Seduction is 100% an emotional process. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. All of the lines, tricks, theories, fashion, frames and routines we learn and use are simply tools to create a desired emotional outcome — they’re a means, not an ends.
The Greatest Feeling in the World is when you and a woman are so intimate emotionally, that the physical limitations of your body become stifling. You yearn to melt one another and mix yourselves into some kind of concoction. Sex is a by-product of this process; the ultimate act of physical intimacy. A last-ditch effort to become one with one-another.
When you have The Greatest Feeling in the World, logistics fall by the wayside. The idea of LMR is as absurd as returning money you just won in the lottery. Cockblocks, if they even existed, would be helpless to penetrate your new-found love-bubble. Creating an entire system and library of pick up theory around the banal goal of simply fucking, sells ourselves short. It goes much further than that. Move the goal posts back: aim for the Greatest Feeling in the World, and sex becomes merely a pleasurable side-effect.
It’s always been assumed that it took dating someone months or even years to reach this place. But it can be reached in a matter of hours. And she doesn’t even have to speak your language…
11PM: Buenos Aires. Tourist bar. Mostly Europeans and a few Americans (boring), but also a smattering of South American travelers (more interesting). Quality is mediocre. I seek out the hottest girl there. Found her. She looks Brazilian — as only Brazilians have a smorgasbord of mixed genetics like her. Upon further inspection, she is way, way over-dressed for this place (typical Brazilian behavior) and doesn’t shy away from eye contact when made (only Brazilian girls do this).
She’s talking to two guys. Can’t tell if they’re with her or if they just opened her. I’m busy scavenging for munchies, as I hadn’t eaten yet that night.
We catch eye contact again. Has to be Brazilian. I interrupt their conversation, “You must be Brazilian.” She smiles, “Yes, how did you know?” in broken English. The guys are definitely not with her. They try to remain engaged in the conversation, but it’s apparent within a few minutes that I’m the only one she wants to talk to. They each drop off within a few minutes.
1AM: Dancing. Spinning. Falling (figuratively, not literally). Light kissing. We’re inseparable now. The bubble is forming. No one else dares speak to us. We’re either dancing together, or I’m sitting with my arms wrapped around her. We physically don’t disconnect, ever.
She speaks A+ Portuguese, B+ Spanish and C- English; I speak A+ English, B- Spanish and D Portuguese. Conversations are a linguistic jungle-gym, falling in and out of all three languages. We don’t understand half the shit the other one says. But verbal mis-fires are more than compensated with smiles, eye contact and touch. Remember, the words don’t matter, only the emotions they create.
3AM: Leaving the club now. We lost track of the main group of tourists hours ago although we don’t really care. We made a token effort to figure out which bar they went to, but really it was an excuse for us to do something together. Taxi!
5AM: At my hostel, with my laptop, we buy tickets for a getaway at a beach resort about 5 hours outside Buenos Aires. We book a room on the beach together and plan on leaving the next day.
We’re on day three of our little tryst right now. This is the first time I’ve done an “insta-vacation” with a girl, and I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t a little nervous going through with it. But it’s been fine, wonderful even. Our bubble is slowly fading, as the long days together have forced reality to set in a little bit. We’re not in love. We’re not going to get married and have a million babies. We probably won’t even keep in touch. And that’s OK.
But we still love each other’s company. We still laugh together, dance together in inappropriate places, and over-dress everywhere we go and make heads turn, as we are Brazilian and American, and that’s what we do.
On the beach, with her perfect body and tiny bikini (thong), she rubs sun tan lotion on me every afternoon. Every night, we bang and she lives up to the hype of every Brazilian stereotype I’ve heard.
I’m her “American Revolution,” she’s my “Capirinha.” We speak to each other in broken Spanish. We’re creating memories together. And for only a week, we occasionally share The Greatest Feeling in the World.
Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Monday, June 14, 2010
Saturday, April 17, 2010
Boring sex DESTROYS relationships -Routine
Gabriel moore said :
As time goes on, it’s only natural that certain things become normal or mundane inside the bedroom. Sadly, if you let things be ordinary for too long, then everything from foreplay to the actual sex act becomes a routine. And deep inside you, you KNOW this spells disaster for any relationship, right? Even if you and your partner love each other and stay together, it’s still best to opt for an exciting life than a boring one.
I used soemthing to this I got it from badboy's youtube video I think but its awesome, it shows female psycology preseleccion.always be subtle:
I try got her to accept about how important sex is for me, the truth about some relationships when its more of the same thing, sex becomes a rouitne and relationship suffers and dies.Sex ,With me is important to keep it excitng and vibrant, makes a relationship spark and __________wild .
As time goes on, it’s only natural that certain things become normal or mundane inside the bedroom. Sadly, if you let things be ordinary for too long, then everything from foreplay to the actual sex act becomes a routine. And deep inside you, you KNOW this spells disaster for any relationship, right? Even if you and your partner love each other and stay together, it’s still best to opt for an exciting life than a boring one.
I used soemthing to this I got it from badboy's youtube video I think but its awesome, it shows female psycology preseleccion.always be subtle:
I try got her to accept about how important sex is for me, the truth about some relationships when its more of the same thing, sex becomes a rouitne and relationship suffers and dies.Sex ,With me is important to keep it excitng and vibrant, makes a relationship spark and __________wild .
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
truth pua talks about relationship management review
Merit of different relationship management products
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The merit of any product is partly whether it addresses your sticking points/fills you in where you had no clue, as well as how well it does that. Savoy's products fills in a huge hole in how to signal, smoothly, for what kind of relationship you want. It also has some unique stuff on screening for relationships, including whether she'll cheat, be down for threesomes, and whether she's got long term potential. The signaling for what kind of relationship you want is far and away the biggest hole in the community that this product plugs. LS does have 2 interview series that answer questions that aren't that well answered in this product, Take Aways and Boundaries, as well as the interview on Tests. Also Tenmagnet has a bunch of great posts, mostly on TAF but some probably on the Lounge, on how to set boundaries, and there are a lot of posts from community blogs, LS included, that give a few strategies in handling tests. There's also this post http://www.theattractionforums.com/d...y-subject.html, and even though I figured out most of that, it went into my file/notes.
The Approach's MYSD is probably my favorite product because it fully answers all of the questions that it brings up, even though it didn't address all of my questions. That's one thing you can't say about Savoy's product, unfortunately.
If you want solid advice on how to make your relationship last and be fulfilling, go to The Approach. If you want advice on how to select the right woman in the first place, I'd combine David Shade's Select Women Wisely, Joseph Lieberman's "You Can Read Anyone" (especially part 2), as well as The Approach and Savoy's advice.
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The merit of any product is partly whether it addresses your sticking points/fills you in where you had no clue, as well as how well it does that. Savoy's products fills in a huge hole in how to signal, smoothly, for what kind of relationship you want. It also has some unique stuff on screening for relationships, including whether she'll cheat, be down for threesomes, and whether she's got long term potential. The signaling for what kind of relationship you want is far and away the biggest hole in the community that this product plugs. LS does have 2 interview series that answer questions that aren't that well answered in this product, Take Aways and Boundaries, as well as the interview on Tests. Also Tenmagnet has a bunch of great posts, mostly on TAF but some probably on the Lounge, on how to set boundaries, and there are a lot of posts from community blogs, LS included, that give a few strategies in handling tests. There's also this post http://www.theattractionforums.com/d...y-subject.html, and even though I figured out most of that, it went into my file/notes.
The Approach's MYSD is probably my favorite product because it fully answers all of the questions that it brings up, even though it didn't address all of my questions. That's one thing you can't say about Savoy's product, unfortunately.
If you want solid advice on how to make your relationship last and be fulfilling, go to The Approach. If you want advice on how to select the right woman in the first place, I'd combine David Shade's Select Women Wisely, Joseph Lieberman's "You Can Read Anyone" (especially part 2), as well as The Approach and Savoy's advice.
Saturday, February 13, 2010
relationships advice
Retention Rate Strategies
Jay Valens on February 12th, 2010
These strategies shouldn’t really be necessary to spell out, but perhaps it’s not common sense to a lot of guys.
Thinking about it more, these strategies weren’t common sense to me ages ago, but now I know better. Rather than make you stumble in the dark any further, I present you with some high-quality strategies to keep women in your life, not just pick them up. Not just any women, but the ones you want.
I’ve been in the midst of the pickup world for quite a long time now and I can tell you for sure I’ve seen so many guys do so many things wrong that ultimately avoiding those mistakes is more than half the battle, so I’ll split this into things to do and things to NOT do.
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DO NOT:
Expect to “be yourself” after the pickup. Do not expect to be able to not change. Changing on the surface is not change. Throwing on a fuzzy hat or boa around your neck to get initial attention does not change who you are. Whatever & whoever you are when you meet her and when you follow through with her is how you are stuck being FOREVER if you want to keep her. Kinda sucks, huh? So don’t throw on masks that you ultimately don’t want to merge into who you are.
To improve, you must change, but that change must be something that is something you want and not just a quick fix you can take out & put away as needed.
DO NOT:
Be incongruent. Just because a rock star and a cowboy are both archetypes that women have fantasies about, and just because you might be able to pull off either persona, does not mean going back-and-forth in persona will do anything but make every girl with at least 2 brain cells run away from you very fast. You’re better off being a consistent geek who at least likes who he is than acting one way one minute and another way the second.
This does not mean being unpredictable is bad. Actually, it’s one of the traits you should have. It means don’t try to be more than one person to the girl. Be the identity you want, become the identity you’d like to be, and stick with it.
DO NOT:
Talk game to a girl. Just because you’re learning how to improve your life with women doesn’t mean you have to explain it to them. Do you know how much women read about how to figure out men on a daily basis? Never mind that the advice they get is mostly rubbish, but how often do you hear a girl “talking game” to you about how much she’s figured out men. Your first thought will be “psycho”.
DO NOT:
Lose your manners or cool. Just because you’re using a new understanding of social dynamics doesn’t mean that being rude or dissing basic social norms will lead to anything but a dry feeling in your pants. Maybe on a rare occasion it helps but most of the time such a strategy will backfire. Even when you’re being sexually adventurous with a girl, even if you’re emanating the “bad boy” vibe, there is still a baseline of social normalcy which you must have.
DO NOT:
Constantly contact her. Even when a girl is contacting you daily doesn’t mean you have to initiate as often, or even near as often.
DO NOT:
Change to cater to her. Change only when it suits you to better yourself. Do not change for anyone except yourself.
DO NOT:
Expect a one night stand to be anything more. Holding back to wait, presuming the circumstance allows, keeps the right door open. This one is tricky, because you have to be able to differentiate between an actual limited opportunity and one where there is little or no time constraint for you. Until you reach the point of being able to differentiate, do always go for all opportunities but just keep in mind that you can’t expect one night stands to become something more.
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DO:
Follow through. If you leave a girl hanging without releasing the tension, her resentment will grow. That doesn’t mean not to create tension in the first place, it means that you can’t dangle carrots without eventually offering a reward once she’s earned it.
DO:
Experiment. If you do the same thing with her all the time, you will bore her. Don’t get too comfortable in your routines. be willing to break out of them.
DO:
Set expectations early on. The sooner after initially having sex, the better. Establish understandings early on. Frame the relationship in your terms. Take the lead and make sure that, as the relationship progresses, you are always in a position of benefit but also regularly in position to GIVE to keep things well-balanced.
DO:
Give her freedom, as much as she needs. You can still keep her reined by merely having a lifestyle and control over your own life that keeps her gravitating toward you, but you should be able to let go of ALL jealousy and only show it when it will escalate her attraction to you.
DO:
Be interested in her. Not just her body. Her. If you’re only interested in her because of her body, and this is not something she’s aware of, eventually by your own actions you’ll lose her.
DO:
Be the one who takes charge. Don’t wait for her to wait for you. Make the decision on plans and follow through.
DO:
Enjoy your own life. Don’t depend on her or her interests to be your life. You had interests before her, you’ll have interests whether she’s around or not. If she feels that you’re attaching yourself to her life and giving up aspects of your own life to do so then she’ll lose interest in you.
DO:
Get get AOTP:TT :)
Jay Valens on February 12th, 2010
These strategies shouldn’t really be necessary to spell out, but perhaps it’s not common sense to a lot of guys.
Thinking about it more, these strategies weren’t common sense to me ages ago, but now I know better. Rather than make you stumble in the dark any further, I present you with some high-quality strategies to keep women in your life, not just pick them up. Not just any women, but the ones you want.
I’ve been in the midst of the pickup world for quite a long time now and I can tell you for sure I’ve seen so many guys do so many things wrong that ultimately avoiding those mistakes is more than half the battle, so I’ll split this into things to do and things to NOT do.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
DO NOT:
Expect to “be yourself” after the pickup. Do not expect to be able to not change. Changing on the surface is not change. Throwing on a fuzzy hat or boa around your neck to get initial attention does not change who you are. Whatever & whoever you are when you meet her and when you follow through with her is how you are stuck being FOREVER if you want to keep her. Kinda sucks, huh? So don’t throw on masks that you ultimately don’t want to merge into who you are.
To improve, you must change, but that change must be something that is something you want and not just a quick fix you can take out & put away as needed.
DO NOT:
Be incongruent. Just because a rock star and a cowboy are both archetypes that women have fantasies about, and just because you might be able to pull off either persona, does not mean going back-and-forth in persona will do anything but make every girl with at least 2 brain cells run away from you very fast. You’re better off being a consistent geek who at least likes who he is than acting one way one minute and another way the second.
This does not mean being unpredictable is bad. Actually, it’s one of the traits you should have. It means don’t try to be more than one person to the girl. Be the identity you want, become the identity you’d like to be, and stick with it.
DO NOT:
Talk game to a girl. Just because you’re learning how to improve your life with women doesn’t mean you have to explain it to them. Do you know how much women read about how to figure out men on a daily basis? Never mind that the advice they get is mostly rubbish, but how often do you hear a girl “talking game” to you about how much she’s figured out men. Your first thought will be “psycho”.
DO NOT:
Lose your manners or cool. Just because you’re using a new understanding of social dynamics doesn’t mean that being rude or dissing basic social norms will lead to anything but a dry feeling in your pants. Maybe on a rare occasion it helps but most of the time such a strategy will backfire. Even when you’re being sexually adventurous with a girl, even if you’re emanating the “bad boy” vibe, there is still a baseline of social normalcy which you must have.
DO NOT:
Constantly contact her. Even when a girl is contacting you daily doesn’t mean you have to initiate as often, or even near as often.
DO NOT:
Change to cater to her. Change only when it suits you to better yourself. Do not change for anyone except yourself.
DO NOT:
Expect a one night stand to be anything more. Holding back to wait, presuming the circumstance allows, keeps the right door open. This one is tricky, because you have to be able to differentiate between an actual limited opportunity and one where there is little or no time constraint for you. Until you reach the point of being able to differentiate, do always go for all opportunities but just keep in mind that you can’t expect one night stands to become something more.
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DO:
Follow through. If you leave a girl hanging without releasing the tension, her resentment will grow. That doesn’t mean not to create tension in the first place, it means that you can’t dangle carrots without eventually offering a reward once she’s earned it.
DO:
Experiment. If you do the same thing with her all the time, you will bore her. Don’t get too comfortable in your routines. be willing to break out of them.
DO:
Set expectations early on. The sooner after initially having sex, the better. Establish understandings early on. Frame the relationship in your terms. Take the lead and make sure that, as the relationship progresses, you are always in a position of benefit but also regularly in position to GIVE to keep things well-balanced.
DO:
Give her freedom, as much as she needs. You can still keep her reined by merely having a lifestyle and control over your own life that keeps her gravitating toward you, but you should be able to let go of ALL jealousy and only show it when it will escalate her attraction to you.
DO:
Be interested in her. Not just her body. Her. If you’re only interested in her because of her body, and this is not something she’s aware of, eventually by your own actions you’ll lose her.
DO:
Be the one who takes charge. Don’t wait for her to wait for you. Make the decision on plans and follow through.
DO:
Enjoy your own life. Don’t depend on her or her interests to be your life. You had interests before her, you’ll have interests whether she’s around or not. If she feels that you’re attaching yourself to her life and giving up aspects of your own life to do so then she’ll lose interest in you.
DO:
Get get AOTP:TT :)
Thursday, November 19, 2009
the secret of non neediness,forgiveness in relationships and my secret innergame
Hey guys Ive been on a roll doing shit test excersizes and using misinterpretation to creat attraction from it.
In the past to creat attraction I used her shit test until I did alot of comfort and got stuck in it.
I realized that entropy was right,"if you want your game back it will come"
I got shit tested in a forum just BS..but weirdly got dissed by some girls...since I was in shit test aka congruence test review from jeffy in his book and tyler foundations section on congruence test taught me the mindset.
I used to focus on the tactics (in attraction tactics is important!)but I noticed tyler and jeffy how they act and the mindset...I learned best of game by modeling and replicating the mindset and adapt the positive to my personality.
FRAMES are so important, so ... I responded to this girls shit tests until my intuition told me she was hooked :)
my game is coming back... :)
it was more frame and shit test handling and projecting funny vibe...
I did use swingcatt shit test response.lol
but creating attraction is sooo easy but its what you do with it.
THE SECRET OF NON NEEDINESS AND PASSING SHIT TEST IS NOT CARING!
You dont care and doesnt phase you cause you know who you are and you act like you are the shit so you become the shit .. YOU ACT as IF you become it!
Its weird and non needy yet attractive.
I dont like talking my feelings to a woman, its weak.
I have to work on my congreunce of what I project...Im different from nyc, so I have to rewrite my dhv's and work on my attraction game (mehow chapter,JTasian playboy article , BR adam,RSD 12 )
comfort I had it lock down...have to work on it but its much easier than attraction.
Jeffys book did help me alot...Im inspired by him and his book does contain important pickup techniques on game.
WoW! Anyway , I was happy to get an email from him,It wasnt an assistant Im sure it was him by the way he responded.
I stoped reading other books...i realize that to read game you have to game.
Im focusing on daygame, going indirect since Im at library...I did hesitate abit but once you start socializing you get in rhythm.
Im also going to look for a gym tomorrow.
thanksgiving is coming and Im excited...I want to volunteer serving homeless people food cause I at one point was almost homeless.
On Wednesday,God spoke to me through my pastor who preaches so well that I feel he reads game or is just awesome.
He spoke on good and bad ...I asked him on forgiveness and relationships, he gave an awesome answer..when you are in a relationship and your partner cheats or commits adultery, then you have the right to walk away and not foriven them or go back the them. The bible does say forgive 60 x 60 but in love and relationships God is strict and commands that a man is above a woman, it isnt even 50/50 thing...something that even Franco talks about as a seduction artist who isnt a believer of God confrims this out of experience with alot of women.
My Innergame comes from beliefs in myself and faith in God.Its different but I intrepret bible with game and makes sense that God wants us rich and wants the best for us...jesus did make wine out of water and was around tax men and prostitutes, he wasnt with them but he was all around man who was loved and hated by many but admired, very charismatic...Im not religious or follow those preachers that have weird interpretations of bible to make it easy to save people and be mediocre with serious themes as God...I believe its being true to yourself and honest to God and ask him to help you and give you wisdom, You read the bible wherever you open it or you intuition tells you...he talks to me through my thoughts.Its a powerful effect of enlightment.
Self help and connecting it with God, its like the ultimate man.
Anyway Im out cause I had along day....
Talk to you guys soon.
-s
In the past to creat attraction I used her shit test until I did alot of comfort and got stuck in it.
I realized that entropy was right,"if you want your game back it will come"
I got shit tested in a forum just BS..but weirdly got dissed by some girls...since I was in shit test aka congruence test review from jeffy in his book and tyler foundations section on congruence test taught me the mindset.
I used to focus on the tactics (in attraction tactics is important!)but I noticed tyler and jeffy how they act and the mindset...I learned best of game by modeling and replicating the mindset and adapt the positive to my personality.
FRAMES are so important, so ... I responded to this girls shit tests until my intuition told me she was hooked :)
my game is coming back... :)
it was more frame and shit test handling and projecting funny vibe...
I did use swingcatt shit test response.lol
but creating attraction is sooo easy but its what you do with it.
THE SECRET OF NON NEEDINESS AND PASSING SHIT TEST IS NOT CARING!
You dont care and doesnt phase you cause you know who you are and you act like you are the shit so you become the shit .. YOU ACT as IF you become it!
Its weird and non needy yet attractive.
I dont like talking my feelings to a woman, its weak.
I have to work on my congreunce of what I project...Im different from nyc, so I have to rewrite my dhv's and work on my attraction game (mehow chapter,JTasian playboy article , BR adam,RSD 12 )
comfort I had it lock down...have to work on it but its much easier than attraction.
Jeffys book did help me alot...Im inspired by him and his book does contain important pickup techniques on game.
WoW! Anyway , I was happy to get an email from him,It wasnt an assistant Im sure it was him by the way he responded.
I stoped reading other books...i realize that to read game you have to game.
Im focusing on daygame, going indirect since Im at library...I did hesitate abit but once you start socializing you get in rhythm.
Im also going to look for a gym tomorrow.
thanksgiving is coming and Im excited...I want to volunteer serving homeless people food cause I at one point was almost homeless.
On Wednesday,God spoke to me through my pastor who preaches so well that I feel he reads game or is just awesome.
He spoke on good and bad ...I asked him on forgiveness and relationships, he gave an awesome answer..when you are in a relationship and your partner cheats or commits adultery, then you have the right to walk away and not foriven them or go back the them. The bible does say forgive 60 x 60 but in love and relationships God is strict and commands that a man is above a woman, it isnt even 50/50 thing...something that even Franco talks about as a seduction artist who isnt a believer of God confrims this out of experience with alot of women.
My Innergame comes from beliefs in myself and faith in God.Its different but I intrepret bible with game and makes sense that God wants us rich and wants the best for us...jesus did make wine out of water and was around tax men and prostitutes, he wasnt with them but he was all around man who was loved and hated by many but admired, very charismatic...Im not religious or follow those preachers that have weird interpretations of bible to make it easy to save people and be mediocre with serious themes as God...I believe its being true to yourself and honest to God and ask him to help you and give you wisdom, You read the bible wherever you open it or you intuition tells you...he talks to me through my thoughts.Its a powerful effect of enlightment.
Self help and connecting it with God, its like the ultimate man.
Anyway Im out cause I had along day....
Talk to you guys soon.
-s
Sunday, September 6, 2009
Screening her in or out for LTRs
Early frame. Screening her in or out for LTRs
by
francopua
RULE: watch carefully at the frame she comes from on the first interaction with
you.
RULEeople usually repeat their behavioral patterns and if learn something
they do it slowly and they need a motivation for it.
RULE:She is a woman and with her first frame she is going to tell you what shit
she WILL put on you regardless of how you will feel about it.
So be a wise man and don't waste your quality time!
HB:"bla,bla,bla" > talks only about herself and her needs. Not a word about you
and your needs. On EV comes out she put all the people of her past to do things
for her and never showed any empathy and thankfulness for it, only contempt.
Diagnosis: very narcissistic chick.
Treatment: No LTR. If good sex and good looking but selfish behavior on
repeated interaction only FB. Maybe MLTR as Secondary if she is able to fulfill
some needs of yours other than sex with training.
HB:"My former boyfriend broke my arm. The boyfriend before sent me to the
Hospital with my teeth broken"
Diagnosis: she will try everything she can to have you do the same. She does
not get horny if a guy does not beat or mistreat her. She is frigid if you are
nice to her.
Treatment: prompt NEXT before or after sex. If you want LTR with her you are
either a sadist or a suicidal AFC. She is not even good as FB. Maybe Pivot if
someone else beats her other than one of your friends?
HB: (calls you and interacts with you very often when drunk or under the effect
of drugs)
Diagnosis: she is an addict and a borderline. Be a man: don't deny the TRUTH.
(I read here how many guys fail to detect this!)
Treatment: fuck her with the whole body condom if you like her once or twice
and then NEXT HER. A HB is not worth losing your regular night sleep.
HB: (on first meeting) "Hmm.. I am sure you have a big cock.. please let me
suck it.."
Diagnosis: she is either a hard core freak or a cock teaser. You can do a
differential diagnosis like this:
Franco:"Really?" (open his trousers wherever he is) "Caress it now.." (grabs
her hand and puts it on his dick no matter is the waiter close to the table.)
If she gets horny and wants to isolation fuck her. She is a freak. Never an
exclusive LTR with this chick! She would repeat herself with all the guys of
the neighborhood. Good only as FB if she is a pain in the ass. Must qualify for
Secondary and qualify a lot for Primary.
Diagnosis II: If she reacts with a disgusted non verbal when you put her hand
on your dick NEXT HER. She is a cock teaser, maybe a man's hater. Not even good
as FB.
HB: "I feel that a man and a woman should be able to relate to each other on
the intellectual level, be able to share ideas about art, literature, music "
(depressed non verbal, something "bad" like being dumped by guys all the time,
or losing her job all the time and/or being a successful career woman with a
lot of responsibility comes out when you EV). She does not react with clear
signs of raising of BT to your good attraction game in spite of giving you
IOIs.
Diagnosis: she is a LD chick of the depressed type, maybe LSE.
Treatment: NEXT HER. What she will do next is to keep you speeches to explain
why she does not enjoy sex and why you are a pig and sex addict. Not even good
as pivot. She would make all the chicks you PU to get depression even before
you open your mouth.
HB:"I like you, I feel we are special.. BUT for me freedom and independence
are very important. " with OR without signs of raising of the BT. Do not even
think of a LTR with her! This is the kind of chick who has sex with you with
the purpose of getting you involved into the teenage game:"Why do you want
always me to pee in restaurant's bathrooms? Don't YOU respect my freedom? Bla,
bla,bla.." If she is very HD and is able of following your rules maybe she is
good as Secondary in MLTRs, otherwise only as FB. If she is LD train her to
become more HD on sunday evenings after you have fucked 2-3 chicks and been out
sarging.. just to relax.
HB:"Why your friend/you looks/look at me like that? Am I dressed well?.. " (or
whatever LSE shit like this).
Diagnosis: test her back by telling her like an AFC "No Darling.. I feel you
look great!". If her reaction is paranoid and dramatic "No, I don't believe
you.. You KNOW I look like shit tonight!" and she seems to be for real about
this then you have a LSE case in your hands.
Treatment: do not EVEN THINK of a LTR with her. This chick would make of your
life a hell. She be even good as Primary if she is not depressed and very HD
and you really are a sadist and like to walk all the time with a whip in your
hands but remember that this chick will try to put a knife in your back sooner
and/or later on have you to abuse her.. so maybe better as Secondary or even
better as FB after all.
HB:"I like men who know what they want and make me feel myself a woman"
Diagnosis: she is a very dominant chick. A feminine, submissive chick would
never verbalize this. Very important to quickly detect is she HSE or LSE and/or
HD/LD.
Treatment: if you enjoy like me submitting dominant women with the side rule
that she has to be very HSE/HD and totally loyal to me then go for it, even
marry her
( my wife is like this.) but if you are a lazy guy and you don't like the
thrill of a very active sexual and adventurous life and want to really relax in
a LTR next her. She would be trouble for you if you want a really relaxed
lifestyle from a LTR.
If she is LD she is probably after your money or some other kind of gain,
probably next will try to manipulate you on something. Watch your back!
Especially watch for possible Ho behavior. If you like a risky life marry
her.. Some LD guys like Ho wives who are LD and love to make children with
them. These kind of chicks anyway can easily cheat on you.
If she is LSE treatment like above. Do not even THINK of a LTR with her!
HB:"I cut myself sometimes.." and/or: "Life is meaningless" and/or "I was dying
once for overdose.. you know.. I wanted to know how it feels.."
Diagnosis: borderline chick psycho.
Treatment: ultrafast NEXT. Don't look back.
HB:"All the men are X" there, where X = negative frame. ( you sense there is no
humor in her non verbal when she says that )
Diagnosis: man's hater. Maybe traumatic situations in her past with men
(honestly, who cares?)
Treatment: if HD and you like her maybe good as FB (with great reserve!). No
LTR, no MLTR. No Pivot.
HB:"I have had two long-term relationships/two marriages. I am very busy with
work. I was not sure about us.. maybe we did not have enough time for our
relationship.." with a story of continuous, endless "dating"..
Diagnosis: she is an "Eternally Single Lady" with some kind of more or less
serious psychopathology.
Treatment: NO LTR, even if they threaten you with a M16. She is unable to
commit to anything. Examine her: if she is not giving you the shit:"We cannot
have/Why we have sex if there are no REAL feelings involved" she may be good
FB/MLTR.
If she gives you THAT schizophrenic shit about being and NOT being in a
relationship AT THE SAME TIME while being LD and using the sex as a
manipulation mean or withdrawing it NEXT HER!
No one can take THAT if not drunk.. LOL.
HB:"So tell me.. is it the Company where you work big? .. " or "I like good
restaurants, clothes, houses".. or "Which kind of car you have?" or "HOW do you
live?" (waiting for you to tell the square meters of your house and your
income ) or "I have the problem X, I need your help" sub-communicating you will
get her pussy as reward for helping her.
Diagnosis: she is a Ho.
Treatment: pimp her. Put her to do things for you. She will love you for it!
You can have a real LTR with a woman like this only if she has "some principle"
and is able to be "exclusive and loyal", you have the balls like steel, you
like the thrill of a constant challenge and your are not afraid to get old and
die - with this kind of woman "exclusive" and "loyal" means in in fact in
womanese "I am your woman, my Godfather for AS LONG as you are THE BOSS and
make me those little presents and fuck me like the little bitch I am all the
time giving me wonderful, huge orgasms! ".
I like women like these! It is so arousing to have great sex with them and
train them to become devoted Geishas!
If you are the kind of guy who trembles at the idea that one day she could earn
more than you well.. then don't even think of a LTR with her. She would have on
you the same effect of a Cobra..
She HAS to be HD for you to consider giving her your time.
If she is a Ho and is LD next her or make of her your FB/MLTR. As LTR/Wife that
would be like to sleep with a snake. Truly AVOID Hoes who are also LD!
About Ho's self-esteem: I cannot be objective about their self-esteem. I like
these women too much. They are FUN for guys who know how to deal with them.
I have know also Hoes with a great self-esteem.
If she does not agree to be in the submissive role with you and you sure that
your balls are like steel then NEXT her. There are also feminist Hoes or Hoes
who hate men and they are DANGEROUS to your health.
HB:"So How was your last weekend? I Hope you found those shoes you were looking
for. Are your relatives well?" ( you sense she REALLY cares for how YOU feel!)
Diagnosis: after screening out the LSE chicks of the depressed/martyr-type -
they are VERY DANGEROUS to your HEALTH and can be mistaken for Good Girls! -
you can be sure that she is a Good Girl if she goes on really caring for you
and your needs, supporting you, being loyal to you and giving you good sex and
taking it from you.
Yes guys, Good Girls do exist! You want to be the father of her children and
her husband!
Treatment: if you use her only for sex you REALLY are an hell of a Bad
Guy...and I, Franco will tell you the day of the Final Judgement how you will
pay for it!
In the meantime: have fun! - Until you can..because if you have no respect for
this kind of girl then you really are an asshole. If you want to have fun do it
with freaks but do not harm a Good Girl!
But are you able to recognize her when you meet this rare girl? I hope so.
If you want a LTR/Marriage go for it! She is GOLD.
Keep her out of Secret Society! And yourself.. Good Girls are the most
exquisite pray for heartless Players.. Including myself..
I could have made this post much longer.. There are so many interesting cases.
So guys, tell me more feminine "early frames" coming to your mind.
Guys, watch carefully her EARLY FRAME! You save money, time and health!
by
francopua
RULE: watch carefully at the frame she comes from on the first interaction with
you.
RULEeople usually repeat their behavioral patterns and if learn something
they do it slowly and they need a motivation for it.
RULE:She is a woman and with her first frame she is going to tell you what shit
she WILL put on you regardless of how you will feel about it.
So be a wise man and don't waste your quality time!
HB:"bla,bla,bla" > talks only about herself and her needs. Not a word about you
and your needs. On EV comes out she put all the people of her past to do things
for her and never showed any empathy and thankfulness for it, only contempt.
Diagnosis: very narcissistic chick.
Treatment: No LTR. If good sex and good looking but selfish behavior on
repeated interaction only FB. Maybe MLTR as Secondary if she is able to fulfill
some needs of yours other than sex with training.
HB:"My former boyfriend broke my arm. The boyfriend before sent me to the
Hospital with my teeth broken"
Diagnosis: she will try everything she can to have you do the same. She does
not get horny if a guy does not beat or mistreat her. She is frigid if you are
nice to her.
Treatment: prompt NEXT before or after sex. If you want LTR with her you are
either a sadist or a suicidal AFC. She is not even good as FB. Maybe Pivot if
someone else beats her other than one of your friends?
HB: (calls you and interacts with you very often when drunk or under the effect
of drugs)
Diagnosis: she is an addict and a borderline. Be a man: don't deny the TRUTH.
(I read here how many guys fail to detect this!)
Treatment: fuck her with the whole body condom if you like her once or twice
and then NEXT HER. A HB is not worth losing your regular night sleep.
HB: (on first meeting) "Hmm.. I am sure you have a big cock.. please let me
suck it.."
Diagnosis: she is either a hard core freak or a cock teaser. You can do a
differential diagnosis like this:
Franco:"Really?" (open his trousers wherever he is) "Caress it now.." (grabs
her hand and puts it on his dick no matter is the waiter close to the table.)
If she gets horny and wants to isolation fuck her. She is a freak. Never an
exclusive LTR with this chick! She would repeat herself with all the guys of
the neighborhood. Good only as FB if she is a pain in the ass. Must qualify for
Secondary and qualify a lot for Primary.
Diagnosis II: If she reacts with a disgusted non verbal when you put her hand
on your dick NEXT HER. She is a cock teaser, maybe a man's hater. Not even good
as FB.
HB: "I feel that a man and a woman should be able to relate to each other on
the intellectual level, be able to share ideas about art, literature, music "
(depressed non verbal, something "bad" like being dumped by guys all the time,
or losing her job all the time and/or being a successful career woman with a
lot of responsibility comes out when you EV). She does not react with clear
signs of raising of BT to your good attraction game in spite of giving you
IOIs.
Diagnosis: she is a LD chick of the depressed type, maybe LSE.
Treatment: NEXT HER. What she will do next is to keep you speeches to explain
why she does not enjoy sex and why you are a pig and sex addict. Not even good
as pivot. She would make all the chicks you PU to get depression even before
you open your mouth.
HB:"I like you, I feel we are special.. BUT for me freedom and independence
are very important. " with OR without signs of raising of the BT. Do not even
think of a LTR with her! This is the kind of chick who has sex with you with
the purpose of getting you involved into the teenage game:"Why do you want
always me to pee in restaurant's bathrooms? Don't YOU respect my freedom? Bla,
bla,bla.." If she is very HD and is able of following your rules maybe she is
good as Secondary in MLTRs, otherwise only as FB. If she is LD train her to
become more HD on sunday evenings after you have fucked 2-3 chicks and been out
sarging.. just to relax.
HB:"Why your friend/you looks/look at me like that? Am I dressed well?.. " (or
whatever LSE shit like this).
Diagnosis: test her back by telling her like an AFC "No Darling.. I feel you
look great!". If her reaction is paranoid and dramatic "No, I don't believe
you.. You KNOW I look like shit tonight!" and she seems to be for real about
this then you have a LSE case in your hands.
Treatment: do not EVEN THINK of a LTR with her. This chick would make of your
life a hell. She be even good as Primary if she is not depressed and very HD
and you really are a sadist and like to walk all the time with a whip in your
hands but remember that this chick will try to put a knife in your back sooner
and/or later on have you to abuse her.. so maybe better as Secondary or even
better as FB after all.
HB:"I like men who know what they want and make me feel myself a woman"
Diagnosis: she is a very dominant chick. A feminine, submissive chick would
never verbalize this. Very important to quickly detect is she HSE or LSE and/or
HD/LD.
Treatment: if you enjoy like me submitting dominant women with the side rule
that she has to be very HSE/HD and totally loyal to me then go for it, even
marry her
( my wife is like this.) but if you are a lazy guy and you don't like the
thrill of a very active sexual and adventurous life and want to really relax in
a LTR next her. She would be trouble for you if you want a really relaxed
lifestyle from a LTR.
If she is LD she is probably after your money or some other kind of gain,
probably next will try to manipulate you on something. Watch your back!
Especially watch for possible Ho behavior. If you like a risky life marry
her.. Some LD guys like Ho wives who are LD and love to make children with
them. These kind of chicks anyway can easily cheat on you.
If she is LSE treatment like above. Do not even THINK of a LTR with her!
HB:"I cut myself sometimes.." and/or: "Life is meaningless" and/or "I was dying
once for overdose.. you know.. I wanted to know how it feels.."
Diagnosis: borderline chick psycho.
Treatment: ultrafast NEXT. Don't look back.
HB:"All the men are X" there, where X = negative frame. ( you sense there is no
humor in her non verbal when she says that )
Diagnosis: man's hater. Maybe traumatic situations in her past with men
(honestly, who cares?)
Treatment: if HD and you like her maybe good as FB (with great reserve!). No
LTR, no MLTR. No Pivot.
HB:"I have had two long-term relationships/two marriages. I am very busy with
work. I was not sure about us.. maybe we did not have enough time for our
relationship.." with a story of continuous, endless "dating"..
Diagnosis: she is an "Eternally Single Lady" with some kind of more or less
serious psychopathology.
Treatment: NO LTR, even if they threaten you with a M16. She is unable to
commit to anything. Examine her: if she is not giving you the shit:"We cannot
have/Why we have sex if there are no REAL feelings involved" she may be good
FB/MLTR.
If she gives you THAT schizophrenic shit about being and NOT being in a
relationship AT THE SAME TIME while being LD and using the sex as a
manipulation mean or withdrawing it NEXT HER!
No one can take THAT if not drunk.. LOL.
HB:"So tell me.. is it the Company where you work big? .. " or "I like good
restaurants, clothes, houses".. or "Which kind of car you have?" or "HOW do you
live?" (waiting for you to tell the square meters of your house and your
income ) or "I have the problem X, I need your help" sub-communicating you will
get her pussy as reward for helping her.
Diagnosis: she is a Ho.
Treatment: pimp her. Put her to do things for you. She will love you for it!
You can have a real LTR with a woman like this only if she has "some principle"
and is able to be "exclusive and loyal", you have the balls like steel, you
like the thrill of a constant challenge and your are not afraid to get old and
die - with this kind of woman "exclusive" and "loyal" means in in fact in
womanese "I am your woman, my Godfather for AS LONG as you are THE BOSS and
make me those little presents and fuck me like the little bitch I am all the
time giving me wonderful, huge orgasms! ".
I like women like these! It is so arousing to have great sex with them and
train them to become devoted Geishas!
If you are the kind of guy who trembles at the idea that one day she could earn
more than you well.. then don't even think of a LTR with her. She would have on
you the same effect of a Cobra..
She HAS to be HD for you to consider giving her your time.
If she is a Ho and is LD next her or make of her your FB/MLTR. As LTR/Wife that
would be like to sleep with a snake. Truly AVOID Hoes who are also LD!
About Ho's self-esteem: I cannot be objective about their self-esteem. I like
these women too much. They are FUN for guys who know how to deal with them.
I have know also Hoes with a great self-esteem.
If she does not agree to be in the submissive role with you and you sure that
your balls are like steel then NEXT her. There are also feminist Hoes or Hoes
who hate men and they are DANGEROUS to your health.
HB:"So How was your last weekend? I Hope you found those shoes you were looking
for. Are your relatives well?" ( you sense she REALLY cares for how YOU feel!)
Diagnosis: after screening out the LSE chicks of the depressed/martyr-type -
they are VERY DANGEROUS to your HEALTH and can be mistaken for Good Girls! -
you can be sure that she is a Good Girl if she goes on really caring for you
and your needs, supporting you, being loyal to you and giving you good sex and
taking it from you.
Yes guys, Good Girls do exist! You want to be the father of her children and
her husband!
Treatment: if you use her only for sex you REALLY are an hell of a Bad
Guy...and I, Franco will tell you the day of the Final Judgement how you will
pay for it!
In the meantime: have fun! - Until you can..because if you have no respect for
this kind of girl then you really are an asshole. If you want to have fun do it
with freaks but do not harm a Good Girl!
But are you able to recognize her when you meet this rare girl? I hope so.
If you want a LTR/Marriage go for it! She is GOLD.
Keep her out of Secret Society! And yourself.. Good Girls are the most
exquisite pray for heartless Players.. Including myself..
I could have made this post much longer.. There are so many interesting cases.
So guys, tell me more feminine "early frames" coming to your mind.
Guys, watch carefully her EARLY FRAME! You save money, time and health!
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