2009 rebecca and trish
rebecca comes in and is attracted look to cali pimp
trish is somewhat more feminine and he runs game on one in a room as he comes out he is purely sexual and physical dominant in an arousal form. she gets on her knees within seconds to suck his cock ,later she joins them in a 3 way cock sucking and cali pimps kicks her face .lol.
eventhough that awkward situation she is till into it.
trish comes back ... great thing this cali pimp material.
Showing posts with label nonverbal sexual communication. Show all posts
Showing posts with label nonverbal sexual communication. Show all posts
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
this morning I felt a boost and I got AIs and IOIs felt like my old self again
so tripp emailed me this and read it this morning:
All women have that tendency of acting like a 13 yr old at times. But then again, men have that tendency as well. But again, this is why it's absolutely critical that you dig down deep within yourself and find who you are, find your own worth. This is why I beat that issue so much.
The more your secure in your own skin, the less you have to tell yourself how valuable you are . . .
then I listened to Swinggcat's beliefs and badboy's Attraction and Adam Lyons Qualification.
then it came to me that all I have to do is elicit her investing in me by proving herself and she will backwards rationalize as her wanting to work hard and invest in me emotional investment.
wow
yesterday was gary's how to be a player last cd3 great stuff.
and anger got to me last night.
so I had to take action.
first I did that and thought abit selfish about myself being prize loving myself sinceI took care of neediness last night.
so I get in car listened to flavor in the ear remix and Im feeling it sick and email my best friends I get positive responses and my state is up and now Im getting started I then get dressed and put on my shades and I look like clooney in oceans eleven.
then my swagger came the walk Saffron taought us shoulders one, and the whole saturday night spderman walk from rob brinded made me do it
the whole "you will feel lucky to be with me" vibe came to me again.
so I found out im in state
so my whole seduction means comes back.
play from a position of strength...- swinggcat gary brodsky reminds me again in my head.
so now my walk and my talk tells me Im the shit.
I text zey hey dork and she responds ,Im like oh shite she is receptive to that. wow cool.
then I go to the bank and get IOIs from afar, or soft signs from a banker woman constantly looking at me, she is a cougar on the prey.
anywyas I came up that its my state i project. being cool as fuck being the shit. voice the walk bodylanguage.
I think the bust your balls and soft signs were crucial to this plus affirmations of swinggcatt and badboy "youd be lucky to be with me" the subcommunication vibe of my swagger.
then I started to speak subcommunication
instaed of "I miss you " or "I like you"
subcommunication is to : make them laugh, make them feel good spike BT with humor. without directly conveying verbally you like them, women speak that language and if you talk to them in that language then you get rapport fast and its like you are secret society in her mind.
NOTE: this isnt indirect ,its talking through subcommunication.
this is awareness of what franco calls soft signs reading soft signs and applying this in your seduction makes it more powerful, non verbally.
this is cornerstone of eliciting IOIs by your projection and you knwing how to talk to women, through their gut or subcommunication not through logic normal vague insecrue non preselected way of talking with women.
its tricky
its RAKE type game
russel brand and this can get her chasing .
I like this thing I use when I get shit test to prove myself
"I dont explicate I demonstrate"
All women have that tendency of acting like a 13 yr old at times. But then again, men have that tendency as well. But again, this is why it's absolutely critical that you dig down deep within yourself and find who you are, find your own worth. This is why I beat that issue so much.
The more your secure in your own skin, the less you have to tell yourself how valuable you are . . .
then I listened to Swinggcat's beliefs and badboy's Attraction and Adam Lyons Qualification.
then it came to me that all I have to do is elicit her investing in me by proving herself and she will backwards rationalize as her wanting to work hard and invest in me emotional investment.
wow
yesterday was gary's how to be a player last cd3 great stuff.
and anger got to me last night.
so I had to take action.
first I did that and thought abit selfish about myself being prize loving myself sinceI took care of neediness last night.
so I get in car listened to flavor in the ear remix and Im feeling it sick and email my best friends I get positive responses and my state is up and now Im getting started I then get dressed and put on my shades and I look like clooney in oceans eleven.
then my swagger came the walk Saffron taought us shoulders one, and the whole saturday night spderman walk from rob brinded made me do it
the whole "you will feel lucky to be with me" vibe came to me again.
so I found out im in state
so my whole seduction means comes back.
play from a position of strength...- swinggcat gary brodsky reminds me again in my head.
so now my walk and my talk tells me Im the shit.
I text zey hey dork and she responds ,Im like oh shite she is receptive to that. wow cool.
then I go to the bank and get IOIs from afar, or soft signs from a banker woman constantly looking at me, she is a cougar on the prey.
anywyas I came up that its my state i project. being cool as fuck being the shit. voice the walk bodylanguage.
I think the bust your balls and soft signs were crucial to this plus affirmations of swinggcatt and badboy "youd be lucky to be with me" the subcommunication vibe of my swagger.
then I started to speak subcommunication
instaed of "I miss you " or "I like you"
subcommunication is to : make them laugh, make them feel good spike BT with humor. without directly conveying verbally you like them, women speak that language and if you talk to them in that language then you get rapport fast and its like you are secret society in her mind.
NOTE: this isnt indirect ,its talking through subcommunication.
this is awareness of what franco calls soft signs reading soft signs and applying this in your seduction makes it more powerful, non verbally.
this is cornerstone of eliciting IOIs by your projection and you knwing how to talk to women, through their gut or subcommunication not through logic normal vague insecrue non preselected way of talking with women.
its tricky
its RAKE type game
russel brand and this can get her chasing .
I like this thing I use when I get shit test to prove myself
"I dont explicate I demonstrate"
Thursday, February 3, 2011
Jesse, I Hooked Up With the Family’s Mom…
Hello Jesse,
I enjoyed your latest program and it worked so well I actually found myself in a very awkward situation.
I stayed in Raleigh for a week and was with a family where I hooked up with the mom.
The family is friends with my parents, so it’s created an awkward situation and I need some advice. First, here’s my “field report”:
I had a crush on the mom before, but was obviously way too chicken-shit to do anything about it. It’s because some years back we did a barbecue and she had massive cleavage going on, but since then it’s always been covered. Which drives me even crazier thinking about it.
This time I was staying at their house and hitting her with your nonverbal game. She never noticed me before, but now I’m getting IOIs from her. Like smiling and she was holding eye contact with me, but actually holding it.
Also, when I helped her cut veggies for the dinner I “accidentally” brushed up on her numerous times.
The next night she came into my room wearing just a nightie to check on me. Tight. “Wow, you look fantastic,” I told her. I took her by the wrist, and (tried) to pull her toward me.
She got all embarrassed… and left the room. “Fuck, fuck, fuck,” I was thinking. And Jesse, I was embarrassed too. But that night I dreamed about fucking her all night long.
The next day though she was back to normal affectionate though, and giving me heavy IOIs, eye contact, touching me casually but more than would be normal. I think she liked it that I grabbed her. I still felt guilty about it, but if she did too, she didn’t show it.
She invited me to help prepare the dinner before than “man of the house” got home. He’s a nice guy, funny, but a dweeb. He definitely has no clue about game or the power of this.
So we were preparing dinner together, and I went hard on the nonverbal trigger game. We were laughing and “brushing” against each other. I was scared to death inside about making another move, so what I did next had my adrenaline going.
I did your sexual intent bit. “You’re dangerous for me,” I said to her. I touched her bare arm and traced it along her shoulder, and then to her breast and circled her nipple. “You’re a temptation.”
She kind of just stood there looking at me. I think she was speechless
I took her hips and guided her back to the kitchen counter, facing each other. Eye contact. Killer stuff Jesse. Then I moved my hands up her body from her hips and squeezed the undersides of her breasts. “You’re dangerous for me, you’re a temptation,” I said again.
“Stop,” she said, “this isn’t right.”
And she left the kitchen!!! FUCK!
Jesse, I’m just thinking to myself “fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck THIS,” again. It was like the worst moment of my life.
Dinner was really awkward. She didn’t look at me with her husband two kids right there! And the conversation felt stiff. I’m telling you Jesse, I felt really fucked up inside. But with pent up energy too.
I think too because my game is very rough still, I was making progress but also making things weird. And also thinking I was maybe the most amoral prick on the planet.
The next day came, I thought it was over, but she asked me to go shopping groceries with her. At the store she was a standoffish at first like nothing happened, but I got her smiling and laughing and I kept running the nonverbal game on her.
When we got back to the house, she began showing me some picture albums. I took this as an IOI. I felt like it was “on” again but I was nervous as fuck because I wanted to make a move, but I didn’t want to freak her out again either.
I just asked her, “Are you a good kisser,” and she said “Yes,” and from there we made out!!
After a while I pushed her back against the couch and started squeezing her big tit through her shirt. I was nervous as all fuck.
“Oh god, I’m not going to be able to stop,” she said.
From there we did it. I didn’t have a condom, so licked her out and she sucked me until I blew my load.
My first MILF! Really it was fantastic, because I had DAYS of pent up energy needing to be released and I wanted her so bad.
The next day was Saturday, my last day, and I couldn’t get her alone and nothing happened between us.
Here’s the fucked up thing. The trip is over now and I’m back home. She’s emailed me asking how I am. I want to fuck her proper this time, but the logistics are bad now and I feel guilty about it. Maybe I should just forget her, move on, and use your stuff to find a real girlfriend now?
Thanks Jesse, this can be used for great evil in the wrong hands .
Your new fan,
Jake
I can’t say that I can condone Jake’s behavior, and it’s not a good idea to “shit where you sleep.”
That said, Nonverbal Sexual Mind Control has a lot of power techniques to fire off hard attraction feelings in women. It’s for meeting girls everywhere, and not Mom’s though the program doesn’t discriminate. Who you go for is up to you. You can click THIS link here to grab a copy right now.
So should Jake follow his desires and give this woman a thrill ride, or simply let it go? Let me know what you think below, leave a comment.
~ Jesse
I enjoyed your latest program and it worked so well I actually found myself in a very awkward situation.
I stayed in Raleigh for a week and was with a family where I hooked up with the mom.
The family is friends with my parents, so it’s created an awkward situation and I need some advice. First, here’s my “field report”:
I had a crush on the mom before, but was obviously way too chicken-shit to do anything about it. It’s because some years back we did a barbecue and she had massive cleavage going on, but since then it’s always been covered. Which drives me even crazier thinking about it.
This time I was staying at their house and hitting her with your nonverbal game. She never noticed me before, but now I’m getting IOIs from her. Like smiling and she was holding eye contact with me, but actually holding it.
Also, when I helped her cut veggies for the dinner I “accidentally” brushed up on her numerous times.
The next night she came into my room wearing just a nightie to check on me. Tight. “Wow, you look fantastic,” I told her. I took her by the wrist, and (tried) to pull her toward me.
She got all embarrassed… and left the room. “Fuck, fuck, fuck,” I was thinking. And Jesse, I was embarrassed too. But that night I dreamed about fucking her all night long.
The next day though she was back to normal affectionate though, and giving me heavy IOIs, eye contact, touching me casually but more than would be normal. I think she liked it that I grabbed her. I still felt guilty about it, but if she did too, she didn’t show it.
She invited me to help prepare the dinner before than “man of the house” got home. He’s a nice guy, funny, but a dweeb. He definitely has no clue about game or the power of this.
So we were preparing dinner together, and I went hard on the nonverbal trigger game. We were laughing and “brushing” against each other. I was scared to death inside about making another move, so what I did next had my adrenaline going.
I did your sexual intent bit. “You’re dangerous for me,” I said to her. I touched her bare arm and traced it along her shoulder, and then to her breast and circled her nipple. “You’re a temptation.”
She kind of just stood there looking at me. I think she was speechless
I took her hips and guided her back to the kitchen counter, facing each other. Eye contact. Killer stuff Jesse. Then I moved my hands up her body from her hips and squeezed the undersides of her breasts. “You’re dangerous for me, you’re a temptation,” I said again.
“Stop,” she said, “this isn’t right.”
And she left the kitchen!!! FUCK!
Jesse, I’m just thinking to myself “fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck THIS,” again. It was like the worst moment of my life.
Dinner was really awkward. She didn’t look at me with her husband two kids right there! And the conversation felt stiff. I’m telling you Jesse, I felt really fucked up inside. But with pent up energy too.
I think too because my game is very rough still, I was making progress but also making things weird. And also thinking I was maybe the most amoral prick on the planet.
The next day came, I thought it was over, but she asked me to go shopping groceries with her. At the store she was a standoffish at first like nothing happened, but I got her smiling and laughing and I kept running the nonverbal game on her.
When we got back to the house, she began showing me some picture albums. I took this as an IOI. I felt like it was “on” again but I was nervous as fuck because I wanted to make a move, but I didn’t want to freak her out again either.
I just asked her, “Are you a good kisser,” and she said “Yes,” and from there we made out!!
After a while I pushed her back against the couch and started squeezing her big tit through her shirt. I was nervous as all fuck.
“Oh god, I’m not going to be able to stop,” she said.
From there we did it. I didn’t have a condom, so licked her out and she sucked me until I blew my load.
My first MILF! Really it was fantastic, because I had DAYS of pent up energy needing to be released and I wanted her so bad.
The next day was Saturday, my last day, and I couldn’t get her alone and nothing happened between us.
Here’s the fucked up thing. The trip is over now and I’m back home. She’s emailed me asking how I am. I want to fuck her proper this time, but the logistics are bad now and I feel guilty about it. Maybe I should just forget her, move on, and use your stuff to find a real girlfriend now?
Thanks Jesse, this can be used for great evil in the wrong hands .
Your new fan,
Jake
I can’t say that I can condone Jake’s behavior, and it’s not a good idea to “shit where you sleep.”
That said, Nonverbal Sexual Mind Control has a lot of power techniques to fire off hard attraction feelings in women. It’s for meeting girls everywhere, and not Mom’s though the program doesn’t discriminate. Who you go for is up to you. You can click THIS link here to grab a copy right now.
So should Jake follow his desires and give this woman a thrill ride, or simply let it go? Let me know what you think below, leave a comment.
~ Jesse
Friday, January 28, 2011
Monday, January 17, 2011
FR :bitchy look at CVS
Hey guys I started implementing the Nonverbal Sexual Mind Control by Jesse Charger Program.
I havent gotten too far yet.I dont like to skim things so Im reviewing as Im progressing some material.
I have never heard of before,its pretty cool stuff
7:30pm
I was at a CVS store and I was standing in line at checkout.
then a cute girl walks in the store, I looked at her and I then rapidly looked away (damnit!) as she looked toward me in terms of noticing that I looked at her, within seconds I then look back at her again and she rolls her eyes with me a bitchy look like a nonverbal
"PfffT...whatever"
bitchy type rolls her eyes and turns her head.
behind me where some dudes who noticed her DRAMATIC reaction and laughed about the fact she came in and they noticed that out of the blue reacted like that,
they were talk amoung themselves:
"who was that? some ex GF you dumped awhile back" talking amoung each other, kindah funny but anyways, Im not making it up.
I think there are a couple of mistakes here on my part.
Fact that I looked away and didnt lock eye contact in the first place.
(which I usually do) any excersize for that Jesse?
but even so how you react to "that" emotional reaction from a girl, you arent at a club or a bar to plow and control the interaction at that point since its different scenario.
I didnt feel bad about myself, Its no big deal, I usually NEXT girls rather quickly.Im realistic it could be for thousands of reasons.I rather not go into that, so I NEXT.
I've done cold approach before alot of times, but this isnt cold appraoch.
What, Im saying is that Nonverbal sexual mind control program is advanced game of itself ...communicating with the girl on another level.
So,after that nonverbal emotional reaction from the girl.
Its like 7-9 feet of distance across from each other.
I was like "ok" I looked away to the side and up and tried to hold in the laughter abit.
she was gone to notice that by then.
BAR or CLUB at NIGHT
If it was at a bar or club I would have reframed it and appraoched her by saying
" I couldnt help to notice you but I was wondering if that was your sexy way of catching my eye?"."Im Sandee"
NOT to be LIKED !
SUMMARY
In other words, I usually NEXT girls quickly if I get a negative reaction like this in the daytime or outside club enviroment.I do need to work on somethings but I would like to see your interpretation of it and would you do if a girl would react like this.
Thanks ,
PS : I LOL'd at this pic
CRJAMES RESPONDS:
it could be a few things
- she wasn't feeling you (for whatever reason). don't sweat it..
- she wasn't in the mood to be hit on and wanted to put up a "blocker"
- she wanted to dramatically make it out to be more than what it was. this gives her a chance to "feel good about herself" (as if all guys want her). then she gets to tell the story to her friends about a guy who was checking her out...
- she initially liked you, but felt rejected from the rapid "look away" on your part and possibly pegged you as a "scared guy" (massive drop in sexual value)
- pretends to be bitchy as as illusion of confidence. when i was single i approached plenty of girls who would act that way, then after awhile i would end up getting their numbers...but in most cases, it's best to just move on.
I havent gotten too far yet.I dont like to skim things so Im reviewing as Im progressing some material.
I have never heard of before,its pretty cool stuff
7:30pm
I was at a CVS store and I was standing in line at checkout.
then a cute girl walks in the store, I looked at her and I then rapidly looked away (damnit!) as she looked toward me in terms of noticing that I looked at her, within seconds I then look back at her again and she rolls her eyes with me a bitchy look like a nonverbal
"PfffT...whatever"
bitchy type rolls her eyes and turns her head.
behind me where some dudes who noticed her DRAMATIC reaction and laughed about the fact she came in and they noticed that out of the blue reacted like that,
they were talk amoung themselves:
"who was that? some ex GF you dumped awhile back" talking amoung each other, kindah funny but anyways, Im not making it up.
I think there are a couple of mistakes here on my part.
Fact that I looked away and didnt lock eye contact in the first place.
(which I usually do) any excersize for that Jesse?
but even so how you react to "that" emotional reaction from a girl, you arent at a club or a bar to plow and control the interaction at that point since its different scenario.
I didnt feel bad about myself, Its no big deal, I usually NEXT girls rather quickly.Im realistic it could be for thousands of reasons.I rather not go into that, so I NEXT.
I've done cold approach before alot of times, but this isnt cold appraoch.
What, Im saying is that Nonverbal sexual mind control program is advanced game of itself ...communicating with the girl on another level.
So,after that nonverbal emotional reaction from the girl.
Its like 7-9 feet of distance across from each other.
I was like "ok" I looked away to the side and up and tried to hold in the laughter abit.
she was gone to notice that by then.
BAR or CLUB at NIGHT
If it was at a bar or club I would have reframed it and appraoched her by saying
" I couldnt help to notice you but I was wondering if that was your sexy way of catching my eye?"."Im Sandee"
NOT to be LIKED !
SUMMARY
In other words, I usually NEXT girls quickly if I get a negative reaction like this in the daytime or outside club enviroment.I do need to work on somethings but I would like to see your interpretation of it and would you do if a girl would react like this.
Thanks ,
PS : I LOL'd at this pic
CRJAMES RESPONDS:
it could be a few things
- she wasn't feeling you (for whatever reason). don't sweat it..
- she wasn't in the mood to be hit on and wanted to put up a "blocker"
- she wanted to dramatically make it out to be more than what it was. this gives her a chance to "feel good about herself" (as if all guys want her). then she gets to tell the story to her friends about a guy who was checking her out...
- she initially liked you, but felt rejected from the rapid "look away" on your part and possibly pegged you as a "scared guy" (massive drop in sexual value)
- pretends to be bitchy as as illusion of confidence. when i was single i approached plenty of girls who would act that way, then after awhile i would end up getting their numbers...but in most cases, it's best to just move on.
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Licking lips is non verbal sexual cue , I accidentally used it, but what does it say?
I did it on a woman who was staring at me and was holding eye contact as she was driving by turning, I smiled a bit and holding my eye contact as I was talking on the phone and she was holding it and as she turned I licked my lips...
I did it without knowing but it worked...made her stop her car halfway after such a long stare of eye contact...
ofcourse if you dont hold it you look weak, its a physically shit test* (credit* Saffron)
So she drove steps further and put her hazard lights , that was opening for an Approach invitation.
FRANCO explains its the easiest Pickup
Get Plenty Of Women By Opening A Conversation On Approach Invitation
by Franco on January 8, 2011
This is probably the easiest way of doing pickup.
Opening a conversation with a woman on her approach invitation.
An approach invitation (AI) is something spontaneous and very often unconscious women do.
It implies the message: ”Please notice me, please talk to me.”
It is easy because all what you need to do is to slow down your pace, observe the environment and then open the conversation.
Approach invitations are:
- She looks at you and turns her head in the other direction rapidly.
- She smiles lightly to you, makes eye contact with you and then rapidly turns her head in the other direction.
- She walks close to you and if you change your place she is ”as for a case” again close to you.
- Playing nervously with her hand bag or other stuff she has in her hands
- Searching the content of her hand bag while close to you.
- Dropping stuff on the floor, while close to you.
- While walking she looks at you rapidly and then looks back.
- You walk by and she laughs louder while chatting with her girlfriends.
- She looks at her nails or checks the make up in her small mirror while you get close to her.
- Playing with her mobile when close to you, clearly without any intention of calling anyone.
What is crucial when you open in this way is the time between her approach invitation and the moment you open the conversation.
You have only a few seconds to open. If you wait too long you lost your chance.
Women are chased all the time by guys.
Realize that by doing this she is already making a big exception to what would be her average behavior in everyday life.
After a few seconds she will get rapidly into her ”I-am-not-a-slut” mode and you will lose your chance.
If you lose your chance because you are too slow to respond remember that it is always easier to open another woman who gives you an AI than persisting with the former.
Why women have their Ais last such a short time?
There are a few reasons:
- Other women can read their Ais much better than the average guy without experience with females. They would label her as a slut and ostracize her if she would do that ”too much.”
- Giving too overt Ais on the streets and other public venues would put women into danger: there are aggressive, dangerous men out there!
So she gives you her AI for a few seconds and then withdraws it.
That is your window of opportunity: it is a very fast, short message that she likes you and wants you to talk to her.
That is all what the average woman can do to break the social code.
Then it’s up to you.
Beware: some women nowadays began to approach men overtly in a very direct way. Those women are not the women of the best quality: they are the masculine dominant women who have learned to "match" male behavior.
In my book Getting the good girls it is described how to detect them fast and avoid them even faster.
You better approach the women who give you AIs. They are usually the best and most feminine ones! Better quality women.
When you see an AI quickly respond on it.
When she gives very subtle AIs better to approach her with some indirect opener.
Asking innocently a favor is something which works very well for me: it ”saves her face” after she gave the AI and makes her feel more comfortable.
For example:
Her: (looking at you and rapidly turning her head)
You: (slowing down and going to her side) ”Hey, I just came to town and looking for this restaurant, any idea where it could be?”
In the case her AI is more open, more direct you can get straight to the point:
Her: (smiling at you or laughing louder when you pass by)
You: Nice smile. You look just like my little sister. I bet you won the lottery today.
And then it is the time to engage her into a conversation.
One important thing: to notice Ais you need to slow down your pace. So walk slowly and be aware of the surroundings.
If you walk too fast you will not notice the Ais.
Awareness and speed are the crucial skills you need to start conversations
Another important thing is to be able to recognize the ”soft signs” of her horniness which I shared with you in the Manual of Seduction.
Franco
GOOD RESOURCE http://www.aquiziam.com/female_body_language2.html
Body Language Decoder - When You're Dating-Licks
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/body-language/
LipsDecipher every move your man makes.
A man in lust will literally look like he's hungry, because on a carnal level, that's exactly what he is, explains Wood. "His facial expression reflects that craving, whether it be for a juicy piece of fruit or for sex." So if you catch him nibbling or licking his lips while he's looking at you, chances are good that you've whet his erotic appetite.
He licks his lips.
A man in lust will literally look like he's hungry, because on a carnal level, that's exactly what he is. So if you catch him doing these lip moves while he's looking at you, chances are good that you've wet his erotic appetite
Why is a girl licking her lips sexy?
I'm not stupid, i know it's sexy, but i'm not sure exactly why. Is it just because it is, does it resemble something...?
Best Answer -
It makes a guy think about what that girl can do to him with those lips. It takes the thought way beyond the guy's imagination.
Why do men lick there lips?
In: Men's Health
To feel sexy
Read more: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Why_do_men_lick_there_lips#ixzz1Aywc0tcz
BODY LANGUAGE CHEMISTRY – SHOWING INTEREST IN A DATE
http://devilliers.wordpress.com/2008/05/16/body-language-chemistry-showing-interest-in-a-date/
Usually the first way two people connect is through looking into each other’s eyes. Before either of you speaks a single word, the eyes have already telegraphed messages. Messages can range from frank curiosity to cool assessment to shy interest. When you look deeply into a guy’s eyes, you’re telling him you think he’s the most fascinating person in the room. In fact, if you keep your eyes locked on his, what you’re saying is that as far as you’re concerned, he’s the only person in the room!
Full frontal eye contact can be risky, however. It can seem too bold and brazen to those men who are put off by such direct behaviour by women. But if you’re not the bashful maiden type, frankly gaze. In a way, it’s a form of natural selection. A guy who is freaked out by your open gaze is probably not a guy for you.
Arm Crossing
When a woman crosses her arms over her chest, it can be interpreted in a number of ways by a guy. It can telegraph the message that she’s a vulnerable female creature, an innocent little lamb who feels the need to protect herself from the Big Bad Wolf!
But arm crossing is also a way of telling a guy that you don’t like him at all and that your fondest wish at the moment is that he’ll go away.
Crossing your arms over your chest is also a sneaky way of drawing attention to your breasts. It’s a primitive gesture of sexual anticipation laced with sexual anxiety, which a man might correctly read as the woman’s acknowledgment of the basic Me Tarzan, You Jane chemistry happening between them.
Leaning Toward Him
The most common form of this is leaning forward when you’re sitting across from him. This gesture shows interest and acceptance. In short, it means you just think he’s the funniest, cutest, most fascinating creature put on the face of this earth.
But keep your poker face, player-girl! If you go overboard with the lean, you’re giving away your whole hand. You want to keep him guessing at least a little bit, right?
If you catch yourself practically falling into his lap, take a deep breath, sit back in your seat and rest your hands in your lap for a few minutes ‑– at least until you cool off.
If you find yourself leaning away from him, you’re either telling him you hate his guts or you’re working overtime to not let him know you’re all hot and bothered for him.
Leg Crossing
Leg crossing can be interpreted as a nervous or provocative gesture. Lots of people unconsciously cross and uncross their legs when they’re anxious. If you’re doing this, the man will correctly intuit that he’s somehow “getting” to you. In other words, it’s a dead giveaway to the guy that he’s unsettled you and his energy has thrown off your equilibrium. On the other hand, if you’re deliberately crossing your legs to show off your sexy gams, or deliberately pointing your top leg in his direction, it means you like him a lot. If you can’t stop crossing your legs and you’re virtually twitching in your seat, again this is an unconscious gesture that clearly tells a man that he’s really getting to you. You probably don’t want to give him that much power. If he knows you’re burning hot for him, he has the upper hand ‑– and you don’t want that. If something about him has really got you squirming, get up, take a walk or go home and take a cold shower.
Hair Twirling
Toying with your hair is a sure sign of nervousness. If you find yourself doing this, take a moment to ask yourself why this guy is making you nervous. Is it because he’s too handsome? Too incredibly clever? Is it because you can’t get your mind out of the gutter imagining what he would be like in bed? Save your agitation for later ‑– like when you finally fall asleep and have a red-hot dream about him!
Hair twirling can also be a playful gesture. Women with long hair tend to play with their hair. Hair is sexy and twirling and tossing it draws a man’s eye to it. But beware: Many guys say it really bugs them when women keep playing with their hair. Talk about sending the wrong message! What some women think is sexy is a major turnoff to some guys.
Lip Licking
This is purely physiological. Forget what they say about “drooling” over a hot guy. When we’re aroused and excited, our mouths get dry. If you find yourself licking your lips a lot in the company of a new man, it means that something about him is really getting to you. Watch out!
Lip licking clearly conveys the message that you’re interested in a man. It is a very sexy, and overt, type of body language ‑– that is, if it is done correctly. What we are talking about here is a slow, sultry swipe along your lips with the tip of your tongue. Just remember to use this one with caution. Your Flirt Object will probably think you are telling him you want to take him to bed. And maybe you do! If that’s the case and you’re both equally interested, by all means, lick your lips. It’s another way of saying, “Let’s go back to your place right now.” In other words, it’s an action getter.
Flared Nostrils
OH MY god, this is the mother of all body language signals! Flared nostrils are an irrefutable sign of sexual arousal. If you’re talking to a man and his nostrils are flaring, you can bet your booty he’s aching’ for you. And, um, it works vice versa. If your nostrils are flaring, your nipples are probably hard, too. If you’re flirting with a guy and you’ve both got the nostril thing going, look out. You might have to rent a hotel room
6 Body Language Clues That Say You're Interested.
user
Your body speaks a language all its own. Without realizing it, how you sit, what you do with your hands, your legs, even your basic posture reveals volumes about you, namely what you're feeling, what you might be thinking and, most importantly, if that guy sitting across from you is getting to you.
The thing about body language is you want to be completely in control of it. You want to be aware of what messages you're sending and avoid telegraphing certain information you're not ready to give away. Dumb as they may seem sometimes, men are not exactly knuckleheads when it comes to interpreting a woman's body language. Any reasonably perceptive and intuitive guy you're flirting with is reading many things about you simply by studying your movements.
You can utilize your body language to your own advantage by transmitting only the messages you want him to receive, which gives you the upper hand. Body language has a lot in common with cell phone text messaging. It's shorthand information, meaning it's quick, direct and gets to the point.
Body Language Basics
Without even thinking about it, women almost always give physical tips that convey their level of interest in a man. The most common body language gestures that reveal at least minimal interest are hair twirling, hair tossing and leg crossing. When a woman tosses her hair, it comes across as a nervous gesture. What it tells the man is, he's making her a bit nervous. And to his mind, if she's nervous, she must be interested!
On the other hand, hair tossing, like leg crossing, is also a preening gesture. It's a way of calling attention or showing off a gorgeous, glossy mane (very sexy) or a terrific pair of gams (ditto, also very sexy!). But there are many other elemental gestures and basic postures that send a strong message to another person, all of which can be used to good effect.
Let's get started describing and interpreting them!
Eye Contact
Usually the first way two people connect is through looking into each other's eyes. Before either of you speaks a single word, the eyes have already telegraphed messages. Messages can range from frank curiosity to cool assessment to shy interest. When you look deeply into a guy's eyes, you're telling him you think he's the most fascinating person in the room. In fact, if you keep your eyes locked on his, what you're saying is that as far as you're concerned, he's the only person in the room!
Full frontal eye contact can be risky, however. It can seem too bold and brazen to those men who are put off by such direct behavior by women. But if you're not the bashful maiden type, frankly gaze. In a way, it's a form of natural selection. A guy who is freaked out by your open gaze is probably not a guy for you.
Arm Crossing
When a woman crosses her arms over her chest, it can be interpreted in a number of ways by a guy. It can telegraph the message that she's a vulnerable female creature, an innocent little lamb who feels the need to protect herself from the Big Bad Wolf!
But arm crossing is also a way of telling a guy that you don't like him at all and that your fondest wish at the moment is that he'll go away.
Crossing your arms over your chest is also a sneaky way of drawing attention to your breasts. It's a primitive gesture of sexual anticipation laced with sexual anxiety, which a man might correctly read as the woman's acknowledgment of the basic Me Tarzan, You Jane chemistry happening between them.
Leaning Toward Him
The most common form of this is leaning forward when you're sitting across from him. This gesture shows interest and acceptance. In short, it means you just think he's the funniest, cutest, most fascinating creature put on the face of this earth.
But keep your poker face, player-girl! If you go overboard with the lean, you're giving away your whole hand. You want to keep him guessing at least a little bit, right?
If you catch yourself practically falling into his lap, take a deep breath, sit back in your seat and rest your hands in your lap for a few minutes ‑- at least until you cool off.
If you find yourself leaning away from him, you're either telling him you hate his guts or you're working overtime to not let him know you're all hot and bothered for him.
Crossing
Leg crossing can be interpreted as a nervous or provocative gesture. Lots of people unconsciously cross and uncross their legs when they're anxious. If you're doing this, the man will correctly intuit that he's somehow "getting" to you. In other words, it's a dead giveaway to the guy that he's unsettled you and his energy has thrown off your equilibrium. On the other hand, if you're deliberately crossing your legs to show off your sexy gams, or deliberately pointing your top leg in his direction, it means you like him a lot. If you can't stop crossing your legs and you're virtually twitching in your seat, again this is an unconscious gesture that clearly tells a man that he's really getting to you. You probably don't want to give him that much power. If he knows you're burning hot for him, he has the upper hand ‑- and you don't want that. If something about him has really got you squirming, get up, take a walk or go home and take a cold shower.
Hair Twirling
Toying with your hair is a sure sign of nervousness. If you find yourself doing this, take a moment to ask yourself why this guy is making you nervous. Is it because he's too handsome? Too incredibly clever? Is it because you can't get your mind out of the gutter imagining what he would be like in bed? Save your agitation for later ‑- like when you finally fall asleep and have a red-hot dream about him!
Hair twirling can also be a playful gesture. Women with long hair tend to play with their hair. Hair is sexy and twirling and tossing it draws a man's eye to it. But beware: Many guys say it really bugs them when women keep playing with their hair. Talk about sending the wrong message! What some women think is sexy is a major turnoff to some guys.
Lip Licking
This is purely physiological. Forget what they say about "drooling" over a hot guy. When we're aroused and excited, our mouths get dry. If you find yourself licking your lips a lot in the company of a new man, it means that something about him is really getting to you. Watch out!
Lip licking clearly conveys the message that you're interested in a man. It is a very sexy, and overt, type of body language ‑- that is, if it is done correctly. What we are talking about here is a slow, sultry swipe along your lips with the tip of your tongue. Just remember to use this one with caution. Your Flirt Object will probably think you are telling him you want to take him to bed. And maybe you do! If that's the case and you're both equally interested, by all means, lick your lips. It's another way of saying, "Let's go back to your place right now." In other words, it's an action-getter.
Flared Nostrils
Omigod, this is the mother of all body language signals! Flared nostrils are an irrefutable sign of sexual arousal. If you're talking to a man and his nostrils are flaring, you can bet your booty he's achin' for you. And, um, it works vice versa. If your nostrils are flaring, your nipples are probably hard, too. If you're flirting with a guy and you've both got the nostril thing going, look out. You might have to rent a hotel room!
I did it without knowing but it worked...made her stop her car halfway after such a long stare of eye contact...
ofcourse if you dont hold it you look weak, its a physically shit test* (credit* Saffron)
So she drove steps further and put her hazard lights , that was opening for an Approach invitation.
FRANCO explains its the easiest Pickup
Get Plenty Of Women By Opening A Conversation On Approach Invitation
by Franco on January 8, 2011
This is probably the easiest way of doing pickup.
Opening a conversation with a woman on her approach invitation.
An approach invitation (AI) is something spontaneous and very often unconscious women do.
It implies the message: ”Please notice me, please talk to me.”
It is easy because all what you need to do is to slow down your pace, observe the environment and then open the conversation.
Approach invitations are:
- She looks at you and turns her head in the other direction rapidly.
- She smiles lightly to you, makes eye contact with you and then rapidly turns her head in the other direction.
- She walks close to you and if you change your place she is ”as for a case” again close to you.
- Playing nervously with her hand bag or other stuff she has in her hands
- Searching the content of her hand bag while close to you.
- Dropping stuff on the floor, while close to you.
- While walking she looks at you rapidly and then looks back.
- You walk by and she laughs louder while chatting with her girlfriends.
- She looks at her nails or checks the make up in her small mirror while you get close to her.
- Playing with her mobile when close to you, clearly without any intention of calling anyone.
What is crucial when you open in this way is the time between her approach invitation and the moment you open the conversation.
You have only a few seconds to open. If you wait too long you lost your chance.
Women are chased all the time by guys.
Realize that by doing this she is already making a big exception to what would be her average behavior in everyday life.
After a few seconds she will get rapidly into her ”I-am-not-a-slut” mode and you will lose your chance.
If you lose your chance because you are too slow to respond remember that it is always easier to open another woman who gives you an AI than persisting with the former.
Why women have their Ais last such a short time?
There are a few reasons:
- Other women can read their Ais much better than the average guy without experience with females. They would label her as a slut and ostracize her if she would do that ”too much.”
- Giving too overt Ais on the streets and other public venues would put women into danger: there are aggressive, dangerous men out there!
So she gives you her AI for a few seconds and then withdraws it.
That is your window of opportunity: it is a very fast, short message that she likes you and wants you to talk to her.
That is all what the average woman can do to break the social code.
Then it’s up to you.
Beware: some women nowadays began to approach men overtly in a very direct way. Those women are not the women of the best quality: they are the masculine dominant women who have learned to "match" male behavior.
In my book Getting the good girls it is described how to detect them fast and avoid them even faster.
You better approach the women who give you AIs. They are usually the best and most feminine ones! Better quality women.
When you see an AI quickly respond on it.
When she gives very subtle AIs better to approach her with some indirect opener.
Asking innocently a favor is something which works very well for me: it ”saves her face” after she gave the AI and makes her feel more comfortable.
For example:
Her: (looking at you and rapidly turning her head)
You: (slowing down and going to her side) ”Hey, I just came to town and looking for this restaurant, any idea where it could be?”
In the case her AI is more open, more direct you can get straight to the point:
Her: (smiling at you or laughing louder when you pass by)
You: Nice smile. You look just like my little sister. I bet you won the lottery today.
And then it is the time to engage her into a conversation.
One important thing: to notice Ais you need to slow down your pace. So walk slowly and be aware of the surroundings.
If you walk too fast you will not notice the Ais.
Awareness and speed are the crucial skills you need to start conversations
Another important thing is to be able to recognize the ”soft signs” of her horniness which I shared with you in the Manual of Seduction.
Franco
GOOD RESOURCE http://www.aquiziam.com/female_body_language2.html
Body Language Decoder - When You're Dating-Licks
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/body-language/
LipsDecipher every move your man makes.
A man in lust will literally look like he's hungry, because on a carnal level, that's exactly what he is, explains Wood. "His facial expression reflects that craving, whether it be for a juicy piece of fruit or for sex." So if you catch him nibbling or licking his lips while he's looking at you, chances are good that you've whet his erotic appetite.
He licks his lips.
A man in lust will literally look like he's hungry, because on a carnal level, that's exactly what he is. So if you catch him doing these lip moves while he's looking at you, chances are good that you've wet his erotic appetite
Why is a girl licking her lips sexy?
I'm not stupid, i know it's sexy, but i'm not sure exactly why. Is it just because it is, does it resemble something...?
Best Answer -
It makes a guy think about what that girl can do to him with those lips. It takes the thought way beyond the guy's imagination.
Why do men lick there lips?
In: Men's Health
To feel sexy
Read more: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Why_do_men_lick_there_lips#ixzz1Aywc0tcz
BODY LANGUAGE CHEMISTRY – SHOWING INTEREST IN A DATE
http://devilliers.wordpress.com/2008/05/16/body-language-chemistry-showing-interest-in-a-date/
Usually the first way two people connect is through looking into each other’s eyes. Before either of you speaks a single word, the eyes have already telegraphed messages. Messages can range from frank curiosity to cool assessment to shy interest. When you look deeply into a guy’s eyes, you’re telling him you think he’s the most fascinating person in the room. In fact, if you keep your eyes locked on his, what you’re saying is that as far as you’re concerned, he’s the only person in the room!
Full frontal eye contact can be risky, however. It can seem too bold and brazen to those men who are put off by such direct behaviour by women. But if you’re not the bashful maiden type, frankly gaze. In a way, it’s a form of natural selection. A guy who is freaked out by your open gaze is probably not a guy for you.
Arm Crossing
When a woman crosses her arms over her chest, it can be interpreted in a number of ways by a guy. It can telegraph the message that she’s a vulnerable female creature, an innocent little lamb who feels the need to protect herself from the Big Bad Wolf!
But arm crossing is also a way of telling a guy that you don’t like him at all and that your fondest wish at the moment is that he’ll go away.
Crossing your arms over your chest is also a sneaky way of drawing attention to your breasts. It’s a primitive gesture of sexual anticipation laced with sexual anxiety, which a man might correctly read as the woman’s acknowledgment of the basic Me Tarzan, You Jane chemistry happening between them.
Leaning Toward Him
The most common form of this is leaning forward when you’re sitting across from him. This gesture shows interest and acceptance. In short, it means you just think he’s the funniest, cutest, most fascinating creature put on the face of this earth.
But keep your poker face, player-girl! If you go overboard with the lean, you’re giving away your whole hand. You want to keep him guessing at least a little bit, right?
If you catch yourself practically falling into his lap, take a deep breath, sit back in your seat and rest your hands in your lap for a few minutes ‑– at least until you cool off.
If you find yourself leaning away from him, you’re either telling him you hate his guts or you’re working overtime to not let him know you’re all hot and bothered for him.
Leg Crossing
Leg crossing can be interpreted as a nervous or provocative gesture. Lots of people unconsciously cross and uncross their legs when they’re anxious. If you’re doing this, the man will correctly intuit that he’s somehow “getting” to you. In other words, it’s a dead giveaway to the guy that he’s unsettled you and his energy has thrown off your equilibrium. On the other hand, if you’re deliberately crossing your legs to show off your sexy gams, or deliberately pointing your top leg in his direction, it means you like him a lot. If you can’t stop crossing your legs and you’re virtually twitching in your seat, again this is an unconscious gesture that clearly tells a man that he’s really getting to you. You probably don’t want to give him that much power. If he knows you’re burning hot for him, he has the upper hand ‑– and you don’t want that. If something about him has really got you squirming, get up, take a walk or go home and take a cold shower.
Hair Twirling
Toying with your hair is a sure sign of nervousness. If you find yourself doing this, take a moment to ask yourself why this guy is making you nervous. Is it because he’s too handsome? Too incredibly clever? Is it because you can’t get your mind out of the gutter imagining what he would be like in bed? Save your agitation for later ‑– like when you finally fall asleep and have a red-hot dream about him!
Hair twirling can also be a playful gesture. Women with long hair tend to play with their hair. Hair is sexy and twirling and tossing it draws a man’s eye to it. But beware: Many guys say it really bugs them when women keep playing with their hair. Talk about sending the wrong message! What some women think is sexy is a major turnoff to some guys.
Lip Licking
This is purely physiological. Forget what they say about “drooling” over a hot guy. When we’re aroused and excited, our mouths get dry. If you find yourself licking your lips a lot in the company of a new man, it means that something about him is really getting to you. Watch out!
Lip licking clearly conveys the message that you’re interested in a man. It is a very sexy, and overt, type of body language ‑– that is, if it is done correctly. What we are talking about here is a slow, sultry swipe along your lips with the tip of your tongue. Just remember to use this one with caution. Your Flirt Object will probably think you are telling him you want to take him to bed. And maybe you do! If that’s the case and you’re both equally interested, by all means, lick your lips. It’s another way of saying, “Let’s go back to your place right now.” In other words, it’s an action getter.
Flared Nostrils
OH MY god, this is the mother of all body language signals! Flared nostrils are an irrefutable sign of sexual arousal. If you’re talking to a man and his nostrils are flaring, you can bet your booty he’s aching’ for you. And, um, it works vice versa. If your nostrils are flaring, your nipples are probably hard, too. If you’re flirting with a guy and you’ve both got the nostril thing going, look out. You might have to rent a hotel room
6 Body Language Clues That Say You're Interested.
user
Your body speaks a language all its own. Without realizing it, how you sit, what you do with your hands, your legs, even your basic posture reveals volumes about you, namely what you're feeling, what you might be thinking and, most importantly, if that guy sitting across from you is getting to you.
The thing about body language is you want to be completely in control of it. You want to be aware of what messages you're sending and avoid telegraphing certain information you're not ready to give away. Dumb as they may seem sometimes, men are not exactly knuckleheads when it comes to interpreting a woman's body language. Any reasonably perceptive and intuitive guy you're flirting with is reading many things about you simply by studying your movements.
You can utilize your body language to your own advantage by transmitting only the messages you want him to receive, which gives you the upper hand. Body language has a lot in common with cell phone text messaging. It's shorthand information, meaning it's quick, direct and gets to the point.
Body Language Basics
Without even thinking about it, women almost always give physical tips that convey their level of interest in a man. The most common body language gestures that reveal at least minimal interest are hair twirling, hair tossing and leg crossing. When a woman tosses her hair, it comes across as a nervous gesture. What it tells the man is, he's making her a bit nervous. And to his mind, if she's nervous, she must be interested!
On the other hand, hair tossing, like leg crossing, is also a preening gesture. It's a way of calling attention or showing off a gorgeous, glossy mane (very sexy) or a terrific pair of gams (ditto, also very sexy!). But there are many other elemental gestures and basic postures that send a strong message to another person, all of which can be used to good effect.
Let's get started describing and interpreting them!
Eye Contact
Usually the first way two people connect is through looking into each other's eyes. Before either of you speaks a single word, the eyes have already telegraphed messages. Messages can range from frank curiosity to cool assessment to shy interest. When you look deeply into a guy's eyes, you're telling him you think he's the most fascinating person in the room. In fact, if you keep your eyes locked on his, what you're saying is that as far as you're concerned, he's the only person in the room!
Full frontal eye contact can be risky, however. It can seem too bold and brazen to those men who are put off by such direct behavior by women. But if you're not the bashful maiden type, frankly gaze. In a way, it's a form of natural selection. A guy who is freaked out by your open gaze is probably not a guy for you.
Arm Crossing
When a woman crosses her arms over her chest, it can be interpreted in a number of ways by a guy. It can telegraph the message that she's a vulnerable female creature, an innocent little lamb who feels the need to protect herself from the Big Bad Wolf!
But arm crossing is also a way of telling a guy that you don't like him at all and that your fondest wish at the moment is that he'll go away.
Crossing your arms over your chest is also a sneaky way of drawing attention to your breasts. It's a primitive gesture of sexual anticipation laced with sexual anxiety, which a man might correctly read as the woman's acknowledgment of the basic Me Tarzan, You Jane chemistry happening between them.
Leaning Toward Him
The most common form of this is leaning forward when you're sitting across from him. This gesture shows interest and acceptance. In short, it means you just think he's the funniest, cutest, most fascinating creature put on the face of this earth.
But keep your poker face, player-girl! If you go overboard with the lean, you're giving away your whole hand. You want to keep him guessing at least a little bit, right?
If you catch yourself practically falling into his lap, take a deep breath, sit back in your seat and rest your hands in your lap for a few minutes ‑- at least until you cool off.
If you find yourself leaning away from him, you're either telling him you hate his guts or you're working overtime to not let him know you're all hot and bothered for him.
Crossing
Leg crossing can be interpreted as a nervous or provocative gesture. Lots of people unconsciously cross and uncross their legs when they're anxious. If you're doing this, the man will correctly intuit that he's somehow "getting" to you. In other words, it's a dead giveaway to the guy that he's unsettled you and his energy has thrown off your equilibrium. On the other hand, if you're deliberately crossing your legs to show off your sexy gams, or deliberately pointing your top leg in his direction, it means you like him a lot. If you can't stop crossing your legs and you're virtually twitching in your seat, again this is an unconscious gesture that clearly tells a man that he's really getting to you. You probably don't want to give him that much power. If he knows you're burning hot for him, he has the upper hand ‑- and you don't want that. If something about him has really got you squirming, get up, take a walk or go home and take a cold shower.
Hair Twirling
Toying with your hair is a sure sign of nervousness. If you find yourself doing this, take a moment to ask yourself why this guy is making you nervous. Is it because he's too handsome? Too incredibly clever? Is it because you can't get your mind out of the gutter imagining what he would be like in bed? Save your agitation for later ‑- like when you finally fall asleep and have a red-hot dream about him!
Hair twirling can also be a playful gesture. Women with long hair tend to play with their hair. Hair is sexy and twirling and tossing it draws a man's eye to it. But beware: Many guys say it really bugs them when women keep playing with their hair. Talk about sending the wrong message! What some women think is sexy is a major turnoff to some guys.
Lip Licking
This is purely physiological. Forget what they say about "drooling" over a hot guy. When we're aroused and excited, our mouths get dry. If you find yourself licking your lips a lot in the company of a new man, it means that something about him is really getting to you. Watch out!
Lip licking clearly conveys the message that you're interested in a man. It is a very sexy, and overt, type of body language ‑- that is, if it is done correctly. What we are talking about here is a slow, sultry swipe along your lips with the tip of your tongue. Just remember to use this one with caution. Your Flirt Object will probably think you are telling him you want to take him to bed. And maybe you do! If that's the case and you're both equally interested, by all means, lick your lips. It's another way of saying, "Let's go back to your place right now." In other words, it's an action-getter.
Flared Nostrils
Omigod, this is the mother of all body language signals! Flared nostrils are an irrefutable sign of sexual arousal. If you're talking to a man and his nostrils are flaring, you can bet your booty he's achin' for you. And, um, it works vice versa. If your nostrils are flaring, your nipples are probably hard, too. If you're flirting with a guy and you've both got the nostril thing going, look out. You might have to rent a hotel room!
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
Review of nonverbal sexual communication and FR girl hired gun at Mall
Ok I admit that when I got consistently good I did some of this unconciously and conciously.
basic sexual cues that really trigger women biological hardwiring...this works for all women with the excemption of her attention on you or her state at the moment.
some things i had looked into:
Rob Brinded- code of natural
Basic Modeling manerisms of goodlooking guys behavior
Tracey Cox -Superflirt
Keanu Jagger-non verbal sexual audio course
Erotic Thrillers softcore porn as example of sexual escalation
basic infield experience, past experience
http://sandrospua.blogspot.com/2009/04/experience-in-pua-basd-on-failures-and.html
Abstract: When you have non verbal sexual communication DOWN, the lines and routines can be added as needed,you work on this first your sucess will skyrocket like a PU GURUS WORST NIGHTMARE.lol
read on
So whats powerful ? TELL ME
telling her you want to FUCK, or your eye telling her you want to FUCK? and whats the difference?
which of the two will turn her on and why do you think?
actually both can work but one of them is most accurately more consistant to get you better results.
NOTE:I rarely use direct game cause In my opinion radical honesty doesnt work, it only works on yourself, Sinn mentioned this before and I agree 100%. I wont deliver sexual directness to her cause it messes up your calibration and it opens up LMR. I rather the girl read it non verbally I want to fuck her cause its a bigger turn on for her.
I ONLY USE DIRECT GAME AT NIGHT WHEN GIRL IS NOT THAT HOT or GIRL IS HOT AND DRUNK , BT SPIKES HORNINESS.
direct game to learn well is have your nonverbal bodylanguage down experince before, probelme is the interaction cant be that long cause it becomes boring rather than romantic.
First off , I will write more in detail in my blog. I dont want to write a long post for you not to read it.
OK,
So first I will say is your state. the FR I will write up in the blog and here is what happened and what I did, obviously this is a way to imporve when you recognize you could have escalated more...so yes I messed up but its nothing compared to what I sis to amze of accidental discovery to regain MOJO and sexual state to connect without being creepy.
this is first part, as I go you will ahve to go on your path as I will try to work on other things and this too. Ive done it before so this is fairly accurate.
as I mentioned FR day game hired gun is posted,
that being said. I wrote up few products and open ideas I looked into to get my nonverbals running.
DAYGAME why non verbals are important
Doc holiday said always that he chose direct cause it pushed him to work his style bodylanguage and verbal skills better...thats one safe way to learn..other is fucking up and modifying your game as you go.
in Daygame non verbal is more important than words than in nightgame. WHY? cause before you open she reads you.
here is when you can use tactics to get her to start interest, other ways are simply nonverbally dhv yourself as I will mention in FR.
STATE
I thin Franco's book which talks about daygame is fundamentally acurate since its for building a solid game.
I re read sections cause it fits into whole component rather than parts and pieces, for FRANCO daygame is bascially going about your day and getting women interested in you. no effort, BUT STATE is important.
I accidentally found why when I was training consistently i felt more alpha and more intelligent, I was oxygenating my brain and my body.So this oozzes out confidence. THATS WHY GIRLS CONFUSE JERKS WITH CONFIDENCE.
So I was upset over a personal issue with family, I was upset but I had stuck up for myself...when I did that.
I felt like full self esteem,like walking out of the GYM.
the level was high that I said to myself "nobody cant stop me,Im sticking up for myself"
it was a good feeling, I was walking to the mall to pay for something and I said I might see a cute girl and tell her "you ar fucking sexy" just because I felt like it,not rapport seeking not wanting her, just tell her that
"cause I have nothing to LOSE"
this went back when I was dating 4 girls at the same time that last month in NYC. I had that mentality,I was hungry and would do whatever it took in my heart to survive for myself, so my mind would act this way. only now it was accidental..let see what happened
Appraoch as I appraoch I started doing basic eye sexual contact from audio course,the voice tone modeling from ElTOPO, with a loud clear crisp deep voice really sparked the girls brain. she started responding non verbally also, a guy was there but it was subtle...I had these moments in NYC, I worte a shit load on them and now find myself re reading with amazement how awesome I had turned into.
So after that interaction I actually started to realize that in some of the missed connections , the girl was obviously attracted she would throw back IOIs, SOIs and even flirt verbally with teasing (she is hot horny attracted ) and at times here in Miami they will lock eye contact and will AI... I must confess I didnt know what the fuck to do? cause basci pickup teaches wrong things...
so this happens and inexperienced guru guys laugh and dont offer help.
So Im looking into searching more on this topic.
SUMMARY
Tonight is proof that this is reproducible but it comes from your state and then how good are you at bodylanguage is and how you can alter your perception of subcommunication.
David D had an audio about "expanding your awareness", and Swinggcatt's Beliefs ,metaframes and frames and Prizing.
on this FR I lacked prizing and a basic qualification to why I want to meet her aside from her looks or sex
(no male gay best friend shite),
but the majority was that I number close that attrbute my success was to PRIZING aka framing that she is into you more than you are.Subtle DHV and preselection.
basic sexual cues that really trigger women biological hardwiring...this works for all women with the excemption of her attention on you or her state at the moment.
some things i had looked into:
Rob Brinded- code of natural
Basic Modeling manerisms of goodlooking guys behavior
Tracey Cox -Superflirt
Keanu Jagger-non verbal sexual audio course
Erotic Thrillers softcore porn as example of sexual escalation
basic infield experience, past experience
http://sandrospua.blogspot.com/2009/04/experience-in-pua-basd-on-failures-and.html
Abstract: When you have non verbal sexual communication DOWN, the lines and routines can be added as needed,you work on this first your sucess will skyrocket like a PU GURUS WORST NIGHTMARE.lol
read on
So whats powerful ? TELL ME
telling her you want to FUCK, or your eye telling her you want to FUCK? and whats the difference?
which of the two will turn her on and why do you think?
actually both can work but one of them is most accurately more consistant to get you better results.
NOTE:I rarely use direct game cause In my opinion radical honesty doesnt work, it only works on yourself, Sinn mentioned this before and I agree 100%. I wont deliver sexual directness to her cause it messes up your calibration and it opens up LMR. I rather the girl read it non verbally I want to fuck her cause its a bigger turn on for her.
I ONLY USE DIRECT GAME AT NIGHT WHEN GIRL IS NOT THAT HOT or GIRL IS HOT AND DRUNK , BT SPIKES HORNINESS.
direct game to learn well is have your nonverbal bodylanguage down experince before, probelme is the interaction cant be that long cause it becomes boring rather than romantic.
First off , I will write more in detail in my blog. I dont want to write a long post for you not to read it.
OK,
So first I will say is your state. the FR I will write up in the blog and here is what happened and what I did, obviously this is a way to imporve when you recognize you could have escalated more...so yes I messed up but its nothing compared to what I sis to amze of accidental discovery to regain MOJO and sexual state to connect without being creepy.
this is first part, as I go you will ahve to go on your path as I will try to work on other things and this too. Ive done it before so this is fairly accurate.
as I mentioned FR day game hired gun is posted,
that being said. I wrote up few products and open ideas I looked into to get my nonverbals running.
DAYGAME why non verbals are important
Doc holiday said always that he chose direct cause it pushed him to work his style bodylanguage and verbal skills better...thats one safe way to learn..other is fucking up and modifying your game as you go.
in Daygame non verbal is more important than words than in nightgame. WHY? cause before you open she reads you.
here is when you can use tactics to get her to start interest, other ways are simply nonverbally dhv yourself as I will mention in FR.
STATE
I thin Franco's book which talks about daygame is fundamentally acurate since its for building a solid game.
I re read sections cause it fits into whole component rather than parts and pieces, for FRANCO daygame is bascially going about your day and getting women interested in you. no effort, BUT STATE is important.
I accidentally found why when I was training consistently i felt more alpha and more intelligent, I was oxygenating my brain and my body.So this oozzes out confidence. THATS WHY GIRLS CONFUSE JERKS WITH CONFIDENCE.
So I was upset over a personal issue with family, I was upset but I had stuck up for myself...when I did that.
I felt like full self esteem,like walking out of the GYM.
the level was high that I said to myself "nobody cant stop me,Im sticking up for myself"
it was a good feeling, I was walking to the mall to pay for something and I said I might see a cute girl and tell her "you ar fucking sexy" just because I felt like it,not rapport seeking not wanting her, just tell her that
"cause I have nothing to LOSE"
this went back when I was dating 4 girls at the same time that last month in NYC. I had that mentality,I was hungry and would do whatever it took in my heart to survive for myself, so my mind would act this way. only now it was accidental..let see what happened
Appraoch as I appraoch I started doing basic eye sexual contact from audio course,the voice tone modeling from ElTOPO, with a loud clear crisp deep voice really sparked the girls brain. she started responding non verbally also, a guy was there but it was subtle...I had these moments in NYC, I worte a shit load on them and now find myself re reading with amazement how awesome I had turned into.
So after that interaction I actually started to realize that in some of the missed connections , the girl was obviously attracted she would throw back IOIs, SOIs and even flirt verbally with teasing (she is hot horny attracted ) and at times here in Miami they will lock eye contact and will AI... I must confess I didnt know what the fuck to do? cause basci pickup teaches wrong things...
so this happens and inexperienced guru guys laugh and dont offer help.
So Im looking into searching more on this topic.
SUMMARY
Tonight is proof that this is reproducible but it comes from your state and then how good are you at bodylanguage is and how you can alter your perception of subcommunication.
David D had an audio about "expanding your awareness", and Swinggcatt's Beliefs ,metaframes and frames and Prizing.
on this FR I lacked prizing and a basic qualification to why I want to meet her aside from her looks or sex
(no male gay best friend shite),
but the majority was that I number close that attrbute my success was to PRIZING aka framing that she is into you more than you are.Subtle DHV and preselection.
FR hired gun nose ring day game at MALL
MY state, my emotional state
I was going some where to pay a phone bill, It was late and I had just argued with someone.So I was unconciously feeling pretty masculine and confident as if I had just left the GYM, my headspace was I dont care and if the girl who is there is cute Im going to tell her she is fucking sexy just because i felt like it and I didnt feel any anxiety to do it.
But really inside I was feeling pretty oozing with confidence , maybe out of anger which I hadnt really experimented transfering emotions.But because I sticking up for myself, and believeing in myself. so accidentally (not sure , jesse can explain more) but I was in state.
NON VERBAL AMOG positioning
So I get there and some dude with a pink shirt looking pretty guidoish is there hitting on the girl who is working as a cashier at the stationary place at the mall ..and I start using non verbal sexual communication with her ,which jesse talks about, yet in this situation I wasnt aggresive but was being more high value in terms of social intelligence and non verbal dominance (with her that the guy had to beta himself) the other guy had go to the side and it was like double bind on himself to dismiss himself as he was leering and begging for her attention non verbally.
the guy is obviously a chode cause he spoke with a voice high pitch voice and he was compensating with try hard pink and trying to be pretty boy.
the girl and voice tone
the girl was Ok cute very young 19 ish with nose ring. at first was abit formal, yet there was a shift and I felt she was starting to feel attraction as we connected with eye contact and my voice tone and accent was different than typical guys she meets.
So seeing the guy walk to the side it was like in a way increasing my value. I had started talking and since I had been deep voice, that part of my verbal coomunication hit, not the words but the tone of it.
then I felt I was in a bit of frame control test
cause there was a space in the convo where I asked her a question and she shifted her attention to the other guy as he interupted talking to her in spanish.
and I then shifted my attention to be distracted temporarily to avoid me lowering my value or seeming to be into her too much or me being desperate for a response..then she turned back I non verbally made eye contact and stuck at it and she answered my question and she then proceeded to do the follwong that never happened to me....
HER TEASING ME..
the conversation wasnt intersting at all it was the subcommunication,that is why I recommend looking into Jesse's program on sexual non verbal.
So she then tells me that the service was going to take till next day, I didnt really paid attentions and then she repeated it again (like a person retelling the punchline of a joke) and I was a bit aloof I was like "Ok, Why? "
and she said : "Im kidding"
from there I didnt know how to respond to that tease or IOI. ???????
So I just said "you are such a kidder.you almost got me"
she said : "yeah you almost felt for that I could see it in your face"
(not sure what that meant but she was cool and being cool, flirty)
the guy came back and I tried to exchanged numbers fast but I didnt set the timebrdige for the next time or next meeting which I usually do cause It felt rushed.I usually ask abit more about a girl to make her think why Id be interested in her in the first place. anyways one the pink AMOG was back he was trying to tool me abit I guess, I just ignored the fuck out of him completely..SWOOSH__= out of my reality .LOL
I wanted you guys opinion on this interaction as Im improving as Im going. this has been somewhat of when girls tease or flirt that way..at times I get __lost in the moment__ which I think is abit wrong...
she gives a verbal interest or indirect tease or responds to your tease or flirt back verbally what you do?
cause she was basically checking me out and throwing teases at me in flirty way.
any other observations comments here is welcomed.
Thanks
NOTE: I would have gone direct, but I rather my non verbals be direct, somewhat it is more exciting when you dont go direct verbally and non verbally you are communicating with her (FOR ME PERSONALLY,as Im reviewing Jesse's product on non verbal sexual )..the AMOG chode obviously felt competition, I never even acknowledged him being there.So nonverbal is more powerful.
__________________
Action will destroy your procrastination.- Og Mandino
I was going some where to pay a phone bill, It was late and I had just argued with someone.So I was unconciously feeling pretty masculine and confident as if I had just left the GYM, my headspace was I dont care and if the girl who is there is cute Im going to tell her she is fucking sexy just because i felt like it and I didnt feel any anxiety to do it.
But really inside I was feeling pretty oozing with confidence , maybe out of anger which I hadnt really experimented transfering emotions.But because I sticking up for myself, and believeing in myself. so accidentally (not sure , jesse can explain more) but I was in state.
NON VERBAL AMOG positioning
So I get there and some dude with a pink shirt looking pretty guidoish is there hitting on the girl who is working as a cashier at the stationary place at the mall ..and I start using non verbal sexual communication with her ,which jesse talks about, yet in this situation I wasnt aggresive but was being more high value in terms of social intelligence and non verbal dominance (with her that the guy had to beta himself) the other guy had go to the side and it was like double bind on himself to dismiss himself as he was leering and begging for her attention non verbally.
the guy is obviously a chode cause he spoke with a voice high pitch voice and he was compensating with try hard pink and trying to be pretty boy.
the girl and voice tone
the girl was Ok cute very young 19 ish with nose ring. at first was abit formal, yet there was a shift and I felt she was starting to feel attraction as we connected with eye contact and my voice tone and accent was different than typical guys she meets.
So seeing the guy walk to the side it was like in a way increasing my value. I had started talking and since I had been deep voice, that part of my verbal coomunication hit, not the words but the tone of it.
then I felt I was in a bit of frame control test
cause there was a space in the convo where I asked her a question and she shifted her attention to the other guy as he interupted talking to her in spanish.
and I then shifted my attention to be distracted temporarily to avoid me lowering my value or seeming to be into her too much or me being desperate for a response..then she turned back I non verbally made eye contact and stuck at it and she answered my question and she then proceeded to do the follwong that never happened to me....
HER TEASING ME..
the conversation wasnt intersting at all it was the subcommunication,that is why I recommend looking into Jesse's program on sexual non verbal.
So she then tells me that the service was going to take till next day, I didnt really paid attentions and then she repeated it again (like a person retelling the punchline of a joke) and I was a bit aloof I was like "Ok, Why? "
and she said : "Im kidding"
from there I didnt know how to respond to that tease or IOI. ???????
So I just said "you are such a kidder.you almost got me"
she said : "yeah you almost felt for that I could see it in your face"
(not sure what that meant but she was cool and being cool, flirty)
the guy came back and I tried to exchanged numbers fast but I didnt set the timebrdige for the next time or next meeting which I usually do cause It felt rushed.I usually ask abit more about a girl to make her think why Id be interested in her in the first place. anyways one the pink AMOG was back he was trying to tool me abit I guess, I just ignored the fuck out of him completely..SWOOSH__= out of my reality .LOL
I wanted you guys opinion on this interaction as Im improving as Im going. this has been somewhat of when girls tease or flirt that way..at times I get __lost in the moment__ which I think is abit wrong...
she gives a verbal interest or indirect tease or responds to your tease or flirt back verbally what you do?
cause she was basically checking me out and throwing teases at me in flirty way.
any other observations comments here is welcomed.
Thanks
NOTE: I would have gone direct, but I rather my non verbals be direct, somewhat it is more exciting when you dont go direct verbally and non verbally you are communicating with her (FOR ME PERSONALLY,as Im reviewing Jesse's product on non verbal sexual )..the AMOG chode obviously felt competition, I never even acknowledged him being there.So nonverbal is more powerful.
__________________
Action will destroy your procrastination.- Og Mandino
Monday, December 27, 2010
Building Passive Value through Non Verbal Communication w/ Sebastian Drake
Building Passive Value through Non Verbal Communication w/ Sebastian Drake
by Bobby Rio on May 5, 2008
Secrets of Body Language, Posture, and Non-verbal Cues…
Sebastian Drake of Master the Vibe joins us on the radio. Sebastian has been teaching men for pickup skills, how to meet more women, and how to interact better with women. I’ve always enjoyed Sebastian’s writing and I was excited for the opportunity to get him on the phone and pick his brain.
We talk about building passive value for yourself through the habit of improving your physiology, improving your posture, and secret body language tips.
Some of things you’ll learn in this interview:
How you can use physiology to send out powerful non verbal cues
Body language signs that let her know you’re alpha
How to read her body language
Subtle clues women look for to know if a guy’s “cool”
Sebastian was a great interview, and I really think you’ll learn somethings that you can implement immediately from this interview.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
about his DVD presentation:
Well what I liked about this is one thing:
(paraphasing): "This is the dirty little secret that no one in the community will tell you. If you want to be with women that are in top 10% then you have to be in top 10% of guys. Otherwise no strategies will work".
There are much better ways to get there, like if you want to improve body language don't force it but do Feldenkrais method. But this realization about top 10% is crucial.
------------------------------------------------------------------------
fantastic.
overview.
to become an elite man you must.
LOOK LIKE AN ELITE MAN.
solution: BUY BETTER CLOTHES. How to do this.
HAVE MANNERISUMS OF AN ELITE MAN
solution: Fix your BL and speaking patterns. How to do this
BE AROUND ELITE PEOPLE.
solution: Drop your loser friends. Get winner friends.
Sebastian was a looser. So what if you had no friends, hope schooled, your dad was weak, you were teased, introvert, bullied, girls made fun of you.
NO EXCUSE TO NOT TO IMPROVE.
BECOME ELITE.
Will take 1 year for results.
2 years for a "good life"
reccomended.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
I've seen Sebastian speak at NYCLair and he gives great insights into interactions based on Energy& Comprehension levels.
by Bobby Rio on May 5, 2008
Secrets of Body Language, Posture, and Non-verbal Cues…
Sebastian Drake of Master the Vibe joins us on the radio. Sebastian has been teaching men for pickup skills, how to meet more women, and how to interact better with women. I’ve always enjoyed Sebastian’s writing and I was excited for the opportunity to get him on the phone and pick his brain.
We talk about building passive value for yourself through the habit of improving your physiology, improving your posture, and secret body language tips.
Some of things you’ll learn in this interview:
How you can use physiology to send out powerful non verbal cues
Body language signs that let her know you’re alpha
How to read her body language
Subtle clues women look for to know if a guy’s “cool”
Sebastian was a great interview, and I really think you’ll learn somethings that you can implement immediately from this interview.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
about his DVD presentation:
Well what I liked about this is one thing:
(paraphasing): "This is the dirty little secret that no one in the community will tell you. If you want to be with women that are in top 10% then you have to be in top 10% of guys. Otherwise no strategies will work".
There are much better ways to get there, like if you want to improve body language don't force it but do Feldenkrais method. But this realization about top 10% is crucial.
------------------------------------------------------------------------
fantastic.
overview.
to become an elite man you must.
LOOK LIKE AN ELITE MAN.
solution: BUY BETTER CLOTHES. How to do this.
HAVE MANNERISUMS OF AN ELITE MAN
solution: Fix your BL and speaking patterns. How to do this
BE AROUND ELITE PEOPLE.
solution: Drop your loser friends. Get winner friends.
Sebastian was a looser. So what if you had no friends, hope schooled, your dad was weak, you were teased, introvert, bullied, girls made fun of you.
NO EXCUSE TO NOT TO IMPROVE.
BECOME ELITE.
Will take 1 year for results.
2 years for a "good life"
reccomended.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
I've seen Sebastian speak at NYCLair and he gives great insights into interactions based on Energy& Comprehension levels.
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