Thursday, December 9, 2010

Elicitng IOIs excerpt of natural game GAMBLER

After months of going out, I realised that there were ways to make my job of attracting women much easier. I could cold-approach a seated group of five, isolate one of them, go off somewhere and go for the close. However, I learned that by only considering cold approaches I was missing out on a lot of much easier opportunities. I also realised that I could do certain things to increase my success rate on cold approaches, by increasing my value within a location first. The easiest approach is a warm approach; the second easiest is a cold approach in a location where you already have a lot of value. Here’s how you make your approaches easier and maximise the chances of success:


Opening Cold vs. Opening Warm



cold approach is when you open a girl and are unsure of the response you’ll get. She has not shown interest in you and may not have even noticed you. A warm approach is one where you think the response will be at least somewhat positive because you’ve made eye contact or received some sign of interest. Obviously, if all our approaches could be warm approaches, the results would be a lot more successful. There are ways of increasing the ratio of warm to cold approaches and these are:

Stantan ding out in a Positive Way

Being Mr. Sociable and talking to people other than the hottest women will disarm them. They’ll see you having fun with people, and by the time you get near them they will be a lot more open and receptive. This is easier than trying to stand out in a club by being super-cool, since many other guys are trying to do the same.

Skill of the Natatural -

Forcing IOIs

Most guys deal with eye contact from a girl in one of three ways. What do you do? Do you:

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ervously look away?

Hold eye contact until she looks away?

Force a smile?

These are all pretty bad and I’m sure you’ve done at least two of the above. You can still wonder why a girl was looking at you and use the uncertainty as an excuse not to approach. Maybe she was looking at someone else; maybe you have a spot on your nose; maybe she was just daydreaming. In ninety percent of cases, she is looking at you and would welcome your approach, but there is always the other ten percent and that is enough to discourage most guys from ever approaching! Here’s what to do: force her interest! When you’ve got eye contact with the girl, provoke a response from her by doing something like: pointing at her; waving; raising your glass; making a cheeky face; poking your tongue out. Personally, I do my trademark point; I guess it looks like something Joey from

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Making Things Easier

Natural Game - The System For Being A Natural With Women55

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riends would do. The girl is compelled to respond. The number of responses she can give is limited. She can:

Mirror your action.

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mile.

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mile and look away, embarrassed.

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ook away in disgust.

Turn up her lip as if to say, “What the hell is he doing?”

If you get a positive reaction, you can approach straight away and don’t need to think of anything clever to say. If you get a negative reaction, you probably won’t get a good one when you open. Many of my girlfriends were initially approached after forcing their interest. It’s one of my best skills and makes my life a lot easier. It should become a reflex action, as if you had studied kung fu and you move without thinking when someone attacks you. It requires a lot less confidence to force a girl’s interest than to approach cold.

Approacaching aft er an In dicatcatcation of Int erest

If she gave you a sign of interest, it’s doubtful that she’s not attracted, so go for it! I usually use, “Hey, how’s it going?” Longer or indirect openers (like asking for an opinion) will kill tension. Just be bold, direct, and assume attraction.

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