The Jeffy Allen Show 2 - Get Laid or Die Trying NOTES

What his level of game influences:
- sense of entitlement – what hot girls you think you deserve

- buildup of social momentum

- his hornyness (don’t masturbate)

entitlement: it’s like training muscle – if you don’t work on it, it goes back again


in the beginning of the night you don’t want to approach. -> even he, after 8 years of game
-> force yourself to do it

How he warms up: just going up and getting rejected -> loosing the ego

Approaching women is always like jumping in a cold pool – no matter how much you do it, you have to get over to jumping in

It’s like always re-remembering that you are awesome


Parties:
1st: mingling time, talk to everybody, at the beginning
2nd: 12-2:30 hardcore game
3nd: after 2:30 just fucking aggressive – omg, youuuu… are *amazing*.. I *love* you! Hug.. makeout -> he does this 50 times in a row

Action is always the answer
-> never analyze. When you have low state -> action is always the answer.
Instructors have sometimes state crashes during the night – nobody notices cause: the go into action right away
Accept the being shitty as normal

A night is a marathon!

Go out for every night for 12 days approaching and on day 7 you are really a beast
Beast mode: approaching without thought


‘Who are you, I am tim! I am sad, I need a kiss!’

4 main things:
1. Core confidence -> being ok with girls not liking you. scripted game often times makes it look that a lot of girls like you, he doesn’t do that. -> don’t be afraid to polarize.
Expression, not impression.
First step: getting them not to care what other people think

Be like music – you just send out

Never just stand there in the club
But: sing nonsense, dance a bit around, talk gibberish to another

Just pretend with gibberish like you got a great conversation -> brings you state

Don’t try to weasel into the part when going to the set
No – be the party, they are in your proximity


2. Bring value
Know what they are feeling
Talk to them (don’t do like talking to yourself)

If she gets pissed off to what he is saying -> in the half second she feels bad he already says something, like laughing out loud or saying their thoughts ‘omg, this creepy guy…’ -> he feels her feeling bad and distracts her immediately. -> take autism test on internet to see how good you are there.
You get this with field time

3. Are assertive
His ‘kino’-method is: feeling sexually – he has a hardon after speaking 5min to her
Every time she says she is gonna go somewhere – eg have to go to toilet, drink, dance… -> you do it like it was your idea and lead her! Drink time! Piss time! Dance time!
Always try to close, also without a signal. Especially if she is gone anyway. Makeout. Say ‘can you give me a ride?’
Go in fucking close to her! Very much closer than you think -> fucking close

If he doesn’t makeout within 20minutes, he tries to and she probably goes away. -> he thinks if you don’t make out with her in 20min you are probably spinning your wheels




4. Be proactive (be unreactive)
Be the cause, not the effect

Make this your criteria of success: approach, express yourself as a man

One third will not like you.
One third will be amusesd but of some reason not wanna do it. (eg has bf at home) -> you have to be aggressive to make them say no kinda (else you are loosing time)
One third will be very interested sexually.

There is no such thing as rejection, there is only lack of chemistry

Sexual aggression makes you have much more lays.





Either be a player 100% or be relationship 100%
You cannot be half a gangster
No feelings till they are fb’s

Player life: you always have to keep going out, cause fb’s always keep on quitting at some time, that’s the way


Open
Vibe, self amuse
Put yourself in this state: Be woo and intent, party dong, having fun and being sexual
Dynamically escalate
Screen logistics -> move her to more front part of club, out of the club, a bit away from the club, into a cab, out of the cab, into the lobby, to the elevator, into the elevator, out of the elevator, into your room
Use *any* ridiculous excuse you can!

Lead lead lead

Best approach you did this weekend, after 6 months of keep going out this approach will be your new average approach

swingers made me think of threesome game

I m looking into sex game,
I hate ebook or being to logical, yet simple and easy works for me, then leave it up to me to be creative :)

so I saw swinger by nina hartley.

her female psycology comes from experience her vids are better than any stupid e book.

I actually used her howe to make love to a woman first 10 minutes as a sexual frames alal topo redstack.

seriosuly she knows her stuff.

but her she has great examples how to fell comfortabl and how to escalate her comfort threshold to new things in sex.

for me its awesome cause its like whole new area and being a PUA is more like I can dominate this area too.

guys are stale in terms of just squirting, the excitement comes from the emotions of sex and unexpecteness and making it a movie for her as she were reading a erotic novel.

thats the type of experience you shoul;d be giving to her.

What guy is going to give her that????

very few.

9 1/2 weeks pushes it too much but its a great example, he should have built comfort , remeber in relationships the cycle is comfort and sexualness.
this is to be kept in constant spiking of the whole process.

DONT BE BUTTON PUSHING

but know what to do when time comes and make things happen....

you lead

you take initiative (thanks alley cat)

so as with greeeneys I plan on taking my sexual comfort thresshold to the next level with her....

like MRM says in situations where youve never done it act like youve been there and done it, adapt to the scenario. to avoid feeling insecure and in your head.

act as you go yet TAKE CALCULATED RISKS

thershold comfort to move further, reach levels , higher levels = excitement attraction.

even addiction.

use that analogy and read in10nse article as franco also comments.

swinggcatt might have some stuff but his push pull works well and for closing.

its basically arousing her and you pulliong back arousaing her and you pulling backl to make her confuse and hornty and wanting you to want it bad.

you escalate from there to avoid keeping it stale or you overgaming or buyers remorse.

I see that is difference of rapid closes, seeing when girls are that ready to fuck you lead.


Swingers vid taught me how far Im from being in game.

knowing this dynamic helps me analyze a structure of basis of how emoitons and sex can crete arrousal to a point of intensity.....even addiction of pleasure.

Im going to ask franco on that WWHD?