Saturday, September 12, 2009

creating your relationship using framing

I based my comfort game based on vin di carlo's female psycology
there was a clue at the end where the girl had a BF in which she was cheating on and explained the type of guy she wouldnt cheat on him.

You have to set the stage FIRST

Intention maping being consitent the way you describe the woman.

EXCERSIZE
1.you write and describe the type of woman (blonde, red hair )

2.what emotional charasteristics (caring,etc)

depends what you want her for that determines the charateristic of a girl
( type of relationship )

most women are a blank slate , you decide how they should respond to you.

IMPRINTING PERIODS

you set the frame for future interactions

when you are in qualification stage or talk in relationships or set in precedence

(if you want a LTR) Intelligent,Independent non clingy, supportive.

you pick 3 themes that are important to you and relationship !

IMPRINTING

you repeat 3 periods:


1- 1st date talk about acceptable and non acceptable behaviour in past relationships
(you screening)


2- Qualifiyiing her -its cool you have serious conversation
"Hey I just noticed you are caring person and supportive, do you consider person?"

then you say I noticed or "I can tell you are supportive person"


3- After sex! (theres work to be done, other guys go to sleep)
You say after sex cuddling

"Its really cool you turn out to be so supportive i can tell from our energy "

Shows congruence and shows her role to make you happy.

I will read more into frames and will look into this more...

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