Wednesday, January 7, 2015

How to properly handle rejection to avoid taking too seriously -Inside and outside of yourself

Hey
this isn't your typical PUA or society endorsed material.

This is for guys who are inmidst of improving themselves ,an advice that Ive been in this for almost 8yrs.

way beyond low self esteem thinking and  really keep good great things going in your life.

then all the sudden some chick randomly "rejects" you or tries to "explain why she is declining your interst in her"

FIRST

whatever she says good or bad CAN NOT affect who you are and the potential of who you plan to BE !
tattoo that in your wrist or something.
she isn't a fkn judge and you aren't at some competition where you are "losing"

GET that sh!T off your head.

Girls are more insecure than guys...PERIOD! like swinggcat says
"that's just fucking feminine polarity and girls aren't attracted to men who aren't the PRIZE"

You have to Prize yourself FIRST.

work on your personal GOALS
WORKOUT
STUDY LEARN
CHALLENGE YOURSELF INTELECTUALLY

SO today and actually past few days few girls I misinterpret their "rejection " untintentionally..
but I figure this can get you somewhere but you are bound to crash somewhere with her.


So this example of nonjudgemental aspect is

 FAT girl who obviously has identity issues writes 4 sentences and took time to explain herself.
when I was just fkn around pinging
KEY is not looking response..whether she is hot or NOT!

that's first ASPECT

shes investing time in explaining herself to me about not liking me = Shes LOSER

INSIDE HANDLE REJECTION : She is stupid  I don't see myself with someone like that ..regardless her being fat short and latina who says she cant speak Spanish....lol

She is foolish not worth MY TIME or worth pursue my seduction skills or my time.
Nothing personal  and not coming from EGO point of view...

I can lead her to a seduction but at this point its WORTH working with someone who wants to be part of my TEAM.
someone mentioned seduction is TEAM EFFORT.
NOT one person doing all WORK upfront.

ofcourse MEN have to LEAD and below the table know system to where we are having the seduction and what we are doing but FOCUSED on interaction and good vibe and good time.

EXTERNAL OUTSIDE HANDLE TO REJECTION:
You have to save your ENERGY and your BREATH and DELETE HER off your head..
its like a CLOWN trying to say you are something which you aren't.
IF you are n a QUEST for something GREATER in LIFE.
STUPID IGNORANT people comments SHOULDNT MATTER.


so summary:
GET YOUR SHIT WITH YOURSELF IN CHECK FIRST !

heres how you do it

inside yourself = Shes talking nonsense  she isn't feedback  of who you are as a person or a fking judge of my character.

external outside projection = erase her off your sight off your mind without hesitation.
                                               her comments is like low self esteem voice you should
             NEVER PAY ATTENTION OR HESITATE TO GIVE YOUR TIME OR THOUGHT TO.


SHIT TEST or DEALING WITH INSECURITIES IS DIFFERENT TOPIC NOT equal to Rejection.



for NEWBIES or NEW to seduction stuff NEw to PUA is better to CRASH n BURN.
once you internalize THIS
this is like
seduction 2.0

 FUN and EASY AS FUCK!


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