"Dont wish it was easier, wish you were BETTER"..-Jim Rohn
Thursday, July 10, 2014
Swinggcats beliefs section of his program is BEST reference
When I encounter abit of insecurity cause Im human, or too sensitive to others peoples a pproval or vunerable...
this puts me back in saddle of getting up and keep moving forward.
consistency and persistency -50 cent
I had a HB 9 deal with really hot...really hot.. I came through that and other shit whch blocks your creativity negative low down emotions and you need to reframe and habit of reframing to your purpose and move forward.
this consistant action leads to success in many areas of life.
dont be an asshole to other guys, its unecesary.
its their issue if they want to live their life stuck to mediocrety.
BE cool..relax and enjoy Life
Wednesday, July 9, 2014
Whats your lifestyle like ? what makes you a better person everyday in your life..?
I have succeeded imposible scenarious mostly for being not reactive but silent , thinking, and taking a positive action towards my goal.
I dont use negative with negative only losers do that shit.they have time and energy for that. I recently schooled a "persuasion" "expert" the guy is such a lame dude he tried to use NLP like a nerd text book student.. while I ramd' him without any effort.
SEriously, what makes you a better person,as you wake up in morning.
do you challenge yourself?
I like to meditate and be in silence and solice at times..
when Im like that I feel at peace and clairty I dont need to chant or "hyponotise" myself silly.
but mentally aware that I AM CEO of my company..my LIFE is MY COMPANY
MY MOVIE.
people die after workign many years..they then try to enjoy life old..who the fuck wants you when you are old? If I do myself and take the effort everyday to be proactive in my life...(while not on vacation or a break from mental burnout..thats different BTW)
you perform better and improve quicker , your focus is sharp
your recticular activating system prepares you for your day.
you become unstoppable and efficient.
use that to make yourself a better person.everyday..be creative in what you can do ..
CHeers!
DRD sex without a condom?...why not to do it eventhough you are a player
well to me it is.
I remember a guy mentioned a creepy comment to a dating coach in 2008 about AIDS..
creeped the fuck out and messed with his head for a few seconds..
Im involved with healthcare as you read the disclaimer
I started using condoms on a regular..
I had one night stands where I didnt..just pulled out.
but alot of girls have shit
one was nice to tell me she had hi five and another herpes..
this before isolation..
thats why rapport and nonjudgemental frame by Sinn and captain Jack..Doc Holiday version of it ..at this point its natural to introduce at right time notion of trust and cool vibe where girl opens to tell you upfront.
I had issues w my ex GF cause she acused my giving her shit and when I got checked at doctor i was clear..I didnt make much of it cause at this point I dont give a shit and my own peace of mind is important.
magaluf girl sucked my dick? I would
Shit Ive fucked many girls without a condom.. lol .I know it isnt funny
Just be aware from now on *this is for myself btw* IF YOU CAN IMAGINE being stuck with a sting as it takes one mistake, one drip with a girl to drastically change your LIFE around.*
inform yourself, be responsible and yet have fun and BE AWARE...Thank you
New beginning for me and being selective
I was away doing my own thing which requiered alot of mental concentration and so Im taking a break.
I made new changes and dropped 3 girls that I was talking to and sleeping with.
I still see one that is like she does what I say and control sex when I want to.
other is FB I just came back from fucking her..I trained myself not to be jealous cause people fuck people like it or not..
the other is one that provides when I see her and my voice and company ,,and I make her yearn for it cause Im a prince.
the other 3 including my EX GF she was pushy and getting angry.I droped her from rotation
other one is too low self esteem and fucked her same day same night. and her low self esteem and dealing with her taught me alot that it isnt your game but a womans head.. she was too heavy in terms of negativity even though pussy was good. i had to drop her without notice..
yes I drop without notice.
the other one was hooked hard core...to a point of me eliciting her missing me and wanting to be with me and I just didnt have patience to hang with her and play courtship..I got too bored too fast and I nextd her.
other 2 girls unofficial
other one i used to fuck I textd her but she wants a guy to court her too..whatever..and she complains Im a horn dog..
bitch sucked my dick and fucked her many times...she dont appreciate me then fuck her....lol..
then this other one who has sisters fucking and sucking her "friends" wants me to hang out and court her take her to movies and dinner.. not worth my time.. and told her one month from now as my scheduled is booked..lol
I wasnt like this..
really...it wasnt long ago where I roamed the streets of NYC frustrated trying to same night lay or "hook a set"..I didnt get it...and wasnt detached emotionally..
Im glad I went through all that cause shit.I now plan to take this to another level in my life.
ANYWAYS !!!
I feel I need to move on and at this level of my life is I cant be a fuckin wimp who settles for a girl.
Im at a point where Im chosy and wnat high quality women..
one night stands and hooking up is easier once you are real with yourself and bullshit see through women..
you can "behaviour manage" to a point of her seeing and feeling you are confident.
not all women will react same.
fuck it who cares.
if she is hot I will chameleon my game. miror, joke,disinterested engaged..laugh..okay..cool. :)
I at times have experimented wasting time and yes you fuck her but after you cum you are like OK?
I fucked some girls and some try to manipulate you for being aprovider and shit and its up to you to given in or not.
I dont like to lead women on and I dont verbally say it either..
I wish more guys could reach this mindset and be confident and be creative to do with their life...
you have that on yourself , women are like fun..whether she says fuck off or some shit..you can laugh it off.
Magaluf and PUA
in summary go read it.
http://aaronsleazy.blogspot.com/2014/07/what-you-can-learn-from-fact-that.html
for me, its just girl having fun shes young and experimenting her sexuality..
its example how "programed society" judges her hard...
I didnt expect this from europe or spain , since I have a sense guys are more direct no Pua bs..
sex is common shite without talk talk talk..
its a night club and tell me how many girls have fucked and given BJs on dancefloors? nyc its common but this??
I agree with Sleazy.. shit I should plan to go to Magaluf next year..
you will see me for sure.
and yes wear a condom.. if it was me Id jerk off quickly and when she came Id cum in her mouth..lol
I think Magaluf is cool girl without BS or asking money...is she was asking money and prostituting then thats different and thats a NO No!
Thursday, May 22, 2014
Update back in the game..neediness and calibration.. 2solid dates this week.
tonight is Wednesday I have one girl which I started texting last night and tonight when in too deep reported comfort as mark manson with the say. I am a true believer of mark. On attractions active and half passive it's balance in between them exhibits calibration. On rejections you get a sense of neediness and even despearation as my female friend Monique says its a void that you feel but it's actually a void that you want and you can only get spiritual and not necessarily from a woman. Its true... So what I did is I actually fast for a whole day I'm not really sure the background of fasting but its pretty much it's you and survival mode and clears your mind to focus on what it is important for you. I meant really did it because I felt that I needed to clear my mind and needed a little bit of putting myself back into the diet which I'm doing so it actually worked in my favor because all the sudden things started becoming clear and I said he thinking and survival morning thinking about myself first or having a passion and what really matters to me Stephen Nash talks a lot about this and not a lot of people get it because they think it is very super ficial are abstract but when you really really put this into practice it's a very powerful because it actually build your character your identity in life. What I am so good after a fast is I and when you're needing to stay like franco says you never text to go out don't communicate with anyone woman. A clear mind really sets I really calm tone in your life and say OK now I'm back and really sets you be really nice calibration. Of course have you done it before this is like not going to the gym and then you're going to the gym again and kind of mentally prepare yourself there for so you can do is take things to get you where you need to be. Make Molly said once the will must be stronger than the skinny think fasting and meditating a really really do step your calibration. I was somewhat depressed on Tuesday and down and today I have to the three girls that I'm talking to you right now one of them is going to meet him tomorrow and the other one is pretty much whenever I feel like it. I have 3 in one site and 2 on other.I'm balancing rapport first humour then push pull or releases..this I learned from sinn Jon Lee..excellent excellent... Breakthrough comfort which future teaches..I basically in past ad swingcatts prizing once my Intuition knows its solid rapport w consistency and commitment. I'm a student of theory of pimp game and so I once establish trust rapport genuinely... I establish my role as an authority figure in her life. For some its natural and for some its a way demonstrate express masculinity. That Never changes...... I cool thing is to fuck a girl and then text all of the prospects...you always have go be hungry for the hunt of new prospects...with calibration from fasting ..and your persuasive verbal skill..you can seduce without being harsh...if you Dont fuck and your mind is cluttered w problem..then you come off weird needy lonely desperate and worse clueless.I read about an author guru on self help which he fasts once a week. Think this balances life ambitions and survival with good emotional self control... Its taken me longer to recover calibration...but 2 days of plain hi openers or immediately opening after she notices you leads to extreme fast solid attraction cause you are congruent in her way of her wanting you yet you opening her desires creating that fantasy for her a reality. Her imagination will take her. And game new ones...I use NLP 10% in my text and in person to reinforce her attraction interest into me...once you for that you can always bait her.
Sunday, May 18, 2014
Back in the game
Lately I've been getting bored with the girls I am currently seeing on Friday at side girl that I randomly met her name is Vanessa and in the middle of those of us having protected sex I feel like eating her out it's a risky move that not a lot of players talk about but s*** she was fine and I went for it next thing you know she starts talking how dangerous it is to have sex with different partners her and she mentioned it seeing as quote unquote be careful out there it's dangerous. And she also told me within the context give me a call whenever you want to hook up again hit. Of course I acted nonchalant leave because that's the way we were supposed to be really sex is not a big deal and when we praise your woman we do providing excitement to her and we will share the excitement but because there was something of non long term and she at the time seemed emotionally distant that it gave me the clear and present that this was going to be a very short term relationship or friends with benefits but it takes her two days later and I did not get a response from her so so I really don't like to pursue that much when the girls are not responding even though she told me what she did whatever it was that gender of our that she emotionally is it going through her in her head because I really did get the kids phonics that sometimes f**** with girls heads and as I mentioned in my previous post that it was really much more the excitement of the process and seduction and women men or female male dynamic of communication and what David DeAngelo cause anticipation and its really fun experience because you are leading the experience in you create you use your creativity to lead want to go close regardless of whatever she says you still feel that you are done with your dominant you're leading with a very sick with from this but the inverse soft velvet glove I think he was rushed Jefferson mention your glove still hand with the self a glove so that's pretty much what motivated me to get back in the game I was not able to login previously on online sites with my existing email address so I had to open another account therefore open on the POS OkCupid and even cooler life . I briefly spoke to Black Dragon two just to get a little bit of receipt back on a spectacular meal is she which can be connected to the online thing but not necessarily. Henri de land me to really get my ass back to work and the game is sad I realize that I was moaning and groaning and complaining about how I'm bored out of my current registration and CC just sing to myself moan and groan and complain when that's not really the type of person I am but in healthy so the way I decided to take action immediately I think is Brian Tracy who mentioned procrastination is destroyed by precise is decisive and proactive in action I think one of the Buddhists or someone and then I've been reading or thats been in my head for a while is that when you meditate on this with a clear conscious you find the answers within yourself sometimes once you're prepared for the knowledge base then you you start applying it yourself in your own way meaning you become your own couch your own motivator because there is really no other way to make it all the way I think many successful people like Donald Trump and many others even 50 Cent Curtis Jackson had to have a self motivation and have in their mind a little voice telling them to move forward or with Donald Trump cause a good and staying out and someone like Tony Robbins says reprogram your mind for that voice to give you a positive action and not the negative. Another thing is I think it was Donald Trump book how to get rich is really more of how to be successful rich person I think the title in some ways it is to have people who'll want to get rich quick I have an idea of formula 1 indeed the formula is being a person who can send be 500 those principles of knowledge and experience be able to take action in their own whether its financial or some sort of self protecting their wealth. Well the more and more I see things like this it's very into related with someone wanting to be successful in seduction. I really think that life principles have to do with motivating yourself to a point where you can really take the size of actions and being aware of it something that I feel that I was and why am I am back in the game like this title says is that I became complacent and lazy but in a sense of where I have a lot of things going on for me and that is OK a lot of responsibilities and that is okay but I am also responsible for my own happiness . I also think having this background seduction is knowing when to strike when the opportunity to apeers in front of you without desperation. Today I went to eat and there where is the two sets of two girls one was older seems that she recently got divorced late 40's and 50's the other to not speak English she was Mexican w cute ass she seems pretty.they played pool with one guy and this guy was from out of town in a hotel room and said he had a friend and Sunday made a time range for tomorrow to play pool in the evening and Ashley to get from but from what I noticed was that the woman was leading the seduction men wasn't really the man the game finish of pool and they both look fabulous left I just said goodbye to me and I did not get the number but I figured that it wasn't going to go anywhere anyways this is where at times when you're so and there's a $0.02 train trying to cause an end times you try to stuff like Mystery Method her indirectly but at that time I wasnt invested enough into putting my energy. I think I learned this from Johnson when he really said that 20 minutes at to know where is he the first couple more minutes of conversation at VCU that the this isn't going anywhere then you check to see if you really don't wanna put the average into something that you have to put a lot of work into its really not have one doing the work and the other one not doing anything it's about both people doing stuff to make the suggestion for the older women date open me and we didn't open up a conversation but my interest was not in the older woman was more on the younger one younger one seems very hot and very horny and I did use interact but there was no chance for me to be able to isolate her sincerely it was just one of those things where you don't really have a specific technique I really have to try to hard to get somebody's attention and really has to do with value value socially and value in the mist of who's trying harder and I was trying last this is very true in the world where you don't value what we don't work hard enough for and we take stuff that's for free for granted that being said hi it's very important thateven though things may not go your way but that you're okay with it and that's the most important thing is that you control yourself you control your emotions you're not there to be Mr Superman miss your super player and going with some pic of mind and then get her off her feet and go take home and f*** if that was the case then and it was consistent then so be it but unfortunately its not the way it works I remember when I went countless nights and mornings out every night in New York City trying to do the same that way just because I took a shame that needs course with them and talk about sexual frames didn't mean to have to go out every night out and push myself to try to take every girl that I met regardless most of the girls and I ended up meeting or actually just being social and sell them wanted to go out on a date others they were into having sex but they had already made up their minds with home then we're going home with so it didn't matter what and when I said or what I did but mostly matters is that I was ok and in the situation myself with myself and my own emotions and only 4 a.m. Regardless it went good or bad and stuff usually goes good thing goes good on the way and I was OK and then make me feel better I didn't you feel good heard anything me so bad hey there when it opens the pendulum swing I'm still okay with myself and I think that's the most important thing knowing that you're going back in the game I have also playing ping you when you're fine with the way the changes to elevate your standards that's the only way you're going to challenge yourself to do not need things and try more things and then this game when you get consistent like this is us we're having our scale which is very true it is she has a momentum and everything to me that at first since I am rusty and I'm starting all over again in some ways I have to be patient with my own skills and I know it will come because I've done it so many times before its like shooting in three pointer Jefferson I'm going to shoot the first couple three pointers to get to make once you're just your body in the rhythm and the way the wrist world of year the restaurant is the ball of your hands and going to the basket and you keep doing it and doing it once you're in that rhythm and its a different story and its a different way of handling things in the sand dictions going good and you hesitate for you make a mistake and that is where I have full when I said yeah okay I made it and now I am going to fix it. The end
Saturday, May 17, 2014
Being driven in being a seducer reality check comparison
"""Miami has made a habit of finding narrow escapes and surviving heart-pumping finishes. Yet the excitement comes from the process, not the actual conclusion. That part of the ride is predetermined """. This is how game is played in real world..not in your head but in real world. This is a very good sports example and knowledge quotes in which an NBA team like Miami is considered the best but its on its way to a process of championship for cheering what they want and they called Chris and process of training physical stress mental stress and preparation this is how have things to prepare for the ultimate competition compared to also boxer briefs repairs itself to find and focus limited time with a woman just had to testosterone really high in order to fight and fate the other opponent but this isn't about this and this is basically on how the mindset of a seducer really needs to be in order to have peace of mind and the realistic expectations of what did this to be a seducer there's going to be a lot of ups and downs and you being able to notice whether or not its you that needs to be changed or the person is you are interacting is incompatible with you and this has been a long the memo in the house and action community itself some guys go to the extreme like mark manson say who cares if you give a s*** and he is Mike mentioned guess clearly some examples on how that same night one group of girls thought he was the cheapest guy and another group of girls thought he was the most attractive guy they have ever met so this in self is a process and then and vans level once you are oh well for you are how are you changing your own life naughty go based but just being yourself in a very superior we off how you've had to progress yourself and being a student of self-help and the same time being superior person in our normal average person and an intellectual what are you thinking and healthy wise psychologically and you need to be sure of yourself first what's your share of yourself first then you can proceed to any type of rigorous training and seduction going now getting rejected going on train line trying to speed dating trying to look start rental angry it would this is only one face burning the mix face would be more of the actual process for the team you're going from are going through this is the same process these athletes are going through but its enjoying that process is going to let me down to the outcome which is sex with a woman and once you become consistent in this process and being with you enjoy it but yeah I can accept this could be good or bad or whatever but seriously it does not mean anything to you only huh very light hearted experience laughter here nobody wins or loses or text him a price here is more of you being neutral but yet knowing the inside you have ha Siri of competitiveness within yourself this is a really good key to be able to can't good with seduction consistently with the menu anyone I haven't done this and it took me three weeks I have 24 hours just this and I've been to a point where is gone consistently the real reason why, Britian sometimes doesn't come back its because you're not consistently doing but once you're done yourself being able to multi-task your other livelihood task and then keeping this up at the same time that enables you to master and many levels which would enable you to have a complete lifestyle and the assertiveness need to be able to confront any issue with and the circumstances even if its going out or the situation there any way that you can control the tempo of your emotions your own emotions going to Temple of the night that's going to go and this is win that theory also helps as is cry by 10 minutes real social dynamics or what cognitive dissonance then having this I sent this you can ultimately learn to adapt to this process of which you will meet girls that are into you and that are not into you. But it is the same process that excites us and its to sleeping with a beautiful woman or women. This is why I'm washing a ling you will not be able to be satisfied emotionally is he paying money to a hot girl for sex you will feel more emotionally enjoyment when you are part of the process going with the other woman and she is also enjoying with the processed and you head this way and it's become very seductive and this is very exciting more than the actual condition which is me into the sex because sex is basically you a rose in her to a point where she cannot say no and you give me my son desire of sex and enjoying her for who she is enjoying her as a woman and taking care of the one who she really wants me to take even the girl who I am seeing now or what are the girl that I am with him now she of the Revelator she seen many guys but I always notice that it is more about the process then going to going to have to see her I can call to have sex but for me it's not about that it's more about meeting other women and enjoying that process it makes me more emotionally satisfying that if I am up there it's exciting I'm going to bed another chick but at the same time what's exciting just the seduction process is very addictive an exciting and the conclusion is why you are reading this.
Psychology and emotions she needs to make herself want to fall in love first before you can conquer
I was reading an interesting article on line psychology and I also was watching a commentary by June Barrymore on Turner Classic Movies channel on a movie called the haunting filmed in 1955 I believe. She said something then strike me very interesting. Which is very true in masculine n in ways of seduction and expression of sexual intent" this movie is an example of no special effects and needed in order to scare the audience for the movie watcher this movies scares the audience what this film does compared to the new films of today a new movies off today were they have a lot of optical action Corey and is that the movie makes the audience get scared first in order to scare so they are in space we are already scared Nissan watching the movie now because of the visuals much more of the type of psychological the film is portrayed." well how does this relate to what we want to achieve basically it has to do with emotions itself but is how we don't have to really be gruesome or really be verbally descriptive is in the sexually-explicit way but to be very subtle and in order to elicit the motions that we want I'm like teasing way of very little by little something mark told me in the past was always make her wanted more always make her wanted more like you're not really that much wanting it but you wanna make sure when you do that that she is already on the level where she's already aroused you're feeling emotional investment with she's horny or what is she already put her hard and it doesn't motional decision to do so I'm basically is to elicit certain ways to treat yourself and Mary motions and um so that way now I'm shakin be in the state of mind mostly where she knows that she wants to what she wants to be in order to sleep with you when she reached that point is basically you not take care of her of that I am motion and going straight to closing escalation. The whole concept of the movie scares the audience will not be in Korea gruesome is Mr V phantom the movie has certain scenes to scare a surprise and so it always keeps the audience very intrigued and unexpected ways but its not the actual visual but it's the way it goes around instead of being gory and is more scary we need to me not gory sexual but we need to be more of an enticement of sexuality. Maybe but my best seductions has always been out like a movie a movie then I am creating and I'm the main character and I'm providing her apart and my movie like we're being filmed like all of this is falling into place how it's supposed to be but the PUA part or seduction artist seducer has to be the person that has to lead to where you want indirectly.
Sunday, May 4, 2014
financial planning strategy in everything in life..part of empowerment
Wednesday, April 23, 2014
Social proof is name of the game...
I am a huge fan of gene simmons the businessman and father and unmarried husband.
his point of view of un-married is amazing and I believe in it.
anyways, I have truly have aside of adam and others who talk this social proof thing.
I do it unconcioulsy and when I talk to a woman her objections or any bullshit I can use as if she is talking some absurdity which society can make her look foolish...this makes her see and react to you like you are source of validation itself..
for that you have to have look. confidence, the way you talk fluent deep smooth not nervous and engaging..well put seem like its natural charm effortless.
certain things with social proof you can use with women, wearing something cool, having a picture with someone celebrity, or status. the way you carry yourself respecting yourself and your taste and pickyness.
this is something im in midst of mastery on my own.
Gene is still the King and please check out his book Sex money and kiss...great read and helped me reshape my own image into my new career business..Im more of gene simmons fan and family jewelz fan than kiss fanatic. eventhough Lick it up is great song.
Being powerful person is being powerful upon yourself to be proactive and self disciplined FIRST...and then LEAD women.
If you manage your time to game or seduce women and you empower this skill of dedicating to your task primarily, then you can give that non needy distance woman can then be a maturnal nurture person she biologically is...always assure that it isnt insecure but reasure that it satisfies your masculine and you like it.
that way she is open to be a natural woman...
not to mention the natural woman pattern works within comfort/rapport when she is attention in isolation.stabilazes you as a man and woman relationship.
its a suave way to demonstrate using this tecnique, franco calls it "female talk".
If you are not familiar with Franco seduction , then check it out. Its real deal in terms of seducing women on your TERMS....no heartbreak , no self destructiveness, definately something that has Changed my Life...
check out the manual of seduction.
Ive read and studied and even gone out with few pua's...naturals..etc...
Franco seems to be most consistent and empowering point of view in seduction and having a sexual lifestyle without showing off.
I consider myself his student and up to this day, still best material.
I dont do pua routines but I might do then unconciously or lead...
my other posts and LRs can help you integrate routines into natural pickup start to end.
Sunday, April 6, 2014
HOW to predict how to game efficiently your results when to nightgame Cold approach or online dating.-answer to this SECRET
After many years of doing this and learning thourhg experiences and being soo better at it I have become very aware and picky and want to upgrade.. as a guy once we get a job we want new things a car or TV or clothes or cologne..etc etc.. once we get our "check" we at times think unconciously
"I need to get a haircut."
this example is perfect cause more you grow your potential in life success and dating..then you will want to upgrade naturally.
I am experienceing this at the moment and due to soo many exposure to many people and situations and what I want in my life and importantly WHO I VALUE MYSELF AS A GOOD SELF VALIDATED SELF DEPENDANT person, meaning I decide if I am going to pay $25 for a steak at a lousy restaurant or cook at home or enjoy a GOOD meal well worth price....
you need to experience this first to "GET IT" that being said.
where I am there are alot of women online ..and out and about.. there are women who wont look at you online but will check you out when you are out and vice versa.
If you a re looking for a quick one night fast sex exicting and you have time, then my recommendation is to go out ! dont "sarge" or be a weirdo or too logical but know where you are going and what time ... know that late night some places there is chance to take home a random girl..
Online websites like POFs OKculprits there are alot of fat girls and more you have to invest time to send messages and pursue.. personally I dont have time to invest in fat girls.
there are other sites for "higher quality women" which I am interested in mainly cause I want to be aligned and congruent who I am and who I identify myself with being high status male by Franco.
so Online may be good practice and you can message thouse free sites around 1am and you might get a response from a girl. due to my busy schedule and financial planning i dont have time to waste in dates and coffee..only If theres is chemistry I will shit test her how she responds. then I will decide.
thouse days of experimenting without results are far gone where guys have to chase a woman whether its in seattle or portland or miami or new york.
If you are a guy making six figures. you by all means create a lifestyle where you want to do what you want.. but if you are starting and still in school and want to improve your dating skills, then by all means take advantage of online dating from facebook to other apps many young girls locally have on their phone and sign up..most are free and improve your communication skills and learn after every interaction to EXPERIENCE CONSISTENCY AND PERSISTANCE to develop intuition... this is like baseball you bat and bat in cage and when time comes to hit the ball when they throw a pitch you have enough warm-up and experience to knock it off the park for a HOME RUN.
like one site mentioned about online dating , women when lonely they will look online... but its least effort for them and boost of sexual validation and fake confidence in her..
THE MORE SHE INVESTS INTO MEETING A GUY BEING COLD APPROACH AT BAR LOUNGE , IN PERSON ,NIGHT GAME or whatever you want to call it...THE MORE CHANCE INCREASES FOR YOU TO INVEST LESS ENERGY VS ONLINE.
IF SHE IS ONLINE AND LIVES BUSY LIFE YET IT HAS A GENUINE FEEL..THEN ONLINE CAN RESULT SUPERBLY WELL.
there are sites and you can zooxsk messages or tinderize that is ok but its range is 25yr younger range... meaning party girl attraction fun fun fun...and it is doable...
NOTE: I have done online to meetup same day lead to sex in 1hr
it and it confuses the girl cause you are giving her an unexpected experience plays with her head which leads to drinking and end of the night sex..but you can double book if she flakes... credit Paul Janka*
is it consistent? maybe if you screen many girls...but it won't hit everytime..if you dont have time and do what works surely then you can play both ways.
SUMMARY
: 1- Nightgame COLD APPROACH - go for all girls you like and are interested in you, don't go for number close if she isnt investing and you dont feel chemistry from her then move on quickly. theres always use for pua aura like SNLs captain jack used to teach...when things dont go your way on one girl that night it will help for the next one looking at you at the bar..when you hit a point where is one then take her number. i usually stick and dont leave until I leave with her and usually pretty solid and obvious.
2-Online: you can join in to send as many messages to girls but dont waste your time too much messaging one girl cause that is typical girl that is there for attention.. dont take this personal on yourself its her mental issue of deserveness or lack of maturity in adult relationship dynamics...she will give you shite now she will give you LMR,
if you looking for GF material then most free sites arent that good, depends on your location check first...
but most where I am are fat and have tattoos are very bitchy and have 4 kids before they are 28yrs old and probably with drd. If you are going to hit online then select and market yourself selectively to who you want to buy you.. :)
-Carlo