is the advice of going out and make her night.....I used this when I got LMR and couldnt close , and used BT spiking to make her feel awesome and happy.. I was happy myself, this is awesome advice.
Neediness energy, forget seduction ...... this is important to project. My first sticking points were seeking rapport who SAFFRON detected. I credit him with this, once m,y subcommunicacion became non needy it created the girl to react to me.
also as a bonus.......
talk about her feelings the way she feels.....
this is crucial and he is vague about it but its the pillar of NLP and her stae and controlling her emotions..
you become the harp player, the pied piper to her emotions...
I use only humour and sexual and confusion with some RSD Routines from TIM and RYAN's verbal attraction..
I avoid talking about low or sad things ..maybe for door pattern but for tother stuff I dont, I disagree with TOPO on this..... I do use CJs heartmelters but only 1, also I dont over qualify, CJ uses 1 or 2 , I used one big one and cosmo routine so no need to talk alot..unless its revvelant to her personality and or conversation to deepend her incvesting or talking....conversational skills itself is included qualifiers.
YAD in his infield video doesnt qualify, saffron qualify as chalengeing after comfort and attraction..to get her chasing him....this i used to do alot. best way ...push pull : )
badboy He uses different emotions...I tried but not had success.
Showing posts with label emotions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label emotions. Show all posts
Saturday, December 18, 2010
Monday, June 14, 2010
The Greatest Feeling in the World
Seduction is 100% an emotional process. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. All of the lines, tricks, theories, fashion, frames and routines we learn and use are simply tools to create a desired emotional outcome — they’re a means, not an ends.
The Greatest Feeling in the World is when you and a woman are so intimate emotionally, that the physical limitations of your body become stifling. You yearn to melt one another and mix yourselves into some kind of concoction. Sex is a by-product of this process; the ultimate act of physical intimacy. A last-ditch effort to become one with one-another.
When you have The Greatest Feeling in the World, logistics fall by the wayside. The idea of LMR is as absurd as returning money you just won in the lottery. Cockblocks, if they even existed, would be helpless to penetrate your new-found love-bubble. Creating an entire system and library of pick up theory around the banal goal of simply fucking, sells ourselves short. It goes much further than that. Move the goal posts back: aim for the Greatest Feeling in the World, and sex becomes merely a pleasurable side-effect.
It’s always been assumed that it took dating someone months or even years to reach this place. But it can be reached in a matter of hours. And she doesn’t even have to speak your language…
11PM: Buenos Aires. Tourist bar. Mostly Europeans and a few Americans (boring), but also a smattering of South American travelers (more interesting). Quality is mediocre. I seek out the hottest girl there. Found her. She looks Brazilian — as only Brazilians have a smorgasbord of mixed genetics like her. Upon further inspection, she is way, way over-dressed for this place (typical Brazilian behavior) and doesn’t shy away from eye contact when made (only Brazilian girls do this).
She’s talking to two guys. Can’t tell if they’re with her or if they just opened her. I’m busy scavenging for munchies, as I hadn’t eaten yet that night.
We catch eye contact again. Has to be Brazilian. I interrupt their conversation, “You must be Brazilian.” She smiles, “Yes, how did you know?” in broken English. The guys are definitely not with her. They try to remain engaged in the conversation, but it’s apparent within a few minutes that I’m the only one she wants to talk to. They each drop off within a few minutes.
1AM: Dancing. Spinning. Falling (figuratively, not literally). Light kissing. We’re inseparable now. The bubble is forming. No one else dares speak to us. We’re either dancing together, or I’m sitting with my arms wrapped around her. We physically don’t disconnect, ever.
She speaks A+ Portuguese, B+ Spanish and C- English; I speak A+ English, B- Spanish and D Portuguese. Conversations are a linguistic jungle-gym, falling in and out of all three languages. We don’t understand half the shit the other one says. But verbal mis-fires are more than compensated with smiles, eye contact and touch. Remember, the words don’t matter, only the emotions they create.
3AM: Leaving the club now. We lost track of the main group of tourists hours ago although we don’t really care. We made a token effort to figure out which bar they went to, but really it was an excuse for us to do something together. Taxi!
5AM: At my hostel, with my laptop, we buy tickets for a getaway at a beach resort about 5 hours outside Buenos Aires. We book a room on the beach together and plan on leaving the next day.
We’re on day three of our little tryst right now. This is the first time I’ve done an “insta-vacation” with a girl, and I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t a little nervous going through with it. But it’s been fine, wonderful even. Our bubble is slowly fading, as the long days together have forced reality to set in a little bit. We’re not in love. We’re not going to get married and have a million babies. We probably won’t even keep in touch. And that’s OK.
But we still love each other’s company. We still laugh together, dance together in inappropriate places, and over-dress everywhere we go and make heads turn, as we are Brazilian and American, and that’s what we do.
On the beach, with her perfect body and tiny bikini (thong), she rubs sun tan lotion on me every afternoon. Every night, we bang and she lives up to the hype of every Brazilian stereotype I’ve heard.
I’m her “American Revolution,” she’s my “Capirinha.” We speak to each other in broken Spanish. We’re creating memories together. And for only a week, we occasionally share The Greatest Feeling in the World.
The Greatest Feeling in the World is when you and a woman are so intimate emotionally, that the physical limitations of your body become stifling. You yearn to melt one another and mix yourselves into some kind of concoction. Sex is a by-product of this process; the ultimate act of physical intimacy. A last-ditch effort to become one with one-another.
When you have The Greatest Feeling in the World, logistics fall by the wayside. The idea of LMR is as absurd as returning money you just won in the lottery. Cockblocks, if they even existed, would be helpless to penetrate your new-found love-bubble. Creating an entire system and library of pick up theory around the banal goal of simply fucking, sells ourselves short. It goes much further than that. Move the goal posts back: aim for the Greatest Feeling in the World, and sex becomes merely a pleasurable side-effect.
It’s always been assumed that it took dating someone months or even years to reach this place. But it can be reached in a matter of hours. And she doesn’t even have to speak your language…
11PM: Buenos Aires. Tourist bar. Mostly Europeans and a few Americans (boring), but also a smattering of South American travelers (more interesting). Quality is mediocre. I seek out the hottest girl there. Found her. She looks Brazilian — as only Brazilians have a smorgasbord of mixed genetics like her. Upon further inspection, she is way, way over-dressed for this place (typical Brazilian behavior) and doesn’t shy away from eye contact when made (only Brazilian girls do this).
She’s talking to two guys. Can’t tell if they’re with her or if they just opened her. I’m busy scavenging for munchies, as I hadn’t eaten yet that night.
We catch eye contact again. Has to be Brazilian. I interrupt their conversation, “You must be Brazilian.” She smiles, “Yes, how did you know?” in broken English. The guys are definitely not with her. They try to remain engaged in the conversation, but it’s apparent within a few minutes that I’m the only one she wants to talk to. They each drop off within a few minutes.
1AM: Dancing. Spinning. Falling (figuratively, not literally). Light kissing. We’re inseparable now. The bubble is forming. No one else dares speak to us. We’re either dancing together, or I’m sitting with my arms wrapped around her. We physically don’t disconnect, ever.
She speaks A+ Portuguese, B+ Spanish and C- English; I speak A+ English, B- Spanish and D Portuguese. Conversations are a linguistic jungle-gym, falling in and out of all three languages. We don’t understand half the shit the other one says. But verbal mis-fires are more than compensated with smiles, eye contact and touch. Remember, the words don’t matter, only the emotions they create.
3AM: Leaving the club now. We lost track of the main group of tourists hours ago although we don’t really care. We made a token effort to figure out which bar they went to, but really it was an excuse for us to do something together. Taxi!
5AM: At my hostel, with my laptop, we buy tickets for a getaway at a beach resort about 5 hours outside Buenos Aires. We book a room on the beach together and plan on leaving the next day.
We’re on day three of our little tryst right now. This is the first time I’ve done an “insta-vacation” with a girl, and I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t a little nervous going through with it. But it’s been fine, wonderful even. Our bubble is slowly fading, as the long days together have forced reality to set in a little bit. We’re not in love. We’re not going to get married and have a million babies. We probably won’t even keep in touch. And that’s OK.
But we still love each other’s company. We still laugh together, dance together in inappropriate places, and over-dress everywhere we go and make heads turn, as we are Brazilian and American, and that’s what we do.
On the beach, with her perfect body and tiny bikini (thong), she rubs sun tan lotion on me every afternoon. Every night, we bang and she lives up to the hype of every Brazilian stereotype I’ve heard.
I’m her “American Revolution,” she’s my “Capirinha.” We speak to each other in broken Spanish. We’re creating memories together. And for only a week, we occasionally share The Greatest Feeling in the World.
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Julian Foxx does it again...great stuff that works
I'm busy with organizing myself Im going out tonight for stripper game after gym.
Thanks A- for that book reference I will check it out, get stressed over it at times w getting things done.
I was looking into millionair habits by brian tracy, great stuff but didnt finish it all.
Mark "Entropy" actually lives off that book he was in argentina now he is in europe coaching.
He taught me chemistry comfort.....
I was in the midst of breaking down my game since I wrote the FR's from the past but I never told myself how I was doing it.
I became uncoincious once you get the ball rolling....once I got here to miami, I left game for awhile and got sloppy and forgot how I did it.
so Im reversing what I did and have a better intuition about it.This is what I got, FINALLY:
I flow by using her emotions and push the limits of moving things forward and making this fall in place for sex.
Basically a magicians force of a game leading using different types of emotions. creating all types of reactions from her.
So I get idea what and how to get her in different state, kindah like manipulating her emotional control since she is being reactive to you.
I didnt come up with this, Alleycat did this shit unconciously since he works on peoples mouths he controls their anxiety so he can calm them and get them to comply without force and he can work on their motuh quickly....he sees so many like 30-40 patients that he practices that phisosophy.
this guy here the guy that challenged Neil, he touches on it...
http://www.supernaturalseduction.com/TheSystem/
Its Sick cause I do what he explains but he does it more consistent of funny and sexual at the same time so he does both...ofcourse it accelerates based on her comfort thershold.
Serious game this Julian guy has.
this is punishment reward pavlov ,psycology based game.
this is next level gentlemen....
I reckognize this is pure solid game.
-Sandros
PS: Im going to try to donwload this intro cause its so valuable information.Stuff I got used to doing with the mix of B-H-R-R mixed in with
funny and sexual.
Thanks A- for that book reference I will check it out, get stressed over it at times w getting things done.
I was looking into millionair habits by brian tracy, great stuff but didnt finish it all.
Mark "Entropy" actually lives off that book he was in argentina now he is in europe coaching.
He taught me chemistry comfort.....
I was in the midst of breaking down my game since I wrote the FR's from the past but I never told myself how I was doing it.
I became uncoincious once you get the ball rolling....once I got here to miami, I left game for awhile and got sloppy and forgot how I did it.
so Im reversing what I did and have a better intuition about it.This is what I got, FINALLY:
I flow by using her emotions and push the limits of moving things forward and making this fall in place for sex.
Basically a magicians force of a game leading using different types of emotions. creating all types of reactions from her.
So I get idea what and how to get her in different state, kindah like manipulating her emotional control since she is being reactive to you.
I didnt come up with this, Alleycat did this shit unconciously since he works on peoples mouths he controls their anxiety so he can calm them and get them to comply without force and he can work on their motuh quickly....he sees so many like 30-40 patients that he practices that phisosophy.
this guy here the guy that challenged Neil, he touches on it...
http://www.supernaturalseduction.com/TheSystem/
Its Sick cause I do what he explains but he does it more consistent of funny and sexual at the same time so he does both...ofcourse it accelerates based on her comfort thershold.
Serious game this Julian guy has.
this is punishment reward pavlov ,psycology based game.
this is next level gentlemen....
I reckognize this is pure solid game.
-Sandros
PS: Im going to try to donwload this intro cause its so valuable information.Stuff I got used to doing with the mix of B-H-R-R mixed in with
funny and sexual.
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
the emotional - arrousal - compliance to move forward to sex structure
I know badboy talks about it but its farther than that.
like tyler talked about bt spiking , its to be aware of her emotional level first you start off calibrated there and turn up volume slowly.
emotional level social comfort is at her energy and then raise it up a bit, if its at a club or meeting at a date you start off by spiking BT sexually.
so my sturture of game is to elict her emotionally to get her to bait her to respond as per magicians choice and double binds.
you combine yes ladders and change of beliefs
or sexual framing comfort - deep comfort- sexual comfort with ofcourse kino.
her emotions here will be down...you will make her RELAXED.
avoids button pushing.
taking calculated risks.
once youve reached arousal and good solid rapport with qualification then you direct interest and do push pull. use takeaways and mix compliments and accuse her of making you feel horny...
insert CJ's framing of her fault turning you on'.
push pull in terms of not being sure about her and chasing begins.
here the emotions go up and down you keep it up and down.
as you work logisitcs you talk about logical stuff that isnt relevant to the seduction location, you use art of distraction and you BT Spike to make her agree and use socil pressure and double binds to prior knowing therefore you always disqualify before she thinks or smells SLUT radar.
so you keep her push pull , mixing all these emotions and as reward you smile and glare at her eyes and sexual tease like a stripper would do to make her have you pay money.
remember what a girl does to you you do it to a girl back will always work!
you get her to provoke thinking sexual and arousing her that is bt spiking her and not giving it to her up to a point of disengaing her logic that she wants it.
you change subjects yet you still go for physical arousal and take it away.
so emotions here are my guide, you control them and orchestrate the rhythm of the musci played.
you are the director of the movie to create her wildest night ever.
she will love it.
this mindset is gold. made a 2 audio podcast of thisPS: sawyer used to agree with my disqualifiers and minutes later he suggest to do it his way again by leading wihtout using force , ofcourse I caught him doing that and read it off. great closing strategy. he calibrates wiht another topic to think about different thing while her leads me to where he wants of course Im aware and girls will not be if he creates attraction by BT spiking her emotioanlly will kick in her logical.
like tyler talked about bt spiking , its to be aware of her emotional level first you start off calibrated there and turn up volume slowly.
emotional level social comfort is at her energy and then raise it up a bit, if its at a club or meeting at a date you start off by spiking BT sexually.
so my sturture of game is to elict her emotionally to get her to bait her to respond as per magicians choice and double binds.
you combine yes ladders and change of beliefs
or sexual framing comfort - deep comfort- sexual comfort with ofcourse kino.
her emotions here will be down...you will make her RELAXED.
avoids button pushing.
taking calculated risks.
once youve reached arousal and good solid rapport with qualification then you direct interest and do push pull. use takeaways and mix compliments and accuse her of making you feel horny...
insert CJ's framing of her fault turning you on'.
push pull in terms of not being sure about her and chasing begins.
here the emotions go up and down you keep it up and down.
as you work logisitcs you talk about logical stuff that isnt relevant to the seduction location, you use art of distraction and you BT Spike to make her agree and use socil pressure and double binds to prior knowing therefore you always disqualify before she thinks or smells SLUT radar.
so you keep her push pull , mixing all these emotions and as reward you smile and glare at her eyes and sexual tease like a stripper would do to make her have you pay money.
remember what a girl does to you you do it to a girl back will always work!
you get her to provoke thinking sexual and arousing her that is bt spiking her and not giving it to her up to a point of disengaing her logic that she wants it.
you change subjects yet you still go for physical arousal and take it away.
so emotions here are my guide, you control them and orchestrate the rhythm of the musci played.
you are the director of the movie to create her wildest night ever.
she will love it.
this mindset is gold. made a 2 audio podcast of thisPS: sawyer used to agree with my disqualifiers and minutes later he suggest to do it his way again by leading wihtout using force , ofcourse I caught him doing that and read it off. great closing strategy. he calibrates wiht another topic to think about different thing while her leads me to where he wants of course Im aware and girls will not be if he creates attraction by BT spiking her emotioanlly will kick in her logical.
Sunday, April 25, 2010
10 way to Pump up Buying Temperature Tactics
10 Buying Temperature Tactics to Create Attraction
http://www.seductionbase.com/seduction/cat/In_the_Middle/Tactics/685.html
10 way to Pump up Buying Temperature Tactics ...Mostly popularized by Mystery, it has the advantage of introducing that "Wow" factor. One does run the risk of being the entertainer, but as Mystery has shown...
OK, as us Pick Up Artists (PUAs) should know, Buying Temperature is the woman's emotional receptivity and her level of general attraction to the PUA at a given time.
(Note, that there is slight, but subtle difference between general attraction and sexual attraction. You can have one without the other, though then you run the risk of turning from the really cool, fun guy into the really cool, fun friend.)
Anyways, Buying Temperature Game isn't necessarily the tighest game if that forms the cornerstone of your repoitoire (though it's awesome for pushing for one night stands). Yet for some guys, who fall into the trap of being too comfortable and too serious, without pumping up BT, they come off as boring as opposed to exciting and intriguing to the woman.
So I give you some common BT tactics. Some I use quite a bit and some (like magic) I don't. There are two very common weaknesses of BT Game. One, it isn't solid and the attraction (unless you push for the one night stand) she feels for you tends to rapidly disappear in the morning. Secondly, it can also leave you stuck in the position of being the entertainment monkey. Once you're gone or you're out of tricks, the girls will walk away to find some other source of stimuli be it dancing, alcohol, drugs or hot guys/girls (in other words Buying Temperature and attraction is transferable).
Let's get down to brass tacks:
1.Magic - Mostly popularized by Mystery, it has the advantage of introducing that "Wow" factor. One does run the risk of being the entertainer, but as Mystery has shown time and time again, by being the center of attention you create a situation of social proof and displaying social mastery. I won't say not to use it, but I've seen it work. One example that comes to mind is OCWaterBoy before he became the Direct Master that he is now. He did a magic trick (learned from Mystery) to engage an attractive, very slim girl who he eventually slept with. She KNEW what he was trying to do (ie capture her attention and impress her), but the trick was intriguing enough that she was OK with it.
2.Humor - The is really the most common BT strategy. You know it when you see it, but it also takes a modicum of social mastery as well as comic timing if you aren't a naturally humorous guy. Not easy to teach other than to immerse yourself in social situations and watch naturally funny guys. A few one liners and funny stories can help, it's the old concept of being Cocky and Funny popularized by David DeAngelo. I tend to have a pretty good sense of humor, but I'm not always "on" especially as the night wears on. It's the old concept of "Laughing Her Pants Off."
3.Shocking/Humorous Story - You can stack the deck in your favor if you can convey a story that is shocking, overtly sexual, and/or humorous. These are those tall tales that can captivate an audience, make them laugh, make them gasp, but at times, make them roll their eyes if you don't deliver it effectively. I like to use my own stories from my own life (a little embellished perhaps) though one can see the efficacy of canned stories like the Bad Ass Kid Routine and others. Fuck/Marry/Kill, while not necessarily a story, can work as way to both shock and be humorous while at the same time reframing the interaction in a sexual frame.
4.Dancing - This is one of my common tactics that I like to use to both create attraction as well as qualify her ("Oh, are you good dancer? Or do you just shake your ass like all the other girls?"). Note, I don't APPROACH the girl with Dance Game. I use dancing to isolate, pump up her attraction and adrenaline, and escalate the physical. Disadvantages, of course, is that it requires you to be somewhat decent at dancing. An easy variation of this is to Spin Her as if you're doing a swing dance. A lot of guys do this when they open, but a lot of times it's poorly done.
5.Thumb Wrestling - This is a stupid little game and competition, but one I actually had done to me the other night by the girl. Kind of a role reversal, but it's a fun little game. You can frame it as a challenge and play it up as the thumb war championship. Sidenote, sometimes a girl was ask you to buy her a drink, play a game with her, winner buys. You've changed the frame, introduced kino, and you'll win (if you don't, hang up your title of Pick Up Artist right now). There are a lot of variations to this like Slap Jack and so forth.
6.Fake Fighting - I like to do this a lot as well. Maybe a girl will accidentally bump into me. Instead of saying "Sorry" you can pretend to throw down with the girl. "Wha-wha-what? You wanna throw down? Let's see what you GOT?!" Again, it's silly but it's a fun thing to do and shows that you're really not taking the girl too serious. A variation of this is to Booty Bump Her and be playful about it.
7.Cavemanning - I'll do this if I'm feeling particularly energetic and if she's light. This is simply picking her up in your arms. Maybe throwing her over your shoulder. Piggybacking, etc.
8.Make Her Slap Herself - I've already written about making her slap herself. It's similar in nature to cavemanning in that you're displaying dominance by temporarily taking control of her body.
9.Drink Annilihation - This is actually an AMOG tactic that works just as effectively on girls as guys. Fun, silly and leaves her at your mercy.
10.Intentional Cold Read - Not the cold read that's designed to generate commonalities and understanding (though there is that), but calling a girl from New York "trouble" or a "bad girl" and then turning like you're walking away. Most times, you'll get pulled back in where they'll laugh and qualify themselves. This is where the PowerPuff girl routine came in though you can do a lot with it from the Sexual Predator to any other outrageous cold read that's designed to push her buttons.
All of this, of course, depend upon your delivery, energy level, and a host of other factors that helps you convey humor and playfulness as well as dominating the interaction so she no longer is thinking logically, but simply responding emotionally and on a visceral level.
Also remember that BT Game should be considered within the context of the social setting as well as the girl herself. You don't need to pump up BT at the library for general day game, a decent sense of humor well work just as fine. Club game, however, where you're competing with massive amounts of other stimuli and distractions does require a mastery of BT Game.
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AsianPlayboy:10 Fool Proof Sexual-Kino Compliance Tests
Another solid article from The Asian Playboy. He’s got a lot of great stuff going on. Go visit his new website at The ABCs of Attraction
Understanding & Mastering Sexual Anxiety
“10 Fool Proof Sexual-Kino Compliance Tests!”
Sexual anxiety was- without a doubt- my biggest sticking point that easily held me back for months if not more. It prevented me from escalating whether for a one night stand, bathroom fuck, or going sexual on the date. Talk about frustrating, until I finally clued in that General Attraction is different from Sexual Attraction which required me to modify my early Buying Temperature and C&F Verbal Game tactics.
Quite frankly, in my honest opinion, I rank paralinguistics (ie Non-Verbal Game) as important -if not more so- than Verbal Game. So instead of getting all verbose as in my previous article dealing with Inner Game, let me simple give you ten (10) of my personal favorite and field tested Sexual-Kino Compliance Tests.
I use them quite often not only to ascertain her Sexual & General Attraction, but also to spike her emotional Buying Temperature as well as Kino Plow into the fun zone of sex!
Sure you’ll feel awkward in the beginning, but there’s the nice side benefit that, by using them as part of your Kino Game and Compliance Testing, they will slowly help you get over your SA and become more comfortable around women and conveying more dominance and sexuality through constant kino and compliance testing.
First, I- with regards to both the what and why- define Compliance Tests as:
1. A method (either verbal and non-) by which you gauge her Attraction (General or Sexual) to you.
2. Providing an OPTION for her to either pass or fail.
3. Encouraging and qualifying the right choice through a reward/punishment stratagem.
4. Establishing and maintaining the leader/masculine/dominance versus the follower/feminine/submissive frame.
5. Testing for, declawing, and/or eliminating “Cat String” attention whore / stripper types.
6. Finally, with regards to the objective of the article, the more you sexually CT her, the more comfortable you become being, encouraging, and expecting sensuality from both you and her.
Secondly, here are some additional guidelines by which you can increase the successful CTs:
1. LEGITIMACY: Verbal CTs should always be phrased with a “legitimate” excuse. Trust me, girls are NOT stupid. They KNOW why you want to get them upstairs. They just need it to pass the “common sense” test when they brag about you to their girlfriends. It doesn’t need to be logical or foolproof, it just needs to SOUND legitimate. For Kino CTs, this is done with unspoken subtlety and confident body language as well as appropriate levels of BT and privacy.
2. SPIKING THE CT: CTs are best off paired with some sort of Attraction Switch DHV or a BT Spike. The more emotional and attracted she is to you, the more willing she is to comply and follow you without asking questions.
3. CT WITH KINO: ALWAYS try and pair a CT with a light KINO touch. Don’t go out of your way and make it weird, but throw in that little extra kino so she’s physically stimulated at the same time.
4. INTIMACY BUBBLE: The closer you are to her- whether she’s attracted or not- the more willing she is to comply. You don’t want to be creepy, but when you’re sharing the same personal space, she is less likely to reject the CT.
5. FASHION: Unless you or her are hardened criminals, a uniformed office gets your attention and demands respect. In other words, dress like a MAN who’s dominant and sure. Baggy, ghetto, or kiddy gear doesn’t garner respect. Power suits or a cohesive fashion sense can show you’re someone to be followed.
6. SMILE: Smiling- like CJ’s “Clown Grin”- is essentially a BT spike. People feel good when they’re presented with a genuine, infectious, and full smile. It’s natural for her to feel comfortable around a friendly, vivacious, and fun loving person.
7. NO FORCE: A lot of newbies carry the concept of “The Illusion of Input” as forcing her to jump through your hoops. Bad PUA! You aren’t supposed to force her to do anything, simply encourage/highlight/present the RIGHT choice.
8. RANDOM POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT: This is for the “Negs Gone Wild” or “I am the Prize” extremists… If she’s basically willing to do everything you want, you need to reward her whether it be with BT Spikes, BL, kino, kisses, sex, or whatever. Don’t be predictable, but do show that you acknowledge her enthusiastic compliance with the SLIGHT hope that she might actually be able to win you over. Constant punishment and/or tests will eventually convince her that you aren’t interested and/or attainable while constant rewards shows that you’re needy. Mix it up.
But enough theory, already!
Here are my fun, personally field tested, Compliance Tests. Some are new. Some are old. Some are purely kino BT spikers. And some are sexual in nature. Field tested, APB-approved!
THE ASIAN PLAYBOY’S TOP TEN KINO/SEXUAL COMPLIANCE TESTS:
1. POINT & CLICK: This one’s REALLY easy even for the novice amongst us. When you’re in set for more than 5 minutes, start thinking where to maneuver and/or sit. Kino her shoulder, smile, point a short distance away (ie a foot or two away from the crowd), and smoothly GLIDE over there. Do maintain eye contact, your smile, and a steady flow of conversation. If she changes her BL and moves with you, it’s a mild sign that you’re on the right track and willing to distance herself from her home base/friends and be mini-isolated with you.
2. KISS & KINO LADDER: The Evolution Phase Shift is probably the most infamous of our PUA Kino Escalation tactics. You can also do the “Kiss me here, kiss me there, now kiss me riiiiight here…” to go from cheek kisses to full on makeout. Whatever the tactic, the kino/kiss ladder starts small and ends up big while maintaining a sexualized conversation.
3. SENSUAL SHAKE & GLIDE: When you’re introduced to her after some time, you’ll more than likely shake hands. Feel free to do so but then HOLD YOUR PALM UPWARDS without releasing her hand, BUT without holding her hand in place. Basically you’re seeing if she’ll maintain the kino and hold hands with you or pull back. If it lasts a while, you can start holding hands, tickle her palm, and/or simply do a caress & glide with your fingers from her palm.
4. GENTLEMAN’S GRACE: Similar to the above except you flourish your hand out and kiss her hand while smiling at her. Yeah, it’s archaic and seemingly “anti-PUA”, but think about it. One, you’ve initiated sexual kino. And two, just GAZE into her face, lift her lips, smile, and observe her reaction. Is she turned on? Attracted? Embarrassed? Freaked out? Remember, you use CTs to figure out where you are in the sarge and then use small CTs to progress to larger ones like isolation, venue changing, and penis insertion.
5. CAVEMANNING: Women love to have their picture taken. They even practice their poses in the mirror and come up photogenic tactics. So the next time you get a picture taken with a girl, PICK HER UP! Hey, I’m 5″6 and slim. Now I won’t pick up a “big boned” girl, but I’ve lifted my fair share of tanorexics, spinners, and flyers. It’s an easy and kino CT that you can pair up with something else.
6. PAPA’S KNEE: I should invent a cool PUA Community name for this one, but it’s essentially a play off of the very simple Hi-5 CT. This is best done at a BT Spike, seated, and semi-isolated. When you Hi-5, casually bring her hand down to your knee, place it there, and let go while still maintaining constant eye contact and conversation. Don’t force her to maintain kino, you’re simply trying to see if she’s physically and sexually compliant towards touching you. If she takes her hand away like a shamefaced monkey then you simply consider it a sign post for you to Game more and Game better. Now, of course, if she starts to slowly move her hand up your thigh…
7. BOOTY BUMP & GRIND: Booty bump her playfully with your ass to her ass. See if she reciprocates. Hell, take her to the dance floor and ascertain her level of “grindability.” In either case, don’t push it, simple see if she responds positively. Of course, it helps to have rhythm.
8. SIT/LAP TEST: Make her sit in your lap or you in hers. You can motion, pat your knee, or verbally convey it. Again, this isn’t necessarily an ESCALATION move though it could turn into one. The primary goal is to see where she’s at on the Sexual Attraction thermometer. Cold means more BT and Game. Hot lap grinding means it’s time to think logistics and extraction. For the more timid amongst you, simply motion for her to sit next to you while you press your thigh against her thigh and knee. Again, judge her reaction if she stays in constant kino with you or not.
9. PROMENADE: An oldie but still a goodie. When you walk with her, simple put out your elbow and see if she holds your elbow. Advanced versions could include both hands, palm squeezing, tickling, booty bumps, etc.
10. TRUST TEST: Another oldie but still a goodie. Advanced tactics include tickling, caressing, palm reading, and sticking out your tongue at her.
Now go out in the field and try them out! And be sure to post up what kind of shenanigans ya’ll got yourselves into!
-The Asian Playboy
http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com
P.S. Other excellent references on verbal/sexual CTs include CJ’s “How To” Article and for other non-verbal CTs Sinn’s “Comfort Threshold. Or one of my favorite articles… Sexual Identity: Less Talk, More Sex!
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Sexual Identity: Less Talk. More Sex.
If I might use former student Groove as an example. He already had great material and great look.
But it was figuring out his LOGISTICS and using SEXUALITY as a TECHNIQUE / TACTIC / ROUTINE is what, I 100% believe, has allowed him to triple his lay rate.
Dallas PUA Simple has a great saying,
"TALK TO THE PUSSY, LOOK AT THE FACE."
APB's rule #24 now.
In the ABCs of Attraction that Prophet and I originally pioneered, there is a step, a TOTAL change of energy, and attraction called DIRECT INTEREST.
Like, almost EVERYTHING needs to change about your Game.
In other words, you're BEYOND building attraction.
•How you kino (general kino and sexual kino are totally different)
•Your tonality (again approach tonality vs comfort tonality vs sexual tonality & verbage)
•Your eye gazing
•Your physical presence
•Etc.
You're not working on attracting (except to maintain attraction). You SHOULD be concentrating on Sexual Tension (and ergo Sexual Release).
She needs to WANT your cock. Not your conversation.
ABC (Approach & Attract, Buying Temperature, Comfort & Connect) means you're a GOOD CONVERSATIONALIST.
Guess what though? That just means you know how to talk and make friends. You're cool. Interesting. Funny.
But it DOESN'T make you a good LOVER or SEDUCER. So what does?
Gunwitch Method works.
Direct (both Direct BL and Direct opener [both verbal and non-verbal, both statements vs question openers, natural vs canned]) method works that I had to tackle hardcore for 3 straight months.
The four non-verbal keys that form the acronym SECT as part of Direct Interest does.
Because it goes STRAIGHT to the Pussy.
This is when you pull out your cock and REALLY make your move.
It's one of the biggest sticking points that can stall or even defeat an Intermediate Level PUA.
This was my biggest sticking point for the longest time. I'd get consistent number closes, the occasional make out, hand/blow job, and the fully monty after a year of being in the Game.
I was getting more action after I got in the Game.
But it wasn't at the PUA / Rockstar level. It wasn't me laying waste to an entire female social circle by sleeping with every single one of the girls.
I had to take more steps. REALLY step out of my comfort zone. And THAT took a damn lot of effort, introspection, and work.
But it was PROJECTING sexuality. Sexually DOMINATING and taking control. PIMP talk. Being in control of LOGISTICS ("Your place or your place?", "How about the La Quinta or other hotel?", who's got the car?, where does she live?, who's playing watchdog? etc).
That was tough and a HUGE sticking points that separates the entertainment/social robots/attraction routine guys from actual seducers.
Talking to girls, getting numbers, telling funny/interesting stories, and so forth simply means you're an cool, social, friendly guy. But being in control of SEXUAL VIBING/CONTROL and having a handle on your LOGISTICS, makes the difference between LAID and NOT LAID. And it ain't easy to master without a good role model since you can't learn it from reading.
Remember, there is NO second place in Pick Up.
You don't get a prize. You don't get a medal. You either get the girl.
Or you don't.
If I might use former student Groove as an example. He already had great material and great look. But it was figuring out his LOGISTICS and using SEXUALITY as a TECHNIQUE/TACTIC/ROUTINE is what, I 100% believe, has allowed him to triple his lay rate.
You're not there to talk to girls. You're there to have sex...
Stories, openers, comfort tactics... fine and dandy. But it doesn't make her horny.
But it's things like my Theory on the Different Shapes of a Vagina to Captain Jack's version of Strawberry Fields (FUCKING RAINMAKER man, I love it, and have unabashedly stolen it for myself :-)
Sex, gentlemen, SEX. Remember, you're a SEDUCER. Not an ENTERTAINMENT MONKEY or an EMOTIONAL TAMPON.
SEDUCER.
Take, for example, last night hanging out with a home girl of mine now that I'm back from the Los Angeles bootcamp. I got propositioned by a tall, pretty blonde to SWING with her husband. Not the first time it's happened and it won't be the last time. But what triggered that switch in her? To want to fuck me while her husband watches?
VALUE, but most importantly SEXUAL VALUE in the form of ONLY PASSIVE Game.
I didn't tell a story.
I didn't use any sort of opener. She looked at me and simply KNEW I'm good in bed. Maybe I am.
Maybe I'm not (naw, I am). But I subcommunicated sex.
Passive Value being in the form of:
•Social proof (with women, ie my homegirl that intro'd me to the swinging blonde)
•Body language (absolutely relaxed even when she pressed up against me)
•My look (biker bad boy / professional gigolo)
•My easy going, sexual nature with women (cavemanning, dancing, etc.)
•Being non-needy (even when she went for a kiss and reached for my junk)
•And simply looking like a guy that has GUILT-FREE sex
I freely admit to being a manhore, while my 2.5 and 3 some were great experiences, I won't do the cross swords action (just my own issue) so I demurred the offer. Does this happen all the time? Hell no. But by putting it out there, women will pick it up and some will take you up on it.
After all, are you there to be entertaining? or are you there to offer and receive sex?
To give you more room for thought, here are Greene's seducer archetypes from his book and corresponding PUAs that you might want to learn from or emulate:
1) Natural - Spontaneous, genuine, loud, and aggressive. The prototypical, loud, aggressive frat boy. Geoff and Jeffy (well, Jeffy also throws in some crazy peacocking that would be labeled as Metrosexual/Dandy) are great models.
Probably the most common model that Naturals/wannabe Naturals follow. It's great, but being loud, drunk, and aggressive only gets you so far if you DON'T have a Game Plan (which is the common failing of the supposed "Natural Game" or "No Game, Game").
2) Ideal Lover - Projecting sex, horniness, while being NON-NEEDY. You like pussy. You LOVE pussy. You have no shame. Gunwitch Method and some of Shark/Badboy. My article on the "10 Habits of a Natural" is also an example. SwingCat is a great example as is Camerone Teone (ie The One).
African American Game also falls into this category (the good kind, not the random holla holla, hey girl bullshit). It's a numbers games and you'll get more hardcore rejection, but you're ALSO get some of the FASTEST makeouts and lays. You're offering sex and you're finding someone that wants sex. Easy to out value and out-AMOG, but not once she's past the sexual hook point and decided.
3) Dandy/Metrosexual - Put her off balanced, confused, and have her lower her guard. You're surrounded by women, have a great fashion sense, and make women at ease. Are you gay? or straight? Trust me, I knew tons of gay guys that would "crash" in the same bed with straight women and GET TAIL from her. Friction is friction. This is the archetype for peacockers and (I think) BradP (and a pinch of Rockstar) and commonly the Mystery Crew. TD might also be an example (as well as Charmer).
4) Rake/Badboy - Self obvious. Protect of Loved Ones and Sexual Saftey are both ATTRACTION SWITCHES you can turn on. Yet this persona is at the extreme level. Badboys may cheat and abuse their girls, but the girls feel PROTECTED. Why? Because he'll kick the shit out of anyone that messes with him or her. Badboy and Gunwitch.
5) Charismatic - You draw ATTENTION to yourself and INCREASE desireability by being DETACHED from your target. Stripper, ADD, Attention whore game. This is your classic Indirect methodology and negging/disqualifying. You sweep her into the MAELSTROM of your Charisma, and then take it away. She becomes an emotional addict/junkie. Neil Strauss (ie Style) and Mystery are classic example. Like, with Style, in ONE MINUTE you will learn that he is INCREDIBLY intelligent, charming, and connected. He knows how convey coolness, intelligence, and mystery within MINUTES (if not seconds). And that is why he is one of (if not THE) greatest of all Jedi's.
6) Rockstar - Self obvious. Mystery does this especially now that he's pioneering hot/entourage game. This is also bottle service / VIP game. With my look, I usually fall into Badboy (sometimes, but not often Dandy as well) or Rockstar. I either get the coke whores that want to party/fuck/or do some other insane shit or a band-groupie that wants to believe I'm the next Neptune/Hoobastank. For example, after the Tool concert, I was able to get a free Penthouse at the W (where Ghost Bar) by simply looking like I was in the concert/band or when Justin Timberlake was in Dallas (no effort on his part to pull tail from what I heard). It's the Passive Value of the Social Proof (with women) and Social Proof (with men). Makes life SOOOO much easier but it's one of the hardest things to achieve.
7) CHARMER - This is the GIFT of attention, pleasure, and comfort. These are the guys that, when they talk to a woman, make her feel special, unique, and wanted. Loverboy & Hoobie (H. also falls midway into Natural) from RSD/Scotland might be a good example as well as Grungey (the day time specialist). Deep connections, DDB (Doggey dinner bowl) looks, cold reads, etc. However, like the Natural, this just lands you in the friend zone. You can LAUGH YOUR WAY INTO HER PANTS, but simply being interesting only part of the battle. You've got to INTERACT with a girl, capture her EMOTIONS, and then TURN HER ON (ie get her horny).
So what's the moral of this story? This long ass, exhausted, stream of conscious diatribe at 5AM in the morning?
Figure out your SEXUAL identity. In other words, HOW do you want to TURN ON a girl? Not WHAT the fuck you need to say. Beginner's think What. Average think How. Experts think WHERE.
Nerd is not a sexual identity. And neither is, contrary to popular belief, a PICK UP ARTIST. Seducers get laid. Guys that are good at foreplay. Guys in social circles where they have a rep for being awesome in bed. Guys that girls know are vastly sexually experienced and social proofed and make girls horny. In other words, guys that EXUDE sexuality and experience.
All the bullshit you can find online, ebooks, DVDs, etc. gets you in with a girl only so far.
There's a REASON why they took NaturalJ into ProHo (the Natural who briefly dated Britney Spears and had triple digit lays before he reached 21). Sexual experience and the ability to convey it trump any kind of opener, tactic, story, and technique.
Pushing for sex, slamming her in the elevator/bathroom to makeout with her, having her rub your cock in the middle of the dance floor... PHONE SEX. Good dance game.
THAT gets you laid.
Conversationalists means you're a great, interesting, friendly guy. Wow. Cool.
Getting her horny. Now THAT's what separates you from the guys that are "back up cock" when she's horny and the guys that are paying for all her shit, being emotional tampoons, and being standard boy friends.
Guys ask me all the time how I get the fast make outs, the couple of bath room lays, the hotel one night stands. And yes, some of it is just being the right place and the right time. But it's like one of Gunwitch's LRs. A girl (after breaking up with her BF) said jokingly she wanted to get laid. Gunwitch took her up on it, cavemanned her to his truck and fucked her.
Once I've figured out her blueprint, what her attraction switches are, AND just as equally important what HER logistics are, it's time to get her moist down in the sweet spot. Most of my lays, I don't even remember what the fuck I said because it's really not that important. What I do remember is turning her on and having my logistical shit down, taking control, cavemanning, and leading/dominating.
Yes, you can fine tune stories. You can make them better until they're ultra tight and field tested. But it's all in the execution and being in control (ie not depending on luck versus having a GAME PLAN) that makes all the difference in the world.
The WHAT, in all honesty, really isn't that important unless you're still at newbie level. How is more important. And even that is less important than being in control of LOGISTICS (where you isolate, where you extract her, where you make out with her, where you fuck her, etc.).
More sex, gentlemen.
Less talk.
http://www.seductionbase.com/seduction/cat/In_the_Middle/Tactics/685.html
10 way to Pump up Buying Temperature Tactics ...Mostly popularized by Mystery, it has the advantage of introducing that "Wow" factor. One does run the risk of being the entertainer, but as Mystery has shown...
OK, as us Pick Up Artists (PUAs) should know, Buying Temperature is the woman's emotional receptivity and her level of general attraction to the PUA at a given time.
(Note, that there is slight, but subtle difference between general attraction and sexual attraction. You can have one without the other, though then you run the risk of turning from the really cool, fun guy into the really cool, fun friend.)
Anyways, Buying Temperature Game isn't necessarily the tighest game if that forms the cornerstone of your repoitoire (though it's awesome for pushing for one night stands). Yet for some guys, who fall into the trap of being too comfortable and too serious, without pumping up BT, they come off as boring as opposed to exciting and intriguing to the woman.
So I give you some common BT tactics. Some I use quite a bit and some (like magic) I don't. There are two very common weaknesses of BT Game. One, it isn't solid and the attraction (unless you push for the one night stand) she feels for you tends to rapidly disappear in the morning. Secondly, it can also leave you stuck in the position of being the entertainment monkey. Once you're gone or you're out of tricks, the girls will walk away to find some other source of stimuli be it dancing, alcohol, drugs or hot guys/girls (in other words Buying Temperature and attraction is transferable).
Let's get down to brass tacks:
1.Magic - Mostly popularized by Mystery, it has the advantage of introducing that "Wow" factor. One does run the risk of being the entertainer, but as Mystery has shown time and time again, by being the center of attention you create a situation of social proof and displaying social mastery. I won't say not to use it, but I've seen it work. One example that comes to mind is OCWaterBoy before he became the Direct Master that he is now. He did a magic trick (learned from Mystery) to engage an attractive, very slim girl who he eventually slept with. She KNEW what he was trying to do (ie capture her attention and impress her), but the trick was intriguing enough that she was OK with it.
2.Humor - The is really the most common BT strategy. You know it when you see it, but it also takes a modicum of social mastery as well as comic timing if you aren't a naturally humorous guy. Not easy to teach other than to immerse yourself in social situations and watch naturally funny guys. A few one liners and funny stories can help, it's the old concept of being Cocky and Funny popularized by David DeAngelo. I tend to have a pretty good sense of humor, but I'm not always "on" especially as the night wears on. It's the old concept of "Laughing Her Pants Off."
3.Shocking/Humorous Story - You can stack the deck in your favor if you can convey a story that is shocking, overtly sexual, and/or humorous. These are those tall tales that can captivate an audience, make them laugh, make them gasp, but at times, make them roll their eyes if you don't deliver it effectively. I like to use my own stories from my own life (a little embellished perhaps) though one can see the efficacy of canned stories like the Bad Ass Kid Routine and others. Fuck/Marry/Kill, while not necessarily a story, can work as way to both shock and be humorous while at the same time reframing the interaction in a sexual frame.
4.Dancing - This is one of my common tactics that I like to use to both create attraction as well as qualify her ("Oh, are you good dancer? Or do you just shake your ass like all the other girls?"). Note, I don't APPROACH the girl with Dance Game. I use dancing to isolate, pump up her attraction and adrenaline, and escalate the physical. Disadvantages, of course, is that it requires you to be somewhat decent at dancing. An easy variation of this is to Spin Her as if you're doing a swing dance. A lot of guys do this when they open, but a lot of times it's poorly done.
5.Thumb Wrestling - This is a stupid little game and competition, but one I actually had done to me the other night by the girl. Kind of a role reversal, but it's a fun little game. You can frame it as a challenge and play it up as the thumb war championship. Sidenote, sometimes a girl was ask you to buy her a drink, play a game with her, winner buys. You've changed the frame, introduced kino, and you'll win (if you don't, hang up your title of Pick Up Artist right now). There are a lot of variations to this like Slap Jack and so forth.
6.Fake Fighting - I like to do this a lot as well. Maybe a girl will accidentally bump into me. Instead of saying "Sorry" you can pretend to throw down with the girl. "Wha-wha-what? You wanna throw down? Let's see what you GOT?!" Again, it's silly but it's a fun thing to do and shows that you're really not taking the girl too serious. A variation of this is to Booty Bump Her and be playful about it.
7.Cavemanning - I'll do this if I'm feeling particularly energetic and if she's light. This is simply picking her up in your arms. Maybe throwing her over your shoulder. Piggybacking, etc.
8.Make Her Slap Herself - I've already written about making her slap herself. It's similar in nature to cavemanning in that you're displaying dominance by temporarily taking control of her body.
9.Drink Annilihation - This is actually an AMOG tactic that works just as effectively on girls as guys. Fun, silly and leaves her at your mercy.
10.Intentional Cold Read - Not the cold read that's designed to generate commonalities and understanding (though there is that), but calling a girl from New York "trouble" or a "bad girl" and then turning like you're walking away. Most times, you'll get pulled back in where they'll laugh and qualify themselves. This is where the PowerPuff girl routine came in though you can do a lot with it from the Sexual Predator to any other outrageous cold read that's designed to push her buttons.
All of this, of course, depend upon your delivery, energy level, and a host of other factors that helps you convey humor and playfulness as well as dominating the interaction so she no longer is thinking logically, but simply responding emotionally and on a visceral level.
Also remember that BT Game should be considered within the context of the social setting as well as the girl herself. You don't need to pump up BT at the library for general day game, a decent sense of humor well work just as fine. Club game, however, where you're competing with massive amounts of other stimuli and distractions does require a mastery of BT Game.
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AsianPlayboy:10 Fool Proof Sexual-Kino Compliance Tests
Another solid article from The Asian Playboy. He’s got a lot of great stuff going on. Go visit his new website at The ABCs of Attraction
Understanding & Mastering Sexual Anxiety
“10 Fool Proof Sexual-Kino Compliance Tests!”
Sexual anxiety was- without a doubt- my biggest sticking point that easily held me back for months if not more. It prevented me from escalating whether for a one night stand, bathroom fuck, or going sexual on the date. Talk about frustrating, until I finally clued in that General Attraction is different from Sexual Attraction which required me to modify my early Buying Temperature and C&F Verbal Game tactics.
Quite frankly, in my honest opinion, I rank paralinguistics (ie Non-Verbal Game) as important -if not more so- than Verbal Game. So instead of getting all verbose as in my previous article dealing with Inner Game, let me simple give you ten (10) of my personal favorite and field tested Sexual-Kino Compliance Tests.
I use them quite often not only to ascertain her Sexual & General Attraction, but also to spike her emotional Buying Temperature as well as Kino Plow into the fun zone of sex!
Sure you’ll feel awkward in the beginning, but there’s the nice side benefit that, by using them as part of your Kino Game and Compliance Testing, they will slowly help you get over your SA and become more comfortable around women and conveying more dominance and sexuality through constant kino and compliance testing.
First, I- with regards to both the what and why- define Compliance Tests as:
1. A method (either verbal and non-) by which you gauge her Attraction (General or Sexual) to you.
2. Providing an OPTION for her to either pass or fail.
3. Encouraging and qualifying the right choice through a reward/punishment stratagem.
4. Establishing and maintaining the leader/masculine/dominance versus the follower/feminine/submissive frame.
5. Testing for, declawing, and/or eliminating “Cat String” attention whore / stripper types.
6. Finally, with regards to the objective of the article, the more you sexually CT her, the more comfortable you become being, encouraging, and expecting sensuality from both you and her.
Secondly, here are some additional guidelines by which you can increase the successful CTs:
1. LEGITIMACY: Verbal CTs should always be phrased with a “legitimate” excuse. Trust me, girls are NOT stupid. They KNOW why you want to get them upstairs. They just need it to pass the “common sense” test when they brag about you to their girlfriends. It doesn’t need to be logical or foolproof, it just needs to SOUND legitimate. For Kino CTs, this is done with unspoken subtlety and confident body language as well as appropriate levels of BT and privacy.
2. SPIKING THE CT: CTs are best off paired with some sort of Attraction Switch DHV or a BT Spike. The more emotional and attracted she is to you, the more willing she is to comply and follow you without asking questions.
3. CT WITH KINO: ALWAYS try and pair a CT with a light KINO touch. Don’t go out of your way and make it weird, but throw in that little extra kino so she’s physically stimulated at the same time.
4. INTIMACY BUBBLE: The closer you are to her- whether she’s attracted or not- the more willing she is to comply. You don’t want to be creepy, but when you’re sharing the same personal space, she is less likely to reject the CT.
5. FASHION: Unless you or her are hardened criminals, a uniformed office gets your attention and demands respect. In other words, dress like a MAN who’s dominant and sure. Baggy, ghetto, or kiddy gear doesn’t garner respect. Power suits or a cohesive fashion sense can show you’re someone to be followed.
6. SMILE: Smiling- like CJ’s “Clown Grin”- is essentially a BT spike. People feel good when they’re presented with a genuine, infectious, and full smile. It’s natural for her to feel comfortable around a friendly, vivacious, and fun loving person.
7. NO FORCE: A lot of newbies carry the concept of “The Illusion of Input” as forcing her to jump through your hoops. Bad PUA! You aren’t supposed to force her to do anything, simply encourage/highlight/present the RIGHT choice.
8. RANDOM POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT: This is for the “Negs Gone Wild” or “I am the Prize” extremists… If she’s basically willing to do everything you want, you need to reward her whether it be with BT Spikes, BL, kino, kisses, sex, or whatever. Don’t be predictable, but do show that you acknowledge her enthusiastic compliance with the SLIGHT hope that she might actually be able to win you over. Constant punishment and/or tests will eventually convince her that you aren’t interested and/or attainable while constant rewards shows that you’re needy. Mix it up.
But enough theory, already!
Here are my fun, personally field tested, Compliance Tests. Some are new. Some are old. Some are purely kino BT spikers. And some are sexual in nature. Field tested, APB-approved!
THE ASIAN PLAYBOY’S TOP TEN KINO/SEXUAL COMPLIANCE TESTS:
1. POINT & CLICK: This one’s REALLY easy even for the novice amongst us. When you’re in set for more than 5 minutes, start thinking where to maneuver and/or sit. Kino her shoulder, smile, point a short distance away (ie a foot or two away from the crowd), and smoothly GLIDE over there. Do maintain eye contact, your smile, and a steady flow of conversation. If she changes her BL and moves with you, it’s a mild sign that you’re on the right track and willing to distance herself from her home base/friends and be mini-isolated with you.
2. KISS & KINO LADDER: The Evolution Phase Shift is probably the most infamous of our PUA Kino Escalation tactics. You can also do the “Kiss me here, kiss me there, now kiss me riiiiight here…” to go from cheek kisses to full on makeout. Whatever the tactic, the kino/kiss ladder starts small and ends up big while maintaining a sexualized conversation.
3. SENSUAL SHAKE & GLIDE: When you’re introduced to her after some time, you’ll more than likely shake hands. Feel free to do so but then HOLD YOUR PALM UPWARDS without releasing her hand, BUT without holding her hand in place. Basically you’re seeing if she’ll maintain the kino and hold hands with you or pull back. If it lasts a while, you can start holding hands, tickle her palm, and/or simply do a caress & glide with your fingers from her palm.
4. GENTLEMAN’S GRACE: Similar to the above except you flourish your hand out and kiss her hand while smiling at her. Yeah, it’s archaic and seemingly “anti-PUA”, but think about it. One, you’ve initiated sexual kino. And two, just GAZE into her face, lift her lips, smile, and observe her reaction. Is she turned on? Attracted? Embarrassed? Freaked out? Remember, you use CTs to figure out where you are in the sarge and then use small CTs to progress to larger ones like isolation, venue changing, and penis insertion.
5. CAVEMANNING: Women love to have their picture taken. They even practice their poses in the mirror and come up photogenic tactics. So the next time you get a picture taken with a girl, PICK HER UP! Hey, I’m 5″6 and slim. Now I won’t pick up a “big boned” girl, but I’ve lifted my fair share of tanorexics, spinners, and flyers. It’s an easy and kino CT that you can pair up with something else.
6. PAPA’S KNEE: I should invent a cool PUA Community name for this one, but it’s essentially a play off of the very simple Hi-5 CT. This is best done at a BT Spike, seated, and semi-isolated. When you Hi-5, casually bring her hand down to your knee, place it there, and let go while still maintaining constant eye contact and conversation. Don’t force her to maintain kino, you’re simply trying to see if she’s physically and sexually compliant towards touching you. If she takes her hand away like a shamefaced monkey then you simply consider it a sign post for you to Game more and Game better. Now, of course, if she starts to slowly move her hand up your thigh…
7. BOOTY BUMP & GRIND: Booty bump her playfully with your ass to her ass. See if she reciprocates. Hell, take her to the dance floor and ascertain her level of “grindability.” In either case, don’t push it, simple see if she responds positively. Of course, it helps to have rhythm.
8. SIT/LAP TEST: Make her sit in your lap or you in hers. You can motion, pat your knee, or verbally convey it. Again, this isn’t necessarily an ESCALATION move though it could turn into one. The primary goal is to see where she’s at on the Sexual Attraction thermometer. Cold means more BT and Game. Hot lap grinding means it’s time to think logistics and extraction. For the more timid amongst you, simply motion for her to sit next to you while you press your thigh against her thigh and knee. Again, judge her reaction if she stays in constant kino with you or not.
9. PROMENADE: An oldie but still a goodie. When you walk with her, simple put out your elbow and see if she holds your elbow. Advanced versions could include both hands, palm squeezing, tickling, booty bumps, etc.
10. TRUST TEST: Another oldie but still a goodie. Advanced tactics include tickling, caressing, palm reading, and sticking out your tongue at her.
Now go out in the field and try them out! And be sure to post up what kind of shenanigans ya’ll got yourselves into!
-The Asian Playboy
http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com
P.S. Other excellent references on verbal/sexual CTs include CJ’s “How To” Article and for other non-verbal CTs Sinn’s “Comfort Threshold. Or one of my favorite articles… Sexual Identity: Less Talk, More Sex!
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If I might use former student Groove as an example. He already had great material and great look.
But it was figuring out his LOGISTICS and using SEXUALITY as a TECHNIQUE / TACTIC / ROUTINE is what, I 100% believe, has allowed him to triple his lay rate.
Dallas PUA Simple has a great saying,
"TALK TO THE PUSSY, LOOK AT THE FACE."
APB's rule #24 now.
In the ABCs of Attraction that Prophet and I originally pioneered, there is a step, a TOTAL change of energy, and attraction called DIRECT INTEREST.
Like, almost EVERYTHING needs to change about your Game.
In other words, you're BEYOND building attraction.
•How you kino (general kino and sexual kino are totally different)
•Your tonality (again approach tonality vs comfort tonality vs sexual tonality & verbage)
•Your eye gazing
•Your physical presence
•Etc.
You're not working on attracting (except to maintain attraction). You SHOULD be concentrating on Sexual Tension (and ergo Sexual Release).
She needs to WANT your cock. Not your conversation.
ABC (Approach & Attract, Buying Temperature, Comfort & Connect) means you're a GOOD CONVERSATIONALIST.
Guess what though? That just means you know how to talk and make friends. You're cool. Interesting. Funny.
But it DOESN'T make you a good LOVER or SEDUCER. So what does?
Gunwitch Method works.
Direct (both Direct BL and Direct opener [both verbal and non-verbal, both statements vs question openers, natural vs canned]) method works that I had to tackle hardcore for 3 straight months.
The four non-verbal keys that form the acronym SECT as part of Direct Interest does.
Because it goes STRAIGHT to the Pussy.
This is when you pull out your cock and REALLY make your move.
It's one of the biggest sticking points that can stall or even defeat an Intermediate Level PUA.
This was my biggest sticking point for the longest time. I'd get consistent number closes, the occasional make out, hand/blow job, and the fully monty after a year of being in the Game.
I was getting more action after I got in the Game.
But it wasn't at the PUA / Rockstar level. It wasn't me laying waste to an entire female social circle by sleeping with every single one of the girls.
I had to take more steps. REALLY step out of my comfort zone. And THAT took a damn lot of effort, introspection, and work.
But it was PROJECTING sexuality. Sexually DOMINATING and taking control. PIMP talk. Being in control of LOGISTICS ("Your place or your place?", "How about the La Quinta or other hotel?", who's got the car?, where does she live?, who's playing watchdog? etc).
That was tough and a HUGE sticking points that separates the entertainment/social robots/attraction routine guys from actual seducers.
Talking to girls, getting numbers, telling funny/interesting stories, and so forth simply means you're an cool, social, friendly guy. But being in control of SEXUAL VIBING/CONTROL and having a handle on your LOGISTICS, makes the difference between LAID and NOT LAID. And it ain't easy to master without a good role model since you can't learn it from reading.
Remember, there is NO second place in Pick Up.
You don't get a prize. You don't get a medal. You either get the girl.
Or you don't.
If I might use former student Groove as an example. He already had great material and great look. But it was figuring out his LOGISTICS and using SEXUALITY as a TECHNIQUE/TACTIC/ROUTINE is what, I 100% believe, has allowed him to triple his lay rate.
You're not there to talk to girls. You're there to have sex...
Stories, openers, comfort tactics... fine and dandy. But it doesn't make her horny.
But it's things like my Theory on the Different Shapes of a Vagina to Captain Jack's version of Strawberry Fields (FUCKING RAINMAKER man, I love it, and have unabashedly stolen it for myself :-)
Sex, gentlemen, SEX. Remember, you're a SEDUCER. Not an ENTERTAINMENT MONKEY or an EMOTIONAL TAMPON.
SEDUCER.
Take, for example, last night hanging out with a home girl of mine now that I'm back from the Los Angeles bootcamp. I got propositioned by a tall, pretty blonde to SWING with her husband. Not the first time it's happened and it won't be the last time. But what triggered that switch in her? To want to fuck me while her husband watches?
VALUE, but most importantly SEXUAL VALUE in the form of ONLY PASSIVE Game.
I didn't tell a story.
I didn't use any sort of opener. She looked at me and simply KNEW I'm good in bed. Maybe I am.
Maybe I'm not (naw, I am). But I subcommunicated sex.
Passive Value being in the form of:
•Social proof (with women, ie my homegirl that intro'd me to the swinging blonde)
•Body language (absolutely relaxed even when she pressed up against me)
•My look (biker bad boy / professional gigolo)
•My easy going, sexual nature with women (cavemanning, dancing, etc.)
•Being non-needy (even when she went for a kiss and reached for my junk)
•And simply looking like a guy that has GUILT-FREE sex
I freely admit to being a manhore, while my 2.5 and 3 some were great experiences, I won't do the cross swords action (just my own issue) so I demurred the offer. Does this happen all the time? Hell no. But by putting it out there, women will pick it up and some will take you up on it.
After all, are you there to be entertaining? or are you there to offer and receive sex?
To give you more room for thought, here are Greene's seducer archetypes from his book and corresponding PUAs that you might want to learn from or emulate:
1) Natural - Spontaneous, genuine, loud, and aggressive. The prototypical, loud, aggressive frat boy. Geoff and Jeffy (well, Jeffy also throws in some crazy peacocking that would be labeled as Metrosexual/Dandy) are great models.
Probably the most common model that Naturals/wannabe Naturals follow. It's great, but being loud, drunk, and aggressive only gets you so far if you DON'T have a Game Plan (which is the common failing of the supposed "Natural Game" or "No Game, Game").
2) Ideal Lover - Projecting sex, horniness, while being NON-NEEDY. You like pussy. You LOVE pussy. You have no shame. Gunwitch Method and some of Shark/Badboy. My article on the "10 Habits of a Natural" is also an example. SwingCat is a great example as is Camerone Teone (ie The One).
African American Game also falls into this category (the good kind, not the random holla holla, hey girl bullshit). It's a numbers games and you'll get more hardcore rejection, but you're ALSO get some of the FASTEST makeouts and lays. You're offering sex and you're finding someone that wants sex. Easy to out value and out-AMOG, but not once she's past the sexual hook point and decided.
3) Dandy/Metrosexual - Put her off balanced, confused, and have her lower her guard. You're surrounded by women, have a great fashion sense, and make women at ease. Are you gay? or straight? Trust me, I knew tons of gay guys that would "crash" in the same bed with straight women and GET TAIL from her. Friction is friction. This is the archetype for peacockers and (I think) BradP (and a pinch of Rockstar) and commonly the Mystery Crew. TD might also be an example (as well as Charmer).
4) Rake/Badboy - Self obvious. Protect of Loved Ones and Sexual Saftey are both ATTRACTION SWITCHES you can turn on. Yet this persona is at the extreme level. Badboys may cheat and abuse their girls, but the girls feel PROTECTED. Why? Because he'll kick the shit out of anyone that messes with him or her. Badboy and Gunwitch.
5) Charismatic - You draw ATTENTION to yourself and INCREASE desireability by being DETACHED from your target. Stripper, ADD, Attention whore game. This is your classic Indirect methodology and negging/disqualifying. You sweep her into the MAELSTROM of your Charisma, and then take it away. She becomes an emotional addict/junkie. Neil Strauss (ie Style) and Mystery are classic example. Like, with Style, in ONE MINUTE you will learn that he is INCREDIBLY intelligent, charming, and connected. He knows how convey coolness, intelligence, and mystery within MINUTES (if not seconds). And that is why he is one of (if not THE) greatest of all Jedi's.
6) Rockstar - Self obvious. Mystery does this especially now that he's pioneering hot/entourage game. This is also bottle service / VIP game. With my look, I usually fall into Badboy (sometimes, but not often Dandy as well) or Rockstar. I either get the coke whores that want to party/fuck/or do some other insane shit or a band-groupie that wants to believe I'm the next Neptune/Hoobastank. For example, after the Tool concert, I was able to get a free Penthouse at the W (where Ghost Bar) by simply looking like I was in the concert/band or when Justin Timberlake was in Dallas (no effort on his part to pull tail from what I heard). It's the Passive Value of the Social Proof (with women) and Social Proof (with men). Makes life SOOOO much easier but it's one of the hardest things to achieve.
7) CHARMER - This is the GIFT of attention, pleasure, and comfort. These are the guys that, when they talk to a woman, make her feel special, unique, and wanted. Loverboy & Hoobie (H. also falls midway into Natural) from RSD/Scotland might be a good example as well as Grungey (the day time specialist). Deep connections, DDB (Doggey dinner bowl) looks, cold reads, etc. However, like the Natural, this just lands you in the friend zone. You can LAUGH YOUR WAY INTO HER PANTS, but simply being interesting only part of the battle. You've got to INTERACT with a girl, capture her EMOTIONS, and then TURN HER ON (ie get her horny).
So what's the moral of this story? This long ass, exhausted, stream of conscious diatribe at 5AM in the morning?
Figure out your SEXUAL identity. In other words, HOW do you want to TURN ON a girl? Not WHAT the fuck you need to say. Beginner's think What. Average think How. Experts think WHERE.
Nerd is not a sexual identity. And neither is, contrary to popular belief, a PICK UP ARTIST. Seducers get laid. Guys that are good at foreplay. Guys in social circles where they have a rep for being awesome in bed. Guys that girls know are vastly sexually experienced and social proofed and make girls horny. In other words, guys that EXUDE sexuality and experience.
All the bullshit you can find online, ebooks, DVDs, etc. gets you in with a girl only so far.
There's a REASON why they took NaturalJ into ProHo (the Natural who briefly dated Britney Spears and had triple digit lays before he reached 21). Sexual experience and the ability to convey it trump any kind of opener, tactic, story, and technique.
Pushing for sex, slamming her in the elevator/bathroom to makeout with her, having her rub your cock in the middle of the dance floor... PHONE SEX. Good dance game.
THAT gets you laid.
Conversationalists means you're a great, interesting, friendly guy. Wow. Cool.
Getting her horny. Now THAT's what separates you from the guys that are "back up cock" when she's horny and the guys that are paying for all her shit, being emotional tampoons, and being standard boy friends.
Guys ask me all the time how I get the fast make outs, the couple of bath room lays, the hotel one night stands. And yes, some of it is just being the right place and the right time. But it's like one of Gunwitch's LRs. A girl (after breaking up with her BF) said jokingly she wanted to get laid. Gunwitch took her up on it, cavemanned her to his truck and fucked her.
Once I've figured out her blueprint, what her attraction switches are, AND just as equally important what HER logistics are, it's time to get her moist down in the sweet spot. Most of my lays, I don't even remember what the fuck I said because it's really not that important. What I do remember is turning her on and having my logistical shit down, taking control, cavemanning, and leading/dominating.
Yes, you can fine tune stories. You can make them better until they're ultra tight and field tested. But it's all in the execution and being in control (ie not depending on luck versus having a GAME PLAN) that makes all the difference in the world.
The WHAT, in all honesty, really isn't that important unless you're still at newbie level. How is more important. And even that is less important than being in control of LOGISTICS (where you isolate, where you extract her, where you make out with her, where you fuck her, etc.).
More sex, gentlemen.
Less talk.
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
quick post--probelm solving paperwork school
I just got terible news about my papaerwork and was in a state of shock for a couple of minmutes.
YEs Im human and I did feel sad but no hopeless.
I actually got up to get a glass of water and said to myself:
What do I do next???
I cant get depressed, that isnt helpful...OK I accepted the fact that its a sad situation to be in...and a major setback..MAYOR.
I then pictured myself as i was asking God for help,
I said God what do you want from me? You know my needs, know ,my dreams and goals...
Why are you making me go through so much???
I realized to myself and started talking:
God wants the BEst of us , we are determined to Win...
we are faced with challenges in our lives, thouse challenges are a teast of stregnth of ourFAith, ewverytime we see it like this, we will get rewarded with wisdom from God.
So I started talking as If I was explaining it to people about how God lived and how Christ lived and example he is and how real he was and how lucky we are.
How blessed we are.... How we cant walk away from hard times, its a part of life and how we cant just walk away
Noah didnt walk away
David didnt walk away
They faced the challenged and asked God for Help and wisdom, they didnt depend on theri own strenght but the took the courage to come forth.
So instead of feeling sorry for myself, after I cried , i went to take a shower and said to myself I have to be responsible with myself, When I see an oppourtunity I wont let it pass, I acknowledge the mistake of being negligent and started self correcting (unconscious sticking point analysis) then as I took a shower I asked myself
Without all this BS
what would be the most simple yet effective solution without investing so much energy yet get what I want?
Im running around like chasing a needle in a haystack and trying to solve a problem but not in an effective manner or in the right way.....maybe after investing alot of money and many hours but that wont cover for the Longterm?
Then it came to me all that I had said, being truthful with yourself and God.
an option opened wihtin minutes of thinking.
I did release my emotions by crying before I started analyzing, so I wouldnt let my emotions keep me down.
people are wrong when they say "take your time" "go take time off and rest"
NO!
tha t doesnt solve nor does it make it go away.
I actually realized that I wouldnt have never thought of it as a solution to such a big prooblem.
I did go to school and I did graduate and Soo who cares???
Does it affect me???
Do people really look at your score once you are accepted?
Absolutley NOT!
They Dont to be honest, they look to see if you are qualified and if you know what you are tlaking about and know peoploe and have experience and mature for the job.
So being consistent and persisitent paid off :)
I came up with a solution I wont re think it but will right it down to rush the process....
Like JM told me you can still make it if you hustle!
Im definately focused and going for it
I drink champagne in the hood I drink champagne with tiger woods I sdrink champagne when I hustle I drink champagne with Nipsy Russell! LOL
Tuenrin g shit tinto fertilizer mentality works for propblem, solving and letting go of emotions.
YEs Im human and I did feel sad but no hopeless.
I actually got up to get a glass of water and said to myself:
What do I do next???
I cant get depressed, that isnt helpful...OK I accepted the fact that its a sad situation to be in...and a major setback..MAYOR.
I then pictured myself as i was asking God for help,
I said God what do you want from me? You know my needs, know ,my dreams and goals...
Why are you making me go through so much???
I realized to myself and started talking:
God wants the BEst of us , we are determined to Win...
we are faced with challenges in our lives, thouse challenges are a teast of stregnth of ourFAith, ewverytime we see it like this, we will get rewarded with wisdom from God.
So I started talking as If I was explaining it to people about how God lived and how Christ lived and example he is and how real he was and how lucky we are.
How blessed we are.... How we cant walk away from hard times, its a part of life and how we cant just walk away
Noah didnt walk away
David didnt walk away
They faced the challenged and asked God for Help and wisdom, they didnt depend on theri own strenght but the took the courage to come forth.
So instead of feeling sorry for myself, after I cried , i went to take a shower and said to myself I have to be responsible with myself, When I see an oppourtunity I wont let it pass, I acknowledge the mistake of being negligent and started self correcting (unconscious sticking point analysis) then as I took a shower I asked myself
Without all this BS
what would be the most simple yet effective solution without investing so much energy yet get what I want?
Im running around like chasing a needle in a haystack and trying to solve a problem but not in an effective manner or in the right way.....maybe after investing alot of money and many hours but that wont cover for the Longterm?
Then it came to me all that I had said, being truthful with yourself and God.
an option opened wihtin minutes of thinking.
I did release my emotions by crying before I started analyzing, so I wouldnt let my emotions keep me down.
people are wrong when they say "take your time" "go take time off and rest"
NO!
tha t doesnt solve nor does it make it go away.
I actually realized that I wouldnt have never thought of it as a solution to such a big prooblem.
I did go to school and I did graduate and Soo who cares???
Does it affect me???
Do people really look at your score once you are accepted?
Absolutley NOT!
They Dont to be honest, they look to see if you are qualified and if you know what you are tlaking about and know peoploe and have experience and mature for the job.
So being consistent and persisitent paid off :)
I came up with a solution I wont re think it but will right it down to rush the process....
Like JM told me you can still make it if you hustle!
Im definately focused and going for it
I drink champagne in the hood I drink champagne with tiger woods I sdrink champagne when I hustle I drink champagne with Nipsy Russell! LOL
Tuenrin g shit tinto fertilizer mentality works for propblem, solving and letting go of emotions.
Sunday, April 4, 2010
Badboy notes of a lair talk
I like badboy cause he acts like a badboy.lol
nah, I like his aura of masculinity which most PUAs dont have that.
he is pretty good and I used his innergame, rapport, emotional states and his kiss close which is rarely seen. and I use 100% of the time.
guy talks natural game and he has exciting bootcamps stuff and can coach I heard.
I like his prioirties first which really I should have listened . he is arare guy in the pua community.
heres notes from a liar talk I found, ENJOY!!!
Notes From Badboy found from a lair talk
Badboy Quotes / Introduction
• Direct game works better here [in the US]
• I represent direct game
• The deeper I go, the more simple it becomes
• You’re not picking her up, you are seducing her
Emotions are contagious
The girl is a mirror image of yourself. She will reflect your beliefs, thoughts and how those things are projected by your presence. In a way, you are "picking up" yourself.
Women don’t want to be the one choosing, they want to be the chosen. You are choosing her
Most 9’s and 10’s are very insecure. I have more success talking to with American girls!
I love other guys. They drive the girl to the club, pay for her drinks and bring her back! I don’t have to do anything. The other guys are my best friends.
Emotions
How do you feel? How does she feel? Pay attention to how she feels!
Don’t negotiate with logic or argue your way into sleeping with her. Logic does not work with women. Of the Fortune 500 companies, only 4-5 CEOs are women. It is not in their nature to be logical.
Don’t change the way she thinks. Change the way she feels. When talking to a woman always notice how she feels during the interaction.
There are 5 emotions you must make her feel (Note: same as BadBoy’s DVDs)
1. Relaxed
2. Attraction
3. Trust
4. Physical Comfort
5. Connection
On being rich and on social status
Club -> Swords -> Guns -> Money
Being “rich” isn’t necessarily what you think. She’s not being a gold digger. It makes her feel the following emotions: comfort, security, protection, power, dominance, stability. The things that evoke these emotions have changed over time.
On buying drinks
Don’t buy drink as a way to impress or attract her. Do it for building trust and comfort after she is attracted to you. Having a drink has become a socialritual of friendship. Calibrate on drink buying. How many times have you thought, “if I only bought that girl a drink I would have got laid!?”
How to create Trust
• Changing location
• Leading (activity, motion)
• Give her something you own, or wear something of hers (glasses, hat, etc)
• Sit down (high heels are painful)- you are helping her with her pain
• Time = trust
• Give something to the girl’s friend, and take the girl (show physical leading technique) and tell her you will come back.
•
Physical Comfort /Kino Escalation
• High five
• Palm reading
• Smile, relax, “love to be touched” vibe
• Movement of kino goes from hand, to shoulders, to the head/hair, to the mouth, breast, and then back down finally to the vaginal region.
On Dominance
Dominance = achieving things without using force, but influence.
Aggression = force. You will face resistance if you use force.
[Badboy demos locking hand leading and sitting the girls down by lightly pressing her hip area]
If you get resistance, you are either a) too weak (no motivation or energy) b) too forceful, too much pressure and will raise resistance and trigger “danger” in her mind.
Q&A
The club is a fake and dramatic environment. Pick one girl and think, “I am going to make her happy for 1 night.” Think about her, not about your wanting to fuck her
The best cologne is the pheromone the female body releases
[AW: was he joking?]
All your life, girls have developed ways to filter out the real men. Be the man. I don’t believe in rejection.
“In love and war, remember there are no rules”
On day 2s
Tell the girl she can pick the time, you pick the location. Location gives you more control
Be unpredictable. If you become predictable, it is game over.
Day 2 venues
• Mini-golf
• Go car
• Telescope and blanket (park)
• Running / sports
Party vs. Emotional Girls
Party girls: confident, sexy, and flirty. Attraction keys: leading. Don’t talk to her, show her with physical lead. “Sex, drugs and rock and roll”, if you are good sex, they will come back for more.
Emotional girls: long term, value building, security and protection. Attraction keys: build value, connection. Have the “we are soul mates” vibe.
Openers
Whisper “You’re so fucking sexy” and then walk away (she will think about you for the rest of the night. Wait 10-15 minutes, “now we can talk”
Badboy tells us story about the HB10 with 7 guys, how he turned her around and then shook his head and walked away. She was hooked.
“Stop” like a police sign
Both hands on shoulders turn her around and keep smiling
Hand leading (very dominant)
Social Circle Game
You still have to have club game in order to build and maintain a social circle. The club scene is the most difficult environment that will test your social intuition skills. Keep this in mind as I tell you about social game
5 really hot girlfriends. Keep your dick in your pants and try not to fuck them. Each will have a circle of about 10 girlfriends
If you take a friend, be sure to replace her. “Bait” to catch the bigger fish / use as pivots
House party – invite 10 girls, 3-4 guys. 3-4 parties later, make them feel comfortable so they will get drunk and sleep over. Then harvest.
Give the girl a mission, “you bring the salad, you get the drinks” to reduce party flake rate
Relax, no community guys, no hitting on girls at party
Ending
“Being a mPUA is great. For me, it is the chase that gets off. The sex is great too, but I love the chase!”
“My purpose in life is to give women the men they want”
nah, I like his aura of masculinity which most PUAs dont have that.
he is pretty good and I used his innergame, rapport, emotional states and his kiss close which is rarely seen. and I use 100% of the time.
guy talks natural game and he has exciting bootcamps stuff and can coach I heard.
I like his prioirties first which really I should have listened . he is arare guy in the pua community.
heres notes from a liar talk I found, ENJOY!!!
Notes From Badboy found from a lair talk
Badboy Quotes / Introduction
• Direct game works better here [in the US]
• I represent direct game
• The deeper I go, the more simple it becomes
• You’re not picking her up, you are seducing her
Emotions are contagious
The girl is a mirror image of yourself. She will reflect your beliefs, thoughts and how those things are projected by your presence. In a way, you are "picking up" yourself.
Women don’t want to be the one choosing, they want to be the chosen. You are choosing her
Most 9’s and 10’s are very insecure. I have more success talking to with American girls!
I love other guys. They drive the girl to the club, pay for her drinks and bring her back! I don’t have to do anything. The other guys are my best friends.
Emotions
How do you feel? How does she feel? Pay attention to how she feels!
Don’t negotiate with logic or argue your way into sleeping with her. Logic does not work with women. Of the Fortune 500 companies, only 4-5 CEOs are women. It is not in their nature to be logical.
Don’t change the way she thinks. Change the way she feels. When talking to a woman always notice how she feels during the interaction.
There are 5 emotions you must make her feel (Note: same as BadBoy’s DVDs)
1. Relaxed
2. Attraction
3. Trust
4. Physical Comfort
5. Connection
On being rich and on social status
Club -> Swords -> Guns -> Money
Being “rich” isn’t necessarily what you think. She’s not being a gold digger. It makes her feel the following emotions: comfort, security, protection, power, dominance, stability. The things that evoke these emotions have changed over time.
On buying drinks
Don’t buy drink as a way to impress or attract her. Do it for building trust and comfort after she is attracted to you. Having a drink has become a socialritual of friendship. Calibrate on drink buying. How many times have you thought, “if I only bought that girl a drink I would have got laid!?”
How to create Trust
• Changing location
• Leading (activity, motion)
• Give her something you own, or wear something of hers (glasses, hat, etc)
• Sit down (high heels are painful)- you are helping her with her pain
• Time = trust
• Give something to the girl’s friend, and take the girl (show physical leading technique) and tell her you will come back.
•
Physical Comfort /Kino Escalation
• High five
• Palm reading
• Smile, relax, “love to be touched” vibe
• Movement of kino goes from hand, to shoulders, to the head/hair, to the mouth, breast, and then back down finally to the vaginal region.
On Dominance
Dominance = achieving things without using force, but influence.
Aggression = force. You will face resistance if you use force.
[Badboy demos locking hand leading and sitting the girls down by lightly pressing her hip area]
If you get resistance, you are either a) too weak (no motivation or energy) b) too forceful, too much pressure and will raise resistance and trigger “danger” in her mind.
Q&A
The club is a fake and dramatic environment. Pick one girl and think, “I am going to make her happy for 1 night.” Think about her, not about your wanting to fuck her
The best cologne is the pheromone the female body releases
[AW: was he joking?]
All your life, girls have developed ways to filter out the real men. Be the man. I don’t believe in rejection.
“In love and war, remember there are no rules”
On day 2s
Tell the girl she can pick the time, you pick the location. Location gives you more control
Be unpredictable. If you become predictable, it is game over.
Day 2 venues
• Mini-golf
• Go car
• Telescope and blanket (park)
• Running / sports
Party vs. Emotional Girls
Party girls: confident, sexy, and flirty. Attraction keys: leading. Don’t talk to her, show her with physical lead. “Sex, drugs and rock and roll”, if you are good sex, they will come back for more.
Emotional girls: long term, value building, security and protection. Attraction keys: build value, connection. Have the “we are soul mates” vibe.
Openers
Whisper “You’re so fucking sexy” and then walk away (she will think about you for the rest of the night. Wait 10-15 minutes, “now we can talk”
Badboy tells us story about the HB10 with 7 guys, how he turned her around and then shook his head and walked away. She was hooked.
“Stop” like a police sign
Both hands on shoulders turn her around and keep smiling
Hand leading (very dominant)
Social Circle Game
You still have to have club game in order to build and maintain a social circle. The club scene is the most difficult environment that will test your social intuition skills. Keep this in mind as I tell you about social game
5 really hot girlfriends. Keep your dick in your pants and try not to fuck them. Each will have a circle of about 10 girlfriends
If you take a friend, be sure to replace her. “Bait” to catch the bigger fish / use as pivots
House party – invite 10 girls, 3-4 guys. 3-4 parties later, make them feel comfortable so they will get drunk and sleep over. Then harvest.
Give the girl a mission, “you bring the salad, you get the drinks” to reduce party flake rate
Relax, no community guys, no hitting on girls at party
Ending
“Being a mPUA is great. For me, it is the chase that gets off. The sex is great too, but I love the chase!”
“My purpose in life is to give women the men they want”
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