Showing posts with label Social Circle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Social Circle. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

MODELING KENI STYLES behaviour subcommunications

This is a guy who I want to model cause I admire his personality and positivty. He handles shit tests and the way he opens himself and how he REFRAMES.
THIS IS A POWERFUL LESSON, reframing to your reality or ignore as CJ would say.
i learned from Jeffy and MARK when shit test in rapport is genuine than shit test in attraction which are handled differently.

I read this and I want to learn from him...the vids he goes with regina Moon are proceless cause he is cool natural dude...no PU no try hard for rapport and his subcommunications are tight.

he complements from place of being spiking BT of making people feel good about themselves...similar to the natural Ali and ADAM LYONS:
read this ...this year Im getting in shape and modeling this guy dealing with women and social circles


People need to stop bragging and boasting about performing in such a putrid business and go out there and get a real job.
brokentwice78







@brokentwice78
Haha! Yeah I know right! It's disgusting that people get paid to do what they fucking love and is so natural and easy.. I mean, why the hell do they think they should have such an easy life!!? Man.. it's disgusting! I mean.. wow sex.. who likes that? LMFAAAAO!! :D

Kenistyles



now this is what i am talkin about! People want to see this, not u hanging around with some white dude.


NOTE: Review Reframing by David Barron persuasion course ,
Modeling by Tom venuto...copy paste from twitter account.


twitter GOODS:

KeniStyles



NOTE: KENI HAD HIS EYES CHECKED TODAY AND PEOPLE ARE TWITTERING HIM ABOUT IT.
HE ALSO IS GETTING READY FOR AVN AWARDS

Thanks fam u rock! I already feel better.

@HeadlessMunky Oh yeah, thank u babe for reminding me how happy I was to see things clearly, 6yrs I needed them! I wish they were ready now!
33 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to headlessmunky

.@BluntBrosProd @DaveHellion @DitchPlans @themajormusic @misterchuck719 @NiCo4z3 @Rogue_12 @Gomezinsj @RRgeo Thanks for ur nice tweets peeps!
37 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to DitchPlans

.@KeiranLee Yeah man I remember them commercials bro, fucking stupid here went for a Prada pair too but even in them I don't feel right? Meh!
41 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to KeiranLee

.@MarcoRiveraxxx Yeah and u just went from friend to cunt in one single tweet! Still not laughing..

43 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to MarcoRiveraxxx

.Alright fuck it.. deleted that tweet! I dunno bout them on me yet? Feel like a proper dork! :/
about 1 hour ago via Echofon .


Um peeps thank u all but I didn't have Lasik or any surgery. I just had my eyes tested & retina's scanned, I've been putting it off forever!
about 1 hour ago via Echofon .


@PAYASO_XXX @KaymeKai @MsHendiSun @KenBT @Uconn83 @OKkitten @Ottoshi @Gomezinsj

Thanks peeps, hopefully my eyes dilate back to normal soon!?
about 4 hours ago via Echofon in reply to ottoshi


.@DPiercexxx Pssh!! Alright smart ass, yeah I'm getting my googly Asian slants straightened out LOL!

Go do some cardio and leave me alone! :D
about 4 hours ago via Echofon in reply to dpiercexxx

.Ugh! Ok.. so now $600 later, all I got is blurry eyes and some fucking flimsy Lady Gaga's!! (he meant shades)

about 4 hours ago via Echofon .

And now I'm feeling very proud of myself that after 6 years of denial.. I'm getting my eye sight fixed up! Finally admitting defeat is HARD!
about 5 hours ago via Echofon .POW! Been gettin tons of errands done today! Also got my AVN suit bought, fitted & altered. Almost set for some major partying this weekend!
about 5 hours ago via Echofon .

@LupeFuentesxxx Hope ur feelin much better today babe? Lots of water & lots of fruit ok? Let me know what's up with guest lists this w/e! Xo
about 13 hours ago via Echofon in reply to lupefuentesxxx




.@KatieKox Yeah and u looked damn good with it too, the truth is u always look gorgeous! I'll see u & Mr @RickBarcode at the weekend babe! :D

about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to katiekox

.@Laren Hope u slept well last night?

@LeeEroticArts U gotta be tripping, I ain't time?

@Gomezinsj Haha hate on man, I probably would too! :D

about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to LeeEroticArts

.@MizzKissyFace Nah I don't listen to gossip, if its true or it ain't I can't waste time watchin that bullshit. Peeps can run they own lives!

about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to MizzKissyFace

.Haha no sweat it's good of u to introduce me to ur peeps bro! Hope ur readers enjoy! :D RT @MOCBlogger Meet Keni Styles http://bit.ly/gVqdRC
about 16 hours ago via Echofon .Rise n grind muhfuggahs!! GRRR!! :D #NowPlaying Over here hustlin' -Birdman & Lil Wayne
about 16 hours ago via Echofon

Thursday, October 7, 2010

meeting different types of girls in a fashion show

I just came back from a fashion show alot of celebrities and models.
small crowd, it was invite only.
In Miami btw.

It was my first, I was dressed well and got some girls to check me out.
I enjoyed myself there and learned how easy it can be to get laid off there.
Ofcourse there were guys who didnt belong there and subcommunication gave that off easily.

i saw several non models who came to after party and looked around the room screening the room and trying to catch eye contact.
I guess she felt alone and was looking for a good time.
other girls where there to hang aaround celebrity and try to get laid or at least get laid.

I had a great time and noticed some things that can help me from the experience and networking.

I will try to write a FR with some notes for my blog but will try to post them here.
some guys in pua call it social circle game, but I think for this particular type of events its the perceived value rather than the most well dressed man in the room or the best looking man...well depends if you are celebrity.lol.

Girls are easy to talk with and no need to go direct unless you decided to stay in set with that particular one and try to go for a SNL.

some dating coaches cant advise or coach these type of scenarios.
fashion show? models? i mean real models? Celebritys.Real celebrities ? yes the guys you see on TV? try to see yourself there wthout acting like a touristy fan asking for picture autograph..lol.
i have alot on my mind and very hungry but will try to post it here if you'd like. Im definately writting this up for my blog.

Monday, June 14, 2010

Mailbag! (3/20/09)

It’s the end of the week, and most of us should be heading out. This is actually the first Friday night I’ve had free in about a month, so I’m not sure what I’m going to do. But time to do another mail bag.

I’ve been getting some great questions. So keep them coming. Send them to: entropy@practicalpickup.com.

Do you think that in dealing with sexual anxiety that finding a good therapist to work with is the best method?

- Dan

Lots of talk of therapy going around lately. I’ll say this: therapy helped MY sexual anxiety and inner game in general more than about anything else. Now granted, I had a SHIT TON of baggage (previous relationship, parent issues, messed up adolescence, etc.) which was the root of my sexual anxiety and most of my inner game issues.

Would I recommend therapy to anybody who’s gotten out of an absolutely atrocious relationship? Yes. Absolutely. Would I recommend therapy to anyone who had a fucked up childhood or has horrible relations with their parents. YES! No question.

But don’t take therapy as a cure-all for inner game issues. There’s a lot of stuff that it won’t fix.

And I have to say this again, because it’s crucial. THERAPY WILL NOT WORK IF YOU DO NOT TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR CHANGING YOURSELF. I think most people tend to show up to therapy, plop down on the couch and expect the shrink to fix them. No, you are fixing yourself and the shrink is there to facilitate it.


I’ve been meeting new girls constantly from college. I don’t want to be a PUA. I just want to be, like you say, a normal guy. But a socially successful normal guy. A guy that has fun wherever, whenever. Dating science has been helping me tons with it. Is it worth it spending all that money going out and all that time spent? What if I already know what I want?

- Rodrigo

If you already know what you want, then just focus on that. Don’t focus on what ebooks, DVD courses and forums tell you to be. Focus on what YOU want to be. It sounds like you have a pretty solid lifestyle already. Use PUA to supplement it, not replace it.

You’re a guy I would tell not to pay for coaching. Read stuff. Get some advice. Try it out in your regular social life. That should suit your needs.

Could you touch on building attraction in bars / clubs / book stores in a future post? This area is a bit of a mystery to me, and I’m curious how you go about generating attraction prior to moving to comfort game.

- TR

I give the girl my patented “blue steel.” We make out within 30 seconds. Then if I decide I like her, we fuck in the bathroom. If she’s good in the bathroom, then I go into comfort game. If she’s cool and we fall in love before last call (2AM in Boston), then I’ll take her phone number. If not, I open another set.

Seriously though, what you just asked is the subject of like 5,000 pages and 60 hours of seminar. But how do I build attraction? Teasing and banter mostly.

Hey Entropy I know BradP learned a lot from naturals but what exactly do your naturals do differently than a mpua or is it something intangible that they have? I know a couple naturals in my school but I don’t necessarily think they are naturals they are just good looking guys is that the case here?

- Anonymous

Absolutely not. The word “natural” is one of the most misconstrued terms in the PUA community. That’s why I tend to call these two guys “supernaturals.” You have to have 300+ lays and have fucked a model from a major magazine to qualify as a supernatural. These guys both have (Maxim and Vogue-Italy respectively).

But to answer your question, “do they do things that mPUA’s don’t?” Yes and no. I would say they do FEWER things, because they only do what works and nothing else, although they’re not aware of it. Are the things they do similar to mPUA’s? Yeah. They just do them a lot better, so they don’t have to do as MUCH stuff.

I heard faking body language can be IMPOSSIBLE due to micro movements, lightining fast eyebrow raises, pupil dilation, etc…

What do you think?

- Love Potion

Interesting question. On a conscious level, yes, it’s totally fake-able. But those micro movements are only noticed sub-consciously — i.e., it’s those micro movements that tell us a “vibe” a person has. So you can be doing the right body language overtly, but your “vibe” will be off, and you’ll seem incongruent.

This is fine and a phase pretty much everybody goes through when they start out. The other thing about body language though is that you can actually train your mind by changing your body language. For instance, if you fix your body language, your mind will begin to reflect the postures you create.

So in time, the micro movements will catch up to the conscious movement.

Mailbag: Escalation and Social Circles

It’s Friday, Mailbag day. I’ve been trying to go out and sarge again this last week, although it hasn’t actually happened yet. I haven’t really been out to sarge on my own in a few months. It always amazes me how easy it is to lose the momentum.

I’m also doing a bunch of interviews right now. One is supposed to be for a local news station, but the broad keeps flaking on me (women…).

But anyway, this week’s mailbag deals with more theoretical stuff of why you should escalate, social circle game, and limiting beliefs.

Hey Mark, I’ve been analyzing my game lately and I think that the only thing that I don’t do is pushing the interaction, your famous ABC! I get telephone numbers easily, but I think anyone can do that. I’ve made out few times and when I do it I see the girl again. I’ve never had a SNL or sex in the bathroom. Why is it so hard to see the girl again if you don’t have a physical interaction with her? What does she think that she wants to see you again? What does she think that she doesn’t want to see you again when yo don’t have a physical interaction with her? What’s going on in their minds? Why do I have to have the physical interaction ASAP? What is the problem with dating?

Thanks, Leo.
There’s nothing “Wrong” with dating or taking things slow. The more physical you get with a woman, the more invested they become in the interaction. For instance, if you talk to a woman for two hours one night and get her number she may think three days later, “Oh, he was a nice guy,” but not make any effort to see you again. But if you talk for two hours and passionately make out then she’s much more likely to remember you, be more emotionally invested in you, and backward rationalize reasons why she liked you and wants to see you again.

I recommend guys get physical as soon as possible because it increases their chances of seeing women again, decreases flakes, and gives them more flexibility in establishing expectations for the relationship.

Entropy,
I’m 20, but I feel like I’m 60. I feel like I’ve been wasting my life. Everytime I try and improve my discipline, skills, whatever, a little voice inside me goes “Damn you, John. Why didn’t you do this years ago?” I need to get over my regrets.

Thanks,
John

Yeah, you do. Dude, you’re so young, it’s ridiculous. Just remind yourself every time you think this to go ahead and do now because if you don’t, five years from now you’ll back and say, “Damnit John, why didn’t you do this when you were 20.” This way, you can prevent those thoughts from even occurring in the future.

Hey Entropy, I think you are right on with your Personalizing Pickup ideas. To follow up on the question from anonomous, for us lucky guys who have physical advantages, would you suggest different openers since we are coming in with high value as it is? Direct or indirect, maybe low-investment or compliment openers, or even low value openers like Braddock’s “I’m not sure what to say to you, but I had to meet you. I’m Braddock.”

How about with qualification? Should we avoid the large and harsher hoops like “What do you have going for you other than your looks?” and stick with small/medium hoops? Or should we assume rapport and go straight into comfort after the opener?

Thanks.
F

Yes, the more physical advantages you have, the more going direct will take care of literally all the attraction game you need. Also, much lower investment openers work really well, such as, “Hi, I’m F.” because most of the time when you approach girls figure you approach women a lot and want to be hit on by you.

As for qualifying, you don’t want to be harsh, but definitely get as deep as possible with your hoops to build more comfort. Again, the disadvantage of being good-looking is that women are going to be slower to trust you and think that you say this shit to every girl. You’re much more likely to come off as a “player” and often they have to feel like they earned your affection. This is why the more natural (passive) attraction you have, the less you need to build (active attraction).

Hey Entropy! Sad news Doc is done but I’m actually glad for him. Simple question: how do you handle getting a reputation with being with a lot of women. For a while I felt like my dick was on the black list but recently I have been cleaning up, but certainly girls have heard about me. Any ideas?

Best,
Adam

I wrote about this last year. I call it “Attraction by Osmosis.” It’s an interesting effect once you infiltrate a social circle and start sleeping with the girls in it.

What happens is they naturally become more attracted to you (this is what I called “attraction by osmosis”). But because of their increased attraction for you, they become more skeptical of you and will test your congruence a LOT. I think they also do this for social reasons because they don’t want their other friends to think they’re trying to steal their man or whatever.

But basically these girls will ACT really bitchy towards you, but if you remain unaffected and get one of them alone, usually sleeping with them is very easy.

Disidentifying with my Sex Life

This is another one of those personal posts dealing with the repercussions of living the PUA lifestyle for too long. It’s not glamorous or exciting. It deals with reality and some of the shit I’m struggling with since dedicating the last three years of my life to this pursuit.

I’ve been going out with some of my old college social circles a lot the last few weeks. I’ve been doing it because I’ve felt like I severely lost touch with my old social circles (which used to be wide and prosperous) since I left school and since I started coaching full time.

As you’ve probably noticed from my recent posts about the Post-PUA life, I’ve recognized that a large portion of my identity for the last three years was based on my sexuality and the validation I received from fucking a lot of girls.

I had kind of a disconcerting experience tonight. I hung out with some female friends that I’ve known for a long time. And no matter what we talked about, we seemed to always end up back on topics of my sex life, my sexcapades, and in particalar, the threesomes that I’ve had recently.

This actually started to bug me because these are friends I haven’t hung out to any significant degree in about a year, and I felt like we should talk about something more substantial than the orifices in which I was sticking my cock. But I realized two things. First of all, I had little else to talk about from the last year than my PUA lifestyle (that and my failed attempt in joining the 9-5 work world) and also that my friendships with these girls had ALWAYS largely consisted of me sharing my sexscapades with them. I didn’t realize this until one point when I said, “OK, enough about my sex life, let’s talk about something more interesting.” One of my old friends replied, “But (Entropy), we ALWAYS talk about your sex life.”

I kind of had a realization that this chronic identification and obsession with my sex life, my love life, women and my success with them dates back years and years before I ever was ever conscious of it. This makes sense, as this kind of obsession is what drives us to find the community in the first place.

If there’s a point to this post, I suppose it’s to say to be aware of the identity you’re creating for yourself. I realize now that I’m a successful PUA coach, that my biggest mission is to create a satisfying and exciting lifestyle for myself that DOESN’T revolve 100% around women. I had adopted the identity of the guy who chased ass and hooked up with tons of girls. I thought I had become engulfed with it and began suffering the repercussions of it only recently. But tonight has shown me that it’s been chronic throughout my young adult life for years, that it was only in the last year that I finally noticed it.

So there’s your monthly downer of a post-PUA post. This community and these skills are extremely helpful in your life fellas, but be conscious of what’s driving you to do this stuff. Always remember that life demands balance, and that obsession and dissection of every male/female interaction, no matter how helpful in the short-term, can be unhealthy in the long-term.