So this last week has been crazy.
I really don't know where to start...I just spent the last 4 nights in a row with
the On The Mat guys (onthemat.com) living the dream (so to speak).
It was UFC 94 with Algasim, Soco, Jtime, and the OTM guys and then complete chaos!
The big problem that I see with community guys, non-community guys, naturals is they don't go sexual.
theREDstack solves that.
I can't stress it enough,
IF YOU DON'T GET SEXUAL RIGHT AWAY, YOU'RE WASTING TIME!
I can't tell you how many times I see guys out there with a hot girl next to them and they are afraid to talk to them.
Then I see PUAs out there talking to a hot ass chick and walking away with just some stupid attraction tricks and maybe some rapport.
Let's get it straight guys...
Women like sex...just as much as us, they just see it different.
theREDstack and the Mentor Program will get you there.
Think of going sexual as touching right from the start. If you don't do it, then the ANXIETY of being Sexual builds, you'll never know how to do it!
Jtime and Algasim pretty much are familiar with me doing this and have evolved their own theories on it too. So this weekend we actually recorded a lot of audio about all this stuff.
On Sat we did a Skype interview with FreeSpirit in England that explains some of this that will be released here in the next month.
Here is something that Algasm and I were talking about on the call...we were talking about running sexual ladders.
We came up with a bunch that would run up sexuality right from the start.
Now this is pretty much what theREDstackdoes...but with the stack there is about 60 plus pages of CUSTOM MATERIAL!
But here is a sample of one of those sexual ladders that I wanted to share with you!
Opener-
Hey guys, what is something that you think is different about men and women?
(they think or try an answer)
Ok so here is the thing...
(bait with a qualifier you can frame off of)
Wait you guys aren't the types of girls that might freak-out about stuff right away right?
(wait for them to comply, then qualify them into not being judgmental)
Ok, first let me ask.... (target) you, how old are you?
(they answer)
Oh, I can't ask you, you won't get it.
(they will push back at this, so now make them qualify themselves in the way that you want them to be...in this case sexual)
So alright have you actually had a long term relationship?
(she will probably say "yes")
Ok, but you're totally the girl that can really keep a guy at first, like you're really good in bed and all that stuff, but it always dies off, really quickly...
(this is a cold read, plus every woman is afraid that she can't maintain attraction with a guy. So wait for her reply and continue on)
So that right there is the difference between men and women...
Come here for a second...
(no need to isolate, majorly, just make it so you are only talking to her)
Ok so I got to know...how old were you when you lost your virginity?
(most girls say 14-15, just a tip for some cold reads later, but let her answer)
Ok so you know what, I can tell you haven't had good sex yet.
(if she says she has then recover by saying, "But it took a long time for you to start having it")
Here is the thing though, most guys, just don't know how to be totally crazy with you.
Most guys don't know how to treat you like a woman.
If you are interested in theREDstack, SHOOT ME an EMAIL and I would love to talk with you about it. It is literally the best thing out there and NOBODY else out there can do!
So pretty much there is a lot of theory that I can put into that, but for the most part, work that something like that, and see how easily women open up to it.
A lot of Audio and Video on the Way! Keep your eyes peeled on my BLOG!
Talk to you soon...
I there will be more!
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Monday, February 28, 2011
Thursday, February 3, 2011
Makr's take on how to handle logistics and SNL logistics definition
So how to handle logistics?
Logistics will always:
A) Be completely random and situational
B) Be extremely random
C) Did I mention that they’re random and sometimes there’s nothing you can do?
As a result, you have to just follow a handful of guidelines and then hope for the best.
1) Gather all relevant info when you’re talking to her. This includes: where she lives, where you live, how she got there, how she’s getting home, how you got there, if she’s sharing a ride, with who, who is she with, how does she know them, when is she going home, can you get her home in the morning, when does she have to be home in the morning, etc., etc.
2) If you just met her that night, then let HER win her friends over, not you. What will typically happen when a woman decides to go home with you is her girlfriends will try to stop her or talk her out of it. The younger the girl you’re picking up, the more likely this will be. Let HER do the talking… just trust you’ve seduced her well enough to withstand the oncoming storm. Stand back and be friendly. When it comes to taking a girl home, nothing you say, no matter how charming or cool is going to make you look genuine, “No, really, I just want to show her this cool YouTube video, I promise.” You’ll look like the horny bastard you are. If she’s not willing to appease her friends for you, then you haven’t gamed her well enough.
3) Make decisions and move swiftly. Don’t waffle. Don’t ask her what she wants to do. Gather the pertinent information and make an educated decision. I.e., She came with two friends, one of which is her roommate. She lives 30 minutes away. Have her give her roommate her keys and take her home with you. Tell her what you’re going to do and then do it. If you think the only shot you have is at a bathroom pull or to the car, then do it. Just grab her and go. Make her stop you. Make her say no. If you’re on a date, tell her you want to show her something and just bring her to your place. See if she stops you. Often she won’t.
4) Be flexible. Shit happens in bars and clubs. I’ve had pulls get screwed up because the girl started puking, because her brother suddenly showed up, because her friend started spontaneously crying, because her bridesmaids pulled her away, because her ex-boyfriend punched me in the face, because SHE started spontaneously crying, because she lost her keys and got locked out of her apartment, because the cab took us to the wrong hotel, etc., etc., etc. EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED AND ADAPT.
5) Get lucky. Again, shit happens. Deal with it. Sometimes there’s literally nothing you can do.
Step 11 Exercises
Purpose: To be able to make moves and get physical with women at will.
Comments: Yet another step where you need to grab your balls. This step can be practiced anywhere, but youʼll have to spend at least a few hours with a woman to get as far as necessary, so dates are ideal. Extra time is given in the later steps, as youʼre going to need to use everything youʼve learned so far.
What You Need: New women to meet, some courage
Recommended Time for Completion: Within a month
Exercise 1
1.1 Successfully do all five of the actions on this list. It doesnʼt count unless you do it and get a GOOD reaction.
- Twirl a girl in the first 30 seconds of meeting her. (Take her hand, raise it above both of your heads and tell her to spin.)
- Keep your hand on a girl’s back for at least one minute.
- Physically pull a girl away from her friends on the approach (at least one meter)
- Hug a girl within 30 seconds of cold approaching her. This must be a random girl who has no idea who you are.
- Put your arm around a girl and leave it there for at least 30 seconds. Do this within the first 10 minutes of knowing her.
Exercise 2
2.1 Going for kisses. Go for a kiss with at least five different women. If you get rejected, you get one point per woman. If you kiss her, you get two points. Once you reach 10 points, move on.
Exercise 3
3.1 Bring a girl home who youʼve been kissing. This can be the same night, same day or from a date. Escalate as far as possible.
Please post any significant realizations, experiences or problems below.
CHALLENGES:
Challenge 1: Smack or grab a girl’s ass that you just met without her getting mad.
Challenge 2: Kiss a woman within 5 minutes of knowing her.
Challenge 3: Bring a girl home within an hour of meeting her.
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Same night lays (also sometimes referred to as single night lays) are when a PUA is able to fclose a woman on the same day that he meets her. This happens most often in sexually charged “meat market” environments such as night clubs and bars, where the girls are looking to hookup, although it is possible to get SNLs during day game as well.
Same night lays differ from one night stands, in that SNLs lead to further relationships beyond just one night of sex (whether it be FB or LTR), whereas ONSs are usually just a one time thing. Often, the difference between an ONS and an SNL, is building enough rapport so that the woman does not suffer from any buyer’s remorse. If a woman does not regret her decision to sleep with the PUA, it leaves open the opportunity for future sex.
Like ONSs, it is important for same night lays to determine the woman’s logistics. Figuring out such information such as whether she came alone or with friends, whether she has to work tomorrow, etc. are important for an SNL to go smoothly. Usually, a woman who is looking to hookup will have better logistics, and women will even ignore poor logistics if they feel attracted enough.
Another important thing to remember for SNLs is to have a strong sexual frame, and also be completely non-judgemental of the woman when it comes to her sexuality. This will help the woman sexually open up to the PUA, and keep from triggering ASD later on.
Captain Jack: Gun to the Head Gaming
Imagine this: You are sitting on your couch eating Bon-Bons with your eyes laser locked on Oprah when you hear a crack, the door flies open and 3 goons rush towards you.
You hurl your bon-bons at the goons but it doesn’t even faze them.
Next thing you know there is a gun pointed at your temple and one of them says, “Is this the guy?” The other looks at a photograph and says, “He’s not wearing the feather boa, jade necklace and high heels like in his MySpace profile but yeah, I’d say it is him.”
One of them says, “Look, Mr. Pua guy, you go out tonight and have sex with a girl or we’re going to shoot you in the face.”
Gun to the head. Shot in the face.
Do you go out and do the same thing you always do?
Do you do a few laps around the bar, have a few drinks, hover a few times, look for the perfect opening?
Not unless you enjoy face shootings.
What WOULD you do differently?
Here’s what I’d do…
1. Dress like almost everyone else but a tad better.
2. Get to the bar early. I want to get there about 10-15 minutes before the crowd does. I want to chat with the bartender a minute, chat with a waitress or two for a minute before they get ridiculously busy. Get the ol’ mouth movin’ a bit.
3. Approach as soon as possible. Even if it is “How’s it going?”
4. Watch the girls who have wandering eyes. They are looking for something.
5. Approach the girls who make eye contact.
6. Never leave a set until a few minutes after I’ve TimeBridged.
7. Set the sexual frames early.
8. Ask her “What’s on the agenda for later?”
This one needs some explaining. A lot of PUAs think this is about Logistics. It isn’t. In fact, Logistics aren’t nearly as important as everyone believes. Shocking? Not really.
Imagine this… you have plans to go bowling tonight. It’s Tuesday, you almost always go bowling on Tuesdays. One of your buddies calls you up and says,
Buddy: “What’s going on man?”
You: “Not much, just going to go bowling later, have a few beers, see if I can top my Galaga score.”
Buddy: “Sounds cool. Well, would you like to get together and sew a little bit… maybe share our feelings and shit?”
You: “Umm… Well… I always bowl on Tuesdays… kinda my normal thing and uh…”
But, what if Buddy called you up and said, “Dude… These concert tickets just fell into my lap and blah, blah, blah…”
Do you think that’d change things a bit?
Logistics matter LESS and LESS the more interested and turned on she is… I used to let logistics derail me. Now, I hardly even pay attention.
Can they fuck you up? Sure. They used to fuck me up all the time. Then, I discovered “Drunk-n-Lonely Texting.”
Focus on getting her to really, really see you as a liberator of her sexual frustrations and SHE will handle the logistics for you.
The purpose of the question is to establish in her mind that you have probably sexual intent AND you are seeking a way to create an opportunity.
9. After you have 3 or 4 TimeBridge’s set up, focus on the one who seems like your best shot. This is always a little bit of a crap shoot BUT your Intuition will grow with time.
10. Tell her she is sexy and that her mannerisms are driving you crazy. Use a Bounce statement about 30 minute prior to close.
11. If she doesn’t take the Bounce invitation, walk her to the car. Get in and say you are going to talk to her a bit. Make out with her.
12. Tell her you are not sure you can drive home and ask her if she would mind, “It’s just right down the street.” (I’ve used this a billion times for venues that are 30-45 minutes away! Haa!)
12b. As she is driving mass text the other girls and say, “Hey sexy” – just in case this one does leave you after dropping you off. This will increase the possibility of another honey coming over thus DECREASING the chance of you getting shot in the face.
13. As she’s driving begin using one or two word commands interspersed with normal conversation. “Turn here.” “Go left.” when you get to your place say, “Park here.” I like to use stop signs and stop lights as a chance to make out.
14. “Come in and get some water before you head back.”
15. Get her some water, tell her where the bathroom is… while she’s in the bathroom put on a DVD. I like “Wedding Crashers” or, “South Park: The Return of the Fellowship of the King to the Two Towers” because it is sexual in nature and hilariously funny.
16. Have her sit down on your coach. Make small talk 3-5 minutes. Kiss her again.
17. Begin escalating heavy.
18. Push her away and tell her she is naughty for doing this to you.
19. Escalate more. Spank her. Tell her she is bad. Ask her what she is doing to you.
20. Make sweet love.
Send her on her way, “And… try not to think about me constantly” as you pull her hair and kiss her deeply again.
Go into your closet and get your Flame Thrower. Wait for the knock on the door. When the Goons rush in, fling your used condom at them and then use the Flame Thrower to set them all on fire. This should make your point in a fairly dramatic way.
Captain Jack
Logistics will always:
A) Be completely random and situational
B) Be extremely random
C) Did I mention that they’re random and sometimes there’s nothing you can do?
As a result, you have to just follow a handful of guidelines and then hope for the best.
1) Gather all relevant info when you’re talking to her. This includes: where she lives, where you live, how she got there, how she’s getting home, how you got there, if she’s sharing a ride, with who, who is she with, how does she know them, when is she going home, can you get her home in the morning, when does she have to be home in the morning, etc., etc.
2) If you just met her that night, then let HER win her friends over, not you. What will typically happen when a woman decides to go home with you is her girlfriends will try to stop her or talk her out of it. The younger the girl you’re picking up, the more likely this will be. Let HER do the talking… just trust you’ve seduced her well enough to withstand the oncoming storm. Stand back and be friendly. When it comes to taking a girl home, nothing you say, no matter how charming or cool is going to make you look genuine, “No, really, I just want to show her this cool YouTube video, I promise.” You’ll look like the horny bastard you are. If she’s not willing to appease her friends for you, then you haven’t gamed her well enough.
3) Make decisions and move swiftly. Don’t waffle. Don’t ask her what she wants to do. Gather the pertinent information and make an educated decision. I.e., She came with two friends, one of which is her roommate. She lives 30 minutes away. Have her give her roommate her keys and take her home with you. Tell her what you’re going to do and then do it. If you think the only shot you have is at a bathroom pull or to the car, then do it. Just grab her and go. Make her stop you. Make her say no. If you’re on a date, tell her you want to show her something and just bring her to your place. See if she stops you. Often she won’t.
4) Be flexible. Shit happens in bars and clubs. I’ve had pulls get screwed up because the girl started puking, because her brother suddenly showed up, because her friend started spontaneously crying, because her bridesmaids pulled her away, because her ex-boyfriend punched me in the face, because SHE started spontaneously crying, because she lost her keys and got locked out of her apartment, because the cab took us to the wrong hotel, etc., etc., etc. EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED AND ADAPT.
5) Get lucky. Again, shit happens. Deal with it. Sometimes there’s literally nothing you can do.
Step 11 Exercises
Purpose: To be able to make moves and get physical with women at will.
Comments: Yet another step where you need to grab your balls. This step can be practiced anywhere, but youʼll have to spend at least a few hours with a woman to get as far as necessary, so dates are ideal. Extra time is given in the later steps, as youʼre going to need to use everything youʼve learned so far.
What You Need: New women to meet, some courage
Recommended Time for Completion: Within a month
Exercise 1
1.1 Successfully do all five of the actions on this list. It doesnʼt count unless you do it and get a GOOD reaction.
- Twirl a girl in the first 30 seconds of meeting her. (Take her hand, raise it above both of your heads and tell her to spin.)
- Keep your hand on a girl’s back for at least one minute.
- Physically pull a girl away from her friends on the approach (at least one meter)
- Hug a girl within 30 seconds of cold approaching her. This must be a random girl who has no idea who you are.
- Put your arm around a girl and leave it there for at least 30 seconds. Do this within the first 10 minutes of knowing her.
Exercise 2
2.1 Going for kisses. Go for a kiss with at least five different women. If you get rejected, you get one point per woman. If you kiss her, you get two points. Once you reach 10 points, move on.
Exercise 3
3.1 Bring a girl home who youʼve been kissing. This can be the same night, same day or from a date. Escalate as far as possible.
Please post any significant realizations, experiences or problems below.
CHALLENGES:
Challenge 1: Smack or grab a girl’s ass that you just met without her getting mad.
Challenge 2: Kiss a woman within 5 minutes of knowing her.
Challenge 3: Bring a girl home within an hour of meeting her.
--------------------------------------------------
Same night lays (also sometimes referred to as single night lays) are when a PUA is able to fclose a woman on the same day that he meets her. This happens most often in sexually charged “meat market” environments such as night clubs and bars, where the girls are looking to hookup, although it is possible to get SNLs during day game as well.
Same night lays differ from one night stands, in that SNLs lead to further relationships beyond just one night of sex (whether it be FB or LTR), whereas ONSs are usually just a one time thing. Often, the difference between an ONS and an SNL, is building enough rapport so that the woman does not suffer from any buyer’s remorse. If a woman does not regret her decision to sleep with the PUA, it leaves open the opportunity for future sex.
Like ONSs, it is important for same night lays to determine the woman’s logistics. Figuring out such information such as whether she came alone or with friends, whether she has to work tomorrow, etc. are important for an SNL to go smoothly. Usually, a woman who is looking to hookup will have better logistics, and women will even ignore poor logistics if they feel attracted enough.
Another important thing to remember for SNLs is to have a strong sexual frame, and also be completely non-judgemental of the woman when it comes to her sexuality. This will help the woman sexually open up to the PUA, and keep from triggering ASD later on.
Captain Jack: Gun to the Head Gaming
Imagine this: You are sitting on your couch eating Bon-Bons with your eyes laser locked on Oprah when you hear a crack, the door flies open and 3 goons rush towards you.
You hurl your bon-bons at the goons but it doesn’t even faze them.
Next thing you know there is a gun pointed at your temple and one of them says, “Is this the guy?” The other looks at a photograph and says, “He’s not wearing the feather boa, jade necklace and high heels like in his MySpace profile but yeah, I’d say it is him.”
One of them says, “Look, Mr. Pua guy, you go out tonight and have sex with a girl or we’re going to shoot you in the face.”
Gun to the head. Shot in the face.
Do you go out and do the same thing you always do?
Do you do a few laps around the bar, have a few drinks, hover a few times, look for the perfect opening?
Not unless you enjoy face shootings.
What WOULD you do differently?
Here’s what I’d do…
1. Dress like almost everyone else but a tad better.
2. Get to the bar early. I want to get there about 10-15 minutes before the crowd does. I want to chat with the bartender a minute, chat with a waitress or two for a minute before they get ridiculously busy. Get the ol’ mouth movin’ a bit.
3. Approach as soon as possible. Even if it is “How’s it going?”
4. Watch the girls who have wandering eyes. They are looking for something.
5. Approach the girls who make eye contact.
6. Never leave a set until a few minutes after I’ve TimeBridged.
7. Set the sexual frames early.
8. Ask her “What’s on the agenda for later?”
This one needs some explaining. A lot of PUAs think this is about Logistics. It isn’t. In fact, Logistics aren’t nearly as important as everyone believes. Shocking? Not really.
Imagine this… you have plans to go bowling tonight. It’s Tuesday, you almost always go bowling on Tuesdays. One of your buddies calls you up and says,
Buddy: “What’s going on man?”
You: “Not much, just going to go bowling later, have a few beers, see if I can top my Galaga score.”
Buddy: “Sounds cool. Well, would you like to get together and sew a little bit… maybe share our feelings and shit?”
You: “Umm… Well… I always bowl on Tuesdays… kinda my normal thing and uh…”
But, what if Buddy called you up and said, “Dude… These concert tickets just fell into my lap and blah, blah, blah…”
Do you think that’d change things a bit?
Logistics matter LESS and LESS the more interested and turned on she is… I used to let logistics derail me. Now, I hardly even pay attention.
Can they fuck you up? Sure. They used to fuck me up all the time. Then, I discovered “Drunk-n-Lonely Texting.”
Focus on getting her to really, really see you as a liberator of her sexual frustrations and SHE will handle the logistics for you.
The purpose of the question is to establish in her mind that you have probably sexual intent AND you are seeking a way to create an opportunity.
9. After you have 3 or 4 TimeBridge’s set up, focus on the one who seems like your best shot. This is always a little bit of a crap shoot BUT your Intuition will grow with time.
10. Tell her she is sexy and that her mannerisms are driving you crazy. Use a Bounce statement about 30 minute prior to close.
11. If she doesn’t take the Bounce invitation, walk her to the car. Get in and say you are going to talk to her a bit. Make out with her.
12. Tell her you are not sure you can drive home and ask her if she would mind, “It’s just right down the street.” (I’ve used this a billion times for venues that are 30-45 minutes away! Haa!)
12b. As she is driving mass text the other girls and say, “Hey sexy” – just in case this one does leave you after dropping you off. This will increase the possibility of another honey coming over thus DECREASING the chance of you getting shot in the face.
13. As she’s driving begin using one or two word commands interspersed with normal conversation. “Turn here.” “Go left.” when you get to your place say, “Park here.” I like to use stop signs and stop lights as a chance to make out.
14. “Come in and get some water before you head back.”
15. Get her some water, tell her where the bathroom is… while she’s in the bathroom put on a DVD. I like “Wedding Crashers” or, “South Park: The Return of the Fellowship of the King to the Two Towers” because it is sexual in nature and hilariously funny.
16. Have her sit down on your coach. Make small talk 3-5 minutes. Kiss her again.
17. Begin escalating heavy.
18. Push her away and tell her she is naughty for doing this to you.
19. Escalate more. Spank her. Tell her she is bad. Ask her what she is doing to you.
20. Make sweet love.
Send her on her way, “And… try not to think about me constantly” as you pull her hair and kiss her deeply again.
Go into your closet and get your Flame Thrower. Wait for the knock on the door. When the Goons rush in, fling your used condom at them and then use the Flame Thrower to set them all on fire. This should make your point in a fairly dramatic way.
Captain Jack
Saturday, January 15, 2011
Captain Jack on Low investment openers,AI , Approach invitation
LIOs, AIs and Ayn Rand
Posted at May 8, 2007
I’m getting world class at LIOs (Low Investment Openers).
A Wing and I pulled a 2set of 21 year old hotties last sat. night. My Opener? “This song was real popular when I was in High School.” Then, I plowed for 2 minutes. Until said Wing came in and occupied obstacle.
We ended up pulling the 2set to the Pirate Pad. I got mine totally naked (awesome fit 21year old perfect body — Day2 is tonight) but I got LMR and ended up fingering her instead. She tried to give me a handjob but it’s near impossible for me to get off that way.
Here’s one from last night which also went well: “Red shoes. Interesting.”
I’m also getting world class at getting girls to open me off of their AI. I wrote a post about it “Why Old Ladies Love CJ” or something a week or so ago.
And, I’m pleased with the overall increase in Youth and Quality of my last month or so of Gaming. Some time ago, not sure exactly when, I made a decision to upgrade the quality. I recommend quantity for beginners, even intermediates with huge Outer Game SPs, but it’s time for me to focus on hotter specimens.
Finally, here’s an excerpt which I included and discussed in the “How to Get More Newsletter…”
“How do you propose to force your ideas on them?”
“I don’t propose to force or be forced. Those who want me will come to me.”
Then the Dean understood what had puzzled him in Roark’s manner.
“You know,” he said, “you would sound much more convincing if you spoke as if you cared whether I agreed with you or not.”
“That’s true,” said Roark. “I don’t care whether you agree with me or not.” He said it so simply that it did not sound offensive, it sounded like the statement of a fact which he noticed, puzzled, for the first time.
“You don’t care what others think – which might be understandable. But you don’t care even to make them think as you do?”
“No.”
“But that’s…that’s monstrous.”
“Is it? Probably. I couldn’t say.”
(Excerpted from “The Fountainhead” by Ayn Rand, p.26)
~ Captain Jack ~
Posted at May 8, 2007
I’m getting world class at LIOs (Low Investment Openers).
A Wing and I pulled a 2set of 21 year old hotties last sat. night. My Opener? “This song was real popular when I was in High School.” Then, I plowed for 2 minutes. Until said Wing came in and occupied obstacle.
We ended up pulling the 2set to the Pirate Pad. I got mine totally naked (awesome fit 21year old perfect body — Day2 is tonight) but I got LMR and ended up fingering her instead. She tried to give me a handjob but it’s near impossible for me to get off that way.
Here’s one from last night which also went well: “Red shoes. Interesting.”
I’m also getting world class at getting girls to open me off of their AI. I wrote a post about it “Why Old Ladies Love CJ” or something a week or so ago.
And, I’m pleased with the overall increase in Youth and Quality of my last month or so of Gaming. Some time ago, not sure exactly when, I made a decision to upgrade the quality. I recommend quantity for beginners, even intermediates with huge Outer Game SPs, but it’s time for me to focus on hotter specimens.
Finally, here’s an excerpt which I included and discussed in the “How to Get More Newsletter…”
“How do you propose to force your ideas on them?”
“I don’t propose to force or be forced. Those who want me will come to me.”
Then the Dean understood what had puzzled him in Roark’s manner.
“You know,” he said, “you would sound much more convincing if you spoke as if you cared whether I agreed with you or not.”
“That’s true,” said Roark. “I don’t care whether you agree with me or not.” He said it so simply that it did not sound offensive, it sounded like the statement of a fact which he noticed, puzzled, for the first time.
“You don’t care what others think – which might be understandable. But you don’t care even to make them think as you do?”
“No.”
“But that’s…that’s monstrous.”
“Is it? Probably. I couldn’t say.”
(Excerpted from “The Fountainhead” by Ayn Rand, p.26)
~ Captain Jack ~
Old ladies love Captain Jack
8 Why Old Ladies Love CJ – Mystery Solved
Posted at April 24, 2007Old ladies love Captain Jack. (And, by old I mean from 35+ year old MILFs to 75 year old shrivel-ovaried grandmas.)
It always bothered me WHY? WHY? Why me? I can be rolling out with a thousand puas and the old ladies open ME…
Is it because I look helpless? Or, easy? Or, nice and harmless?
This has bothered me for a year or more now.
I’m sure I know why now and the answer came from a seemingly unrelated source.
On the flip side of this I wondered, “Why can’t I get hot girls to open me (without absurd/extreme Peacocking)?”
I thought about it for a bit and put it in my mind to become aware of the solution (see: Reticular Activating System).
One night Sinn, Fidelio and I were out and SURE enough a hot girl opened me. Sinn saw it and told me he saw the whole thing.
Apparently she had given an AI to one of us a couple times. When I noticed the AI I acknowledged it, SHE then gave another acknowledgment and we started walking towards each other, then she started talking to me.
That sounded right so I tried it again the next night and got opened by two different sets, one hot and one not.
* Get an AI.
* Acknowledge it (eye contact, a slight smile and a slight turning of the body towards them.)
* When she acknowledges back smile and start walking towards her.
Sounds simple enough right?
I avoided AI’s early in my PU efforts because I’ve seen guys depend on them. Then, when they don’t get them they have trouble approaching or think there is something wrong with their appearance etc and it fucks up their night.
Then, when I was working so hard on Cold Approach I wanted it to be FREEZING cold, meaning no AI’s, no peacocking, no pawns, just me vs. everybody.
So, Saturday night I am chatting with some people and I notice a girl looking at me from a table across the room. I acknowledge, she acknowledges back and as I take the first half step she waves me over (format holds true with positive consequences in 3 out of 3 instances…)
But, she intros me to her friend. She AI’ed me over for her friend. Interesting.
Her friend (HBBlondeTattoo) is hotter, too so this is great!
I ended up pulling her, her friend and another guy back to the Pirate Pad for an After Party.
I got LMR from HBBlondeTattoo so no Lay (yet) but she is a cute little blonde with 3 awesome tattoos.
I’m using Sinn and Future’s
Breakthrough Comfort
with her now to get more practice.
Now, here’s where the Old Ladies come back in. I realized that I had been DIS-Acknowledging (or outright ignoring) AI’s from the hotties and being friendly and acknowledging old ladies AI’s.
So, last night I purposefully disacknowledged two old ladies’ AI’s.
Problem solved AND I’ve got a better grasp on skillfully taking advantage of AI’s from hotties.
~ Captain Jack ~
Posted at April 24, 2007Old ladies love Captain Jack. (And, by old I mean from 35+ year old MILFs to 75 year old shrivel-ovaried grandmas.)
It always bothered me WHY? WHY? Why me? I can be rolling out with a thousand puas and the old ladies open ME…
Is it because I look helpless? Or, easy? Or, nice and harmless?
This has bothered me for a year or more now.
I’m sure I know why now and the answer came from a seemingly unrelated source.
On the flip side of this I wondered, “Why can’t I get hot girls to open me (without absurd/extreme Peacocking)?”
I thought about it for a bit and put it in my mind to become aware of the solution (see: Reticular Activating System).
One night Sinn, Fidelio and I were out and SURE enough a hot girl opened me. Sinn saw it and told me he saw the whole thing.
Apparently she had given an AI to one of us a couple times. When I noticed the AI I acknowledged it, SHE then gave another acknowledgment and we started walking towards each other, then she started talking to me.
That sounded right so I tried it again the next night and got opened by two different sets, one hot and one not.
* Get an AI.
* Acknowledge it (eye contact, a slight smile and a slight turning of the body towards them.)
* When she acknowledges back smile and start walking towards her.
Sounds simple enough right?
I avoided AI’s early in my PU efforts because I’ve seen guys depend on them. Then, when they don’t get them they have trouble approaching or think there is something wrong with their appearance etc and it fucks up their night.
Then, when I was working so hard on Cold Approach I wanted it to be FREEZING cold, meaning no AI’s, no peacocking, no pawns, just me vs. everybody.
So, Saturday night I am chatting with some people and I notice a girl looking at me from a table across the room. I acknowledge, she acknowledges back and as I take the first half step she waves me over (format holds true with positive consequences in 3 out of 3 instances…)
But, she intros me to her friend. She AI’ed me over for her friend. Interesting.
Her friend (HBBlondeTattoo) is hotter, too so this is great!
I ended up pulling her, her friend and another guy back to the Pirate Pad for an After Party.
I got LMR from HBBlondeTattoo so no Lay (yet) but she is a cute little blonde with 3 awesome tattoos.
I’m using Sinn and Future’s
Breakthrough Comfort
with her now to get more practice.
Now, here’s where the Old Ladies come back in. I realized that I had been DIS-Acknowledging (or outright ignoring) AI’s from the hotties and being friendly and acknowledging old ladies AI’s.
So, last night I purposefully disacknowledged two old ladies’ AI’s.
Problem solved AND I’ve got a better grasp on skillfully taking advantage of AI’s from hotties.
~ Captain Jack ~
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
MODELING KENI STYLES behaviour subcommunications
This is a guy who I want to model cause I admire his personality and positivty. He handles shit tests and the way he opens himself and how he REFRAMES.
THIS IS A POWERFUL LESSON, reframing to your reality or ignore as CJ would say.
i learned from Jeffy and MARK when shit test in rapport is genuine than shit test in attraction which are handled differently.
I read this and I want to learn from him...the vids he goes with regina Moon are proceless cause he is cool natural dude...no PU no try hard for rapport and his subcommunications are tight.
he complements from place of being spiking BT of making people feel good about themselves...similar to the natural Ali and ADAM LYONS:
read this ...this year Im getting in shape and modeling this guy dealing with women and social circles
People need to stop bragging and boasting about performing in such a putrid business and go out there and get a real job.
brokentwice78
@brokentwice78
Haha! Yeah I know right! It's disgusting that people get paid to do what they fucking love and is so natural and easy.. I mean, why the hell do they think they should have such an easy life!!? Man.. it's disgusting! I mean.. wow sex.. who likes that? LMFAAAAO!! :D
Kenistyles
now this is what i am talkin about! People want to see this, not u hanging around with some white dude.
NOTE: Review Reframing by David Barron persuasion course ,
Modeling by Tom venuto...copy paste from twitter account.
twitter GOODS:
KeniStyles
NOTE: KENI HAD HIS EYES CHECKED TODAY AND PEOPLE ARE TWITTERING HIM ABOUT IT.
HE ALSO IS GETTING READY FOR AVN AWARDS
Thanks fam u rock! I already feel better.
@HeadlessMunky Oh yeah, thank u babe for reminding me how happy I was to see things clearly, 6yrs I needed them! I wish they were ready now!
33 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to headlessmunky
.@BluntBrosProd @DaveHellion @DitchPlans @themajormusic @misterchuck719 @NiCo4z3 @Rogue_12 @Gomezinsj @RRgeo Thanks for ur nice tweets peeps!
37 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to DitchPlans
.@KeiranLee Yeah man I remember them commercials bro, fucking stupid here went for a Prada pair too but even in them I don't feel right? Meh!
41 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to KeiranLee
.@MarcoRiveraxxx Yeah and u just went from friend to cunt in one single tweet! Still not laughing..
43 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to MarcoRiveraxxx
.Alright fuck it.. deleted that tweet! I dunno bout them on me yet? Feel like a proper dork! :/
about 1 hour ago via Echofon .
Um peeps thank u all but I didn't have Lasik or any surgery. I just had my eyes tested & retina's scanned, I've been putting it off forever!
about 1 hour ago via Echofon .
@PAYASO_XXX @KaymeKai @MsHendiSun @KenBT @Uconn83 @OKkitten @Ottoshi @Gomezinsj
Thanks peeps, hopefully my eyes dilate back to normal soon!?
about 4 hours ago via Echofon in reply to ottoshi
.@DPiercexxx Pssh!! Alright smart ass, yeah I'm getting my googly Asian slants straightened out LOL!
Go do some cardio and leave me alone! :D
about 4 hours ago via Echofon in reply to dpiercexxx
.Ugh! Ok.. so now $600 later, all I got is blurry eyes and some fucking flimsy Lady Gaga's!! (he meant shades)
about 4 hours ago via Echofon .
And now I'm feeling very proud of myself that after 6 years of denial.. I'm getting my eye sight fixed up! Finally admitting defeat is HARD!
about 5 hours ago via Echofon .POW! Been gettin tons of errands done today! Also got my AVN suit bought, fitted & altered. Almost set for some major partying this weekend!
about 5 hours ago via Echofon .
@LupeFuentesxxx Hope ur feelin much better today babe? Lots of water & lots of fruit ok? Let me know what's up with guest lists this w/e! Xo
about 13 hours ago via Echofon in reply to lupefuentesxxx
.@KatieKox Yeah and u looked damn good with it too, the truth is u always look gorgeous! I'll see u & Mr @RickBarcode at the weekend babe! :D
about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to katiekox
.@Laren Hope u slept well last night?
@LeeEroticArts U gotta be tripping, I ain't time?
@Gomezinsj Haha hate on man, I probably would too! :D
about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to LeeEroticArts
.@MizzKissyFace Nah I don't listen to gossip, if its true or it ain't I can't waste time watchin that bullshit. Peeps can run they own lives!
about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to MizzKissyFace
.Haha no sweat it's good of u to introduce me to ur peeps bro! Hope ur readers enjoy! :D RT @MOCBlogger Meet Keni Styles http://bit.ly/gVqdRC
about 16 hours ago via Echofon .Rise n grind muhfuggahs!! GRRR!! :D #NowPlaying Over here hustlin' -Birdman & Lil Wayne
about 16 hours ago via Echofon
THIS IS A POWERFUL LESSON, reframing to your reality or ignore as CJ would say.
i learned from Jeffy and MARK when shit test in rapport is genuine than shit test in attraction which are handled differently.
I read this and I want to learn from him...the vids he goes with regina Moon are proceless cause he is cool natural dude...no PU no try hard for rapport and his subcommunications are tight.
he complements from place of being spiking BT of making people feel good about themselves...similar to the natural Ali and ADAM LYONS:
read this ...this year Im getting in shape and modeling this guy dealing with women and social circles
People need to stop bragging and boasting about performing in such a putrid business and go out there and get a real job.
brokentwice78
@brokentwice78
Haha! Yeah I know right! It's disgusting that people get paid to do what they fucking love and is so natural and easy.. I mean, why the hell do they think they should have such an easy life!!? Man.. it's disgusting! I mean.. wow sex.. who likes that? LMFAAAAO!! :D
Kenistyles
now this is what i am talkin about! People want to see this, not u hanging around with some white dude.
NOTE: Review Reframing by David Barron persuasion course ,
Modeling by Tom venuto...copy paste from twitter account.
twitter GOODS:
KeniStylesNOTE: KENI HAD HIS EYES CHECKED TODAY AND PEOPLE ARE TWITTERING HIM ABOUT IT.
HE ALSO IS GETTING READY FOR AVN AWARDS
Thanks fam u rock! I already feel better.
@HeadlessMunky Oh yeah, thank u babe for reminding me how happy I was to see things clearly, 6yrs I needed them! I wish they were ready now!
33 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to headlessmunky
.@BluntBrosProd @DaveHellion @DitchPlans @themajormusic @misterchuck719 @NiCo4z3 @Rogue_12 @Gomezinsj @RRgeo Thanks for ur nice tweets peeps!
37 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to DitchPlans
.@KeiranLee Yeah man I remember them commercials bro, fucking stupid here went for a Prada pair too but even in them I don't feel right? Meh!
41 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to KeiranLee
.@MarcoRiveraxxx Yeah and u just went from friend to cunt in one single tweet! Still not laughing..
43 minutes ago via Echofon in reply to MarcoRiveraxxx
.Alright fuck it.. deleted that tweet! I dunno bout them on me yet? Feel like a proper dork! :/
about 1 hour ago via Echofon .
Um peeps thank u all but I didn't have Lasik or any surgery. I just had my eyes tested & retina's scanned, I've been putting it off forever!
about 1 hour ago via Echofon .
@PAYASO_XXX @KaymeKai @MsHendiSun @KenBT @Uconn83 @OKkitten @Ottoshi @Gomezinsj
Thanks peeps, hopefully my eyes dilate back to normal soon!?
about 4 hours ago via Echofon in reply to ottoshi
.@DPiercexxx Pssh!! Alright smart ass, yeah I'm getting my googly Asian slants straightened out LOL!
Go do some cardio and leave me alone! :D
about 4 hours ago via Echofon in reply to dpiercexxx
.Ugh! Ok.. so now $600 later, all I got is blurry eyes and some fucking flimsy Lady Gaga's!! (he meant shades)
about 4 hours ago via Echofon .
And now I'm feeling very proud of myself that after 6 years of denial.. I'm getting my eye sight fixed up! Finally admitting defeat is HARD!
about 5 hours ago via Echofon .POW! Been gettin tons of errands done today! Also got my AVN suit bought, fitted & altered. Almost set for some major partying this weekend!
about 5 hours ago via Echofon .
@LupeFuentesxxx Hope ur feelin much better today babe? Lots of water & lots of fruit ok? Let me know what's up with guest lists this w/e! Xo
about 13 hours ago via Echofon in reply to lupefuentesxxx
.@KatieKox Yeah and u looked damn good with it too, the truth is u always look gorgeous! I'll see u & Mr @RickBarcode at the weekend babe! :D
about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to katiekox
.@Laren Hope u slept well last night?
@LeeEroticArts U gotta be tripping, I ain't time?
@Gomezinsj Haha hate on man, I probably would too! :D
about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to LeeEroticArts
.@MizzKissyFace Nah I don't listen to gossip, if its true or it ain't I can't waste time watchin that bullshit. Peeps can run they own lives!
about 14 hours ago via Echofon in reply to MizzKissyFace
.Haha no sweat it's good of u to introduce me to ur peeps bro! Hope ur readers enjoy! :D RT @MOCBlogger Meet Keni Styles http://bit.ly/gVqdRC
about 16 hours ago via Echofon .Rise n grind muhfuggahs!! GRRR!! :D #NowPlaying Over here hustlin' -Birdman & Lil Wayne
about 16 hours ago via Echofon
Multiple Streams of women by SINN
In the spirit of the New Year,
I want to share a really advanced
but simple technique with you today.
But first let me explain where
this technique came from.
A few years ago i was reading
a book on investing and they
said that on average millionaires
have 7 different streams of income.
This got me thinking about
Women(as almost anything does).
It was then that my theory
of multiple streams of meeting
women was borne.
In order to be extremely
successful with women,
you need to have at least
3 different ways you meet
women you're attracted to!
For example, I meet
girls through Day Game,
Acting Classes and
the internet.
You want to make sure
that you vary up your
ways you meet girls and
don't just practice different
forms of cold approach.
Hope that helps,
JS-The King Of Content
P.S To learn all about setting up Multiple
Streams of women in your life, you need
The Get Laid More Home Study Course, get it
at http://www.sinnsofattraction.com/glm/
I want to share a really advanced
but simple technique with you today.
But first let me explain where
this technique came from.
A few years ago i was reading
a book on investing and they
said that on average millionaires
have 7 different streams of income.
This got me thinking about
Women(as almost anything does).
It was then that my theory
of multiple streams of meeting
women was borne.
In order to be extremely
successful with women,
you need to have at least
3 different ways you meet
women you're attracted to!
For example, I meet
girls through Day Game,
Acting Classes and
the internet.
You want to make sure
that you vary up your
ways you meet girls and
don't just practice different
forms of cold approach.
Hope that helps,
JS-The King Of Content
P.S To learn all about setting up Multiple
Streams of women in your life, you need
The Get Laid More Home Study Course, get it
at http://www.sinnsofattraction.com/glm/
Friday, December 17, 2010
screening question? I spit fire on a qualification frame to get her attracted NLP
Yo I dont like your pic.
anyways I litedn to Seduction Sceince CDs i had past pdf of Seducion Scince v.1.
I screen women but I qualify or do it non verbally...depends man.
what is your thoughts or interpreation of screening to you?
Like I mentioned you can screen out girls who arent looking for sex, not compatible with....?
or you are screening to see how to seduce her...or even screen her to use qualification or compliance frame of
"I'm prize and who are you my dear?"
I use this , , its ILL son,Im telling you, verbal verbal tight game son ...iI laced it with some NLP in it..potent son..
My private screening question is :
please calibrate when using this: credit Saffron pua nyc*
"you are really sexy and cute"
HER : I know every guy says that to me thats lame
ME:" but I mean other girls are pretty too what is unique about you ...
I mean
What would you want a guy, who you are attracted to (point to self),
want for him to know about you, what makes you importantly unique and sexy about yourself ?"
I mean
What would you want a guy, who you are attracted to (hand on your chest, then remove),
want for him to know about you?......
what is that something he should know about you , that would make you feel sexy about yourself ?"
If she responds you have baited her inot your frame and she assumes as she has responded will assume she is attracted to you...you have to reward and then break on a high point to have her then invest into talking to you more and she will feel attracted.
anyways I litedn to Seduction Sceince CDs i had past pdf of Seducion Scince v.1.
I screen women but I qualify or do it non verbally...depends man.
what is your thoughts or interpreation of screening to you?
Like I mentioned you can screen out girls who arent looking for sex, not compatible with....?
or you are screening to see how to seduce her...or even screen her to use qualification or compliance frame of
"I'm prize and who are you my dear?"
I use this , , its ILL son,Im telling you, verbal verbal tight game son ...iI laced it with some NLP in it..potent son..
My private screening question is :
please calibrate when using this: credit Saffron pua nyc*
"you are really sexy and cute"
HER : I know every guy says that to me thats lame
ME:" but I mean other girls are pretty too what is unique about you ...
I mean
What would you want a guy, who you are attracted to (point to self),
want for him to know about you, what makes you importantly unique and sexy about yourself ?"
I mean
What would you want a guy, who you are attracted to (hand on your chest, then remove),
want for him to know about you?......
what is that something he should know about you , that would make you feel sexy about yourself ?"
If she responds you have baited her inot your frame and she assumes as she has responded will assume she is attracted to you...you have to reward and then break on a high point to have her then invest into talking to you more and she will feel attracted.
Thursday, November 25, 2010
LR: Good Girl Face Less is More Captain Jack Post, LMR LR Short-Circuit LMR Tactic
This is one of the LRs I leaned from the most. Here it is. CJ has deleted his LRs to promote his coaching instead.Its a business decision so I wish we were back in 2008. Alot of guys have gone comercial but CJ has been the guy I learned to see how his game works by his LR.
I learned through Sinn and ElTopo has his stack which is a basic conversation typed up which has CJ's stuff in it.
CJ LR's are great to learn, he goes sexual and knows how to close/pull girls.
you wont find this LR anywhere cause its been deleted.
ENJOY
LR: Good Girl Face
Posted: 10 Aug 2008 12:23 AM CDT
I've been SUPER Busy but still out there having lots o' fun.
Printer and I went down to Austin last weekend to see about a software project for his Dad's Co. but at the last minute his Dad caught a cold or something so it was postponed and we were on standby throughout the weekend in case he felt better...
Austin, TX on a weekend... hmmm... what to do...
We go out and I use one of my favorite openers. Never really thought about why it works but I've probably used it 30-40 times now in the past year. The only requirement is you can stack forward.
CJ: "How do you know my friend, Printer?" *** pointing towards the bar where he's ordering me more liver-destroying liquids. ***
This can be said if they've never even seen the guy... or if he just casually said something as he walked by... or if he's already in set.
HB: "Oh, we don't."
That seems like a dead-end opener, doesn't it?
CJ: "Wow! I'm surprised... He seems to know everyone!"
Can you FEEL the sexual tension?
"No," you say?
Neither can I. We're not there yet, dude. But, watch this.
CJ: "Hmmm.... You pick interesting fingers to wear your rings on..."
And, we're off!
But, that's not how this one went down.
Instead of "Rings on Fingers" it went like this...
CJ: "Wow! I'm surprised... He seems to know everyone!"
HB: "Well, we're from Dallas."
CJ: "Really? So are we! Figures all the cool Dallas people would find each other."
(Anyone want to comment about WHY the above statement is Ninja-esque?)
We do some more fluff talk for about 2-3 minutes. I tease her a little bit and get some kino in...
CJ: "You know, you're kinda throwing me a little bit..."
HB: "What? What do you mean?"
CJ: "Well, you have a good girl face... but... (dramatic pause)... bad girl mannerisms." *** I stress the BAD GIRL and look her up and down with lust. ***
She went from mildly curious and attracted to downright Porn Starlet in 1.3 seconds.
HB: "How do you know?"
Notice she's NOT arguing. In fact, she's asking me how I know it's TRUE!
CJ: "You had better stop."
I kept eye-fucking her, looking her up and down while having the most innocent conversation. I made it a point to stare at her lips, back to her eyes and to her tits several times while biting my lower lip.
And then, I said something close to this (can't remember exact wording).
CJ: "It must be rough for you. All the guys think you're all innocent and it keeps you from getting what you really, really want..." as I leaned in closer... and then lightly pushed her away.
After I pushed her away there was a good 10-12 inches between us. She closed the gap and pushed her whole body against me and gave me those "Kiss me now, pleeeeeaaaaaase!" eyes.
Naturally, I obliged.
From then on we were like Siamese Twins joined at the tongue.
Printer told me the next day when talking about the night at lunch that he stayed away because he was embarrassed. People were pointing.
I heard people talking and one girl said, "Oh-my-god!" as she walked by...
Whatever. A good girl needed to get some bad girl lovin'...
CJ: "Man, this sucks... the bar is closing."
HB: "What do you want to do?"
CJ: "Um, we could go watch a movie at my hotel... It's not far. But I have to be up early for a meeting."
HB: "We hardly know each other."
CJ: "I'm not going to make you do anything you don't want to do..." - Tongue down again.
She handled the obstacles for me, one girl and one guy, when they tried to pull us apart by the cabs.
Got to the hotel and wrecked it.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. Not even Strawberry Fields! This is an example of "Less is More." If I would've gone into my routine stack or done all my Heart Melters and shit she could've developed different feelings for me and tried to put off the SNL. You develop a sense of knowing when you're done and all you need to do is chill out. I've gotten pretty good at that.
P.P.S. She has a boyfriend.
P.S #3: She texted that she wants to see me this week.
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Short-Circuit LMR Tactic
Hi PUAs,
LMR was the main sticking point I worked on for this year. I purposefully picked "high probability" situations just for a shot at working on LMR.
I developed a "Pre" LMR strategy based on the idea that once something is verbalized it is MORE difficult to overcome.
If she verbalizes her resistance, it will be much more difficult to handle. So, instead of allowing it to get to the verbalization point I decided to NOTICE (and replay past LMR experiences) to see if there were any signs leading up to the verbalization of LMR.
There is one: It's muscle tension.
At the very earliest sign of muscle tension I stop. If she starts to resist or clam up in ANY WAY I pull back.
She'll often look at me like "what's happening?" For this reason, I've been leaving the TV or radio on. I just stop and look at the TV for awhile or fiddle with the music. If she doesn't re-initiate in 1 or 2 minutes I will.
Since using this I've experienced no LMR.
If you want to see this in the context of a LR then find "LR: It's FREEZING Cold in Here!" - that's the first LR that I consciously used it in.
~ Captain Jack ~
http://www.betheseducer.com
LMR LR Freezing COLD
Hey PUAs,
Ok, this is going to be short and sweet, mainly because there's not a lot of gaming that I had to do...just a few minor things to overcome (that would've killed me 6 months ago)...
I was with PlayerT a couple of weeks ago. (PlayerT is a guy that I met out one night...found out the hottest HB i've seen in years was his ex...had to add him to my social circle...a good move all around! He is not in the community but has a bad boy style and natural appeal with certain types of hotties)
There were 2 HOT Black HBs with 4 guys (they were all from Zimbabwe).
We'll call the hotter one HBSparkly and her Sister HBTits (because they have to be AT LEAST DD)...
PlayerT thought this HBSparkly was SUPER HOT! I agreed with him and then recounted to him everything I knew about her. A few months ago I sarged her when she ventured away from her group.
She was taken aback but loved it...I got locked in with her and had her eating out of my hand.
She's from Zimbabwe, has a KICK-ASS accent (french sounding?), is in school for something (accounting maybe) and has been here about 9 months (at the time I talked to her)...
BUT, the problem with not opening the group is you are ALMOST 100% guaranteed to get cock-blocked...and I did get cockblocked by her lovely (and jealous) sister. At was at that point, that I wrote off direct almost entirely. If you are in a group setting, use group dynamics.
She opened me up but acted like she didn't know me. So I spilled the beans and told her the whole story about how we met and how I know she was waiting by the phone for me and apologizing (C&F way)...
Then, I had an IDEA! Why not get PlayerT to hook up with this girl (she was falling ALL OVER HIMSELF FOR HER) to get his mind off of the HB10 (who I want) (they were talking about getting back together...she wasn't with us this night).
(Guys, I know I'm a schemer for trying to prevent PlayerT and his girl getting back together but this is a strange experiment in social circle shit...I don't know for how long or how far I'll take this but it is interesting and intriguing nonetheless).
So, I introduced them. PlayerT did great. Before I could blink she was smiling, laughing and they were dancing togehter. At one point, for some reason he had her stand up on the bar stool. She was in a mini-skirt and EVERY guy in the place was looking at those thighs...
With PlayerT occupied, I considered taking the sister, HBTits. But, they were with 4 Zimbabwe guys (who were nice and cool) so I thought that logistically we had a POOR shot at pulling the 2 black hotties that night.
I started up my new low-key game and started vibing with guys...You can always talk to guys about 1 of these things: the hot girls in the club, getting smashed, sports, other places with hot girls...
One dude that I talked to pointed to a 2-set seated and said, "What's your name? Cool, I'll introduce you..."
He rolled in and started hitting on a hottie...I rolled in about 5 seconds after and opened her friend. It was funny because he made sure EVERYBODY knew he just graduated from Law School. The girls didn't seem that impressed, ha ha.
I could tell immediately she was interested so I did some qualification and then moved right into comfort.
Her friend wasn't feeling my insta-wing, however. So I pulled PlayerT over and told him to sit with us on the OTHER side of the HB. I believed that this would blow the Insta-Wing out and PlayerT and I would've had a DAMN good shot at pulling the 2set back to my place (where the Tequila, hookah, beer, DVDs, Hot Tub is - ha ha)
Damn. These non-community guys can be uncooperative sometimes. In his silly little Natural Brain he believed he could extract HBSparkly from 5 of her compatriots.
No go.
I told him to get HBSparkly's phone # but something went wrong and he didn't get it. So he wanted to keep trying.
So, I'm doing my normal thing of "Well, I really like you but my friend over there (pointing to PlayerT) thinks your friend likes this guy sooooo...."
HBMassageTits: "What? Oh god no! She doesn't like this guy at all!"
CJ: "Really? Oh, I was going to invite you and her to hang out at my place but..."
HBMassageTits: "Really? Where do you live?"
CJ: "Blah, blah"
HB: "Well, it seems your friend likes that girl!"
CJ: "Her? Oh hell, he's just having fun while I'm chatting with you...I should probably get back to him."
HB: "Wait! Stay here."
She grabs her friend and they haul ass to the bathroom.
Insta-Wing: "So what do you think man? We got a shot here?"
CJ: * sighs * "I don't know man...I just don't know."
PlayerT laughs at me. He's seen me pull twice and get about 5 numbers. All within a couple of weeks of knowing him. He is amazed.
They come back and she says, "Just sit with us. When this guy leaves we'll go."
Shit. We are so close. Should I blow Insta-Wing out? Damn. What to do? PlayerT is now getting dragged by HBSparkly to the dance floor - again. Shit.
I don't want to blow him out unless PlayerT can pick up the slack.
Insta-Wing starts buying shots for everybody.
Another round.
Then, another round.
Now, its about the end of the night. My girl is all over me. PlayerT is a bit confused about why/how he's getting CB'ed by HBTits. I'm laughing because I feel like I have magic friggin' social perception glasses on. I see it all - in every group I can tell you the dynamic. I can lay out a high-probably strategy for pulling with a few minutes of observation.
Insta-Wing gets the picture at the end of the night and leaves. It's us 4 now. They run off to the bathroom again. For 10 MINUTES!
We all walk out and it looks like its on.
But, the bouncers stop my HB's friend. "She can't drive!" they say - standing in her way. Shit. On top of that she's starting to feel sick.
Plans are destroyed. I make out and # close my HB.
I get a text later. "Good thing we didn't come over. Missy puked right after I pulled out of the parking lot."
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Day2: Get booty call at 1:00 am while out with KinoMaster. Decide to go and close the deal. Heavy petting but no go. She is "on her period."
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Lots of texting. I invite her over monday night. She says she isn't comfortable coming over when my kids are there.
Freeze out. She sends me 3 messages which I don't answer. She calls once, I don't answer. The 4th one I answer, "Do you still want me to come over?" Ha ha...freeze outs work.
Day3:
She comes over.
I decide I'm not even going to let her OBJECT ONCE...at the very slightest tense of any of her muscles during escalation» -- I'm going straight into a freeze out.
I am COLD for the first 30 minutes. No touching. Nothing. Sitting on the couch like a good boy.
Finally she can't take it and she snuggles to my shoulder, puts a hand on my leg and looks up at me. I give her a little kiss.
In keeping with my NO OBJECTIONS RULE, I STOPPED the petting 7 TIMES!
She did manage to get one tiny objection in. But, then she got frozen out for a full 10 minutes. She had to re-initiate 3 times. ha ha.
Just f-closed her, but she's not a keeper. Not hot enough for a top 3 slot so will only have sex» with her again if I'm bored or something.
I learned through Sinn and ElTopo has his stack which is a basic conversation typed up which has CJ's stuff in it.
CJ LR's are great to learn, he goes sexual and knows how to close/pull girls.
you wont find this LR anywhere cause its been deleted.
ENJOY
LR: Good Girl Face
Posted: 10 Aug 2008 12:23 AM CDT
I've been SUPER Busy but still out there having lots o' fun.
Printer and I went down to Austin last weekend to see about a software project for his Dad's Co. but at the last minute his Dad caught a cold or something so it was postponed and we were on standby throughout the weekend in case he felt better...
Austin, TX on a weekend... hmmm... what to do...
We go out and I use one of my favorite openers. Never really thought about why it works but I've probably used it 30-40 times now in the past year. The only requirement is you can stack forward.
CJ: "How do you know my friend, Printer?" *** pointing towards the bar where he's ordering me more liver-destroying liquids. ***
This can be said if they've never even seen the guy... or if he just casually said something as he walked by... or if he's already in set.
HB: "Oh, we don't."
That seems like a dead-end opener, doesn't it?
CJ: "Wow! I'm surprised... He seems to know everyone!"
Can you FEEL the sexual tension?
"No," you say?
Neither can I. We're not there yet, dude. But, watch this.
CJ: "Hmmm.... You pick interesting fingers to wear your rings on..."
And, we're off!
But, that's not how this one went down.
Instead of "Rings on Fingers" it went like this...
CJ: "Wow! I'm surprised... He seems to know everyone!"
HB: "Well, we're from Dallas."
CJ: "Really? So are we! Figures all the cool Dallas people would find each other."
(Anyone want to comment about WHY the above statement is Ninja-esque?)
We do some more fluff talk for about 2-3 minutes. I tease her a little bit and get some kino in...
CJ: "You know, you're kinda throwing me a little bit..."
HB: "What? What do you mean?"
CJ: "Well, you have a good girl face... but... (dramatic pause)... bad girl mannerisms." *** I stress the BAD GIRL and look her up and down with lust. ***
She went from mildly curious and attracted to downright Porn Starlet in 1.3 seconds.
HB: "How do you know?"
Notice she's NOT arguing. In fact, she's asking me how I know it's TRUE!
CJ: "You had better stop."
I kept eye-fucking her, looking her up and down while having the most innocent conversation. I made it a point to stare at her lips, back to her eyes and to her tits several times while biting my lower lip.
And then, I said something close to this (can't remember exact wording).
CJ: "It must be rough for you. All the guys think you're all innocent and it keeps you from getting what you really, really want..." as I leaned in closer... and then lightly pushed her away.
After I pushed her away there was a good 10-12 inches between us. She closed the gap and pushed her whole body against me and gave me those "Kiss me now, pleeeeeaaaaaase!" eyes.
Naturally, I obliged.
From then on we were like Siamese Twins joined at the tongue.
Printer told me the next day when talking about the night at lunch that he stayed away because he was embarrassed. People were pointing.
I heard people talking and one girl said, "Oh-my-god!" as she walked by...
Whatever. A good girl needed to get some bad girl lovin'...
CJ: "Man, this sucks... the bar is closing."
HB: "What do you want to do?"
CJ: "Um, we could go watch a movie at my hotel... It's not far. But I have to be up early for a meeting."
HB: "We hardly know each other."
CJ: "I'm not going to make you do anything you don't want to do..." - Tongue down again.
She handled the obstacles for me, one girl and one guy, when they tried to pull us apart by the cabs.
Got to the hotel and wrecked it.
~ Captain Jack ~
P.S. Not even Strawberry Fields! This is an example of "Less is More." If I would've gone into my routine stack or done all my Heart Melters and shit she could've developed different feelings for me and tried to put off the SNL. You develop a sense of knowing when you're done and all you need to do is chill out. I've gotten pretty good at that.
P.P.S. She has a boyfriend.
P.S #3: She texted that she wants to see me this week.
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Short-Circuit LMR Tactic
Hi PUAs,
LMR was the main sticking point I worked on for this year. I purposefully picked "high probability" situations just for a shot at working on LMR.
I developed a "Pre" LMR strategy based on the idea that once something is verbalized it is MORE difficult to overcome.
If she verbalizes her resistance, it will be much more difficult to handle. So, instead of allowing it to get to the verbalization point I decided to NOTICE (and replay past LMR experiences) to see if there were any signs leading up to the verbalization of LMR.
There is one: It's muscle tension.
At the very earliest sign of muscle tension I stop. If she starts to resist or clam up in ANY WAY I pull back.
She'll often look at me like "what's happening?" For this reason, I've been leaving the TV or radio on. I just stop and look at the TV for awhile or fiddle with the music. If she doesn't re-initiate in 1 or 2 minutes I will.
Since using this I've experienced no LMR.
If you want to see this in the context of a LR then find "LR: It's FREEZING Cold in Here!" - that's the first LR that I consciously used it in.
~ Captain Jack ~
http://www.betheseducer.com
LMR LR Freezing COLD
Hey PUAs,
Ok, this is going to be short and sweet, mainly because there's not a lot of gaming that I had to do...just a few minor things to overcome (that would've killed me 6 months ago)...
I was with PlayerT a couple of weeks ago. (PlayerT is a guy that I met out one night...found out the hottest HB i've seen in years was his ex...had to add him to my social circle...a good move all around! He is not in the community but has a bad boy style and natural appeal with certain types of hotties)
There were 2 HOT Black HBs with 4 guys (they were all from Zimbabwe).
We'll call the hotter one HBSparkly and her Sister HBTits (because they have to be AT LEAST DD)...
PlayerT thought this HBSparkly was SUPER HOT! I agreed with him and then recounted to him everything I knew about her. A few months ago I sarged her when she ventured away from her group.
She was taken aback but loved it...I got locked in with her and had her eating out of my hand.
She's from Zimbabwe, has a KICK-ASS accent (french sounding?), is in school for something (accounting maybe) and has been here about 9 months (at the time I talked to her)...
BUT, the problem with not opening the group is you are ALMOST 100% guaranteed to get cock-blocked...and I did get cockblocked by her lovely (and jealous) sister. At was at that point, that I wrote off direct almost entirely. If you are in a group setting, use group dynamics.
She opened me up but acted like she didn't know me. So I spilled the beans and told her the whole story about how we met and how I know she was waiting by the phone for me and apologizing (C&F way)...
Then, I had an IDEA! Why not get PlayerT to hook up with this girl (she was falling ALL OVER HIMSELF FOR HER) to get his mind off of the HB10 (who I want) (they were talking about getting back together...she wasn't with us this night).
(Guys, I know I'm a schemer for trying to prevent PlayerT and his girl getting back together but this is a strange experiment in social circle shit...I don't know for how long or how far I'll take this but it is interesting and intriguing nonetheless).
So, I introduced them. PlayerT did great. Before I could blink she was smiling, laughing and they were dancing togehter. At one point, for some reason he had her stand up on the bar stool. She was in a mini-skirt and EVERY guy in the place was looking at those thighs...
With PlayerT occupied, I considered taking the sister, HBTits. But, they were with 4 Zimbabwe guys (who were nice and cool) so I thought that logistically we had a POOR shot at pulling the 2 black hotties that night.
I started up my new low-key game and started vibing with guys...You can always talk to guys about 1 of these things: the hot girls in the club, getting smashed, sports, other places with hot girls...
One dude that I talked to pointed to a 2-set seated and said, "What's your name? Cool, I'll introduce you..."
He rolled in and started hitting on a hottie...I rolled in about 5 seconds after and opened her friend. It was funny because he made sure EVERYBODY knew he just graduated from Law School. The girls didn't seem that impressed, ha ha.
I could tell immediately she was interested so I did some qualification and then moved right into comfort.
Her friend wasn't feeling my insta-wing, however. So I pulled PlayerT over and told him to sit with us on the OTHER side of the HB. I believed that this would blow the Insta-Wing out and PlayerT and I would've had a DAMN good shot at pulling the 2set back to my place (where the Tequila, hookah, beer, DVDs, Hot Tub is - ha ha)
Damn. These non-community guys can be uncooperative sometimes. In his silly little Natural Brain he believed he could extract HBSparkly from 5 of her compatriots.
No go.
I told him to get HBSparkly's phone # but something went wrong and he didn't get it. So he wanted to keep trying.
So, I'm doing my normal thing of "Well, I really like you but my friend over there (pointing to PlayerT) thinks your friend likes this guy sooooo...."
HBMassageTits: "What? Oh god no! She doesn't like this guy at all!"
CJ: "Really? Oh, I was going to invite you and her to hang out at my place but..."
HBMassageTits: "Really? Where do you live?"
CJ: "Blah, blah"
HB: "Well, it seems your friend likes that girl!"
CJ: "Her? Oh hell, he's just having fun while I'm chatting with you...I should probably get back to him."
HB: "Wait! Stay here."
She grabs her friend and they haul ass to the bathroom.
Insta-Wing: "So what do you think man? We got a shot here?"
CJ: * sighs * "I don't know man...I just don't know."
PlayerT laughs at me. He's seen me pull twice and get about 5 numbers. All within a couple of weeks of knowing him. He is amazed.
They come back and she says, "Just sit with us. When this guy leaves we'll go."
Shit. We are so close. Should I blow Insta-Wing out? Damn. What to do? PlayerT is now getting dragged by HBSparkly to the dance floor - again. Shit.
I don't want to blow him out unless PlayerT can pick up the slack.
Insta-Wing starts buying shots for everybody.
Another round.
Then, another round.
Now, its about the end of the night. My girl is all over me. PlayerT is a bit confused about why/how he's getting CB'ed by HBTits. I'm laughing because I feel like I have magic friggin' social perception glasses on. I see it all - in every group I can tell you the dynamic. I can lay out a high-probably strategy for pulling with a few minutes of observation.
Insta-Wing gets the picture at the end of the night and leaves. It's us 4 now. They run off to the bathroom again. For 10 MINUTES!
We all walk out and it looks like its on.
But, the bouncers stop my HB's friend. "She can't drive!" they say - standing in her way. Shit. On top of that she's starting to feel sick.
Plans are destroyed. I make out and # close my HB.
I get a text later. "Good thing we didn't come over. Missy puked right after I pulled out of the parking lot."
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Day2: Get booty call at 1:00 am while out with KinoMaster. Decide to go and close the deal. Heavy petting but no go. She is "on her period."
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Lots of texting. I invite her over monday night. She says she isn't comfortable coming over when my kids are there.
Freeze out. She sends me 3 messages which I don't answer. She calls once, I don't answer. The 4th one I answer, "Do you still want me to come over?" Ha ha...freeze outs work.
Day3:
She comes over.
I decide I'm not even going to let her OBJECT ONCE...at the very slightest tense of any of her muscles during escalation» -- I'm going straight into a freeze out.
I am COLD for the first 30 minutes. No touching. Nothing. Sitting on the couch like a good boy.
Finally she can't take it and she snuggles to my shoulder, puts a hand on my leg and looks up at me. I give her a little kiss.
In keeping with my NO OBJECTIONS RULE, I STOPPED the petting 7 TIMES!
She did manage to get one tiny objection in. But, then she got frozen out for a full 10 minutes. She had to re-initiate 3 times. ha ha.
Just f-closed her, but she's not a keeper. Not hot enough for a top 3 slot so will only have sex» with her again if I'm bored or something.
CJ's LR Good girl face w Sinn 2008 ass parade LR
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Lay Report: Two New Lays by Captain Jack
Lay Report: Two New Lays
Posted at February 21, 2007 Lay #2 for 2007, early January:
Sinn, Fidelio and I roll into x-bar. It is target rich. Plenty of 7.5’s and above. I’m feeling particularly good because I have a kickass start to 2007. I already have tne lay in Scottsdale (see LR: Sunburst) and have perhaps one of the top 3 hottest girls I’ve ever sarged in my life dying for me to come back. She’s a 5 foot tall, long shiny black haired Indian hottie with big breasts and a beautiful face. Not too mention I have 5 girls in DFW constantly texting/calling wanting to hook up again. Naturally, I’m feeling like this whole sarging thing has paid off in terms of sexual availability. This puts a smile on my face.
I open a set and it is a NO-GO. Not a blow out but it fizzles. Sinn opens a set and stays in for awhile before freezing his target out with a backturn.
I am chatting with Fidelio and as usual the shots are coming hard and heavy. Luckily I can sarge while tipsy thanks to Fidelio, Sinn and APB.
Sinn opens up a 2set of females and I open what I thought was a 2M, 1F set. It turns out it was a 2F, 4m set. Uggg. However, I manage to handle the set well. The target is into me but another male brings her a drink and she tries to cover her attraction with a shit test. This garners her a backturn and a freeze out while I chat with Fidelio again.
Strapper comes by and intros his roommate to me briefly and they head off. I was hoping to chat a bit longer but they had somewhere to be.
The Target opens me again and her friend butts into the convo. I briefly consider switching targets but decide that the brunnette is hotter because the blonde, while having bigger tits, is too chunky.
About this time, Sinn intros me to the obstacle in his set. She’s tall and slender with an average face. I know Sinn is trying to pull the big tittied Target so I think, “Am I gonna fuck this girl so Sinn can fuck his girl?” I look her up and down and decide I would do it. She’s about as hot as my other target but she has NO obstacles as Sinn already has her friend wrapped.
I qualify and move into comfort. Sinn posted this about the end of the night on his blog:
“I had a conversation about how none of us want to time-bridge as I live in LA, CJ hates driving and Fidelio lives like an hour away. So we start planning the pull. CJ comes back with the obstacle and I hear mention of an after hours place. So it’s on. We pull the girls out, send Fidelio back to the pirate pad with the car and get into the most disgusting car I have ever seen a girl drive. My girl was 5′3 and she could not sit straight because there was soo much shite in the back seat of her car.
CJ’s girl’s blood sugar or soemthing got low so we had to head to CVS, they both run in and I start escalating in the backseat. They come back as I have my hand down her pants. Whoops. We start heading to the after hours place, but on the way CJ(the master of the pull) starts a brillant campaign. He says ” Let’s stop by my place and pick up some alcohol, cuz they stop serving at 2 but they let you bring your own until 4.” So we now head the 30 minutes to the pirate pad.
BTW the pirate pad was in complete disarray as I have been staying on an inflatable mattress on the floor. and have my clothes in my suitcase as you head inside. So we get inside and the girls go to the bathroom, then I throw on an episode of the office and we settle into the couch and love seat respectively. About 30 mins in CJ isolates to his bedroom, and i start escalating on the couch, until we almost fall off. Relocate to the inflatable mattress. Which is not made for 2. I get her pants off and encounter LMR. Great, my NY’s resolution is that I no longer deal with LMR so I just start to “take care of myself” and when I’m done I cuddle with her and go to sleep. I wake up a half hour later and decide I’ll try to reinitiate. I go to the bathroom to wash my hands, and as I’m in there I hear CJ’s girl come out and ask my girl if she wants to stay. She does, so I assum it is O-N. I go back start kissing her back and bada-bing bada boom it’s over. I do not reccomend having sex on an inflatable mattress as it’s not really the most stable surface or comfortable. Funny side note- CJ’s girl goes into the bathroom while we are doing the deed in broad view and my girl wants to stop, then as soon as the light goes back off she jumps me.”
Ok. After I pulled my Target to my room I encountered the stiffest LMR I’ve had for awhile. My girl was LSE and I had to work some fucking verbal magic. Luckily, Future had discussed his wicked “Advanced Comfort” ideas just a week earlier. Here’s one statement based on his ideas that I used during LMR that broke it down by about 80-90%:
CJ: You know how you told me earlier how your dream is to design clothes? Well, I didn’t want to mention this earlier but….(pause)
Girl: What?
CJ: Well, I work with a lot of successful business owners and you reminded me of them when you were talking about that. I really believe you can do that…
Now, mind you, she is on top of me in just her panties. I’ve tried to get them off 3 or 4 times. After I say that she PULLS her panties aside and sits on my boner (just on top, still hasn’t put it inside her) and starts going crazy!
Girl: (breathless): omigod! omigod! (she is saying this in response to what I said, not the extra action…)
CJ: It’s too bad you’re such a dork! (pushing her off)
I KNOW that’s the first time that’s ever happened to her BECAUSE the look on her face was priceless! She was literally dumbfounded! She sat there for a good minute confused. I then pulled her panties off and started making out with her again.
About that time she heard someone in the bathroom and peaked out the door. When she noticed her friend still on the inflatable mattress she opened the door and stepped out to SHOW her friend she was totally nude and asked if her friend wanted to stay.
After she shut the door and crawled back in bed she asked if I had a condom…done deal.
Lay #3: A few days later… PlayerT: 0 CaptainJack 3
I’ve had many battles with PlayerT and the associated natural/players and I’ve always come out ahead. One of my greatest triumphs was (LR: CaptainJack wins Tug of War…. or something).
One night Fidelio and I were out just bullshitting. This was a weird night because instead of Fidelio getting all the AI’s (as usual) I was getting them. I’m not used to that shit so I didn’t know what to do. A 2f, 1m set against the wall called me over. They were both 9s and dressed wonderfully like professionals just off of work from some Fortune 500 company. Absolutely luscious women. One of them looked over at me and said, “You can come talk to us until your friend gets back” or something.
What did I do? Not a damn. I just smiled like a dumbass. Damn.
Everytime I turned around Fidelio was shoving some “Alligator Sex Fuck” shot that tasted like applesauce in my face. By midnight I couldn’t focus my eyes.
But, I DID notice two other AI’s. My drunken attempt at sarging made one hottie regret she had given me an AI. I knew I was fucking it up with each word that tumbled out of my pie hole yet I kept on “plowing” until she finally back turned me and made a face to her friends. Fuck.
Not to worry. A brunnette with a big ass had given me an AI earlier and was giving me another.
Fresh off of destroying that HB9 AI I got I decided to just waltz over and talk to the brunnette big ass chick (called HB2005).
It turned out she was older than I thought but still fuckable. But, all in all I’d call her a 2005 lay. I like to think I’ve graduated a bit.
I number closed her. I briefly thought about attempting the SNL but I knew that if I could barely focus my eyes that GIGANTOR wouldn’t be able to do his thing so I let it go.
The day2, I meet her at the local venue and we start drinking. PlayerJ comes up and starts talking to her. She introduces us and he says, “Hey, I know him! We had a few after parties at his place” or something similar. I invite him to sit down and head to the bathroom. He has a hottie and two “ok” girls with him. On the way back my Target says, “Hey, do you know PlayerJ?”
I laugh. Yep. Well, guess what?! She says they’ve been dating for 3 weeks!
She spends the rest of the night kinoing me and making out with me and telling me not to worry, they are just friends!
She leaves about midnight. I hang out and do two more sets both NO-GOs
Day3…My apartment. I get LMR and she tries to pull me out to local venue. I decline. I text Sinn telling him I am through with her.
Day4… Sinn and I are at local venue and she is there. He agrees she is 2005 status. We game some sets. He games and number closes a half-white/half-asian girl I consider an HB8+ but he’s not very attracted.
I get Sinn incredibly drunk. He comes up with a new opener on an obstacle I pulled over. I have the Target hooked. She is a tiny half latin/half black girl with a nose ring and perky tits with her tight midriff showing. Sinn’s new opener is, “Ugggh, girl you don’t have a chance!” as he wavers back in forth in his drunkeness.
The 2set leaves but I don’t care because that was hilarious!
HB2005 comes over and we bounce to Dennys and then back to my place where I close HB2005.
~ CJ ~
Posted at February 21, 2007 Lay #2 for 2007, early January:
Sinn, Fidelio and I roll into x-bar. It is target rich. Plenty of 7.5’s and above. I’m feeling particularly good because I have a kickass start to 2007. I already have tne lay in Scottsdale (see LR: Sunburst) and have perhaps one of the top 3 hottest girls I’ve ever sarged in my life dying for me to come back. She’s a 5 foot tall, long shiny black haired Indian hottie with big breasts and a beautiful face. Not too mention I have 5 girls in DFW constantly texting/calling wanting to hook up again. Naturally, I’m feeling like this whole sarging thing has paid off in terms of sexual availability. This puts a smile on my face.
I open a set and it is a NO-GO. Not a blow out but it fizzles. Sinn opens a set and stays in for awhile before freezing his target out with a backturn.
I am chatting with Fidelio and as usual the shots are coming hard and heavy. Luckily I can sarge while tipsy thanks to Fidelio, Sinn and APB.
Sinn opens up a 2set of females and I open what I thought was a 2M, 1F set. It turns out it was a 2F, 4m set. Uggg. However, I manage to handle the set well. The target is into me but another male brings her a drink and she tries to cover her attraction with a shit test. This garners her a backturn and a freeze out while I chat with Fidelio again.
Strapper comes by and intros his roommate to me briefly and they head off. I was hoping to chat a bit longer but they had somewhere to be.
The Target opens me again and her friend butts into the convo. I briefly consider switching targets but decide that the brunnette is hotter because the blonde, while having bigger tits, is too chunky.
About this time, Sinn intros me to the obstacle in his set. She’s tall and slender with an average face. I know Sinn is trying to pull the big tittied Target so I think, “Am I gonna fuck this girl so Sinn can fuck his girl?” I look her up and down and decide I would do it. She’s about as hot as my other target but she has NO obstacles as Sinn already has her friend wrapped.
I qualify and move into comfort. Sinn posted this about the end of the night on his blog:
“I had a conversation about how none of us want to time-bridge as I live in LA, CJ hates driving and Fidelio lives like an hour away. So we start planning the pull. CJ comes back with the obstacle and I hear mention of an after hours place. So it’s on. We pull the girls out, send Fidelio back to the pirate pad with the car and get into the most disgusting car I have ever seen a girl drive. My girl was 5′3 and she could not sit straight because there was soo much shite in the back seat of her car.
CJ’s girl’s blood sugar or soemthing got low so we had to head to CVS, they both run in and I start escalating in the backseat. They come back as I have my hand down her pants. Whoops. We start heading to the after hours place, but on the way CJ(the master of the pull) starts a brillant campaign. He says ” Let’s stop by my place and pick up some alcohol, cuz they stop serving at 2 but they let you bring your own until 4.” So we now head the 30 minutes to the pirate pad.
BTW the pirate pad was in complete disarray as I have been staying on an inflatable mattress on the floor. and have my clothes in my suitcase as you head inside. So we get inside and the girls go to the bathroom, then I throw on an episode of the office and we settle into the couch and love seat respectively. About 30 mins in CJ isolates to his bedroom, and i start escalating on the couch, until we almost fall off. Relocate to the inflatable mattress. Which is not made for 2. I get her pants off and encounter LMR. Great, my NY’s resolution is that I no longer deal with LMR so I just start to “take care of myself” and when I’m done I cuddle with her and go to sleep. I wake up a half hour later and decide I’ll try to reinitiate. I go to the bathroom to wash my hands, and as I’m in there I hear CJ’s girl come out and ask my girl if she wants to stay. She does, so I assum it is O-N. I go back start kissing her back and bada-bing bada boom it’s over. I do not reccomend having sex on an inflatable mattress as it’s not really the most stable surface or comfortable. Funny side note- CJ’s girl goes into the bathroom while we are doing the deed in broad view and my girl wants to stop, then as soon as the light goes back off she jumps me.”
Ok. After I pulled my Target to my room I encountered the stiffest LMR I’ve had for awhile. My girl was LSE and I had to work some fucking verbal magic. Luckily, Future had discussed his wicked “Advanced Comfort” ideas just a week earlier. Here’s one statement based on his ideas that I used during LMR that broke it down by about 80-90%:
CJ: You know how you told me earlier how your dream is to design clothes? Well, I didn’t want to mention this earlier but….(pause)
Girl: What?
CJ: Well, I work with a lot of successful business owners and you reminded me of them when you were talking about that. I really believe you can do that…
Now, mind you, she is on top of me in just her panties. I’ve tried to get them off 3 or 4 times. After I say that she PULLS her panties aside and sits on my boner (just on top, still hasn’t put it inside her) and starts going crazy!
Girl: (breathless): omigod! omigod! (she is saying this in response to what I said, not the extra action…)
CJ: It’s too bad you’re such a dork! (pushing her off)
I KNOW that’s the first time that’s ever happened to her BECAUSE the look on her face was priceless! She was literally dumbfounded! She sat there for a good minute confused. I then pulled her panties off and started making out with her again.
About that time she heard someone in the bathroom and peaked out the door. When she noticed her friend still on the inflatable mattress she opened the door and stepped out to SHOW her friend she was totally nude and asked if her friend wanted to stay.
After she shut the door and crawled back in bed she asked if I had a condom…done deal.
Lay #3: A few days later… PlayerT: 0 CaptainJack 3
I’ve had many battles with PlayerT and the associated natural/players and I’ve always come out ahead. One of my greatest triumphs was (LR: CaptainJack wins Tug of War…. or something).
One night Fidelio and I were out just bullshitting. This was a weird night because instead of Fidelio getting all the AI’s (as usual) I was getting them. I’m not used to that shit so I didn’t know what to do. A 2f, 1m set against the wall called me over. They were both 9s and dressed wonderfully like professionals just off of work from some Fortune 500 company. Absolutely luscious women. One of them looked over at me and said, “You can come talk to us until your friend gets back” or something.
What did I do? Not a damn. I just smiled like a dumbass. Damn.
Everytime I turned around Fidelio was shoving some “Alligator Sex Fuck” shot that tasted like applesauce in my face. By midnight I couldn’t focus my eyes.
But, I DID notice two other AI’s. My drunken attempt at sarging made one hottie regret she had given me an AI. I knew I was fucking it up with each word that tumbled out of my pie hole yet I kept on “plowing” until she finally back turned me and made a face to her friends. Fuck.
Not to worry. A brunnette with a big ass had given me an AI earlier and was giving me another.
Fresh off of destroying that HB9 AI I got I decided to just waltz over and talk to the brunnette big ass chick (called HB2005).
It turned out she was older than I thought but still fuckable. But, all in all I’d call her a 2005 lay. I like to think I’ve graduated a bit.
I number closed her. I briefly thought about attempting the SNL but I knew that if I could barely focus my eyes that GIGANTOR wouldn’t be able to do his thing so I let it go.
The day2, I meet her at the local venue and we start drinking. PlayerJ comes up and starts talking to her. She introduces us and he says, “Hey, I know him! We had a few after parties at his place” or something similar. I invite him to sit down and head to the bathroom. He has a hottie and two “ok” girls with him. On the way back my Target says, “Hey, do you know PlayerJ?”
I laugh. Yep. Well, guess what?! She says they’ve been dating for 3 weeks!
She spends the rest of the night kinoing me and making out with me and telling me not to worry, they are just friends!
She leaves about midnight. I hang out and do two more sets both NO-GOs
Day3…My apartment. I get LMR and she tries to pull me out to local venue. I decline. I text Sinn telling him I am through with her.
Day4… Sinn and I are at local venue and she is there. He agrees she is 2005 status. We game some sets. He games and number closes a half-white/half-asian girl I consider an HB8+ but he’s not very attracted.
I get Sinn incredibly drunk. He comes up with a new opener on an obstacle I pulled over. I have the Target hooked. She is a tiny half latin/half black girl with a nose ring and perky tits with her tight midriff showing. Sinn’s new opener is, “Ugggh, girl you don’t have a chance!” as he wavers back in forth in his drunkeness.
The 2set leaves but I don’t care because that was hilarious!
HB2005 comes over and we bounce to Dennys and then back to my place where I close HB2005.
~ CJ ~
Sinns Fast seduction with eye contact LR in Vegas,Talks about Miami
Saturday, January 17, 2009
Can You Really Seduce A Stranger in 6 Minutes?
Hey guys,
Wanted to drop you a quick line today to talk about what's possible.
When I first got started in The Secret Underground Internet Seduction Community, I thought it was really difficult just to start a conversation with a stranger. Well 6 years later things are a little different, and I want to share this story from Vegas with everyone, not to brag, but to show you that ANYTHING is possible. Even consistent 6 minute seductions.
As many of you may know, I made the horrible decision to stay in Vegas for 4 days in between my first two 12 Months To Mastery bootcamps.(To learn why this was a bad idea check out my blog post on The Vegas Tipping point at http://sinnsofattraction.blogspot.com/2009/01/vegas-tipping-point.html ) Well Tuesday night Priest and I decided to hit the best party in town. Pure at Caesar's Palace. At Pure I did a number of approaches and nothing was going that well. Priest and I had a 2 set going but my girl was being way too ADD and she wasn't hot enough to get away with it :) So at around 2:30, I decide if we're going to keep gaming, we should be gaming at our hotel.
That's lesson number 1 for those of you looking to get laid fast! Know your logistics and keep them as favorable as possible. It's much harder to pull a girl from a club to a different hotel. If you can just go up an elevator, the pull becomes much easier.
So we head back to The Hard Rock. The Circle Bar was actually fairly lively for a Tuesday at 3 AM. There were a few sets and I start to look for girls who look bored, sexual, or like they want to trade up. Girls often settle for guys earlier in the night and then decide they don't like them later on. I want to find those girls. What I do to find these girls is make a rotation of the bar. However, you don't want it to look like you're "on the prowl" so you have to make a confused face like you're looking for a friend of yours. This is key to retaining social value.
The next part of super fast lays, is eye contact. You want to make searing, burning eye contact with as many girls as possible. Just make sure you still keep a smile on your face. You're looking for one of two responses. You want to approach girls who quickly break eye contact by looking down. This is a sign of sexual submission. Or you want to find girls who look away and then look back. There was a group of 3 hotties and as I was walking by, the blonde looked at me and then looked back as I walked by. I take an extra step, check my phone just cause I'm procrastinating and walk over.
I want to mention the next key point for super fast lays. Fashion and stereotyping. I was wearing a black pinstriped blazer with zippers all over it. Under that I had on a T-shirt I found in Australia with Sienna Miller flipping the bird topless, a pair of True Religion distressed jeans and my old school New Rocks. There's nothing spectacular about the outfit but it stands out without being weird. As usual I was the best dressed guy in the venue and the girls notice. If you don't get stared at or opened because of your fashion, you're doing something wrong. There are tons of great resources out there from style.com, to kinowear.com. There's no excuse for bad style, or not having an overall theme/stereotype to your look. Gone are the days when we can pretend fashion and presentation doesn't matter to getting laid. It does matter, and it's fully within your control.
After the eye contact I walked back over and said "hi" the girl immediately started telling me that she worked as a cocktail waitress at Treasure Island, she never goes out, and she's only here cause her brother's girlfriend(The Asian girl to her left) dragged her out. This is what's known as her qualifying herself to me off the opener. I now know she's attracted, it's 3 AM and she's with her brother's girlfriend. All signs are go, for the 10 minute lay. Then she asks me if I'm gay.
I get the gay thing once or twice a week, it's not a horrible problem as it allows me to escalate super fast. I say " I'm not gay and I'll prove it. Close your eyes." and then I kiss her. She practically sucks my face off. So I decide it's super on, and I'm gonna go for the 5 minute pull. I say " What are you guys up to right now?" She responds that they're waiting for her brother. I say "cool, shit I forgot my cigarettes upstairs. I'm gonna go get them." She starts to freak out her that I'm leaving, which is exactly what I wanted. this is a very subtle use of a take-away. Here I use it to gain emotional momentum to get her to come upstairs with me. She says " no, don't go! We'll get one down here." I say " Naw I only smoke Marlboro's, come upstairs with me to grab em. We'll be back before your brother gets here." She asks her friends if they're cool with that and away we go. Here, I just create some excuse for plausible deniability. As you can see it wasn't even that good of an excuse. But it worked.
Meet to elevator 3 minutes.
In the Elevator I ramp arousal. This is another key to quickies. I slam the girl against the wall, makeout with her and feel her up. Then as soon as we get to floor 4, I walk out of the elevator fast. This is a HUGE sexual push/pull. She gets aroused and starts to feel good and then it's gone. We get into the room and I throw her on the bed and pin her arms above her head. I go for the boobs then she says " When are you gonna fuck me? Before or after we smoke a cigarette? I laugh and we have sex. I look at the clock as I'm inside her and it's literally 6 minutes from when I checked my phone before going into the set.
I never would have imagined this was possible 6 years ago. But these situations happen to me all the time now. And they can happen to you too. The lesson to take out of this is not just controlling logistics in your favor, using eye contact to screen approaches, or ramping arousal as you're pulling. The real idea is that results like this are possible. A lot of times we read things like the "7 hour rule" or a girl tells us she doesn't sleep with guys right away and we get discouraged. The truth is seductions like this happen all over the world EVERY night of the week. It's just up to you to get out there and make it happen.
Til next time,
S
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Thursday, July 03, 2008
FUR: Handjob Interuptus...
I often complain. Longtime readers of my blog can no doubt remember tons of experiences where I complained about airlines, lack of sleep, etc... But the biggest thing I complain about to my friends is Las Vegas. See I have a love/hate relationship with Vegas. I love it because it allows me to indulge in all of my worst vices. But I hate it because I always end up feeling like a cigarette butt about two days in. So naturally when Moxie was leaving and he suggested going to Vegas for his blow out going away celebration I was in.
Fast forward through 5 days of debauchery and not coming home til the sun was out and we arrive at last Saturday night. We decided that since we were staying at the MGM we should take advantage of logistics and go to Studio 54. This was a mistake. I have NEVER seen so many ugly people in the same place ever. Seriously it was like a retarded leper colony reunion. It was the entire collection of " My father should have pulled out" trading cards. I'm still getting shivers thinking about it. And we got to pay a $20 cover because it was 12:01 and our passes were only good til 12...
So we do what all men in Vegas do when confronted with a time crunch and lack of options. We went to the Hard Rock Circle bar. I'm pretty pissed off at this point so I'm looking to open as quickly as possible. I open a 2 set with a short ugly girl and a hot blonde in a corset. I point out that she's short. They say they're going to meet they're friends and I should come. I meet another 5 girls and Moxie rolls over. Now we're just vibing until I isolate the corset girl and run strawberry fields on her. Then I pull her hair and she asks me what my sign is.
Me: Guess.
Her: Scorpio
Me: No way, I can't believe you guessed scorpio.
Her: Are you a scorpio?
Me: No Libra...
Her: I'm a scorpio we match sexually!
I tell her I'm really bad in bed and then pull her into me and pull her hair. This is something I do a lot. Verbally disqualifying myself sexually while sexually escalating to show her that I will fuck her shit up. It's a sexual version of push/pull except you disqualify yourself instead of her.
Moxie is pretty in with another tall hot blonde in the set and the ugs are getting restless. This was annoying because I had spent damn near 10 minutes talking to the ugs and making sure they were cool. I thought I had built a good rapport. My girl tries to number close me for sex the next morning. I smell a flake so I number close and then we walk with them to the outer ring of the casino. They say they're going to Mandalay Bay. We're down. I make out with my girl. But the ugs are plotting something. I can see it. I try to pull our girls back to the hotel and hear what would become the mantra of the night " I want to but I can't leave my friends." I go back in on the ugs and make them laugh for a few minutes then tell them ask for permission to take their friends away. The short ug I opened says in front of my girl " She can do whatever she wants" but she says it in the way that it actually means " I will hat you forever and tell everyone you're a huge slut if you go with these guys." So no go and eventually I realize we can't go with them cause the ugs won't have it and they won't leave with us either. A logistical blow out. Next set.
The next set I open is a blonde walking by. I open her by poking her in the stomach and then clawing her in. She's super attracted super fast and I'm thinking logistics. I want to make a point here. Whenever you open a single you can get her attracted enough that she will handle the obstacles for you. But you have to ask who they are. I ask her who she's here with. She lives in Vegas but is staying at the Hard Rock with some guy friends, who are hitting on some girls. Cool seems easy right? Wrong! She won't let me go to her room, she won't leave to come to mine, the bathroom has an attendent. Finally I remember a girl I banged out by the pool here one night. We walk past the guy cleaning the floor out the door that should be locked and we lay down on some lounge chairs. She straddles me, I pull her boobs out and whip out the cack. She's jerking me off when security walks by.
Security: Hey guys you can't be out here. Sorry to break it up seems like you were almost there. Most people hide in those cabanas.
I look at the girl she says " we're not going to the cabanas."
Fine as we're walking back to her friends I pull her in the leveator shove her against the wall and make out more. I hit the top floor 11. We get there and then she says we have to go back to her friends. I ask her where her room is. She says on the 4th floor. I hit the 4th floor button. She won't get out of the elevator and eventually I take her back to her friends. Where I get a lecture about how her guy friend wants me to fuck her so he can live vicariously through me. This is not good for ASD. We hang out a bit more but eventually she leaves with the dude, and I can't snag the invite up.
Next Set:
Now it's like 4 AM, I've gotten half a handjob and had two girls who want to fuck me but the gods of logisitics had me cursed. But I would overcome. I open a three set with a HUGE latin chick, a hot latin chick and a hot big tittied short blonde. Any guess as to who the target was?
It was not on at all at first. In fact I did multiple jealousy plots by grabbing girls as they walked by and opening them in front of the blonde. I also met some Hungarian porn stars who told me they were not there to fuck but they did hug me in front of the blonde so that's some social proof...
I keep disqualifying the girl, she's too nice, she's an only child, she's too blonde, she's kinda sexy and I would ruin her for all other men. Finally it starts to hook and we make-out. But not before we have the world's longest almost kiss. Seriously it was like 5 minutes of being lip to lip while we both said we weren't going to kiss. She finally lost. It's 5:30 AM So I go for the pull I get her out to the cab stand with the cab door open before she says " I can't leave my friends". I felt like Jules Winfield in that classic Pulp Fiction scene. I wanted to say
" I don't wanna hear about no goddamn friends. All I wanna hear from yo ass is go back in there chill them obstacles out and wait for me to leave with you which should be happening direct."
Ah butchering Tarantino...
Alas I go do some group stuff. The non fattie hates me. Moxie comes in and somehow fixes this. I really have no idea how but I suspect ninja magic.
The HUGE obstacle is talking to the scariest cholo of all time. I take this as an opportunity to try to pull my girl out to the cab again. I swear this guy must have been wondering why I kept bringing girls out to go back in. I pulled 3 different girls to the cab stand...
The guy the whale is talking to looked like he should be a hispanic rapper called MR Gangsta. He's actually cool as hell. And he wants to take the whale to breakfast. I say cool. We'll go eat room service at the MGM in RM # Whatever... I tell her the room number for safety. Fattie says yes cause let's face it she wants food. But the other latina obstacle and my girl are now worried about the whale. Internally I laugh and say there's nothing to worry about because she could always sit on him. Plus she's got enough blubber that if he shoots her it won't hit anything important. I don't say this. Sinn 5 years ago would so this is progress I suppose... The girls ditch us and the cholo and decide to go back to their hotel to eat. My girl tells me she's just not that kinda girl.
Argh , so I figured I'd post this because everyone can enjoy it. I enjoyed writing it cause it's a cathartic process and I'm finally over it now( I think). People who want to learn game can find a few decent nuggets in here, and the haters can laugh at how I didn't get laid despite three makeouts. Everyone wins!
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Monday, April 28, 2008
LR X 2 Anal sex, death threats and underage girls
It's been an amazing time out here in Vegas with El Topo and our super student. This guy was super serious about getting better and has spent 9 days total with myself, and ET. We've even been engineering a new way of lifestyle development with these one on ones as a way of integrating the habit of pick-up into your own life. It's super exciting stuff and we will be posting more about it later.
Onto the LRs. Since I've been in Vegas I've pulled every night. The first night I even got a death threat from the guy I pulled this set away from. It starts out with ET and I at a famous circular bar in Vegas where we ran into Brad P running a workshop. Brad has a new product called the adventures of Brad P which is awesome and only $ 19 bucks. I'll be posting a more in depth review of it soon. But we also run into former student Eight Rope and some creepy Indian dude( from now on CRID). 8 rope is doing well with his girl but the other one is clearly creeped. Somehow I start talking to her and she's all over my shit. The reason being that I actually escalate. 8 rope later said he was amazed watching me and ET work the set because we were getting them touching us and accepting escalation super fast after they had been talking to them for an hour. This is a lesson on why we have to escalate. Blow me or blow me out!
Anyway the CRID comes back into the set and I let it go as I'm not trying to steal the set. Now the girl moves away from where I had her isolated and rejoins the group to get away from him. She of course comes right next to me as I've already run strawberry Fields, rings on fingers and qualified her. SO it's on with a sexual vibe. there's a key distinction between it being on and it being on with a sexual vibe. if you don't try to communicate sexually with women it will be on but you will get LMR. Trust me I know from personal experience before I met CJ. So here comes the CRID again and now the girls are trying to bounce with us. The girls move away as the CRID grabs the hand of the girl I'm talking to. A minute before this I had explained to him that he creeped the girls out and that's why they were leaving I even gave him examples of how he was being overly aggressive. Some people read reports like this one and think all they have to do is grope and pull. There is a dance to escalation and the real power is in the take aways... I finally decide that since he's creeped them and they're leaving I'm gonna grab them. ET and I walk up say " We have to go to the bathroom and pull them away. Now he starts blowing up Eight rope's cell threatening to and I quote " Kill all of you!" He even continues to call the next day and say that he's with his boys and we can settle this now. Psycho Alert. The dude's a nutcase. Proving yet again why it's usually a bad idea to meet up with people off message boards. If you're reading this dude, you need psychological help and I hope you get it.
We bounce to a lounge in the same hotel and it's really on. We're making out she's trying to get me to dance and her and her friend begin talking about how my girl needs to get laid and how logistics are going to go down. Eight Rope politely excuses himself and we bounce the girls back to our hotel to smoke...
Now it gets tricky as I'm escalating on my girl on the bed and ET's chick wants to watch. but we separate and all goes well especially as this particular girl loved it up the butt. Various inappropriate things happen after this point.
The second night (Sat) I pulled a set and was having her flash people in the cab but lost it when her friend who's 30th Bday it was freaked out and they all had to rush to get her. I say save the drama for your mama and peace out!
Last night I got laid again with a 19 year old I met in the lobby of the Excalibur of all places. This is a big reminder to everyone(myself included) to kick game to girls all the time. You never know where those lays are going to come from and it's important to always have that SNL mindset even if you're chilling in a lobby of a gauche themed hotel. We game them and exchange numbers and through text I progessively escalate
Some ex:
Her: What are you doing tonight?
Me: Besides pinning you up against a wall and making out with you? Undecided...
Her: Yummy... How do you know me so well already?
Me: I'm awesome.
Her: That explains it.
Me: Aww you're making me blush and other things...
It continues like this but I'm a gentleman with class and won't sully my reports on the internet telling people about various chicks I bang with such filth :)
Anyway we meet up at the bar and bounce back to the hotel and the girls won't come up to the room. Fucking underage girls... I made a rule awhile ago to not fuck with girls under 25 as they know what's going down and how SNLs work. It's ok we build comfort at the bar. I escalate.ET brillantly bounces his girl to the lobby " To handle some shit and then up to the room"
I get a text from him that says in the room fucking. I tell the girl they're probably in the room and we should go break up their party. She agrees and we go up there. Now I know I'm not breaking up shit so I have to get her super aroused enough to fuck in the bathroom before we get to the room. So about 20 feet before our room. Which is down the longest hallway known to mankind. I slam her against the wall make out with her and start dirty talking. Now luckily she's wearing a skirt so I start to play with her and then I show her the text from 5 minutes ago and pretend we just got it. I go shit they are fucking we can't go in there... Unless you want to go in the bathroom where we have some privacy. She says she's down and I get a cramp from fucking this chick standing up in front of the mirror American Psycho style.
I guess the major lessons here are to be aware of logistics, use arousal to overcome bad logistics, start sexualizing the interaction as soon as you possibly can and have the balls to take the opportunity when it presents itself. I wasn't going to post LRs anymore but I think I'll go back to it as it gives me easy stuff to write about. I usually get between 5 and 10 a month and I will let you guys decide.
Hit me up with comments
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Thursday, May 01, 2008
LR: Out Alone-Obstacles or Opportunities?
This girl actually just left my apt, about 20 mins ago.
Flashback to last night. Nobody wants to go out. CJ has a date, Printer flakes for no explained reason and doesn't return calls or texts. Fidelio and ET are working and then going home, Shaft is working. S0 here I am in my underwear watching the Hawks and Celts play and wondering if I should go out tonight. Add to it that in my experience Wednesday is the worst day to go out in Dallas and I don't have a car because... well because my car sucks balls. Most guys would see that as enough of a reason to stay home, smoke a bowl and play on the internet. Not me. This to me is a big difference between the guys who get massive results and the guys who just kinda struggle. CJ for awhile had no car, his daughters two weekends a month and lived at his Mom's house. yet he still got good at SNLs because he saw opportunities instead of obstacles. Most guys are too quick to make excuses as to why they can't go out or why they can't approach or why they can't try to pull etc.. There's two sides to every coin and that means that in every situation that seems to suck there's some way to improve and try to get laid. You just have to be looking for it.
Onto the LR. I decide to roll out to the bars by my house. I'm not expecting it to be a great night but I stop by the bar across the street. It's dead. The guy ET and I know who works there isn't even there so I bail and go to the sports bar across from there. The Stars are getting beaten by the Sharks yet there are no attractive hockey groupies, so I finally decide to go to my local dive. This is a place I never really go as it isn't a great placer for pick-up usually but tonight it's packed. I'm standing line for the bathroom when I hear everyone in the bar clapping and then turn to my right and see a seven foot tall drunk Dirk Nowitzki. He's so drunk he goes into the women's bathroom to piss. I text Fidelio about this and he responds " That's y they lost he's got a vagina". I go out and start opening sets.
The first set is a two set of blondes who I open with Brad P's Lesbian DTR opener. It doesn't really hook and I walk away without plowing. The next set I open I actually just want a cigarette and I ask for one but the girls don't have any. I've noticed that lately I am having way more trouble getting people to give me cigarettes. It started when I was in San Jose a couple of weeks ago, and has continued through Vegas and Dallas... Weird. Anyway I try to stack forward, but to no avail. And now I have two blowouts. I open another two set and get nowhere again when two girls who are in matching business wear walk in. They're very cute and more importantly they're the only set I haven't opened yet in the tiny shitty bar.
So I open them. There is a seat next to them at the bar so I sit down and open situationally by saying that I wish I had worn my white button down shirt too so I wasn't wrecking the sequence. They laugh and then we start talking about the drunk girl who is basically falling down and popping out of her shirt at the same time. I say we should start taking bets on what's going to happen. Her falling down is even money and her boobs popping out is 2 to 1. The target girl suggests that I go for her. I tease her and say we're not going to get along. Then I run rings on fingers and slap her hand. The obstacles boyfriend shows up and is all " Hey what's up dude!" He brought a friend or my girl but she doesn't even look up. She moved seats with the obstacle to sit next to me which I tease her for. We're both really mean and people watchers so we make fun of everyone including her best friend's BF for awhile. It turns out that they met in a sorority. Of course I tease her for that. I run Strawberry fields and she wants me to to run it on her friend. I refuse as her friend is already occupied with the BF and there's no point as I say the same thing EVERY time.
I ask her what's special about her and she tells me she's in commercial real estate. I run a role-play about her being my sugar mama and me lifting weights to show her what she's paying for. This leads into my summer of the ripped abs routine where I put her hands on my abs. TD pointed out to me that I should take more advantage of being in shape and make girls feel my muscles. I've been using this for awhile and it works really well for physical arousal.
Her friend and the boyfriend decide to leave. Earlier I had found out she drove herself so I know she can stay and she does. We have a few more drinks and play the question game. I ground my family a little bit and talk to her about what I'm writing right now. I've been doing some really good sexcalation and I eventually say something like " I wanna makeout with you in the bathroom. We get in the bathroom and I put my hands down here pants, but my friend the bartender bangs on the door and tells us we can't be in there together. I take that as an opportunity to bring her back to my place. We drive the two blocks because she doesn't wanna leave her car there. Get back to my place and all ends well.
She had a super hot body under that business wear. Huge boobs and a nice ass. The funniest part of the night was when the BF was leaving he tried a lame cockblocking attempt by telling her to use a condom and I tell her she's not getting laid. She also busted me on being out alone but I frame controlled it away by making it a joke. She even sent CJ a message from my phone calling him sexy... Sorry CJ :)
So that's 4 nights in a row of going out and pulling and 3 lays in those nights.
S
Anonymous said...
I think this LR just teaches you that life is what you make of it. You can either be a negative bitch or you can make things happen and get a sugar mama lay. Awesome.
-R (arr-ah)
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Friday, September 19, 2008
BJR: She left with another guy...
This actually happened on Monday night.
Last Monday myself, Speer and CJ headed down to a local sports bar to watch the Cowboys play the Eagles on MNF. There's a great bar in Dallas where hot girls actually go to watch football. I know it's weird. It's actually pretty annoying because you have to get there around 2 hours before kickoff to get a good table. So we get there, eat, wait for CJ and watch the game. While there I notice two girls who were Maxim level hot. Ridiculous. The only problem was they were across the patio with no path to walk over to them as they at a table behind a table. Finally one of them gets up to go to the bathroom and I open her direct. She says thank you and walks off. Swing and a miss. Oh well it was the only chance I had and I took it. So I feel pretty good about that.
Then after the game which the Eagles choked away, as Mcnabb had shades of Superbowls past. we head up to one of the social circle venues in Dallas. It's always got hot girls, the approach angles are terrible and there's a lot of dudes. I'm walking around talking to some girls when I see a very cute short girl with big tits in a texas tech shirt. She looks like she's in what i call "frisky" mode as she's walking around talking to a bunch of guys and flirting with them as they walk by. She touches CJ's face and he tells her it'll cost her a dollar. As she walks away I claw her in and tell her she's adorable. She's all over me. She starts telling me I'm sexy and pulling my shirt up in the middle of the club. My mind says extract. So I grab her by the hand and tell her we're taking a walk. She says she wants to grind me against a wall. I say outside.
I get her outside with minimal resistance as I just lead and go for it. The key to In venue lays is having the balls to keep going for it. Just move them out of the club and try to escalate the first private place you find. I find a a little corner behind a Chili's and push her against the wall. Makeout. Shirt off tits out. And pants down. as she's blowing me a car drives by and some black girls laugh at us. I move her further into the little alley. We finish up and I take her back inside. She buys me a drink and then tells me she's going to find her friends and to wait for her. I figure I'll try to pull another girl so I wander off and talk to some other girls. I also feel no approach anxiety as I actually did just get a blowjob.
I run into her on the dance floor an hour later and she's now obviously drunk. she's all over a couple of guys. I leave as I already got mine and this girl seems weird. Then I'm standing with CJ when I see her grinding and making out with a bald guy. I start cracking up until CJ tells me that I've probably made out with a girl who just blew some guy in the parking lot too. I choose to ignore this as it can't help me :)
Later in the night I saw the guy actually pull the girl, so kudos to him. And her for doing two guys in one night. Impressive.
Not really a lot of information in here except that girls will do incredibly slutty things. Which is good information to know.
S
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I went to Sunday Night Football with some friends. I'm 2 for 2 the last times I've gone out to watch football. Which just goes to show that the more you try to find avenues to meet girls you enjoy, the better you're results will get. The first time I wrote about in the BJR I posted awhile back and this time I ended up making out with both girls and taking one of them home. Then I went on a date with the other one last Tues. She's a weird Z list celeb so I'll write all about that when I get home. The date alone deserves it's own post for the wackiness of the situation. Then I headed down to Miami to work with one of my long term coaching students. He's been making huge progress. We worked on day game in South Beach, which as my buddy Trance noted " was like taking a rookie to the Super Bowl." He did great though and got a couple numbers despite being very inexperienced with day game.
I hate Miami a lot, but I have to admit it's probably the best place in the world for doing cold approach. The only places with girls of comparable hotness are Vegas and Stockholm. Vegas is an SNL town which is cool but you'd have a hard time retaining girls since almost everyone you meet will be a tourist. or stripper :) Stockholm can't even begin to compete in the weather department or the sheer size of the city. However Miami is still an unlivable cesspool of pretentious people, superficiality, and general douche-baggery. South Beach still looks like something out of the 70s. The pastel colors and bungalows come straight out of Grand Theft Auto. In fact it still feels like the guy from Vice City is gonna run up on you every time you're on the streets. I like a lot of the venues, but most of the weeknight hot spots are still home to the asshole door guy. It's funny because no matter how big the city there's still a core of club people. You'll always see the same people out on the same nights of the week, promoters and door guys will switch clubs, even bartenders swing between a couple of places a night. This is good news because if you're setting up a social circle, you don't need to befriend everyone, just the right people. That's a huge thing most people miss when they're trying to get their social circles together.
Once my one on one was over I headed up to NY to wrap up some filming on a project Julian Foxx and I are doing together. I met Julian the last time I was here and we really hit it off. We decided to film some stuff and we'll both be talking about that soon enough.
I got in Saturday afternoon and had set up a "sex date" with a girl I met the last time I was here a few weeks ago. I met her when I was out with Fader and a girl he was seeing in Hoboken. I actually had started off trying to hit on another of her friends(a redhead) before I found out she wasn't actually with the guy she was all over. She told me they were brother and sister, which later turned out not to be true. She's a pretty interesting girl. Very into the fetish scene but also a very successful health food store owner... We really hit it off that night, but she had to drive her "brother" home. I blew her off a few time to go out with Fader but kept in touch with her through text. She's ultra sexual and I'm pretty sure she was a stripper at some point judging by the way she danced. So we decided to set up a sex date for Sat night. She even told me she'd have to get rid of her date so she couldn't do anything til after 11. Turns out she had a ton of drama with her ex and ended up going drinking with her "brother". So I roll up to meet them at about 12:30 PM. The "brother" is a really cool guy in a fucked up situation, he's married to a woman he doesn't really love and they have a kid. He's also hooking up with my girl's friend. So he's got a ton of drama as well. I just sit and listen. He tells me he approved of me when we met because I was funny. I always like people better when they think I'm funny :) Anyway he has to go home so he dropped us off at her place. At which point she wanted to dance, so we head to a dance place. I informed her that I don't dance, but rather have seizures to music, and she tells me that's good because she'll have something to hold onto. We go, grind, and makeout with ice. Escalating with ice is a huge sexual suggestion, it assumes the sale and shows you know what women respond to sexually. Finally she looks at me and says " ready to go?". On the ride home she drives straight back to her place and then as we're pulling up, she says " OMG, I didn't even ask you if you wanted to come back here. That's rude of me." I told her it was ok and she just assumed the sell. We go upstairs she shows me her dog and then we both take showers before sex. One weird note is she had an IUD which was very strange and unexpected. Luckily she warned me about it, or I would have freaked out. I didn't get to bed until about 9 AM after she brought me back before going to work.
Can You Really Seduce A Stranger in 6 Minutes?
Hey guys,
Wanted to drop you a quick line today to talk about what's possible.
When I first got started in The Secret Underground Internet Seduction Community, I thought it was really difficult just to start a conversation with a stranger. Well 6 years later things are a little different, and I want to share this story from Vegas with everyone, not to brag, but to show you that ANYTHING is possible. Even consistent 6 minute seductions.
As many of you may know, I made the horrible decision to stay in Vegas for 4 days in between my first two 12 Months To Mastery bootcamps.(To learn why this was a bad idea check out my blog post on The Vegas Tipping point at http://sinnsofattraction.blogspot.com/2009/01/vegas-tipping-point.html ) Well Tuesday night Priest and I decided to hit the best party in town. Pure at Caesar's Palace. At Pure I did a number of approaches and nothing was going that well. Priest and I had a 2 set going but my girl was being way too ADD and she wasn't hot enough to get away with it :) So at around 2:30, I decide if we're going to keep gaming, we should be gaming at our hotel.
That's lesson number 1 for those of you looking to get laid fast! Know your logistics and keep them as favorable as possible. It's much harder to pull a girl from a club to a different hotel. If you can just go up an elevator, the pull becomes much easier.
So we head back to The Hard Rock. The Circle Bar was actually fairly lively for a Tuesday at 3 AM. There were a few sets and I start to look for girls who look bored, sexual, or like they want to trade up. Girls often settle for guys earlier in the night and then decide they don't like them later on. I want to find those girls. What I do to find these girls is make a rotation of the bar. However, you don't want it to look like you're "on the prowl" so you have to make a confused face like you're looking for a friend of yours. This is key to retaining social value.
The next part of super fast lays, is eye contact. You want to make searing, burning eye contact with as many girls as possible. Just make sure you still keep a smile on your face. You're looking for one of two responses. You want to approach girls who quickly break eye contact by looking down. This is a sign of sexual submission. Or you want to find girls who look away and then look back. There was a group of 3 hotties and as I was walking by, the blonde looked at me and then looked back as I walked by. I take an extra step, check my phone just cause I'm procrastinating and walk over.
I want to mention the next key point for super fast lays. Fashion and stereotyping. I was wearing a black pinstriped blazer with zippers all over it. Under that I had on a T-shirt I found in Australia with Sienna Miller flipping the bird topless, a pair of True Religion distressed jeans and my old school New Rocks. There's nothing spectacular about the outfit but it stands out without being weird. As usual I was the best dressed guy in the venue and the girls notice. If you don't get stared at or opened because of your fashion, you're doing something wrong. There are tons of great resources out there from style.com, to kinowear.com. There's no excuse for bad style, or not having an overall theme/stereotype to your look. Gone are the days when we can pretend fashion and presentation doesn't matter to getting laid. It does matter, and it's fully within your control.
After the eye contact I walked back over and said "hi" the girl immediately started telling me that she worked as a cocktail waitress at Treasure Island, she never goes out, and she's only here cause her brother's girlfriend(The Asian girl to her left) dragged her out. This is what's known as her qualifying herself to me off the opener. I now know she's attracted, it's 3 AM and she's with her brother's girlfriend. All signs are go, for the 10 minute lay. Then she asks me if I'm gay.
I get the gay thing once or twice a week, it's not a horrible problem as it allows me to escalate super fast. I say " I'm not gay and I'll prove it. Close your eyes." and then I kiss her. She practically sucks my face off. So I decide it's super on, and I'm gonna go for the 5 minute pull. I say " What are you guys up to right now?" She responds that they're waiting for her brother. I say "cool, shit I forgot my cigarettes upstairs. I'm gonna go get them." She starts to freak out her that I'm leaving, which is exactly what I wanted. this is a very subtle use of a take-away. Here I use it to gain emotional momentum to get her to come upstairs with me. She says " no, don't go! We'll get one down here." I say " Naw I only smoke Marlboro's, come upstairs with me to grab em. We'll be back before your brother gets here." She asks her friends if they're cool with that and away we go. Here, I just create some excuse for plausible deniability. As you can see it wasn't even that good of an excuse. But it worked.
Meet to elevator 3 minutes.
In the Elevator I ramp arousal. This is another key to quickies. I slam the girl against the wall, makeout with her and feel her up. Then as soon as we get to floor 4, I walk out of the elevator fast. This is a HUGE sexual push/pull. She gets aroused and starts to feel good and then it's gone. We get into the room and I throw her on the bed and pin her arms above her head. I go for the boobs then she says " When are you gonna fuck me? Before or after we smoke a cigarette? I laugh and we have sex. I look at the clock as I'm inside her and it's literally 6 minutes from when I checked my phone before going into the set.
I never would have imagined this was possible 6 years ago. But these situations happen to me all the time now. And they can happen to you too. The lesson to take out of this is not just controlling logistics in your favor, using eye contact to screen approaches, or ramping arousal as you're pulling. The real idea is that results like this are possible. A lot of times we read things like the "7 hour rule" or a girl tells us she doesn't sleep with guys right away and we get discouraged. The truth is seductions like this happen all over the world EVERY night of the week. It's just up to you to get out there and make it happen.
Til next time,
S
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Thursday, July 03, 2008
FUR: Handjob Interuptus...
I often complain. Longtime readers of my blog can no doubt remember tons of experiences where I complained about airlines, lack of sleep, etc... But the biggest thing I complain about to my friends is Las Vegas. See I have a love/hate relationship with Vegas. I love it because it allows me to indulge in all of my worst vices. But I hate it because I always end up feeling like a cigarette butt about two days in. So naturally when Moxie was leaving and he suggested going to Vegas for his blow out going away celebration I was in.
Fast forward through 5 days of debauchery and not coming home til the sun was out and we arrive at last Saturday night. We decided that since we were staying at the MGM we should take advantage of logistics and go to Studio 54. This was a mistake. I have NEVER seen so many ugly people in the same place ever. Seriously it was like a retarded leper colony reunion. It was the entire collection of " My father should have pulled out" trading cards. I'm still getting shivers thinking about it. And we got to pay a $20 cover because it was 12:01 and our passes were only good til 12...
So we do what all men in Vegas do when confronted with a time crunch and lack of options. We went to the Hard Rock Circle bar. I'm pretty pissed off at this point so I'm looking to open as quickly as possible. I open a 2 set with a short ugly girl and a hot blonde in a corset. I point out that she's short. They say they're going to meet they're friends and I should come. I meet another 5 girls and Moxie rolls over. Now we're just vibing until I isolate the corset girl and run strawberry fields on her. Then I pull her hair and she asks me what my sign is.
Me: Guess.
Her: Scorpio
Me: No way, I can't believe you guessed scorpio.
Her: Are you a scorpio?
Me: No Libra...
Her: I'm a scorpio we match sexually!
I tell her I'm really bad in bed and then pull her into me and pull her hair. This is something I do a lot. Verbally disqualifying myself sexually while sexually escalating to show her that I will fuck her shit up. It's a sexual version of push/pull except you disqualify yourself instead of her.
Moxie is pretty in with another tall hot blonde in the set and the ugs are getting restless. This was annoying because I had spent damn near 10 minutes talking to the ugs and making sure they were cool. I thought I had built a good rapport. My girl tries to number close me for sex the next morning. I smell a flake so I number close and then we walk with them to the outer ring of the casino. They say they're going to Mandalay Bay. We're down. I make out with my girl. But the ugs are plotting something. I can see it. I try to pull our girls back to the hotel and hear what would become the mantra of the night " I want to but I can't leave my friends." I go back in on the ugs and make them laugh for a few minutes then tell them ask for permission to take their friends away. The short ug I opened says in front of my girl " She can do whatever she wants" but she says it in the way that it actually means " I will hat you forever and tell everyone you're a huge slut if you go with these guys." So no go and eventually I realize we can't go with them cause the ugs won't have it and they won't leave with us either. A logistical blow out. Next set.
The next set I open is a blonde walking by. I open her by poking her in the stomach and then clawing her in. She's super attracted super fast and I'm thinking logistics. I want to make a point here. Whenever you open a single you can get her attracted enough that she will handle the obstacles for you. But you have to ask who they are. I ask her who she's here with. She lives in Vegas but is staying at the Hard Rock with some guy friends, who are hitting on some girls. Cool seems easy right? Wrong! She won't let me go to her room, she won't leave to come to mine, the bathroom has an attendent. Finally I remember a girl I banged out by the pool here one night. We walk past the guy cleaning the floor out the door that should be locked and we lay down on some lounge chairs. She straddles me, I pull her boobs out and whip out the cack. She's jerking me off when security walks by.
Security: Hey guys you can't be out here. Sorry to break it up seems like you were almost there. Most people hide in those cabanas.
I look at the girl she says " we're not going to the cabanas."
Fine as we're walking back to her friends I pull her in the leveator shove her against the wall and make out more. I hit the top floor 11. We get there and then she says we have to go back to her friends. I ask her where her room is. She says on the 4th floor. I hit the 4th floor button. She won't get out of the elevator and eventually I take her back to her friends. Where I get a lecture about how her guy friend wants me to fuck her so he can live vicariously through me. This is not good for ASD. We hang out a bit more but eventually she leaves with the dude, and I can't snag the invite up.
Next Set:
Now it's like 4 AM, I've gotten half a handjob and had two girls who want to fuck me but the gods of logisitics had me cursed. But I would overcome. I open a three set with a HUGE latin chick, a hot latin chick and a hot big tittied short blonde. Any guess as to who the target was?
It was not on at all at first. In fact I did multiple jealousy plots by grabbing girls as they walked by and opening them in front of the blonde. I also met some Hungarian porn stars who told me they were not there to fuck but they did hug me in front of the blonde so that's some social proof...
I keep disqualifying the girl, she's too nice, she's an only child, she's too blonde, she's kinda sexy and I would ruin her for all other men. Finally it starts to hook and we make-out. But not before we have the world's longest almost kiss. Seriously it was like 5 minutes of being lip to lip while we both said we weren't going to kiss. She finally lost. It's 5:30 AM So I go for the pull I get her out to the cab stand with the cab door open before she says " I can't leave my friends". I felt like Jules Winfield in that classic Pulp Fiction scene. I wanted to say
" I don't wanna hear about no goddamn friends. All I wanna hear from yo ass is go back in there chill them obstacles out and wait for me to leave with you which should be happening direct."
Ah butchering Tarantino...
Alas I go do some group stuff. The non fattie hates me. Moxie comes in and somehow fixes this. I really have no idea how but I suspect ninja magic.
The HUGE obstacle is talking to the scariest cholo of all time. I take this as an opportunity to try to pull my girl out to the cab again. I swear this guy must have been wondering why I kept bringing girls out to go back in. I pulled 3 different girls to the cab stand...
The guy the whale is talking to looked like he should be a hispanic rapper called MR Gangsta. He's actually cool as hell. And he wants to take the whale to breakfast. I say cool. We'll go eat room service at the MGM in RM # Whatever... I tell her the room number for safety. Fattie says yes cause let's face it she wants food. But the other latina obstacle and my girl are now worried about the whale. Internally I laugh and say there's nothing to worry about because she could always sit on him. Plus she's got enough blubber that if he shoots her it won't hit anything important. I don't say this. Sinn 5 years ago would so this is progress I suppose... The girls ditch us and the cholo and decide to go back to their hotel to eat. My girl tells me she's just not that kinda girl.
Argh , so I figured I'd post this because everyone can enjoy it. I enjoyed writing it cause it's a cathartic process and I'm finally over it now( I think). People who want to learn game can find a few decent nuggets in here, and the haters can laugh at how I didn't get laid despite three makeouts. Everyone wins!
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Monday, April 28, 2008
LR X 2 Anal sex, death threats and underage girls
It's been an amazing time out here in Vegas with El Topo and our super student. This guy was super serious about getting better and has spent 9 days total with myself, and ET. We've even been engineering a new way of lifestyle development with these one on ones as a way of integrating the habit of pick-up into your own life. It's super exciting stuff and we will be posting more about it later.
Onto the LRs. Since I've been in Vegas I've pulled every night. The first night I even got a death threat from the guy I pulled this set away from. It starts out with ET and I at a famous circular bar in Vegas where we ran into Brad P running a workshop. Brad has a new product called the adventures of Brad P which is awesome and only $ 19 bucks. I'll be posting a more in depth review of it soon. But we also run into former student Eight Rope and some creepy Indian dude( from now on CRID). 8 rope is doing well with his girl but the other one is clearly creeped. Somehow I start talking to her and she's all over my shit. The reason being that I actually escalate. 8 rope later said he was amazed watching me and ET work the set because we were getting them touching us and accepting escalation super fast after they had been talking to them for an hour. This is a lesson on why we have to escalate. Blow me or blow me out!
Anyway the CRID comes back into the set and I let it go as I'm not trying to steal the set. Now the girl moves away from where I had her isolated and rejoins the group to get away from him. She of course comes right next to me as I've already run strawberry Fields, rings on fingers and qualified her. SO it's on with a sexual vibe. there's a key distinction between it being on and it being on with a sexual vibe. if you don't try to communicate sexually with women it will be on but you will get LMR. Trust me I know from personal experience before I met CJ. So here comes the CRID again and now the girls are trying to bounce with us. The girls move away as the CRID grabs the hand of the girl I'm talking to. A minute before this I had explained to him that he creeped the girls out and that's why they were leaving I even gave him examples of how he was being overly aggressive. Some people read reports like this one and think all they have to do is grope and pull. There is a dance to escalation and the real power is in the take aways... I finally decide that since he's creeped them and they're leaving I'm gonna grab them. ET and I walk up say " We have to go to the bathroom and pull them away. Now he starts blowing up Eight rope's cell threatening to and I quote " Kill all of you!" He even continues to call the next day and say that he's with his boys and we can settle this now. Psycho Alert. The dude's a nutcase. Proving yet again why it's usually a bad idea to meet up with people off message boards. If you're reading this dude, you need psychological help and I hope you get it.
We bounce to a lounge in the same hotel and it's really on. We're making out she's trying to get me to dance and her and her friend begin talking about how my girl needs to get laid and how logistics are going to go down. Eight Rope politely excuses himself and we bounce the girls back to our hotel to smoke...
Now it gets tricky as I'm escalating on my girl on the bed and ET's chick wants to watch. but we separate and all goes well especially as this particular girl loved it up the butt. Various inappropriate things happen after this point.
The second night (Sat) I pulled a set and was having her flash people in the cab but lost it when her friend who's 30th Bday it was freaked out and they all had to rush to get her. I say save the drama for your mama and peace out!
Last night I got laid again with a 19 year old I met in the lobby of the Excalibur of all places. This is a big reminder to everyone(myself included) to kick game to girls all the time. You never know where those lays are going to come from and it's important to always have that SNL mindset even if you're chilling in a lobby of a gauche themed hotel. We game them and exchange numbers and through text I progessively escalate
Some ex:
Her: What are you doing tonight?
Me: Besides pinning you up against a wall and making out with you? Undecided...
Her: Yummy... How do you know me so well already?
Me: I'm awesome.
Her: That explains it.
Me: Aww you're making me blush and other things...
It continues like this but I'm a gentleman with class and won't sully my reports on the internet telling people about various chicks I bang with such filth :)
Anyway we meet up at the bar and bounce back to the hotel and the girls won't come up to the room. Fucking underage girls... I made a rule awhile ago to not fuck with girls under 25 as they know what's going down and how SNLs work. It's ok we build comfort at the bar. I escalate.ET brillantly bounces his girl to the lobby " To handle some shit and then up to the room"
I get a text from him that says in the room fucking. I tell the girl they're probably in the room and we should go break up their party. She agrees and we go up there. Now I know I'm not breaking up shit so I have to get her super aroused enough to fuck in the bathroom before we get to the room. So about 20 feet before our room. Which is down the longest hallway known to mankind. I slam her against the wall make out with her and start dirty talking. Now luckily she's wearing a skirt so I start to play with her and then I show her the text from 5 minutes ago and pretend we just got it. I go shit they are fucking we can't go in there... Unless you want to go in the bathroom where we have some privacy. She says she's down and I get a cramp from fucking this chick standing up in front of the mirror American Psycho style.
I guess the major lessons here are to be aware of logistics, use arousal to overcome bad logistics, start sexualizing the interaction as soon as you possibly can and have the balls to take the opportunity when it presents itself. I wasn't going to post LRs anymore but I think I'll go back to it as it gives me easy stuff to write about. I usually get between 5 and 10 a month and I will let you guys decide.
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Thursday, May 01, 2008
LR: Out Alone-Obstacles or Opportunities?
This girl actually just left my apt, about 20 mins ago.
Flashback to last night. Nobody wants to go out. CJ has a date, Printer flakes for no explained reason and doesn't return calls or texts. Fidelio and ET are working and then going home, Shaft is working. S0 here I am in my underwear watching the Hawks and Celts play and wondering if I should go out tonight. Add to it that in my experience Wednesday is the worst day to go out in Dallas and I don't have a car because... well because my car sucks balls. Most guys would see that as enough of a reason to stay home, smoke a bowl and play on the internet. Not me. This to me is a big difference between the guys who get massive results and the guys who just kinda struggle. CJ for awhile had no car, his daughters two weekends a month and lived at his Mom's house. yet he still got good at SNLs because he saw opportunities instead of obstacles. Most guys are too quick to make excuses as to why they can't go out or why they can't approach or why they can't try to pull etc.. There's two sides to every coin and that means that in every situation that seems to suck there's some way to improve and try to get laid. You just have to be looking for it.
Onto the LR. I decide to roll out to the bars by my house. I'm not expecting it to be a great night but I stop by the bar across the street. It's dead. The guy ET and I know who works there isn't even there so I bail and go to the sports bar across from there. The Stars are getting beaten by the Sharks yet there are no attractive hockey groupies, so I finally decide to go to my local dive. This is a place I never really go as it isn't a great placer for pick-up usually but tonight it's packed. I'm standing line for the bathroom when I hear everyone in the bar clapping and then turn to my right and see a seven foot tall drunk Dirk Nowitzki. He's so drunk he goes into the women's bathroom to piss. I text Fidelio about this and he responds " That's y they lost he's got a vagina". I go out and start opening sets.
The first set is a two set of blondes who I open with Brad P's Lesbian DTR opener. It doesn't really hook and I walk away without plowing. The next set I open I actually just want a cigarette and I ask for one but the girls don't have any. I've noticed that lately I am having way more trouble getting people to give me cigarettes. It started when I was in San Jose a couple of weeks ago, and has continued through Vegas and Dallas... Weird. Anyway I try to stack forward, but to no avail. And now I have two blowouts. I open another two set and get nowhere again when two girls who are in matching business wear walk in. They're very cute and more importantly they're the only set I haven't opened yet in the tiny shitty bar.
So I open them. There is a seat next to them at the bar so I sit down and open situationally by saying that I wish I had worn my white button down shirt too so I wasn't wrecking the sequence. They laugh and then we start talking about the drunk girl who is basically falling down and popping out of her shirt at the same time. I say we should start taking bets on what's going to happen. Her falling down is even money and her boobs popping out is 2 to 1. The target girl suggests that I go for her. I tease her and say we're not going to get along. Then I run rings on fingers and slap her hand. The obstacles boyfriend shows up and is all " Hey what's up dude!" He brought a friend or my girl but she doesn't even look up. She moved seats with the obstacle to sit next to me which I tease her for. We're both really mean and people watchers so we make fun of everyone including her best friend's BF for awhile. It turns out that they met in a sorority. Of course I tease her for that. I run Strawberry fields and she wants me to to run it on her friend. I refuse as her friend is already occupied with the BF and there's no point as I say the same thing EVERY time.
I ask her what's special about her and she tells me she's in commercial real estate. I run a role-play about her being my sugar mama and me lifting weights to show her what she's paying for. This leads into my summer of the ripped abs routine where I put her hands on my abs. TD pointed out to me that I should take more advantage of being in shape and make girls feel my muscles. I've been using this for awhile and it works really well for physical arousal.
Her friend and the boyfriend decide to leave. Earlier I had found out she drove herself so I know she can stay and she does. We have a few more drinks and play the question game. I ground my family a little bit and talk to her about what I'm writing right now. I've been doing some really good sexcalation and I eventually say something like " I wanna makeout with you in the bathroom. We get in the bathroom and I put my hands down here pants, but my friend the bartender bangs on the door and tells us we can't be in there together. I take that as an opportunity to bring her back to my place. We drive the two blocks because she doesn't wanna leave her car there. Get back to my place and all ends well.
She had a super hot body under that business wear. Huge boobs and a nice ass. The funniest part of the night was when the BF was leaving he tried a lame cockblocking attempt by telling her to use a condom and I tell her she's not getting laid. She also busted me on being out alone but I frame controlled it away by making it a joke. She even sent CJ a message from my phone calling him sexy... Sorry CJ :)
So that's 4 nights in a row of going out and pulling and 3 lays in those nights.
S
Anonymous said...
I think this LR just teaches you that life is what you make of it. You can either be a negative bitch or you can make things happen and get a sugar mama lay. Awesome.
-R (arr-ah)
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Friday, September 19, 2008
BJR: She left with another guy...
This actually happened on Monday night.
Last Monday myself, Speer and CJ headed down to a local sports bar to watch the Cowboys play the Eagles on MNF. There's a great bar in Dallas where hot girls actually go to watch football. I know it's weird. It's actually pretty annoying because you have to get there around 2 hours before kickoff to get a good table. So we get there, eat, wait for CJ and watch the game. While there I notice two girls who were Maxim level hot. Ridiculous. The only problem was they were across the patio with no path to walk over to them as they at a table behind a table. Finally one of them gets up to go to the bathroom and I open her direct. She says thank you and walks off. Swing and a miss. Oh well it was the only chance I had and I took it. So I feel pretty good about that.
Then after the game which the Eagles choked away, as Mcnabb had shades of Superbowls past. we head up to one of the social circle venues in Dallas. It's always got hot girls, the approach angles are terrible and there's a lot of dudes. I'm walking around talking to some girls when I see a very cute short girl with big tits in a texas tech shirt. She looks like she's in what i call "frisky" mode as she's walking around talking to a bunch of guys and flirting with them as they walk by. She touches CJ's face and he tells her it'll cost her a dollar. As she walks away I claw her in and tell her she's adorable. She's all over me. She starts telling me I'm sexy and pulling my shirt up in the middle of the club. My mind says extract. So I grab her by the hand and tell her we're taking a walk. She says she wants to grind me against a wall. I say outside.
I get her outside with minimal resistance as I just lead and go for it. The key to In venue lays is having the balls to keep going for it. Just move them out of the club and try to escalate the first private place you find. I find a a little corner behind a Chili's and push her against the wall. Makeout. Shirt off tits out. And pants down. as she's blowing me a car drives by and some black girls laugh at us. I move her further into the little alley. We finish up and I take her back inside. She buys me a drink and then tells me she's going to find her friends and to wait for her. I figure I'll try to pull another girl so I wander off and talk to some other girls. I also feel no approach anxiety as I actually did just get a blowjob.
I run into her on the dance floor an hour later and she's now obviously drunk. she's all over a couple of guys. I leave as I already got mine and this girl seems weird. Then I'm standing with CJ when I see her grinding and making out with a bald guy. I start cracking up until CJ tells me that I've probably made out with a girl who just blew some guy in the parking lot too. I choose to ignore this as it can't help me :)
Later in the night I saw the guy actually pull the girl, so kudos to him. And her for doing two guys in one night. Impressive.
Not really a lot of information in here except that girls will do incredibly slutty things. Which is good information to know.
S
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I went to Sunday Night Football with some friends. I'm 2 for 2 the last times I've gone out to watch football. Which just goes to show that the more you try to find avenues to meet girls you enjoy, the better you're results will get. The first time I wrote about in the BJR I posted awhile back and this time I ended up making out with both girls and taking one of them home. Then I went on a date with the other one last Tues. She's a weird Z list celeb so I'll write all about that when I get home. The date alone deserves it's own post for the wackiness of the situation. Then I headed down to Miami to work with one of my long term coaching students. He's been making huge progress. We worked on day game in South Beach, which as my buddy Trance noted " was like taking a rookie to the Super Bowl." He did great though and got a couple numbers despite being very inexperienced with day game.
I hate Miami a lot, but I have to admit it's probably the best place in the world for doing cold approach. The only places with girls of comparable hotness are Vegas and Stockholm. Vegas is an SNL town which is cool but you'd have a hard time retaining girls since almost everyone you meet will be a tourist. or stripper :) Stockholm can't even begin to compete in the weather department or the sheer size of the city. However Miami is still an unlivable cesspool of pretentious people, superficiality, and general douche-baggery. South Beach still looks like something out of the 70s. The pastel colors and bungalows come straight out of Grand Theft Auto. In fact it still feels like the guy from Vice City is gonna run up on you every time you're on the streets. I like a lot of the venues, but most of the weeknight hot spots are still home to the asshole door guy. It's funny because no matter how big the city there's still a core of club people. You'll always see the same people out on the same nights of the week, promoters and door guys will switch clubs, even bartenders swing between a couple of places a night. This is good news because if you're setting up a social circle, you don't need to befriend everyone, just the right people. That's a huge thing most people miss when they're trying to get their social circles together.
Once my one on one was over I headed up to NY to wrap up some filming on a project Julian Foxx and I are doing together. I met Julian the last time I was here and we really hit it off. We decided to film some stuff and we'll both be talking about that soon enough.
I got in Saturday afternoon and had set up a "sex date" with a girl I met the last time I was here a few weeks ago. I met her when I was out with Fader and a girl he was seeing in Hoboken. I actually had started off trying to hit on another of her friends(a redhead) before I found out she wasn't actually with the guy she was all over. She told me they were brother and sister, which later turned out not to be true. She's a pretty interesting girl. Very into the fetish scene but also a very successful health food store owner... We really hit it off that night, but she had to drive her "brother" home. I blew her off a few time to go out with Fader but kept in touch with her through text. She's ultra sexual and I'm pretty sure she was a stripper at some point judging by the way she danced. So we decided to set up a sex date for Sat night. She even told me she'd have to get rid of her date so she couldn't do anything til after 11. Turns out she had a ton of drama with her ex and ended up going drinking with her "brother". So I roll up to meet them at about 12:30 PM. The "brother" is a really cool guy in a fucked up situation, he's married to a woman he doesn't really love and they have a kid. He's also hooking up with my girl's friend. So he's got a ton of drama as well. I just sit and listen. He tells me he approved of me when we met because I was funny. I always like people better when they think I'm funny :) Anyway he has to go home so he dropped us off at her place. At which point she wanted to dance, so we head to a dance place. I informed her that I don't dance, but rather have seizures to music, and she tells me that's good because she'll have something to hold onto. We go, grind, and makeout with ice. Escalating with ice is a huge sexual suggestion, it assumes the sale and shows you know what women respond to sexually. Finally she looks at me and says " ready to go?". On the ride home she drives straight back to her place and then as we're pulling up, she says " OMG, I didn't even ask you if you wanted to come back here. That's rude of me." I told her it was ok and she just assumed the sell. We go upstairs she shows me her dog and then we both take showers before sex. One weird note is she had an IUD which was very strange and unexpected. Luckily she warned me about it, or I would have freaked out. I didn't get to bed until about 9 AM after she brought me back before going to work.
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