you grow your potential in life success and dating..then you will want to upgrade naturally.
I am experienceing this at the moment and due to soo many exposure to many people and situations and what I want in my life and importantly WHO I VALUE MYSELF AS A GOOD SELF VALIDATED SELF DEPENDANT person, meaning I decide if I am going to pay $25 for a steak at a lousy restaurant or cook at home or enjoy a GOOD meal well worth price....
you need to experience this first to "GET IT"
that being said.
where I am there are alot of women online ..and out and about..
there are women who wont look at you online but will check you out when you are out and vice versa.
If you a re looking for a quick one night fast sex exicting and you have time, then my recommendation is to go out !
dont "sarge" or be a weirdo or too logical but know where you are going and what time ...
know that late night some places there is chance to take home a random girl..
Online websites like POFs OKculprits there are alot of fat girls and more you have to invest time to send messages and pursue..
personally I dont have time to invest in fat girls.
there are other sites for "higher quality women" which I am interested in mainly cause I want to be aligned and congruent who I am and who I identify myself with being high status male by Franco.
so Online may be good practice and you can message thouse free sites around 1am and you might get a response from a girl.
due to my busy schedule and financial planning i dont have time to waste in dates and coffee..only If theres is chemistry I will shit test her how she responds. then I will decide.
thouse days of experimenting without results are far gone where guys have to chase a woman whether its in seattle or portland or miami or new york.
If you are a guy making six figures.
you by all means create a lifestyle where you want to do what you want..
but if you are starting and still in school and want to improve your dating skills, then by all means take advantage of online dating from facebook to other apps many young girls locally have on their phone and sign up..most are free and improve your communication skills and learn after every interaction to EXPERIENCE CONSISTENCY AND PERSISTANCE to develop intuition...
this is like baseball you bat and bat in cage and when time comes to hit the ball when they throw a pitch you have enough warm-up and experience to knock it off the park for a HOME RUN.
like one site mentioned about online dating , women when lonely they will look online... but its least effort for them and boost of sexual validation and fake confidence in her..
THE MORE SHE INVESTS INTO MEETING A GUY BEING COLD APPROACH AT BAR LOUNGE , IN PERSON ,NIGHT GAME or whatever you want to call it...THE MORE CHANCE INCREASES FOR YOU TO INVEST LESS ENERGY VS ONLINE.
IF SHE IS ONLINE AND LIVES BUSY LIFE YET IT HAS A GENUINE FEEL..THEN ONLINE CAN RESULT SUPERBLY WELL.
there are sites and you can zooxsk messages or tinderize that is ok but its range is 25yr younger range... meaning party girl attraction fun fun fun...and it is doable...
NOTE: I have done online to meetup same day lead to sex in 1hr
it and it confuses the girl cause you are giving her an unexpected experience plays with her head which leads to drinking and end of the night sex..but you can double book if she flakes... credit Paul Janka*
is it consistent? maybe if you screen many girls...but it won't hit everytime..if you dont have time and do what works surely then you can play both ways.
SUMMARY
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1- Nightgame COLD APPROACH - go for all girls you like and are interested in you, don't go for number close if she isnt investing and you dont feel chemistry from her then move on quickly. theres always use for pua aura like SNLs captain jack used to teach...when things dont go your way on one girl that night it will help for the next one looking at you at the bar..when you hit a point where is one then take her number. i usually stick and dont leave until I leave with her and usually pretty solid and obvious.
2-Online: you can join in to send as many messages to girls but dont waste your time too much messaging one girl cause that is typical girl that is there for attention.. dont take this personal on yourself its her mental issue of deserveness or lack of maturity in adult relationship dynamics...she will give you shite now she will give you LMR,
if you looking for GF material then most free sites arent that good, depends on your location check first...
but most where I am are fat and have tattoos are very bitchy and have 4 kids before they are 28yrs old and probably with drd. If you are going to hit online then select and market yourself selectively to who you want to buy you.. :)
-Carlo
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