pity play and its timing in love

hello , pity play was something that I was against being very alpha 1.0

now its an instrument of effort justification. please google research articles on relationship and investment. you will see more you get her doing in her life the more she will be around.

this also helps make you attianble and also makes you "human" and can make her nurturing in wanting to help , here you reward by good feelings.

persuasion at its finiest here.

puty play is usually themed wrongly if you have experience her leaving you or as a last resort .that's a no no or also begging ...no no .

pity play can be used to ask a favor. so eric berne victim helper and laws of pwer Robert greene in the intro the person asking for help is in power move .to cialdinis influence chaprter.


so a lot of  PUAs don't like pity play or lovey dovey comfort .

this is tricky as if you want to seduce a girl you have to build commonality fasted possible. on daygame it has to be in a friendly way and non threatening and unde rthe radar.  I don't believe in direct game as it overwhelms the woman unless she seems horny and unattractive and desperate.

this is almost mystery method yet build with commonality and be open to keep talking and go for the instadate and instaclose;

ted bundy used pity play in his game.

so pity play is a good tool and not your identity ever.

like I said …. not take what you do as a person or identify for your actions.

psychopath high level do hwat needs to be done in order to get it.

he does it in the right context and not overdoes it .
the sheep is calibrated and normal  , his ignoring and lack of empathy comes off as "aloof" "unaffected" . therefore low neurotism.

the reason they get laid is that they don't fear rejaction and they push forward and move forward, they don't self sabotage with negs or stuck int heir head how the set is going...
they focus where the next step in logistics and in her head.

that is why NLP im diving into for myself getting coaching for my own mindselt and getting into the other person.


modeling is important in this process .