In one of my all-time favorite shows, “How I Met Your Mother,” there’s an absolutely hilarious character named Barney Stinson that is obviously based off a pick-up artist. I’m aware that it’s just a TV show, but many of his observations coincide with mine – namely, his hot-crazy graph; basically, the hotter the girl is, the more willing men are to put up with her crazy.
Unfortunately, I’m here to tell you guys that many, many beautiful and hot women come with a prescription for extra-strength CRAZY.
I’ve dated a Playboy cybermodel, pinup model, fashion runway model, strippers and dancers, cocktail waitresses, shot girls, pageant queens and the gamut of hot crazy messes both high and low.
Former ABCs of Attraction Wing-Girl turned Playboy Model: Claire
I’m also friends with many a beautiful porn star, actress, and even one of our former ABCs of Attraction wing-girls is now Playboy’s Miss October! So I think I can safely say that I have a pretty good sample size to base my, admittedly, subjective observations on.
I’m just listing out these characteristics so that you know what to expect once you actually learn how to successfully attract, approach, seduce and date highly beautiful, attractive women.
Not all of them are hot crazy messes so it’s doubtful that the attractive model you’re dating (or hope to date), has all ten of these traits (and woe be unto you if she does), but here are a few habits that I’ve seen time and time again. REMEMBER: You can’t change a person if she doesn’t want to change and you shouldn’t try. So don’t be Captain Save’a'Ho.
10 Signs You’re Dating a Hot Crazy Mess of a Model
She’s Totally Self-Centered: Now I say this neither to be mean nor to indicate that they are bad people, but as I always say, if you can think from a woman’s perspective, you’ll be better off. Now I want you to imagine growing up as a small child and everyone was nice to you. Everyone bought you gifts, everyone did you favors, everyone was considerate towards you. You were never ever the last person to be picked in sports or projects and everyone wanted to be around you. That’s the life of an incredibly beautiful woman. The reason they’re self-centered is because they’re literally the center of the universe to so many people and have no reason to think otherwise. This, combined with Habit #3, also explain why she’s comes off as a complete flake. Not because she’s being mean or cruel about it (although that could also be the case), or using you (although that too could be the case), but stuff happens and something or someone with a bigger and better date came along and swept her away in a fit of spontaneity, alphaness, high value, and dominance.
She’s A Natural Flirt: They’re highly sociable and socialized. I’ve known these girls that will flirt with not only the most handsome male models but with penniless strangers off the street with equal abandon and opportunity. Whether you’re a tall White guy or a short, fobby Asian man, these girls are completely willing to talk about anything to anyone simply because they don’t know any other way to behave. Approach anxiety is a completely foreign concept in their minds, and they don’t even know what it means from the man’s perspective (which also explains why it’s EASIER talking to more attractive women than unattractive women). Everyone in the world is willing to talk to them and they love to talk right back. If you’re dating her, you might mistakenly think she’s hitting on random men (although she may very well be), but you shouldn’t automatically assume so otherwise you’ll come off as insecure.
She’s Always Late: These girls will be late to their own funerals. Part of it, you might assume, is because they’re selfish and self centered (see Habit #1)… and you would not be completely wrong. However, it’s not always like that – she’s constantly late because everywhere she goes, things are happening around and to her on an hourly basis. People are always doing her favors, talking to her, and her phone is blowing up (see Habit #6). She’s constantly being “accosted” and to her it’s an everyday, normal occurrence. The simple act of walking to the grocery store can become an adventure for them as every step they take, someone’s approaching her or an orbiter is calling her on her phone or a Facebook creeper is stalking her profile. That’s how they live their lives and that’s why women thrive on drama – their lives are never boring, but they’re never punctual, either.
She’s A Schemer: One thing I have seen with beautiful girls is that, even though a ridiculous amount of crap happens to them, somehow things come to fruition. I’ve heard the craziest schemes on how to get rich…and then they do become rich (or at least in the temporary possession of money), albeit not by that particular plan. I have also been party to the most well-orchestrated plan that would rival D-Day and the storming of Normandy, all to be dismissed at the vagaries and whims of these gorgeous tacticians. In other words, they’re always doing something that typically involves the assistance of random strangers, orbiters, acquaintances, friends, lovers, and wannabe lovers that, eventually, in a manner similar to “Ocean’s Eleven,” enough things come together to make something work for them. Hell, I’ve been lost in a non-English speaking country where I didn’t speak the language and simply having a beautiful girlfriend on my arm helped me get an amazing police escort to the city and free luxury hotel stay. It’s as if they lived a charmed life.
She’s Completely Disorganized: This doesn’t end at work or play – from their professional to personal lives, everything is one big, jumbled, hot mess. I cannot count the times I’ve driven in an exotic dancer’s nomadic SUVs where they hold their entirety of their lives to the beautiful model couch-surfing at a friend’s house. Not only do these hot girls not have their crap together, they simply can’t get it together. This may have a lot to do with them being used to everything being done for them; they never learned enough practical life skills to be able to keep things in order.
She’s Attached To Her Phone: These hot girls can’t escape the constant explosions they get from people via calls, texts, Facebook, Twitter…it never ends with them! Girls screen their phone calls – it’s no secret – but it’s because if they don’t, they’d be on the phone ALL DAY LONG. It’s not uncommon for them to go to bed and wake up eight hours later with several new friend requests and followers, numerous texts, and dozens of Facebook notifications (at least half of which are random losers hitting on them). It’s imperative to understand that people are constantly contacting her and wanting to be in contact with her. You cannot hope to socially isolate her; not only is it impossible, you’ll just come off as a possessive, controlling, soon-to-be-ex boyfriend. (One tactic I’ve used before is to simply take out the battery on her phone, that way she just thinks her phone died ergo no interruptus coitus)
She’s Either Loved Or Hated: Their beauty and sexuality elicits immediate polarizing reactions in people. Men will obviously become instantly attracted to them, but it also polarizes guys to become either more aggressive and act upon their natural instincts or too terrified to do anything more than stare. Women will also react in a similar fashion; they’ll either try to be incredibly nice and be the drone bee to her queen bee or they will hate her – both behind her back and to her face. One of the most hilarious bed & breakfast weekend getaways I’ve had with a beautiful girl was where every single old lady hated her; we literally could not get a break because all the old people hated her and they weren’t shy about it either!
Facial Expressions and Non-Verbal Communication are more important than Verbal Game
She’s Physically & Facially Expressive: Maybe it’s all the practice they get from making their “O face,” but these beautiful women know how to communicate without words. They understand the power of their smiles, the way they cock their heads and the smolder in their eyes. They can communicate more with their face and body language than any so-called Pick Up Artist with his canned routines and DHVs. Non-verbal game is more important than verbal game and they know how to work both.
She’s Over-Sexualized: For these beautiful girls, there’s more than one kind of sex. Sometimes they have sex because they want the guy, because they’re simply horny and find something to their standards, or because they want to make sure they can still get cock-on-call. Whatever the reason, sex doesn’t always have the same meaning for them. Beautiful women are typically VERY good in bed because they’ve obviously had a lot of practice (obviously there are exceptions which is always very, very disappointing); sex for them does not have to have the high emotional bonding as they might have with someone else. It doesn’t mean she’s cheating on you (although she could be), it just means beautiful women always have the OPTION to have sex with any guy (although that’s not the point for her, she wants to have sex with “the one guy”).
She’s Her Body’s Worst Enemy: Whether it be food, wine or your sperm, crazy beautiful women know how to throw up to keep their weight down. More than half of women in the United States have some sort of body dysmorphia during their lifetime, where they perceive themselves as fat or are fearful of getting fat. Even though you think they’re beautiful, when they look in the mirror, they see imperfections and flaws galore. Taking action by throwing up, insane dieting and exercise plans or ingesting laxatives, their goddess-like bodies come at a very high personal cost.
To be fair, these beautiful train wrecks are simply a product of their upbringing, but they are just that – gorgeous, yet crazy.
Keeping up with her is no easy task, but it can also be one of the most entertaining and hilarious experiences you’ve ever had.
If you have yet to date one of these kinds of women, I highly recommend getting your game together and trying it out, in the very least to be able to say you’ve dated Playboy model material.
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Day game model by Krauser pua
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Day Game Model
Kill Momentum —-> Vibe —-> Invest Her —-> Commit Her —-> Deep Rapport —-> Verbal Escalation —-> Close
Stage One: Kill Momentum
1. Pre-game: A good night sleep, comfortable mid/high status clothes, clear sense of purpose which is: I am going for the same day lay. The only time I won’t go for it is if an insurmountable obstacle arises (time constraints, refused extractions etc)
2. Pre-approach: You must be demonstrating value before the girl even notices you, primarily by having a great time with your wing and keeping each other out of your head. Think of yourself as kids walking to the sweet shop to buy a bag of your favourite sweets. It’s all fun, and you are selecting. As the girl walks past you you’re the most fun on the street, with a playful happy vibe. You should be getting people noticing you and looking.
3. Target Acquisition: Find the girl that makes your blood bubble. If you have to intellectualise that she’s hot, she’s not your girl so don’t bother. You need to feel the pull of DNA-matching. That’s your trigger, start jogging after her.
4. Spontaneous Opener: You can have a set structure of principles in opening but try not to use the same opener twice in one day. As you catch up to her ask yourself why you noticed her. What is it that caught your attention? Find one thing about her that is noticeable and then slot that into your opener:
5. Delivery: Begin with a pre-framed tease such as “Can I give you a compliment?”, “Hi, Can I say something?” or “Ok, How good is your English?” smile, then deliver the opener. Let it hit. If she really hooks let her talk, if she doesn’t move to the:
6. Gentle Tease: This is the push after the pull of the oepner. Make it creative, lighthearted and playful. This is the final piece of early attraction, showing her a slightly hard edge to pique her interest and push her a little into the defensive crouch rather than just handing her 100% validation. Example of 4-6 together:
Hi. I just have to tell you something…. I was just over there, drinking my coffee, when you walked past and my head just turned like this [gesture]. I thought to myself why did I notice her, out of all the girls. Obviously your cute but it wasn’t that. Then I was running over and I realised. You dress weird.”
7. Early Qualification: Pause and look expectantly. She should spontaneously start qualifying and playfully pushing you away (verbally) such as: “No! They’re nice shoes. I bought them in Camden. I like the colour.” Reward with an non-sexual IOI and build on the tease, like you’re not quite convinced she’s cool. Play it as long as it’s fresh and she’s increasing the giggling. A good early qualification buys you a ton of time to work.
8. Conversational Question: Ask a question that roots her in the interaction, such as “So what brings you out today?” or “You’re foreign right?” and she’ll tell you how she came to be here today while also giving some logistical information. Let her talk and begin to reduce your energy. Hold strong eye contact and don’t gesture. If there’s a real time constraint you’ll usually get it here. This is where you hook or don’t and it relies upon ploughing through the next stage
9. Plough: Have a few minutes of conversation ready that you can just launch into incase you can’t use what she just gave you for a natural conversation. Relax and chill out. Any time she adds something, let her speak – don’t ever destroy rapport. If you start trying to dominate the conversation or squeeze in your new DHV story it’s just gonna look try-hard. You are building towards her enjoying speaking to you. You are looking for a signal of arrested momentum such as:
(i) cross her legs and locking in
(ii) lighting a cigarette
(iii) readjusting her bag / putting away her phone
(iv) ceasing to look in the direction she was going. Once her momentum is stopped, she’ll open up and you can move into vibing.
Stage Two: Vibing
This is where you DHV through both sub-communicating what a cool guy you are as well as the actual stories. In natural game you are primarily creating a unique conversation feeding from what she gives you. The goal is relax her, then to take her away from her drab day and into a fun world that no other guy has ever shown her. It’s a circle rather than step by step process and should include:
a. light teasing
b. future projection of ridiculous situations in which you get one over on her
c. a light sprinkling of mild sexualisation to remind her this is a man talking to a woman
But consider these as spice sprinkled upon the meal which is getting to know each other superficially. You won’t be prying very deep into her character yet, you are mainly finding interesting ways to exchange the biographical information that is normally done tediously. Once she is smiling and trying to add her own value to the conversation it’s time to bait the trap with Investment.
Stage Three: Invest Her
At the beginning you were carrying the conversation and bringing all of the energy. You are dialiing it down now and flipping the script. She should be thoroughly enjoying the interaction and very happy to have been stopped. She now wants to cling onto this great interaction and make the most of it. Make her earn in, dangle that carrot in front of her nose and walk away (figuratively). You do this by turning closing yourself down into minimalist interaction. Think of yourself as a gradually strengthening black hole, sucking in her energy and giving very little back. This is characterised by:
a. Low flat vocal tone
b. Slow speech with short sentences
c. Strong sexualised eye contact
d. Rewarding her investment with nods and listening noises delivered in a slightly ambigious way like you haven’t made up your mind about her.
e. Occasional querious but earnest challenges like you don’t quite buy what she’s selling / don’t quite agree with her.
This is a smooth gradual process. She shouldn’t even notice the conversation has gone from 90% your voice to 70% her’s. You are now in the screening frame and making her chase. This is the time to start putting in qualified statements of interest to show she is winning you over e.g. “You know what, I really didn’t expect that. Tell me more, this is interesting.” or “Oh no! Why did you say that? I was just starting to like you” (playful). Her body language should be way more active than yours – crossing and uncrossing legs, kicking her feet, readjusting her bag plus all the classic IOIs like hair twirling and sparkling eyes.
Do not match her energy. That’s what every other sucker does, unable to believe he’s still talking to such a hot girl he tries to reciprocate the energy and thus ruins her desire to slip into the submissive frame. Investment ends when she has accepted you as her boss.
Stage Four: Commit Her
She’s now ready to be lead. If no obstacle has come up, go for the instant date. Usually this takes ten minutes but you are looking for milestones not a stopwatch – does she show signs of having become invested? If so, commit her. Don’t go too strong or gamey, just say “Look, have you got ten minutes?…. I’m enjoying this, lets get a coffee / sit on the grass / walk around a bit.” If she rejects you, calibrate according to how you read her forebrain/hindbrain conflict. If the hindbrain wants to come with you, deliver a FTC (“look, it’s just gonna be a couple of minutes till I meet my friends”) then lead her. If she’s not coming, number close with “Ok. Listen, this is what we’ll do. I like you, so when we’ve both got more time I’ll give you a shout. [pull out phone]“
You cannot progress until you have made her leave the last part of her world behind, i.e. bounced her from the approach location. Whether this is an instant date or day 2 is immaterial. It’s her investment that will decide it, not the rapport.
Stage Five: Deep Rapport
At some point in the date you have to sit her down directly in front of you and build a strong connection in a location with few distractions (unlike vibing, which is ok in busy places). Rapport can take a few hours and is little different to how you’d do it on a day 2 after a nightgame number close. I prefer not to kino escalate because it kills the frame of her chasing you, which you set up during Investment. The conversation should be about 80% comfort, 15% attraction (chick crack) and 5% sexualisation. The vibe is that you’re a man, she’s a woman and this is the most natural thing in the world. When you feel she is totally into you and totally comfortable, move on towards creating sexual state.
Stage Six: Verbal Escalation
Her rapport and investment has now given you a huge buffer zone to take the risk of escalation without appearing to chase her. The following four stages are a loop to be repeated as many times as necessary. It’s done late on in the date, and with gradually increasing intensity depending on your calibration.
1. General Sex Talk: Introduce sex talk in the third person / generality such as stories about pandas fucking, the way girls dance to look sexy etc
2. Sexual SOI: Make a personal observation about her that is sexually attractive and then finish it with a “and I find that really attractive” while looking into her eyes. Then back off slightly.
3. Future Projection: Paint the picture of a future scenario that involves you both romantically, e.g. “So imagine we’re going to a dinner party. Like the Ambassador’s party in the Ferrero Roche advert. I’m gonna be dressed really cool. Obviously. A well-cut suit and [describe]. What are you wearing?” Depending on her state, you can sexualise it much further, e.g. “So we’re on holiday in the Solomon Islands. We’re walking down the beach. What colour is your bikini?….. We’re splashing each other in the sea…etc”
4. Sexual Intent: Tell her you want to fuck her, like it’s the most natural thing in the world and you know she wants to fuck you.
The purpose of Verbal Escalation is to make no bones about where this is going but within a vibe like it’s all so natural. Your words and body language (particuarly eyes and vocal tone) are doing the work. There is little to no kino escalation. She is chasing despite you leading, so no kino. She will show her agreement towards the close either verbally or non-verbally:
Verbal: She’ll directly tell you things she likes about you. Don’t expect her to verbalise “let’s fuck”. She is thinking “I want to fuck this guy but I can’t tell him without looking like a slut, so I’ll just try to make it obvious I like him and then hope he takes the lead.” She’ll also stop raising conversation points that indicate obstacles to fucking (e.g. her boyfriend has disappeared, those friends she was meeting for dinner have disappeared too). Also watch for wistful inpatience (“I’ve got nothing to do tonight”, “I’m so bored these days, I wish something exciting would happen”etc)
Non-Verbal: Far more likely. She’ll be either acting or not acting. If she is acting and IOIs you she needs to be extracted right now. Not-acting IOIs to watch for:
(i) Her eyes suddenly spazz out, going all large, round and sparkly
(ii) she can’t stop looking into your eyes, with occasional submissive looks downards
(iii) a constant beaming smile like a dog about to eat dog food
(iv) leg twitching
(v) Her iniating kino in a fairly groping manner.
Once you’ve got confirmation she’s in a sexual state you’ve got an Its On Moment. A window has just opened and you need to jump through before it closes again. Take the leap – even if you get knocked back or LMR you’ll have way more value for next time than if you just sit there like a pussy don’t nothing at all.
Stage Seven: Close
Kiss, hug or whatever in the date location but don’t give her the validation of erogenous touching until the sex location. She has to earn that. There must be a void between her and the sexual validation she now craves and she has to jump that void herself. Don’t be afraid to drag her into a cafe bathroom or back street if your home logisitcs are bad.
31 Responses to Day Game Model
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Rivelino says:
September 16, 2010 at 2:13 pm
Wow. This is gold. I am at work so I can’t break this down or analyze in full like I would like right now, but trust me, I will printing this baby out and reading it like a born again reads the Bible.
One immediate question, though: Shouldn’t you give a false time constraint in Stage One?
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Justin Wayne says:
September 16, 2010 at 9:10 pm
Hey Krauser, Its Justin Wayne form NYC. My website administrator told me to view your blog. Keep your head up. I like what i see. i appreciate your honesty and the fact that you demonstrate proof.
Keep it real bro.
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Willy Wonka says:
September 16, 2010 at 3:00 pm
I’m going to have to sticky this/bookmark it or something.
Good shit, Krauser. Keep it up.
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m.m says:
September 16, 2010 at 3:20 pm
Ditto all. I’ve had a quick glance but this seems very consistent with your overall approach. Good to see it conveyed into words. I feel like volumes of books could be written on the “gentle tease”.
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bhodisatta says:
September 17, 2010 at 2:51 pm
Sophisticated.
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stagetwo says:
September 19, 2010 at 5:26 am
this looks great. i have a question for you. is there a way to email you?
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eaglem says:
September 19, 2010 at 2:47 pm
sound simple ……..not
ive read it 3 times dont get this:
Non-Verbal: Far more likely. She’ll be either acting or not acting. If she is acting and IOIs you she needs to be extracted right now. Not-acting IOIs to watch for
what do you mean acting, if shes acting then shes a sexual person and not acting is more like a noob girl with no game?
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krauserpua says:
September 20, 2010 at 8:46 pm
Like in poker – a tell is either conscious (acting) or unconcious (not acting). If she’s acting she’s doing it because she wants something – it could be sex, or it could be more validation – and you have to figure out what that is.
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Rinaldo says:
September 22, 2010 at 1:01 am
I’m struck by the simplicity of all this, and how normal and simple you manner is in the videos you’ve uploaded – I’m a complete beginner, but it’s nice to know that someone can have success without being a complete loud mouthed douchey attention seeker – i.e. that you can be a normal person, just subtly tweaked and enhanced and get results. Of course its easier to say than to do, but this blog gives me hope and is a fantastic resource.
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realdeal says:
September 28, 2010 at 5:10 am
I don’t know but I feel that the model is too filled with theory…how about simplifying it and making it more practical i.e. just put what works (most of the time) and discard the fluff.
best !
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Woodsmoke says:
October 2, 2010 at 5:32 pm
So what you’re saying, Realdeal, is: ‘Please qualify yourself to me Krauser’.
Maybe you go find out what’s fluff on girls in-field, instead?
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realdeal says:
October 5, 2010 at 3:55 am
was I talking to you?
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Mike says:
October 6, 2010 at 2:33 pm
Must agree, damn, this is a good model & free. Thank you for your loads of effort making this, mate!
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Neo says:
October 9, 2010 at 10:32 pm
Thanks for this, very helpful insights.
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next says:
October 12, 2010 at 1:44 pm
“clear sense of purpose which is: I am going for the same day lay”
Why is this important? Assume you can’t, or don’t really want to take the girl to your place the same day (for whatever reason). Should you still play for this goal, and hope to maybe do it in her place or in a toilet. Is it more about having the right mindset than about arranging actual logistics in an optimal fashion (pre-game)?
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Library Desk Graffiti says:
October 20, 2010 at 3:14 am
You nailed in the last sentence: “more about having the right mindset.”
It will manifest itself in your body language, words, and attitude in ways you can’t force.
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realdeal says:
October 28, 2010 at 3:27 am
Any idea how to incorporate modeone into your model?
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Day Game Model
Kill Momentum —-> Vibe —-> Invest Her —-> Commit Her —-> Deep Rapport —-> Verbal Escalation —-> Close
Stage One: Kill Momentum
1. Pre-game: A good night sleep, comfortable mid/high status clothes, clear sense of purpose which is: I am going for the same day lay. The only time I won’t go for it is if an insurmountable obstacle arises (time constraints, refused extractions etc)
2. Pre-approach: You must be demonstrating value before the girl even notices you, primarily by having a great time with your wing and keeping each other out of your head. Think of yourself as kids walking to the sweet shop to buy a bag of your favourite sweets. It’s all fun, and you are selecting. As the girl walks past you you’re the most fun on the street, with a playful happy vibe. You should be getting people noticing you and looking.
3. Target Acquisition: Find the girl that makes your blood bubble. If you have to intellectualise that she’s hot, she’s not your girl so don’t bother. You need to feel the pull of DNA-matching. That’s your trigger, start jogging after her.
4. Spontaneous Opener: You can have a set structure of principles in opening but try not to use the same opener twice in one day. As you catch up to her ask yourself why you noticed her. What is it that caught your attention? Find one thing about her that is noticeable and then slot that into your opener:
5. Delivery: Begin with a pre-framed tease such as “Can I give you a compliment?”, “Hi, Can I say something?” or “Ok, How good is your English?” smile, then deliver the opener. Let it hit. If she really hooks let her talk, if she doesn’t move to the:
6. Gentle Tease: This is the push after the pull of the oepner. Make it creative, lighthearted and playful. This is the final piece of early attraction, showing her a slightly hard edge to pique her interest and push her a little into the defensive crouch rather than just handing her 100% validation. Example of 4-6 together:
Hi. I just have to tell you something…. I was just over there, drinking my coffee, when you walked past and my head just turned like this [gesture]. I thought to myself why did I notice her, out of all the girls. Obviously your cute but it wasn’t that. Then I was running over and I realised. You dress weird.”
7. Early Qualification: Pause and look expectantly. She should spontaneously start qualifying and playfully pushing you away (verbally) such as: “No! They’re nice shoes. I bought them in Camden. I like the colour.” Reward with an non-sexual IOI and build on the tease, like you’re not quite convinced she’s cool. Play it as long as it’s fresh and she’s increasing the giggling. A good early qualification buys you a ton of time to work.
8. Conversational Question: Ask a question that roots her in the interaction, such as “So what brings you out today?” or “You’re foreign right?” and she’ll tell you how she came to be here today while also giving some logistical information. Let her talk and begin to reduce your energy. Hold strong eye contact and don’t gesture. If there’s a real time constraint you’ll usually get it here. This is where you hook or don’t and it relies upon ploughing through the next stage
9. Plough: Have a few minutes of conversation ready that you can just launch into incase you can’t use what she just gave you for a natural conversation. Relax and chill out. Any time she adds something, let her speak – don’t ever destroy rapport. If you start trying to dominate the conversation or squeeze in your new DHV story it’s just gonna look try-hard. You are building towards her enjoying speaking to you. You are looking for a signal of arrested momentum such as:
(i) cross her legs and locking in
(ii) lighting a cigarette
(iii) readjusting her bag / putting away her phone
(iv) ceasing to look in the direction she was going. Once her momentum is stopped, she’ll open up and you can move into vibing.
Stage Two: Vibing
This is where you DHV through both sub-communicating what a cool guy you are as well as the actual stories. In natural game you are primarily creating a unique conversation feeding from what she gives you. The goal is relax her, then to take her away from her drab day and into a fun world that no other guy has ever shown her. It’s a circle rather than step by step process and should include:
a. light teasing
b. future projection of ridiculous situations in which you get one over on her
c. a light sprinkling of mild sexualisation to remind her this is a man talking to a woman
But consider these as spice sprinkled upon the meal which is getting to know each other superficially. You won’t be prying very deep into her character yet, you are mainly finding interesting ways to exchange the biographical information that is normally done tediously. Once she is smiling and trying to add her own value to the conversation it’s time to bait the trap with Investment.
Stage Three: Invest Her
At the beginning you were carrying the conversation and bringing all of the energy. You are dialiing it down now and flipping the script. She should be thoroughly enjoying the interaction and very happy to have been stopped. She now wants to cling onto this great interaction and make the most of it. Make her earn in, dangle that carrot in front of her nose and walk away (figuratively). You do this by turning closing yourself down into minimalist interaction. Think of yourself as a gradually strengthening black hole, sucking in her energy and giving very little back. This is characterised by:
a. Low flat vocal tone
b. Slow speech with short sentences
c. Strong sexualised eye contact
d. Rewarding her investment with nods and listening noises delivered in a slightly ambigious way like you haven’t made up your mind about her.
e. Occasional querious but earnest challenges like you don’t quite buy what she’s selling / don’t quite agree with her.
This is a smooth gradual process. She shouldn’t even notice the conversation has gone from 90% your voice to 70% her’s. You are now in the screening frame and making her chase. This is the time to start putting in qualified statements of interest to show she is winning you over e.g. “You know what, I really didn’t expect that. Tell me more, this is interesting.” or “Oh no! Why did you say that? I was just starting to like you” (playful). Her body language should be way more active than yours – crossing and uncrossing legs, kicking her feet, readjusting her bag plus all the classic IOIs like hair twirling and sparkling eyes.
Do not match her energy. That’s what every other sucker does, unable to believe he’s still talking to such a hot girl he tries to reciprocate the energy and thus ruins her desire to slip into the submissive frame. Investment ends when she has accepted you as her boss.
Stage Four: Commit Her
She’s now ready to be lead. If no obstacle has come up, go for the instant date. Usually this takes ten minutes but you are looking for milestones not a stopwatch – does she show signs of having become invested? If so, commit her. Don’t go too strong or gamey, just say “Look, have you got ten minutes?…. I’m enjoying this, lets get a coffee / sit on the grass / walk around a bit.” If she rejects you, calibrate according to how you read her forebrain/hindbrain conflict. If the hindbrain wants to come with you, deliver a FTC (“look, it’s just gonna be a couple of minutes till I meet my friends”) then lead her. If she’s not coming, number close with “Ok. Listen, this is what we’ll do. I like you, so when we’ve both got more time I’ll give you a shout. [pull out phone]“
You cannot progress until you have made her leave the last part of her world behind, i.e. bounced her from the approach location. Whether this is an instant date or day 2 is immaterial. It’s her investment that will decide it, not the rapport.
Stage Five: Deep Rapport
At some point in the date you have to sit her down directly in front of you and build a strong connection in a location with few distractions (unlike vibing, which is ok in busy places). Rapport can take a few hours and is little different to how you’d do it on a day 2 after a nightgame number close. I prefer not to kino escalate because it kills the frame of her chasing you, which you set up during Investment. The conversation should be about 80% comfort, 15% attraction (chick crack) and 5% sexualisation. The vibe is that you’re a man, she’s a woman and this is the most natural thing in the world. When you feel she is totally into you and totally comfortable, move on towards creating sexual state.
Stage Six: Verbal Escalation
Her rapport and investment has now given you a huge buffer zone to take the risk of escalation without appearing to chase her. The following four stages are a loop to be repeated as many times as necessary. It’s done late on in the date, and with gradually increasing intensity depending on your calibration.
1. General Sex Talk: Introduce sex talk in the third person / generality such as stories about pandas fucking, the way girls dance to look sexy etc
2. Sexual SOI: Make a personal observation about her that is sexually attractive and then finish it with a “and I find that really attractive” while looking into her eyes. Then back off slightly.
3. Future Projection: Paint the picture of a future scenario that involves you both romantically, e.g. “So imagine we’re going to a dinner party. Like the Ambassador’s party in the Ferrero Roche advert. I’m gonna be dressed really cool. Obviously. A well-cut suit and [describe]. What are you wearing?” Depending on her state, you can sexualise it much further, e.g. “So we’re on holiday in the Solomon Islands. We’re walking down the beach. What colour is your bikini?….. We’re splashing each other in the sea…etc”
4. Sexual Intent: Tell her you want to fuck her, like it’s the most natural thing in the world and you know she wants to fuck you.
The purpose of Verbal Escalation is to make no bones about where this is going but within a vibe like it’s all so natural. Your words and body language (particuarly eyes and vocal tone) are doing the work. There is little to no kino escalation. She is chasing despite you leading, so no kino. She will show her agreement towards the close either verbally or non-verbally:
Verbal: She’ll directly tell you things she likes about you. Don’t expect her to verbalise “let’s fuck”. She is thinking “I want to fuck this guy but I can’t tell him without looking like a slut, so I’ll just try to make it obvious I like him and then hope he takes the lead.” She’ll also stop raising conversation points that indicate obstacles to fucking (e.g. her boyfriend has disappeared, those friends she was meeting for dinner have disappeared too). Also watch for wistful inpatience (“I’ve got nothing to do tonight”, “I’m so bored these days, I wish something exciting would happen”etc)
Non-Verbal: Far more likely. She’ll be either acting or not acting. If she is acting and IOIs you she needs to be extracted right now. Not-acting IOIs to watch for:
(i) Her eyes suddenly spazz out, going all large, round and sparkly
(ii) she can’t stop looking into your eyes, with occasional submissive looks downards
(iii) a constant beaming smile like a dog about to eat dog food
(iv) leg twitching
(v) Her iniating kino in a fairly groping manner.
Once you’ve got confirmation she’s in a sexual state you’ve got an Its On Moment. A window has just opened and you need to jump through before it closes again. Take the leap – even if you get knocked back or LMR you’ll have way more value for next time than if you just sit there like a pussy don’t nothing at all.
Stage Seven: Close
Kiss, hug or whatever in the date location but don’t give her the validation of erogenous touching until the sex location. She has to earn that. There must be a void between her and the sexual validation she now craves and she has to jump that void herself. Don’t be afraid to drag her into a cafe bathroom or back street if your home logisitcs are bad.
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Rivelino says:
September 16, 2010 at 2:13 pm
Wow. This is gold. I am at work so I can’t break this down or analyze in full like I would like right now, but trust me, I will printing this baby out and reading it like a born again reads the Bible.
One immediate question, though: Shouldn’t you give a false time constraint in Stage One?
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Justin Wayne says:
September 16, 2010 at 9:10 pm
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Keep it real bro.
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Willy Wonka says:
September 16, 2010 at 3:00 pm
I’m going to have to sticky this/bookmark it or something.
Good shit, Krauser. Keep it up.
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m.m says:
September 16, 2010 at 3:20 pm
Ditto all. I’ve had a quick glance but this seems very consistent with your overall approach. Good to see it conveyed into words. I feel like volumes of books could be written on the “gentle tease”.
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bhodisatta says:
September 17, 2010 at 2:51 pm
Sophisticated.
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stagetwo says:
September 19, 2010 at 5:26 am
this looks great. i have a question for you. is there a way to email you?
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eaglem says:
September 19, 2010 at 2:47 pm
sound simple ……..not
ive read it 3 times dont get this:
Non-Verbal: Far more likely. She’ll be either acting or not acting. If she is acting and IOIs you she needs to be extracted right now. Not-acting IOIs to watch for
what do you mean acting, if shes acting then shes a sexual person and not acting is more like a noob girl with no game?
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krauserpua says:
September 20, 2010 at 8:46 pm
Like in poker – a tell is either conscious (acting) or unconcious (not acting). If she’s acting she’s doing it because she wants something – it could be sex, or it could be more validation – and you have to figure out what that is.
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Rinaldo says:
September 22, 2010 at 1:01 am
I’m struck by the simplicity of all this, and how normal and simple you manner is in the videos you’ve uploaded – I’m a complete beginner, but it’s nice to know that someone can have success without being a complete loud mouthed douchey attention seeker – i.e. that you can be a normal person, just subtly tweaked and enhanced and get results. Of course its easier to say than to do, but this blog gives me hope and is a fantastic resource.
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realdeal says:
September 28, 2010 at 5:10 am
I don’t know but I feel that the model is too filled with theory…how about simplifying it and making it more practical i.e. just put what works (most of the time) and discard the fluff.
best !
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Woodsmoke says:
October 2, 2010 at 5:32 pm
So what you’re saying, Realdeal, is: ‘Please qualify yourself to me Krauser’.
Maybe you go find out what’s fluff on girls in-field, instead?
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realdeal says:
October 5, 2010 at 3:55 am
was I talking to you?
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Mike says:
October 6, 2010 at 2:33 pm
Must agree, damn, this is a good model & free. Thank you for your loads of effort making this, mate!
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Neo says:
October 9, 2010 at 10:32 pm
Thanks for this, very helpful insights.
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next says:
October 12, 2010 at 1:44 pm
“clear sense of purpose which is: I am going for the same day lay”
Why is this important? Assume you can’t, or don’t really want to take the girl to your place the same day (for whatever reason). Should you still play for this goal, and hope to maybe do it in her place or in a toilet. Is it more about having the right mindset than about arranging actual logistics in an optimal fashion (pre-game)?
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Library Desk Graffiti says:
October 20, 2010 at 3:14 am
You nailed in the last sentence: “more about having the right mindset.”
It will manifest itself in your body language, words, and attitude in ways you can’t force.
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realdeal says:
October 28, 2010 at 3:27 am
Any idea how to incorporate modeone into your model?
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