Seeing Mark and guys like Tyler rsd , these are guys tha have been at this for years.
Mark's last phone consult to me 2012 december, he sounded like he was on his way out of the whole coaching to get better with women.
Tyler is still at this cause its a business aside of his fun hobby.
well reading an old ebook from Doc Holliday Mickey from practical pickup in boston.
he left all this aswell.,
but he really simplified alot of things.
meaning game has a structue and so the whole thing is about "enjoying the process"
its almost as saying that you will never reach 100% or perfection.
consistency and perfection are different.
consistency comes with a structure that works or a "process".
and when you are at this for a long time you forget structure and play and wingit.
so re evaluating the process structure fundamental basics
whther in playing basketball or what not ..... theres always things to work on.
so how MarK said this is like riding a bike or playing guitar.
habit and so its that,
talking with BradP , he said "you have to be ok with not getting all the girls"
basically now knowing what I know from experience and from great advice is that
you have to come up with your own experience.
meaning the advice doesnt mean shit unless you go out to gym and put work on it to grow muscles.
like a habit or hobby.
Tyler came to live in Miami for a month to learn the harshest enviroment. at the same time its the most sexually charged and challenging in my opinion.
he did it for him and gain experience in his own life...not for teaching anyone since his advice can be vague.
so Heres the scope:
1- Looks matter. women work themselves up to look great plastic surgery and all , if you work on yourself its a win -win for you.... Mark calls it Passive -active value.
this should be number one. cause regardless you will get laid of Aesthetics plus building your self esteem. My new hereo is Zyzz.
2- Social intelligence, fuck up with strangers and learn from mistakes. do it intentionally so you feel that pain and grow some intuition. its like fire burns you keep away, your experience registers for you and hopefully reference. Know when and when to hold back. doing same mistake over sucks, try to do things intentionally, and if not write it down and compare notes to your own LRs FRs or look for LRs , find a pattern and accomodate to make it smooth for the woman.
3- trust yourself and be open to learn from others.
this is always improve. and kick your own butt. even if you pay a dating coach , he will guide only to a certain point. cause its a buisness. Aside of Mickey, Ben , Mark or even Franco. or expert Todd I havent met any other dating coach who could correct properly. one thing is to sugarcoat and raise boost self esteem to get good review and other is to care and display how or what they know , and if they do they should do it all the way.
but other guys I ve worked only talk or comment half way cause for them its too much investment.
Go at it like nobody is ther to help you and force yourself to figure it out by experience of doing it.
4..Aesthetics, again , you have to be an expert of yourself, take a class on speaking toast master, look in mirror , look your best, talk positively to yourself at same time be honest what you need to work on, be proactive. Also make yourself Number 1. good photos for online, dress smell great. dont be shy to introduce yourself. dont always make it about you , people are insecure overall....so any negative reaction could be their own LSE. more you work on yourself in mind and body the better your results in life. and women. be an expert , do a personal trainer course if you have to , Master everything !!!
5.fun and relax and know when to be goofy.
when you go out , go out and enjoy yourself. to fullest, not clique but learn to be alone so you can be comfrotable once you are with other people around you. you dont have to be overly talkative but be memorable.Like steve mcqueen say few words and let your expression do the talking .
Also this lets girl assume high value traits. less is more and silence is golden.
6. Learn the insight of women think.
I suggest read Steve Santagati The manual. he is my hero, cause he really describes things that make sense to me and knowing this puts me at ease.
and dating should be taken proactively yet at ease. Women play games , that makes me at ease more cause I know what they are doing. Also shit tests bcome a little barrier that increases her sexual desire.anything logical from her respond emotionally the other way to distract. framco says pace and lead. I will review my NLP skills from speed seduction which I found to be still gold standard in terms of creating illusion in her mind with you. You attack when the fish is ready to be caught.
Also Tao of Steve plus Steve Sangati's book along with Speed Seduction with some basic map of logistics based on Mystery Method equals success =sex. Franco has his version of this combination in his Manual of Seduction. LMR is controlled by prolonging the foreplay. once you made out with her you withdraw first like Ross Jeffries says and you physically tease her by giving and taking away...Mark calls it making her want it more.
7, Improve class . is a MUST !
8. Inner game :Brain Tracy and Wayne Dyer and anything earl nightgale .Meditate and affimations and law of attraction and all . even Gucci mane reads these , john maxwell sucess thinking.
surround yourself with positive desires and dreams and you will become new person. Pimp game has this down pretty solid along with Aesthetics. You become who you want to be and you eventually attract what you want by being that or better. thats a sure shot VS atempting to do it mediocrly and depression leading to failure. Dantalion Jones
9.Finances - read rich dad poor dad and sex money and kiss. Be yor own MBA Admire Trump for what he has done rather than who he is.
10..Social Circle game: This is a project I am working on , it will combine networking with learning and socializing. this will give me a chance to form an identity along with other people. we are tribal animals and believe it or not. most relationships is done through friend's friend. This is almost a adult version of reliving high school. This should be fun.
you play a role the role you want to be and display it to society and to close ones.in this one you never reveal your real self but your best personality.this automatically makes you different.
Cult game by Dantalion Jones or Jack Ellis has some good references as well as Gary Broadsky
or harem management online posts . applies as pimp game cause you display to everyone individually the white room. Liberace did this with everyone and was liked. Pimp game use this to acomodate the girl and then make her work for it....harshly to feel that gap of derserving of it.... he provides to her yet based off her work yet he provides security and home and refuge wit neediness management by psycology. That is what Adam is doing with his two girls he is providing prleasure and validation at the sexual desire part and the natural biology woman part of being in a relationship.
yet from the outside it is obviously a head game of promises with brain washing and management like having chain store businesses.
saying things to say them to be heard equals weakness.... you demonstrate by being smart about how you want to reach that or show that. same thing with women.
If the devil wanted to entice someone , he would do it calmly and suave and offer pre selction and value without telling you consequences.
this GAME is not human, its more of "Devil selling you the world" than anything.
just protect yourself FIRST.
If this wasnt the case , then the need for Persuasion wouldnt exist.
check out Micheal Lee's program on expert persuader and David Barron's Power Persuasion 2003 CDs training , he had CDs which were helpful start on understanding logic talk and sales. http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Barron3.html
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