Example of Indirect Neg in comfort for really goodlooking girls

"Was there ever a time where you were self conscious about you body..like before you were fashionable?" delivery in a neutral tone of voice..then wait for her to response long..you nod.. The girl then she goes back and she tells you about high school and or experiences pre sex where she felt she wasnt that pretty.. this is basically comfort without being JERK or asshole..its a QUALIFICATION frame which makes you on top of the prize..vs just being too NEG or JERK.. remember most girls are social high IQ and therefore want a MAN, but without the man being verbally too confrontive asshole unless the girl disrespects or shit tests the guy.. then you can go KANYE and tell the gitl "this is whats reality and not whats going in yout thoughts" basically leading leading the reality... if you can lead her reality then its a matter of time (your responsibility) for this to work or not VS leaving it to luck or waiting for her to invest..cause that doesnt happen in real life unless you already have her invested into you or basically have e;licited sexuality and attraction to have her then want you after you have backed off a little so she doesnt feel too much too soon ofcourse the name of the game is calibration of when to push and when to back off is increments and when to release or back off while being emotionally so unreactive so she is the one emotionally wanting more and feeling the withdrawl of emotionally and physically wanting you to "pet her".. you always reject first kidding around if for whatever reason you reach LMR or ASD.. always not answer and ignore what isnt helping this move forward. remember if she shows up its for her to experience the experience of something magical to happen thats how we make sure that we get structure result from what works (logisitcs)

OVERGAME byRYAN

Over-Gaming: The Intermediate/Advanced Sticking Point Hey Fellas, today I want to talk about over-gaming - the single most common and most detrimental problem most community guys have. Over-gaming is especially common since many of same traits that enable a person to improve quickly in the early stages remain active as the guy reaches an intermediate level, now working as a detriment rather than an advantage. Ask anyone who’s made it to an advanced level and they’ll tell you the later stages are about removing pieces and simplifying the game, rather than adding more on – or put more succinctly you might get an answer like “game is for chodes”… Note: This article assumes in the reader a certain degree of game proficiency and is intended for intermediate to advanced guys. Over-gaming stems from the idea that you have to “do” to be attractive – that you have to “game” to get girls. Well in the beginning this is certainly true – if you’re not a naturally outgoing person forcing yourself to get out there and meet people is an active push. Self-diagnosing weak points and working on them is a cognitive process that enables some people to rapidly develop and hone their social skills, while others seemingly stagnate. Ironically, the entire mental process of actively improving one’s game is diametrically opposed to the mindset needed to reach an elite level – the “I am the Game” mindset, and because thought patterns are addictive, once one entrenches themselves in this pattern of cognition and calibration outgrowing it can be one of the game’s biggest challenges. So then, what is over-gaming and why is it so detrimental to one’s game? Over-gaming is the external behavior pattern stemming from the internal belief that one needs to actively ‘game’ in order to get the girl. Interestingly, it’s root cause varies depending on what stage in the game the guy is. For beginners, over-gaming is most often caused by either a failure to recognize attraction or MORE LIKELY an inability to accept that the girl actually likes him. For whatever reason, the guy keeps ‘running high-octane game’ and the attraction rapidly fizzles out as the girl recognizes the dancing-monkey behavior as most likely low self esteem on the part of the guy. For those approaching intermediate level, over-gaming can often be traced to an addition to attraction and reaction. The guy has reached a skill level where he can frequently trigger attraction in girls and as a he is HOOKED. Attraction becomes like a drug and he NEEDS his fix – he spikes attraction over and over until the girl’s circuits eventually fry like the FemBots in Austin Powers. (More commonly the girl recognizes the guy’s failure to shift out of attraction as insecure, but either way…) (Admittedly I spent some time in this phase though for different reasons. As a young hotshot eager to make a name for myself I’d go out not to pull but rather to show off – as a result attraction became the focus.) And for those approaching an advanced level – those for whom this article is written – over-gaming is a product of habit. Your social skills have reached a high level but your internal identification with your new high value is lagging behind. As a result there is a massive incongruence in your actions – you carry yourself as a high value guy, but your belief system betrays you and reveals to the girl that ‘something is not right here’. (Note, this is also EXTREMELY common in good-looking community guys, as they often look massively incongruent when trying to run “high octane game”. The example I give here is if an average girl were to be approached by Brad Pitt in a bar. Her heart rate shoots through the roof, but then Brad starts doing something weird. He starts pumping attraction, running high octane game, even going dancing-monkey. Now I want to ask you… how fucking weirded out would the girl be?? Her question would be “Why are you being like this??” Well, as a guy who resonates high-value sub-communications, ‘running game’ can be equally ‘off’ and even work to weird people out. At this level in the game, Less Becomes More. Sort of like wasabi on sushi – if it’s crap wasabi you need a lot…but the better the wasabi, the less you use, and any amount more becomes too much. This is a concept I’ve been dancing around with for a while now, but it really crystallized for me a little while ago when interacting with an incredibly hot girl that I literally pulled away from rock stars. At one point we’re talking and she threw out the quintessential congruence test – “I don’t like your shirt”. I looked down at my shirt and genuinely said “Really? I got this in LA, I think it’s rad.” I chuckled a little bit inside as in conventional community dogma this is verbatim what NOT to say… Her response: “Oh no, I didn’t mean it, I’m just giving you a hard time, I’m really sarcastic” as she grabbed me and started grinding. Let’s dissect possible ways this could have gone. I’d already interacted with her for 10 mins so she knew what kind of guy I was. Suppose I’d instead still felt the need to ‘game” at this point: Her: “I don’t like your shirt” Me: “And by that you mean you don’t like it on me and you’d like to see it crumpled on the floor next to your bed, woah slow down!” Her: “OMG HAHAHA” Here I certainly spiked her, and game wisdom says I built attraction and such – BUT, THE VERY IDEA THAT I “BUILT” ATTRACTION IS PREDICATED ON THE NOTION THAT I DON’T ALREADY HAVE IT! She laughs and thinks to herself “ohh, this guy’s funny” or “ohh this guy’s hot”. Great, that’s certainly a decent place to be – at least at a beginner or intermediate level. But fact is, at an advanced level this is shit - Merde. Let’s scrap the game – realize that you are the 10. Her: “I don’t like your shirt” Me: “Really? I got it in LA, I think it’s rad” Her: ”Oh no, I didn’t mean it, I’m just giving you a hard time, I’m really sarcastic” Now she thinks to herself: “Fuck, that was a dumb thing to say, I need to tone down the sarcasm and start being sweeter”. Of course these emotional reactions are based on the idea that she already knows you’re a money guy. Here let me ask you a question… When you’re talking to a girl, how long does it take you to realize that she’s hot? Well… what makes you think it takes her any longer? (note: if you can’t distinguish between ‘physically good looking’ and ‘hot’ than this article is not for you) Realistically in the example above that one response to 1 statement by her will have an inconsequential effect – but you combine the net effect over 1, 5, 10 minutes of interaction and the effect becomes profound. As you become a money guy You Become The Game. Being YOU is the best way to be – any time you’re not being YOU, anytime you ‘run game’ you’re actually straying away from being that 10 out of 10. So if this sounds like you, next time you’re in set and that pause comes don’t rush to fill it. When you feel the vibe dropping don’t rush to revive it. When you sense your brain darting to access the perfect response like you’ve done a thousand times before, tell it to chill. Take a pause. Bring ‘Chode’ Back. Tyler is famously quoted as saying “Attraction is the easiest part of the game – the hardest part is getting the girl to think she actually has a chance with you”. Well, in this regard, Less is More. The self is always shining through – be confident letting it show, knowing you don’t need to ‘tell’. The girl has an idea in her head of how getting a money guy should feel, how it should go down… be the guy that gives her that experience – don’t be ‘Brad Pitt running game’ You’ve made it – it was easier than you thought. Recognize you’re here, on the other side now, so stop acting like a chode… because at this point, it is ‘acting’. Cheers, Ryan p.s. Comments on the blog are much appreciated

Like Attracts Like

Like Attracts Like "If we are basically positive in attitude, expecting and envisioning pleasure, satisfaction and happiness, we will attract and create people, situations, and events which conform to our positive expectations." ~ Shakti Gawain, author of Creative Visualization Was there ever a person in your life that you knew you were meant to meet and who came along at the perfect time, with the best answer? Miraculously, they had exactly what you needed, as though Serendipity had sprinkled its magic fairy dust over you. This was the Law of Attraction working as your own personal-assistant, bringing about what you wanted. It was because you asked for help that help arrived. ‘Ask and it is given’ is part of the Law – which will bring the right people to your doorstep at the right time. The Universal Manager If the principle of vibration works with people, let’s see how it works with our goals too. Think of the Law of Attraction as the great universal manager that assures all thoughts and feelings line up with one another. Every thought and feeling sends out an energetic signal that attracts a matching signal back. Just like radio waves vibrate at a certain frequency -- which you can pick up in your car the moment you tune into their exact wavelength -- your thought patterns vibrate too, and are ‘picked up’ by those people and things that you desire and that match your signals. So back and forth it goes: the signals resonate with one another until one day, the thing you desire shows up in the world of form. Sound like a bit of a stretch doesn’t it? But, if you accept the premise that everything is connected and interrelated, and synchronous events are happening on a level that you can’t see, (just like you can’t see radio waves but can hear the sound of music when you’re radio is on) why wouldn’t it work? Vibration as and Attractor Think of people as energetic, vibrational beings for a moment. Yes, we are chemical and biological beings, but we also send out energy vibrations that are felt by others. Some of the electrical currents created by our bodies can be measured with EKGs and EEGs, and some are just vibes, ‘picked up’ by our senses. Some people simply walk into a room and the whole place lights up, and most everyone wants to be around them. These attractive people give us the feeling of being uplifted and inspired while others repel, drain and exhaust us. Could it be that we’re responding to energy signals based on how people are thinking, feeling and being? Birds of a Feather Flock Together Like me, I’m sure you’ve had the experience of meeting somebody for the first time and instantly liking that person. The two of you just ‘connected’ and you both felt as though you’d known each other forever. You were attracted to one another, not romantically speaking although it can be that too. As much as you were drawn to them, you’ve also been equally repelled by other people, right? Beyond physical appearances, something else is going on. The Law of Attraction says: That which is like unto itself is drawn. This could explain why we feel like ‘two peas in a pod’ with our best friend, and like ‘two ships passing’ with a mere acquaintance. We are naturally attracted to some people and quite repelled by others; and while there’s nothing tangible on which to base our like or dislike, some people feel ‘right’ and some don’t. And some people put off such ‘bad vibes’ that we can’t wait to get away from them. But what’s interesting is that even these seemingly miserable people have friends. We’ve all heard it said that misery loves company, which explains why negative, critical and complaining people can still find and attract an audience. You must begin to see yourself as a center of energy living amidst a much vaster, all encompassing field of energy. You are in the soup, so to speak. This means that you can gradually, gently and purposefully raise your own personal energy field to be a highly attractive one, to be sure. And as you do, you greatly increase the speed in which your desires come zooming toward you. Principle of Vibration You will attract and manifest the things that match your vibration; and the things you vibrate are always moving toward you "Picture yourself vividly as winning and that alone will contribute immeasurably to success. Great living starts with a picture, held in your imagination,of what you would like to do or be." ~ Harry Emerson Fosdick, Minister Tips: If you want to raise yourself out of unpleasant circumstances, all you need to do is raise your internal vibration by changing your signals. Like thoughts attract like experiences so when you think about what you’d rather have, it starts happening right away or begins to work its way into your life. Questions: What requests are you making by the thought signals you’re sending out? What emotional vibes are you feeling within yourself, and therefore by default, putting into the world? Affirm: “I like myself, I like myself, I like myself.” “I am wonderful.” “I am healthy, vibrant and light.” “I am always surrounded by supportive, helpful and positive people.” Try This: If you had a friend who talked to you like you sometimes talk to yourself, would you continue to spend time with that person? If not, just for today, feed only kind and loving messages to yourself. Repeat the above affirmations silently throughout the day today. This will instantly increase your internal vibration which will gradually become a new and totally super-charged pattern of energy emitted from your own personal field. Positive thoughts vibrate at a higher frequency and enable you to attract the positive things these thoughts vibrate with. Simply start by talking to yourself in a more positive way in this next minute, then in this next hour. Need Help with this Principle? Email Christen your questions at coach@benchmarkcoaching.com

Persistency and when backing off :being aware of your target

it is PROVEN that when you meet a woman to stricke while the iron is hot... you have to "build momentum" email -text- call -voice -rapport -laugh (BT spike)-and set a date...or go direct by complementing her and using social pressure frame so she can move forward to date.. usually you want the date to assume SEX will happen...the whole vibe should be flirty and that "SEX will happen" usually for another date after this one is if you didnt have sex ..what happens is you need to elicit..scarcity.. next day you call or text..this might come off needy but as a man you need to take initiative. when this becomes a problem of girls who after 1st date logistics and time and it gets too complicated..like Gary Broadsky says "striek when iron is hot more time you spend more emotions will be involved and it wont go anywhere." this is very true. Mark gave me advice once on when he was in Vegas he explained he met a woman who had a kid,he met her in vegas..so he did his dating solution practical pickup ebook text and she flaked and he followed up the next day.. when I asked Mark if he wait few days to let it go he told me "attraction is fluid emotions...you want to keep her in check if you wait it wont help you towards your goal...you text her the next day that you want to meet up and if she cant or doesnt then she knows the ball is on her court. and you stop wasting time" I noticed this is real....and knowing their emotions and tryign to raise and change this.. this relates from bt spiking and rapport mirroring and moving forward the pickup by controllling her emotions. dan badboy lifestyles explains this in videos and in his program aon emotional intelligence.. and how it interacts with NLP possitive emotions * ALWAYS ALWAYS if you have other important stuff first then focus on that VS woman..if you get caught in the middle gaming a girl and you dont close then more you try in terms of not being socially or emotionally aware then it comes off as NEEDY and incongruent...thus my theory is EFFECTIVELY ON POINT. theres a time and place to be persistent and time and place when to back off when it isnt in your favor... this is somewhat parralell worlds to business and real life.. that is why women will gravitate towards biological sense of attraction to successful person.. ofcourse there will be low type women,,trashy who will do drugs and smoke get pregnant when they are 17..they are with guys who are low themselves.. in some sense "Like attracts Like " I dont know if this is deepak or spiritual or micheal lee 21 day persuasion. Actually it was Gary boradsky in his program where he talks of As If and like attracts like.. EXCELLENT.. summary dont overgame.. dont over do anything..if you have value and you feel you are ..would bradp be too eager to text a woman before he slept with her? only if he seized the moment ..THAT EXACT MOMENT WHERE YOU HAVE HER RECEPTIVITY IS WHEN YOU PERSIST...other than that it isnt worth it cause at the wrong moment where she isnt feeling it (based on her current emotions which could be groggy,bored her PERIOD) YOU DONT HAVE ANY CONTROL OF therefore that is where DETACHMENT comes in and you are moving forward. this is where the persuasive things that WORK. you dont have to be rash about this...you dont have to be too full on direct! this is the BALANCE OF BEING A PIMPLIKE GOD LIKE CHARACTER like a Lion and under the table you are pulling emotional strings. you manage logistics..you map it out..never WING IT..you can improv but DONT WING IT. CAUSE YOU WONT GET LAID. next topic is Social Proof * and how many celebrity and mostly 50 uses this and from AdamAFCLyons uses this very smeaky yet its great warmup and positive thing. Taken into consideration SOCIAL AWARENESS and NOT Creepy factor... talk about CREEPY FACTOR AND PERSISTANCE...this post on Sleavy was pretty good read and its comments. his advice is Ok somewhat partial.. but this is realistic consequence of BALANCE the SCALE of when to persist and when NOT http://aaronsleazy.blogspot.com/2013/11/real-life-example-of-pua-who-creeped_6.html

ONLINE PRIMER - RAW UNCUT CALIBRATION 2009

i was one of thouse guys who read too much and wouldnt get laid.. YOU HAVE TO ENVISION YOURSELF AS A ENTREPENUER A CEO and WOMEN ARE YOUR FLIGHT ATTENDANTS as THEY ARE FOR A RIDE Aside from PUA my natural friend taught me the "Take the initiative" and just go for it ..helped me.. I felt I didnt have to do more stuff after attraction and comfort..just lead to have sex and cuddle.. "I havent bathroom pulled or 3 some...but I want to solidify this first with 15 lays in a low and then move to more advanced..." I used to use RSDs applied from infield to online. Ive calibrated it to my personality and modified to add routines... Jeffy stuff is too much incongruent and comon sense comes into effct here based on her response i can banter or run comfort.... most guys banter too much and the girls get validation and BT spike from it that they dont want comfort and they stay as online friends cause they like the attention...which sucks . others you have to build momentum and tease them when they get all like she says: " Im busy maybe 2 weeks Im available,but Im not sure " other guys say : OK or F you or start offering themselves too eager and too easy I have to credit Vince Kelvin pua master hypnotist and NLP seduction expert on calling her on it while not being a jerk or amnoging her...something is rarel;y taught even when I was infield I had a bad habit of overteasing and it came off as AMOGchallenge and intmidating rather than "light fun and flirty" (credit AFC adam) back to what she said -her: " Im busy maybe 2 weeks Im available,but Im not sure " translation into MY's world: "I hope you are cool guy that is going to pass my shittest cause Im acting like a little girl that wants to be spanked when I actually want you to fuck me" I say : "well you are right Im going to have my personal assitant contact your representative and We ll see if theres space for August or November" Why I say this ?! for 2 reasons badboy says "change her mood not her mind" breaking rapport ala AFC adam this is the difference of players and average good looking guys its a rejection of her frame and you are showing thats absurd what she is saying withiut insulting her...if she doesnt get it and doesnt laugh after I say that...then I drop her and I know that Im not going to sleep with her..if she laughs that means she is attracted and theres sex involved..its a gut intuition about it .... she assumes that you make other girls laugh if you make her laugh...automatic attractive quality and preselection trait. Tyler says BT spiking and MarkEntropy uses this all the time to make girls horny THIS HELPED from scott patterson whoever the fuck he is: A Thousand Year Old Attraction Secret... Today I want to talk about a character trait that's been attracting desirable women for THOUSANDS of years. This is another quality that'll make you more NATURALLY attractive to women. So let's talk about this trait AND why it's important for getting the kind of women YOu want: Act Like a Leader, Not a Follower Women want men to act like men, and part of displaying your masculinity is to display courage and confidence. With that said, YOU have to be the one to take things to the next level. This means that YOU be the one to take the initiative. Be the one to ask her out. Make the first move. And act like a man who is not afraid to take things to the next level. Besides being the one responsible for progressing the relationship, a man also has to put effort into keeping it alive. One of the harsh realities of dating is that women get bored... REALLY quickly. If you're not providing a fun, exciting experience, then you run the risk of forcing her to find a guy who will! A lot of times, women will settle when it comes time to pick a romantic partner. Usually, this comes from a fear of being alone or not finding a comfortable relationship. The problem is, while they're in a stable situation, most women secretly yearn for the guy who can provide them with a bit of excitement. Someone who acts like a "leader of men." Women want a guy who is not afraid to take action. This is a quality that stems from the way we evolved as human beings. The "leaders of men" were often the most sexually desirable. When a woman would select a mating partner, she would inevitably gravitate towards the guys who were a cut above the rest... the leaders. Here's more about this quality (and more) that make you stand apart from other guys: ===> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/become-an-alpha-male-system.html So what draws a woman to a leader of a group? Most of the time, this type of guy wasn't the smartest, best looking, or even the toughest, but the leader did have one quality... He could control the actions of other men. So how do you display the leadership quality? The best way to demonstrate this trait is through your actions. With women, you can't tell them that you're a leader - you have to show it through the things that you do. First off, this quality is illustrated clearly through the way YOU make decisions. Whereas the inferior male waffles in his choices, the Leader in charge is decisive. He's able to quickly access a situation and make an instant decision. In order to "stand out from the crowd," you should make decisive choices and have the confidence to stick by them. Another way to show leadership is through the way you handle social interactions. The leader is somebody who can control a conversation, but ensures that everyone is included. Furthermore, a guy like this is somebody who enjoys planning an activity or taking charge of an event. Instead of allowing others to make decisions, the leader is the one who everyone looks to for good times or excitement. In essence, he's the focal point of any interaction! Finally, you can identify a leader by his body language. In a social interaction, he's somebody who: *** Makes strong eye contact with everyone *** Is the center of a conversation *** Moves at the front of the pack as a group travels *** Seems relaxed and casual *** Tells interesting stories that captivate everyone's attention As you can see, there are a lot of qualities and traits that capture the essence of a leader. The important thing to remember is that you should always be the person who is in charge of your social circle. Don't rely on others to take charge. Instead, be the guy who everyone looks to for an exciting experience.

Flashes of greatness part 2 -LR RAW Uncut 2009 and few notes of advice to a friend.

I have to say that this 2009 was Experimenting and pushing my comfort: Pardon my grammar skills. I closed on thursday night on my date... :) met up with her instantly was confusing me where she was and when I saw her I slapped her in the ass assume rapport teassed her. not alot of kino. She kissed me kind of right off and I stopped and said too soon. I take it way and stop. her BT actual BT she was like its hot here.lol. I would talk and make her laugh and confuse her (I was kind of nervous) took her to wine bar lead and I thought what we talked dude. I didnt kiss her there. (different from what I was doing ) the intereaction was subtle sexually but it was like she initate it and I would just look at her and smile.( another thing we talked about Id overescalate or run the train) I paid for the drink and one mini burger slicers we shared or whatever and I told her she had to pay for dessert she said OK we were walking but I didnt want to kill momentum so I had initally timebridged in the beginning about apt and the view of other buildings its nice to watch. we took a cab to the corner store and she padi for an ice cream and said I lets eat this here and I will walk you to you train station cause I have to get up early tomorrow.and she said NO i dont do that and I said what Im asking you to share icecream and you are out the door and laugh.. we got up there and the roomie was watching laker game so ...he used that excuse the other day so he could pull his girl in his room... so I said my friend is watching the game and I want to show you the view..she got in my room and I sat on the bed and I told her to take of her shoes and whatever then no sexual touching just taking turns feeding each other on pint of ice cream with the spoons (male female dynamic- latin thing i dont know) she kept saying I cant beleiev Im doing this and I would kiss her everytime she said that and she want it more I stop and act like the typical hard to get girl would freeze out with eating ice cream and telling her "there is no sex tonight Im tired " she would say I never said anything about sex, I dont do that ..then at one point it way hot I couldnt touch her tits to licking a pierced one and she wouldnt let me touch her down there and she had her clothes on but I I took off my pants tried EL Topo Kung fu penis from what mickey taught us waay back (I had an idea but never tried it since I had read the hype and im just playing SOLID like we spoke on the phone) and she tottally disarmed KFP and said "You do that to yourself " and If I insisted I knew it was needy. I stopped and said you are right, went AFC on purpose to fuck with her head "lets take thing slow and if we like each other later on then maybe we will get together some other time" got up and pulled my pants.but right before I had my hands grabbing her ass and i knew she was arroused. and she said no dont stop! Ohh shit! I knew I had something here I never ever imagine would happen since I did deep confort she opened up and said she's been hurt and could fuck other people etc etc .I went into nonjudgmental frame but not sexual explicit. I did kind of on th ephone with her but ran it again realting to what she said. and we were talking about tats and showed me her tat of S&M and that she like to be submissive slaped and tied up... WOW! I kisse her after that and told her that I think thats was cool and Im not going to judge her for it,,,and that it turned me on.after that we fucked ( half viagra and a red bull) and left her at train station to brokylnn at 3am... the problem is I didnt define the relationship cause I was in soo deep and she told me she wanted a BF. I said that lets see where this goes... she was on top of me during the convo I was locked in the bed .lol. I met her 2 days ago breifly and talked on the phone ran comfort but very funny and I ende the convo I saw her up 8:45 and 10 were havng this convo. closed her and the ice cream melted................... NOTE 9 and 10 game by braddok..use high sexual esteemt and low self esteem CaptainJAck... qualify and compliment only by what she qualifies herself and unique and cold read before you do it it sets their frame... use my dhv modifed stripeer myserty and qualify hard with this in the middle of comfort then go for make out,,,dont kino...do it lightly on the leg when she is telling something really deep about herself...dont talk about sex...talk about her passions and how her personality came about...don't neg...tease a little once in comfort.. DONT GO SEXUAL UNTIL YOU GOT HER BACK IN YOUR PLACE...if you do go sexual then blame her for making you sexual and make it a light tease...be chill slow things down and feel like you are cool and like its the TWO of you (Natural Tim bubble of "You and I")... use social proof but dont focus on it...do badboys "SHhh" kiss close.If she is foreign and subtle sexual subcommunication NONVERBAL -eye contact and eliciting her arrousal(Looyd all around the world. BRAD Punderground talk on arousal) is stronger effect is NONVERBAL on women than blabering before a makeout,,,,,like in the movies and sweepingoff the feet effect....she is a fine woman. but if you are too mervous then MY BEST ADVICE is GO TO A STRIP CLUB and but have a redbull and talk to the girls and do eye contact and dont buy a dance...beofre the date do this and your confidence will show that you are around theses hot woman all the time...FOOLS your brain I call it Dennis Rodman GAME. :P

Flashes of Greatness - Lessons from 2009 Part 1

you are the MAN! I like this..i know its inner game but how to demonstrate it to a woman... is pretty cool I like when you said always have a plan in mind for the outcome eventhough dont get emotionally invested in it. 1-you curious about her is qualification 2-Leadership and taking charge=handle logistics..always to your house for sex 3-open minded and conversation about anything she spits out 4-high risks in an intelligent sort of way thats more favorable...right? :) 5-thorowing in any suggestions on beig spontaneous 6-be social intelligent but show that you have always positive experiences..therefore misinterpret what favors you in your reality..positivty mindset is ok but should be turned off when it comes to improving or working on something 7-control his emotions and reactions...sexual mature 8- thats my secret to deep comfort #8 being sweet and romantic yet push pull forcing her to be the aggressor.. NLP hypnosis go first principle and then calibrate if she conplies and opens up then you are baiting her and making her invest into you... 9- he stands out without verballizing baiting her to say it there fore comfrim tm her mind that he is different 10- very meticulous and detailed person that tell you he like something and say why ...justifies a reason then typical guys that just say nice this but dont say why or dont specify to her to make it more meaning full.. this is awesome im doing a little bit of everything I like this dude!

Example of unstaged sexual escalation

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Killing your PUA Ego..that little boy seeking validation from women and your FALSE identity

I had a spiritual feedback from seeking my awareness... and being negative inside the issues that were beneath the deepest of the deepest...

This PUA EGO...wanted to validate myself as a MAN and this was destructive to ME in my Life and thanks to Lauren J...she as a spiritual friend advisor she helped me become aware of my ISSUE..

is really letting my body and mind belong to the FALSE IDENTITY of  PUA EGO...somethign that "I NEED TO GAME I NEED TO ENDLESSLY NEED TO SLEEP WITH WOMEN ALL THE TIME"

Like an addiction..

it sabotaged me in several areas where I needed myself my full self yet I let this distract me..

so her advice helped me become AWARE,,

and so aside of meditating and looking into myself and logically really focus...making the decision to really place effort into important aspects of life ...not women not PUA and really putting everything behind me..

I needed to BE #1

as Stephen NAsh says "Discovering your Purpose"

came like floating ontop of water...

I focused on trying to reframe my energy and controlling myself

reframe was really great reading Greg Frost Emotional Mastery pdf...which states controlling your own emotions and taking action how Mind needs to control body and urges...and shows wonderful examples from histroy including Gandhi..

Then putting into practice my friend Monique's advice  from
"focus like a Boxer into a fight"

I read boxers prepare like trainign day and night...no sex just to be angry and well focused..

So Im trying to focus will full energy with this important PURPOSE TASK which will help my Life to Change..

I found Eric Thomas...and Ray Lewis EFFORT motivation which led to my deeper strength..

I have a structure now and creating Myself  MY LIFE..MY responsibility as ADULT..
My finances...ETC

ON MYSELF...

Advice from Lauren was that this PUA EGO was to Kill my success and wanting to destroy ME,,,from my MAIN GOAL right now..

so aside of lower the volume..the most drastic action as a man is  KILLING IT

Killing it with Action...
Killing it with CHANGE..
building my NEW STRONG FOCUSED MASCULINE ENERGY INTO MY GOAL..
MY CAREER,,,My purpose.


This comes First...

What Im relieved and thankful that Stephen mentions Mystery...and how Needy he is..

My issues of neediness really is out of validation and insecurity.. with this new BELIEF AND CHANGE WITH ACTION..

The neediness is taking care of itsself..

I stop trying hard and putting 100% on EFFORT into my GOAL my career my Purpose..


I think this in timing was BEST THING...

Its alot of work and SACRIFICE..

but like Millionaire and succesful people..they sacrifice certain things to work on GOAL everyday till they get it...being focused..

like ERic Thomas said..

Make your drive to success like breathing then you are on the right track...no sleep no eating ,,,focus and work hard,,day and night to get it..

I think this is powerful..

this has helped me..

MEANING of this and security with Ray Lewis mentions EFFORT... is which I am doing finally.
Im aware of saying  oh I did x and not caring or detaching..

but with EFFORT and 100% work ...its chances and nature and law of attraction all that stuff comes into working to your GOAL..

THis is the MOST empowering moment of My Life...

Its defining ME as a MAN..

thanks Stephen Nash..thanks for putting this into perspective..
I think this is the beginning to SUCESSFUL MAN and BEING ALIGNED WITH QUALITY in LIFE.

"A Man who is Needy with women is untrust worthy...reason is women see you how you treat yours life as how you relate to her..how passionate about Life is about  relationship to your LIFE and relationship picture to her about your world...this natural way of Gain her TRUST" Wow.....sounds liek nothign yet when you put this into practice and personal growth and then relate to women dating etc...
then Masculine Man comes out...

Putting yourself FIRST and CEntering your POWER on yourself

I had some weird realization due to some rejections...at time I thought it was my technique or self delusional talk of NEXT  but reason is  due to high level of stress...some flinching of insecurity and NEEDINESS came out in a subtle way which sabotage my desperation to "GAME"

THis is reality of Life and what its needed to  be on NEXT LEVEL of AWARENESS

Ive learned detachement and lettgin go...meditation which is all good.

but a WEBINAR from Stephen Nash really opened my eyes to INNER GAME which has placed in perfect timing my masculine Life structure

I have at somethigns in life placed myself last and try to cater to women to get laid...
most PUA tactics and GAME does this...

But as Ive been practicng my CENTER...spiritually dicipline myself to FOCUS on my MAIN GOAL..
GIVEING IT MY EVERY EFFORT..

Ray Lewis with his Effort speeches and Eric Thomas motivation speech have opened my eyes to motivate me into NEW ACTION and ENERGY

50 cents quote SLEEP IS FOR BROEK PEOPLE has really helped me maintain Eye of the tiger into my Mission at this moment and putting this GAME aside..
I feel so self sufficient and Self dependent..

I see from 50 cent and in interview with robert greene about 50th LAw which is FEARLESS
in short its recognizing FEAR and reframing with AWARENESS...

SO once they FEEL FEAR....they interpret as alert of BEign AWARE and intelligently take action at that moment without reacting on that FEAR or negative emotion...

WAR book which has example of hernan cortes also influence me in how BEING RASH isnt necesary to be  a MAN or MASCULINE in being right all the time..

Its about being asssertive and intelligent in GOALS and in taking ACTION.,

Examples about 50cent and Byonce by EricThomas about SLeep and eating...and important BREATHE..

is really DEEP about how hungry you truly are to succeeed..

Stephen really puts it together on his webinar which I think is awesome put together...any guy who cant digest or take for granted needs to GROW up and be a MAN.

This is really needed to be a MAN.

Every successful man, business man or sucessful person have a self sufficient

btu for dating Stepehen puts something out that really is GOLD.

making or discovering your purpose.... is more about Finding yourself and being sure of yourself and working on yourself FIRST before you try PUA tactics..

not about lifestyle or other stuff...its MINDSET and BELIEFS..

IF you want to listen in on this GEM from Stepehen Nash heres the Link ...
Enjoy..

http://www.how-to-get-a-girlfriend.com/webinarpb/

March Madness..3 new lays and one BJ NOt bad for a "fat guy" LOL

Black dragon pua recently contacted me with wanting to write about me last night I BJ closed a native american she was kindah un attractive but sucked good dick..too bad I couldnt cum..
I ran phone game ala Doc Holiday and I follow leads rule and try everyday to work up one new.
I did one on a portland woman who was divorced from a man addicted to gay porn...I ran wide and dep rapport but I felt she was stealing the show then I remembered that theres truth to leading and investment in comfort...I also ran it on a woman who feels attracted to me hardcore..

CALL ME good Luck Chuck ;) LOL

REBIRTH!!!

YEp I dont know what to say but I feel this month is rebirth of me...

Ive defragmented success on my game and ITS compnent

ITs gotten sooo insane with the results I have to post LRS in more detail but Im enjoying the "FLOW"
 Its insane how me and wing in Miami A-rock are 2 players with so much success right now in Life and women...

TO me Is GROWTH!

EMotional detachment help so much and stop caring or trying too hard to force things.

another component tis gary braodksys conquering women, as much as I hate him there is some truth to him..

what else...

john holmes youtube video on women, dr anthonys self esteem audiobook, and a talk I had about my relapse with my Ex when i spoke to Isabella..

she said something that impacted my SHIFT

"You feel lonely but you arent...you have been loved and been loved by many..if you want you can have any woman you want but you are looking for something with a meaning cause you are at a stage where you dont want empty love.. "

that reality struck me hard,,,

I have it recorded it and I kept thinking and thinking and it struck hard
then I internalized it and now I applied tao of steve be desireless and these women are falling for me...

DID I GET REJECTD ? YES
DID I LEARN VALUEABLE LESSON? YES
WAS IT WORTH SUFFERING A LITTLE? YES

it was like steroids
like marc mcgwire batting on good day  with intense to throw balls outta the park

I think Im dangerous cause Im more consistent..and potent as EVER

more important is FRANCO support in my Inner GAME.
thats what counts....

FRs combined findings Good girl screening or LD ? My Take on Franco's teaching and findings

as you guys read Ive been too busy but I will try to post past things happening.
A-rock my good friend and miami wing, has been single and motivated me to do Online game ALA 2009 I got sucesses with...
my female friends kindah sabotaged saying I needed to work on myself spiritually etc etc....

anyways Like Franco knows ,my horniness beats my logic sometimes.lol,,yeah its a problem folks. :P

I started dive into the world of Good Girls...

this other week was full of emotional turmoil cause I had emotionally connected with a woman who I wanted to be with.she is a FREAK but married..

anyways this is a whole controversial issue. I learned lesson is you manage where you lead and lead their emotions to go and have control.

Sometimes you have to be a chode nice guy to calm them down...and not for them to hate you after you rejected them.Women can be vengative and destructive...they can destroy careeers and jail men..society gives them this Power. so be aware....

anyways I had a date with a Good Girl her name is J.E.. so It went well but she was emotionally distant..yet she was all bnusiness kindah logical but her friend skept her from horniness....

Then I started seeing that Good girls are good but still are provider seeker type...

OK

Ive been gaming other girls online...some with Franco's material and his stuff works.BTW.
I started screening and how important it is to build momentum.

so I have 3 girls who are wanting to be with me for sure closes. mostly seem cross of adventuress and good girls HD..

this is sweet stop I like :)

there are 2 other whom are far but I havent  touched base and they seem busier types for me to pursue.

Arock told me about JEFFY's 3 GIRL RULE
game 3 girls from start to finish..dont get overwhelmed with not Closing..

what spurted my GAME was "Good girl"LD or FREAK J.E. she MASS TEXT for guy to take her out for dinner...and I called her and she didnt know who I was..
?

I was abit hurt and dissapointed...seeing this I said WTF

and I turned into the JEFSTER...when he first had met CHESSCLUB.

so I started sparking and pushing my game with more energy... and this is what spurted my motivation to avoid oneitis and waiting for her....

My game is nice style....it makes the girl chase for you seek rapport...

its awesome..
but it screeens now which is different from 2009 posts..I had realizations when I re read an email to a friend who I gave advice on GAME in 2009 peak of success.
that helped me along with my own vengeance of this player way supplicant way of this J.E.
was I taking this personal?
YES
why?
cause I called her and called her out on the phone as I was testing waters and screening her...
she didnt know who I was and cut it off.

IN LOVE AND WAR THERE ARE NO RULES

Follow you intuition yet be proactive and positive.

FR Good girl LD

theres this chick who rejected me online I kept on , I used rich descriptions and material described in Franco's book. as I was screening..
we kept at it and even legnthen then number closes due to their good girl qualitys I accepted to keep chat and pull back to have them close me...and they did,lol..

so I had a date with this Good girl LD or somesort of logical LD woman..or single lonely woman...described in FRancos other book.

not all GAME will work on ALL WOMEN! its the style of game . to me its part of numbers game but hook the ones that compatible with what you project and your personality in GAME.

THATs the reality.

POWER..if you come from POWER then your game is LESS
you tend to overgame that will turn off something is wrong with you or you are anti social or retarded.

So this  FR of this other cute blond albino woman her name is J.aswell . oh shit .LOL

anyways she cut the emotional momentum and played "courtship" games of making men wait.
to me Kino is important and I understand SAFETY..
anyways when woman agrees to meet you there and she is non responsive to rich descriptions or rapport and is logical...I feel something is wrong.

not with me or my game

CERTAINLY NOT, LOL

but with the woman receptive....

so this is something  I noticed  also another one who seemed cool and does community things and disapeared. she was pretty and IOI me as handsome but then it felt like I was on a time constraint.


Like guys like Sinn says "SOMETIMES THERES NO CONTIGENCY FOR THAT.lol"

BAd Boy says " Always push make things happen...."

so its between that grey area ....push without force...that is why all this is an ART of manipulation.

so I use FRANCO's rule of rejection ...since I have turned sets that died and relieved them before...


anyways this chick we meet for 15 mins...

we didnt ahve rapport she leave to bathroom and calls her friend...aka backup plan

and I felt this wasnt gping anywhere and I put on my jakcet like leaving...not plowing or begging
cause set is done ...we arent compatible cause she is being distant...not me or my game and time constraint.

so jher friend came and saved me from wasting more time.

THEN I emal her shortly to reject her and then pull her back.

she responds

and I then pace and lead and leave an open door for her to look for me if things dont work out for her and that other guy.

NOTE: She mentioend she was talkign to another "guy" I was cool..but I used it now as reframe to her as open door. and subcommunicate Im better than him. Im better than any guy you will meet...but not in a logical way but in SUBCOMMUNICATION.

I think big impact is listenind cory sky abit and mrm braddocks- htbam and surprinsilingly Gary bradskys audio on conquering women...some gems there I knew but powerful infulence.

Like Shaft in 2008 said "when you talk to woman you have to set the stage"

THAT is where you FRAME things and let her accept or let go.

you can have great game but if its on a type of person that isnt compatible with you for whatever reason

YOU SAVE TIME  AND DONT FORGET TO ONE - UP her. in subtle way.

theres beign non reactive and theres being spiking BIOLOGICAL EMOTIONS  without direct words but actions and subtle things  that trigger actions and REACTIONS..to turn things into lays and ARROUSAL.


IM HAPPY IM A MAN cause as a woman get suckered in easily...they either have an agenda or are TOO emotionally FUCKED UP.

Fuck it theres a new breed out there. LD is definately out the window..yet again if window is close will it bounce back?
HEhe.
SAndros

LR bring the Tequila

I have started to get frustrated so I had to turn it up a notch
it was my bday and I was in good state...things were happening my beliefs where good and my social intuition was vibing.

I will talk but this previowu FR the girl was cool but rejected me cause Id try screening with kino by franco..
I did it and what happened was a magical thing...
the girl taught me a lesson..
something I knew but importantly
it made sense INFIELD.

I then falshback when I had a date and touched too much..and Mark talked to me...
and it was gone.

I closed..

well I closed here as well.

I was online and it wasnt on until I hear dfrom her and used more of teasing and funny..
then it got abit better and I use 3rd text on the phone RULE...
I disqualify myself as if I was w friends and just to say Hi.
we talked for 45 mins.. and afterwards she textd me to
BRING THE TEQUILA

so I did being a broke Mofo.. I hardly had cash..
we met and I ran comfort and laid back 1hr and half..alll new material I had and been working on but I could never use really I started to use this FRAME called Truth and honesty.....

that hit homerun...

cause its grey area yet it  is like pimps where you mirror what they want...you describe.

so we drank and at one point I escalated and she overescalated...to a full Fclose.

she is my first mexican girl close...fuck was OK. but better than nothing..especially I was the birtday boy.,

Danger Danger Danger”- High status male reality of importance of SAFETY-Sandros

Im writing this in regards to the RISKS as MEN or high status ladies man have in life.

The question is are we drawn to it? Or are we perceived to be “Good with women” that we put ourselves in DANGER and “take risks” or “out of your comfort zone”. Sounds familiar to you?

PUA industry has really targeted Low self esteem into “looks don’t matter” and other “quick fixes” or “get her to lust for you with 3 easy steps”..Selling you into a something WORSE than a MAGIC PILL but a DOWN fall of self esteem and mental disturbance from disappointment from FAKE illusion of “PUA” perceived value of lifestyle which is FANTASY.

As High status male from celebrities and billionaires we want to meet quality women…Even celebrities in article reading Britney spears searching online dating as Demi Moore seeking online dating screening out “trashy” people in a recent newspaper mentioned.Celebrity Billionaire match making does exist but at a point of view of who benefits most from it? Yes theres match making services but to be honest it comes from mostly seeing the perceived value of the MAN with the money and no heart,which makes you upfront have you PAY for a woman’s time.I think this is a LOSE LOSE situation and reality a lot of successful business men FACE in todays dating world.WE want to meet QUALITY WOMEN and at same time we are frustrated.YES, there are QUALITY women out there by the way, its how you really want to start a win- win for both men and women, but certainly not from the profit of match making service would you benefit.Its not about the money its about where you want your power and authority for you to have a clear sense if the woman you meet wants you FOR YOU and not your MONEY.Remember its not about the money.Its about You, the successful high status business man.

SO how does this apply to a Successful business man, Millionaire-billionaire,Doctor, professional athlete, etc etc.. as yourself in wanting to be successful Life with dealing with women as well…from being potential in DANGER in their own REAL life affecting women ?

This might not make sense. But its true that we might get sucked into taking risks,letting ourselves putting importance into getting a girl and risking losing your career and your reputation.

Men have lost this, We have historical examples in WAR; I cannot emphasize really without mentioning a famous army general in US who had an affair with his autobiography author and really ruining his image…or example of someone so brilliant as Tiger going through tough emotional times while maintaining focus on the most important thing in his game and his career.Id admire Tiger so much as his mental focus on regaining strength on his future and professional career.Through meditation and mental strength in all its awesomeness.

But unlike many other examples like famous president Clinton… the fact that most of these leaders they are what in sales is called “closers” or “finishers” in their perserverance successful in their own career and GOALS, If they hesitated or second thought could they’ve avoided this?

I think looking back isn’t helpful unless you don’t pick up a lesson learned and move on.

As a high status male, its a big RISK…a RISK for you as a professional, businessman wanting to be a ladies man, billionaire, doctor, health professional, attorney,professional athlete….would a RISK like this with probable cause of losing your career?

Is this Too much of a RISK?

Aside from PUA or famous seduction acronyms and weird analogies “he who hesitates masturbates”…

For high status male this isn’t so….PUA doesn’t really apply to our reality as successful male in Life.

To be bluntly honest,none of the pua training stuff and material out there wrongly taught and managed unrealistically and at a low point from a low self esteem…would not only affect in wrong way your career but it would hurt your own self esteem. Not only that it would make you needy and desperate and social awkward it would isolate you and make you vunerable. Its best to stay away from PUAindustry or anything related to underground seduction community.

You don’t have to start from ZERO to hero mentality.

This PUA industry doesn’t apply to you the high status male in seduction.This mistake can be costly as well as time consuming and even maybe career risk ending from reputation.

As important person in your career, like mentioned in a power book “guard your reputation with your life.”

History shows men have done things for and over a woman, DON’T MAKE THIS MISTAKE.

It might be the recently good pussy you’ve had and when you don’t have it and crave it cause you don have it anymore and really you become desperate and needy…..what happens to your mind and body?

Do you feel betrayed if you don’t get a hit of this obsessive dose of pussy juice?

Women are protected by laws and I agree cause I have sisters and one day will have a daughter but how would you manage your actions if or when you aren’t able to?

One of the best scenes demonstrated in a movie is George Clooney in up in the air movie. When he leaves the room and goes after that woman he starts to have feelings for and then to disappointment she is an adventuress.The player that he is and he emotional control during his character demonstrates good example of how vunerable as MEN we can be. Everyday we will be filled of more and more examples and sexual harassments filled in the NEWS.

Which makes high status business men,Athletes, artists,billionaires, millionaires, doctors, attorneys, health professionals..successful MEN in general who are looking to improve on their own dating LIFE is a RISK involved.

Yes there are groupies, there are women who will throw themselves at you , yes you will ENJOY the SEX, but how you know when and when not.. THIS IS THE QUESTION.

For me ,I have discovered this GREY ZONE and to be honest theres A LOT of dating coaches giving wrong advice and selling wrong mentality….for someone who has nothing to LOSE, that’s FINE.

For someone who is in jail and out of jail its non issue…for someone so successful in their career in business and personal growth makes this modern day pursuit with success with women is a WHOLE OTHER BALL GAME.

I hope this article helped understand that you don’t have to TAKE RISKS to be a player or be “Good with women”, even worse to be “Reckless Bad Boy” when you are NOT congruent.

BEST analogy I can put an end to this point is :

“You don’t need to dress uniform when you OWN the TEAM”

SAFETY is quality trait you must have to proctect yourself as the MOST important asset.

Don’t make the same mistake that may cost you your fortune, your career , your reputation and maybe even your freedom.

Feel free to comment in regards to meeting women as high status man.

THIS ARTICLE IS MORE TOWARDS ME AND PEOPLE WHO LEAD SUCESSFUL LIFE LIKE ME

Thank you for taking the time to read.

Lesson on Freaks: Valentines Day rant and escapade with F-close hired gun adventuress/materialista

So I wanted to thank all for reading my Blog and thanks for encouraging me to move forward,That being said...
As you read the heading of this Blog.. Life is a GIFT...really its what you do with it..so DONT WASTE IT

Online game status and location: its not the same gaming in bigger cities and in small town country.

So I decided to be PROACTIVE...this should be part of  your RITUAL at 5am or 6am before anything you do meditate or look at mirror or just prepared focus and mental preparation as demonsrtated assures success..

MORE on that later on another post..

So as 3 week no contact rule..the EX GFFB FREAK recontacts me...
anyways Ive been texting retreading other girls...since my FREAK game aka adventureses aka party chick game is tight...I decided to follow emotional momentum and use of basic push pull. to reach out and game other girls whom
1- are ahead of time I know are FREAKS
2-know that sex will be part of tonights main event
3-spontaneous.
Meaning this night i can spend it home sobbing or writting some BS excuse or go out and make something out of it..
which brings into Gun to hte head gaming orignal post by the belated captain Jack...
All this old stuff I learned is now coming back cause I CLEARED MY MIND AND EMOTIONS from the breakup ..remember we are talking about chapter 5 not chapter 4 anymore..
I will share my thoughts and management on FREAKS and investment cause I did hired gun game many times so experience has helped me manage and lead without thought. YES they like to be controled and if you dont do so while you are with them they LOSE attraction..yes most are damanged..
the place where I live is 85-95%  FREAKS.

Im looking for Good girls even online but that itself is a BIG challenge cause seeing thorugh its what they say but different what they WANT..

So I will be directing my ENERGY towards my PERSONAL GOALS more than GAME..

VALENTINES DAY NIGHT

so I use alot of future projections and comparisons...in this case I used KAnyewst relationship with superstar video Kdashan. as me and her..putting up with her shit...
this girl I have flaked and tryed to game several times she is hired gun..and materialista.Ho'
we texted back and forth and reframe every attempt to her betaising me and use of we seeing each other...even so when she got logical...
I either dont respond or respond later to MEET up without giving other alternatives..
So she was acting abit flakey and I was almost flakey which had her on her FEET..

She comes out and I was doing other things...already planning logistics myself and what is more convient for ME. how I WANT MY NIGHT ofcourse without verbalize and me giving the vibe of 
"I dont give a shit and same time being ALOOF and distracted by my own happiness and spontaneous."

she is pretty she looks like an english famous dating coach ..lol..so this was something I needed to brag about here in the blog.lol

anyways..materialistc girls you have to play and play and give and take more...

so she talk and talk and about how I sent her texts in past months about heart and stuff..and how she always was upset at me but at same time i noticed she was attrcted and curious to be with me...

so at one moment I had to push and improvise to lead and modify..
LEAD and MODIFY  LEAD AND MODIFY logistics and closing and seduction...
Never be passsive..read FRANCO's book on what he says of being passsive its HORRIFIC..

anyways I always kept her on her toes unconciously and at any time I could take off...
I assured her an awesome time if she followed me..
she then agreed verbally wanting to spend the night with me on this special valentines day and we took off to my pad..

my pad she tried on clothes she bought that night...I basically saw and read things about her personality which I havent been calibrated in awhile to see or screeen FREAKS..and LSE types..
she was part materialista but more LSE FREAK..she did it for emotion of excitement..
That knowing is all physical no emotional connection game or attachement..cause it damages your state if you have emotional openedness like me..
So
I practiced detachement or law of desengagement from pimps.. remember my ego was hurt and I was recovering..but I was whomever i wanted to be and with every woman thats the case to calibnration.

she was a FREAK, gave me a show trying on...nothing really sexual just comfort...her IOI was her being there and I was in no rush to close..I wanted her emotions to simmer and then with my physical arrousal to SPIKE BT with good sex..

she then showed me her videos on her phone..she is freak..OMG..this is like training with Tigers in a cage.lol

but I had her invest more and more...in conversation and her personal life..without me rapport seeking but my open thought and being neutral yet being there at same time..


she was a relflection of ALOT of girls who are here  where i live..luckily she wasnt in no gangs..as another adventuress who was OMG HOT HOT..was involved with gangs and with my mentorship of female friends and guys like Franco who care...I had to NEXT...

so we had sex and it was GOOD sex...I had promised her to drive her back but I was soo tired and next day i had to go to work that I projected that without saying a word...
her social skills are HIGH cause she is hot looking but her freak nature makes her emotional descive person...she then later said she was abit OCD...I do believe that cause she called some friends to pick her up and I left her near to my place..NEVER to my place...
NEVER..better yet I took a route and talk talk to confuse her and she wouldnt know how to get to my Pad.

but overall. I had an awesome crazy time...we went out just chilled out went to a store joked around...we were like almost best friends yet lovers..Its weird I always become like best friend type in all or most relationships... lol..

next morning i woke up late and ran to work only to get ontime before my Boss showed up...Oh BTW i got promoted and my EX was texting and calling leaving voicemails she misses me...

Ok for the validation but I figured I take this chance and period of my Life to being more selective with whom I spend time with..

it was OK to be with FREAKs adventuresses  for fun like a candy or brownie when you are on a strict diet or ocational drink or relax in downtime..but like someone says

"DONT LOSE YOURSELF IN THE TREES FOR THE FORREST"

Freaks are good to have fun and FUN time is what I had vs staying home sobbing for an EX or doing Online game...

Its how you make things happen proactively then BOOM it hits you and you are rewarded. :)

LR:Lay report-FR punching bag turned into LR punching bag.lol

I met this person in NOV and at first when we met I was hesitant cause I “couldn’t “ read her IOIS.

I learned that at times intent and sexual vibe and attention is bigger than any IOI

IdiotRape disclosure **** this doesn’t mean be a fuckin dumb ass and put yourself in danger and assume…you always need right lights to blink…

In this case I wasn’t reading into her frame and she tried abit to play hard to get,and I immediately didn’t have time to deal with it so I left it as business and got the fuck out after I bought what I needed.

anyways

Ive texted her randomly and at first time she texted her pic without me asking…I think you can give off a cool vibe…girls will open..effortlessly,,theres no explanation aside of non neediness and attemntion seeking from guys..that never means a lay.



So she texts me at new year….Cool..

Week after I textd her a silly but cool text: I call it rhyme her name and make it stupid….

This is self amusing but it makes her LAUGH at herself and at same time not taking her serious and therefore assuming you are drunk and therefore IT DOESN’T COUNT…yet PASSIVE FRAME IS SET..she laughs and then I say I will invite you to open mic but do me a favor..

And she will say what sthat

I say don’t throw your panties when Im on stage we will both get thrown out

They will LOL or whatever…… then leave it at that….

I went out one night to a singlesnight here where I am and she opened me text…I messed up and I reopen telling her Im having an awesome time at so so place..she responded she got home and I assumed she got pizza and beer and she said Yes, I said awesome.I halfway invieted myself over.. and she invited me over..basically my new positivity vibe to continue the party got me in state and fr punching bag woman text me and I exchangd few texts so effortlessly that she shoot address I drove there gave me little LMR.problem is she is typical freak.

last time me and her met was I bought punching bag months ago and was too scared to escalate that night.tonight I closed her good very intense physical arousal game basically kills LMR....

I was playing aloof cool attractive guy and shed say shed call me…

I left it as is….and Id textd her once a week ,,, eventhough she aint responding cause It shows Im still around if she wants…

This gives woman control and yet makes you easy to contact cause she knows whats up…

Fuck being a challenge at this point…its fucking on cause you fucked her..

And Ive had situtaions where I ve slepted with a woman one time and that’s it..it doesn’t mean anything..its part of Life.period….

Doesn’t matter what PUAs say…about that..

Chapter 5 Start of NEW THINGS

CHAPTER 5


Im reorganizing my Life. Time Off to feed the soul and to feel alone.

No blame just focus….

Being serious and responsible.

HEALTH : IVE LOST 37 lbs since Christmas !!!! with 1000 calorie diet… NEED TO WORK ON PROACTIVE AND STOP PROCRASTINATION. Work on SENSE of ENTITLEMENT like Jeffy says..Affirmations, GYM class after Work…Morning is mediation and REVIEW GOALS and EAT THAT FROG.. Emotinal support Neediness management



WEALTH: Im lacking managing time to EAT THAT FROG AND START STUDYING!!! This is obstacle roadblock Im mentally been avoiding…and distracting myself with sexual addiction.. Im working reading on manangement TIME and ENERGY to stop procrastinating and start now..STUDY EXAM



RELATIONSHIPS: I have a GIFT to start FRESH and manage this more logical standpoint VS emotional excitement of SEX. GOOD GIRLS into the Rotation..all freaks will need to qualify and meet requeirements on following what I want. Pimp book has been good reference to this dealing with this and GB how to play women was great great…I need to revover that one…but Im changing taste on type of emotional and intellectual woman…which will I myself need to improve on the other 2 levels..

Online GAME** ;Tpoastmasters;meetups socialize; limited Daygame* Emotinal support Neediness management



NEW MOTTOS:

“Action will destroy your procrastination.” -- Og Mandino



Only antidote to negativity,worry and low self esteem is positive purposeful constructive action in the direction of your GOALs -Brian Tracy



"I've only had two rules.

Do all you can and do it the best you can.

It's the only way you ever get that feeling of accomplishing something."

-Colonel Sanders KFC



"From a woman’s POV, if a man does not know how to physically take care of himself, he will NEVER be able to take care of her"-MK



“Realize that true happiness lies within you. Waste no time and effort searching for peace and contentment and joy in the world outside. Remember that there is no happiness in having or in getting, but only in giving. Reach out. Share. Smile. Hug. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself.”

― Og Mandino



“How do I change?

If I feel depressed I will sing.

If I feel sad I will laugh.

If I feel ill I will double my labor.

If I feel fear I will plunge ahead.

If I feel inferior I will wear new garments.

If I feel uncertain I will raise my voice.

If I feel poverty I will think of wealth to come.

If I feel incompetent I will think of past success.

If I feel insignificant I will remember my goals.

Today I will be the master of my emotions.”

― Og Mandino



“Welcome every morning with a smile. Look on the new day as another special gift from your Creator, another golden opportunity to complete what you were unable to finish yesterday. Be a self-starter. Let your first hour set the theme of success and positive action that is certain to echo through your entire day. Today will never happen again. Don't waste it with a false start or no start at all. You were not born to fail.”

― Og Mandino

REVIEW NEEDINESS MANAGEMENT FRANCO /also BLACKDRAGON version*

CLOSURE to CHAPTER 4

Chapter 4 Closure


“Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time.”

― Og Mandino

Im writing this cause Im putting closure and sense of entitlement to MOVE FORWARD,

We are humans and as vunerable to things we are we can get HURT or be HURT,

Thanks to my good Friends Monique,Franco,LauraJ,Storm even DEE for their advice and my friends who have put up with my chaotic emotional issues lately concerning this delicate dangerous situation.

Even one of my fuckbuddy in a Long distance relationship has been super cool with me.

It good to think for himself as a MAN, but its always good to hear advice from people who care about you..THIS IS WHERE SOCIAL CIRCLE is part of neediness management.

Only think I did different is that I violated Bradocks LAW of social circle respect with “leaching” but replaced it with Female neediness management EFFECT…which was interesting way of managing but NOWTHINKING makes you too dependent emotionally on others….but Id use it with care cause u can lose friends like this…but some girls will give you straight up! ANWSER that will amaze you better than a guy friend who can try to be sympathetic.IF YOU TRY THIS TACTIC always calibrate with reciprocation of friendliness and THANKFUL POSITIVE ENERGY! And give them time to forget about you and then you can reconnect as a different person if you leached too much***

See Females are much stronger in moving on faster than men in the moment, if they hooked up already and as Janka states in one of his youtube videos….it takes SKILL for a guy to move on.

Someone I don’t remember he is from Canada,,wrote psychological truism of NO CONTACT RULE 3 -4 week period is when female mind goes to loneliness. *** with LSE and someone fucked up in the head makes things worse….hopefully I can contain with SELF DISCIPLINE to contain Chapter 4 in Chapter 4…Thanks Braddock**

As Mark quoted someone in his book “This is a GIFT” ….whats weird about it is that closest people have told me that I needed this to happen cause I was being distracted with what I have been neglecting and avoiding in terms of my long term wellbeing in my career …

WHEN PART OF HEALTH WEALTH AND RELATIONSHIPS IS LACKING…the others are affect by your performance. THIS IS SOMETHING I NOTICED.

Even a female friend told me “you were settling….thats why you feel hurt…your EGO is HuRT its not cause you Lov3d her….its your EGO and your emotional attachment”

This points several issues I have to mature. I have gotten awesomely good at Mark’s Entropy Chemistry Game which basically makes you a CONNECTION GUY…

3 weeks ago I had a text exchange and I was on my way to a womans place for sex… I haven’t heard from her back cause there wasn’t real connection cause she was a FREAK adventuress …but with most women my game is CONNECTION.

This is my NEW GOAL is high quality women emotionally healthy and screening them…. I read and read but as most guys we get causght in the dogmatic PUAdom of DOOM of we have to approach and open sets and all TOO DAMN VALIDATION SEEKING OUT OF THIS STUPID ISSUE of whos WHO?

I LEFT that EGO at the door when I felt like shit listening how awful mistakes I was doing.

Take the attitude of a student, never be too big to ask questions, never know too much to learn something new.

Og Mandino



THEN Started looking into Beliefs and reinforcing Good self esteem being with positive PROACTIVE people.



This game or better yet say SEX is addicting…..watch the movie SHAME and find out what that is.

This is Chapter 4 and I wont go in detail cause its hurtful DRAMA that I found myself involved.

AS Dr.Wayne Dyer says I quietly effective FORGIVE her …. Brian Tracy says to forgive is to free yourself.

CBT therapy helped with the Oneitis..Dr Brodie program letting go past relationships…and his excesize workbook is HANDS DOWN BEST IN walking away from a DESTRUCTIVE relationship into a route of HEALING. Like FRANCO says :

” with some types of women its better to walk away before the F bomb blows up in your FACE..”

Im done with ACTIVE GAME involvement with LSE FREAKS..

Im looking into more EMOTIONAL MATURITY in ways to DEAL .

-so far WAR book by Robet Greene chapter 3 and now will read chapter 4 next ….Dr robet anthony’s book is awesome opening my eyes again how self esteem and beliefs and GOALS and all this STUFF works… its true what Mark told me once “YOU are the one putting mental barriers..get rid of that shit first and you will improve automatically”..I had bought Brian Tracys program and since my laptop got stolen lost all the stuff…I will have to slowly have to regain this into once Im abit more financially stable…

Im looking into LOOKING DEEP INTO WHAT I WANT and TYPE OF WOMAN I WANT NOW IN MY LIFE

SET PRIORITIES STRAIGHT AND MOVE TOWARDS THAT……deida reference thanks braddock and stpehen Nash**

Now its managing my ENERGY and state of MIND into proactive results towards what LIFE I WANT TO LIVE….

“Work as though you would live forever, and live as though you would die today. Go another mile!”

― Og Mandino

AFTER BREAKUP INNER GAME DETACH EMOTIONS

recently found myself in deep emotional turmoil DUE TO A BREAKUP


but as logical as it may sound you have to keep yourself detached emotionally.



Things that occur to you or encounter in your life doesnt define who you are, I mean the negative and painful parts.



As humans we tend to get our anger and emotions get to us then we justify these emotions to either blame or sobb over them justify our suffering.



this isnt so if you grab yourself out of it before you find yourself deep into an emotional depression or wreck.



It may sound rehashed but here's the thing:



you must be in control of what you feel



1- You can feel sad but doesnt mean you are SAD. Rephrase this.

this will help detach emotions from clouding you.
check youtubed vids:hale dwoskin


2- Sounds Cliche -ish but see positive and try to experience it as a lesson to move forward to better things to come and motivate you. This emotion you can dive yoruself in and the mind will make necesary changes without thinking.nmotiate yourself to be teflon strong regardless of adversity in your Life.you will learn not to doubt yourself and believe more in yourself.



"better sooner than latter."

"when life hits hard you have to get more power to getback"

"up if it were easy everybody would be doing it "

"you are responsible for yourself,your LIFE and your own happiness..never a woman"



"I love myself no matter what"..this is talking to yourself reinforcing your beliefs,not affirmations per se'.



affirmations you make with your own voice or  from products

which DOES WORK and very effective, I have used it and suggest to check that out.



3- Dont be affected by other peoples actions towards you.

Even if you NEXT a chick or chick rejects you dont let that affect you.You have to maintain focus on your Life and you well being at all times.



Always look at other sucessfull people who have been succesfull regardless of obstacles and circumstances.

(Or can offer their advice and may have gone through what you are going through, LISTEN to THEM)



Great reference that has personally help me on this and has great breakdown in a simple smart masculine way of managing your behavior is :



Robert Greene's 33 strategies of war chapter 3 It is a great read



heres a very brief review from Wiki:









Chapter 3





Amidst the Turmoil of Events, Do Not Lose Your Presence of Mind: The Counterbalance Strategy. You must stay focused, define your goals and have the confidence to achieve those goals. With this in place, strive toward that goal relentlessly.



•Keys to Warfare



◦Do not get frustrated by people less strategic or foolish, use them to your advantage.

◦Seek out the conflict, do not hide from it.

◦Maintain presence of mind, do not let yourself be intimidated by yourself or others.

◦Do not panic, focus on what you are confident in

◦Develop a quick reaction sense, make decisions

◦Rely on yourself,minimize reliance on others.***my note: especially with women,never rely on her for our happiness or validation of yourself.their emotions change so quick that you will go crazy if you rely on them for their approval of YOU!**

4- "Take calculated risks. That is quite different from being rash."

-GEN GEORGE PATTON

Dont always play it safe meaning SETTLING what you WANT IN LIFE!
Worst enemy is your comfort zone.

Dont try to go to the other extreme as well,Be smart about it. FRANCO SAYS DONT PUT YPURSELF IN DANGER!!!

Theres always a balance.



Inspire yourself into your passion, work , gym or hobby.try to push yourself,ike increasing the weight and reps..this wil help you develope muscles and mental muscle from your actions.



This will also develop awarness and will make you a more of a go getter into being proactive towards your goal.



For Seduction I think that dont jump into conclusions too soon, always be aware at the beginning after expereince and some rejection you will know how to handle them without second thought it will be so fast you wont catch yoursel fsecond guessing or flinching.



dont always play into your comfort zone, be smart. you will encounter some situation that you cant avoid , theres always left and right its never just one way.



Its what you do with it , what you do with the ball no matter how shitty the pass is to you, its up to you to what to do with it, use this to your advantage.

See yourself having control , be proactive then take action.

this kills self dobt and will educate you.

EXAMPLE : you set up a date and it starts to rain...



options: you either make up an excuse to yourself because of the rain and cut the date short



OR



you use it as an excuse to talk about good feelings about rainy days...cuddling watching a movie ..eat in at your place and order delivery ....and how you are going to have to kick her out since you cant stay up too late...etc etc..





Its what you do with what you are given,this will help change your thinking.

Always think that you and you only can change the future and outcome of your own life.



Ask yourself if you deserve it, if you really love yourself to want it.



Then go for it.



Theres no greater feeling when you love yourself .



sorry for the mix up , i tried to make this simple and understandable.



Hope this helps any of you guys out there.

ALSO DEEPAK CHOPRA LAW OF DETACHMENT and a meditation on youtube...
TAO of STEVE 3 rules-
BRAD P's INNER GAME stuff



always feel free to comment.

Sarging or gaming Women at Work/Career related school or Uni

Hey guys my laptop and internet connection wasnt functioning properly in past few days,Last weekend on saturday I had a LR which was basicaly text and re text and hook then reverse role then direct.




all I got after that subcommunication was attraction without being vulgar yet sexual..at same time #1 of PUAdom is I was having fun even before I was texting the woman. Plese dont be dogmatic about such rules cause this LR I will write with more time in detail with text interaction play by play demonstartes that there is no dogmatic rule, either way was LEAD LEAD LEAD.. instead of PUSH PUSH PUSH ,which was a huge sticking point of my own game in sexual part of seduction.but we will leave it at a later time.



That being said, I wanted to write an IMPORTANT article post that comes from the heart.



And that is Women from work/career area uni .If you are in US then this is for you.







ALL THE RULES OF SEDUCTION NO MATTER WHAT STYLE ITS IS CASSANOVA OR DON JUAN.DO NOT BELONG AT WORK AREA!







so here is the truth if you dont like hearing the truth from time to time then stop right here.







Women will throw IOIs and flirt. Some will hold eye contact longer than usual, some will be super friendly..



some will ask you "what are you doing this weekend?" some will even betaise you so that you can qualify yourself to show what you do on the weekends and what type of guy you are?







ALL THIS IS FAKE IOIs .. you know Ive done strippergame like crazy in the past and this is even worse than strippergame, at least the stripper will want money or a call girl will be nice but despise you cause you are paying her outside of what biolgogy permits but then again a call girl survival instincts like a pregnant woman kicks in for the buck to give herself out.







Women at work are dangerous, women who dont have a life live off he drama of her work enviroment.



Dont have close friends at work either, not even hang out buddies.that never works to be honest.







This independence and not withdrawl from social norms by any chance, be cordial and profesional..Smile like you are selling Bars of Gold with you charming manners.







but stay away.







one friend said to me "dont stick you r ink on companys ink"



I had one recent dream that I was back in NYC and at rockefeller center and a mulatto woman who is on one of thouse shows an egyptian, she smiled and appraoched me and said



"you have a bad reputation mr sandros,its going to follow you..someon will betray you...or is it youve now been betrayed and you dont know it" and she walked away.







It made me think what GAME Im running on. and the drawbacks of learning PUA or trying to have ALOT OF WOMEN in your Life.



I recommend manual of seduction and the section of single guy or playboy by Franco.







As Jeffy Jaliax said once "I dont mess with stuff at work bro".



Its really not worth it.







If you dont have a career or want to go for the ride then DO IT if you want.







If you are high status male , who earns good living or with good career then FOLLOW THIS RULE while being single independent man.







There tons of examples that I will not provide links to of girls who hook up with their bosses or guys who had love affairs and came down to ruins cause they mixed their professional career at stake for pussy.







I understand that if you ask an average PUA, they wont have answers for you or guide you for a lifestyle THAT YOU WANT.







I have my own personal experiences which I will not disclose but I can tell you that is bettter to calibrate your time to your own better self esteem at work/school and then play time you run TIGHTEST game and use that energy into working out or being more ballsy when you are in social scenarios bars clubs lounges where girls are there to meet up and that behaviour is acceptable.







Caveman doesnt work, closing doesnt work, all thouse things erase from your mind. and meditate what you want in life.







Risks are meant for gain or at war....dont risk you job or career or even your background with police over a woman.







RELAX and DONT FALL INTO THE FAKE IOIs of DOOM.







this lesson will help you in your self dicipline in your life and when to act so accordingly.







If you have a Lifestyle you wouldnt even flinch of being interested in "gaming " a woman or girl at work.



So build your lifestyle and work on yourself







Id treat these girls if they give you IOI at work/uni/ school



and say to yourself like Franco would say "very nice....the cocktease is nice..anyways " and you smile and look away.







This is THE BEST advice on PUA picking up women at work is to NOT DO SO.

Losing weight..planing online game strategy..and reviewing sticking points from last week.Fuckbuddy is messing with my state

Im losing weight and pushing myself and thinking theres no fear and just following and trusting my intuition and self dependdeance has given me growth, personal inner game growth,its like florishing

I remember and do stuff I learned that worked and feel confident doing it...wow

Rusellbrand, he is my hero i will model him more cause he combines sexual energy and attraction from his verbal  aka active attraction with his charisma and vibe...he isnt handsome or goodlooking but his image and the way he makes women feel around him with his BT spiking up and down and comfort then up and down and comfort its like his biolar gives him momentum plus he genuinely gives off a cool guy vibe by not being serious,....THATS THE TYPE OF GUY YOU HAVE TO PROJECT WITH WOMEN !!!!

I reviewed sticking point from last week and reviewd few things about myself and my self esteem
Dr  RObert anthony self esteem book audiobook when it concludes is fascinating and its like shaping the way you are supposed to feel about yourself....I will post more on his thoughts mainly for me to review daily from now on but combine this with deepak chopras detachment and with PUA material deailing with emotions good emotions..and investment..and you have natural game.

Im dressing well on purpose before I go out. I treat myself good to build good emotional momentum on myself
60 years of challenge has great stuff on opening yourself..ITS THE BEST MATERIAL ON APPROACHING AND INNER GAME SOCIAL ANXIETY

I combined this with Naural Tim's RSD inner game notes to model his thought process and net theory the fuck of what Im looking for in Life FOR ME.

so this falls clearly congruent with my chart and feeling this way clearly amde a difference amoung the people around me these past days..CLEAR DIFFERENCE YOUR STATE PREDICTS YOURS RESULTS

Badboy is another guy to follow he has great stuff on emotions but he probablyhas tricks that he doesnt share.

AS I MENTIONED BEFORE IM LOOKING FOR LTR

I will evaluate what works online and some side projects Im doing. I realized that my fuck buddy when she came back I came 2 time straight and she came over 4. I fucked her so good her pussy was sore and burning..but her negative self image vibe and her social anxiety messes with my state..
So Im following FRanco's RULE for FuckBuddies and harem managment.while being emotionally detached.
this is something RAW that I elarned from bradokcs  alpha male series with MrM and accidentally  listening to Dr robert anthonys audiobook which applies to you as  a HIGH SELF ESTEEM PERSON all around and not just GAME.

Im off to run errands GYM, Daygame and some structure stuff...