Showing posts with label adam lyons. Show all posts
Showing posts with label adam lyons. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

MODELING KENI STYLES behaviour subcommunications

This is a guy who I want to model cause I admire his personality and positivty. He handles shit tests and the way he opens himself and how he REFRAMES.
THIS IS A POWERFUL LESSON, reframing to your reality or ignore as CJ would say.
i learned from Jeffy and MARK when shit test in rapport is genuine than shit test in attraction which are handled differently.

I read this and I want to learn from him...the vids he goes with regina Moon are proceless cause he is cool natural dude...no PU no try hard for rapport and his subcommunications are tight.

he complements from place of being spiking BT of making people feel good about themselves...similar to the natural Ali and ADAM LYONS:
read this ...this year Im getting in shape and modeling this guy dealing with women and social circles


People need to stop bragging and boasting about performing in such a putrid business and go out there and get a real job.
brokentwice78







@brokentwice78
Haha! Yeah I know right! It's disgusting that people get paid to do what they fucking love and is so natural and easy.. I mean, why the hell do they think they should have such an easy life!!? Man.. it's disgusting! I mean.. wow sex.. who likes that? LMFAAAAO!! :D

Kenistyles



now this is what i am talkin about! People want to see this, not u hanging around with some white dude.


NOTE: Review Reframing by David Barron persuasion course ,
Modeling by Tom venuto...copy paste from twitter account.


twitter GOODS:

KeniStyles



NOTE: KENI HAD HIS EYES CHECKED TODAY AND PEOPLE ARE TWITTERING HIM ABOUT IT.
HE ALSO IS GETTING READY FOR AVN AWARDS

Thanks fam u rock! I already feel better.

@HeadlessMunky Oh yeah, thank u babe for reminding me how happy I was to see things clearly, 6yrs I needed them! I wish they were ready now!
33 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to headlessmunky

.@BluntBrosProd @DaveHellion @DitchPlans @themajormusic @misterchuck719 @NiCo4z3 @Rogue_12 @Gomezinsj @RRgeo Thanks for ur nice tweets peeps!
37 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to DitchPlans

.@KeiranLee Yeah man I remember them commercials bro, fucking stupid here went for a Prada pair too but even in them I don't feel right? Meh!
41 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to KeiranLee

.@MarcoRiveraxxx Yeah and u just went from friend to cunt in one single tweet! Still not laughing..

43 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to MarcoRiveraxxx

.Alright fuck it.. deleted that tweet! I dunno bout them on me yet? Feel like a proper dork! :/
about 1 hour ago via Echofon .


Um peeps thank u all but I didn't have Lasik or any surgery. I just had my eyes tested & retina's scanned, I've been putting it off forever!
about 1 hour ago via Echofon .


@PAYASO_XXX @KaymeKai @MsHendiSun @KenBT @Uconn83 @OKkitten @Ottoshi @Gomezinsj

Thanks peeps, hopefully my eyes dilate back to normal soon!?
about 4 hours ago via Echofon in reply to ottoshi


.@DPiercexxx Pssh!! Alright smart ass, yeah I'm getting my googly Asian slants straightened out LOL!

Go do some cardio and leave me alone! :D
about 4 hours ago via Echofon in reply to dpiercexxx

.Ugh! Ok.. so now $600 later, all I got is blurry eyes and some fucking flimsy Lady Gaga's!! (he meant shades)

about 4 hours ago via Echofon .

And now I'm feeling very proud of myself that after 6 years of denial.. I'm getting my eye sight fixed up! Finally admitting defeat is HARD!
about 5 hours ago via Echofon .POW! Been gettin tons of errands done today! Also got my AVN suit bought, fitted & altered. Almost set for some major partying this weekend!
about 5 hours ago via Echofon .

@LupeFuentesxxx Hope ur feelin much better today babe? Lots of water & lots of fruit ok? Let me know what's up with guest lists this w/e! Xo
about 13 hours ago via Echofon in reply to lupefuentesxxx




.@KatieKox Yeah and u looked damn good with it too, the truth is u always look gorgeous! I'll see u & Mr @RickBarcode at the weekend babe! :D

about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to katiekox

.@Laren Hope u slept well last night?

@LeeEroticArts U gotta be tripping, I ain't time?

@Gomezinsj Haha hate on man, I probably would too! :D

about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to LeeEroticArts

.@MizzKissyFace Nah I don't listen to gossip, if its true or it ain't I can't waste time watchin that bullshit. Peeps can run they own lives!

about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to MizzKissyFace

.Haha no sweat it's good of u to introduce me to ur peeps bro! Hope ur readers enjoy! :D RT @MOCBlogger Meet Keni Styles http://bit.ly/gVqdRC
about 16 hours ago via Echofon .Rise n grind muhfuggahs!! GRRR!! :D #NowPlaying Over here hustlin' -Birdman & Lil Wayne
about 16 hours ago via Echofon

Saturday, January 1, 2011

The 5 Immutable Laws Of Pick Up- by Sinn interview by afc adam

Wednesday, September 10, 2008
The 5 Immutable Laws Of Pick Up

Hooray hyperbolic titles!!!

Anyway here's a bit of what i teach on bootcamps. These are things that I think come as close as possible to being 100% true when picking girls up.

1. Ignore anything which cannot help you get the girl. This is the heart of being non-reactive, dealing with social pressure, whatever you wanna call it. You have to learn to ignore things, be they congruence tests or guys entering your sets. If it doesn't help you, it's useless and not worth giving attention to.

2. Always be cooler than the girl. Even if it's just .001% you always have to act as if you think she's not as cool as you. This can take the form of teasing, commanding, or simply not explaining yourself. Girls are just not evolutionarily programmed to be attracted to guys of equal or lesser status. It sucks but it's the way the world works.

3. ABC. Or always be closing as my buddy Entropy would say. As a man you must take all responsibility for escalation. From physically escalating to maintaining plausible deniability with her friends. Everything is up to you. Men are sexually aggressive, women are sexually receptive.

4. Saying something is better than saying nothing. When you see a girl you want to approach it is WAY easier to go in and mess it up than to sit around debating the different ways you could do it. Give yourself permission to fail. Because even trying puts you ahead of 99% of guys.

5. Thinking in field is the enemy. I always say " less thinking, more making moves." Which besides being a line I stole from a Dave Chapelle stand up special, applies to pick up perfectly. Thinking is the worst thing you can be doing when you're out. Actually maybe it's the second worst after talking about game. Instead let go of the outcome, recognize that you are on the plateau as George Leonard calls it in Mastery and put in the work. Do approaches, get blown out, learn. That's the only point of going out to game. Not to oggle and complain about how all the sets are too hard.

So those are my five rules of pick up. If you stick to those you should be off to a good start in your learning process.

S

Sunday, December 26, 2010

KEATON shares breaking rapport and adams game

Hi guys!

When i wrote a post about adam lyons' methos, many users of sdb wrote me a pm asking to clarify them how to use this method, because it isn't really clear from the ebook.

Before i begin to explain it, i have to tell you that, if you want to understand adam's method, you can get his vip archive using the search function.

Now, i will try to explain you how to use it.

In the eBook is explained very bad so i'm not surprised that you didn't understand it.

It is about creating comfort, breaking rapport and getting compliance until the fuck.

I'm not sure this is the real adam's method but it is how i interpreted it.
After the approach you must create comfort with your target, or the set in general. Comfort can be created through humor, through an interesting conversation, through connections, etc...

After the creation of comfort that is equal to rapport + trust, you must to break it.
This is when breaking rapport enters in action.
You can break rapport in many ways: you can use teasing, disqualification, disagreement, non-supplication, you can break it in a physical and sexual way too.

There are so many ways to break rapport. If you get adam lyons' vip
archive, you can find 81 ways to break rapport and a guide to qualification that is useful to the investment or compliance.

When you've broken rapport in a way that generates attraction, you're there. It's time to get compliance.

Adam explains only one of the techniques thanks to you can get compliance.

He, in fact, explains qualification very good in his ebook in his vip archive. He tells about investment, i will explain compliance. Compliance is investment. One of the techniques to get compliance is qualification. I will not explain it because you can find it in the vip archive.

I will not explain the other techniques to get compliance too, because the can be found in sexual selection switch by vin dicarlo and in theapproach's structured natural game compilation. They can be found bot on sdb through search function.


My method consists in this. I think it's an improvement of adam lyons' method because he explains ho to generate attraction and how to get the women invest in her attraction towards you. He don't consider another important aspect of attraction: attainability. I incorporated it in my method.



VAC method is really incredible because it tells about value, attainability and compliance to generate attraction. I didn't like it because i wanted a simpler method that fit with me so i generate attraction through breaking rapport and then use attainability and compliance techniques to fuck her.



So, my method is:



Create Comfort

Breaking Rapport

Deservedness (Attainability + Compliance)

Create comfort and breaking rapport are taken from adam's method, compliance techniques are taken from theapproach's guys and i have to say that compliance is the same as investment on which adam lyons' method is based.


I hope this post has clarified some concepts about adam's method.
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VAC method is the apporach by vin dicarlo and sebastian drake, sebastian drake is really good, he retired from dating scene.

I find di carlos stuff on female psycology and his shaping and mapping really good for qualification.

that is psycological background.

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Using Framing and Qualifying to Seduce Girls by Mr.M

Using Framing and Qualifying to Seduce Girls
Author: Mr.M

qualification


Many students on bootcamp get completely caught up on opening and attracting girls. While these are crucial steps, understanding qualification and the value of setting a qualifying frame is absolutely crucial to not only successfully getting a woman – but getting better with women generally. All of the most succesful guys I know, whether they’re naturally good – or learnt to be cool on the internet – make liberal use of framing and qualifying.

Why is Qualification So Important / Powerful In Seduction?
Qualification is surprisingly easy to apply but few people actually understand why it is so powerful. On the surface level, qualifying a woman allows her to feel that you like her for deeper reasons (other than her looks). She thus feels validated and more strongly connected to you. However, the effect of qualifying goes far deeper than this.

Almost all seduction technology replicates techniques and mindsets that ‘naturals’ adopt. A ‘natural’ is a man who has the lifestyle, social status, ability and/or characteristics of a sexual selector – i.e. a man who can get beautiful women and is thus pre-selected by women.

If you were this type of man – a sexual selector – then you would naturally qualify women because looks would become a prerequisite. It would take something more than tits and an ass to impress you. Interestingly, if you are in this frame of mind where you are inherently judging the person, then you immediately assume higher value.

Qualifying someone properly is, therefore, a very powerful signaling mechanism that you are a high value sexual selector. It signifies to women that beauty, in your world, is common, and that you expect far more than just looks. Qualifying a woman, if done correctly, challenges her to meet your standards, thus flipping the frame and making you the selector. This is the power of qualification – if applied correctly it should validate them but also get them chasing you because you are the one being sought after that the woman has to prove herself to.

I can’t tell you how many a situation I have been in when a woman has been falling all over herself to qualify to me. It’s a beautiful feeling.

How To Qualify
Try to approach this from a very natural perspective. Ask yourself – what do you want in a woman besides looks? Does this woman meet your standards as a human being? In Magic Bullets, Savoy says, “Figure out what you really want in a woman, and then take this a step further by asking yourself how a woman who possessed those characteristics would present herself. Now, spend your Qualification phase looking for precisely that. For example, among other things, I value intelligence and education. I screen for this in qualification, by asking her about books she has read and movies she has seen.” This is spot on.

I personally ask the following questions in qualification:

‘Cool people are a dying breed. What do you do for fun?’
‘I get the feeling that your job doesn’t completely fulfill you creatively. Do you have a passion outside of work?’
‘My ex used to say that there are two types of people in this world – boring and crazy. What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve done lately?’ (NB this is sometimes followed by – ‘where’s the craziest place you’ve had sex?’)
‘So what do you want to be when you grow up?’
‘What would you say are your 3 best qualities?’
Importantly, do not just IOI directly after the response that they give. I always inquire deeper into the interest/topic/issue. Only when they say something unique, should you actually give an IOI (or reward and relate) – see below for more on this.

Common Mistakes
Don’t simply give IOI’s for anything she says while qualifying. Try and inquire a little bit deeper and get some unique information out. Qualification is a form of connecting to the girl on a more emotional level. For example, is you say, “Are you adventurous?” and she says “Yes”, don’t just stop there! Ask her “So what’s the most adventurous thing you’ve done lately?” When she describes it to you, only then reward and relate. The point is to make her work a little bit for your approval.

Qualification can get boring if you’re not being inquiring. The crux point is this: the attraction phase is based more on wide rapport (i.e. multiple conversational threads, changing topics and transitioning incessantly). The qualification phase is based more on deep rapport (i.e. emotional connection, asking questions, reward and relating).

Don’t forget to sexually escalate during, and after, qualification. What I mean by sexual escalation is moving towards the kiss close and/or establishing sexual interest and/or establishing that you are a sexual threat. It’s fine to escalate during the qualification (in fact you should be doing this) but once you have actually qualified her, you definitely should escalate further. I might make a completely separate post of proper escalation if there is enough interest but for now, you can sexually escalate by any combination of the following: keeping strong eye contact (‘bedroom’ eyes), triangular gazing, lowering your tonality, allow conversation to gravitate towards sexual topics and keeping prolonged or more intimate kino (e.g. touch/hold her hands or touch back of neck if she is talking into her ear).

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Afc Adam London on social proof

Afc Adam London on social proof

Hey Guys,

Here's one of my threads on Social Proof game, This is pretty much where I concentrate all my efforts nowdays. I have a system in my life to try and capture the idea of social proof so that I can always use it when I sarge. I'll try to give some examples of this in some of my posts.

Social proof is essentially a means to generate Pre-selection, and Propinquity.

Pre-selection was a form of attraction that I feel was adequately outlined in a psychological test covered last year by Benedict Jones. The theory behind Pre-selection has been around since the mid 1900's and argueably before, however I feel this test sums it up more than well enough for our purposes.




The Test
Benedict Jones Test 05.02.06 participants first viewed eight pairs of male faces and indicated which face in each pair they preferred and how strongly they preferred it. Following this, participants viewed a slideshow where they saw the same pairs of male faces, but in which a woman was shown looking at one of the men in each pair with either a happy expression (i.e. smiling) or a relatively negative (i.e. neutral) expression. After the slide show, participants repeated the initial face preference test.




Results
For female participants, a paired samples t-test comparing the change in mean strength of preference for target faces in the happy and neutral conditions showed that the increase in preference for faces that were smiled at by women during the observation phase was greater than that for faces that were looked at by women with neutral expressions.

So we can see from the test that women generally prefere men that other women are already attracted to. As certain emotions can be ambiguous to see from a distance or without understanding the context; a harmless smile will often be perceived by others as a signature of attraction.

Therefore the more people you speak to in a room and leave feeling good about themselves with regards to you the more pre-selection you will generate. This could be done by anything from going around taking pictures of people, to getting everyone to dance, to buying everyone a drink, to just saying hi to everyone you meet.

However Social Proof is even more powerful as it also generates Propinquity, and this is a form of comfort.

Preselection = Attraction
Propinquity = Comfort

Attraction + Comfort = Lay

(Awsome formula eh? Who Said I was crap at maths.)


Propinquity is the term used to describe a physical proximity, special bond, or some form of kinship between things. Psychology views this is one of the leading triggers in interpersonal or social attraction. It roughly relates to being close to someone else in some form or another. This could be in physical terms, i.e you live in the same area as someone or not so physical, you both belong to the same association. The closer the proximity the higher the propinquity. For example those living on the same floor in a building have a higher propinquity than those on different floors.



In this Diagram we can see that A and B would both be attracted to C as C lies within both of A and B’s Circle. Likewise C would be attracted to both A and B and would have the option of choosing either. D is the outsider of the group, and therefore holds the lowest levels of attraction to any of the other parties.

The propinquity effect is the tendency for people to form friendships or romantic relationships with those whom they encounter often. In other words, relationships tend to be formed between those who have a high propinquity. It was first theorized by psychologists Leon Festinger, Stanley Schachter, Kurt Lewin and Kurt Bach in what came to be called as the Westgate studies conducted MIT university in 1950
Propinquity can be more than just physical distance. For example, residents of an apartment building living near a stairway tend to have more friends from other floors than others. Propinquity also applies to Social groups. These could consist of class mates, friendship social circles or even work colleagues, and explains the tendency for teachers to date teachers, members of the police force to date each other and so on.
In 1956 Alan C Kerckhoff conducted a study on residential propinquity, around 70% of the married couples lived within 20 blocks of their partner before marriage. This seems obvious when you think about it. Yet it is something people don’t really think about.

It seems strange to say that just being close to somebody generates attraction, yet if you notice the amount of IOI’s you get if you see a girl every morning on the same train, or from someone who lives in the apartment block opposite you. You will almost always begin to say hello every day. Obviously this isn’t the be all and end all, however it is the start. Social proof enables us to generate this regularly creating this initial spark whenever we vybe with a room showing that the room is our social circle and that they are part of it.

It is powerful because it is a passive form of game, When run correctly it enables you to get opened. My wing and best friend Jim Stark used this to close his incredibly hot current girlfriend who is a slim blonde model type and at least 6 inches taller than Jim. She actually asked him on the night.

"Who are you? Why does everyone seem to know you?"

The fact that it requires little outer game and instead primarily relies on having fun and possesing a sold Inner game frame to work from, makes it something that people can get to grips with easily without jeapodising their own personality.

It has been the basis of my game since I started in the community and is in my mind the reason I have done as well as I have so quickly. Though I am always looking to make myself better. I have seen past tutors and wings of mine stare at me as with only social proof and a few simple afc lines I have managed to close girls that blew them out previously. Then watched them completely alter their game to focus on Social Proof to amazing effect.

You want the magic pill? It doesn't exist. Social Proof is the next best thing.

AFC AdamLondon

Friday, April 23, 2010

My Dad corrected me my overexplaining sticking point

Hey I had that overexplaining and I cathc myself over and over doing it.

Today, I was trying to explain w " you have to understand..."

I got cut off by ,y dad as he said

"HEY dont waste your breath or salivia explaining, you are talking to me, Im older and wiser..... you dont have to explain, it is easy...and simple

I go to the point I dont go around the issue trying to understand why,

I just do what I have to do and go for it ...the rest I dont care"


so basically here he is teaching me a lesson.....

dont force other people to understand you , they wont always.
you can express yourself but dont try hard for them to try to get them to understand you or push too hard out of your way to do that- WAYNE DYER mentions that in his wonderful book on pulling your own strings...wher you become victimize by this...

He is right, I shouldnt....


I think Ive pushed myself too much into a one dimensioanl character.

I have to review my goals and review brian tracy's sceince of self confidence.


I have to breathe and meditate, talk to GOD.

be social again, try to get calibrated and not weepy.

I dotn really think I had that problem until now, or until Karrey explained about dont educate people what you are doing.


I taught that to Jorge.


I should leave from PICkup theory again, to regain practice and experience....I think Ive gotten too much info and inventive theories than practice.

and thats bad.

there has to be a balance..
like a diet and food.


Im happy cause my dad corrected me and he is Alpha....he is a sneaky guy and manipulative, I think Im turning into him a bit.


I saw a black guy standing talking to a girl her body language of the girl was more investing towards him.

I rememebr zellly the guy that had a one night stand with asisan girl in nyc.

guy is funny smooth and player at heart or at the club.

PU stuff is cool but overexplaining and getting too techinical SUCKS.

in a way Casey learned to be good with women the right way.

learning from community, sucks ass.

Im happy I will re unite with natural soon.

Im very happy.

when I was with natural I just heard entropy and some topo stack and sinn. swinggcats push pull prizing and sinns breathrough comnfort w SNLs.

attraction can be easily learned at any time.

It knowing when to spike BT

Ryan expalins well and asian playboy.
Adam knows breaking rapport no more than 3 times
entropy calibrates his breaking rapport

so I will post on BT stuff as a collective to review.


I loved 9 and 10 game and alpha male and high end club game and issues in qualification cause he relates to frames.


Mr M and braddock taught me more of awareness stuff I was lacking.

beign genuine not different and assume high value traits.

I want ot learn dance , yoga, and some sport.

I shoudl do improv and toastmasters stuff. Cool.


SUMMARY

Sticking point comes from my inner game , LSE and self dount of insecurity.

SO observing ego and cathcing yourself and especially if someone gives you feedback to calibrate is awesome.

that shit is rare.

thanks Dad :)

Monday, April 19, 2010

Breaking rapport in the beginning , spark attraction and change emotions

attraction emotional spark Breaking rapport natural did to gain attraction.
hey guys im wirtting this as Im keeping it through,

my attraction is based of entropys style.

obviously ELTOPO uses bodylanguage and kino to make her react attraction, actually sexual attraction feeling in her body by subtle touches and takeaways to push pull her bodily emotions to get her to react out of gut feeling of being sure she is attracted.instead of doing it verbally.
very advanced


I remeber how adam BR,

but nautral broke rapport like hitting on a girl and changing it to subtle and sexual..in away like a bdsm thing, but it made her feel sexual submissive.

I did once to a girl as I went in lab and she was there trying to do something and as she asked me I looked at her like upset or she was scred of me and as I went up to her before it got weird, I touched her hair that was in her eyes and It felt like that turned into attraction.

i didnt know where to take it after ward in terms of leading.

regular pickup is open, confort br - tease - qualify - comfort deep convo- isolate tm- close

with this its altering the process plus opening is attraction in that moment!


BEING A CHALLENGE TO A GIRL IS SEXY AND MAKE ME AND HER HORNY like to hear the thumping of our bodies as we are fucking sound.

you have to be uneedy and not really take her seriosu or not affect you emotionally, seriosuly as you give her a little but not all of you, she will chase.

mental thing for me the way to seduce a girl, the hunt of it than just going to fuck.

that is similar to the girl.... calibrating that is important.


FEAR (high value) reactiveness + tension + sensual touch = intense sexual attraction and high value.

thing is whether to go for makeout there since change of emotions is fast if you hesitate the emotions fades...

you are going to have to lead.


BDSM theory on that,cause it raises your value and control her emotions and makes her submissive, maybe I might have to look into it.

liek if she bumps into you , you get upset up to her ,cause her fear and then change emotions fast....JT talked about changes emotions fast and like ELTopo's emotional storm.Adam's BR or BDSM submissiveness....attraction triggers..but how you escalte from that do you RUN COMFORT or do you pump her BT, as you run comfor t run frames or vibe her energy.

Calibrated version would be measure her energy, mirror her, then slow abit and raise it , slow and raise it qualify, test waters......and timebridge.

MOMENTUM IS KEY AND KEEPING A RHYTHM

like dancing you lead dancing but you dance to the beat....

pace and lead.


steve does too aggressive and pulls back to release with funny vibe like kidding around, then he moves his body language.


so this might work in the begiing but in the middle it wouldnt I think.

I would habdle it as direct game ala badboy...run comfort with subtle sexual escalation.

adam's formula (C-R)+Q+S = A :)

opener then qualifyand sexual escalate at same time.

dominant alpha male game and make girls submissive.

Im evil genius, stop that you are making me like you.

Stop that, stop being cool...are you being enuine or are you saying that to make me like you.


ADAM I LOVE YOU ! =0)

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

STOP READING and go practice:Power move , subtle dominating of women by investing

One thing I added as a bonus to my game and changing how my communication was is that even is she was going to do something,I d tell her, or hint to do it.

I think Gary braodsky taught me that in his CD dominating women.

I get AA sometimes but Franco describes it best, AA is when you perceive her valkue is above yours....

So I think like oh its no big deal she is just like any other girl who breathes and shits and farts ..etc etc..

doesnt make her special doesnt it???

she actually has to prove herself a little and girls like to work for a guy, they buy them stuff thats how they are programmed to be.

So it becomes congruent and it deepens her investment towards me, more a girl invest the more she will like him. ADAM LYONS

whole concept of pickup isnt playing stupid games, its the overall leading you her to invest in you.
you have to cause her to backwards rational;ize that hey I must like this guy in her head.

thats part of of and instead of being PUSHY or too micoranalytical which I fucking HATE!

is keep seduction simple, its fun and easy.

thats how I got good, dangerously good.

dont waste time reading pu, start thinking how use investing and leading in every intereaction.

thats a power move.