Get Your Priorities Straight ...Today
Get Your Priorities Straight ...Today
I see lots of guys in the Seduction Community make the same mistake over and over, regarding where their priorities are... Namely, letting pickup take over their life. Guys spend all their time reading forums, downloading more and more material, studying every guru's philosophy and eventually it becomes their whole life. Guys start to look at the world as one big sarge and lose the ability to act like a normal person with friends and other priorities in their life. This is why so many guys you meet in the community are fucking weird. There are plenty of great guys in it, but also a lot of weirdos. Make an effort to be a normal person before being a mPUA... You'll be happier.
Pickup should be just one of the hobbies you have. Don't spend more than 2-3 days a week on it and don't spend all your free time trolling the internet for more info... Learn what you need to to so that you are getting results but then just go out and have fun, go to the gym, do some reading, play sports, learn something new... Girls love guys with a genuinely good lifestyle which is why guys who obsess over only pickup are actually hurting their chances with girls. What they are doing is putting women and their need for validation above all other things and the gaping void that forms in their life because of this will be subcommunicated eventually and drive girls away. This is a horrible dynamic to create in your life. Sitting in front of a computer, reading forums and spending hours worrying about what opener to use is the worst lifestyle you can have. Your pursuit of women should be a small facet of your overall well developed lifestyle; not vice-versa.
Go out and make some friends. Real friends. Not just community guys. It's stupid if all the people you hang out with are community guys. If you do so, you are limiting yourself from all that life has to offer
Starting out, of course take a workshop to get you on the level where you can continue to progress by yourself, then take community guys(wings), and train with them during the 2-3 days a week you dedicate to gaming. Other than that, make sure you have a balanced, interesting, fulfilling life and you will get much better results than if you spend 20 hours a week “studying” pickup.
Start doing this today.
Enjoy,
BadBoy
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Monday, December 19, 2011
Get Your Priorities Straight ...Today
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
Girl Talk: Ask Me Out On A Damn Date
by Jessica Wakeman refered by BAdBoy PUA
1:00PM, 02/18/2011 Comments (258)
Hello there. You. Yes, you! I have something I would like to talk to you about.
It’s come up a couple of times recently and it’s gotten so irritating that I finally have to say something about it. I’m pretty sure you’re not even aware of what you’re doing or why it bothers me. So here it goes.
I would like you to ask me out on a freaking date.
When a man asks me out on a date with a day of the week and a time and a place, I know he has the confidence to actually ask me out on a goddamned date.
Don’t ask me to hang out with you. Don’t ask me if I’m free “sometime” on Friday night and say you’ll get in touch that night to “see what’s up.” Don’t ask me if I’m “interested in getting a drink sometime.”
I have been talking to you, haven’t I? I have been emailing, text messaging, IMing, and even talking on the phone. Of course I’m “interested” in “hanging out” “sometime.” That is why I am talking to you. I am not doing it for my health, because I have nothing better to do with my time, or because you’re so goddamned interesting that I can’t resist your witty banter over gchat. If I wasn’t already “interested,” you wouldn’t be communicating with me at all.
I want you to ask me on a date.
I want the date to have a day of the week — Friday or Saturday, for instance.
I want the date to have a time — 8 o’clock would be an example.
I want the date to have a place, or at least, a notion of a place. “A drink.” “Coffee.” “Dinner.” “Walking around a bookstore together.” I sincerely do not care where we go or what we do; I just want to prepare for it (eat dinner beforehand, don’t eat dinner beforehand) and know how I should dress (heels? sneakers?). You don’t even have to spend money. I’ll pay for myself if you don’t offer! Really, this should not be intimidating.
I said this before but it bears repeating: I don’t want to “hang out” with you. What does hang out even mean to you, exactly? I hang out on my friends’ couches and thumb through magazines while we gossip with each other. Is that what you want us to do? And while we’re on the subject of not “hanging out,” don’t ask me to come meet your friends at a bar, either. I have enough friends and family in my life to “hang out” with and we have our own bars. Why, if I have never met you before, would I want to “hang out” at your favorite bar with more people I don’t know?
Now. I know what you’re thinking and feeling. You’re feeling criticized and attacked by what I’m saying. You may even think I sound like a bitch. No wonder no one asks me out on dates, right?
Well, you would be wrong. I do get asked on dates by men, actually, and it works amazingly well. When I am asked out on dates with days of the week and times and places, I know the man is interested in getting to know me enough to actually put some thought into planning what we are going to do, that I’m not just casually “hanging out” with him and his friends. I know whether to eat beforehand. I know what to wear. I know whether to have cash on hand to get home or to ask someone to pick me up or to ask to stay at a friend’s place. I know whether to get a manicure or do a face mask beforehand. I know whether or not I actually have plans— a novel idea!
But more importantly, when a man asks me out on a date with a day of the week and a time and a place, I know he has the confidence to actually ask me out on a goddamned date.
See, I’m not a bitch: I know you are scared to ask me on a date. I know you’re afraid I might say “no.” You’re afraid I might think you’re ugly, unfunny, boring, that you don’t make enough money, or any number of things. I get it. You’re afraid of rejection. I’m afraid of rejection, too. We all are. That’s human. But that’s life. People get rejected. However, observe the context of the situation. Do I seem like a raging nutjob that’s going to turn you down in a way that humiliates you in front of your friends, your boss, your extended family and national television? No, that’s not going to happen. I don’t bite. I am actually really, really nice. You have to realize if we’ve been talking on the phone, emailing, and flirting, it means I am interested in you and your chances of being rejected are much, much lower. Like, .003 percent, should Clive Owen show up on my front stoop with a package of Magnums. Are you really so afraid to ask me out for a $4 cup of coffee at Starbucks and risk a .003 percent chance of rejection that you just won’t do it?
Really? Really? REALLY?
I’m sorry, but then you’re not for me.
Because I do have the confidence to ask you out on a date. I’m as afraid of rejection as the next human being but I’m willing to risk it if it means a great date with a wonderful man. I should not be the one who has to ask men on dates — or limply not-ask, as is more often the case — all the time because they’re too afraid of getting rejected. My gender has nothing to do with my frustration here: it’s 2011 and I am not Suzy Homemaker from 1952 who follows rigid gender roles to a T (although I do confess to enjoying more traditional men). Generally speaking, I think men are intimidated by women who do the pursuing/asking out, though, so I do it on a case-by-case basis. And if I can do it — and I have done it — you can, too.
It’s not hard.
It’s just words.
There’s a 99.097 percent chance I am going to say “yes.”
Please, just ask me out on a freaking date.
1:00PM, 02/18/2011 Comments (258)
Hello there. You. Yes, you! I have something I would like to talk to you about.
It’s come up a couple of times recently and it’s gotten so irritating that I finally have to say something about it. I’m pretty sure you’re not even aware of what you’re doing or why it bothers me. So here it goes.
I would like you to ask me out on a freaking date.
When a man asks me out on a date with a day of the week and a time and a place, I know he has the confidence to actually ask me out on a goddamned date.
Don’t ask me to hang out with you. Don’t ask me if I’m free “sometime” on Friday night and say you’ll get in touch that night to “see what’s up.” Don’t ask me if I’m “interested in getting a drink sometime.”
I have been talking to you, haven’t I? I have been emailing, text messaging, IMing, and even talking on the phone. Of course I’m “interested” in “hanging out” “sometime.” That is why I am talking to you. I am not doing it for my health, because I have nothing better to do with my time, or because you’re so goddamned interesting that I can’t resist your witty banter over gchat. If I wasn’t already “interested,” you wouldn’t be communicating with me at all.
I want you to ask me on a date.
I want the date to have a day of the week — Friday or Saturday, for instance.
I want the date to have a time — 8 o’clock would be an example.
I want the date to have a place, or at least, a notion of a place. “A drink.” “Coffee.” “Dinner.” “Walking around a bookstore together.” I sincerely do not care where we go or what we do; I just want to prepare for it (eat dinner beforehand, don’t eat dinner beforehand) and know how I should dress (heels? sneakers?). You don’t even have to spend money. I’ll pay for myself if you don’t offer! Really, this should not be intimidating.
I said this before but it bears repeating: I don’t want to “hang out” with you. What does hang out even mean to you, exactly? I hang out on my friends’ couches and thumb through magazines while we gossip with each other. Is that what you want us to do? And while we’re on the subject of not “hanging out,” don’t ask me to come meet your friends at a bar, either. I have enough friends and family in my life to “hang out” with and we have our own bars. Why, if I have never met you before, would I want to “hang out” at your favorite bar with more people I don’t know?
Now. I know what you’re thinking and feeling. You’re feeling criticized and attacked by what I’m saying. You may even think I sound like a bitch. No wonder no one asks me out on dates, right?
Well, you would be wrong. I do get asked on dates by men, actually, and it works amazingly well. When I am asked out on dates with days of the week and times and places, I know the man is interested in getting to know me enough to actually put some thought into planning what we are going to do, that I’m not just casually “hanging out” with him and his friends. I know whether to eat beforehand. I know what to wear. I know whether to have cash on hand to get home or to ask someone to pick me up or to ask to stay at a friend’s place. I know whether to get a manicure or do a face mask beforehand. I know whether or not I actually have plans— a novel idea!
But more importantly, when a man asks me out on a date with a day of the week and a time and a place, I know he has the confidence to actually ask me out on a goddamned date.
See, I’m not a bitch: I know you are scared to ask me on a date. I know you’re afraid I might say “no.” You’re afraid I might think you’re ugly, unfunny, boring, that you don’t make enough money, or any number of things. I get it. You’re afraid of rejection. I’m afraid of rejection, too. We all are. That’s human. But that’s life. People get rejected. However, observe the context of the situation. Do I seem like a raging nutjob that’s going to turn you down in a way that humiliates you in front of your friends, your boss, your extended family and national television? No, that’s not going to happen. I don’t bite. I am actually really, really nice. You have to realize if we’ve been talking on the phone, emailing, and flirting, it means I am interested in you and your chances of being rejected are much, much lower. Like, .003 percent, should Clive Owen show up on my front stoop with a package of Magnums. Are you really so afraid to ask me out for a $4 cup of coffee at Starbucks and risk a .003 percent chance of rejection that you just won’t do it?
Really? Really? REALLY?
I’m sorry, but then you’re not for me.
Because I do have the confidence to ask you out on a date. I’m as afraid of rejection as the next human being but I’m willing to risk it if it means a great date with a wonderful man. I should not be the one who has to ask men on dates — or limply not-ask, as is more often the case — all the time because they’re too afraid of getting rejected. My gender has nothing to do with my frustration here: it’s 2011 and I am not Suzy Homemaker from 1952 who follows rigid gender roles to a T (although I do confess to enjoying more traditional men). Generally speaking, I think men are intimidated by women who do the pursuing/asking out, though, so I do it on a case-by-case basis. And if I can do it — and I have done it — you can, too.
It’s not hard.
It’s just words.
There’s a 99.097 percent chance I am going to say “yes.”
Please, just ask me out on a freaking date.
Friday, February 11, 2011
Emotional manipulation:eliciting emotions behaviour management audio
its 3sections on emotional manipulation 1 edition.
very raw but precise material
Practical FRAME CONTROL to lead
alot has to do with bt spiking and compliance
subcommunications
2 levels of leadership compliance
1)Art of distration, compliance more important than her objections,her actions speak louder than words , trust her actions and emotional behaviour than her shit test and ASD logistal brain.
Talk to the emotional brain not to the logical brain,
only talk to logical brain to SEXUALLY FRAME to validate herself and her actions of compliance.
frame control her disqualfiers with USE of social pressure.INDIRECT
treat her lika little girl who is objecting to getting medicine,
either way you have to find a way to make sure she gets it. its your responsibility to do so.More compliant the better and smoother the pickup.
2)underlying leading towards the logistical and progressive emotional rhythm and GOAL OUTCOME of the INTENT of the seduction.
THIS IS NEVER DISCUSSED LOGICALLY AND OPENLY TO THE WOMAN.EVER!
you make the women feel like a little girl giggle giggle happy to reinforce
she feels good about you.
here is the basis of behaviour management :
Behavior Management
Children are often very nervous or scared when experiencing something new. Our goal as trained pediatric dentists is to make your child’s visit to the dentist as comfortable as possible. We start with “baby steps” to help your child learn how to overcome any fears of going to the dentist. Most children begin to understand after their first visit, that brushing and counting their teeth was easy and that they have overcome their fears of the dentist. Some children need a little more help to overcome their fear of the dentist.
We use many scientifically proven techniques to help children overcome their fears. These include, tell-show-do, positive reinforcement, and distraction techniques. Most children respond well to these techniques. Some children are unable to cooperate after using these techniques and may need pharmacological behavior management such as nitrous oxide, sedation, and general anesthesia. The options that will be appropriate for your child will be explained by your pediatric dentist during your office visit. If you ever have questions about the techniques or why they were chosen for your child, please ask your pediatric dentist.
Tell-Show-Do
This communication technique involves verbal explanations of the dental procedures in phrases appropriate to the developmental level of the patient (tell), demonstrations for the patient so they can see, hear, smell, and touch aspects of the procedure in nonthreatening setting (show), followed by completion of the procedure (do). The goal of tell-show-do is to teach the patient important aspects of the dental visit, familiarize the patient with the dental setting, and to help improve the patient’s response to dental procedures.
Back to Top
Nonverbal Communication
Nonverbal Communication is the reinforcement and guidance of behavior through appropriate contact, posture, facial expression, and body language. The goals of nonverbal communication are to enhance the effectiveness of other behavior management techniques, and to gain (or maintain) the patient’s attention and compliance.
Back to Top
Positive Reinforcement
Positive feedback (reinforcement) is an effective technique to reward desired behaviors and thus, strengthen the recurrence of those behaviors. Positive feedback can be given through voice modulation, facial expressions, verbal praise, and appropriate physical demonstrations of affection by all members of the dental team. The goal of positive reinforcement is to reinforce positive behavior at your child’s dental visit.
Back to Top
Distraction
Distraction is a technique which diverts the patient’s attention from what may be perceived as an unpleasant procedure. The goals of distraction are to decrease the child’s perception of an unpleasant situation and to avert negative or avoidance behaviors.
Back to Top
Common Pediatric Behavior
Management Techniques
n Modeling: The pedo patient views another pedo patient who is cooperative, and
is used as a “model.”
n Tell/Show/Do: The dentist tells the patient what will happen (“I will look at your
teeth with my mirror”), then show the patient the mirror, then does the procedure
(looking at the teeth). Tell/Show/Do is not useful for injections, extractions, etc.
n Wording Choices: Using simple, pleasant words for actions and i nstruments can
help. The acid etch “taste like lemon juice,” the cotton roll c an be a “tooth
pillow,” the handpiece can be a “water sprayer.” Even the injec tions can be a
“mosquito bite.” These language choices can reduce fear and anxiety.
n Voice Control: The use of a loud authoritarian voice tone is useful for limitsetting
and for stopping dangerous behavior.
n HOME(Hand over Mouth Exercise): May return the patient to a cal mer state. The
hand is placed over the mouth, and the patient is told in a ster n voice, that the
hand will be removed when the undesirable behavior stops.
this is intersting cause you control the seduction,you enjoy and have control.
Mark posted this on emotional manipulation
“Pick Up as an Emotional Process.”
it's BRAND NEW material I've never revealed before.
Basically the idea is that everything we do in pick up is designed
to elicit the proper emotional responses from the woman and
ourselves. All tactics, and techniques are designed for this purpose.
Whatever you do and say is only as useful as the emotion it elicits.
From this starting point, I hope to draft out a new way of practicing
seduction.
so the audio is 3 mp3s
great to review.
I will have to read GUT IMPACT JD FUENTES
and RJS flash cards seem really good material.
Badboy mission on changing emotions.
very raw but precise material
Practical FRAME CONTROL to lead
alot has to do with bt spiking and compliance
subcommunications
2 levels of leadership compliance
1)Art of distration, compliance more important than her objections,her actions speak louder than words , trust her actions and emotional behaviour than her shit test and ASD logistal brain.
Talk to the emotional brain not to the logical brain,
only talk to logical brain to SEXUALLY FRAME to validate herself and her actions of compliance.
frame control her disqualfiers with USE of social pressure.INDIRECT
treat her lika little girl who is objecting to getting medicine,
either way you have to find a way to make sure she gets it. its your responsibility to do so.More compliant the better and smoother the pickup.
2)underlying leading towards the logistical and progressive emotional rhythm and GOAL OUTCOME of the INTENT of the seduction.
THIS IS NEVER DISCUSSED LOGICALLY AND OPENLY TO THE WOMAN.EVER!
you make the women feel like a little girl giggle giggle happy to reinforce
she feels good about you.
here is the basis of behaviour management :
Behavior Management
Children are often very nervous or scared when experiencing something new. Our goal as trained pediatric dentists is to make your child’s visit to the dentist as comfortable as possible. We start with “baby steps” to help your child learn how to overcome any fears of going to the dentist. Most children begin to understand after their first visit, that brushing and counting their teeth was easy and that they have overcome their fears of the dentist. Some children need a little more help to overcome their fear of the dentist.
We use many scientifically proven techniques to help children overcome their fears. These include, tell-show-do, positive reinforcement, and distraction techniques. Most children respond well to these techniques. Some children are unable to cooperate after using these techniques and may need pharmacological behavior management such as nitrous oxide, sedation, and general anesthesia. The options that will be appropriate for your child will be explained by your pediatric dentist during your office visit. If you ever have questions about the techniques or why they were chosen for your child, please ask your pediatric dentist.
Tell-Show-Do
This communication technique involves verbal explanations of the dental procedures in phrases appropriate to the developmental level of the patient (tell), demonstrations for the patient so they can see, hear, smell, and touch aspects of the procedure in nonthreatening setting (show), followed by completion of the procedure (do). The goal of tell-show-do is to teach the patient important aspects of the dental visit, familiarize the patient with the dental setting, and to help improve the patient’s response to dental procedures.
Back to Top
Nonverbal Communication
Nonverbal Communication is the reinforcement and guidance of behavior through appropriate contact, posture, facial expression, and body language. The goals of nonverbal communication are to enhance the effectiveness of other behavior management techniques, and to gain (or maintain) the patient’s attention and compliance.
Back to Top
Positive Reinforcement
Positive feedback (reinforcement) is an effective technique to reward desired behaviors and thus, strengthen the recurrence of those behaviors. Positive feedback can be given through voice modulation, facial expressions, verbal praise, and appropriate physical demonstrations of affection by all members of the dental team. The goal of positive reinforcement is to reinforce positive behavior at your child’s dental visit.
Back to Top
Distraction
Distraction is a technique which diverts the patient’s attention from what may be perceived as an unpleasant procedure. The goals of distraction are to decrease the child’s perception of an unpleasant situation and to avert negative or avoidance behaviors.
Back to Top
Common Pediatric Behavior
Management Techniques
n Modeling: The pedo patient views another pedo patient who is cooperative, and
is used as a “model.”
n Tell/Show/Do: The dentist tells the patient what will happen (“I will look at your
teeth with my mirror”), then show the patient the mirror, then does the procedure
(looking at the teeth). Tell/Show/Do is not useful for injections, extractions, etc.
n Wording Choices: Using simple, pleasant words for actions and i nstruments can
help. The acid etch “taste like lemon juice,” the cotton roll c an be a “tooth
pillow,” the handpiece can be a “water sprayer.” Even the injec tions can be a
“mosquito bite.” These language choices can reduce fear and anxiety.
n Voice Control: The use of a loud authoritarian voice tone is useful for limitsetting
and for stopping dangerous behavior.
n HOME(Hand over Mouth Exercise): May return the patient to a cal mer state. The
hand is placed over the mouth, and the patient is told in a ster n voice, that the
hand will be removed when the undesirable behavior stops.
this is intersting cause you control the seduction,you enjoy and have control.
Mark posted this on emotional manipulation
“Pick Up as an Emotional Process.”
it's BRAND NEW material I've never revealed before.
Basically the idea is that everything we do in pick up is designed
to elicit the proper emotional responses from the woman and
ourselves. All tactics, and techniques are designed for this purpose.
Whatever you do and say is only as useful as the emotion it elicits.
From this starting point, I hope to draft out a new way of practicing
seduction.
so the audio is 3 mp3s
great to review.
I will have to read GUT IMPACT JD FUENTES
and RJS flash cards seem really good material.
Badboy mission on changing emotions.
Saturday, December 18, 2010
badboy's 2 advices that make you really good....great tips on game and emotional calibration
is the advice of going out and make her night.....I used this when I got LMR and couldnt close , and used BT spiking to make her feel awesome and happy.. I was happy myself, this is awesome advice.
Neediness energy, forget seduction ...... this is important to project. My first sticking points were seeking rapport who SAFFRON detected. I credit him with this, once m,y subcommunicacion became non needy it created the girl to react to me.
also as a bonus.......
talk about her feelings the way she feels.....
this is crucial and he is vague about it but its the pillar of NLP and her stae and controlling her emotions..
you become the harp player, the pied piper to her emotions...
I use only humour and sexual and confusion with some RSD Routines from TIM and RYAN's verbal attraction..
I avoid talking about low or sad things ..maybe for door pattern but for tother stuff I dont, I disagree with TOPO on this..... I do use CJs heartmelters but only 1, also I dont over qualify, CJ uses 1 or 2 , I used one big one and cosmo routine so no need to talk alot..unless its revvelant to her personality and or conversation to deepend her incvesting or talking....conversational skills itself is included qualifiers.
YAD in his infield video doesnt qualify, saffron qualify as chalengeing after comfort and attraction..to get her chasing him....this i used to do alot. best way ...push pull : )
badboy He uses different emotions...I tried but not had success.
Neediness energy, forget seduction ...... this is important to project. My first sticking points were seeking rapport who SAFFRON detected. I credit him with this, once m,y subcommunicacion became non needy it created the girl to react to me.
also as a bonus.......
talk about her feelings the way she feels.....
this is crucial and he is vague about it but its the pillar of NLP and her stae and controlling her emotions..
you become the harp player, the pied piper to her emotions...
I use only humour and sexual and confusion with some RSD Routines from TIM and RYAN's verbal attraction..
I avoid talking about low or sad things ..maybe for door pattern but for tother stuff I dont, I disagree with TOPO on this..... I do use CJs heartmelters but only 1, also I dont over qualify, CJ uses 1 or 2 , I used one big one and cosmo routine so no need to talk alot..unless its revvelant to her personality and or conversation to deepend her incvesting or talking....conversational skills itself is included qualifiers.
YAD in his infield video doesnt qualify, saffron qualify as chalengeing after comfort and attraction..to get her chasing him....this i used to do alot. best way ...push pull : )
badboy He uses different emotions...I tried but not had success.
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
the emotional - arrousal - compliance to move forward to sex structure
I know badboy talks about it but its farther than that.
like tyler talked about bt spiking , its to be aware of her emotional level first you start off calibrated there and turn up volume slowly.
emotional level social comfort is at her energy and then raise it up a bit, if its at a club or meeting at a date you start off by spiking BT sexually.
so my sturture of game is to elict her emotionally to get her to bait her to respond as per magicians choice and double binds.
you combine yes ladders and change of beliefs
or sexual framing comfort - deep comfort- sexual comfort with ofcourse kino.
her emotions here will be down...you will make her RELAXED.
avoids button pushing.
taking calculated risks.
once youve reached arousal and good solid rapport with qualification then you direct interest and do push pull. use takeaways and mix compliments and accuse her of making you feel horny...
insert CJ's framing of her fault turning you on'.
push pull in terms of not being sure about her and chasing begins.
here the emotions go up and down you keep it up and down.
as you work logisitcs you talk about logical stuff that isnt relevant to the seduction location, you use art of distraction and you BT Spike to make her agree and use socil pressure and double binds to prior knowing therefore you always disqualify before she thinks or smells SLUT radar.
so you keep her push pull , mixing all these emotions and as reward you smile and glare at her eyes and sexual tease like a stripper would do to make her have you pay money.
remember what a girl does to you you do it to a girl back will always work!
you get her to provoke thinking sexual and arousing her that is bt spiking her and not giving it to her up to a point of disengaing her logic that she wants it.
you change subjects yet you still go for physical arousal and take it away.
so emotions here are my guide, you control them and orchestrate the rhythm of the musci played.
you are the director of the movie to create her wildest night ever.
she will love it.
this mindset is gold. made a 2 audio podcast of thisPS: sawyer used to agree with my disqualifiers and minutes later he suggest to do it his way again by leading wihtout using force , ofcourse I caught him doing that and read it off. great closing strategy. he calibrates wiht another topic to think about different thing while her leads me to where he wants of course Im aware and girls will not be if he creates attraction by BT spiking her emotioanlly will kick in her logical.
like tyler talked about bt spiking , its to be aware of her emotional level first you start off calibrated there and turn up volume slowly.
emotional level social comfort is at her energy and then raise it up a bit, if its at a club or meeting at a date you start off by spiking BT sexually.
so my sturture of game is to elict her emotionally to get her to bait her to respond as per magicians choice and double binds.
you combine yes ladders and change of beliefs
or sexual framing comfort - deep comfort- sexual comfort with ofcourse kino.
her emotions here will be down...you will make her RELAXED.
avoids button pushing.
taking calculated risks.
once youve reached arousal and good solid rapport with qualification then you direct interest and do push pull. use takeaways and mix compliments and accuse her of making you feel horny...
insert CJ's framing of her fault turning you on'.
push pull in terms of not being sure about her and chasing begins.
here the emotions go up and down you keep it up and down.
as you work logisitcs you talk about logical stuff that isnt relevant to the seduction location, you use art of distraction and you BT Spike to make her agree and use socil pressure and double binds to prior knowing therefore you always disqualify before she thinks or smells SLUT radar.
so you keep her push pull , mixing all these emotions and as reward you smile and glare at her eyes and sexual tease like a stripper would do to make her have you pay money.
remember what a girl does to you you do it to a girl back will always work!
you get her to provoke thinking sexual and arousing her that is bt spiking her and not giving it to her up to a point of disengaing her logic that she wants it.
you change subjects yet you still go for physical arousal and take it away.
so emotions here are my guide, you control them and orchestrate the rhythm of the musci played.
you are the director of the movie to create her wildest night ever.
she will love it.
this mindset is gold. made a 2 audio podcast of thisPS: sawyer used to agree with my disqualifiers and minutes later he suggest to do it his way again by leading wihtout using force , ofcourse I caught him doing that and read it off. great closing strategy. he calibrates wiht another topic to think about different thing while her leads me to where he wants of course Im aware and girls will not be if he creates attraction by BT spiking her emotioanlly will kick in her logical.
Sex an addiction of emotions
I saw asian plyaboys free direct game seminar at venusian arts with mystery and matador on youtube.
Id say I love asian playboy alot cause of his influence is clear on saffron being confident and funny.
his formula has ABCDEF
B is for spiking BT before going to comfort.
he has this down and my thoughts are to reinitate any convo with any girl even in a date it should start off spiking BT in a sexual way.
this brings me to SEX.
PU is good but its part of the main course meal.
Main course is SEX.
BT is to keep her engaged and enjoying her emotions and you cant do it until it comes obvious what you are trying to do , you do it to keep convo interesting from being boring.
Tim ahs a great routine I used before.
So Tyler is a genius for BT.
BT has disadvantage that its transfereable.
thats why JT tries to BLP the girl he tries to meet. to anchour that to him.
in reality game is based on having contorl on her emotions getting her to react to you emotionally..
therefore you get to not to button push but control the rhythm of the pickup and getting to where you want to take it.
for me deep comfort has an advantage to keeping her into you , obsess over you after that you push away she pulls in.
BAD boys spike BT uncoinciously, make her attracted by emotions not logic.
In10nse has an article and Vin has an audio and its based off the gambling theory of getting her addicted to you..you let her win and she isnt sure she is.
girls love to chase .
Now topic isnt chase or game.
its sex.
Spoe to jk ellis awhile back and I used the dorr pattern before which is awesome but I advise you use it carefully.
Im actually going to rent 91/2 weeks with mickey rourke.
that movie shows a guy who takes things forward.
that was my thoughts with greeneys.
she is polygamous and open to free sex, yet is clingly to me cause I dont get reactive to her, she looks for validation you give her a little but not everything.
I want to try that in sex.
I love fucking and to me sex is in my game a main topic of convo
sex relationships routine by badboy.
make that CONGRUENT that you are sexual excitign man.
ofcourse after comfort.
and describe as trance words sex.... in your convo.
in a way the emotions have to go up and down a like a rollercoaster, you cant be all the time gigling village idiot.
social, tease, question her, share connect, tease, direct interst,sexual provoke her kiss ,her question her, play hard to get at same time move locations to have sex. keep describing hot sex wihtou saying its sex and use art of distraction logical to get her to place of sex.
have sex.
then create emotions after and during sex, talk to her dirty and then be cool and sweet... yet emotionally not needy just understanding, be open and receptive to what she has to say, be careful to avoid buyers remorse. calibrate what her comfort level in sex is.
call her next day or text. then dont call her afterwards.
make her think about you make her call you and want you bad, make her wait.show up late use her anger then change emotions and kiss her, great sex.
see theres a pattern of emotions here.
SEX.
Im looking into BDSM stuff and I love nina hartly stuff. I leanr and skim fast by it.
you hgave that confidence to do it , then you will want to pickup.
ultimate goal isnt pickup , its having sex with the girl.
making her wildest drems and creating a blissful emotions on her.
Id say I love asian playboy alot cause of his influence is clear on saffron being confident and funny.
his formula has ABCDEF
B is for spiking BT before going to comfort.
he has this down and my thoughts are to reinitate any convo with any girl even in a date it should start off spiking BT in a sexual way.
this brings me to SEX.
PU is good but its part of the main course meal.
Main course is SEX.
BT is to keep her engaged and enjoying her emotions and you cant do it until it comes obvious what you are trying to do , you do it to keep convo interesting from being boring.
Tim ahs a great routine I used before.
So Tyler is a genius for BT.
BT has disadvantage that its transfereable.
thats why JT tries to BLP the girl he tries to meet. to anchour that to him.
in reality game is based on having contorl on her emotions getting her to react to you emotionally..
therefore you get to not to button push but control the rhythm of the pickup and getting to where you want to take it.
for me deep comfort has an advantage to keeping her into you , obsess over you after that you push away she pulls in.
BAD boys spike BT uncoinciously, make her attracted by emotions not logic.
In10nse has an article and Vin has an audio and its based off the gambling theory of getting her addicted to you..you let her win and she isnt sure she is.
girls love to chase .
Now topic isnt chase or game.
its sex.
Spoe to jk ellis awhile back and I used the dorr pattern before which is awesome but I advise you use it carefully.
Im actually going to rent 91/2 weeks with mickey rourke.
that movie shows a guy who takes things forward.
that was my thoughts with greeneys.
she is polygamous and open to free sex, yet is clingly to me cause I dont get reactive to her, she looks for validation you give her a little but not everything.
I want to try that in sex.
I love fucking and to me sex is in my game a main topic of convo
sex relationships routine by badboy.
make that CONGRUENT that you are sexual excitign man.
ofcourse after comfort.
and describe as trance words sex.... in your convo.
in a way the emotions have to go up and down a like a rollercoaster, you cant be all the time gigling village idiot.
social, tease, question her, share connect, tease, direct interst,sexual provoke her kiss ,her question her, play hard to get at same time move locations to have sex. keep describing hot sex wihtou saying its sex and use art of distraction logical to get her to place of sex.
have sex.
then create emotions after and during sex, talk to her dirty and then be cool and sweet... yet emotionally not needy just understanding, be open and receptive to what she has to say, be careful to avoid buyers remorse. calibrate what her comfort level in sex is.
call her next day or text. then dont call her afterwards.
make her think about you make her call you and want you bad, make her wait.show up late use her anger then change emotions and kiss her, great sex.
see theres a pattern of emotions here.
SEX.
Im looking into BDSM stuff and I love nina hartly stuff. I leanr and skim fast by it.
you hgave that confidence to do it , then you will want to pickup.
ultimate goal isnt pickup , its having sex with the girl.
making her wildest drems and creating a blissful emotions on her.
Monday, April 19, 2010
Breaking rapport in the beginning , spark attraction and change emotions
attraction emotional spark Breaking rapport natural did to gain attraction.
hey guys im wirtting this as Im keeping it through,
my attraction is based of entropys style.
obviously ELTOPO uses bodylanguage and kino to make her react attraction, actually sexual attraction feeling in her body by subtle touches and takeaways to push pull her bodily emotions to get her to react out of gut feeling of being sure she is attracted.instead of doing it verbally.
very advanced
I remeber how adam BR,
but nautral broke rapport like hitting on a girl and changing it to subtle and sexual..in away like a bdsm thing, but it made her feel sexual submissive.
I did once to a girl as I went in lab and she was there trying to do something and as she asked me I looked at her like upset or she was scred of me and as I went up to her before it got weird, I touched her hair that was in her eyes and It felt like that turned into attraction.
i didnt know where to take it after ward in terms of leading.
regular pickup is open, confort br - tease - qualify - comfort deep convo- isolate tm- close
with this its altering the process plus opening is attraction in that moment!
BEING A CHALLENGE TO A GIRL IS SEXY AND MAKE ME AND HER HORNY like to hear the thumping of our bodies as we are fucking sound.
you have to be uneedy and not really take her seriosu or not affect you emotionally, seriosuly as you give her a little but not all of you, she will chase.
mental thing for me the way to seduce a girl, the hunt of it than just going to fuck.
that is similar to the girl.... calibrating that is important.
FEAR (high value) reactiveness + tension + sensual touch = intense sexual attraction and high value.
thing is whether to go for makeout there since change of emotions is fast if you hesitate the emotions fades...
you are going to have to lead.
BDSM theory on that,cause it raises your value and control her emotions and makes her submissive, maybe I might have to look into it.
liek if she bumps into you , you get upset up to her ,cause her fear and then change emotions fast....JT talked about changes emotions fast and like ELTopo's emotional storm.Adam's BR or BDSM submissiveness....attraction triggers..but how you escalte from that do you RUN COMFORT or do you pump her BT, as you run comfor t run frames or vibe her energy.
Calibrated version would be measure her energy, mirror her, then slow abit and raise it , slow and raise it qualify, test waters......and timebridge.
MOMENTUM IS KEY AND KEEPING A RHYTHM
like dancing you lead dancing but you dance to the beat....
pace and lead.
steve does too aggressive and pulls back to release with funny vibe like kidding around, then he moves his body language.
so this might work in the begiing but in the middle it wouldnt I think.
I would habdle it as direct game ala badboy...run comfort with subtle sexual escalation.
adam's formula (C-R)+Q+S = A :)
opener then qualifyand sexual escalate at same time.
dominant alpha male game and make girls submissive.
Im evil genius, stop that you are making me like you.
Stop that, stop being cool...are you being enuine or are you saying that to make me like you.
ADAM I LOVE YOU ! =0)
hey guys im wirtting this as Im keeping it through,
my attraction is based of entropys style.
obviously ELTOPO uses bodylanguage and kino to make her react attraction, actually sexual attraction feeling in her body by subtle touches and takeaways to push pull her bodily emotions to get her to react out of gut feeling of being sure she is attracted.instead of doing it verbally.
very advanced
I remeber how adam BR,
but nautral broke rapport like hitting on a girl and changing it to subtle and sexual..in away like a bdsm thing, but it made her feel sexual submissive.
I did once to a girl as I went in lab and she was there trying to do something and as she asked me I looked at her like upset or she was scred of me and as I went up to her before it got weird, I touched her hair that was in her eyes and It felt like that turned into attraction.
i didnt know where to take it after ward in terms of leading.
regular pickup is open, confort br - tease - qualify - comfort deep convo- isolate tm- close
with this its altering the process plus opening is attraction in that moment!
BEING A CHALLENGE TO A GIRL IS SEXY AND MAKE ME AND HER HORNY like to hear the thumping of our bodies as we are fucking sound.
you have to be uneedy and not really take her seriosu or not affect you emotionally, seriosuly as you give her a little but not all of you, she will chase.
mental thing for me the way to seduce a girl, the hunt of it than just going to fuck.
that is similar to the girl.... calibrating that is important.
FEAR (high value) reactiveness + tension + sensual touch = intense sexual attraction and high value.
thing is whether to go for makeout there since change of emotions is fast if you hesitate the emotions fades...
you are going to have to lead.
BDSM theory on that,cause it raises your value and control her emotions and makes her submissive, maybe I might have to look into it.
liek if she bumps into you , you get upset up to her ,cause her fear and then change emotions fast....JT talked about changes emotions fast and like ELTopo's emotional storm.Adam's BR or BDSM submissiveness....attraction triggers..but how you escalte from that do you RUN COMFORT or do you pump her BT, as you run comfor t run frames or vibe her energy.
Calibrated version would be measure her energy, mirror her, then slow abit and raise it , slow and raise it qualify, test waters......and timebridge.
MOMENTUM IS KEY AND KEEPING A RHYTHM
like dancing you lead dancing but you dance to the beat....
pace and lead.
steve does too aggressive and pulls back to release with funny vibe like kidding around, then he moves his body language.
so this might work in the begiing but in the middle it wouldnt I think.
I would habdle it as direct game ala badboy...run comfort with subtle sexual escalation.
adam's formula (C-R)+Q+S = A :)
opener then qualifyand sexual escalate at same time.
dominant alpha male game and make girls submissive.
Im evil genius, stop that you are making me like you.
Stop that, stop being cool...are you being enuine or are you saying that to make me like you.
ADAM I LOVE YOU ! =0)
Saturday, April 17, 2010
Boring sex DESTROYS relationships -Routine
Gabriel moore said :
As time goes on, it’s only natural that certain things become normal or mundane inside the bedroom. Sadly, if you let things be ordinary for too long, then everything from foreplay to the actual sex act becomes a routine. And deep inside you, you KNOW this spells disaster for any relationship, right? Even if you and your partner love each other and stay together, it’s still best to opt for an exciting life than a boring one.
I used soemthing to this I got it from badboy's youtube video I think but its awesome, it shows female psycology preseleccion.always be subtle:
I try got her to accept about how important sex is for me, the truth about some relationships when its more of the same thing, sex becomes a rouitne and relationship suffers and dies.Sex ,With me is important to keep it excitng and vibrant, makes a relationship spark and __________wild .
As time goes on, it’s only natural that certain things become normal or mundane inside the bedroom. Sadly, if you let things be ordinary for too long, then everything from foreplay to the actual sex act becomes a routine. And deep inside you, you KNOW this spells disaster for any relationship, right? Even if you and your partner love each other and stay together, it’s still best to opt for an exciting life than a boring one.
I used soemthing to this I got it from badboy's youtube video I think but its awesome, it shows female psycology preseleccion.always be subtle:
I try got her to accept about how important sex is for me, the truth about some relationships when its more of the same thing, sex becomes a rouitne and relationship suffers and dies.Sex ,With me is important to keep it excitng and vibrant, makes a relationship spark and __________wild .
Thursday, April 15, 2010
before PU game its head game FIRST
Mindset is important, its to get you motivated and concentrated on your work.
social interactions is important as well.
whatever is in your head can make it or break it, in life and with girls.
My friend said "turn shit into fertilizer"
"turn negativity OFF it doesnt take you anywhere"
Plus the concept of the power of engaement and time management and being proactive , closer mentality which is MOVING THINGS FORWARD!!!!!!
GEtting your goals, being active and hungry for success to live comfortably and enjoy life.
its like excersize to get in shape, takes sacrifice dedication to get there.
right tools right knowledge you can,
My trainer said "its all about consistency and persistant" "sticking to what works"
"nutrition is key" Tom vennuto is the BIBLE of INNERGAME
If you use it for pickup its effective, reading ti wont make you skinny but doing excersizes and nutrition how the concept is and applying it to a habit,
right now Im doing AIKIDO DIET.
Almost like atkins
all protein, actually alot of protein intake with suplements
and on days I train I eat carbs example:
one wheat bread, half a cup of oatmeal and half a tuna can size of yam.
NO RICE NO PASTA< NO BEANS< NO RED MEAT, NO FRUITS.
so game IS like a muscle like entropy says...
freakin ENTROPY :)
Guys get too wrapped up in learning game and get weird, gain knowledge and cant approach for shit.
So Im going to relax with the reading.
I remember I look into coaching and reading once I knew and looked up the topic what I was failing..
I went to strip club and stoof there got IOIs seem real but did takeaway,not too easy or eager cute girl.... as soon as I got JK Ellis and Lew Payne's book on Stripper Secrets read first page saw diagram and I actually sat right places!!!:)
So my intuition is correct!!! Im a natural :)
SO I have to stop overeactign and overanalyzing myself, thats keep me back.
the fuck up and learn method as a I go since I know women and have experience rather than read on it and stay stuck.
so like Franco says, limit you mind BOX not put too much information....do more than read.
So BADBOY IS right about weird guys in coomunity and I was one hell of weird guy,
Allycat helped me become normal and contrl myself, I actually modelled myself afer him.
So being normal is better than being weird or scripted
from normal its easy to be cool, not try hard cool.
Topo demonstrates its about subcommunications of how you potray your attractive qualities.
lets not go into too much detail on that.LOL. he over does it.
I follow SAFFRON's walk , thought and competitveness. his bodylanguage has helped me.
"I SAFFRON ,THE SEX GOD" "you can call me MASTER" :)
SAFFRON!!!!
that being said....
anyways here is what I sent CJ,
Thanks for introducing me to sedona method,
I read the book and did excersizes but now is when Im starting to be more aware of the whole concept and
Im trying to use it as a leverage to get me away from emotional cloud and being focus on my goal or even in PU , on just being proactive moving things forward.
In the begining ,I'd get relaxed and control my emotions. and positive thoughts stayed, but I realized later that i was indeed feeling happy but I wasnt proactive.or taking action after it.
I noticed NOW since Ive been under alot of stress trying to apply to finish school.. etc aka problem solving or sticking points
the power Im getting is when I breath like deep breaths and clear my head ,
then I tell myself or talk myself about the feelings or emotions aka RUN sedona method
and feel honest about myself without being low self esteem about it,( you know bro? )
then after that I ask myself "what do I need to do to solve this problem?" or "How do I solve it to make it work for me "
I then drink water or sit down an relax and i start getting ideas on how to improve of angles of problem solving.
in my case , papaerwork or ways to get back into school and finish.
anyways, whated to share if you kindah understand what I mean :)
but now thinking this might help in the area of mindset (innergame) when doing sticking point analysis for pu.
just a thought,
Cool :)
-S-
social interactions is important as well.
whatever is in your head can make it or break it, in life and with girls.
My friend said "turn shit into fertilizer"
"turn negativity OFF it doesnt take you anywhere"
Plus the concept of the power of engaement and time management and being proactive , closer mentality which is MOVING THINGS FORWARD!!!!!!
GEtting your goals, being active and hungry for success to live comfortably and enjoy life.
its like excersize to get in shape, takes sacrifice dedication to get there.
right tools right knowledge you can,
My trainer said "its all about consistency and persistant" "sticking to what works"
"nutrition is key" Tom vennuto is the BIBLE of INNERGAME
If you use it for pickup its effective, reading ti wont make you skinny but doing excersizes and nutrition how the concept is and applying it to a habit,
right now Im doing AIKIDO DIET.
Almost like atkins
all protein, actually alot of protein intake with suplements
and on days I train I eat carbs example:
one wheat bread, half a cup of oatmeal and half a tuna can size of yam.
NO RICE NO PASTA< NO BEANS< NO RED MEAT, NO FRUITS.
so game IS like a muscle like entropy says...
freakin ENTROPY :)
Guys get too wrapped up in learning game and get weird, gain knowledge and cant approach for shit.
So Im going to relax with the reading.
I remember I look into coaching and reading once I knew and looked up the topic what I was failing..
I went to strip club and stoof there got IOIs seem real but did takeaway,not too easy or eager cute girl.... as soon as I got JK Ellis and Lew Payne's book on Stripper Secrets read first page saw diagram and I actually sat right places!!!:)
So my intuition is correct!!! Im a natural :)
SO I have to stop overeactign and overanalyzing myself, thats keep me back.
the fuck up and learn method as a I go since I know women and have experience rather than read on it and stay stuck.
so like Franco says, limit you mind BOX not put too much information....do more than read.
So BADBOY IS right about weird guys in coomunity and I was one hell of weird guy,
Allycat helped me become normal and contrl myself, I actually modelled myself afer him.
So being normal is better than being weird or scripted
from normal its easy to be cool, not try hard cool.
Topo demonstrates its about subcommunications of how you potray your attractive qualities.
lets not go into too much detail on that.LOL. he over does it.
I follow SAFFRON's walk , thought and competitveness. his bodylanguage has helped me.
"I SAFFRON ,THE SEX GOD" "you can call me MASTER" :)
SAFFRON!!!!
that being said....
anyways here is what I sent CJ,
Thanks for introducing me to sedona method,
I read the book and did excersizes but now is when Im starting to be more aware of the whole concept and
Im trying to use it as a leverage to get me away from emotional cloud and being focus on my goal or even in PU , on just being proactive moving things forward.
In the begining ,I'd get relaxed and control my emotions. and positive thoughts stayed, but I realized later that i was indeed feeling happy but I wasnt proactive.or taking action after it.
I noticed NOW since Ive been under alot of stress trying to apply to finish school.. etc aka problem solving or sticking points
the power Im getting is when I breath like deep breaths and clear my head ,
then I tell myself or talk myself about the feelings or emotions aka RUN sedona method
and feel honest about myself without being low self esteem about it,( you know bro? )
then after that I ask myself "what do I need to do to solve this problem?" or "How do I solve it to make it work for me "
I then drink water or sit down an relax and i start getting ideas on how to improve of angles of problem solving.
in my case , papaerwork or ways to get back into school and finish.
anyways, whated to share if you kindah understand what I mean :)
but now thinking this might help in the area of mindset (innergame) when doing sticking point analysis for pu.
just a thought,
Cool :)
-S-
Sunday, April 4, 2010
Badboy's post on getting your priority straight
this is a special post, I should have listened to and ingrained in my head.
I love it cause he is one of few who says truth about PU.
I always thought people didnt want me to get good so I get upset and go at it like a face to a wall. but that isnt wise, the best thing is to get your priority and have balance in your life.
pick up is great as you find the info and easily get Keyboard Jockey and you try to find best material out there. but if you dont go out you will fail and your low self esteem will destroy you and PUA will take over your life and it will get worse....
its terrible cause Ive been there and thats why I left for awhile and I wouldnt put it in first place . But when I go out I would give it 100% of it and enjoy it.
Get Your Priorities Straight ...Today
by Badboy
I see lots of guys in the Seduction Community make the same mistake over and over, regarding where their priorities are... Namely, letting pickup take over their life. Guys spend all their time reading forums, downloading more and more material, studying every guru's philosophy and eventually it becomes their whole life. Guys start to look at the world as one big sarge and lose the ability to act like a normal person with friends and other priorities in their life. This is why so many guys you meet in the community are fucking weird. There are plenty of great guys in it, but also a lot of weirdos. Make an effort to be a normal person before being a mPUA... You'll be happier.
Pickup should be just one of the hobbies you have. Don't spend more than 2-3 days a week on it and don't spend all your free time trolling the internet for more info... Learn what you need to to so that you are getting results but then just go out and have fun, go to the gym, do some reading, play sports, learn something new... Girls love guys with a genuinely good lifestyle which is why guys who obsess over only pickup are actually hurting their chances with girls. What they are doing is putting women and their need for validation above all other things and the gaping void that forms in their life because of this will be subcommunicated eventually and drive girls away. This is a horrible dynamic to create in your life. Sitting in front of a computer, reading forums and spending hours worrying about what opener to use is the worst lifestyle you can have. Your pursuit of women should be a small facet of your overall well developed lifestyle; not vice-versa.
Go out and make some friends. Real friends. Not just community guys. It's stupid if all the people you hang out with are community guys. If you do so, you are limiting yourself from all that life has to offer
Starting out, of course take a workshop to get you on the level where you can continue to progress by yourself, then take community guys(wings), and train with them during the 2-3 days a week you dedicate to gaming. Other than that, make sure you have a balanced, interesting, fulfilling life and you will get much better results than if you spend 20 hours a week �studying� pickup.
Start doing this today.
Enjoy,
BadBoy
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Confidence & Leadership by Badboy
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Confidence and Leadership
by Badboy
We all know how important INNER GAME is, but have you ever stopped to ask yourself what Inner Game actually is? Is it simply when I memorized material very well or maybe when I perfected the delivery of my voice?
Actually, Inner Game is based on confidence, beliefs, and your overall attitude about life. Whether you realize it or not, your attitude is constantly projected to the women you talk to. If you have a strong, assertive, and positive attitude, women will naturally be attracted to you. That's how most naturals get laid. They develop these three aspects of their identity: confidence, beliefs, and attitude. When this happens, they begin to feel more confident and they start to behave like they're the prize, which is exactly what attracts women.
I enjoy analyzing these ideas, and I recently found something crazy below the surface. People in general love leaders, especially women. Leaders are naturally attractive because they radiate confidence and not easily concerned with outside criticism. They know exactly what they want and focus their energies on achieving their goal. I am willing to teach you how to become a leader, how to make people follow you and even respect you.
These steps are essential to leading a successful life.
The first observation is that charisma does not exist. People do not know how to describe something that is intangible, so they say this person has "charisma", or "this guy is a charismatic person". If you take the time to observe charismatic people, you see that they actually have one big quality in common. They have a frame (or point of view) so strong that people are sucked into their reality. Everything they do reflects an ultra-strong frame that exists inside their individual reality. They tend to have a lot of rules that you must follow when you are around them. They treat themselves with integrity and they absolutely will not tolerate disrespect; in fact they punish it.
You can apply these characteristics to your own life. They are actually core lessons for living succesfully on this planet. Let's take respect for example: How do you ensure that the people around you show respect for you and your work? First start to respect yourself and your work too. When you start to respect yourself completely, other people will respect you as well. If you don't respect yourself, why in the world would anyone else respect you? If you treat yourself like shit, trust me, other people will do the same because you are sending a strong signal to the world that shit is just what you are.
Next, what you must accomplish is to develop a set of unwavering rules in your life that define what people can and cannot do around you or to you. You must punish any negative behavior that impedes upon your integrity. Tell them you disaprove, and make it crystal clear that they cannot behave like that if they want to be in your company. Kick their asses for it. Make them know they did something that you do not respect. If people treat you like shit and you let them get away with it, they will do it again and again. Other people see this, and learn to disrepect you also. Make personal boundaries for yourself, and make it clear to the people around you that these boundaries must be respected. Humans are social pack animals, meaning they will accept the strongest frame presented to them.
For example, if my girlfriend flakes on me, of course I will be pissed off, but I will show her that I am angry and will calmly state that it will not happen again. For everything that she does that I do not like, I tell her she can do it only 3 times: the first time, the last time and never again! My rules are strict. People will enjoy the time they spend with me. In return I will do everything I can for their happiness. I will teach them and have fun with them, but there are some rules you must follow, otherwise you won't see me ever again.
I make options for myself, so that you are not my only choice and I can go out with someone else if I choose. For now, even if you don't have other options, make it look like you do. Behave like you do. I am going to do everything for my girls. I love them and will treat them like a queen, but only as long as I think they deserve it. It is funny to see how, when women don't get what they want, they call me a jerk. They make not like my rules, but they will respect me if I stick to them.
Take a look at the police. They have strict rules. Break them and you'll get punished, and trust me, you won't make the same mistake again in your life. I want you to do the same in your own life. Let people around you know what is allowed and what is not. Otherwise nobody is going to respect you. It is funny, but people will test you from time to time to see if you are still congruent with your frame. That is why I say that "shit tests" are not problematic. As long as you are congruent with your frame, shit tests are a non-issue. Women will challenge you all the time when you are seducing them. That's just normal behavior.
My best friend has this cute little dog. The pet knows that it is not allowed to sleep on the sofa because he got his ass kicked a few times, and still months later he comes near the sofa with his cute little look. He glances at the sofa, then his owner, the sofa, the owner, just waiting for a reaction. He might even put one leg close to the sofa, the whole time looking at his owner. What the dog is actually doing is testing his owner to see if he is still congruent with his rule about sleeping on the sofa. Is he going to allow him to jump on the sofa or is he going to yell at him? The dog is not giving his owner shit, just making sure he is still congruent. Children will test you in the same way. Every couple of days, or even hours, they will challenge you to see if the rules have weakened or changed. You can observe this behavior everywhere in nature.
Now, let's get back to charismatic people. It's funny, but the more rules charismatic people have, and the more they punish those who break their rules, the more charismatic they appear. A negative examples would be Hitler, while positive examples like Christ, Gandhi, the Dalai Lama and Martin Luther King. Being assertive does not make you good or evil. It gives you power, and you choose how to use it.
These leaders issue commands and demand unquestioning loyalty. Challenging their ideas is strongly condemned and often leads to some type of emotional or physical punishment. With women, you give them pleasure and show them a really nice time when they are with you, but you must also remember to punish any negative behavior or disrespect from her.
So the first step toward developing confidence, belief, and attitude is to start respecting yourself! If you have ever gone out with me, you will notice something really unusual: as soon as I go into a set, I am not sucked into their frame. I do not live in their world. You will see that they live in my world. How do you see this? When I approach a set or any group of people, I don't position myself so the whole group can hear me. I don't try to yell so the whole group can hear me. First, I position myself in the most comfortable position, where I feel the most relaxed. Then I reorganize the other people around me in a way I like. For example, I approach them, have them open up to me, sit down, and use the space around me to make myself comfortable. Then, I might position the extra people to talk to each other, while the target is left to talk to me. This behavior is not something I modelled or learned, but it's been a part of my personality for a long time.
I really can't stand people who have a weak frame. For example, I hate to see guys fall into a situation like this: A guy sits in a chair, maybe one that is totally uncomfortable like the letter S, and he stays there for hours pretending he is relaxed without saying a word about it. He would rather sit there no matter what because the chair is more important than who he is. It is more important than his health or his body... sad. Why the fuck should I be in some uncomfortable position when I talk with some average frustrated woman. What the fuck is she for me?
You will always see me in the most comfortable position you can imagine, while I am in a set or anywhere in life. Why? For a few reasons: You can't be nervous when you are in a relaxed position. You must feel cool. People will see you as a socially cool guy. More importantly, your voice is going to be deeper and more relaxed, so that people will start to lean in to hear you. If you drop your voice down when they can't hear you, they will start to lean in and pay more attention to your lips in order to understand what you are saying. Looking at someone's lips for ten minutes is really sexual.
Badboy
I love it cause he is one of few who says truth about PU.
I always thought people didnt want me to get good so I get upset and go at it like a face to a wall. but that isnt wise, the best thing is to get your priority and have balance in your life.
pick up is great as you find the info and easily get Keyboard Jockey and you try to find best material out there. but if you dont go out you will fail and your low self esteem will destroy you and PUA will take over your life and it will get worse....
its terrible cause Ive been there and thats why I left for awhile and I wouldnt put it in first place . But when I go out I would give it 100% of it and enjoy it.
Get Your Priorities Straight ...Today
by Badboy
I see lots of guys in the Seduction Community make the same mistake over and over, regarding where their priorities are... Namely, letting pickup take over their life. Guys spend all their time reading forums, downloading more and more material, studying every guru's philosophy and eventually it becomes their whole life. Guys start to look at the world as one big sarge and lose the ability to act like a normal person with friends and other priorities in their life. This is why so many guys you meet in the community are fucking weird. There are plenty of great guys in it, but also a lot of weirdos. Make an effort to be a normal person before being a mPUA... You'll be happier.
Pickup should be just one of the hobbies you have. Don't spend more than 2-3 days a week on it and don't spend all your free time trolling the internet for more info... Learn what you need to to so that you are getting results but then just go out and have fun, go to the gym, do some reading, play sports, learn something new... Girls love guys with a genuinely good lifestyle which is why guys who obsess over only pickup are actually hurting their chances with girls. What they are doing is putting women and their need for validation above all other things and the gaping void that forms in their life because of this will be subcommunicated eventually and drive girls away. This is a horrible dynamic to create in your life. Sitting in front of a computer, reading forums and spending hours worrying about what opener to use is the worst lifestyle you can have. Your pursuit of women should be a small facet of your overall well developed lifestyle; not vice-versa.
Go out and make some friends. Real friends. Not just community guys. It's stupid if all the people you hang out with are community guys. If you do so, you are limiting yourself from all that life has to offer
Starting out, of course take a workshop to get you on the level where you can continue to progress by yourself, then take community guys(wings), and train with them during the 2-3 days a week you dedicate to gaming. Other than that, make sure you have a balanced, interesting, fulfilling life and you will get much better results than if you spend 20 hours a week �studying� pickup.
Start doing this today.
Enjoy,
BadBoy
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Confidence & Leadership by Badboy
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Confidence and Leadership
by Badboy
We all know how important INNER GAME is, but have you ever stopped to ask yourself what Inner Game actually is? Is it simply when I memorized material very well or maybe when I perfected the delivery of my voice?
Actually, Inner Game is based on confidence, beliefs, and your overall attitude about life. Whether you realize it or not, your attitude is constantly projected to the women you talk to. If you have a strong, assertive, and positive attitude, women will naturally be attracted to you. That's how most naturals get laid. They develop these three aspects of their identity: confidence, beliefs, and attitude. When this happens, they begin to feel more confident and they start to behave like they're the prize, which is exactly what attracts women.
I enjoy analyzing these ideas, and I recently found something crazy below the surface. People in general love leaders, especially women. Leaders are naturally attractive because they radiate confidence and not easily concerned with outside criticism. They know exactly what they want and focus their energies on achieving their goal. I am willing to teach you how to become a leader, how to make people follow you and even respect you.
These steps are essential to leading a successful life.
The first observation is that charisma does not exist. People do not know how to describe something that is intangible, so they say this person has "charisma", or "this guy is a charismatic person". If you take the time to observe charismatic people, you see that they actually have one big quality in common. They have a frame (or point of view) so strong that people are sucked into their reality. Everything they do reflects an ultra-strong frame that exists inside their individual reality. They tend to have a lot of rules that you must follow when you are around them. They treat themselves with integrity and they absolutely will not tolerate disrespect; in fact they punish it.
You can apply these characteristics to your own life. They are actually core lessons for living succesfully on this planet. Let's take respect for example: How do you ensure that the people around you show respect for you and your work? First start to respect yourself and your work too. When you start to respect yourself completely, other people will respect you as well. If you don't respect yourself, why in the world would anyone else respect you? If you treat yourself like shit, trust me, other people will do the same because you are sending a strong signal to the world that shit is just what you are.
Next, what you must accomplish is to develop a set of unwavering rules in your life that define what people can and cannot do around you or to you. You must punish any negative behavior that impedes upon your integrity. Tell them you disaprove, and make it crystal clear that they cannot behave like that if they want to be in your company. Kick their asses for it. Make them know they did something that you do not respect. If people treat you like shit and you let them get away with it, they will do it again and again. Other people see this, and learn to disrepect you also. Make personal boundaries for yourself, and make it clear to the people around you that these boundaries must be respected. Humans are social pack animals, meaning they will accept the strongest frame presented to them.
For example, if my girlfriend flakes on me, of course I will be pissed off, but I will show her that I am angry and will calmly state that it will not happen again. For everything that she does that I do not like, I tell her she can do it only 3 times: the first time, the last time and never again! My rules are strict. People will enjoy the time they spend with me. In return I will do everything I can for their happiness. I will teach them and have fun with them, but there are some rules you must follow, otherwise you won't see me ever again.
I make options for myself, so that you are not my only choice and I can go out with someone else if I choose. For now, even if you don't have other options, make it look like you do. Behave like you do. I am going to do everything for my girls. I love them and will treat them like a queen, but only as long as I think they deserve it. It is funny to see how, when women don't get what they want, they call me a jerk. They make not like my rules, but they will respect me if I stick to them.
Take a look at the police. They have strict rules. Break them and you'll get punished, and trust me, you won't make the same mistake again in your life. I want you to do the same in your own life. Let people around you know what is allowed and what is not. Otherwise nobody is going to respect you. It is funny, but people will test you from time to time to see if you are still congruent with your frame. That is why I say that "shit tests" are not problematic. As long as you are congruent with your frame, shit tests are a non-issue. Women will challenge you all the time when you are seducing them. That's just normal behavior.
My best friend has this cute little dog. The pet knows that it is not allowed to sleep on the sofa because he got his ass kicked a few times, and still months later he comes near the sofa with his cute little look. He glances at the sofa, then his owner, the sofa, the owner, just waiting for a reaction. He might even put one leg close to the sofa, the whole time looking at his owner. What the dog is actually doing is testing his owner to see if he is still congruent with his rule about sleeping on the sofa. Is he going to allow him to jump on the sofa or is he going to yell at him? The dog is not giving his owner shit, just making sure he is still congruent. Children will test you in the same way. Every couple of days, or even hours, they will challenge you to see if the rules have weakened or changed. You can observe this behavior everywhere in nature.
Now, let's get back to charismatic people. It's funny, but the more rules charismatic people have, and the more they punish those who break their rules, the more charismatic they appear. A negative examples would be Hitler, while positive examples like Christ, Gandhi, the Dalai Lama and Martin Luther King. Being assertive does not make you good or evil. It gives you power, and you choose how to use it.
These leaders issue commands and demand unquestioning loyalty. Challenging their ideas is strongly condemned and often leads to some type of emotional or physical punishment. With women, you give them pleasure and show them a really nice time when they are with you, but you must also remember to punish any negative behavior or disrespect from her.
So the first step toward developing confidence, belief, and attitude is to start respecting yourself! If you have ever gone out with me, you will notice something really unusual: as soon as I go into a set, I am not sucked into their frame. I do not live in their world. You will see that they live in my world. How do you see this? When I approach a set or any group of people, I don't position myself so the whole group can hear me. I don't try to yell so the whole group can hear me. First, I position myself in the most comfortable position, where I feel the most relaxed. Then I reorganize the other people around me in a way I like. For example, I approach them, have them open up to me, sit down, and use the space around me to make myself comfortable. Then, I might position the extra people to talk to each other, while the target is left to talk to me. This behavior is not something I modelled or learned, but it's been a part of my personality for a long time.
I really can't stand people who have a weak frame. For example, I hate to see guys fall into a situation like this: A guy sits in a chair, maybe one that is totally uncomfortable like the letter S, and he stays there for hours pretending he is relaxed without saying a word about it. He would rather sit there no matter what because the chair is more important than who he is. It is more important than his health or his body... sad. Why the fuck should I be in some uncomfortable position when I talk with some average frustrated woman. What the fuck is she for me?
You will always see me in the most comfortable position you can imagine, while I am in a set or anywhere in life. Why? For a few reasons: You can't be nervous when you are in a relaxed position. You must feel cool. People will see you as a socially cool guy. More importantly, your voice is going to be deeper and more relaxed, so that people will start to lean in to hear you. If you drop your voice down when they can't hear you, they will start to lean in and pay more attention to your lips in order to understand what you are saying. Looking at someone's lips for ten minutes is really sexual.
Badboy
Badboy notes of a lair talk
I like badboy cause he acts like a badboy.lol
nah, I like his aura of masculinity which most PUAs dont have that.
he is pretty good and I used his innergame, rapport, emotional states and his kiss close which is rarely seen. and I use 100% of the time.
guy talks natural game and he has exciting bootcamps stuff and can coach I heard.
I like his prioirties first which really I should have listened . he is arare guy in the pua community.
heres notes from a liar talk I found, ENJOY!!!
Notes From Badboy found from a lair talk
Badboy Quotes / Introduction
• Direct game works better here [in the US]
• I represent direct game
• The deeper I go, the more simple it becomes
• You’re not picking her up, you are seducing her
Emotions are contagious
The girl is a mirror image of yourself. She will reflect your beliefs, thoughts and how those things are projected by your presence. In a way, you are "picking up" yourself.
Women don’t want to be the one choosing, they want to be the chosen. You are choosing her
Most 9’s and 10’s are very insecure. I have more success talking to with American girls!
I love other guys. They drive the girl to the club, pay for her drinks and bring her back! I don’t have to do anything. The other guys are my best friends.
Emotions
How do you feel? How does she feel? Pay attention to how she feels!
Don’t negotiate with logic or argue your way into sleeping with her. Logic does not work with women. Of the Fortune 500 companies, only 4-5 CEOs are women. It is not in their nature to be logical.
Don’t change the way she thinks. Change the way she feels. When talking to a woman always notice how she feels during the interaction.
There are 5 emotions you must make her feel (Note: same as BadBoy’s DVDs)
1. Relaxed
2. Attraction
3. Trust
4. Physical Comfort
5. Connection
On being rich and on social status
Club -> Swords -> Guns -> Money
Being “rich” isn’t necessarily what you think. She’s not being a gold digger. It makes her feel the following emotions: comfort, security, protection, power, dominance, stability. The things that evoke these emotions have changed over time.
On buying drinks
Don’t buy drink as a way to impress or attract her. Do it for building trust and comfort after she is attracted to you. Having a drink has become a socialritual of friendship. Calibrate on drink buying. How many times have you thought, “if I only bought that girl a drink I would have got laid!?”
How to create Trust
• Changing location
• Leading (activity, motion)
• Give her something you own, or wear something of hers (glasses, hat, etc)
• Sit down (high heels are painful)- you are helping her with her pain
• Time = trust
• Give something to the girl’s friend, and take the girl (show physical leading technique) and tell her you will come back.
•
Physical Comfort /Kino Escalation
• High five
• Palm reading
• Smile, relax, “love to be touched” vibe
• Movement of kino goes from hand, to shoulders, to the head/hair, to the mouth, breast, and then back down finally to the vaginal region.
On Dominance
Dominance = achieving things without using force, but influence.
Aggression = force. You will face resistance if you use force.
[Badboy demos locking hand leading and sitting the girls down by lightly pressing her hip area]
If you get resistance, you are either a) too weak (no motivation or energy) b) too forceful, too much pressure and will raise resistance and trigger “danger” in her mind.
Q&A
The club is a fake and dramatic environment. Pick one girl and think, “I am going to make her happy for 1 night.” Think about her, not about your wanting to fuck her
The best cologne is the pheromone the female body releases
[AW: was he joking?]
All your life, girls have developed ways to filter out the real men. Be the man. I don’t believe in rejection.
“In love and war, remember there are no rules”
On day 2s
Tell the girl she can pick the time, you pick the location. Location gives you more control
Be unpredictable. If you become predictable, it is game over.
Day 2 venues
• Mini-golf
• Go car
• Telescope and blanket (park)
• Running / sports
Party vs. Emotional Girls
Party girls: confident, sexy, and flirty. Attraction keys: leading. Don’t talk to her, show her with physical lead. “Sex, drugs and rock and roll”, if you are good sex, they will come back for more.
Emotional girls: long term, value building, security and protection. Attraction keys: build value, connection. Have the “we are soul mates” vibe.
Openers
Whisper “You’re so fucking sexy” and then walk away (she will think about you for the rest of the night. Wait 10-15 minutes, “now we can talk”
Badboy tells us story about the HB10 with 7 guys, how he turned her around and then shook his head and walked away. She was hooked.
“Stop” like a police sign
Both hands on shoulders turn her around and keep smiling
Hand leading (very dominant)
Social Circle Game
You still have to have club game in order to build and maintain a social circle. The club scene is the most difficult environment that will test your social intuition skills. Keep this in mind as I tell you about social game
5 really hot girlfriends. Keep your dick in your pants and try not to fuck them. Each will have a circle of about 10 girlfriends
If you take a friend, be sure to replace her. “Bait” to catch the bigger fish / use as pivots
House party – invite 10 girls, 3-4 guys. 3-4 parties later, make them feel comfortable so they will get drunk and sleep over. Then harvest.
Give the girl a mission, “you bring the salad, you get the drinks” to reduce party flake rate
Relax, no community guys, no hitting on girls at party
Ending
“Being a mPUA is great. For me, it is the chase that gets off. The sex is great too, but I love the chase!”
“My purpose in life is to give women the men they want”
nah, I like his aura of masculinity which most PUAs dont have that.
he is pretty good and I used his innergame, rapport, emotional states and his kiss close which is rarely seen. and I use 100% of the time.
guy talks natural game and he has exciting bootcamps stuff and can coach I heard.
I like his prioirties first which really I should have listened . he is arare guy in the pua community.
heres notes from a liar talk I found, ENJOY!!!
Notes From Badboy found from a lair talk
Badboy Quotes / Introduction
• Direct game works better here [in the US]
• I represent direct game
• The deeper I go, the more simple it becomes
• You’re not picking her up, you are seducing her
Emotions are contagious
The girl is a mirror image of yourself. She will reflect your beliefs, thoughts and how those things are projected by your presence. In a way, you are "picking up" yourself.
Women don’t want to be the one choosing, they want to be the chosen. You are choosing her
Most 9’s and 10’s are very insecure. I have more success talking to with American girls!
I love other guys. They drive the girl to the club, pay for her drinks and bring her back! I don’t have to do anything. The other guys are my best friends.
Emotions
How do you feel? How does she feel? Pay attention to how she feels!
Don’t negotiate with logic or argue your way into sleeping with her. Logic does not work with women. Of the Fortune 500 companies, only 4-5 CEOs are women. It is not in their nature to be logical.
Don’t change the way she thinks. Change the way she feels. When talking to a woman always notice how she feels during the interaction.
There are 5 emotions you must make her feel (Note: same as BadBoy’s DVDs)
1. Relaxed
2. Attraction
3. Trust
4. Physical Comfort
5. Connection
On being rich and on social status
Club -> Swords -> Guns -> Money
Being “rich” isn’t necessarily what you think. She’s not being a gold digger. It makes her feel the following emotions: comfort, security, protection, power, dominance, stability. The things that evoke these emotions have changed over time.
On buying drinks
Don’t buy drink as a way to impress or attract her. Do it for building trust and comfort after she is attracted to you. Having a drink has become a socialritual of friendship. Calibrate on drink buying. How many times have you thought, “if I only bought that girl a drink I would have got laid!?”
How to create Trust
• Changing location
• Leading (activity, motion)
• Give her something you own, or wear something of hers (glasses, hat, etc)
• Sit down (high heels are painful)- you are helping her with her pain
• Time = trust
• Give something to the girl’s friend, and take the girl (show physical leading technique) and tell her you will come back.
•
Physical Comfort /Kino Escalation
• High five
• Palm reading
• Smile, relax, “love to be touched” vibe
• Movement of kino goes from hand, to shoulders, to the head/hair, to the mouth, breast, and then back down finally to the vaginal region.
On Dominance
Dominance = achieving things without using force, but influence.
Aggression = force. You will face resistance if you use force.
[Badboy demos locking hand leading and sitting the girls down by lightly pressing her hip area]
If you get resistance, you are either a) too weak (no motivation or energy) b) too forceful, too much pressure and will raise resistance and trigger “danger” in her mind.
Q&A
The club is a fake and dramatic environment. Pick one girl and think, “I am going to make her happy for 1 night.” Think about her, not about your wanting to fuck her
The best cologne is the pheromone the female body releases
[AW: was he joking?]
All your life, girls have developed ways to filter out the real men. Be the man. I don’t believe in rejection.
“In love and war, remember there are no rules”
On day 2s
Tell the girl she can pick the time, you pick the location. Location gives you more control
Be unpredictable. If you become predictable, it is game over.
Day 2 venues
• Mini-golf
• Go car
• Telescope and blanket (park)
• Running / sports
Party vs. Emotional Girls
Party girls: confident, sexy, and flirty. Attraction keys: leading. Don’t talk to her, show her with physical lead. “Sex, drugs and rock and roll”, if you are good sex, they will come back for more.
Emotional girls: long term, value building, security and protection. Attraction keys: build value, connection. Have the “we are soul mates” vibe.
Openers
Whisper “You’re so fucking sexy” and then walk away (she will think about you for the rest of the night. Wait 10-15 minutes, “now we can talk”
Badboy tells us story about the HB10 with 7 guys, how he turned her around and then shook his head and walked away. She was hooked.
“Stop” like a police sign
Both hands on shoulders turn her around and keep smiling
Hand leading (very dominant)
Social Circle Game
You still have to have club game in order to build and maintain a social circle. The club scene is the most difficult environment that will test your social intuition skills. Keep this in mind as I tell you about social game
5 really hot girlfriends. Keep your dick in your pants and try not to fuck them. Each will have a circle of about 10 girlfriends
If you take a friend, be sure to replace her. “Bait” to catch the bigger fish / use as pivots
House party – invite 10 girls, 3-4 guys. 3-4 parties later, make them feel comfortable so they will get drunk and sleep over. Then harvest.
Give the girl a mission, “you bring the salad, you get the drinks” to reduce party flake rate
Relax, no community guys, no hitting on girls at party
Ending
“Being a mPUA is great. For me, it is the chase that gets off. The sex is great too, but I love the chase!”
“My purpose in life is to give women the men they want”
Friday, February 12, 2010
good advice on PU vids badboy
I saw some PU vids on badboy lifestyles just great advice and saw daygame demo by cortez.
my favorite is badboy kiss close
vids are good shows dominance.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5paObBEW0dg&feature=channel
this is great for going sexual in comfort : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ByMOIgilys
comfort direction and sucommunication goal should be : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7AJL3q5VdAo&feature=channel
I like to keep motivated by looking at his croatia summer training bc video commercial.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QvYmKfA-Cxk&feature=channel
Wow! I like t get in shape and travel. A fat guy even paying money cant game there for shit....
I have to keep at it , and work out.
my favorite is badboy kiss close
vids are good shows dominance.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5paObBEW0dg&feature=channel
this is great for going sexual in comfort : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ByMOIgilys
comfort direction and sucommunication goal should be : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7AJL3q5VdAo&feature=channel
I like to keep motivated by looking at his croatia summer training bc video commercial.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QvYmKfA-Cxk&feature=channel
Wow! I like t get in shape and travel. A fat guy even paying money cant game there for shit....
I have to keep at it , and work out.
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