hb sstripper minn retread

Guys I had to write this cause this opened my mind and got me actively pursuing wo any force or neediness.I used her non responsive apathetic flake behaviour to my advantage without me doing "anything".I will explain much detail as possible hoping you learn advanced stripper game. Its the shiznick!.will comeback and write detail.got to sleep now to wake up early in morning.one of recent breakthrough due to my inner game awakening as mentioned in my recent post on this forum.I will post on my private blog aswell keeping this exclusive stripper Game material you won't find anywhere else.no bs just pure psycology 101 and investment theory. Key to any woman.even a stripper pro if you keep your strong frame without bending or pouting. Peace

sorry it took me awhile to write this but I found it awesome.
if you read stripper FR the one that wanted to fuck her that same night then this is the same girl we will mention here.

I had planned to go to office holiday party and invite this hot chick to social proof me.Ive lost several pounds just reducing my caloric intake and few carbs and cardio mornin and night.

I looked tone down in few days believe it or not,its all in power of determination and persistance. which I mention in my post.

I recontacted stripper and we had short banter texts, then not to be needy or eager sent her laid back texts, I dont do any high energy texts unless chick is young inexperienced and I gauged her personality type before so I screen ALL girls with rapport.

so since she was vague and shit tested me by text to go to the club to her work instead of date or after work, I wouldnt respond or she would create a vaccum a space for me to chase.
this is a hot 27 stripper who is a pro 6yrs doing this is considered a PRO  you guys.this is byfar pua's worst nightmare for anytype of gaming, typical MM based stripper game doesnt work!

that being said. I tried reinitiate response with Breaking rapport and qualifier. she didnt respond.


that same night my friend was hosting bachelor party and he invited me out, I was there and some insights on game and inner game came to me. my calibration was onpoint, microcalibration review of theory and just taking my own advice of moving on to the next and leading.

I noticed as I came in everybody sees you, its same as club game night game. but your state has to be in a weird way outside the place, like buddist monk. your inner peace has to be incheck prior opening girls. also be there to hang out not to join other guys staring at chicks.


my friend took me aside and started talking to me and social proof me in ridiculous ways youd never imagine, vip room ,everywhere he even took me in privately to talk.
 he doesnt give a a fuck.he is a shark and he is soo good he pulls strings to make people spend money. he says hi to everybody and he tips everygirl in the club to say hi.basic social proof, he isnt there to game just to say hi and earn respect. he is a shark and knows the GAME.

 so I lead the group to sit on the ideal place to actually game girls, I never talk any game stuff even when Im winging someone, NEVER, pua theory and analyzing is worst enemy.

taking action is better step  than just thinking about it and dwelling about it in game.

so I led and start bt spiking the guys, being cool friendliness   normal and back and forth. then girls started swarming and eventhough I bought my own drink, they offered to buy me drink cause they thought I was super cool guy. We were all having a good time better than they were before I was leading. then we got bottel of champagen and we were the loudest there at the club

then in that good state I text this chick, hey im at your work.lol

she responds Im here too where?

Im like yeah whatever yes im here w bachelor party group

upstairs

no,Im w x frend from management.

then Im talking to this cool guy from the group  and we are
laughin and having a great time and then he taps me on my shoulder and tells me hey this chick is looking for you.

LOL LOL LOL

yes its her, she looks at me and says OMG
she sits down next to me and we look at each other.
I feel chemistry all around great vibe, I give her some dom perignon to sip and have her leg on my lap. I told her I didnt recognize her cause its been so long. and tease her.
she was being herself now. she looked cute but very different from what I pictured her in my head.less attractive but cute.

I build comfort talkign about her kid and she opened up and complimented her doing a good job. and asked her out next day for a meetup she was hesitant at first and it was legitimate time constraint  I pulled back saying thats too bad, I wanted to see you before you left for the holidays. she told me when she was leaving and when she was coming back I went in a dhv about her hometown and me ,which was an anchor and she offered to take me out if Id stopped by.

this vibe was soooo different from the texting vibe she gave off.
in person conversation and rapport and arousal is better for closing in person the same night.

you can try by text but only after you have exchanged good attraction first and really set the stage to have her chase you or open to have her contact you or sublte ways of making her invest and comply, little by little makes it a habit and she backwards rationalize that she likes you, more than what she thinks and it validates her emotions.

this has to be SOLID game and blueprint to any girl.

so after I threw in for next day and she told her to text her next day. we were staring at each others eyes like we both werent at the club. we were going to make out but thats a no no for management.
Im a shark
I threw in that I brought the guys in and making money for the club.which is DHV in disguise only smelled by strippers that IM not a customer.

I told her I have to get up early and liked to see her again.
she was being genuine and all, she isnt all too feminine but she is very open minded and she talks what she thinks.

she is abit crazy, crazy in good way and crazy in not a good way.that means that I can not take this girl emotionally serious what she says and what she does,

any flake  any nonresponsive text cant affect me at all.
she is down to have a guy lead her,period.

problem is that she is really needing money for her kid. and it overides any of her own needs right now.or relationships.

I can go deep in this Im sure but I think it would fuck me up mentally and it would drain me to have this high end GF when Im just broke and starting off my career.

also she is crazy in her won world cause she has belief she can have a good time with anyone but she believes to be paid for her time.regardless, she is trying to survive not bad way but its her way of coping with her own living.
so its alot of baggage, I can text her to meet up I know what time she told me is good time to meet with her by herself,

no date no waste of time conversation,
we emotionally connect fast when we see each other
so its there.

but she is looking for a provider and she is a PRO and she is logical with this shit.
so its a rare and hard call.

the fucking isnt the problem.its after the 1st fucking and expectations. guys are probably offering her money to fuck her so thats reinforces her belief of ALL guys being providers.

find the hidden gems in this peace and disregard the end cause its a sure lay. LOL

Miami FRs stir crazy and playhouse tuesday

I think franctionation fucks me up and makes pickup harder on myself in the middle of comfort qualification.




cause I have to re engage her.they come back more aggressive stripper wanting a dance, fiending for money.

here in miami girls dance and then make rounds ask everybody in the club for tips if you dont tip they scream at you and give you an attitude to stay home.

My response was "I didnt see you dance" or "you arent my type" or

Im unreactive as she is screaming at me she tells me to be cheap to stay home.(latina and black women do this)

set jordanian from chicago

she is 33 yrs old recently moved from chicago ex bf cheated on her and she moved here months ago.

I ran cosmo routine and all and she seemed PRO, I find out she did this since 19 and traveled,

she at end tried to make me a customer to get a dance.

She talked about random shit and I made her talk about herself. it was a battle of topics. she didnt want to talk about herself.



I was talking abot what she likes in a man and shed talk but change topics

She complained about money I send her off she d come back she come as a different person

as if she forgotten all about our conversation

, at the end I told her to meet up outside and she was NO.

I said Laters. she want complying with sexy whisper in my ear cali pimp style.



I think franctionation fucks me up and makes pickup harder on myself cause I have to re engage her.they come back more stripper wanting a dance.I dont know what to say whne they complain about money.



philly noise ring girl

was super cool at start was receptive to Emotions and touching and all

and we were talking about eating afterwards.She agreed , she was feeling attraction and was chillin.

then she told me that she is visitng and that first night stripping in miami and that she travels drives from philly and she is going back tomorrow and she needs to amke money and place is DEAD.



I sent her to make money (fractionate ) there are like 3 chumps

she came back waaay later after her chillin at the bar with her friend (girl from phillly she drove with )

and going to the dressing room an

and she told me that she needed money.and when she came back she said I need you to help me , Im leaving soon

if you can get a dance with me ,

I said I told you im not a customer but lets go get a bite to eat like we planned. you know I dont want nothing from you just you seem cool girl and this conversation we have meeting you is rare thing you know , Cmon lets go eat my treat. :).

she said NO. Im just asking for a last dance cause Im leaving.

help me make money I need, tonoght was a shitty night.



I said nah Im not down with that dance thing Im not typical customer guy who comes in to watch chicks I came here to kill time remember.



No dance then fine,I'm leaving bye.



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I think fractionation in the middle of comfort is fucking me up.

another thing is that I have to get there late as fuck or shift change

its like the game goes smooth they get into it m then when they talk about money issues

I send them off to talk to other guys, they come back a different person.

then its an uphill battle.

they become pushy for a dance and they lie saying that they are being themselves and all

but they get super logical afterwards about money and financial situation sucks.

its like they are desperate for money eventhough its an off night they push hard.

not sure if I should start screening girls from pros and non pros

but this is what happened.

ny suggestions help

Miami is 7-8 times harder than Georgia.

FRs: 2 Georgia Strippers

FRs: 2 Georgia Strippers


March 26,2011

INTRO

So lately my state was down days ago cause in Miami I didn’t get approached by any girl except a black girl who asked me for tip,I had my back to the stage sitting infront of the bar. Then the last time before that one I was FR: chubby Cuban chick non pro set counting her money.

Anyways I was in ATL to do personal school stuff was busy most of the time.Im into red hair girls blondes and Southern accents.It was a good break from Latinas in Miami who give me headaches and drama.So before I left Georgia last night. I went to strip club and had 2 great sets.

1 is REDHAIR NON PRO and other

2 NYC Army chick

I messed up and couldnt close logistically the bounce.



PART 1 is REDHAIR NON PRO Stripper

So I arrived at the place and I sat down perfect location and made it look like I was the shit, I was super confident had a smile made eye contact with almost every girl and was dressed well in comparison to dive bar lounge type of strip club, this strip club wasn’t high class but the girls were TOP and HOT.

So I sit down and laid back I have a waitress get me red bull, and REDHAIR comes sits next to me, she says something and I use my ear signaling to talk louder to get closer.she does and she sits down next to me,

I cut her off and tell her “that accent” (push pull)

she says insecure “are you making fun of my accent”,

“you are from boston””that accent”

Her:I was born in Ohio but grew up here in Georgia. “are you making fun of my accent”,

Nah I like that accent ;) she laughs.

I tell her what color is your hair, she says auburn, I tell her what the color of my eyes, she says hazel and looks at me smilling, why are you looking at me that way please slow down woman! J

Anyways you seem chill and friendly tell me about yourself abit.she tells me about the dances and services and I tell her I stoped by until stops raining and I have to hit the road to Miami.

I cut her off again and told her to stand up “how tall are you?” got her to turn around a couple of times and bend over “ Pimp” style. She told me that she simple girl don’t go out much and all.Laid back.how she grew up all her life in Georgia and never left Georgia.she started saying that she was doing it for the money and that really is the worst stripper there cause the boss tells her she isn’t aggressive enough. And that she is laid back and stoped giving a shit about people said or thought about her.I qualified her about what you got going more than your looks, I say cool and go into a child story on how I had a crush on a red head girl in 5th grade and one day she left the school, everybody teased her but I thought she was cute and had a crush on her but never saw her again. She laughs and I qualify her again if she is being herself or trying to get me to like her and that Im not that easy is she being herself, she says she is and qualify her “where did personality come from” she didn’t want to tell me if she had sisters and brothers and she was reserved about her name.so I went into Cosmo pattern. (Captain Jack’s routine)

she said butterflies and we began eye contact each other and she told me I get stage fright when I look into someones eye,Im honestly insecure and I don’t usually talk like this to people I don’t talk much,I throw in a cold read on laid back and chill yet likes to enjoy being with her man. She says Ive been hurt and I dated a Mexican guy once but I got hurt and I don’t want to let anyone inside my heart anymore.

I asked her If she has ever tried a latin lover Brazilian guy before? She laughs

I went into incredible connection pattern with check in’s.

Puts her head against my chest. She Lets me caress her face and ask her do you feel comfortable with me,she said YES.

she was staring at me like about to make out but we were surround by music and people and chicks dancing naked in front of us,I offered her a drink and she said no thanks.I cant drink because I will be running to bathroom every minute.I laugh and tell her to stop being cool and funny I m starting to like her.

How about a drink outside since they don’t serve alcohol here.

She said “I get off by 1 am.” It was 10:30pm. What can you do to get off early I got to leave hit the road. She said I cant leave my shift I have to make money also . I sent her off to make money and come back . she does and says “ok I will go make rounds.”

Some chubby blonde waitress comes in aggressively start trying to touch my cock and starts flirting with me while REDHAIR is smoking and watching from afar,I get a water and I tip waitress on the table instead of her panties. Tried to get her off me ,cause she is being really aggressive and I didn’t want to make REDHAIR. jealous since I ran deep comfort.I haven’t given her a single dime .

RED HAIR watches from afar and Im alone like a dork. Im getting uneasy waiting for the bitch to come back and its been 15 minutes. Then REDHEAD comes in sits next to me and says she is dancing on the stage next, I tell her to talk to my ear cant hear her she whispers in my ear and I tell her to pretend she is a naughty girl and if she can say

“ I’m a naughty Georgia girl” I bite my lip and hairpull her she looks at me and suddenly they call her and goes on stage.

I look at her eye and not her body as she is dancing, she SUCKS at stage but shows her nice body. No guys tip her and I put some 3 dollars on the table near her. She finishes the dance and goes to thank all the guys who tipped her, she takes another 10 minutes I was like WTF. She comes back and she tells me that she sucks and that she isn’t into dancing on the pole. We then make fun of another chick dancing on the pole and has Peach or apricot on her chest, she laughs and then I qualify her being cool and being herself and she say “Im easy girl, you can take me anywhere and I would be fine” I reward her.

Then I get abit clueless where to go from there and ask her to ask for the time, she goes and its 11 something. I try to get her to bounce and says” I haven’t made enough money tonight I suck.”Amangement wont let me leave. Then I transition to tell me more about what attracts you to a guy you started to notice about him you become really attracted.She gets upset and uneasy and says

” I told you! I don’t know I just know , OK, I have to go do something “

She leaves pissed off and talks to guys at the door and goes to bathroom. I don’t see her anymore.

I don’t know what to do , I though it was going well and I thought to go bring her back to the table or tell her “please Im asking a question Im curious about you etc…” or “whats wrong babe come back”

But I instead let it go, I actually when we were before her dance we were deep comfort and thought it was on. Now she walks off pissed. I over did the elicitation of what feeling she feels and got uneasy and left. I thought she was super cool and we are both pisces and a week away from our birthdays. Our personality and clicked and I was attracted to her dude to her being herself and being feminine .FUCK!

I go to bathroom later and I see her with some Filipino guy who looks like Mr.M .lol in skater clothing playing pool , I look at him and he looks at me, she bends over for him to shoot the pool ball.

I walk by her but she doesn’t look at me and I decide not to talk to her. FUCK. I was feeling abit jealous cause I was building deep rapport with her. I felt One-it is feeling and I told myself go have fun.





Part 2 NYC Army Stripper

So I call waitress and go to bathroom. I make eye contact with some girls,So far Im most confident guy with a suave strut walk and smirk on my face. I go sit down and ask waitress to go bring REDHEAD to me, then a hot brunnete with lip piercing 6’11 thin swagger girl sits down and puts her hand on my leg and escalates,I say “HEY, SLOW DOWN”.

She then starts asking me my name I say “bamboo, I didn’t bring in my pull out pants tonight I’m on downlow” she laughs and

I say “yeah I am kindah of a BIG DEAL”

she says “Ohh you are funny and cocky”

I say : “Im glad you like it”and smile.

WAITRESS COMES IN AND TELLS ME TO BUY HER A DRINK

I say “I don’t know her she just sat down, we haven’t even talked yet ”

The WAITRESS TRIES TO BE RUDE and the chick says “its fine ” and humbly ARMY CHICK pays for it herself.

Theres a moment of silence and she looks down on the floor and look

She asks “do you have kids?”

ME: “well we could work on that, but I think its kindah early in the relationship to talk about it”

She flips out laughing and hits me on my chest.

She asks where Im from and she tells me she is from nyc originally and she has 2 kids (this hot chick is smoking hot and in shape tanned and all and she is like 21)



She starts opening up she is in the ARMY in Georgia and she dances for fun and make money. She seems super cool and wild party chick, I run COSMO pattern and she isn’t into it, I try again and she says “compatibility” I go “so what feeling is it when you know you are compatible with guy you know you are attracted to and knew its was on …in a very special way?”

she says “I just know”. She looks up and I touch her arm,and I say “ so it’s a gut feeling “

“yes “ I go for incredible connection pattern and she says I really don’t attach myself to guys I go out with guys and 3 weeks later I dump them, I like to do my own thing no control. We fluff talk and I make her laugh and tell her to stop turning me on,and I pull her hair BDSM style.I start using basic SNL frames with Fluff non judgemental no consequences,sex isn’t a big thing ,some guys are needy after sex.

and qualify her what makes her different from the other girls here. “that I can be myself ”.

She asked me that why am I dressed up well, I tell her I usually dress like this. She says “I usually don’t see a guy like you coming here” I say that’s sweet thanks. And smirk back. I make her whisper shit in my ear in a sexy way.

She then goes up for a dance. She opens her pussy on stage and does the pole shit, I was looking at her eyes and she would look down.I tip on the table 3 bucks and other girsl are just looking at me and smiling. She came back and told me she would go thank the guys for tips and someone tipped her 20 bucks or something. I felt she was on some drug, not drunk but on a downer. She seemed too ADD to build strong comfort used snl frames instead. And I only tried to arouse her with hairpull and touch and trying her to get her to tell me “Im a naughty ARMY girl”. I felt stuck with her cause I wouldn’t figure out how to sexual arouse her or what to do next.

When she comes back to sit down next to me I tell her to wait for me here as Im going to restroom real quick. As I come back she leaves her panties on my table and I see her afar

I see she is w some dude standing next to her and puts her arm round him like about to make out or sexually teasing him.

I felt myself abit Jealous and I drank my water and walked out.

FR cuban stripper

FR HBcuban non pro stripper:

I went tonight cause I had an arguement and wanted to watch the a basketball game,ok so I wanted to game strippers as a self challenge.so I went cause I know a manager, he wasnt there and shift had just changed ,Its been awhile I havent set foot in a strip club.

there was a cuban voluptous 20 yr old really hot . we will call her HB Cuban Strip and I opened saying that
she has sexy way to her body its too bad she isnt a blonde. her body is soo my type but the hair color is off
(false disqualifier push -pull) she laughed and asked me where Im from ?
I said you are surely a Miami girl right?
she said : I'm cuban in spanish.
I said in english "Oh I'm from NY." she kept smiled at the mixed compliment in her head.
I told her hey lets talk to go make money and come back.


She then came back and sat next to me then I said cool you took me by surprise back so fast ? are the guys being cheap tonight?(me being an insider)she saw what I was drinking and she said OMG thats my favorite drink then she asked me in alow voice tone if I could invite her a drink (I saw this as too soon and a shit test for me to invest like every chump) I cut her off by saying "I see you have good taste , thats a good start." "what else are you good at?"

she then starts pulling out her bills and start counting her one dollar bills infront of me, it was like the size of my fist.
I then went pause and clueless what discussion topic or how to trabsition as she was coming back to sit next to me .

So she was like (OK why isnt he talking?) so I started watching the game again, so then I reintiated conversation by random thing that wasnt going anywhere and she looked at me like WTF? then I transition with I mean you are kindah cute "I think you would do fine here and in vegas too" (I was trying out a stupid routine but it didnt stick )
"you need to work on somethings here and there" (me being an insider, a critique from a manager to elicit qualification keep her on her toes) , abit insecure she said "oh why vegas,why not here?"
then she thought I was an asshole cause she didnt know vegas is capital of the world in strip clubs,
it was obvious she was a non pro at that point.
I had just screened out a proffesional materialista from a normal chick that just got into this recently.
I failed to try to explain or calibrate was in damage control it but it was too late,she got confused and she said "enjoy your night" she got up and walked to the table infront of me.

a group of older men.she them started to flirt with them and she got them to get her a drink.
she was having conversation with one specific guy there and I acted like I didnt give a shit.

HB Cuban Strip bodylanguage was towards me and she kept looking at me to see of I noticed her or getting me to react jealous, but I started flirting hardcore to other girls that would come,
I started to BT spike the other dancers and frame their touching me as "Ooh theres something about that touch, its like when my last freaky GF would want sex"
"you must be really sweet girl but a naughty girl behind closed doors"
and it seem to work to grab attention get them to kino me infront of HB Cuban Strip.
Some other girl came back just to kiss my neck, but some man with money took her away.

She d look at me and she play with her hair over and over everytime she would look at ,e with ocrner of her eyes Id have a smile on my face or not giving a shit being in my own space being cool in my own skin.Enjoying my time.

HB Cuban Strip was definately a non pro.a pro doesnt sit with a guy for a long time she loses money.

the problem now was I kept getting interupted by girls wanting tips as I tried to watch the game.

anyways HB Cuban Strip was in typical vibbing mode with thw older men group and the manager pulled her away to put her on the stage, i went to bathroom.
when she came around my way she was plain rude and asked me "my tip please" with a disgusted face.

(I remember that she is a latina, aside from the typical stripper persona )

I didnt want to seem reactive or jealous and yet no be a passive bottom who tolerates bad behaviour so I told her
"hey whatsup" to get her to stay to talk and she said "my tip for my dance"
I said "a dance now? Im getting warmed up now lets talk for a bit" she said "its only one dollar okay!" I said
"yeah so it shouldnt be a big deal right? come back after you make some more money so we can talk "

she walked away pissed and then she sat infront with the older guys again and she still look towards me and play with her hair.Still corner of her eye.

Weird , I blew the set and I tried gaming the other chicks there but they seem more pros than her. directly asking for the money and no talk.

anyways I walked out cause I kept getting half of my drink taken away as if I had finished and was kindah pissed off about that.
I asked when the manager of the shift came and they told me he had left.so I bailed out.
but I was smelling like women or like If I had just fucked a chick. weird night messed up a bit but Im looking at some stuff I got to work on.


Some points i learned here:

*If you want to take her home same night avoid weekend busy nights.

*Dont get drunk or drink more than one drink of alcohol.Cause your perceptions of diferentiating IOIs from Fake IOIs become more difficult.So you can easily fall for a trap.

*Dont over NEG.some girls are Pros and some are local 7s that are kindah new.the latter are too insecure so any NEG or mixed signal that she doesnt understand what you are talking about seems like you are a JERK.Best thing is to break her state right before asking you for a tip or a dance, beat her to it and lead the convo you do a takeaway of telling her to do her job and to comeback you want to tell her something.

*As you talk with her figure out get her to talk more than you, its hard at first but its good for practice and compliment her by you throwing in some releases or softners like

"you are just saying that to make me like you"
"stop being a copy cat,I cant talk to you anymore"
"I bet you are a really sweet outside of this world"
"are you being real with me here"

*Make her prove herself, example:ask about that tatoo she has and what does it mean, usually its her middle name and call her by that name her real name. (you start talking to the real person not stripper) act like you are with her yet its cool she is there to make money, send her off to chumps .(this is a compliance ladder like pimp game)

*Dont DROOL over how HOT she is.Be chill and yet be proactive and get her to talk more about herself. Show dominance.Then you tell her that you find her somewhat cool but you are guessing she is being real with you, (this is to get her to prove herself by being real if she leaves the club with you or how she is outside the enviroment)This is tricky cause most are LSE girls so its bordeline comfort of being too interested with show of dominance, you judge her actions her identity.once you convince her of knowing her by her talking about herself and you throw cold reads, she is convinced you know her then you LEAD by dominance get her to get dressed and go out of the club or meet up after the shift etc.
( showing you are a leader higher value in her world,pimp game?)*prerequiste she has to think you know her well by her qualifying herself and opening more about herself (MIrror rapport with slight disinterest, LSE)

* be somewhat challenging to please not like the eager guys to give out money to any girl just because she asks him ,he isn't obligated to do so.
she will respect you inside but outside it will piss her off a bit yet be cooler than her and non reactive.


*You dont have to dhv that you dated a stripper before, it makes you seem like a loser or a try hard liar.Make her assume by your behaviour that you are preselected.It doesnt work telling her in the venue.

*As a requirement before you go to these places Get yourself in state that you are awesome and you love yourself.Reaffirm your frame control as here you can get easily sucked into her frame and end up overspending in exchange for nothing.Remember that strippers or dancers have massive frame control with her pussy power.She acts out of social norms to make a living.Calibrate how you would treat any girl you just met,dont be eager to buy her dances or drinks to keep her attention cause she will intrepret you as any typical guy who goes there for fun and wont take you seriously to get you laid for free.

*Push yourself to experiment within your conversation with these women,even if you mess up you will have fun and learn something out of it.Conversation skills here are crucial any flinch while you have starting to build attraction to you ,the hesitation or self doubt will kill it within a quarter of a second and you are done gaming her.

*Reframe any behaviour as her being insecure and her being another pretty face.Remeber that they are master of social pressure mirror them and reframe any sort of shit test .papa sandros

stripper pickup LR from mystery's studetn, interesting stuff on baiting

So this report is how I actually F Closed a stripper while using a jealous plotline with a girl I was text gaming at the same time. It literally got to a point where I turned to the stripper and said... "I gotta run... unless there's a better offer on the table."

Yes... I Full Montied a stripper HB9 last night.. But the reason for this report is to get some feedback on what I did and whether or not you guys think this is repeatable in the same or other circumstances. I didn't think of that idea until this morning.

Brief Overview:
I went to my favorite strip club where I know several of the dancers (dated a few, boinked a few and just friendly with a few more) the bartenders and the bouncers. I have great social value there.
Before I went in I was texting this HB8.5 I had dated a few weeks back, just trying to see if I could arrange something for later in the evening.

So... like I said before... when you finish reading this... I want you to consider whether or not I could or should replicate this "WITHOUT" the actual HB8.5 texting me. Hell it could have been some wing in the same club with me sitting at a different table with a script.

About me.... I am 42 ( I know... a little older than most of you guys) I am very good looking and have the benefit of age; a great career, plenty of cash and the time to keep myself in better shape than most 30 year olds. I have all the goodies that come with it. Nice clothes, Mercedes, Icy Rolex, bitchin house, bling... yada yada. Suffice it to say that I peacock in a whole different way and that is classy, sophisticated, well groomed.

So how did I F Close a 23 year old HB9 last night? Glad you asked.

I stroll in and head straight to the bar where my favorite hired gun is pouring. She runs around so she can give me a big hug and chat for a second. She looks great and I tell her so. She blushes and asks what she can get me. I had been out drinking earlier watching Monday Night football so by that time I just wanted some bottled water. I tell her and she brings it to me saying it's on her. I thank her and ask her to break a $20 into singles. She does and I slide her $3 back for the effort. She gives me that, "awww... you are too fucking sweet" grin and glance. I wink and walk away.

I head to my usual table that is at the base of the stairs to the center stage. I am not up on the outer ring of the stage, but at a table of my own just an aisle's width away from it. I can see everything, but I don't look like an AFC staring up at the girls as they swipe dollar after dollar during their routines. I do tip them as they come off stage as though it were an afterthought as it's not required and nobody else in the house not sitting at the stage ever does it. It sets me apart without looking like a chump. I even get the HB9 you're about to meet to do it for me on occasion.

My state is good : "I don't give a fuck... I come here for the food"
My body posture is good: Turned 45 degrees to the stage sort of laid back and to the side, legs outstretched, nonchalant, paying little attention to the girl on stage.

I'm not there more than 10 seconds and this stripper (HB9) walks up and sits down at my table next to me. Now she is sitting next to me, but since I am 45 degrees to the stage, she is sort of sitting to my back. I never turn to face her. Instead I almost completely ignore the fact that she is there.

5 seconds pass without me acknowledging her and finally...

HB9: Hi
Me: nod
HB9: How's your night going.
I wait a few beats to answer as I size her up with my eyes then finally...
Me: Well I have been here all of 8 seconds and I was beginning to wonder what took you so long. (neg)
HB9: laughs... You're used to getting jumped as soon as you walk in huh?
Me: I am used to getting jumped in the parking lot
HB9 Laughs "What's your name?"
I roll my eyes in an exaggerated manner as though I am thinking of a name to give her.
HB9: What are you trying to think of a name?
ME: What's your name?
HB9: Nickey
ME: Is that YOUR real name?
HB9: No... That's my stripper name. Aren't I entitled to a stripper name?
ME:If you want me to call you Nickey then you have to call me (I roll eyes again for a second) Brock.
HB9:Brock huh?
ME: As far as you know.

She then says something to the effect of.. I have never heard of a customer using a fake name before. And I told her that I wasn't a customer. I told her that I knew several of the girls and others from the club, rattled off some names blah blah blah... This immediately took her out of Gun Mode and she started to open up about herself outside the club. We started chatting and got into C1.

At this point I had my phone on the table and it started to vibrate. She glanced at it... I glanced at it. Finally she asks if I am going to answer it. I pick it up and it is a response form the HB8.5 I had been texting/gaming prior to entering the club. Here is where it gets interesting.
I can't type every text back and forth but I think you'll get the idea and the concept of what I was doing and hope to repeat in the future.

HB8.5: Are you home or are you out?

I show it to the stripper and ask her how I should respond. That's basically what I did with each of the subsequent texts. I actually engaged her in what I should say next to the HB8.5 she didn't know and had her trying to help me hook up a booty call. IMPORTANT POINT: I told the HB9 to hold my phone between texts. I was trying to lock her in with it. But instead of letting her hold it in her hands... I made her hold it between her legs. That way each time there was a response back from the HB8.5 she got stimulated by the vibration on her clit. It got really fun after a while and she LOVED it. It made her want to keep the text game going on and on.

ME: I'm out at... (strip club name)
HB8.5: Is Frankie all over you? (Frankie is one of the girls I used to date)
ME: No... but Nickey is.
HB8.5: Who's Nickey
ME: Some chick not hot enough to dance on Saturday nights. Jealous?
this came off as a pretty funny neg with the HB9 sitting there reading what I was writing. She hit me and laughed.
HB8.5: Maybe... Did you want me to come over tonight or are you making plans with NICKEY?
ME: No plans... yet.

Anyway... it went on like that for a while as Nickey (HB9) and I were chatting and building comfort. She finally got up to take her turn on stage and begged me to come sit around the stage. I AFC'd and complied but you had to be there to know that it was her qualifying to me more than anything. She didn't pay any attention to any one of the 20 other people sitting there and kept coming over and talking to me during her routine. It was obvious she was going the extra mile during her routine and kept checking to see if I was paying attention. At one point I wasn't because some chick customer was sitting next to me dry humping my leg for some reason.

After her routine I high fived her from the stage and gave her an approving look. The girl had skills and she deserved to be appreciated a little. It made her feel good but as soon as I returned to my table and she scampered over to join me again, I returned to state and body languaged her out a little.

She escalated kino and not in a stripper way, but in a "I need comfort" sort of way. I let her hold my hand and lean into me a little. She would try to stare me down and I wouldn't let her. Each time she would smile and blush away before I did.

The text game continued and after about an hour and a half (now midnight) of this the HB8.5 texts me...

HB8.5: So do you want me to cum over?

I show it to the HB9 and say

ME:"I gotta run... unless there's a better offer on the table."

The next bit is almost exactly from Brady's VH1 performance.

HB9: I can't... I don't get off until 2
ME: Do you work for them or do you work for yourself?
HB9: I work for myself.
ME: So you can leave any time you want.
HB9: Yeah.. but...
ME: Let's go
HB9: I can't go like this... I would need to tell the DJ and change first.
ME: Do it.

She looked at me for just a second and I turned to head out. She grabbed my arm and said... WAIT. She ran to the Dj and got a nod... what she said to him I have no idea. She ran to the dressing room and put on a long overcoat and came out with a big smile and we headed for the car.

On the way home I texted the HB8.5 a few times to let her down easy and preserve the right to call again in the future... all the while making the HB9 hold the phone between her legs each time. HB9 was so fucking hot and bothered by it that when we finally got to my place, she practically climaxed sucking my cock.

I am not going to bore you with the details of the sex, but there was no LMR and she was energetic to say the least.

So.... I realize I didn't give all the texts and such, but I got to thinking this morning... I don't really need the HB8.5 to do the texting. I think I could repeat this or at least field test it a few times with a wing sitting at another table with a script or at least some notes and a concept of how it should go. It seemed to work like a charm and the vibrating phone between her legs was a definite winner. I wouldn't want to risk DLVing if I tried it again with an actual HB on the other line who possibly tells me to go fuck myself or something.

Your thoughts and comments are welcomed.

OLD LR post rejection ,pre getting good. 2009

I want to write cause I had an experince.
I got rejected a week later from my birthday when Molly was attracted to me and I was frat boy coming on too strong...that pulled her back.
2nd was the 3am woman, who Franco pointed out good advice..also from Jesse.

But first thing first is that after rejection and already warmup..I mean I was doing improv and I think improv is great, plus I was being more funny.. I used to make girls laugh which is a BT Spike itself.

So i was pissed and I then called a girl, she was cute her name was I dont know...stripper.
yeah and I called her and then teased her mehow style , "wait are you really coming or are you going to flake on me ? causeif not Im calling someone else, i mean im not sure about you if you are a flaky flake.. : ) and if you are really worth it"

she responded as in her accepting the challenge and she seemed attracted.

at this point i was basically taking her off customer frame and going with break rapport and calibration to get her to qualify herself..
this seems risky but I was on fire...I was warmed up and witty ;)

so she coems in with her freind and I do mehow spin, and assukme rapport, as they come in and then girl leaves, the friend..Im sure they both came to see me...anywyas, she came in and she was on and about .. I was so on that I
sat on my couch at the lounge red velvet..and wanted to have her strip to me , she then said she has never stripped for anyone so I then reverse roles and strip for her as Im provoking her and me being the tease and she says Im the tease here, we almost made out.. but I felt she was attracted...
she told me she was Bi and more LEsbian.. LACEY !!!!!

yeah so then I grab her and pick her up as she was my GF..I assue like we were GF BF sex..

then I offer her a drink she said water, ok then I show her to my bedroom all blue...
nice there we lay on the bed and I start kissing her neck and tits, she is really friendly and I go to eat her pussy good, we go 69...

she then pulls out a condom.. we fuck and I took a pill I think a viagra..
so then I think we fuck twice i came twice..she was wet and really enhoying it...I remember that after sex , like badboy said once, women become more open and receptive...so I then did cosmo routine on her and anchored it by touching her.. we went to lounge and she started asking me if I had a GF and if I was a player..I thnk i told er that i might not seee her again, she got abit sad and then I changed her emotions abit by hugging her.
I think I was practicing push pull and emotions..its like confusing but it works I think rsd ryan said that not sure...irts push pull..emoitonal 101s etc
ButI really liked her.

I remember I got a call from her whenI was over at another place at my friends, also i kindah fucked up causeI invited her to opening of saphires...I never showed up which is terrible... but I got a call and it was saturaday and she said she wanted to see me and not to pay her and she wanted to hang out..I was caught by surpirse and I fucked up by hesitating and telling her why she com eto see me...UGGH!! this is awful what I did I was still pregame gettin good..I sabotaged myself here terribly...
thenI treid to call her and she didnt pickup the phone, I never heard from her again.

she was beautiful.... but I think using NLP when she is invested she will backwards rationalize that she is attracted to me, also the mehow stuff did work for abit, it was a mix of mehow and swinggcat tbh..Improv helped calibrate aLOT!!!
anywas this can be done using challengeing and then NLP post sex to get her to like you.
Patterns work

MY SEDUCTION GOALS AS PER 2010 Miami

1-Get a GF for conveience

2- keep getting better at game and manipulation

3-learn cult control and self control

4- LEARN to MASTER HIRED GUNS

5- start a rotation


later:

learn BDSM, have a Threesome this year

nuff said bitches!

stripper writes up what she likes in a man and my observations

I agree with each dancer is unique and generalizing, but here's what i look for:

*Intelligent (typically has a bachelor's or higher) I will not date a man that works at Walmart and has no ambition.
*Pays for dinner the first few months, then I'm ok with dutch
*Animal lover. Sorry no hunters
*No bad boys, been over that since high school
* No ghetto, hillbilly, or extreme rocker types. ( you can like the music, but don't act or dress like it)
* Outgoing, but doesn't crave attention. Optimistic
*Makes me feel good about myself
*Independent, has his own friends and does not live at home
*doesn't brag or look down on others
*Dresses well
*Can adapt to various environments (can spend a night in a honkey tonk bar, yet is comfortable in an upscale martini bar)
*Obviously good looking by my standards: Caucasian, above 5 '10 , not overweight, muscles are great ,but not a necessity. Clean hygiene, no facial hair, prefer short hair(think Ricki Martin hair) but will make exceptions
* Will help around the house.
* "Normal" in the bedroom. Not into swinging, threesomes, or extreme crazy fetishes

Dating a stripper by KimbO

OK guys, I want to tell you something in regards to strippers, sometimes we wonder what it would be like to have a girlfriend who is a stripper, well me tell you what it is like to date a stripper and some important things you have to remember when you are dating one.

My girlfriend is a stripper, and it is the second time I am dating a girl who is working as a stripper, the first time I dated a stripper, it was all going good, until I cheated on her, which was not good. So it had nothing to do with her working as a stripper I was fin with that. Now that I am dating one again I am still ok with it, as I look at it differently, so here are some things you should remember if you happened to be dating a stripper.

1.Make sure she for real, (just test her on a few things) if you happened to meet her first at the club then meet her a few times there, and find out if she likes you, and ask her if she like to meet you outside of the club for a date. Remember if she likes you she will find a way to meet you outside, and when she shows up for the date, you know she likes you.

2.Don’t expect here to be any different then any other women, when you are with her on a date, she is women and will act like it, and off course don`t talk about her work, she does not want to talk about that, she don`t want you too look at her as easy, but like women.

3.If you should be able to get her home to you one her first date, (wish is 50/50 chance just like any other women) and you are both feeling hot an heavy, she might give you a private strip show, and believe me it will be good, at least it has been for me. But when you have sex, don`t think she will be freaky, or do a bunch of things because most likely she want, I know that I am still waiting for my new girl to give me head, she has not don that yet, and she not a big fan of doggystyl either. My first girl like to give head, but then again she was from the US, and my new girl is from Europe.

4.When you are dating here, you have to be secure, and don`t be worried that she will be going out with other guys, or that she will find somebody else at the club, trust me she wont, she Is dating you, and the chance of here meeting someone else there are very slim, there is a bigger chance that she would find somebody else if she was having a regular type of job.
5.ONE very importing to remember, DO NOT go and visit her at her job, she does not come and visit you at your job, right so the same thing applies here. It is not comfortable for neither one of you.

One thing I will say it is a lot of funn dating a stripper, if you like women who likes to dress sexy, and they will give you private strip shows, and trust me they are lot more funn then the once you get at a strip club.

So there you have it guys, a few tips for you if you happened to date or would like to date a grille who Is a stripper. I am not saying this goes for girls who are strippers, but this is my experience. I might have been very lucky, because both of them have been very organized, and tidy with there things and money, and they have been very straight forward with me always, like I said I am cheated on the first one, so shame on me, oh and one more thing, if you get her to go with you to strip club, trust you will be treated with like a real VIP they love when couples comes into the strip club.

sirslick aka bonsai talks stripper game

5 Reasons Why You Want to Learn How to Pick up a Stripper to Improve Your Game
Posted at November 8, 2009 Picking up exotic dancers (“strippers”) at strip clubs are the hardest girls you will ever pick up. These gorgeous girls are there to work and make money. They are not there to meet a guy. These hired guns are aware that every guy in the strip club wants them.

It is one skill set to take a beautiful woman home from a bar or club, but totally another skill set to pick up a stripper while she is working. You need tighter game and your margin for error with strippers is almost zero. It’s required to have really good cold approach game before you even want to try to pick up an exotic dancer at a strip club. Stripper game takes cold approach skills times ten.

If you can pick up an exotic dancer at a strip club, you can pick up girls anywhere. Learning how to pick up a stripper is a valuable skill set and will complement your game in many areas. Here are 5 reasons why you want to learn stripper game in order to improve your cold approach game.

1. Get comfortable around beautiful women.
A lot of guys have no problem approaching average or good looking girls, but when that 9 or 10 comes along they freeze. It’s because they aren’t comfortable being around exceptionally beautiful women. If you are around beautiful women all the time you will desensitize yourself from their beauty. You will learn that hot girls are no different from normal girls. You will stop putting them on a pedestal and you will never think again that “she is out of your league.” Sometimes it takes dating a couple really hot girls to discover this. If you haven’t yet, your best option is to surround yourself with really beautiful women all the time and through osmosis pick up the subtle cues.

The thing is, exceptionally beautiful women are hard to find. Getting access to these turbo girls is the hardest part. You need to be around a lot of beautiful women to learn how they think and act. Fortunately, strip clubs are open 7 days/week and filled with the hottest girls with a wide variety of girls your city has to offer.

When you’re in a strip club, it looks like you have the power. You sit down and wait for a hot girl to approach you. You get what you see. That smoking hot girl that is half naked will sit on your lap, touch you and have a conversation with you. When she leaves, the next hot half naked girl will approach you. If you go plenty of times to strip clubs then eventually you will get used having hot girls around you. Plus, once you have good game and start dating a couple of them you will learn that these girls are just like any other girl.

Just because they are exotic dancers doesn’t mean anything to you anymore. She is just another pretty girl. Subsequently, every hot girl now you approach will sense through your subcommunications that you have been around hot girls like her. That automatically makes you look confident and she will automatically assume positive traits about you (preselection).

2. Test of your conversational and frame control skills.
Stripper game focuses a lot on verbal communication. Your body language and subcommunications are still very important, but your conversation becomes more important in stripper game than normal cold approach game. You are seated with her on your lap or she is seated next to you. As soon you start talking the clock starts ticking. You need to be able to steer the conversation to your advantage and escalate verbally along the way. You need to disengage her mind that she is in the strip club to make money by having a good and interesting conversation. Time and money are your biggest enemies in a strip club.

Exotic dancers have no tolerance for bullshit. If they can sense you’re not going to fork over the money, they’re gone. So they will test your frame and break it as soon as they can. They don’t want to waste time so they will test you a lot. If you flinch or fail the test (you get no chance to recover from failure with strippers) you lose and she is off to the next guy. That’s why your margin for error with exotic dancers is so small because their tolerance level is so low. It’s your job to maintain control of the conversation and don’t let her hijack your frame and conversation. Remember, these girls are gamers. They game you for money and you are gaming a gamer. It’s the clash of titans and the one with the stronger frame wins. You better be the one with the stronger frame. Practicing frame control techniques is great in strip clubs because these girls will constantly test you for it. The Don, a god when it comes to picking up strippers, summarizes it in one sentence: “You might be $60 an hour interesting, but are you $200 an hour interesting?”

3. Makes your attraction game diverse and fluid.
Getting girls attracted to you is not very hard. Anyone who has done over a couple hundred approaches can even tell you this. Attraction can be generated in seconds, but with strippers this is a lot harder and you need all three types of attraction effectively used. Mr M dissected the different types of attraction in his post The Comprehensive Guide to Attraction. For the sake of this article, we will focus on three types of attraction: state based, intrigue based, and warm and fuzzy attraction. Most guys can get away with either being really good at just one of these types of attraction. Some guys are naturally good at being funny and silly (state based), others can be very interesting and mysterious (intrigue based), while some guys can also show, besides their masculine traits, their softer side (warm and fuzzy).

In order to successfully pick up a stripper, you need to be able to do all of them multiple times throughout the pickup. In cold approach you might get away with just being with building one type of attraction, but that doesn’t work with strippers. You need to be able to pump up her emotions (state based), get her logical mind engaged (intrigue based), and make her feel connected to you on a deeper level (warm and fuzzy) all mixed with each other and fluidly transition between them. When you can make an exotic dancer attracted to you, that’s a good barometer of how strong your attraction game is. You are able to use all three types of attraction to make any girl feel attracted to you. Before you might have gotten away by just utilizing one type of attraction, but after you learn stripper game you can use all three types of attraction building techniques to make virtually any girl attracted to you.

4. Really good qualification.
You came to the strip club to see some tits and ass. These girls are aware of that as soon you step in the strip club. They know already that you like them for their beauty. Every guy does. To successfully pick up a stripper you need to show her that you don’t like her just for her beauty, but also for personality and other non-physical characteristics. This is very difficult because you’re going into their territory where men generally are going after the women for just their beauty and body. At the same time that’s their power but you have to flip the script where you are the sexual selector. You do this by running VERY GOOD qualification and giving her compliments that make her feel validated. Remember, qualification is key for building good rapport and comfort with her. Without qualification, she won’t feel validated by you nor invested in you. Qualification for exotic dancers is not much different, but it needs to be tighter.

Strippers get compliments on their beauty all the time but never for non-physical characteristics, like their personality, sense of humor, ambitions, beliefs, and so on. It’s not good enough to show her that you like her for non-physical things. It’s necessary, but not sufficient. You really need to hit her hard on different personality characteristics in order for an exotic dancer feel validated by you and to make her invest in you. By getting her invested in you she will backwards rationalize that she’s attracted to you (cognitive dissonance) and you open the door for building comfort with her. If you can do this with strippers, you can do it to any girl and it will be even more powerful.

5. Solid comfort game.
Building an emotional connection is essential for exotic dancers and the majority part of stripper game is going to be comfort game. This is different from night game where you don’t always have to have a strong emotional connection and the majority is attraction game. For picking up strippers you need regular comfort game but it has be tight, flow, and make her feel so connected that she almost is crying because of the rollercoaster of emotions she is feeling. It’s regular comfort game on steroids.

Even though these girls are among the hottest girls in your city, you have to remember they are just like any girl. They have insecurities, are sick of being judged, misunderstood, and guys just wanting them for their body. Plus other annoyances every hot girl has. If you can show her that you understand her by running wide and deep rapport then she will feel strongly connected to you and validated. That emotional connection has to be really strong because strippers are among the flakiest people you will ever meet. You thought that hot club girl was flaky? Multiply that times ten with strippers.

One thing you need to keep in mind with stripper game is this: SILENCE IS DEATH. That goes back to having good conversational skills. If you let the conversation die for just a little bit, she will get back to her routine trying to get money from you. You’ll need to be able to talk, talk, talk, and talk. If you can’t run your mouth for long periods of time, you will not be able to pick up a stripper. That doesn’t mean you can just rant. You have to talk to her that is emotionally appealing and that makes her feel connected to you unlike any guy she has ever met.

In a cold approach setting you can wander off, reopen later, do hard takeaways and all that. With strippers, not so much. As soon you two are talking, you’ll have to get to work by continually running your mouth. That doesn’t mean that she can’t say anything back or that it’s a monologue, but the main idea is that the conversation can NEVER die. You need to build this particular skill set. This immensely helps your game for on dates. In a stripper pick up you constantly need to be talking but on a date you can slow it down while running the same comfort game to make her feel connected and validated by you. Ever since I acquired this comfort game, I’ve been able to sleep with a majority of girls on the first date.

Are you discouraged learning stripper game? Don’t be intimidated by stripper game because it’s actually easy to learn. I learned it in a short span of time, but I definitely credit this by taking the Strippers and Hired Guns seminar by Braddock and The Don. They teach you a model for picking up strippers so you can learn it step-by-step and you will know that to do. They will also give you material you can use so you know what to say and when to say it. Now I regularly date strippers which are perfect for friends with benefits relationships (that’s what I want right now in my life). I credit my stripper game 100% on that seminar. If you want to learn how to pick up strippers, definitely check it out.

FR:Level change in game and sticking points.looking to do a 30 day challenge

FR :Went out with a cool wing... he is a VA insructor....

but alot of this I noticed from him and need to model him.


GIRLS LIKE GUYS WITH " A D D" don' t be logical

Play the badboy by dominance and leading and breaking rapport
and compassionate nice guy by hugging her and smiling at her..compiments on her personality

Hey I had to write this up eventhough I have challenges aside from this skillset

-issues at school
-friendships lost
-Financial and Future matters

Today,
DAYGAME subway
NIGHTCLUB GAME upscale
STRIPPER GAME at 2 places


I did day game in subway ... situational opener obsevation then Comfort+coldread +Qualification

(rinse and repeat and throw in a tease and light kino)
If she is nice and creaive person qualifier I run the Love Poem pattern then elicit value by qualifying afterwards reward...


Direct on NYC Subway is too creepy dont do it.... only if she AI and you want to



My bday is coming up .. and My confidence level went up...but I have somewhere a bit of sticking points:

-Dance Floor GAME is a PLUS in NYC - a mistake in it you get blown out
-Lack of Leading the intraction -they get bored and I have to put more fun or be more funny and playful
-I had 2 girls hardcore qualifiying and interested but didnt get anywhere
-I had to run it and LEAD
-Too dependent at waiting for signs
-Not escalating
-Cant come up with a creative complement instead of "cool and awesome" sounds too vague
-Dont look up and stop talking or act distracted you are shooting yourself either you talk and lead or Qualify
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MICROCALIBRATION ( must read review fom Sinn's notes)

In convo when to tease when to neg

when to go kino and energy of opener I either tooo high

different ways to reward to her instead of just a "nice"

Different of Giving Value and being easy: Give value is lightly use, calibrate with takeways then end it with a smile.

Practice giving her Male Stripper role play.

then ask : "Im going to this after party afterwards, what are you doing later?"


CALIBRATE in TEXT GAME :If she doesn't repond you TEXT: FLAKE

Dont over pursue her and take 20 minutes to repond dont over respond too quickly and too eager.
that kills attraction and she knows that you are into her...GAME OVER


Notice your bodylanguage ticks when you are under social pressure or see a beautiful woman....

Strippers are FEMALE MASTER GAMERS!

Use Mystery's I had past GF....Go make money and come back.

Practice you being a tease....

Ask her when on a week day where she goes on a day off to get a drink

PURSUE or CHASE : DO NOTHING just have FUN and Qualify
anyone can number close but number close has strength when you do it SOLID
if not dont worry or ovrthink women give ou their number to anyone


What you do for a living? --NOthing

have her ask you and get her o ask you and response more playful and interact

WRITE IT UP ?!!!!!! BITCH!!!!!!

KNOW HOW TO TIP the difference of being cheap and being taken advantage
Tip and invest:

if waitress complains of the tip ask her to give it back...

Strippers dont date customers unless you run jealousy and dont so her too much interst and treat her like a bud and not like cusomer yet you tip the dancers on the stage but not the girls wanting to give you a dance...

OBSERVATION : HE gets her invested by being friendly then funny then serious for a second then smile and tease....

Dont run sexual stuff on convo..hat will get her into worker mode.

social anxiety excersizes , tone th convesation, facial expression correction on mirror, conversation excersizes, BHRR compliment and back it woth Confidence!


GET A FUCKIN COOL LIGHTER !

KNOW HOW TO GET NUMBER CLOSE have a card and know how o ninja number close

Know


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THINGS TO TAKE AWAY FROM STRIPPER GAME:

Too much comfort too early
remove the "what makes you unique ,different or special" in qualification
travel questions or where in the world
dont talk about money
STOP going very personal withtout small hoops qualification its
COMFORT
ELIMINATE Response likeevery other boring guy
AVOID connection patterns they avoid feeling and seem aware of NLPor hypnosis


YES: GO EXTREMELY PLAYFUL TEASE LIGHTLY WITH KINO
BE DESCISSIVE
COMPLEMENT on herPERSONALITY and challenge her ala Sinn Hired Gun game
B-H-R-R is very Effective
Buy the manager a Drink
know how to respond to her stack and microcalibration:
I f she is direct you say : " Not right now but YES! maybe Later" : )
BE Happy and playful :
Add a funny calibrator into COSMO routine so her BT is up before eliciting and its more compliant
USE sinn 's Cold reads

Review ELTOPO POST ON Stripper game

Write up a Stack

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Showed me he was talking and texting w a major PUA well known guy....

we went to a fancy place all in suits and ties except us.... be social guy with the people that work there talk about their night ...

know another bar nearby if you isolate...

When she had an olive I oped my mouth and she didnt comply and I should have said " Greedy Bitch"

Don't over do the goofball and or dork use lightly ............once and dont repeat it comes too insulting...

calibrate her emotions in the interaction.


I WILL WRITE MORE AND ORGANIZE MY THOUGHTS I LEARNED ALOT...

The persuassion book and audiobook on the TOP RIGHT OF THE BLOG is soo money in seduction and easily related to everyday things we observe in our everyday life yet we are unaware of it... AKA elusive obvious ?

PRACTICAL STUFF WITHOUT THEORY THAT WORKS..... Im starting to apply itonmy personality and mindframe in desciscions in set. SALESMAN theory to get people to like you without being dancing monkey.
being appraochable and confident.


I will consider recording my sets and doing a 30 day daygame night game stripper game rotation challenge
is based on Brad's RSD way of how her got good super fast...

NEW YORK is definte playground for this....

My way of "cheating" AA to warm up

Hey I woke up and did vocal excersizes, I also sang like practicing for karaoke which helps a bit as warm ups...

I wrote up to a couple of online biaches which my online game experimentation...

Once again Entropy kicks ass with his personalized game theory...I believe you should stick with what works for you.

Sinn explains it brilliantly in his Game Doctrine ebook...its also one of the reasons to work more into myself and not focus entirely on too much theory...

Sinn as an excellent instructor he is , gave a couple of excersizes inn his SNL course...

One of which I took and made it to work on different levels instead of one objective...

"I like to turn one fish and multiply it as much as I can" concept

Remember I am more of a "keep it simple" type of guy...

I failed and got confused as a newbie, and I still consider myself a newbie to keep working at it...
cause of all these PUA terminology I found confusing in the beginning.

Its like reading a book on skateboarding and it tells you how to manuver the "ollie"
or whatever.

DUDE! You aren't going to go out there and freakin get it right! C'mon!

I support that coaching or taking a bootcamp is ALWAYS good!.... and make the effort to work with the BEST!

So I give credit to Sinn on this concept I came up with based on the stripper game excersizes to coop with my AA or sexual anxiety when I see an attractive woman ....

Note:
Im not scared of guys btw or mixed sets.I'm normal guy and not a nerd, so this might or might not work for you...


My version of "WARM UP STRIPPER EXCERSIZE "

I might change the name of this concept and call it the

"Dennis Rodman game warm up"

I love basketball and Dennis Rodman is badboy and wanna be rockstar.

He was running stripper auditions during New Year in Miami.

So....

We want to accomplish pushing ourselves to open, and interact with beautiful women..apearing without any agenda in the beginning... GET YOURSELF IN STATE !

For me , this makes it a big difference when you are progressively keeping yourself motivated...that's what keep the guys coming from a bootcamp from losing that edge.


I go to a strip club, run basic hired gun game or act uninterested in a sexual way but....

RUN HIGH END EYE CONTACT.
BREATHE NORMALLY under pressure while you are talking to a beautiful woman.
RELEASE ALL AT ONCE THE STRESS under social pressure.
Practice Your Sexual Attractive Body language -which it to show you are attractive man.
ACT CONFIDENT and qualify her, try something you wouldn't do if you were at a club doing your first set of the night on a HB 10...
THEY will come to You, this will eliminate the burden of you making up
EXCUSES-the 1# ENEMY of SUCCESS
TALK YOUR ASS OFF-you are there to practice not only to enjoy yourself but use the venue to your advantage,the way you dress, carry yourself will differ from the perv customers.run verbal game do takeaways without pissing her off from stripper mode ,if she pushes you to tip her or something dont be a LOSER and do what CHUMPS in there do.Run ignore game and ignore her stupid remark,you gainj more by practicing verbal game and being challenge while going beyond and thats the focus point of the excersize.

Dont go everyday or something like that, this is only when you fell down or rusty will get you back and refreshed, dont over do it ,it may be habit forming.

LAST BUT NOT LEAST, PRACTICE!

It doesn't matter is she is really into you or not ...

Who the fuck cares?!

Its how YOU feel ,Your MINDSET....YOUR STATE.

Its why its called a WARM UP.


WHOA!

I think this is way better than other guys stuff on getting into state but whatever

DO IT and watch what happens after you leave the club...

Go directly to a bar or to a club nearby and open immediately to first girl you see and keep your momentum going..remmeber what you are doing is fooling your beliefs that you are comfortable and warmed up to be with attractive women..women will catch this about you or even smell it on you..LOL!

Notice how you are not nervous cause hey you were with a more attractive woman, what makes you special?

YOU say that in your head and you will naturally and effortlessly start to qualify her....

(this is because you are acting uneedy while beinginterested in her as a woman,you leave the strip club all horny by seeing these hot chicks with their bodies of course its natural for you to be horny lol so the effects are like its a motivator in one side masculine sexual stilmulus plus the selective uneediness blah blah bla

Its a very vague concept but Hey ,When it works, Stick with it .period.

This way you are like the ultimate male in your head,whatever that means to you...for me it is like a RockStar...a Rockstar dentist!

COOL!

try it and leave your comment...


sandro