HEy just wanted to start up with something I found alot of guys do and I myself have done this.
Its giving TMI : Too Much Information.
Like:
-Talking too much
-Talking too much about yourself
-Giving Too much interest when she hasnt earned it.
-Giving Too much without pushing forward
-Giving her too much validation,pedestal effect
-Being Too Nice Too soon
-Being Too explicit on your intentions
-Being Too overly desperate for sex
-Giving yourself too cheap by not value yourself
-Being too reactive to her in everything she says or does
-Too much information on how you suck at life (being negative)
All of this Too much information will bite you back and make you work harder to get a girl into you. then you will try to compensate than coming from a position of strength.All women want a guy who has somesort of power in him,not just "confidence" but a strength of confidence coming from him.Its a vibe she feels about you.
Either way type of woman she is you have to show that you aren't that easy, that you are unique compared to regular guys.All of this shouldnt be explicated verbally cause its bragging and is a turn off, it should be demonstrated by your actions and behaviours. Eye contact ,posture, manerisms, how you lead her to the seduction etc..
So when you are having a convo with a girl if you want to know where you are at or see yourself making a stupid mistake of overinvesting in her too soon... just remember this post and tell yourself as you hear my voice saying:
"Dont TMI" "Dont TMI" "hold back a little and just dont TMI"
Thanks and Enjoy!
*Exception is if she already likes you ,then just dont fuck it up.
*if she has a sexual vibe to her already, then proceed to not overthink about the next step and just move forward with your seduction,cause she has already made the descion to be with you.just dont be too forceful or needy.DONT VERBALIZE THE SITUATION plausible deniability REMEBER THAT NOT ALL GIRLS ARE SECRET SOCIETY.
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