I got to read the preview of 10SSA and love the intro and theory.
Talking more than 10 seconds it is really talking too much...its like fucking in the same position and staying there the whole time, kindah boring sex.lol.....
Oh shit I just came up with this here M.
"Hey dont you hate it when guys just talk talk talk boring shit ? I mean can you IMAGINE how booring they are in bed... I mean with ME , (use both thumbs index finger towards you like you are a fashionista) it has to be EXCITING !
isnt that they way it should be? she noods
I mean ALL HOT ,PASIONATE like a pump of adrenaline rush of full pleasure all over
(you shake her like pumping BT) , right?
Yeah, I think sex is important too especially in a relationship , too bad alot of guys tend to get needy and make it a boring routine "
"Dont wish it was easier, wish you were BETTER"..-Jim Rohn
Showing posts with label routine. Show all posts
Showing posts with label routine. Show all posts
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Sex an addiction of emotions
I saw asian plyaboys free direct game seminar at venusian arts with mystery and matador on youtube.
Id say I love asian playboy alot cause of his influence is clear on saffron being confident and funny.
his formula has ABCDEF
B is for spiking BT before going to comfort.
he has this down and my thoughts are to reinitate any convo with any girl even in a date it should start off spiking BT in a sexual way.
this brings me to SEX.
PU is good but its part of the main course meal.
Main course is SEX.
BT is to keep her engaged and enjoying her emotions and you cant do it until it comes obvious what you are trying to do , you do it to keep convo interesting from being boring.
Tim ahs a great routine I used before.
So Tyler is a genius for BT.
BT has disadvantage that its transfereable.
thats why JT tries to BLP the girl he tries to meet. to anchour that to him.
in reality game is based on having contorl on her emotions getting her to react to you emotionally..
therefore you get to not to button push but control the rhythm of the pickup and getting to where you want to take it.
for me deep comfort has an advantage to keeping her into you , obsess over you after that you push away she pulls in.
BAD boys spike BT uncoinciously, make her attracted by emotions not logic.
In10nse has an article and Vin has an audio and its based off the gambling theory of getting her addicted to you..you let her win and she isnt sure she is.
girls love to chase .
Now topic isnt chase or game.
its sex.
Spoe to jk ellis awhile back and I used the dorr pattern before which is awesome but I advise you use it carefully.
Im actually going to rent 91/2 weeks with mickey rourke.
that movie shows a guy who takes things forward.
that was my thoughts with greeneys.
she is polygamous and open to free sex, yet is clingly to me cause I dont get reactive to her, she looks for validation you give her a little but not everything.
I want to try that in sex.
I love fucking and to me sex is in my game a main topic of convo
sex relationships routine by badboy.
make that CONGRUENT that you are sexual excitign man.
ofcourse after comfort.
and describe as trance words sex.... in your convo.
in a way the emotions have to go up and down a like a rollercoaster, you cant be all the time gigling village idiot.
social, tease, question her, share connect, tease, direct interst,sexual provoke her kiss ,her question her, play hard to get at same time move locations to have sex. keep describing hot sex wihtou saying its sex and use art of distraction logical to get her to place of sex.
have sex.
then create emotions after and during sex, talk to her dirty and then be cool and sweet... yet emotionally not needy just understanding, be open and receptive to what she has to say, be careful to avoid buyers remorse. calibrate what her comfort level in sex is.
call her next day or text. then dont call her afterwards.
make her think about you make her call you and want you bad, make her wait.show up late use her anger then change emotions and kiss her, great sex.
see theres a pattern of emotions here.
SEX.
Im looking into BDSM stuff and I love nina hartly stuff. I leanr and skim fast by it.
you hgave that confidence to do it , then you will want to pickup.
ultimate goal isnt pickup , its having sex with the girl.
making her wildest drems and creating a blissful emotions on her.
Id say I love asian playboy alot cause of his influence is clear on saffron being confident and funny.
his formula has ABCDEF
B is for spiking BT before going to comfort.
he has this down and my thoughts are to reinitate any convo with any girl even in a date it should start off spiking BT in a sexual way.
this brings me to SEX.
PU is good but its part of the main course meal.
Main course is SEX.
BT is to keep her engaged and enjoying her emotions and you cant do it until it comes obvious what you are trying to do , you do it to keep convo interesting from being boring.
Tim ahs a great routine I used before.
So Tyler is a genius for BT.
BT has disadvantage that its transfereable.
thats why JT tries to BLP the girl he tries to meet. to anchour that to him.
in reality game is based on having contorl on her emotions getting her to react to you emotionally..
therefore you get to not to button push but control the rhythm of the pickup and getting to where you want to take it.
for me deep comfort has an advantage to keeping her into you , obsess over you after that you push away she pulls in.
BAD boys spike BT uncoinciously, make her attracted by emotions not logic.
In10nse has an article and Vin has an audio and its based off the gambling theory of getting her addicted to you..you let her win and she isnt sure she is.
girls love to chase .
Now topic isnt chase or game.
its sex.
Spoe to jk ellis awhile back and I used the dorr pattern before which is awesome but I advise you use it carefully.
Im actually going to rent 91/2 weeks with mickey rourke.
that movie shows a guy who takes things forward.
that was my thoughts with greeneys.
she is polygamous and open to free sex, yet is clingly to me cause I dont get reactive to her, she looks for validation you give her a little but not everything.
I want to try that in sex.
I love fucking and to me sex is in my game a main topic of convo
sex relationships routine by badboy.
make that CONGRUENT that you are sexual excitign man.
ofcourse after comfort.
and describe as trance words sex.... in your convo.
in a way the emotions have to go up and down a like a rollercoaster, you cant be all the time gigling village idiot.
social, tease, question her, share connect, tease, direct interst,sexual provoke her kiss ,her question her, play hard to get at same time move locations to have sex. keep describing hot sex wihtou saying its sex and use art of distraction logical to get her to place of sex.
have sex.
then create emotions after and during sex, talk to her dirty and then be cool and sweet... yet emotionally not needy just understanding, be open and receptive to what she has to say, be careful to avoid buyers remorse. calibrate what her comfort level in sex is.
call her next day or text. then dont call her afterwards.
make her think about you make her call you and want you bad, make her wait.show up late use her anger then change emotions and kiss her, great sex.
see theres a pattern of emotions here.
SEX.
Im looking into BDSM stuff and I love nina hartly stuff. I leanr and skim fast by it.
you hgave that confidence to do it , then you will want to pickup.
ultimate goal isnt pickup , its having sex with the girl.
making her wildest drems and creating a blissful emotions on her.
Thursday, April 22, 2010
cuban girl reverse belief rouitn NLP
I will post more on that is dark pattern stay tuned.
made an audio today.
made an audio today.
closing take you home frame routine pattern
I came up from the apocalypse opener and after comfort it can work I have to field test it.
Its a closing temperature gage to either move forward or not yet.
you insert strawberry routine
I shouldnt take you thome to mom, actually.....eye contact you shouldnt be thinking about going home with me....
I wonder what thoughts are running thruogh you mind right now for you to imagine esensually
what would happen .... ....(well do you want to come home with me?)
yes, cool I have a great set of cool CD's i have show you.briefly but ecause i have to get up early , I have to kick you out.
i get this but you get dessert DEAL ?
no, I have to tell you something, i have a late night cookie habit, theres this great ice cream I love to eat but i cant eat it all (in the cab?)
What kind of person are you????!!!!!
.if we share it will be half the calories
yeah i know, why did i even mention that :) dont get any ideas im not that easy.....
Its a closing temperature gage to either move forward or not yet.
you insert strawberry routine
I shouldnt take you thome to mom, actually.....eye contact you shouldnt be thinking about going home with me....
I wonder what thoughts are running thruogh you mind right now for you to imagine esensually
what would happen .... ....(well do you want to come home with me?)
yes, cool I have a great set of cool CD's i have show you.briefly but ecause i have to get up early , I have to kick you out.
i get this but you get dessert DEAL ?
no, I have to tell you something, i have a late night cookie habit, theres this great ice cream I love to eat but i cant eat it all (in the cab?)
What kind of person are you????!!!!!
.if we share it will be half the calories
yeah i know, why did i even mention that :) dont get any ideas im not that easy.....
Saturday, April 17, 2010
Boring sex DESTROYS relationships -Routine
Gabriel moore said :
As time goes on, it’s only natural that certain things become normal or mundane inside the bedroom. Sadly, if you let things be ordinary for too long, then everything from foreplay to the actual sex act becomes a routine. And deep inside you, you KNOW this spells disaster for any relationship, right? Even if you and your partner love each other and stay together, it’s still best to opt for an exciting life than a boring one.
I used soemthing to this I got it from badboy's youtube video I think but its awesome, it shows female psycology preseleccion.always be subtle:
I try got her to accept about how important sex is for me, the truth about some relationships when its more of the same thing, sex becomes a rouitne and relationship suffers and dies.Sex ,With me is important to keep it excitng and vibrant, makes a relationship spark and __________wild .
As time goes on, it’s only natural that certain things become normal or mundane inside the bedroom. Sadly, if you let things be ordinary for too long, then everything from foreplay to the actual sex act becomes a routine. And deep inside you, you KNOW this spells disaster for any relationship, right? Even if you and your partner love each other and stay together, it’s still best to opt for an exciting life than a boring one.
I used soemthing to this I got it from badboy's youtube video I think but its awesome, it shows female psycology preseleccion.always be subtle:
I try got her to accept about how important sex is for me, the truth about some relationships when its more of the same thing, sex becomes a rouitne and relationship suffers and dies.Sex ,With me is important to keep it excitng and vibrant, makes a relationship spark and __________wild .
Monday, April 12, 2010
bonsai collection of stripper game posts and stripper stuff
out of experience I decided to reprint these since I know some guys will disapear or erase this great info.
first this link on jkellis book on strippers
http://www.stripperseduction.com/4336.html
Quick story…
About 2 months ago, I was approached by a guy who claimed to
have one of the first *black books* completely devoted to
seducing & picking up strippers/exotic dancers and super-hot
10s (Yea right!)
He even said his *secret* black book was the only thing a
guy would need if he wants to sleep with them (without
paying) or even get them as girlfriends (lame).
Being the usual skeptic, I was like “whatever…”, I mean, what
else was I supposed to say? Over the years, I’ve gone through
TONS of different courses on dating, attraction, etc (all
sent to me for reviews) and most of it was either JUNK or
was usually the same ol, same ol..
But this dude, he was a little different; really persistent
and kept insisting that I run through his materials despite
the many times I told him “no!”…
In the end, I caved, I thought “what the heck” and gave
his stuff a shot..
**Shocked!**
From the get go, everything dived straight into ADVANCED
seduction & game; the hows, whens, whats and why’s…
… and I liked it!
And since you’re “part of the gang”; a valued member of our
newsletters, I feel I’ll be doing you a dis-service if I
don’t at least tell you about it because I personally think
it’s REALLY important to only recommend someone whom I think
truly “gets” the concept of building sexual chemistry with
these supermodel-like women (Remember, these ‘types’ are
EXTREMELY picky when it comes to men because they have
TONS of guys hitting on them every day).
So take a minute to check this page out:
http://tinyurl.com/m5a2c3
Amongst the golden nuggets you'll find inside:
- How to bypass her top 5 excuses (eg. "Sorry sweetie, I
don't date customers")... and show her that you're the kind
of guy she would want to date (or go out and have fun with.)
- How to completely shut down her "stripper talk" by showing
her that you are an "insider"... that you are "in on the
secret"...and get her to treat you differently than the
rest of the chumps in the club!
- How to cleverly show her that you are the "stripper
boyfriend" type and that, unlike most guys, you can handle
dating a woman like her!
- Where strippers hang out when they're not working, and
how to use power techniques to pick them up in these other
environments.
- How to manage relationships with the strippers you date,
and stay in control at all times.
- How to use subconscious phrases to get her in a sexual,
spontaneous, "loose" frame of mind with NO resistance right
up the point she gets into your bed.
... and much more!
Oh yeah, btw, the dude’s name is Dean. We’ve been pretty
tight ever since that first encounter, he’s a RIOT to hang
out with; I’ve seen him in action with the ladies many a time,
and I’ve to say — he really walks the talk.
To sum it up, his techniques are simple, practicle and most
importantly; it’s DO-ABLE.
Unlike other so-called ‘experts’ who teach far-out,
over-the-top techniques that makes you look like nothing
but an ASS in front of women, he reveals SIMPLE tactics
that can be used in ANY situation with women (however
tricky).
The entire “black book” course contains AMAZING content
that gives you specific, step-by-step detail on how to
reel these exotic women in.
What’s great is you can immediately get your own copy
and learn these techniques in the next few minutes
here:
http://tinyurl.com/m5a2c3
I HIGHLY RECOMMEND it!
Jack Ellis
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BONSAI ????? WHO IS HE ???
this guy started to learn pu at same time as I did he got good but it took him awhile surrounded by pua's. It took me along time but when I got it , I got it fast and actually didnt get a chance to realize what I did, I just did it thanks to the natural.he kept it simpke therefore seduction is simple.period.
So Im featuring these awesome posts by sirslick pua , magic nuggets aka so call lair cassanova crew, lovesystems asian coach: Bonsai Than'
he lerned from Sinn, Eltopo got a redstack, did 30/30 club and got good after that,had a calendar and everything, became friends with MEGATRON.
"do you want a dance ?"
There are 2 things you do when she asks you that:
1. Never say "no". If you do, they usually leave right away.
2. Say something witty and then transition into another topic. The easiest way is to say "not yet" and immediately transition into another topic.
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View CommentsDo Strippers Give Out Their Phone Numbers?
Posted at January 19, 2010Short answer: Yes.
Long answer: It’s a big myth that “strippers cannot give out their phone numbers.” Yes they can, but the strippers are told not to. The management of the strip club usually tell strippers to not give out their phone numbers. There are several reasons for that; one is that they want repeat customers which means more income of course for the club and girls. However, the biggest reason is that the strip club can get sued for prostitution.
The fact that the stripper is handing out her phone number can be seen as the first step towards prostitution (which is illegal). So if the management sees a stripper handing out her phone number, she can get fined by the club or in worst case fired. Even if the strip club is considered “dirty” (meaning a lot of extras happen inside the club) these places usually still enforce that strippers can’t give out their phone numbers.
That is one why reason why getting a phone number from strippers is much harder compared to girls in bars and clubs. First you need to have really good stripper game, have strippers really attracted to you, and my diagram on how to pick up a stripper clarifies this a lot.
Now this doesn’t mean it’s impossible to get a stripper’s phone number. I, and many other guys good at stripper game like The Don, Braddock, Calabrese, Prestige, and Fader are proof.
Here are some quick tips on getting a stripper’s phone number. I assume that you two are getting along great and that she is genuinely attracted to you.
•If possible, sit in a dark spot.
•Before you get the stripper’s phone number, make sure the DJ and management is not around.
•If there is a table, put your phone under the table and then get her number.
•Save her phone number under her real name. Don’t refer to her by her stripper name unless she explicitly want’s to be called Ferrari or Lamborghini.
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Delivery of a Stripper Game Routine with Infield Sample (Audio)
Posted at December 25, 2009Over the next couple months I will be releasing infield audio clips of mine. You will hear me use certain pickup routines published on this blog and also full pickups. Today I’m releasing my first stripper infield audio clip.
You can hear me deliver the stripper routine fractured sexual identity that I came up with. Below is the video with subtitles on the audio.
It was very loud in the strip club (normally it isn’t that loud) so sometimes it might be hard to hear the stripper.
Let me know if you guys like this by leaving a comment behind!
STRIPPER ROUTINE FRACTURED SEXUAL IDENTITY
Stripper Game Routine - Fractured Sexual Identity
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I will be revealing a secret stripper routine that I recently came up with and have used with success on strippers to build attraction and an emotional connection. Normally this routine is only taught at the and kept away from everyone else. The routine was later on introduced on The Lounge (an invite-only forum for advanced guys) but now I am releasing it to the general public.
I call the routine "fractured sexual identity" and it is a deep cold read that makes the stripper feel more connected to you on a sexual level. It gives you a couple minutes of conversation. It also gives you a lot of threads that you can tangent off from and depending where you are in interaction with the stripper, you can choose whether you want to show either more stripper preselection, go very sexual, or talk about other related topics to build an emotional connection.
Here is a common transcript when I run this routine on strippers and exotic dancers.
Quote:
You: You know what, from just talking to you I can sense something about you that most people probably don't see. I bet a lot of people think you're a really confident person because you're hot and funny, but in reality you're not. I can tell that you have this fractured sexual identity.
Her: What? / What does that mean? (common response)
You: You are not sure what kind of guy you like. On one hand, you want a guy who is very caring, nurturing, and sensuous to you. But on the other hand, you just want be fucked like a dirty slut.
Her: That is so true! / (or they laugh)
You: Most guys you meet are either one of them. They are either super nice to you and are push-overs, or they are complete assholes to you. In reality you want someone who has both qualities and is kind of in the middle. He can be nice and sweet to you but you also want someone who doesn't take your shit and can tell you to shut up once a while.
By running this routine you come off as someone who is very intuitive and you create some attraction and comfort. There are a lot of threads open that you can go into and what is so great about this routine is that you can calibrate where you are in the interaction with the stripper. Here are the most common responses and threads.
She is not believing you. I've had this once and it was the first time me field testing this stripper routine. Your delivery must be off when she is not believing you. You have this say with a straight face and talk with a tone like a scientist talks about the weather. Whenever she laughs at some of the remarks, do not respond to that with laughter. It's really important not to react or smile to that because then the cold read loses its power.
She gets hooked deeper. The most common response is something in along lines of "Wow how did you know that?!" If she says that, I usually know that it's not really "on" yet but she is getting more attracted. Plus, you know she is hooked even more and she wants to know more about what you can tell her. They will usually ask you what else you can tell about them. Don't fall for this trap. Instead, it's a great opportunity to ease that deep cold read with a tease (it's like a built-in push-pull). My usually response to tell that is "I normally charge for that [wink]" and then transition into another conversational thread. At this early stage I know I still have work ahead of me and I usually transition where I show more stripper preselection, e.g. I talk about how most stripper boyfriends can't handle their lifestyle or how nowadays guys are emasculated.
She tells you how she likes to have sex. This is a green light. This is a common response when you run this routine very late in the interaction. From my experience, I get this type of response after at least talking to her for half an hour, but more so after like 45 or 60 minutes in. Now you can go very sexual and escalate on the touching to sexual. I usually inquire how the girls likes to have sex and I share my preferences. The touching escalates to more sexual peppered with some takeaways. You want to be careful that you don't go to sexual, leave that for in the seduction location, e.g. the bedroom.
Quote:
SIDENOTE: Going very sexual with strippers is not recommended early on in the interaction. That's the stripper's power and you don't want to play that game yet. However, later on when she is really attracted to you and she doesn't see you as customer but as someone she would date, that's when you can introduce sexual framing.
It's fine to just run the transcript from above and then transition into a complete another conversational thread. I like to use the routine to setup the threads that I can later explore deeper with her. In a way you're setting yourself for multiple threading which is an advanced technique for building rapport.
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Stripper Game
blog has a lot of posts already on stripper game.
What a lot of people don’t know about stripper game is that there is actually a structure you can use. In the Strippers & Hired Guns seminar we teach the Polarity Model that Braddock and The Don came up with.
Below you can download a mind-map diagram that gives you a structure of stripper game. It is how I pickup strippers and it is almost exactly following the Love Systems Triad Model but applied to stripper game. So it has elements of the Polarity Model and the Triad Model.
Me being Asian, I love models. It gives you structure and phases you can learn piece by piece. It makes learning something new much easier and it is a lot easier to diagnose where you make mistakes. Hopefully this diagram helps a lot.
Feel free to distribute this, post it on your blog, emailing it your friends, whatever.
Download Stripper Game Diagram (PDF, 17kb).
http://www.asiandatingcoach.com/downloads/bonsai_stripper_game.pdf
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first this link on jkellis book on strippers
http://www.stripperseduction.com/4336.html
Quick story…
About 2 months ago, I was approached by a guy who claimed to
have one of the first *black books* completely devoted to
seducing & picking up strippers/exotic dancers and super-hot
10s (Yea right!)
He even said his *secret* black book was the only thing a
guy would need if he wants to sleep with them (without
paying) or even get them as girlfriends (lame).
Being the usual skeptic, I was like “whatever…”, I mean, what
else was I supposed to say? Over the years, I’ve gone through
TONS of different courses on dating, attraction, etc (all
sent to me for reviews) and most of it was either JUNK or
was usually the same ol, same ol..
But this dude, he was a little different; really persistent
and kept insisting that I run through his materials despite
the many times I told him “no!”…
In the end, I caved, I thought “what the heck” and gave
his stuff a shot..
**Shocked!**
From the get go, everything dived straight into ADVANCED
seduction & game; the hows, whens, whats and why’s…
… and I liked it!
And since you’re “part of the gang”; a valued member of our
newsletters, I feel I’ll be doing you a dis-service if I
don’t at least tell you about it because I personally think
it’s REALLY important to only recommend someone whom I think
truly “gets” the concept of building sexual chemistry with
these supermodel-like women (Remember, these ‘types’ are
EXTREMELY picky when it comes to men because they have
TONS of guys hitting on them every day).
So take a minute to check this page out:
http://tinyurl.com/m5a2c3
Amongst the golden nuggets you'll find inside:
- How to bypass her top 5 excuses (eg. "Sorry sweetie, I
don't date customers")... and show her that you're the kind
of guy she would want to date (or go out and have fun with.)
- How to completely shut down her "stripper talk" by showing
her that you are an "insider"... that you are "in on the
secret"...and get her to treat you differently than the
rest of the chumps in the club!
- How to cleverly show her that you are the "stripper
boyfriend" type and that, unlike most guys, you can handle
dating a woman like her!
- Where strippers hang out when they're not working, and
how to use power techniques to pick them up in these other
environments.
- How to manage relationships with the strippers you date,
and stay in control at all times.
- How to use subconscious phrases to get her in a sexual,
spontaneous, "loose" frame of mind with NO resistance right
up the point she gets into your bed.
... and much more!
Oh yeah, btw, the dude’s name is Dean. We’ve been pretty
tight ever since that first encounter, he’s a RIOT to hang
out with; I’ve seen him in action with the ladies many a time,
and I’ve to say — he really walks the talk.
To sum it up, his techniques are simple, practicle and most
importantly; it’s DO-ABLE.
Unlike other so-called ‘experts’ who teach far-out,
over-the-top techniques that makes you look like nothing
but an ASS in front of women, he reveals SIMPLE tactics
that can be used in ANY situation with women (however
tricky).
The entire “black book” course contains AMAZING content
that gives you specific, step-by-step detail on how to
reel these exotic women in.
What’s great is you can immediately get your own copy
and learn these techniques in the next few minutes
here:
http://tinyurl.com/m5a2c3
I HIGHLY RECOMMEND it!
Jack Ellis
------------------------
---------------------------------------------------------------------
BONSAI ????? WHO IS HE ???
this guy started to learn pu at same time as I did he got good but it took him awhile surrounded by pua's. It took me along time but when I got it , I got it fast and actually didnt get a chance to realize what I did, I just did it thanks to the natural.he kept it simpke therefore seduction is simple.period.
So Im featuring these awesome posts by sirslick pua , magic nuggets aka so call lair cassanova crew, lovesystems asian coach: Bonsai Than'
he lerned from Sinn, Eltopo got a redstack, did 30/30 club and got good after that,had a calendar and everything, became friends with MEGATRON.
"do you want a dance ?"
There are 2 things you do when she asks you that:
1. Never say "no". If you do, they usually leave right away.
2. Say something witty and then transition into another topic. The easiest way is to say "not yet" and immediately transition into another topic.
----------------------------------------------------------------
View CommentsDo Strippers Give Out Their Phone Numbers?
Posted at January 19, 2010Short answer: Yes.
Long answer: It’s a big myth that “strippers cannot give out their phone numbers.” Yes they can, but the strippers are told not to. The management of the strip club usually tell strippers to not give out their phone numbers. There are several reasons for that; one is that they want repeat customers which means more income of course for the club and girls. However, the biggest reason is that the strip club can get sued for prostitution.
The fact that the stripper is handing out her phone number can be seen as the first step towards prostitution (which is illegal). So if the management sees a stripper handing out her phone number, she can get fined by the club or in worst case fired. Even if the strip club is considered “dirty” (meaning a lot of extras happen inside the club) these places usually still enforce that strippers can’t give out their phone numbers.
That is one why reason why getting a phone number from strippers is much harder compared to girls in bars and clubs. First you need to have really good stripper game, have strippers really attracted to you, and my diagram on how to pick up a stripper clarifies this a lot.
Now this doesn’t mean it’s impossible to get a stripper’s phone number. I, and many other guys good at stripper game like The Don, Braddock, Calabrese, Prestige, and Fader are proof.
Here are some quick tips on getting a stripper’s phone number. I assume that you two are getting along great and that she is genuinely attracted to you.
•If possible, sit in a dark spot.
•Before you get the stripper’s phone number, make sure the DJ and management is not around.
•If there is a table, put your phone under the table and then get her number.
•Save her phone number under her real name. Don’t refer to her by her stripper name unless she explicitly want’s to be called Ferrari or Lamborghini.
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Delivery of a Stripper Game Routine with Infield Sample (Audio)
Posted at December 25, 2009Over the next couple months I will be releasing infield audio clips of mine. You will hear me use certain pickup routines published on this blog and also full pickups. Today I’m releasing my first stripper infield audio clip.
You can hear me deliver the stripper routine fractured sexual identity that I came up with. Below is the video with subtitles on the audio.
It was very loud in the strip club (normally it isn’t that loud) so sometimes it might be hard to hear the stripper.
Let me know if you guys like this by leaving a comment behind!
STRIPPER ROUTINE FRACTURED SEXUAL IDENTITY
Stripper Game Routine - Fractured Sexual Identity
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I will be revealing a secret stripper routine that I recently came up with and have used with success on strippers to build attraction and an emotional connection. Normally this routine is only taught at the and kept away from everyone else. The routine was later on introduced on The Lounge (an invite-only forum for advanced guys) but now I am releasing it to the general public.
I call the routine "fractured sexual identity" and it is a deep cold read that makes the stripper feel more connected to you on a sexual level. It gives you a couple minutes of conversation. It also gives you a lot of threads that you can tangent off from and depending where you are in interaction with the stripper, you can choose whether you want to show either more stripper preselection, go very sexual, or talk about other related topics to build an emotional connection.
Here is a common transcript when I run this routine on strippers and exotic dancers.
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You: You know what, from just talking to you I can sense something about you that most people probably don't see. I bet a lot of people think you're a really confident person because you're hot and funny, but in reality you're not. I can tell that you have this fractured sexual identity.
Her: What? / What does that mean? (common response)
You: You are not sure what kind of guy you like. On one hand, you want a guy who is very caring, nurturing, and sensuous to you. But on the other hand, you just want be fucked like a dirty slut.
Her: That is so true! / (or they laugh)
You: Most guys you meet are either one of them. They are either super nice to you and are push-overs, or they are complete assholes to you. In reality you want someone who has both qualities and is kind of in the middle. He can be nice and sweet to you but you also want someone who doesn't take your shit and can tell you to shut up once a while.
By running this routine you come off as someone who is very intuitive and you create some attraction and comfort. There are a lot of threads open that you can go into and what is so great about this routine is that you can calibrate where you are in the interaction with the stripper. Here are the most common responses and threads.
She is not believing you. I've had this once and it was the first time me field testing this stripper routine. Your delivery must be off when she is not believing you. You have this say with a straight face and talk with a tone like a scientist talks about the weather. Whenever she laughs at some of the remarks, do not respond to that with laughter. It's really important not to react or smile to that because then the cold read loses its power.
She gets hooked deeper. The most common response is something in along lines of "Wow how did you know that?!" If she says that, I usually know that it's not really "on" yet but she is getting more attracted. Plus, you know she is hooked even more and she wants to know more about what you can tell her. They will usually ask you what else you can tell about them. Don't fall for this trap. Instead, it's a great opportunity to ease that deep cold read with a tease (it's like a built-in push-pull). My usually response to tell that is "I normally charge for that [wink]" and then transition into another conversational thread. At this early stage I know I still have work ahead of me and I usually transition where I show more stripper preselection, e.g. I talk about how most stripper boyfriends can't handle their lifestyle or how nowadays guys are emasculated.
She tells you how she likes to have sex. This is a green light. This is a common response when you run this routine very late in the interaction. From my experience, I get this type of response after at least talking to her for half an hour, but more so after like 45 or 60 minutes in. Now you can go very sexual and escalate on the touching to sexual. I usually inquire how the girls likes to have sex and I share my preferences. The touching escalates to more sexual peppered with some takeaways. You want to be careful that you don't go to sexual, leave that for in the seduction location, e.g. the bedroom.
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SIDENOTE: Going very sexual with strippers is not recommended early on in the interaction. That's the stripper's power and you don't want to play that game yet. However, later on when she is really attracted to you and she doesn't see you as customer but as someone she would date, that's when you can introduce sexual framing.
It's fine to just run the transcript from above and then transition into a complete another conversational thread. I like to use the routine to setup the threads that I can later explore deeper with her. In a way you're setting yourself for multiple threading which is an advanced technique for building rapport.
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Stripper Game
blog has a lot of posts already on stripper game.
What a lot of people don’t know about stripper game is that there is actually a structure you can use. In the Strippers & Hired Guns seminar we teach the Polarity Model that Braddock and The Don came up with.
Below you can download a mind-map diagram that gives you a structure of stripper game. It is how I pickup strippers and it is almost exactly following the Love Systems Triad Model but applied to stripper game. So it has elements of the Polarity Model and the Triad Model.
Me being Asian, I love models. It gives you structure and phases you can learn piece by piece. It makes learning something new much easier and it is a lot easier to diagnose where you make mistakes. Hopefully this diagram helps a lot.
Feel free to distribute this, post it on your blog, emailing it your friends, whatever.
Download Stripper Game Diagram (PDF, 17kb).
http://www.asiandatingcoach.com/downloads/bonsai_stripper_game.pdf
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